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@EvanTheBag9 ай бұрын
Thx
@A55a551n9 ай бұрын
No
@poulomideb259 ай бұрын
I have actually faced this not in a romantic relationship but people did this in the name of friendship
@Canadian_Goose0079 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video. I noticed you seem to be talking mostly about romantic relationships in this, but could family members or friends use these tactics as well? Just a curious question so I know what to look for
@teegutta46899 ай бұрын
GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY YES I HAVE to THIS DONE TO ME ON A DAYLY BASIS BY MY PARENT SHE ALWAYS DO THIS , THAT'S WHY IN THE MORNING WHEN I GET UP I LEAVE THE HOUSE, PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS. TEE 💯🙏🕳️💙
@JanitorOfTheStrawhats9 ай бұрын
“Dark manipulation tricks to watch out for” That one evil mf who came here to learn them
@laurebruyninckx47289 ай бұрын
Not me .......
@AOCITYBOY9 ай бұрын
I guess thats why this channel is called "Psych2go"
@stefanoalomia39259 ай бұрын
The only thing that make this actions “wrong” is the outcome.
@HowieAnimations9 ай бұрын
It was me yesir I want it to learn these tips to use them yessir
@uanime19 ай бұрын
Women do all these things to make men like them.
@hugomendez91079 ай бұрын
I would advise any young person seeking to be in a relationship to first learn to love yourself and heal your own inner emotional wounds whether they are childhood traumas or fears/insecurities. Finding the right therapist is absolutely key to starting the healing process. Once you have acheived a great level of emotional awareness through self compassion and self love, then use these skills to find a person who has also found success in their own personal healing journey. Remember, people who are known to be manipulators and narcissists are simply people who have emotional issues of their own that they refuse to acknowledge and heal from so in order to find relief from their low self worth, they seek to find people that are easy to control and their victims tend to be others who also have low self worth and thus very emotionally vulnerable.
@SBsam9 ай бұрын
That's great advice, I have been trying to love myself for years now but I just cant do it. The lack of confidence and the self-loathing are way too strong.
@hugomendez91079 ай бұрын
@@SBsam I get it. One of the hardest things to do is to practice self compassion and self forgiveness. Obviously everybody is different as everyone has had unique experiences that formed them into who they are today but we all just want to be the best version of ourselves. Becoming the better you means you will have to take the painful but necessary action to dig deep into the emotions within you that hurt the most and find exactly where they originated from. Many people run away from these emotions and try to mask them but this only makes them worse in the long run. I would advise to find a therapist that can help you navigate these internal wounds and I myself will pray for you. You deserve a life of fulfillment.
@agsicodpslahavwshxausudusi73279 ай бұрын
My therapy is gym, my therapists are weights and dumbells, my self love is my knowledge and my wound healing are books
@namaentahla9 ай бұрын
❤
@CalypsieVT9 ай бұрын
Under spoken under heard under appreciated. This.
@A55a551n9 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Love bombing 0:15 2). Hot and cold 0:52 3). Intermittent reinforcement 1:45 4). The judge seduction 3:13 5). Triangulation and competition 4:04 6). The harmless rejection 4:50 7). Breadcrumbing 5:31 8). Guilt-trip 6:10 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@klappstuhl43709 ай бұрын
Ok, some of these I am guilty of, but on the other side, some of these she was guilty of. Did... did we both use tactics to get closer to each other, but ended up conflicting...?!
@Diyanibeats9 ай бұрын
I’m hot&cold
@TheEDFLegacy9 ай бұрын
@@klappstuhl4370 It can happen, yes.
@LuizMiguel-vq7ut9 ай бұрын
Sounds like ayessa
@marksonpineda1239 ай бұрын
How to do this??
@LazyAsHellChannel9 ай бұрын
2022 was the year where I broke off all contacts that hurt me in such a way thanks to finding out what dirty tricks narcissists do. If it weren’t for Psych2Go and other experts, I still would’ve been in a dark place, emotionally. Keep up the great work!
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support! So happy to hear you're in a better place now!
@reddragonlegacy9 ай бұрын
Wish I had seen this video about a year ago. I would've realized my "friend" was manipulating me earlier. I realized it way too late. And when I confronted them about their lies and manipulation, they tried to make me the bad guy. Hell, at one point my "friend" called me "Transphobic" despite that never coming up in our conversations. And they constantly gave me the "I was chatting with so and so" line, instead of getting back to me, when they were active in group, and choosing to not chat with me. I'm trying to get past these people, but they were people I truly cared about, and trusted...so it's hard. It's like trying to literally remove a piece of my heart...
@geecee74509 ай бұрын
Good for you it's your friends doing the manipulation. In my case it's my two sisters who constantly bombard me with insults and then praises. This is just to keep me alert and on my toes to do whatever they want me to do for them 😢😢😢
@KhoiruunisaRF9 ай бұрын
No matter how much you cared & trusted them, it's not worth it if they treat you unfair.
@ShapeshiftingForestFae9 ай бұрын
OMG I think we're in the same boat. It sucks, doesn't it? Earlier this month, I told my "friend" she was making me and others uncomfortable by oversharing the details of her transition, and making inappropriate jokes or comments that were graphically sexual. I told her that the reason no one wants to talk to her about that or other issues is because she guilt trips and plays the victim, painting the other person as the problem. She responded with so much gaslighting I was afraid to strike a match. She accused me of gossiping and spreading rumors; I had talked to others, but was seeking help on how to approach her about her behavior, when I doubted she would change. She refuses to let go of her giant red flags, as I had suspected, and said she was done being my friend. It sucks bcs I've learned a lot from her, and really thought she cared about people. Now I see her "covert narcissism might disguise as altruism". I'm here if you want to talk about your experience. I'd bet we can really relate to each other.
@aakanksha2ariella9 ай бұрын
Ayo... Why I can relate..
@Whateverdon9 ай бұрын
Yeah
@kayshawn.8 ай бұрын
the more i learn, the more i’m disgusted by my last relationship. hot & cold was the epitome.
@SarGraPar9 ай бұрын
Number 6 is not a great example. The scenario presented was presented as if those sentences always mean something malicious, but that's not true. It is totally valid to say "Hey, I like you and would potentially enjoy being with you at some point, but I've got shit going on rn that I need to deal with, but once I'm done taking care of my shit and working on myself, I'd love to give us a shot!". It's only toxic if someone is lying, it's healthy to set boundaries even for yourself. Maybe you like someone a lot but you've got to heal from something traumatic first, and you don't want to get their emotions tangled up in your mess while you're processing things. Some of these videos are kinda hit or miss... Edit: typo
@Lolcoca9 ай бұрын
All of the scenarios and the things that they create are 100% misunformation because they think experiment people’s life and think all they Said are like GOD’s thoughts 😂😂 FOR PSYCHO 2 go : everyone who is not have the same view or perception like them are bad or manipulative person. That’s why this CHANNEL is very MANIPULATIVE.
@Lolcoca9 ай бұрын
ACTUALLY ALL OF THEM ARE kind of SUPERFICIAL 😂😂 and misunformation ! But Always Put your BOUNDARIES LOVE YOURSELF and just be polite and respectful with everyone not FLIRTING them.
@onlinegurl1019 ай бұрын
I agree
@DriOtTeZ9 ай бұрын
I do agree with you, telling someone you like them and telling them you do not want to engage into anything serious isnt bad at all if you actually mean it, but just a reminder that all of this actions are being projected as if when being used as manipulation tactics
@Redheadbelle9 ай бұрын
Agree.
@MissSirenita9 ай бұрын
Listen, I’m terrible at texting and communicating. It’s not that I want to ignore people either. Life is so exhausting honestly. Like putting the effort to just stay alive and exist is fucking hard for me. But I think I’m getting better hopefully 🤞🏼
@p3arl-luk19 ай бұрын
You got this!
@miftahulislam20109 ай бұрын
you'll get better soon. just keep trying. nothing lasts forever, neither the bad days.
@caoixhe8 ай бұрын
Same here. You got this, I believe in you.
@MartinPericht6 ай бұрын
I dont understand what is hard to say just : i have no energie today, i will write you tomorow :)
@CodeDusq19 ай бұрын
Love bombing really feels nice and genuine at first, but soon it becomes affection overload where compliments and attention continue to keep pouring in, but soon doubts start seeping in leaving you in a state of uncertainty and wondering if all of it was genuine or not.
@sasha35369 ай бұрын
frrr
@miftahulislam20109 ай бұрын
im glad this video got uploaded in the right time. i just realized what im going through isnt something i should be going through. keep it up with the psychology videos. helping and potentially saving lives.
@stayhappylittlemermaid9 ай бұрын
Whatever you are, be a good one
@joanlinski32919 ай бұрын
I experienced most of these tactics in my last dating relationship. We are broken up and I have moved on, but the irony is now that I am moving on. He is coming around and being very visible in certain social settings that we have in common. I am deeply suspicious of this, since he chose to get involved with someone else and get married. When I ran into him again, after not seeing him in over a year, my first impression was that he is not working on his recovery, and I would not have gotten involved with him, and I most certainly would not have married him. Thank you for the advice because it really reaffirms that moving on is the right decision for me.
@joanlinski32919 ай бұрын
@@Lolcoca -it is not possible to do that within the recovering community as I follow the principles and traditions of the 12 steps, and this means that I put principles above personalities whether he does or not. The best that any of us can do is to learn from our experiences-I have no control over how he manipulated me nor can I change the past, but I can certainly be aware of these kinds of behaviors in moving forward and now I know how to deal with it. Thanks for the comment, but giving advice in situations like this is really not helpful.
@HEATHENS50746 ай бұрын
just realized ive experience the first 4 signs from the sameee person, its honestly really addictive, now i know why. took me like more than a year to realize that they may actually be a bad person. its crazy how long it takes u to really accept it
@estellecent17459 ай бұрын
I have encountered seven out of these eight tactics in one single person. And they all do apply to friendship as well, because I considered that person my best friend. This kind of toxic friendship can have a really negative impact on our confidence and it's not a coincidence that such manipulative people tend to use these tactics on insecure people with low self-esteem. It's like we're asking for it in their eyes, I guess. The most important thing is to recognize our own value, to feel ENOUGH! Please remember that you don't need any manipulative narcissist in your life. You don't need anyone to reassure you and recognize your value. Only you have the magic to do so! If you don't do it, no one else's kind words will ever help you feel enough. Thank you for creating and sharing this amazing video! I loved it!
@christhomas12557 ай бұрын
Same here👍🏻
@zeuvia_9 ай бұрын
wish i was able to see this video years ago worst part is that a lot of these things have to do with something someone COULD be doing genuinely and not out of malice, but so much of the time people just leave you guessing on whether it's truth or lies. it's best to speak and give truth with the things sitting on the blurred line, because some people have been through so much lies that it could take a village to help them feel safe when it's finally the truth
@saviour_3.14159 ай бұрын
Yeah I've literally done all these dark tactics on people who oppose have treated me with disrespect. Quite accurate! Good job psych 👏
@that-one-guy47479 ай бұрын
Understandable, have a good day
@thetr3ntlane9 ай бұрын
no need
@EsmeAmelia9 ай бұрын
But sometimes people DO just prefer to be single or aren't ready for relationships. Yeah, the other stuff is toxic, but saying you prefer to be single or aren't ready for a relationship in and of itself doesn't seem toxic or manipulative - it just seems honest.
@johnathansmith88389 ай бұрын
The harmless rejection one is actually very wrong and misleading. Though it may make sense in SPECIFIC situations, surely not all comparatively “ vague” rejections are for the sake of manipulation and not genuine. NO IS NO. if someone tells you they dont want to be anything more than a friend and rejects you this should be respected and should not be scrutinized further.
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
It depends on the context. In some situations, their intentions may not be inherently malicious; it's simply a challenging circumstance. However, the example showcased in the video differs. Other behaviors highlighted in the video contribute to portraying "Harmless rejection" as manipulative rather than an honest difficulty in communication. The underlying purpose of this form of "Harmless rejection" is to keep someone engaged without genuine intent, their true intent is to string them along as a backup.
@sehrious_xm9 ай бұрын
THANK YOU. I knew i wasn’t losing it.
@sehrious_xm9 ай бұрын
I’m currently experiencing this bs
@TheNonameHousehold9 ай бұрын
Oh this one deserves to be on multiple playlists 😊
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
Yesss!! : D
@peterdoppler11819 ай бұрын
Not everytime they're actually using these tactics, a person having his/her own problems while dealing or socializing a lot with people may feel uncomfortable to have a serious thing with one guy/girl so that person may refuse to be in relationship and the "harmless rejection" Thing told in the video, On the other hand, all these tactics are completely working and 100% accurate, I'd prefer not to use them, just be cautious about them and remember if someone's doing this, it is not necessary that he/she is doing it intentionally to gain control over you.
@WiIdbiII9 ай бұрын
This made me learn that I am in no way a manipulative person. I guess I am really genuine.
@Coffeebeannz9 ай бұрын
Just watched this as someone has a friend constantly making me feel guilty and/or upset, yet incredibly happy at the same time-and im just now realizing how relatable "hot and cold" is:(
@gb25569 ай бұрын
Narcissistic behavior. If you encounter these you might be dealing with a narcissist or sociopath. Be aware
@JacksonKnight-j6d7 ай бұрын
Manipulators be taking notes
@E4439Qv56 ай бұрын
...for _awareness's_ sake, yes. :T
@aurorahedges68249 ай бұрын
Even though I knew all these from experiencing them in childhood from parents and peers, this video was like a gentle reminder of how these manipulation tactics have affected my ability to feel love and trust loved ones. Love bombing specifically has made the BPD battle of trust and abandonment issues one of the largest hurdles in trying to function in my healthy, normal relationships
@E4439Qv56 ай бұрын
Yup. I got some BPD in my family history, too. Running hot/cold, for me? Just business as usual.
@DoorTechnicianRick9 ай бұрын
"There is only one thing worse than losing someone you love, and that's losing yourself" - Me, 2023
@Nennai8 ай бұрын
I needed this nearly a decade ago 😢 learning such tatics were used against me by people just makes everything hurt even more; I was completely clueless and that was also taken advantage of
@uz_zu16999 ай бұрын
Everything said in this video my crush has done to me, and now ofc I’ve moved on after 2 years in that hell hole, and she literally tried the “surprise” factor by randomly giving me a box of walnuts as a gift, when I have given her countless items that took not only my money but my time and effort. For example a drawing that I did cost me 16 hours to make, and another 65 dollars pen with her name personalised for her. All she did was “thank you!!!” And just some paragraphs. Back in like last year when I tried to move on, she literally cried for me to stay, that was the first time ever a girl cried for me and so I was stupid enough to continue again. And now after another 6 months I finally escaped that hell hole. Some might say I’m stupid, some might say I’m dumb, but this is the first time I’ve ever encountered this. She has had the title of the best girl in the school as in terms of academics and conduct and every teacher likes her. And so me liking a “good” girl was nothing wrong right? Absolutely not, and I’ve been manipulated, when at the end of me liking her, I confronted her about the things she did to me and all she said was you don’t get it or something, and the thing I remember most was when I said all these manipulation shit she told me I can’t believe you think of me as a person like this. And also the last time we talked which was about a month ago (we didn’t talk for a whole month and I said wow it’s been quite a while), and she was like I thought about this for so long and I’ve finally figured things out. When I asked her what it is all she said was you’ll know later as like a hanging on thing to keep me hooked. But it’s too late for that. And did I mention that we went out alone 5 times? 3 times eating alone, 1 time at the cinema, and once at the library. And now we don’t even normally talk anymore all that 2 years wasted. Not just time but money and effort. So when you try to get your first love please be careful, especially someone who has a lot of ppl that likes them. If there’s one thing to take away from these two hell hole years, it’s definitely to be aware of these people and pull away immediately if they start manipulating you.
@Sleepybrielle6 ай бұрын
I just got out of a 2 year relationship like this a few months ago. It is so so damaging. They would use ‘mental conditions’ they were never diagnosed with too, just to keep me open to their behavior.
@newospam9 ай бұрын
Love the new animator 🙏🏾
@BrendenLittleboy-l3z9 ай бұрын
I do these things but not on purpose but I don't guilt trip nor do i be mean to people for no reason, however sometimes I just feel disinterested and can't make a fake happy face.
@edithtrinitaria81219 ай бұрын
This is how you got married to the wrong person.
@a627579 ай бұрын
The best way to deal with this kinds of things is to ignore advance in the first place. I had already experienced these and it’s easy to spot them from a mile away. However yes knowledge is power. However, the problem is, the people who watches these psyc. Videos don’t just need answers to everyday society or concern for their well-being but they are some that use these to manipulate the people that seek the exact help they need. I know this channel wants to help those who need counseling. Although this is better of not case as this is making society more worse as it is. If you really want help then go to an private psychologist or just a person that you trust and know they they won’t stab your back when the time comes. However, with all said and done, I love you guys x.
@Flamey349 ай бұрын
"I cant be with you right now,i need to work on myself,i prefer to be single,i dont wanna be in a relationship right now,you are too good for me,you deserve someone better" these are haunting me even to this day..because it is the same things my ex gf told me when she broke up with me,its like they become toxic selfish and manipulative at that very moment..
@Joeygirl20249 ай бұрын
This happened to me when I was 12 years old, this girl literally tried to ruin my life. She was "friendly" with me but would talk behind my back. Luckily, I was able to work through that trauma but it affected the way I trusted other girls and women for a long time. Now, finally I'm able to have close women friends again.
@ninjasalazar75869 ай бұрын
When it comes to dating a lot of these are the same tactics used in the “sprinkle sprinkle” method which isn’t actually a relationship, it’s actually a method that works well if you’re only looking to use the other person for gain
@pobl66509 ай бұрын
I absolutely despise when people are proud of doing these tactics, like good for you, you won the chess game and now everyone hates you, are you happy? What i hate most is how easy it is to do accidentally do these things, whether its pride over how much youve sacrificed for the relationship or frustration over feeling like your not being heard. Shits tough man
@tiktees84249 ай бұрын
@@Lolcoca nah imma do my own thing🤫
@pobl66509 ай бұрын
@@CJBow-xf6yy I'm confused lol
@eugenekrabs38379 ай бұрын
The problem is in believing you deserve the attention and affection in the beginning so one becomes easily fooled by the other person because put simply you easily fool yourself being honest with one's self is essential
@MorgainMcMillan359 ай бұрын
After I watched this Video I thought:" Oh, I have someone who is like that." I known him for 5 Years now & he is nearly 100% like in the Video. He did/does all these Steps. He still does it and I find myself still unable to break free. I try and try it but somehow he always gets me hooked on him again :-(
@khrisbreezy36289 ай бұрын
Ghosting...Intermittent reinforcement...secrets only the Sith knew...
@Gabriellas_Diaryx9 ай бұрын
Omg I think you did my idea TYSM ❤❤ I really needed this to test my friends bc I have a feeling…
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
You're very welcome!
@p3arl-luk19 ай бұрын
This is helpful because not only does it help me recognize and avoid l dark manipulation better but it also helps me know how to avoid my behaviors or interactions that would come across as manipulative, something I don’t want to be 😅
@Lolcoca9 ай бұрын
Or maybe this CHANNEL is the one is manipulative. And they want you to put in your head. That’s a misunformation works nowadays.
@cosmolon55479 ай бұрын
happend to me with my ex, she wanted me close enough to keep me as an option but far enough to look out for other people. I was so blinded and it was so disappointing to find out that she only used me and never saw something real with me
@viviane33329 ай бұрын
I wish I had learned about these manipulation tactics before entering my first relationship. I thought that was normal and his way of showing that he loves me. I hope young women/men get educated on this topic. Thank you for posting this video.
@حسابالدراسة-خ6ز9 ай бұрын
I have seen many types of those. I just play their game for fun. And once I loss interest or feel insult for being with them, I just leave. However, I became in situations when they begged me to stay, sometimes I accept and play a second round with them, it is funny to imagine that they really think I believe them. Don't blame me, they deserve this, they tried to play with my emotions in the first place.
@iivyalon6 ай бұрын
Went through all this in 2 months. He really played my mind, the worst part is that I feel he wasn't even trying and wasn't doing it bc he was evil. He was a fearful avoidant. I feel like a fool tho. Not anymore. Thank you, Mr. Big.
@yumikothecutie47869 ай бұрын
This video describes exactly what i experienced 3-4 years ago with my First Ex... Number 4 - 8 in this Video is exactly what they had done to me and watching this video really made me mad when i realized that... I already broke up contact to them for 3 years now, but it still hurts... a lot. Especially if someone like this is your FIRST Relationship and you thought this would be "normal", because you didn't know any better. This experience clearly will affect my Love Life forever, because it lasted for an entire year... >.
@twishavijay98299 ай бұрын
Met a guy earlier who manipulated me exactly how the video showed. Wish I saw this earlier as everything was accurate to my situation. But I left that situation and now I'm in a healthy relationship:)
@ravenscarlettanis139 ай бұрын
With the harmless rejection, what if someone legitimately felt they needed to work on themselves or felt the other person’s too good for them, and weren’t saying that to manipulate the other person?
@squancho14129 ай бұрын
Then their intentions were not bad or wrong and it's just a rough situation. The example in this video is different. The other behaviors reinforce this type of "Harmless rejection" as being manipulative and not an honest inability to communicate. The intent of this "Harmless rejection" is to string a person along.
@ravenscarlettanis139 ай бұрын
@@squancho1412 ok thanks
@Redheadbelle9 ай бұрын
Yes, in some cases it can be the fact they‘re going through sth, even having troubles communicating it. It‘s not always malicious I agree. This here is a concrete example and surely does not apply to all cases
@Redheadbelle9 ай бұрын
@@squancho1412you explained well. I think so too
@shellyisaga13099 ай бұрын
im afraid that i did "harmless rejection" years ago because i really had my priorities set while i was a student. But i believe it's all about understanding since many of high-schiever students like me seems to give less priority to romantic relationships i do really like the person but as a student, setting goals are more important
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing and being honest about this. It depends on the context.I think the intent matters. In some situations, their intentions may not be inherently malicious; it's simply a challenging circumstance. However, the underlying purpose of this form of "Harmless rejection" portrayed in the video is to keep someone engaged without genuine intent, their true intent is to string them along as a backup.
@stefanoalomia39259 ай бұрын
It’s worst when you realize that there are more than one person like that in our life’s.
@HaloJumper79 ай бұрын
Dark Manipulation signs: 1) You have red eyes & laugh maniacally while on L's grave.
@obievergreen37719 ай бұрын
Most of the friends and partners I've had have done literally every single one of these.
@bhuvi_789 ай бұрын
Not a partner, but an ex best friend of mine used ALL of these on me, great😂
@Tahmina-v3x9 ай бұрын
I had a best friend nd i trusted her more than anyone else and she used to use these tricks on me cuz I didn't knew that these things exists she used me for her own good and when she succeeded she left me all alone and in such a situation that everyone was against me I had a long time to recover . She used to see my texts but didn't answer and when I asked her about it she used to say I was busy tho she was online. She used to ignore me when I was in difficulties. We had quarrels many times and in the end we splited up. And also she used to shower me with compliments and praises to do her work . Sometimes she used to fight with me for no reason
@rufoisaiahbracamonte3389 ай бұрын
I was stuck in toxic family which is my brother who is manipulative and keeps on disrespecting my boundaries which is harmful, our nanny left here and never come back cuz she has nephew to take care of. My mom who used guilt trip while hanging out together to buy groceries or eating outside and my dad who manipulating me to call my family and forcing me to wash dishes all the time which makes me feel overwhelmed. But my aunt told me that I deserve to ve treated with kindness and respect one another
@nikosschoolofMentalHealth9 ай бұрын
This video is an eye opener. I thougth these were my secrets tricks. Thanks for sharing.
@justasmalltowngirl40843 ай бұрын
I have just experienced all of these manipulation tactics from 1 person during dating. Fortunately, I was finally able to end it.
@brain_respect_and_freedom9 ай бұрын
Hi, I want to share my thoughts on dark manipulation patterns. I've been chatting with someone who uses these tactics. It's easier when we notice and understand these strategies and don't follow this rabbit hole. If this person doesn't want to treat us with respect, honesty, and kindness, we don't need to take their words seriously.
@ShAdoW96319 ай бұрын
Thanks for the lesson 😈
@jrgmen9 ай бұрын
Thank you, I needed this today
@SaganTheKhajiit9 ай бұрын
You literally described everything my ex did to me before I broke up with her. It was the first and last time I got involved with a person like that.
@rpsyco7 ай бұрын
I once had a "friend" who used a lot of these on me. I cared about her a lot, but at this point I'm fairly certain she was just using me. She would constantly breadcrumb by asking if I wanted to hang out or do something, then she would cancel last second (like the day before) for something she found more important, or she'd just ghost me the day of and not show up. She would also talk about all of her much more important friends in front of me, and would even bring guys to the place I worked and made sure I'd know they were there. When I pointed out I felt taken advantage of, she'd get angry, and make me feel like a bad person by saying that I'm trying to control her. If I asked for clarification, she'd shut me down and say she didn't want to talk about it anymore. Eventually she found someone who could do more for her, and just threw me away like I was nothing. It still hurts to this day somebody could just do this to me, and not care whatsoever.
@Richiko069 ай бұрын
Good thing I left my last 3 exes
@DonaldRichards-mr3lz9 ай бұрын
Some times truth can be stranger then fiction Some times the truth can be more difficult to believe than a lie Please be very careful to not hurt someone who is telling the truth . When I first met Donna I asked her if she is single do you have a boy friend she said " I am getting out of a very bad relationship right now so I don't want to be in another one right now " I could see she was telling the truth , her husband had been beating her and yelling very bad things at her this was more than 24 years ago with a lot of Love I was able to earn her trust 4:51
@RayPeng-078 ай бұрын
DELETE, UNFRIEND, BLOCK and move on. Those are the shortest and the best online tips ever. x)
@clasherking45289 ай бұрын
Guilt trips are the worst....... Not only because they trap you in a relationship (romantic or otherwise) but it also makes you less trusting of others who genuinely want to help you. When someone offers to help you, you will be more likely to push them away because you don't want to give them something to hold over you later. As someone who has gone through this..... And is honestly still trapped by it..... Its not a pleasant place to be
@mikelanglow-bi2sv9 ай бұрын
Your videos are so helpful for me. Thank you! ❤
@REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh9 ай бұрын
Remember this isn’t always about romantic relationships. I went through this with a parent and a toxic pseudo friendship.
@DiscordOfDave9 ай бұрын
My narcissistic ex did most of these. It’s been two years and I’m still recovering.
@ianian27739 ай бұрын
This was helpful because I admit I'm guilty of some of these characteristic's but it sort of happens unconsciously? and I wasn't sure why it and how it was from the other person's pov. So I'm still trying to find more ways to erase these traits and be a better person.
@heshmaxwell9 ай бұрын
The sad part is, when I learned about these tactics, I had already been abused by a narcissist and couldn't go back to stand up for myself.
@Annyan6599 ай бұрын
I'm sorry about that... :( Are you doing better now? Here's a virtual hug 🫂❤
@heshmaxwell9 ай бұрын
@@Annyan659Thank you. Healing slowly. It's been 2.5 months with no contact so far.
@Annyan6599 ай бұрын
@@heshmaxwell Hope it gets better asap. You got this!! ♥️♥️ And if you ever need someone to talk to, just reach out, and I'll do my best :) I've been struggling with anxiety and depression for two years now. Because of school, and people around me being not okay, in different ways... Can't really say I know how you feel, but at least I think I can understand it a little better... Hopefully 😅
@heshmaxwell9 ай бұрын
@@Annyan659 Thank you for the words. Everything will be alright both of us. ❤️
@evevlogs74689 ай бұрын
I went through this for 2 years and 3 months and I’m only hearing about it now 😢
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that! We hope this video can help you in the future!
@evevlogs74689 ай бұрын
@@Lolcoca It’s not that easy to let go.
@evevlogs74689 ай бұрын
@@Psych2go I am trying to look out to see if my current partner does any of these and he hasn’t
@evevlogs74689 ай бұрын
@@Lolcoca it wasn’t simple for me
@AnimeNewsRadio1019 ай бұрын
Knew my FA was acting like this, expect I mess up situationship and breadcrumb clip. 🤦♂️ This time, put up boundaries and needs for us.
@ELKA1979 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ♥️i needed this
@Mona-g5y9 ай бұрын
Build your on security so you won't feel jealous from others, again it's your job to make yourself happy ,taking care yourself physically ,emotionally before adding your emotions to ethers, good vitamins and protein ,exercises, to help your mood and emotions, stop say no to yourself, you will appreciate the knew virgin of you ,make it an habit
@0_3_6_9_09 ай бұрын
I love your channel and anyone who loves you as well ❤
@Psych2go9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@parsaghavami73899 ай бұрын
Beautiful and important video
@thedastone19399 ай бұрын
Love the thumbnail 😮! So cool
@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@miripom9 ай бұрын
i had someone make the " breadcrumbing " tactic and tbh i did constantly feel like something was wrong and then they did some shitty thing and left so ig i survived
@HowieAnimations9 ай бұрын
Thx for the tips man i will use these to use more victims thx man keep the grind 💪
@kylebrandon45569 ай бұрын
These are very useful. And thanks for this. It happens to me with my ex
@beyourself96299 ай бұрын
This reminds me so much about how my mom is
@Mona-g5y9 ай бұрын
If you don't feel love,sometimes we have to develop the love to make life reasonable for our on good, #1 pay attention ,listen ,changing your energy inside and outside ,there's multiple reasons why you see others find love and you don't, ,#2 change how you talk,facial expression, body posture ,dress good and appropriate , good qualities love perfum to attract ect ,tea for the inside, purify your body so good energy can come,,make it an habit, that call detox, and silence, you will see the difference 🎉
@drewlevy95579 ай бұрын
Is this like the woman's handbook? I keep getting told I have an impossible Iron Wall now and don't give people the chance now, but I started recognizing these things on my own without a name to them. These videos are what make this channel peak. I get that the love one's bring people in but THESE ones are so essential
@Whofuckencares8089 ай бұрын
yes most women r manipulators. media just doesn't portray them as awful or manipulators.
@usagiroxie9 ай бұрын
I would say a lot of men and women are manipulators. If you date the opposite gender, you'll have more experience with manipulation from that gender, but definitely try not to overlook others that could potentially manipulate you. Listen to your gut feeling. I've mostly had experience with men and whether they were a romantic partner or a friend, they all gave me super bad vibes at some point in the relationship, usually upon the first meeting or very early on. Don't ignore that feeling.
@hudikmira13579 ай бұрын
The saddest thing, at todays I am facing with these tactics near every try when I want to get together with someone.😢
@Adriiiii889 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@KillroyX999 ай бұрын
#6. The Harmless Rejection: What if "I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I need to work on myself" is legitimate?
@amygradybsw9 ай бұрын
Shared ❤
@kylebryan45049 ай бұрын
I have been victim to these manipulations before, over the course of my entire life.
@luiscarretero55004 ай бұрын
and my advice to this as soon as you see any red flag and your guts tell you that they playing, block them let them wonder
@ChanchalPere999 ай бұрын
Hey…can we treat depression at home …as a child honestly i can’t tell my parents abt this.. Please help me getting out of it at home ..please it’s my request
@colleengustafson46257 ай бұрын
Yes. My ex-boyfriend did every one of these behaviors.
@SosukeAizen-w7z3 күн бұрын
"To cry in a crowd as a human is to bleed as a fish in the presence of a shark."
@AbiiShah9 ай бұрын
3:36 bro litrelly called me out here 😭 i have a terrible memory so i forget when I say something to people. Even if we make plans i usually forget them. So how's this my fault if my memory isn't working?
@theycallme.ilfiore9 ай бұрын
Now i can see what she doing to me I like im a good person i never gonna hurt her but she already crossed her line .. please friend's help me i wanna remove her form my life but take a little revenge. What can i do please tell me. How can i back fire her own this manipulation technique.
@brandonperkins1768 ай бұрын
Single moms, as I am dealing with one, are manipulative and wolves in sheep's clothing. One woman who I went to school with is someone I want to stay away from as she doesn't work. She don't respect me when I tell her no and bullies others, me included, to get her way. The buck will end with me and I deserve better