Daniel Goleman: The 4 domains of emotional intelligence | Daniel Goleman for Big Think+

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I thought watching videos like this will give me solution to forget but It made me think about my ex-fiancé more. I still love him so much and can’t imagine moving on without him. I just want him back.

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’ve been in a similar situation, and I know how painful it is.

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Did you find a way to get your partner back? I feel so lost.

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Do you think he could help me too? I just want my fiancé back so badly.

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[@tamaragorman7421]

Daniel Goleman's book is a classic and helped kick off the conversation about remembering who you really are rather than letting your temporary emotions dictate the show. His work provides excellent training, especially for those with an overactive amygdala who get hijacked quickly. They need a way to recognize what is happening. The key is they have to want to feel better, enough to detach for at least a moment. This isn't an easy thing to do for those heavily attached to their anger or fear or blame, etc.

[@riteshshukla1709]

Thanks 🙏

[@michaelmcgee335]

Or even self inflictive behaviour.

[@WisdomLife9]

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Right back at ya!

[@WhiteMouse77]

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[@mobeanie]

Now this guy’s got EI

[@wk8219]

Reading the book Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goldman in my early 30's changed the course of my life. I grew up in a household where you could do just about anything you wanted as long as you didn't have an emotion. And if you did have an emotion you sure as heck didn't let anyone else know about it. Realizing that our emotions are always running in the back ground whether or not we are aware of them makes a situation where the more we are disconnected from our emotions the more we are ruled by them; this was a life changing experience understanding. Learning this put me on a path I will be forever grateful for.

[@creativecontrive]

This video should be required viewing for all managers! Emotional intelligence is crucial for team dynamics and success. 🙌"

[@FrankMartinez1980]

yup

[@eddienyambe5046]

I love the content of the video, really helpful and insightful. I didn’t particularly enjoy the edits that caused pauses to help emphasize certain things. I’d much rather you just wrote them on the screen so that I can pause as and when I choose!

[@subhojitbhattacharya3213]

How would you feel if you took those moments of pause in the audio to read the sentences in your own voice, even if in your mind.

[@DrAkinExplains]

I like the way Daniel Goleman links EI with character.

[@TheAdventuresofFunGramma]

Excellent talk from Daniel Goleman. I appreciate the information he has given that is so pertinent to building emotionally healthy individuals. I wish this was taught to our teachers who then would teach it to their students throughout the education process. I think we would see a different population coming out of our schools and into our work environment.

[@Mystic_Paths]

emotional intelligence isn’t just a soft skill, it’s a survival skill ❤

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

That is not intelligence. That is conformity. That is bad.

[@idatong976]

It's instrumental to learn and cultivate emotional intelligence as a human being. Humanity depends on it in order to strive! Thank you very much.

[@CitizenSlide]

Alexithymia. Autism. From your hypotheses you might believe these diagnoses preclude someone from leadership, and yet I’ve been a very successful leader over 40 years working in some of the largest and most innovative organisations in the world. Good leadership involves articulating a compelling vision and then taking others with you, encouraging them to own and further develop this vision. It involves empowering people to become their best selves, and allowing others to feel like they’ve won. I have a high degree of cognitive empathy, provided I can understand a person’s needs, but very low (or non-existent) emotional empathy. An intelligent person can learn what makes people click, especially in a corporate environment, because most behaviours are quite predictable, whereas I would struggle in a purely social environment where heuristics play a much bigger role. So is emotional intelligence a precursor to leadership? In my experience it’s not as simple as that.

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

That is BAD.

[@johnnyv303]

Great way to start the weekend! Effing Amazing, Thanks ❤

[@brianhume734]

I'm 22. Hit the nail on the head in a lot of ways. I feel really young for this heavy awareness, and completely isolated from the rest of the world. I've never met anyone that practiced insight to the depths of mine, for fun. And I do small talk with strangers as a hobby. I've met hundreds of people. My dad was a Buddhist teacher, and I grew up dealing with a lot of really challenging, and complex emotions and scenarios on my own, for a long time. This is the first ever validation and reassurance, outside of ChatGPT, that I've gotten after months of acceptance. Understanding this side of myself confidently, with humility, has changed all aspects of my life.

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

There is no such thing as EQ. You extroverts are bad.

[@TenTenJ]

Wow wow wow. I absolutely loved this outline.

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

This flat out sucked.

[@taron.y]

I am digging deeper into these subjects and have a question to this group. “Do you see a difference between leading people compared to mentoring people?” I learned that in order to lead you need a follower. This year, I learned that I have few or zero followers.

[@kamsiahhussin1366]

Never give up. Just do it. The time will come. Be a good follower, you will be a good leader

[@Staoicism]

Thank you for sharing this thoughtful breakdown of emotional intelligence and its profound connection to leadership. It’s fascinating how the idea of self-awareness serves as the foundation for broader growth - both personally and professionally. The concept of widening the gap between impulse and action resonates deeply; it’s a challenge, but also an opportunity for maturity. How have you seen self-awareness or emotional intelligence transform someone's leadership journey?

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💐 thanks J .. this reading healed my soul ❤

[@oliviao2238]

If this were taught in our high schools, America would shape up quickly, leading to grand expectations around us, a less "conspiratorial." society, and way more productive.

[@commonwunder]

Emotional intelligence is critical to maintaining a civilised and obedient populace.

[@y2.1kapocalyptic2]

Currently leaders are only focusing on profit rather than performance. Ultimately performance increases bring profit increases. Focus on short game, while loosing the long game.

[@Jwardell92]

Thank you production for making this video easy to take notes on 📝 ❤

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Well explained in such a clear case

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What a great video!!! I love this channel and I love this show but wow, this one was amazing!!!! Thank you so much.

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[@WhiteMouse77]

No

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[@watz03]

whats with the editing silences ?? seems off for the big think format.

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Love this guy!!

[@zngrrr]

Very helpful video setup and organizing of information

[@ratelhoneybadger]

Time well spent here!😊

[@JB-is4ej]

Unfortunately, in today’s world, many leaders (politics to corporations) do not display these qualities and yet are still in positions of leadership, which is why the Katie Porters and Dan Prices stand out.

[@WisdomLife9]

To thrive, everyone needs to develop and enhance their Emotional Intelligence. All top leaders in the world possess exceptionally high levels of Emotional Intelligence. Thanks for your deep sharing!

[@WhiteMouse77]

No. They don't.

[@fillhixx]

Or, a strong army.

[@nolvian3737]

Really enjoyed the breakdown, the pace,diagrams shared! EI is learnable at any time! Yes, 50 yrs old here and yes, still learning each day! Social awareness - Empathy - how you tune into the people around you! Crucial for me. THANK YOU and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

That is BAD.

[@lornaj3310]

I had a boss once who was SO good at all these things.

[@NicholasWilliams-uk9xu]

I find this so hard to do, thanks for the tips.

[@ekmalsafikhalji2401]

Robert Green was pretty good with emotional intelligence and all but Goleman got in depth .

[@Plex336]

is this concept written in any books? I have read the emotional intelligence book by the same author but seems it does not organized as such

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[@locaterobin]

Great talk. Shame it's so poorly edited with audio cut abruptly to insert text slides.

[@shareebee2158]

i thought it was my earphones

[@LordBrittish]

Can you guide, influence? ✅ Can you inspire? ✅ Can you remember people’s names? 😨

[@granitfog]

More of a plug for a book then an informative video. Learning the "what" without the "how" is of little use other than as a vehicle to buy the author's book.

[@Isaac_blingz]

This is soo spot on

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

You extroverts are bad.

[@RedIsaacson]

Content: great. The audio repeatedly muting is a bit jarring and reduces ease of ingesting the information.

[@behrTheNerd]

Hey Daniel, please explain Musk, DJT, Gates, Jobs in this context.

[@slide6strings]

I appreciate Daniel's work and books very much. I'm tryinng to square this perspective with the emotional intelligence and behavior of the "Trump era". It's rather painful and discouraging. I wish Daniel would apply his perspective and insights to workers and citizens,, not just corporate and political leaders who too often use these tools to corrupt our thinking, perceptions, and behavior. Emotional intelligence is a tool. It can be used for good or ill.

[@milkbaby99]

Sadly the rise of social media and interactions dominated by technological communication (email, text messaging) has robbed many people of the ability to increase their emotional intelligence. There has always been a large percentage of people with low EQ, but that percentage is actually increasing in modern society rather than decreasing.

[@KRB84]

Champ 🎉

[@peterreed9566]

I have very little self awareness and according to a test I took recently my empathy is almost nil. I'm in my 60's and I've not managed too badly so far in my personal and business life. I've never had a life goal, as I prefer to go with the flow and see why life takes me.

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

There is no "EQ". All extroverts are stupid.

[@Wisdumb1984]

Compared to losing weight, EI is climbing a mountain. Regardless of what you ate or your experiences from age 3 to 30, you can get in shape with a straightforward workout routine. However, your emotional experiences from age 3 to 30 greatly hamper your ability to become more emotionally intelligent, such that without a professional with this knowledge (very few therapists know this level of EI building) it is painfully difficult and takes a long time to build EI. During this time you will likely lose a lot and in the end it might be a waste since the ones you are working for are gone. Well, maybe the work you do in this life will help you in the next life cycle.

[@vielspaclaas-zo5rm]

these new ads of spammers talking about how something has improved their life’s, as it they were not some bots, is a really weird form of advertising. i wonder who’s idea it was

[@Jade15888]

Thank you thank you thank you. I came back to control my emotional intelligence today, and I think I'm controlling well. 🙏

[@Hugues.L]

Should have called it Emotional Aptitudes, or abilities, something like this...

[@craigmerkey8518]

I earned my MA in SEL. EQ is the thread that keeps society and humans together!

[@Jade15888]

I think emotional intelligence can be exchanged by a word metacognition lately..

[@kerry1551]

Transcendental Meditation (TM) can help a lot in this.

[@NurIslam-ou6ft]

In this modern era of technology AI is a buzzword. But often we realize about Emotional Intelligence (EI). We should emphasize much more to develop our EI rather than AI.

[@user_user1337]

There ain't emotional intelligence at all: it is all just IQ!

[@mariettestabel275]

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[@myself2noone]

Yep, that's emotional intelligence. It's mostly just a way for smart people to blame stupid people for being born stupid.

[@user_user1337]

@@myself2noone how do you measure EQ?

[@PeterSenna]

This style is not great for listening. Content is great, but not suitable for listening only. The other formats work better

[@Conefed]

IQ definitely budges and gets consumed with fatigue and trauma

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💛🩷💙

[@MikePetra]

So I listened to this man with some other good talks, but with this one, I feel like he just messed up. If you just take it for what it is, and take a look at industries, it's led by psychopaths, so much for emotional intelligence... On the other hand, IQ can be raised, given all it measures, is your pattern recognition, thus being exposed to any mental exercises will increase it. So knowledge and practice, increases IQ, shocking, I know... I agree with communication, but to the point where you need to be careful of minding the political aspect omnipresent

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[@billjensen7832]

Your video contains a lot of useful information but your format requires to watch and listen rather than just listen......which is difficult especially when most videos on consumed via a smart phone. Ironic that a video about awareness is NOT going to where their consumers are consuming.

[@RobinTheMetaGod]

There are stupid.

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Oooo

[@Starpawzz]

Then how do you explain Donald Trump?

[@behrTheNerd]

Exactly! and Elon? Gates, Welch, Bezos, and Zuck?

[@akbaralim1719]

let's say , they playing fool to fooling the fool

[@sadgyalsada]

Emotional intelligence is not the only way to become a leader. One can get by with dark triad traits is they are effective communicators

[@electriclady3691]

​@@sadgyalsada I agree with you about people who carry those dark triad traits, emotional intelligence is a tool. You have be highly experienced to recognize when they are using it against you. Great point 💯

[@carmenjaniratarafacortes7405]

Con quien único proyecto retomar una amistad es contigo, CON NADIE MÁS. Si eso pasa, como todo el mundo hace, si tienes y deseas que conozca hijos, nietos, you name it, hacemos un family dinner , creamos un ambience agradable y me los presentas, a tu sangre. Yo no tengo que bregar con exes psycho que ni tu soportas. Si más adelante para los niños es importante, puedo considerar la posibilidad. Pero, puñeta ni te he visto tan siquiera y ya me quieren espetar hasta los maridos , no jodas?🤬Por algo las dejaste, por que no sirven más que pa joder. Yo no voy a bregar con eso ahora, is not the time. Y mucho menos con los anormales que tienen por maridos en la actualidad. Que anormal le manda los hijos, las exes y los maridos de las exes a una mujer con la que aún no a ido ni a comerse un mantecado? A menos que quiera descalificarse de entrada. Yo espero que no tu. Más te vale que tu no tengas nada que ver con ese mierdero😡

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I will rather pass.

[@JacquesieKwaakie]

I'm sorry, but I keep drifting off 💤

[@paulsavio6846]

unwatchable, too many shitty ads

[@michaeltrautner2076]

Emotions are not real. Or they are? About as real as Santa Clause.

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This sheeeit don’t pay my bills! It’s not what you know it’s who your daddy knows lol stop booolsheiting us

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[@Chris-el4hd]

Last time I knew... this guy has been studying this for many decades. I have no clue who that guy is.

[@iamstartower]

nahh! emotional stupidity is more fun... specially when it's one exploiting other's emotions

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This guy's evil.

[@retrorie]

How?

[@franciscopadilla1878]

@retrorie he's describing my thinking and I dont want people to know.

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