Dating Advice That All Men NEED To Hear...

[@WestRonin75]

I really hate how much a guy having boundaries is considered “controlling and narcissistic” in society. That being said I’m gonna have boundaries anyway 😂

[@Jacob011]

... that's because the society is controlling and narcissistic.

[@Abrhm77]

Yeah these talks about ur boundaries and ur values must be discussed before going in for a relationship. If you are bending ur own values and gut instinct for a girl ur not man

[@guatexvfx]

Fr bro my ex called me controlling cuz I asked her why it took 12 hours to text me back. And I had proof the she was on her phone soo

[@silvernova3]

As a woman, I was curious to watch this video. And honestly, this is so refreshing to hear. A masculine man truly allows women to rest in their feminine energy. It's gold. This is so important for women who actually want to be women; for those who disagree with feminist culture and actually value the balance and purpose the masculine and the feminine energy brings. At the end of the day, it's best to have the courage to be honest. Because not only are you being honest with the other person, you are being honest with yourself. I felt encouraged to hear this and hope that more men can resonate with your message and pursue that path. It very respectable. And yes, it is definitely, way more attractive to the right kind of gal!

[@intelpvps2475]

been watching you for almost 6 months now, i started watching you when you were at around 5k subs bro, it's crazy to see the progress that you have made and I mean it when I say this, you have helped me a lot on my self improvement journey. i just wanna thank you for all the videos that you have put out, I hope you grow even bigger and keep the good work up.

[@MattSpear99]

Thank you for saying this bro

[@huzi9942]

Matt you’re such a huge inspiration keep it up I just started watching you recently .

[@SirOnionRingsThe1st]

I’m a new subscriber and honestly I really really needed this. I’ve also come to realize that pleasing your girlfriend can also lead to one’s self-esteem get lower. I was actually going through the problem you mentioned in the beginning of the video and now I’m more motivated and feel free to truly be myself. Thank you, Matt. Finding your channel has truly been a blessing!

[@evafinn2912]

Hey Matt Spear, thanks for sharing this video! I, a woman, have been leading my household for far too long, and I’m sick and tired of it. I sent this video to 5 men to see if anyone would unapologetically lead me and now I have 5 husbands who lead my house! Rock on Matty!

[@Nino-el4kv]

I really like how you get straight to the point without talking like an hour first, you just say whats facts. I follow you for a few months now and you helped me, even when I sometimes somewhat disagree with what your saying. thanks bro

[@nickzaffino471]

I have definitely seen myself in the "women pleaser role" and I never realized why it pushed so many women away. Over the past few months I have done some self reflection and realized that trying so hard to please others is too much of a burden on my soul, drains my energy and is not fun. This is great advice. Once you get good at decision making and prioritizing yourself, it feels so much more fulfilling.

[@famusprime8418]

Thank god i found this channel a month ago, this channel gave me so much motivation to explore and find my true mission in life, how to become a better version of myself, and how to improve my physical and mental health, and because of that i became more happy and began getting better grades, thank you for sharing your wisdom and guidance

[@MixedMediaProductions]

I recently started a new relationship with someone, so this video came at the right time in my life. Thank You Matt.

[@LoukoumianosLoukoumios6969]

Ya lucky scoundrel! Good for you, my man. Take care of her and yourself

[@scuffbuilds5230]

I needed it today

[@BlueBEAZY45]

Absolutely true man. You have to strike that balance between being stern and being sincere. You can be stern in your beliefs without being controlling and bossy. I’ll speak my opinion and disagree with her but she’s still free to do whatever she wants. She’s her own person and her actions will speak for itself. The same should apply on her end for me as well.

[@aayangoverski3437]

8:45. Very wise

[@adamcsontos2421]

Ahh man, hope many-many young folks will see your video. I was such a simp for my previous GF and as soon as I realized all the things you talked about here I felt much better. Now I'm in a healthy, happy realtionship and I'd never look back. Keep up the regular uploading Matt, you're doing God's work

[@forthechickens]

best self improvement channel out there keep it up bro

[@aidantorrance1699]

Hey Matt, this was a top quality video. I wish I knew and understood this years ago. I needed this especially at this point in time. Keep it up man

[@understandablepodcast]

8:40 I totally agree with the point that a truly authentic man should show his true self, opinions and boundaries. I wonder, isn't the same true for any woman out there? In my lifetime, I perceived men being unauthentic and not showing their true self, because as you said there is a lot of anxiety involved. In some people there are other factors as well involved, like CPTSD or other conditions. But I feel the same is true for women as well. I observed them as being even more insecure and anxious than men are and therefore also hold back a lot of their true and authentic self. Shouldn't we all become more authentic and setting clear boundaries? It's just healthy.

[@stevelubs]

Such a young cat with such amazing advice. Love waking up to a new bell notification you posted

[@common_suprise8]

100% brother

[@Finbar_Monroe]

Matt, wow i gotta say ure a real one, ure channel is SOOO good and you really make me laugh! Watching your vids makes me happy and i thrive to still watch your videos!! Keep up the good work bro!! P.S. i liked the vid and i have subscribed (ages ago tho)

[@tylercruz6811]

this helps matt im in your brotherhood I joined the discord 4 months ago and its helping

[@itsjustme580]

Perfect timing with your video. The topic fits right into the day I had today.

[@caidenbaird]

Needed to hear this great vid🤞

[@ricklewis7947]

Facts all around my brother.

[@dominykasizmailovic9200]

That Q&A video where you said, ¨we get married in probably 2 years¨. I feel you should't have said that, it put maybe bad vibe for the girl, kinda risk for interest loss. You could for example have said ¨probably any time soon¨ or or ¨maybe in a year, or in a day, or in a month, or someday¨ to put like a little exitement for the girl. I think that would be better. But hey man, your love life, your buissnes, i just shared my thoughts. Wish you al the best 💪

[@Philipp-zz1rt]

Thank you for this video, mate!! Needed this rn

[@domthedeveloper5092]

Thank you very much, once again, Matt. At a younger age this helps me for future relationships. Means a lot, glad I am subscribed to you.

[@schahinsafarabadi]

I needed to hear this today.

[@steezm5715]

You always spitting facts bro!❤️

[@lukamatic7159]

SELF LOVE >>>

[@oxslime7730]

thanks man ! I just realize that i was soft in the last week with my girlfriend. Didn't say no at all even when i didn't agree with what she said.

[@Citygamelabs]

God bless brother

[@TopTierThomas1]

You're right

[@manfredhenning6235]

Hey Matt, awesome video.

[@sailoreraser4760]

Needed this so much m8. Got a girl's number recently and first time as well doing it. Admittedly, I still feel scared to share my more or less conservative views with her because it might push her away. I guess I'll just sprinkle some humour into what I say haha. Cheers Matt!

[@TheMotArt]

By being yourself you actually can teach your partner how you want to beloved. It's horrible not to know if you are doing something right or wrong.

[@DeonRich-zg7mg]

Good timing Matt, I just got a GF a couple weeks ago. I've definitley caught myself making these mistakes, thanks for putting the word out there.

[@nobodysperfect06]

I assumed you had to be the one to ask her out and hit on her

[@mehmetonur7925]

Models by Mark Manson All about this topic.I really recommend… All dating issues comes from NEEDINESS AND DISHONESTY. Not money,looks,status.

[@tuomas_knives]

Watching this video I finally realized why "girls like bad guys" it's because bad guys have a backbone and are willing to talk back thank you matt

[@mici5671]

You are amazing

[@zozezoze0425]

Hey matt I’ve been a long time in the brotherhood,but I disagree with you on blaming yourself if your girl cheated on you,I don’t the man should be blamed at least for the most part (ofc there is expectations).

[@initiatorhater0688]

"A man doesn't need to respect a woman in order to feel attracted to her, but a woman needs to respect a man in order to feel attracted to him"

[@Alex_F124]

You should do a video with your gf, I want to hear what she finds attractive in you

[@MattSpear99]

Did a Q&A with her. Will do another eventually

[@Zotnamm]

make a vlog

[@stevelubs]

I feel like verbally saying out loud to a partner if you do that then I will leave is a little toxic though no?

[@roman_kofyno]

It´s called boundaries and self-respect. Stop using word "toxic" willy-nilly like you understand it, it´s buzzword nowdays, like people don´t know real and deep meaning of words, overusing them, gee... No, it´s not toxic, duh.

[@stevelubs]

@@roman_kofyno I don’t see verbally saying that I’m going to end the relationship over something that’s not extremely drastic like cheating or stealing something. To me that’s not a boundary, it’s super disrespectful and way deeper than it needs to be.

[@Finbar_Monroe]

Question Matt, Do you like Andrew Tate? And also could you do a video on him and your opinion about him like your views on him?

[@AnaFB9696]

its the same with girls....its not a gender problem...

[@anupambhise3561]

Read book no more mr nice guy

[@Campbell372]

Your a fuckin legend buddy, love from Wales ❤🫡