Danielle Olivera Breaks Down Over Lindsay Hubbard's Engagement | Summer House (S7 E13) | Bravo

[@iloveyouuuu135]

“Just because I wasn’t crazy, over the moon supportive.” Uh…….yeah, that’s exactly why you weren’t a part of it lmao. I don’t get what she’s not getting. This is just such weird behavior from Danielle. Like I’m baffled. She was so levelheaded in seasons past.

[@pkilla78]

If my best friend had said half of the things she said behind my back with people that hate me let alone about my engagement she would be blocked. She’s insane.

[@katieowen4483]

Exactly! How can she think they’d want that negativity in their proposal. Her not being involved has nothing to do with them and everything to do with her.

[@damarisb5420]

Could not agree more 👏

[@annuknowthe1562]

I agree

[@rindadennis430]

Totally agree! She's definitely no friend.

[@shebella4561]

100% ... she joined the Mean Girls!!!

[@katieowen4483]

Aside from Lindsay and Danielle having deep issues in their friendship I don’t understand why Carl would include her in the proposal! She’s been so against them getting married and has a literal break down whenever it’s talked about! She comes across unhinged and jealous!

[@thatgirl_nay7049]

My thoughts exactly! She can’t have it both ways

[@Luckyduck82180]

Personally I can’t stand Danielle. She’s way too whiny. Everything has to be about her

[@TrishD33LGK]

I am beginning to think that you guys "watch" the show but you don't "listen." If the roles were reversed and Danielle and Robert were rock solid and Lindsey and Carl were not because, among other things, Lindsay never sees him, Lindsay would be like a crazy woman on steroids losing her mind all over the place and all over everyone. And, Danielle would be there for her. She wouldn't blow her off because she was in a relationship that was going well. She wouldn't stop picking up the phone on occasion to say "Hey, how are ya?" And, she wouldn't stop seeing her because she "moved to Brooklyn." I bet Lindsey did those things to Danielle because she was too insecure to leave Carl alone for even a second. He might run. I imagine she is absolutely suffocating. And, for now this works for Carl. It's probably even endearing. But is it sustainable? Time will tell. Lindsay would have married anyone who asked her at the drop of a hat. One week relationship and you wanna marry me? Sure! While Carl feels like he's giving off vibes that given all he's been through, he wants off the merry-go-round and is settling for her because she is a "known" quantity. I don't see the great love story the rest of you see. But if they can be happy that's all that really matters in the end.

[@katieowen4483]

@@TrishD33LGK I was in no way speaking on their friendship because I see both sides and I understand where Danielle is coming from. I’m just speaking to her hearing anything about an engagement or ring and literally having a melt down. Which is why I can see why Carl didn’t say anything. Danielle seems against it. That’s also why I tried to start out by saying putting their relationship issues aside.

[@TrishD33LGK]

@@katieowen4483 I don't see her reaction as being petty jealously like everyone is saying here.

[@StephanieLevan]

With a reaction like that, I wouldn’t want Danielle to be involved in my engagement, either.

[@rosannatejada257]

I’m so over Danielle, she needs to grow up.

[@hunter2125]

She doubled down on the unselfawareness on Winter House. Lol

[@bt2598]

Everyone was looking at Danielle with utter shock like she was crazy. Her reaction is disappointing I am sure - but this is precisely why she wasn’t told. She isn’t family, she is a friend and she hasn’t been super supportive.

[@RuthLovesJesus]

Exactly

[@wintana1504]

But you see…you said it. She considered them family and it’s looking like they didn’t. Robert says it in the preview for next week too. It’s sad but it’s realistic. I hope they are all able to heal after this ride and it’ll never be the same but sometimes that’s even better….with or without each other.

[@Areyoutalkingtome781]

She’s got issues she’s a drama queen I would drop her as a friend!!!

[@nettiea9384]

Agree… I was a little disappointed in Danielle because I’m Puerto Rican (you would get it if you were Puerto Rican ) we can be over-the-top and emotional but you have to mind your manners. It was not the time to air grievances at that engagement party. I think this could kick her off the show and I’m very sad for her and sad for Chris who also didn’t properly represent at times.

[@claudiacanales2662]

Such a drama queen. That reaction was soooo over the top. She looks like a jealous crazy woman! That’s gonna be cringe when she sees herself on tv and how over the top she was.

[@babybluecheeks]

Danielle is so gross. Making Lindsay and Carl's engagement about herself is gross.

[@nikivella1159]

babybluex !!! YES Girlfriend !! She is acting like an infant ?? No wonder Robert and Her broke up !! There is something wrong with that chic mentally in the head ?? Also you can put Cierra and Gabby on that list of mentally insane !!

[@TMarieAus24]

I understand her in a way as soon as Lindsey got Carl she kicked Danielle to the curb which is crazy but she did over react

[@riskyrib]

She’s legit acting like a psychotic psychopath lol it’s almost hard to watch without wanting to reach through the tv and shake her. She screamed into a pillow when Carl even eluded to it why would he include her?????!!!

[@nettiea9384]

Too much Alcohol maybe? It was bizarre to bring up her grievances to invited guests of Lindsey’s. A mess.

[@tub653]

Can't stand her....she's so damm needy

[@Mkay999]

Carl said he was looking at rings and you screamed into a pillow? What do you think they’d want you there for? Giving them the evil eye from a distance like a little gremlin

[@Goddess_Infinity]

Yeah that was crazy too witness. It’s was pure hate, envy and jealousy. I think she’s made that she’s been with her nonexistent boyfriend and he doesn’t seem like he will be popping the question anytime soon.

[@claudiacanales2662]

Yup 150% hate and jealousy.

[@mary6369]

This is so embarrassing for her life and her soul

[@Mkay999]

Loll yas

[@klove6149]

😁

[@claudiacanales2662]

Super cringe man! The jealousy oozes out of Danielle’s pores. Sad man!

[@jenniferwiilis5267]

And she’s going to have to watch it back

[@laruetoombs678]

Danielle needs to get help. Her emotions are out of control.

[@shawnbailey9743]

Um, I do remember that sit down conversation between Danielle and Carl and Danielle specifically asked Carl if he was looking for “rings” and Carl said yes…. And Danielle screened into the pillow…….. that would make think me think that you weren’t excited about it.

[@kimnicole3937]

Danielle this is too much!! Sis just be happy for your friend in this moment. Put that drama aside and let her have this moment. Also Mya running and calling Ciera gossiping about the engagement irked me. Girl you just got on this show!! You don’t know their story. This was a mess

[@samanthaweaver6005]

I hate Mya on the show! She should get the boot she brings nothing but a crappy attitude

[@bunny20222]

i thought cierra called her

[@kimnicole3937]

Yup you’re right about Ciera calling her. It’s the gossipy way she’s talking about their engagement that I think is mean.

[@mary6369]

@@kimnicole3937 cant stand mya either

[@CGC890]

@@mary6369 She's a miserable soul and is so two faced.

[@naske1763]

Danielle has a perculiar way of showing friendship during an engagement anouncement. Seems like the perfect exit for Lindsay to run!

[@justanotherday3969]

“Pay close attention to those who do not clap when you win”. Perfect example of Danielle's behavior from the moment she learned of Lindsey and Carl's romance right up until their engagement! Danielle is a selfish friend! She can only be happy with their friendship when her needs are being met in the exact capacity as in the past. She can't handle that their dynamic has shifted to include another person that Lindsey loves and owes attention and loyalty to, because that means less time and attention from her! Ughhh! Such an UGLY look for Danielle!

[@stellamalekia3456]

Agreed ❤

[@bexxgenx3165]

And fast forward here we are she was right all along.

[@neillwallace]

This is insane. Danielle clearly needs more help than she is asking for.

[@bosse1092]

Sis need a doctors note

[@bosse1092]

Is Danielle kidding me ?? She has been shooting daggers all summer long … it’s pretty evident that she’s not at all in support of their union cuz it doesn’t involve her and she’s not in her happy place in life so she’s projecting into them.. it’s screaming fix my life… i’ve never seen a more absurd reaction from a grown adult

[@TrishD33LGK]

"All summer long" she was pissed off because the friend who used her for years could never be bothered to even once ask her how she was doing and could never once be bothered to get together because she moved to a different borough. That's why she was pissed off. Sounds like you need to do a rewatch.

[@bosse1092]

@@TrishD33LGK I don’t need a re-watch to understand anything … don’t expect anything from People who have been shitty in the first place ….

[@TrishD33LGK]

@@bosse1092 Well, you said the problem with Danielle and Lindsey was no support for L&Cs relationship so, I think you do need to watch it again. Maybe with a more open mind.

[@bosse1092]

@@TrishD33LGK’m fine with the grown mind I have ! Lindsay is not an angel in the demise of their relationship however, she really does not owe Danielle anything when it comes to her engagement that is all that I am saying. They are on really bad terms right now…. I wud not be thinking about including anyone in on a special day for me because we are on bad terms and you have already stated that I shouldn’t be in this relationship anyway, so why would I let you steal my thunder and kill my joy. If Danielle is such a good friend she would just simply be happy for her and that be that ! and not make this whole thing about her because that’s what she’s doing.

[@TrishD33LGK]

@@bosse1092 I get that. I think we are just looking at this differently. I think the engagement issue really isn't even a Lindsay issue (she did not know). It's a Carl issue. He made all nice and then made a purposeful intent to include Kyle but to cut out Danielle when it actually could have been the perfect time for all of them to finally put the nonsense aside. So, I feel for her. I imagine too that she must have felt embarrassed in front of the family knowing after all this time that's she's been cut out.

[@Vision-nr8zy]

Why would his proposal involve her at all... she's so weird for that reaction

[@bt2598]

Yeah…

[@judyneno4492]

She's her best friend lol

[@mary6369]

@@judyneno4492 who trashtalked their relationship AND lindsay all summer long. It’s rhe consequences of her own action

[@sydmaker4115]

Well it's over now

[@crumarki]

Strongly disagree. They were all best friends. He should’ve told her he was planning to propose that day. His girlfriends absolute best friend? Yeah she deserves to know.

[@brittanyhart4988]

It’s really crazy to me that Danielle keeps wondering why she’s not involved in all of these big moments like the engagement. Because you’re not supportive at all

[@anjumathew4825]

Congrats to Carl and Lindsay.. why would Carl include Danielle. She has been so negative about this relationship. Props to Carl for doing everything by himself. He really loves her. And i hope they have all the happiness and have lots of babies. Suck it Paige. I really dislike her. Danielle i really hope you can find some happiness and peace with Lindsay whenever you both are ready.

[@TrishD33LGK]

The problems with Carl and Lindsey have already started to surface in front of the cameras on the show. The same signs are there of the "How many sandwiches have you made for ME!" And, the same whacky stuff she did to Everette. That 4/24 episode where she screamed at him nonstop because he had a talk with Danielle was reminiscent of what has happened with every other guy we have ever seen her involved with on this show. Every guy in Lindsay's life has run and this is why. Let's hope Carl can find a way to deal with this. Once they are actually married, that same Lindsey will be back in full force. She will be unable to keep her in the closet.

[@TheDjSmalls]

​​@@TrishD33LGK you speak as if no man ever in life can be with Lindsey, and she is incapable of growing and maturing from her experiences... All couples fight, Lindsey is particularly difficult to talk to if she drunk, this does not make her irredeemable... This is the healthiest I've ever seen Lindsey in a relationship, and Carl isn't some random dude who isn't aware of all her dirty laundry, in fact he has been there for it all, he knows exactly who he is with, and still chooses to marry her... Homeboy is clearly prepared for her having off days, nobody gets married thinking it's going to be perfect and those who do, get divorced... Look at Kyle and Amanda, she still married him even with alllllllllllll the ups and downs, she knew who she was marrying... That aside, and accepting that Danielle feels neglected, which is valid... What's not valid are her reactions, it's beyond immature, and if they gotta accept her reactions and her smear campaign, she gotta accept that they not gonna include her... She literally gets her BS validated by people who have hated on Lindsey for yearsssssss, ofc she thinks what she is doing is ok... Mya and Cierra, and especially Paige are the reason Danielle is deluded into thinking her reactions are ok, and that what they did was wrong... No logical thinking person would put Carl in the wrong for not including a friend who has been vocally against your partnership. She literally told Mya night before that if Carl and Lindsey gets engaged next week, she doesn't want to be here... Like she was already showing clear signs of being against it, but same Mya is here consoling her for being excluded!??? They are all delusional, and it's all fuel by dislike for Lindsey... And they not even realizing that all that hate is making Lindsey win even more. Carl and Lindsey is literally the bravo couple of the year and Paige and Craig is laughed at... And that's all due to the karma they putting out... Look at Sam, she immediately clock Danielle's behavior as insane, because it is. And if Danielle isn't able to take accountability for her many manyyyyyyt wrongs this season at this reunion, it truly would be the complete end of that friendship...

[@TrishD33LGK]

@@TheDjSmalls She's definitely been much less of a wreck with Carl. I think we all see that. But, for how long? We all saw the old Lindsay resurface on that 4/24 episode. Carl literally got out of bed and walked out. That Lindsay is still there.

[@claudiacanales2662]

Paige is NASTY! She’s another jealous one. Plus her snooty attitude is horrible. I can’t stand her. Glad Andrea did not end up with her because Andrea is wholesome, Paige is a controlling witch!!!!

[@chamobot]

I feel like Danielle's outburst is simultaneously 1) the grief of knowing that her friendship with both of them is essentially over and they are moving on without her and 2) reckoning with the fact that she put herself in al ot of bad situations/arguments/fights/etc to defend both of them when they wouldn't life a finger to be there for her in the same way. I think both past and future realities are crashing down on her and it's being released in this tantrum.

[@rlast4698]

Wow I think you are right!

[@amyhansen6829]

Gabby called it early on during that WWHL. Danielle is going to have the most to answer for at the reunion.

[@bosse1092]

I absolutely need to see what Danielle has to say for this kind of behave on the reunion ! There is absolutely no other reason for this other than jealousy and entitlement. And clearly they can never be friends the same again cuz she wants to be a throuple

[@TrishD33LGK]

Her reaction is real and is nothing to be ashamed of. And, when Lindsey starts to have problems with Carl, and she will, yes, Danielle will still be there for her if Lindsey needs her. Why she would do this I do not fully understand since it is very clear that this has always been a one-way friendship - just like the rest of Lindsey's relationships. This is what happens when you're invest in a relationship with a self-aggrandizing narcissist.

[@bosse1092]

@@TrishD33LGKpeople expect too much from people .. I don’t invest in relationships/friendships like that AT ALL …. This makes no sense to me that she’s expecting to be apart of their engagement… give me a break

[@geel1866]

At the reunion, Danielle will still be on her jealous self pity pot.

[@klove6149]

Why would ANYONE include a third party in their proposal? Danielle is being so extra...she needs to calm down with ALL the breakdowns and just be happy for her friends...or do not and move on

[@victoriaeddy8203]

Paige “what’s a dungaree” LMAO 😂😂 she is a stylist ?

[@IFul-ks3ch]

I don’t get the outrage over not being included in somebody else’s engagement.

[@karendiaz1651]

The fact that these girls(Paige,Ciara,mya) can’t see how crazy this is and not call her out on it it’s beyond me..they hugged and comfort her like as somebody died they are not her friend and it’s sad she can’t see it

[@claudiacanales2662]

Totally agree. They didn’t correct her because they are themselves jealous!

[@karendiaz1651]

@@claudiacanales2662 exactly..cuz why non of them had that same reaction when kyle proposed to Amanda? Knowing damn well their girl was about to marry a man child with a 3yr old haircut..even on the happiest day of her life they were unable to be remotely happy for her

[@claudiacanales2662]

@@karendiaz1651 it’s almost like a group think effect, because no one stops the behavior, the rest go along with it.

[@millennialme9578]

It’s sad to see Danielle spiraling this way. I can totally sympathize with her situation in that Lindsay seems like the kind of girl who will neglect a friendship when she gets into a relationship. At the same time, I think Danielle is also doing a lot of projecting; seeing her two best friends thrive together - and *without* her - when she doesn’t seem to be doing too well in her love life and career appears to be manifesting in anger and bitterness. I hope she watches back and realizes how unreasonable her behavior is and how delusional it is of her to expect Carl to include her in the proposal when she has been nothing but negative about their relationship all summer.

[@MrMsSuperb]

I don't even think Lindsay is someone to neglect a friendship. Going by her insta she's really involved with her friends. I think Danielle pulled away, then started gossiping, then started becoming emotionally demanding to a point of being hostile about Lindsay's relationship. Danielle seemed very okay when Lindsay was spiralling after her miscarriage, or being in unhealthy relationships but she's not happy for her now she's in a healthy relationship. If Danielle had not been this way, it's after the engagement that Lindsay would have involved her (wedding dress shopping, bachelorette, bridesmaid, etc), not for the actual engagement. There's something going on with Danielle, and the other girls in the house have encouraged that insecurity in her.

[@lipkin108]

I hope this reunion just gives me one answer of why daniella is so bitter

[@wildalliediazsoto3279]

If Andy doesn’t grill her on they I am going to be so disappointed … I don’t get why people is so angry of Lindsay and Carl being together

[@samanthaweaver6005]

I know and her whole stance about everything is moving so fast and that’s why she has a problem. She is the worst kind she has no room to judge.They have been best friends for seven years.

[@mary6369]

We all know it : she’s jealous of them. She had been dating robert for 2 years and she wasn’t engaged, he continued his life and she followed him around (he moved around a lot because of his job) whereas Lindsay and Carl have been dating less than a year, moved into a gorgeous place, Carl respects and values Lindsay, and now they’re engaged…. But she’ll never admit that

[@katieowen4483]

Part of me thinks it’s about her and Robert and how they aren’t progressing. I mean we know they have broken up. But wow! It’s too much and she talked crap about Lindsay to the people that don’t like her. That’s not a good friend at all.

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@mary6369 SPOT ON !!!!!!!!!

[@Justicewarrior908]

What a good friend Danielle is, two of her friends get engaged and her first thought is "MEEEEEEEEEEE". Why isn't Kyle this mad at Karl for not including him? Lmfao shows two perspectives of friends who are completely different at being genuinely happy for their friends.

[@crumarki]

Carl did include Kyle tho. He told him directly before and I think he showed him the ring.

[@LRumore]

I have a best friend. My husband didn't include her in planning our engagement. She wasn't pissed about it. This thrupple (danielle, carl, lindsay) has some major boundary issues.

[@TheDjSmalls]

My best friend's now husband didn't include me either, and I was excited AF for her when I she called me, because I know she wanted to be married and have family. I was happy that she was finally able to get what she always wanted. She got married last month, and I was Maid of Honor, and it was a perfect wedding, and I was beyond honoured to be there and give my speech. At the end of it all, he was so thankful to me, for being there for her, and doing my part as MOH. I left there knowing my support, love and respect was felt by them both. And that is what matters, not how a person decides they want to do the engagement, but rather being happy and supportive for your friend.

[@CGC890]

Yes!! I think it is so odd (maybe it's a result of immaturity) that anyone would think they must be included in a proposal.

[@deborahandrianos463]

Omg would someone please give that girl a slap of Reality!

[@Ashley-dw1dp]

Ugh i literally see both sides...when my bff got engaged, her man and I weren't even close but he knew how important our relationship was so he made sure i knew prior and made sure i was invited........Carl and Danielle are actually friends and I could see her feeling heartbroken bc to be left out of such a milestone, when kyle knew, lets you know that you probably aren't best friends anymore.....But Danielle literally screamed in a pillow when she heard there was ring shopping lol so as Carl I would feel uncomfortable telling you ahead of time bc who knows what your reaction will be and he wanted to enjoy their moment

[@Tee256]

Same

[@kellyalexa1437]

Thank youuuuuu. I was looking for a more neutral comment. I understand both sides 😭

[@jazzycakeup5725]

Yesss i hate that it ended up this way

[@rlast4698]

❤ well said

[@lyndsaythom]

I think Danielle has tried (very poorly) to express that she felt discarded when Lindsay & Carl started dating like they didn’t need her anymore. But instead of being open & honest, she kept talking about how they were moving too fast, which makes her seem jealous bc her relationship is going nowhere. When Carl didn’t tell her he was proposing, it was confirmed (in her mind) that they don’t care about her at all.

[@Goddess_Infinity]

He actually told her he was looking at rings and she screamed into the pillow and walked away

[@lyndsaythom]

@@Goddess_Infinity But she didn’t know he was going to propose anytime soon. “Looking at rings” doesn’t mean “I already picked one out and I’m going to propose next weekend.”

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@lyndsaythom The whole season was her saying your are moving too fast , the relationship is weird and now screaming into a pillow just the mention of a ring ? Also when Lauren brought up that she over heard Carl snd Kyles conversation at Ciara’s party snd engagement she ran off pissed . I’m sorry does that some like someone that you would want to be involved in anything that has to do with your engagement or life ? When Carl mention the ring that should have been her opportunity to say listen regardless of everything I’m happy for you too and would love to help you with anything involving surprising her .

[@lyndsaythom]

@@Goddess_Infinity Did I say I was team Danielle somewhere? All you keep doing is telling me what happened on the show. I know what happened bc I watched it. I understand both sides, but Danielle didn’t handle it very well. Her feelings are valid, but she expressed them like a child.

[@lyndsaythom]

@@Goddess_Infinity Maybe you’ve never been in Danielle’s shoes, but it’s difficult to be happy and excited for people that you feel have left you behind and don’t need you anymore. She’s hurt by them and instead of expressing it that way, she’s been questioning their relationship.

[@jglow22]

It is normal for single friendships to change when the other gets married, and even more once they begin a family. Lindsay TRIED! She and Carl did ALL they could to try to understand Danielle's unreasonable perspective, but each time Danielle turned right around and continued to make this all about her! Her psychotic behavior left Lindsay and Carl no other choice but to cut her out of their life. What more could they have done to satisfy her- other than break up? Danielle single handedly destroyed their friendship (regardless of however selfish and/or one-sided it may have been according to a few of you)! Danielle has ONLY herself to blame for sabotaging it!

[@mariat6171]

Carl didn't tell you Danielle because you SCREAMED into a pillow when he said he was ring shopping.

[@shawnbailey9743]

Thank you!!!!! I was like, she must’ve forgotten that because she’s making it seem like Carl didn’t mention anything. You literally asked him and he said yes, I’m shopping for rings.

[@Areyoutalkingtome781]

I wouldn’t of told her anything screaming in a pillow when he said he bought the ring come on the girl has a screw loose

[@barbarakosmatin3668]

When Carl told Danielle that he was ring shopping, she broke out in laughter. Why in the hell should she expect him to tell her that he was going to propose??? It was disgusting how she made it all ABOUT HERSELF when talking to Lindsay's family. She is soooo jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@iloveyouuuu135]

I’m so confused by Danielle’s reaction lol. Maybe it’s because I don’t live by some of my best friends, but why would it be an expectation that I be included in their proposal?? I wouldn’t care if my boyfriend didn’t ask my best friend to be part of my proposal, and we’ve been best friends for 13 years, and vice versa. Weird expectation to have.

[@taniabluebell3099]

Mya is a mean girl. Look at her smug look when the news gets announced

[@shavaunajolly7805]

Ummm no she's not🙄🙄

[@Tryssfg]

Sam and gabbys reaction is sooo funny. Also the fact that Danielle just said every thing under the sun with no boundary while so many other people are there is just like crazy. I get she’s upset but yeah the volume of her reaction was insane.

[@jadamargaret]

why is danielle making everything about her? the relationship, the progression of said relationship, and now the proposal? girl go lay down, take a nap - do literally anything else pls

[@rageintothelight]

What a STRANGE reaction!

[@HRaeN]

My best friend got engaged a few years ago to her boyfriend she had been with for a few years. I never really cared for him. I knew from the start that they would never really get married, but I congratulated her anyway and never said anything about how I felt about it until they broke up.

[@Tracy0983]

Carl should’ve just proposed off the show because look at the negativity. Friend or foe everyone should’ve put their sh*t aside, instead of a ruining their moment. All they needed was 24 hrs to be happy & celebrate

[@sanabellexo]

I can understand where Danielle is coming from given she is Lindsey's best friend. Like most best friends, they're super involved in the proposal giving the guy ideas of what the girl might want... However, Danielle has displayed time and time again that she is not supportive of this union so I can totally understand why Carl didn't include her. Not to mention that Carl and Lindsay have been best friends for several years, so he basically knows what she wants.

[@johnbowman6649]

“For the British?”

[@mimi-422]

Danielle is woohoo jealous!!!🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💖👍👏👏👏

[@shanicem.3535]

Very! She made their entire proposal about her…

[@mimi-422]

@@shanicem.3535 Seriously ,She needs to grow up already,Can you imagine someone doing that to you?? Sad!

[@gport887]

If Kyle was able to suck it up and be supportive of the two after Carl asked him to be, Danielle could easily be the same. I understand how she doesn't feel that Lindsey is a super great friend to her, but a lot of the issues are rooted in deep jealousy more than anything. She wasn't a supportive or GOOD friend this season after Lindsey asked her to be. Her reaction is exactly why she didn't deserve to be included in it at all.

[@TrishD33LGK]

Lindsey is a complete train wreck. Granted she's been better since Carl but she's messy. A messy person with a lot of neediness and narcissism and Danielle has stood by her every step of the way through all the psychosis, eruptions, rants, fights, and her unrelenting cycling through the many men in her bed. I definitely feel for Danielle. Carl takes these steps to pretend to make things right and then backs it up by including Kyle but cutting her out of it. It's sad.

[@BerryFlair]

He just didn’t tell any of the women! Why is this such a thing?!

[@travelbug4536]

Looks like no one can see it in the comments. Lindsay is borderline or a narcissist IMO. Danielle tried to be a friend to her which is why she looks the crazy one right now. Time will tell!

[@napperforlife2020]

I don't get Danielle. If she was a true friend, she would have supported Lindsay's happiness. Lindsay is also a grown woman, they can choose to get married under a year.

[@jessicatrotter5048]

Yes, thank you! It’s not like she is 20 years old. She’s in her late 30’s let her live.

[@mary6369]

Exactly!!!! They’re in their mid 30s and have known eachother and been bff for 7 years. They know what they’re doing.

[@melissam2103]

😂 she said what’s a dungaree 😂😂😂

[@AMYV3]

Not being a watcher of this show. But wtf why would a man have to talk to a girlfriend of his future wife. This makes no sense.

[@mayacokie4811]

1:05 see how nobody was happy for excited for them. I don't like Lindsay but dam she was right about having no real friends in the house💀 that toast was fake asf

[@EMANUGARC]

Why does Ciara always try to include herself. Her and Maya or whatever her name is need to go

[@babybluecheeks]

💯

[@bosse1092]

I can not stand them

[@chickensalad5591]

shut up

[@jeanneglover7701]

I cannot stand Mya or Ciara. I didn't like Ciara after she did Luke the way she did when she got with Paige and Amanda and Mya doesn't bring anything to this program! I can't stand Paige!

[@babybluecheeks]

@@jeanneglover7701 agree.

[@shanicem.3535]

She looks & sounds insane.

[@O_marleymama]

All of America saw this coming. How can she say 8 months is too fast when they were literal bf for 2-3 b4 that and lived in same apt building. I feel a total storyline grab here.

[@Alex-mx6mu]

Really happy for Lindsay & Carl it really is the romantic comedy fairytale of best friends to lovers

[@reneeancog852]

I think the fact that he told Kyle regardless of their issues and excluded her who was a ride or die for them all these years was a slap in the face, it’s not jealousy , she’s hurt

[@sleepnuance7840]

Thank you!!! How are people not seeing this😂

[@livster983]

@@sleepnuance7840 thisss .. my best friends fiancé included me in his plans and told me about it .. if I was cut out and not included I would be sad that I wasn't a part of it

[@Goddess_Infinity]

He literally said I’m looking for rings and she screamed into the pillow and walked away . Like why would he include her after that reaction??????

[@livster983]

@@Goddess_Infinity this is a fair point lol

[@laurac9857]

Danielle has always been off to me. Now her true colors coming to show

[@user-tk4cs6ls2q]

Danielle, it’s not about you. And you are angry because their relationship is doing g good and your is not.

[@Esther-32013]

Danielle is so ANNOYING. Ugh. You didnt birth these people why are you this obsessed. People who are this possessive aren't good friends.

[@Gossdo]

What is wrong with Danielle? She's acting like a jealous x-girlfriend but not sure of who! I wasn't included in any of my close friends engagements or even anyone my families and wouldn't expect to be. Danielle has done nothing but bad mouth them thru out the summer so what does she expect? Danielle is really messed up, really messed up!!

[@angellawilliams-stokes7537]

That’s an absolutely ridiculous reaction to amazing news.. there’s no reason for this reaction.

[@kianaCAB]

I don't like how Danielle made it about her, My bf got engaged and told me after, I wasn't upset, I was excited for her...Danielle is doing the most, but hey make your money girl!!!

[@lagarcia425]

My own sisters boyfriend didn't tell me he was proposing. No one needs to know except the guy proposing. Danielle is off her rocker about this situation!

[@QueenBee2018gail]

It sounds like more like she’s jealous because it sounds like he was there by self and he got the parents and stuff to come down. Come on. It’s not about you baby.

[@MichelleM15]

Right I’m so confused as to why she’s crying.

[@QueenBee2018gail]

I think you need to go home honey. Need to go home if you don’t want to interact just don’t play take your little Blankey and your blanket. Go home God it’s all about you. Geez I’m happy for him. I’m glad to see them.

[@jcam5064]

I was always for Danielle and really dislike Lindsay...but for Danielle to constantly go to bat for Lindsey just to go so off the rails and behave so wildly at the worst time...just wow. What a terrible look. I get why she is so upset, but what a 180 for how she wants to present herself.

[@ryanwilliams5164]

Danielle was gross this whole summer. Screaming into a pillow when your best friends boyfriend tells you he is looking at rings said everything... and then talked shit behind her back to ppl that hate her all season. THAT is not a friend and the gaslighting all season and on the reunion is painful.

[@lisamarie8265]

The ladies encouraging Danielle's behaviour is equally disturbing.

[@jenniferwiilis5267]

Danielle is the type of friend that wants to wear matching dresses at ur wedding 🙃🤦‍♀️

[@annuknowthe1562]

What hell is the matter with Danielle? You would think someone said they were cheating on her. I think Danielle is projecting a whole lot of what is not happening her relationship. I think she is jealous.

[@tracypmakeup5008]

Danielle is being silly. She hasn’t been very supportive of their relationship, so why would Carl include her and risk Danielle telling Lindsey or ruining it by making it about her. Danielle is not happy in her own relationship, so she keeps finding fault with Lindsey and Carl’s relationship. Grow up girl and be happy for your friend.

[@becksea]

If you’re not the one proposing or being proposed to you are 3rd wheeling a proposal 🤷‍♀️

[@haniMahdi-b8s]

Ciara know Paige for 2 min. Lmao

[@belgiumgirl8970]

At this point, Danielle is literally needing some type of therapy! She has some kahunas to show her self as a victim to all of Lindsey and Carl’s guests at the engagement party. And if the Summer House friends don’t agree, then they’re all a bunch of jerks too

[@zoeibarra3219]

Way to make it about you Danielle!!!!

[@MsGrowle]

she is so in love with carl it's stupid

[@nettiea9384]

I don’t blame Carl for not, including Danielle in anything. He was privy to first hand knowledge that Lindsey is hostile at that point twd Danielle. Danielle has some strange ideas about friendship. A friend Has to know when to step back and zip it . A friend is not overly critical and righteous and judgey. Danielle found out the hard way that Lindsey does not give a damn and that she is not a friend. Carl was following Lindsey’s lead. Kudos to Robert for being a good boyfriend and being real with Carl. They R just a couple they used to know as he said. I’m sorry for danielle but she needs a break frm that group

[@camonhopkins6951]

Danielle is being selfish and the truth of the matter is she hated the fact that Carl & Lindsay were together that’s her ex all that fake I’m okay with it was a joke now her truth is coming out. Danielle showed how much she actually wanted Carl In sad that it wasn’t her that’s why weeks later her and her chef broke up. 😩

[@lisamarie8265]

I guess Carl makes Lindsay sandwiches.

[@elizabethrobidoux6611]

That’s so crazy. I can’t

[@MsBklynDiamond]

Sorry, Danielle is way out of line. She is so involved in their relationship it is no wonder Robert dumped her. She needed to pay more attention to her own relationship. No one owes you anything. They are dating each other not YOU.

[@jotjoker]

What are Karl and Lindsey going to say when they see this reaction? It would be impossible to carry on a friendship seeing this response. Danielle is incapable of being happy for them. She shouldn't be surprised they are getting engaged, Karl told her he bought a ring and her response was vile. What did she think happens after someone buys and engagement ring?!

[@sandradodd7246]

Daniell protest to much. Why would Carl let her know.

[@bexxgenx3165]

As someone who is binge-watching this entire show and now watching season 6 welcome to 2024 where Danielle was absolutely correct!

[@carsenlynn]

I don’t watch summer house but I can relate to how Danielle feels. One of my best friends was in a toxic relationship and when her boyfriend proposed to her, I was so incredibly hurt that I wasn’t even told/considered being her only best friend/female friend in her life at the time. You hope to be part of these big moments and it’s a gut punch when you’re not. It may have been selfish of me, but I poured so much of myself into that friendship. I truly loved her (and still do) like a sister. That was the beginning of the end of our friendship.

[@bosse1092]

Cuz you have it all wrong …. No one owes you anything … it’s truly very immature ….You are only happy for her unless it’s happening to you to! Her wedding is her new life with her husband … it’s not about you… this is ridiculous and so is Danielle

[@JoyceBlake7]

@@bosse1092 I get both sides. You also have to remember the 3 of them were best friends so it does hurt that they told Kyle and not her. But I haven't been watching this season, just seeing clips on youtube so I'm not sure why she is so against them being together which is probably why Carl didn't tell her.

[@bosse1092]

@@JoyceBlake7 kno they were all friends but it’s not about her !! It’s stupid …. This otften happens when people are not emotionally and mentally happy and healthy moreover honest with themselves …. let’s not pretend that she actually happy for them

[@allisonboston5738]

I feel you. None of my bff’s friends or family were included, yet her now fiancée included his whole family. He’s a controlling hot head and I really don’t like him, but I don’t tell her that because she says she really happy with him. I feel like our friendship has been slowly dissolving since he’s been around, and I think that’s what he wants.

[@JoyceBlake7]

@@bosse1092 it is about her because she knows that if they were in a good place like they used to be, they would have told her. So she feels she is losing that friendship. That's why she's crying. For the loss of her friendship. Which she was right cause they are currently not friends.

[@mom4life513]

What a weirdo. She is crazy that's probably why she wasn't involved. BTW and engagement usually involves a man proposing to his lady. Be happy for them.

[@gl8447]

Danielle is a selfish friend. I can’t stand her. If my best friend would talk like that about me with other people. I just want that kind of friendship. Danielle get a life.

[@emily76m]

Danielle is expecting too much out of her friendships it seems. This is not your family…nobody owes you anything and she always knew who lindsay was. To expect more out of her than what she has to offer her is unfair and honestly I’m sure it pushes people away to do that. I personally had to adjust my expectations with people in the past as well but it’s a lesson that needs to be learned. Also she seems to be projecting a lot and how she’s digging in her heels IS unhinged. I hope she considers therapy after all this. I’m sure she’s a sweet gal but this is too much. It’s almost like what happens to these reality stars makes them all act like their own narrative is the CORRECT one and they just lean in hard instead doing much needed self reflection.

[@Allondra89]

Danielle is looney tunes. 😂

[@emlovespups4995]

All I’m thinking while watching this is Danielle has feelings for Carl otherwise she wouldn’t be acting like this.

[@BwInNewJersey]

I have been on Danielle’s side. She looks straight insane here. Shes acting like theyre in a throuple. Seriously wtf

[@BBXioful]

Danielle needs to focus on herself … because her reaction to her “friend” getting engaged is not it . The engagement is about the two people getting engaged. And she somehow turned it over to a her thing.

[@10113sarah]

I would not want any of these people at my engagement party w/ this attitude. This is nuts.

[@tchilds1077]

She just made it all about her…..

[@tante.fatmata]

Say you're in love with Carl, without saying "I'm in love with Carl"... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cheryle8749]

When Lindsey was with carl the first time Danielle threw a fit. then they broke up and Danielle started hooking up with carl and lindsey actually had Danielle's back.when in reality lindsey should of been upset. I believe Danielle wants to be with carl and is jealous.

[@crumarki]

this reaction was truly embarrassing for Danielle. Its so upsetting when someone is going through sooo much but no one ACTUALLY cares enough to check in. I hope people can offer her mercy. She really loves Lindsay.

[@coymadrone8072]

I feel bad for Danielle. I think she believed that she was as important to Lindsay as Lindsay was to her. It's hard to be good friends with a narcissist. There's not enough space for reciprocity. The minute Danielle expressed her concerns about the brevity of their relationship. Lindsay took the stance of "if you're not with me you're against me. and Carl who is STILL in a delicate part of the recovery process followed suit. Tbh, I've seen many people who had lesser addictions than Carl take time to get to know themselves sober before entering a relationship. Lindsay is an alpha female and feels likes a safe space for him right now but just as she stated in this clip, she doesn't want a man that she has to "fix". It seems like it will be a matter off time before she realizes that is the role that she's taken on in this relationship. There is no harm in taking time to just enjoy their new found romance while he gets some distance into his sobriety. I feel like that was what Danielle was having the worst time trying to convey and it just wasn't received or it was perceived as "jealousy." lol. That old standby rationale.

[@marlynnek6449]

Great analysis.

[@bebaBad]

I’m happy for them. Danielle needs therapy.

[@TrishD33LGK]

No. In all sincerity, Danielle needs to change this relationship for good. Be "friendly", not "friends".