Daou to HATERS Saying That They’re Making Fans Believe They’re REAL | He Said He Can’t Live W/O Him

[@nghtwtchr9]

Finally, it’s good to see a BL actor standing up for themselves unapologetically and putting these disrespectful fans in their place! DaouOffroad’s relationship is THEIRS to define, however they want, and just because someone is a fan gives them know right to make demands on THEIR relationship! If, as a fan, you’re so upset by something they’re doing you have the right to stop following them. It’s that simple and easy. What these fans really should do is examine their own life and determine what void they’re trying to fill by fixating on these idols. For people like this, it’s always easier to focus on others than improve themself.

[@babeebyrd4632]

couldn't of said it better myself x

[@jakejacob1819]

very well said

[@christinemcclusky5603]

My favorite genuine loving couple.Just watching them always smiling makes me happy. It's thier business what goes on in thier private lives.I wish you both a brilliant 2025.xxxx

[@SB-ep2gh]

I love how decisive he was, clearing stating I love him and anything else is none of your business.

[@cindypurcell4349]

I don't care if they are real or fake. Im not here to judge. I just know that every time I see them, they put the biggest smiles on my face. Whatever they are, just, keep smiling. ❤❤

[@marilynpruett4973]

OK... he's now said it, out loud. The end. Leave them alone and just enjoy them. Watch their series and live your own life. Let them live theirs. Well done dau... bless you both. ❤

[@dianerevill7190]

100% behind you Daou. It is nobody else's business about yours or any other actor/idols personal life. Thank you for your great work ❤

[@kdoggforever]

He is ABSOLUTELY correct. It's none of our business one way or another. In my personal opinion, I have NO doubt that Daou loves Offroad and Offroad loves Daou very much. And that's all I need to know. I don't need their relationship defined anymore than that.

[@Vin.i]

It's crazy to me that people feel so entitled to them or any other people's relationships. He and Offroad have chosen to be public about certain aspects of their relationship and that does not gives us the right to poke at it, we're not entitled to know everything, they have said countless times that they love each other, that should be enough but apparently it isn't; we wouldn't meddle in the relationships of our friends and try to make them explain it to us just because they talk about it or exist in front of us, it's their relationships, not ours, so the same applies to celebrities, in fact, it's even more imperative with them because we do not know them, we're not their friends, their personal lives do not affect us simply because they are, any impact they have on us is because of how we choose to interact with them. "But they're celebrities, having your privacy invaded and demanded to be public is part of it" well, it shouldn't be, they shouldn't be the ones to change and bare it all for us to see and consume, we're the ones that are obligated to improve ourselves and stop drilling holes in their walls.

[@bellabana]

For me when he said he loves Offroad he meant it in a ‘platonic’ way because he said it’s the same love he feels about his parents. So it’s not ‘romantic’ love, in other words he has a deep affection and strong friendship bond with Offroad but he’s not ‘in love’ with him romantically. This is what’s so disturbing about the Thai BL acting industry, these actors are required to pretend to be romantically interested in their costars to promote a series, to attend fan events and play childish suggestive games to entertain fans. The management companies are at fault because actors should only be required to do their jobs as actors but their personal lives that should be off limits. But unfortunately it’s all about money, from selling merchandise to promoting products on behalf of advertisers. And the fans are part of the problem because many can’t seperate actors playing fictional characters on tv from their real lives. So at fan events they expect the actors to put on an ‘act’ & pretend to interested in each other. Yet the fans don’t care if these actors are straight, or already have partners, it’s so thoughtless and selfish. I feel sorry for BL actors in Thailand because this doesn’t happen to western actors as they’re only required to give interviews about the message of the movie/tv show, their characters and their personal lives are their own business. They’re protected by acting unions so they can’t be taken advantage of by others in the industry, it’s a pity it’s not the same for Thai actors.

[@matildawitwicki3402]

Daou, speak louder for the ones in the back!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏This is the most refreshing answer to these kind of questions that I've ever seen so far since I started watching BL's and dived into the world of BL, with everything that comes with it. More lessons about fanservice and its purpose please! 🙏🙏🙏 And can someone higher up in the mediaworld in Thailand please educate your interviewers to stop asking about the actors relationships in real life, in every god damn interview, and other questions related to that such as "How did you feel when you did the kissing-scene?", "Do you get shy when you act together?", "Do you practice a lot for the NC-scenes?" "Is there a possibility for you two to become a real couple and not just an imaginery one?", "Are you possessive of eachother?", "Do any of you usually get jealous of the other one?". Etc, etc, etc.... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@lcejustjake]

Some in the bl fandom are toxic, toxic, toxic. They complain when a bl actor has a gf irl, they complain if a straight actor plays a bl role, they complain if bl ship is real, they complain if their bl ship is not real, they complain if their bl ship has broken up. These people have no life so all they do is put their toxic waste all over social media. They feel entitled to know every personal detail about celebrities as if they own them. We need more actors to speak up and put these poisonous people in their place.

[@First_khao143]

It is important to respect our idols.....like if they don't want to say we should not force when they are ready they will say to us.....and haters find mistakes literally in everything like seriously!!

[@edwardchevrette-s7y]

I believe this to be one of the most important statements to come out of the bl industry, or for that matter a statement that befits anyone who, for whatever reason is in the public eye regardless of one's profession. There are many people out there, who are resentful towards people who have become successful in their chosen profession and instead of putting in the effort to make a life for themselves they have let jealousy rule their lives. The result, they use hate toward successful people as an excuse for their own inadequacies. Regardless of your work, we all are humans and part of our lives is at work, while another part of our lives is not. We respect the private part of your lives, and we expect the same in return. Daou, my hat is off to you as well as my thoughts, prayers, love and respect.

[@jennifermcdarby2106]

It's so good too see him stand up for not only himself but his partner. It's really no one's business what they truly are to each other. All I can say is that he says it all when he says he loves his nong!!! Whether it's a romantic relationship it's none of our business. They do what they love with the person they love end of story.

[@hortenciabeltran4666]

Seriously? Just let these young men live their lives. They don't owe us anything. I enjoy their dramas. I enjoy their work generally. Anything else is none of my business. Respect!!

[@Zee-iv9oe]

thank you for this! let people define their own relationships. if you’re not a part of it, then it’s not your place to dictate how it works!

[@kxaya78]

I m so glad to hear him say that

[@cherrylhirsch7738]

We didn't need your commentary. Daou spoke eloquently and answered perfectly. Everyone get a life. They love each other and nothing else need to be said. How often does he have to keep saying the same thing! Let it go! Love and support them or go to he__ with your hate and nonsense!!!

[@BennieRawstorne]

Even if they are or aren't together, what's the difference?. They're doing an awesome job. Stop criticism for once and appreciate the opportunity of entertainment they're providing. Carry on with the great job guy's , never stop. Be who you are. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@darlenenuna1]

Bravo nong Daou

[@Vampire_OT7]

Daou is right. It's high time. The actors shouldn't remain silent when people talk sh*t about them.

[@angryface01]

It’s simple. People don’t want to understand that there are lots of intimate relationships and not all of them are sexual. Intimacy is more than just sex or the pursuit of sex. Intimacy, touch, holding hands, cuddling, these aren’t just important for all people to have-these are a vital part of the human condition. By saying that only two people in sexual relationships can have these, you’re saying that the only intimacy a person needs is their sexual partner. This is very limited, and it’s lonely. What we see, is all that we get to see. If there’s more, it’s none of our business. Please let’s all not anger these performers like we did with Mew. It surely stung when he lashed out at fans. But the lesson was important to learn-we need to stop craving to know their personal lives.

[@kiramakishima7836]

Exactly. I mean look at Mew and Tul. Originally Tul didn't want to come forward with the truth that he was dating Mew in real life because he was afraid of how the public and fans would treat them. Since MewGulf and MaxTul were two HUGELY popular ships. Even when there were just RUMORS that MewTul were together, Tul said he started getting death threats to stay away from Mew and that was before they even came out as dating and it was just a rumor or belief. Mew even said, "My faen doesn't want to come out into the spotlight at this time, so I can't tell you who it is." But eventually, in the My Ambulance program, Tul decided to reveal it because he's like this is our life, no one else's, I shouldn't be scared to reveal who I'm dating to the fans and the public. Even now, some haters still don't believe Mew and Tul are together, even though Mew proposed to him, gave him a massively expensive engagement ring and they are talking about getting married in 4 different countries. Haters will keep saying its fanservice because they can't accept being wrong but when they are right they will never shut up about it but when they are wrong they fall silent or they just won't admit it.

[@kiramakishima7836]

Tul has even stated, "I never thought back in the past that I would end up in a romantic relationship with Mew." and still haters don't believe it.

[@sherrygadberryturner9527]

People need to learn to mind their business and stay out of everyone else’s. Entertainers are NOT the property of their fans.

[@ShirleyAnderson-z6g]

A lot of people cant distinguish between real life and paid actors .Actors have a life out side of making movies the more realistic the movie is show how good the actor is 😀

[@JayneFlood]

Good grief. Their relationship has nothing to do with anyone else. It’s between them and only them.

[@kimtodd61]

Whether they in a relationship or not isn’t any of my business.. Watching their hard work is. If they are actors I am interested ❤

[@chelaosterberg]

Those of us who really care about you guys, your welfare, your happiness WE HAVE YOUR “SIX” (your back).

[@stinaxer4452]

They are human beings and actors, not just fan fantasy material. It is good to see this so articulately communicated by a straightforward bl actor who has been plagued with inappropriate and prying fan questions.

[@shinchanno.4018]

Fans need to understand and learn to love their artist's craft more than their personal life. We all can enjoy their work for a longer time plus they can also explore in the acting field with different roles, if fans see this positively instead of going to shiping culture.

[@daniellelaplace6455]

Actors have their personal life. Don't be nosy

[@JhVeen]

Je kan goed zien of er en echt couple is of niet. Dat zie je in de ogen. En het wordt tijd dat de haters aangepakt worden. Het gaat niemand wat aan of ze in het echt samen zijn of niet. Het is hun privé zaak en Fans hebben dat te respecteren.

[@yangz56]

❤❤❤ Bombastic reply

[@anniechou8964]

Normally, Thai bl ship only screen couple, really a common, but it felt nice no matter what relationship, friends, soul mates, family or more, everything nice if they are comfortable and happy with each other, no need to put tags on them, I think people need to respect them more, most of them really hard working, talented, and nice personalities indeed.

[@noisygemini]

I see people here in the comments analyzing what he said 😂😂😂 you really did not understand right? Anyway, I'm just glad he put st*pid people in their place. Idgaf if he is in love or not. If what he says and does is fan service or not. I just enjoy their acting, their interactions, their music performances and that's it. Like he said, I'm not part of their relationship so i don't think too much of all that i can't witness. I'm not a psychoanalyst or anything of the sort so yeah... If you don't like them, ignore them. Move on. It's simple. If you like them, respect them. That's it.

[@EllaPMcNeice]

People can be so nasty these to are lovely coupleit is no one business what they are there just happy together let them be

[@lucytan6325]

@They pretended to be in relationship before the drama was aired. I think they overdoing.😊

[@chantalalexander]

Don't make Daou trace y'all!!!😂 He has justifiable had enough of this nonsense, and I don't blame him. It amazes me how intrusive people thnk they can be with someone else's life

[@nneichan9353]

Daou gets it right...why do actors have to explain their relationships?

[@jilltennis7577]

Wtg D.. I wish more would speak up like that ..I don't understand the BL world but I understand actors have a life to ..as long as that person is happy then I'm happy.we are only human 😂 live life to fullest with your loved one ❣️ ❣️ ❣️ ❣️

[@bluefantasy929]

I watched Da'ou Live streaming the other day and this person posted question in the comment. Daou didn't care, he just read through it ignoring until this idiot attention seeker posted again "I am not talking about you and offroad" and this is what Daou responded to the hater.

[@pamelaastriati1490]

I think if they are real, people say it is only a Fan service or a part of a job. If they are not real they say working too, same. If they are confirm people say it a lie. If sometimes they are together and sometimes not always together people say they are only FS or break up. People say it as a part from industry not real. Company is only use for them to making some money, like other couple. People say that they are straight or what, not true that bl actors is real. Because, so many couple bl not real couple. If they say real couple, people say it is fake or only brothers or partner in working or friendship etc. as if people know everything about them,but not know. I ever watch like this and other couple confirm they are couple, but people say that is a fake or Fs just for to pleasant fans n more famous or making more money. I think people often comment not think it is gpod for the actors or not, important that have said what they want likes or not. I think why people want to know bl actors life? It is not people's business or what. Only them know not need people must know it. Why not think theirs life more than people's life. If dont like just is only be quiet and leave it. With like this more hurt them. Let it go. What it is a relationship real or not, not people's business and life. Not is it enough to make people understand it.

[@zzdlover2005zz]

These haters are definitely blind. They are as true as they can be.

[@PatriciaMcGinnis-oy6km]

They show best friend,lovers,job ,what else you people want. It is their choices

[@naomimontgomery3666]

I guess my question is ..after the series end ..They still pretend to be in love with the kissing and hugging..for what? I will be honest in real life that just don't happen if you're a real couple..especially in front of people.. all the time on top of each other in public..what real couple would do that unless it is fanservicing..which is okay to entertain the fans..Just know that in reality that is not real.. and please let me address this eyes does not lie statement.. Yes eyes can lie if you're a actor okay.. you suppose have the chemistry to where it looks real. So yes everything is a show before the people.. whatever their relationship is outside of work that's between them two.. work is work.. after work is their reality..whatever that looks like..let's just hope every cp gets along at this point..and last for a long time

[@anuarvonen]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ from Anu girl Suomi Finland 2025

[@rosesantosdy]

Fanservice is the hated part of a BL series. I hate it to be honest but i think that's a part of their job which an actor tried to kiss or hug a guy in a romantic way. Most BL couples are comfortable on what they are doing & some are not. Some are doing that for the money the production gave them. Some of them are doing just 1 series & that's it & some are not even though they had different partners. But that's none of our business because they actually gained a lot of viewers on thier series & that's what they want not just because of the money but because its a part of their work as an actor..

[@sanrio8058]

Hope he locates me via my IP when he comes to the states!!!😅 🙏😊 Lets have a meal together❤❤❤

[@marijkevanjoolen7156]

The only thing I hope is to see you back in a series And for me I like your acting And I think people must stop mededing whit your privat live

[@ÅsaRosen-s6e]

Just saying, eyes don`t lie.

[@bellabana]

For me he was saying he loves Offroad in a ‘platonic’ way, he said it’s the same love he feels for his parents, so it’s not romantic love. He has a deep affection and strong friendship bond with Offroad, that he really cares about him but he’s not ‘in love’ with him romantically.

[@liinuli]

Exactly. I wish he was allowed to give a short reply that would end these questions. We are friends would be enough.

[@Chingu-e5d]

First of all its their choice let them be whatever they want we are here to watch their series and enjoy ourselves,i am always against shipping,except yinwar😅😅

[@bringceremony]

With the ip address and account thing, bro really said i can play the game better, don't test me with your madness. Look, i personally don't like when fan service crosses the line, but my take is if the two participants are willing and comfortable with each other and not being forced, then it's perfectly fine.

[@annadiemen126]

Sorry for my ignorance but who are Daou and Offroad? What BL drama are they in?

[@freewolf27]

If you are capable of commenting, mean you have internet connection. Google it. 😂

[@dipikasarma1114]

You can watch century of love and love in transition

[@annadiemen126]

@@dipikasarma1114 thank you

[@Ash_Klen]

Watch CENTURY OF LOVE ...its sooooooo good

[@annadiemen126]

@@Ash_Klen Thanks I have started to watch it

[@liinuli]

Aah, interesting. Clearly he's not allowed to say they are only friends. He's beating around the bush by saying they love each other and don't want to explain more. I feel sorry for them.

[@Reign-btsArmy]

Because …. It has nothing to do with us like he said and he is right … so no need for him to explain further… those who have eyes will see their love ❤❤

[@liinuli]

@Reign-t1d This is exactly what creates the problems though. As long as everything stays unclear the debate continues. I wish fanservice didn't exist.

[@Reign-btsArmy]

@@liinuli I got you✅

[@Reign-btsArmy]

@@liinuli I got you✅

[@Bag0505]

@@liinuliproblems? What problems? They're working together and alone, they're entertaining the public/their fans. They're working and entertaining, isn't that the job of an artist? Where are the problems?

[@doinalolo1152]

Bună, serios .Dar ce este dacă șanț sau nu un cuplu .O dar ce vor uni sa arate o ,sa filmeze sin intimitatea lor ce face un cuplu asa iar crede .Dar da eu cred ca șanț un cuplu .Și ce dacă șanț. Respectabile intimitatea .Iar cei invidios să-și mai tina răutățile doar pentru ei .Vad cai cam roade invidia .Ce sai faci unuia care din invidie nascoceste baliverne .Ca șanț, falși s-o ca nu șanț cuplu .Câte e treaba lor .Și ce dacă șanț deranjează pe careva eu nu prea cred .Dar dacă as inventa eu o ,zminciuna dea mea iar aceia sa fie ca am întrat an patul lui ,Zahan și alui ,Yboo da sa spun cam fost cu amandoi an același pat .Mar crede careva .Eu nu prea cred .A-mi cer iertare de la ,Zahan și de la ,Yboo,șanț fanul lor știu ca nu ar trebui sa spun asa ceva despre ei nui cunosc decât filmele lor și cântecele a le amandorora .Scuze ,Zahan și, Ybo .Dar vreau sa anteleaga uni ca asa ceva nu este corect .Sa între careva cu bocanci an viata privata al altora .Eu spin mereu ce nu-ți place altuia nui face SI DA O CARTE NU POATE FI JUDECATA DUP COPERTA .DOAR CAND DESCHIZO ACEA CARTE VEI ANTELEGE CA NUIESTE CEIA CE PARE A FI .ASA SI CU BARFELE SI RAUTATILE ALTORA .SEARA FRUMOASA .BAY,BAY,LOLO.🥰😘🫠🫣🫢😉😎💕💞🤫🤗😚❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💖💖💖🤭🫰🫰🫰☺️💋💋💋