Dating Coach Gives TEXTING ADVICE to College Student | TEXTUAL HEALING

[@enricferrera8106]

Some notes i took :) Texting - Closed ended asumption questions: get she/he thinking - Express yourself - Create a visual World - Be playful - Dont talk about logistics - HAVE FUN Atraction - Not friendzone = Express your atraction: - Missinterpret normal cometaries into sexual ones - Test the waters (ping) : positive = keep going

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Wow

[@enricferrera8106]

@@AnthonyRecenello Taking online clases on how to text girls this semester hahaha

[@supernatural3491]

Yep I did that it was all going well and it was all good signs until she ghosted me and then she told me she ghosted me because I called her a h** and a s*** or assumed it of her.....

[@nielubieplackow184]

Now i figured that im probably not a fun person

[@AlohaAlina]

Anthony made such a good point about this. So many times a guy will DM me and then he doesn’t lead the conversation... I never understood the logic 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Boooom

[@travis6694]

If it’s not reciprocated after two - three exchanges then to a guy that shows no interest. But I agree, a guy should lead the convo.

[@rahma6992]

because they expect u to show interest too lmaooo

[@santiagovinicius2988]

@@travis6694 to correct you :) The person initiating convo should lead it

[@psycherevivedby]

It's SO annoying. they say hi then expect you to hold the convo they started lol

[@TheTheawesomeguy35]

Really hard for me to watch myself but I loved the video lmao

[@AnthonyRecenello]

You were amazing king

[@Alex-rh8mr]

Great video. I did want to mention there was a little part where you started to open up more like when talking about your family, idk why but to me that was my fav part of the whole video. I only say that to reiterate what Anthony says a lot and it shows how much more interesting a guy can seem if he gets real & authentic & isn’t trying to impress the person or look cool or whatever, you know? Letting your guard down for even a couple seconds can make a huge difference in how the other person sees you. Making tik toks will prob def help with gaining confidence for college and it’ll be cool to see if you take any of Anthonys advice, you should let us know how it goes if you’re up to it. Good luck young sir, keep it up👍

[@ac9174]

@@Alex-rh8mr she wants the D

[@rotisseriechickenlover-jb4cc]

@@ac9174 bruh

[@kyletremblay5295]

I feel that.. so hard to listen to my voice or see myself in videos 😭

[@kellyv6075]

In my opinion he was demanding too much from her, as someone who just started the convo. It can feel super intrusive to have a guy start talking to you and immediately negatively judge your level of interest in him and almost guilt trip. Like th fuck we dont owe you shit you just started talking to me, and it can be so rude

[@artisticagi]

I honestly didn’t like the question too much about what life accomplishment did you do today. It feels like he is trying too hard to impress her. Also it put pressure on her to respond with something that matches that, like today I rescued 100 homeless cats and found new homes for all of them. If she didn’t do anything like that it may make her feel insecure. The dry comment review was spot on. I think she kept responding after that because she already knew he liked her. Overall great commentary I learn so much! ❤️😆

[@MikeJohnson-qu7ep]

He copied it from Based Zeus video on how to message girls without being boring

[@josephl.2398]

I think something more akin to "what kind of trouble did you get into today" work work better

[@squidneythesquid2487]

I’d think it would be sarcasm or irony lol.

[@elisabethtuuling-askforema1940]

Lol that girl is literally how I text 😂 I probably would have ghosted somewhere after "dry" though, and honestly I thought this guy was doing alright up until that point. Y'all guys need to just take it easy. Anthony thanks for the vid! :)

[@alydiaries]

Same! 😂

[@luke6350]

Here's what I got from it. Please more videos on this! 1. Be playful/have fun 2. Lead the conversation. If you have fun, they will have fun 3. Ask close ended questions (because open ended questions are too much work since you’re leading) -by asking close ended questions, you’re telling this person what you think of them and they want to show them who they really are -Be playful when asking these questions 4. Be expressive and emotional when describing things 5. Logistics will change It into “counselor mode” and remove emotion from the conversation

[@themusketeer9458]

Love your content dude, you are basically the only "dating advise" youtube guy that i do not feel emberrassed over for watching😂 because you seem "real" u know, not like some others who see women as prey and just wants to give you tips on how to deceive them. You are so down to earth and chill, that yeah, basically makes it not emberrassing to watch😃

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Then I’ve done my job. Good to have you here.

[@travis6694]

Yeah forreal. That coach Corey guy has the whole too cool for school shit

[@jinyboi]

This video is probably the best texting advice video ever. I would sometimes have these wonderful conversations but never quite figure out what i did different. It's precisely when i get descriptive in my texts that the girl becomes interested

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻

[@chiderakalaji7206]

In my opinion, the guy was teasing her as a friend even though they barely know each other. I would've been ok if a friend texted those stuff to me, but a total stranger would take me by surprise. I wouldn't ghost him immediately, but I wish he would go more slowly to become my friend than as my boyfriend flirting. Then again I'm an introvert who can't imagine anyone flirting with me so of course, I'm going to be shocked.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

yes

[@Hunter-eg9tp]

Holy crap this actually helped a lot. Thanks for breaking it down and teaching like difference between showing imagery in close ended questions/response to open.

[@youarepretty5299]

Did it?! Nooo wayyyy

[@joshnkoy]

Anthony, you hit the shit on the nail with the creative closed ended questions and expressions, that did wonders to keeping literally everyone as engaged over text as they would be in a face-to-face convo with me -- from girls I'm trying to hit up to potential networking connections. Stamp of approval!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Boom

[@saralopes8045]

It was pretty nice of you allowing the young men to share his tiktok and giving him freedom to talk about himself and his channel. Not everyone would do that! Kudos for you Anthony :)

[@christopherminchala3722]

Oh my god. As someone who's practice a decent amount of game in person, my texting game could use some work and this just helped me a lot. Wow. My respect for the channel has just grown

[@kurossilver7334]

Do more of these please, this is the content we need

[@oopsneha]

ppl praise me at texting, don't mind me dropping some insights cause sometimes we all just wanna feel appreciated for our positives, amirite? •be all quirky and show-off all your brainstorm •if u think u r not good at instantaneous comebacks, think bout it just usually during some part of day (and trust me, the place is under shower) •do all the 'heyyyy', 'hiiizz', 'ola', 'how u doin?' and just then question something u rlly wanna know outta them like 'i was wondering how is ur time with yo family gng?' or u could tell something like '....blah blah and this made me think of u' or 'this hilarious thing happened to me and its hell of a story, wanna listen up my ramble?' •now it's time to wait for response and I bet most of the time it's a positive one cause now u have created this aura of comfort and curiosity which relaxes and excites the person at the same time •as the convo goes, make sure u r giving them chances to tell their story and opinions.. throw some 'what r ur thoughts?' or 'i think....blah blah... I would love to hear ur perspective' or just call out urself like 'this was it from my side, tell me bout u, I'm thrilled beyond measure to know' •higher up meme-game •try to avoid corny emojis (it depends on the both persons and their relationship. If u r an initial talker to the person, try to use one of these ;) rather than emojis.. if u started gng on dates and stuff come to corny shit and show ur child-soul) •don't stress much, follow the flow •throw jokes, even maybe some dirty jokes (but keep in mind that u don't cross the respect level) and be playful •show ur enthusiasm like 'i waited for this time cause it's rlly one of the best part of my day' •i can't stress this enuf but the more u think on a text, the uglier it's gonna get •use metaphors •lastly, while bidding goodbyes- get ur emotional side reign. Tell em ur compliments which u rlly mean ok? Had an amazing chat? let them know.. send some cute heartly gifs or maybe funny relatable to the chat u had ones. Again hit 'byeeee', 'byeiizzz', 'good nightyyy', 'goodiee nightiii' cause they r gonna remember the last chats the most and they r gonna think bout it and absolutely find it admirable That's it for my class, dearies. I hope u took something and add on if u wanna

[@vindoodles7346]

Disappointing that he never got to the "don't pretend like you're not excited to see me" or whatever it was. I would've blocked him as soon as that text came through. I HATE when men act like I owe them my attention or interest. Dry af? Already stepping down the entitlement road. The rest? Forget it.

[@psycherevivedby]

i woulda been done tbh. i would not be impressed if i was on the receiving end of this

[@asuryan]

Wtf, we have the same age but he seems much older than me. Anthony, this has been one of the most useful videos. I have no idea how to chat with women, I don't even chat with my family. I just feel not being able to read someone's body language and voice tone makes everything a lot more complicated...

[@chchcho]

you made me a lil bit sad :c kinda wish you luck in exploring your empathy and non verbal communication 💜💛

[@vebjrnlarsen4348]

The freaking sound effect u make when trasitioning in to the video is hilarious. Just must keep that trait with u throughout the whole series! :D Great episode btw!

[@brookegoddard4273]

You seem like such a genuinely kind person and your advice is so interesting!

[@sajones1991]

It’s interesting because I usually text like she did... I don’t want to come off too enthusiastic because I feel like it would scare them away. Or they want too much too soon

[@Des-hy1po]

Close ended assumption questions.... wow thank you Anthony. I learned something new and helpful today!

[@squidneythesquid2487]

She wanted him to ask about the show she was watching to make the conversation more interesting and talking about interests, that why she wasn’t specific about it

[@dianana7371]

Yeah this girl could use some tips too to express herself better if that's the case she came off as not interested at all

[@nedzlich2629]

me:why am I single me:text like that girl also me:suprised Pikachu face 😮

[@delilahcarrasco858]

LMAOOO I FELT THIS

[@jane_softy]

AHAHHHAHA

[@sky_3023]

Quality content as usual 👏👏👏 And since we live in a world where texting is a big part of our lives this vid is so relevant and useful!

[@straycursor5562]

love the content man! I really do hope you keep up this type of stuff and not get fully pulled into the reactions on your channel. I noticed that so many new youtubers just do what gets views but I geniuenly enjoy the advice and real aspects of your channel.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I’m ending the teenybopper reactions. Gonna react to only quality for now on. 🙏🏻

[@moosikal]

great video. Love the breakdown. You have so much more substance than other dating coaches

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks Keenan.

[@xander9460]

I like to use both open and closed ended questions depending on the response I'm looking for. Both are great. Both just do different things. Use them appropriately.

[@anthonyr.1568]

I agree 100%. Anthony's closed-ended Qs were meant to bring visual playfulness into the conversation. But open-ended Qs are important to get the convo going and get to know the person better/reveal yourself. Also, Anthony assumed the girl would give a personal reply to the closed-ended Q ("No, I don't dance, I rather read books") which she might not ("No, I don't"......).

[@ghostcookiie7097]

Haha I just read your video description and you’re quite literally the real life Hitch like the one Will Smith Played in the movie. 👌🏽😂

[@gabygaray7304]

Love your advice always ❤️ so simple yet profound.

[@dr.plague5690]

bruh you are such a good and positive gy thats makes me want to hang out with you

[@beatricesophiayounga3889]

It's the first time I'm seeing this format and I wasn't ready for the intro ahahahaha lol I had water in my mouth and I spit it out

[@AnthonyRecenello]

What did you think of the show? I’m looking for feedback

[@beatricesophiayounga3889]

@@AnthonyRecenello It's really good! I just wasn't ready for the intro ahahaha it was funny

[@beatricesophiayounga3889]

@@AnthonyRecenello It's good! I really enjoyed it. I've learned how to be more interesting via text and that's cool. Just... I wasn't ready for the intro since you were talking about serious stuff ahahah

[@MrHimanshun]

_You are like this amazing older brother that sheds wisdom, may I ask this, how to remember all this stuff. I know this comes with practice, but how does a newbie go about it??_

[@AnthonyRecenello]

One step at a time lil bro

[@MrHimanshun]

@@AnthonyRecenello okay makes sense

[@mistpillar27]

BEST VIDEO SO FARRRR !!! I LOVE IT !!! So simple & straight to the point

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Woot woot

[@andresmoscoso9538]

The friend zone seems to be more safe than going out these days lol 😆

[@kumoi1709]

This is making me realize it's mainly the other person I'm currently talking to who's bad at texting with me after an exhausting journey of trying to figure out what I did wrong lol I need him to learn how to f-ing TALK

[@MrGuyshon]

What is the best way to become more playful when talking ?

[@silvianajones4421]

I am learning so much from this video thank you! I am looking forward to seeing more videos of this kind!

[@chiconapeacefulpath]

Your shirt in this video is amazing! ❤❤❤

[@carlosvaltierres2762]

This is really great man! Keep the good work and hope you can do more videos likes this one!

[@TheMysteriousRiddler]

Hey Anthony, I am curious Have you ever planned to make videos on relationship tips?

[@ri8900]

im so sorry to bring this here because i know it’s unrelated to this video, but i wanted to wholeheartedly apologise for the behaviour of ‘larries’ in response to your previous video. the way fans reacted was absolutely out of order and im truly so, so sorry you had to deal with it. you were completely respectful, even in reaction to a ship which is in my opinion, ridiculous. non larries like myself are extremely sympathetic to you at this time. again, im so sorry, and hope you are well.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻

[@arianagomez2390]

thisss isss amaziiiiii nggg

[@timdashwood3354]

This is such a good video! Makes me realise I need to work on my text game!

[@ayushvarshney98]

please more video like that please sir you are the greatest i ever see thank you

[@nzabarznji6920]

I really enjoy watching your videos and how you analyze things has helped me a lot thank you so much

[@sarahx7902]

Hey, do you have advice for getting back into dating? How do you stop finding everyone a disappointment because they’re not THAT person?

[@alexiswhelan1420]

gonna start sending guys on tinder a link to ur videos

[@madkillerz007]

is that... the KSP hanger tune in the background? niiice

[@joshuactaylor]

Really enjoyed this!

[@gumcyanide6499]

i loved watching this. please do more.

[@meg2282]

This is so helpful!

[@erso2593]

anthony show some of your real conversations plssss 😂

[@belnerearg]

Jajaja, the music is great, makes me wanna dance.

[@shannonbowling7215]

One of your best. Thanks for taking care of our Texas guys. Awfully good with college age Professor. I'm just saying...

[@parkermax387]

hey I just wanted to hear how you are. I saw your post on what some of the Larry shippers did. it's not okay and I'm really sorry that it happened. you have the right to say what you said even if some of us don't have the same opinion as you. there is no excuse for what happened. I just hope in the future that we can all have our own opinions without getting any threats. and plz people TPWK no matter what. again I apologize for what happened. and I hope you are well

[@veronicag4593]

What did they do??

[@bi_saster]

what did they do?

[@DiegoToxicBlue]

Great video!

[@DiegoToxicBlue]

Damn thank you for liking my comment ! You should 100% check out a musician/rapper named Saint JHN, the way he interacts with women is fascinating, you won’t regret it! Thanks

[@ammarkashif53]

Amazing video. Please make more like this man!

[@mariemargreiter8589]

Dang I’m so curious how it would be to text with you... Like I can’t imagine your style of texting and you must be hella good at it

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Eh it’s a little idiotic 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Nico-vr1kx]

Is it better to send audios instead of texting? Like a voice message

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Not better or worse but different. Do what feels good to you.

[@travis6694]

Hey man voice texting is way more reliable. At least personally I’ve had way more girls be surprised by the voice message because to them that shows interest. That you are intentional and getting to know them. Just the fact they can hear your voice brings them a bit closer to you. Hope that helps.

[@kristi-anngustin6958]

San Antonio!

[@sahma2217]

Can you do a dating expert vid on rudy pankow and madison bailey??

[@interstellarastronaut712]

* inserts funniest comment

[@stumbling]

* inserts inappropriate amount of laughter

[@tanonymous3678]

Thank you for your guidance and advise. 100k next month?

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I’m trying

[@elora512]

Coming from a Chinese Buddhist family, his background with the red lights and fire reminds me of the alter for incense sticks and praying 😂

[@katrin6388]

can u do a video on how to meet (decent) men besides apps and how to get approached more often?

[@chossenone9508]

go to the forest u would find alot of the out there 🙄😅

[@goddess117A]

It’s weird to see this broken down. I just do this naturally. It makes me wonder if people have scripts in their heads that stop them from communicating freely.

[@TheTheawesomeguy35]

No it’s a little something called social anxiety and overthinking which can really impede someones presence (in person and over text) so if you don’t have that, you can be really present and communicate freely as you said

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes ur what we call a natural. But also, one of the most nerve wracking situations is the blank text screen when you’re about to text your crush for the first time.

[@goddess117A]

@@AnthonyRecenello I guess I've always had the attitude what do I have to lose by being myself over text? There's always more fish in the sea, as cliche as that sounds. I've never had a problem expressing myself through writing, but I used to get really shy in social situations. Then, I realized it was just a bunch of beliefs about myself and other people causing me to feel that way. I looked for proof that those things weren't true and stopped comparing myself to others. Once I let go of those beliefs it was like a veil on my personality was lifted. I was never really shy; I was just believing stuff that wasn't true. For some reason, it surprises me that the same thing can happen with text messaging. I suspect all text anxiety would disappear if the person asked themselves what they were actually afraid of and realized all of those thoughts just aren't true.

[@megfoleycox6368]

please do a video on Theo James' charm

[@celestiakock7207]

I dig your t shirt

[@emiliaengland2089]

I would one thousand percent suggest doing Lil Huddy and Charlie on dating coach reacts

[@lmichaelhuang3]

Why is the backround music the same as in Kerbal Space Program lol!??

[@isabellad3980]

Can you pleaseeee react to Joshua Bassett and Olivia Rodrigo singing together or some more compilations because Olivia even made a song called Gross and it describes Josh PERFECTLY!

[@fatybouu]

YESSSSS !!!! Please :-)

[@miyuden4118]

I mean if someone calls his biggest achievement of the day surviving. that would kill my interest completely... Unless she's a extreme sportswoman. Skydiving or some shit.

[@isabellabarrossales7532]

I’m extremely sorry for all the hate you got on the Larry video, you do an amazing job!!!!!

[@BobMyrul]

Yeah what happen to that video?

[@isabellabarrossales7532]

Bobo Gilmoro Bobo Gilmoro He took it down because of Larries hating on him, I’m a Larrie and I personally don’t see much in the interview he analyzed too

[@PABZINDAHOUSE]

Can u react to henry cavill and freya allan everyone thinks they fancy each other but hes like 20 years older than her plus she looks like a kid so its wierd.

[@shodowhawk]

My dude got them skull candies

[@nelcyponce5377]

Did you delete the LARRY STYLINSON video????

[@PromiseToLoveU4eve4]

I think he did. I literally just watched it and then it finished and I was trying to read the comments and it wasn't loading so I refreshed the page and it said the video was private.

[@boblester8641]

What makes you the expert

[@Tarotwithviper]

But what about when you approach someone but then they guide the conversation and keep it going even though they take several hours to reply🥴

[@divinesdior]

Can You do JJ and Kie from outerbanks

[@miraal.b]

Hi, don't want to offend in any way but I'm just wondering what happened to your Larry Stylinson video and if it was deleted, how come?

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I was receiving threats. I posted about it today.

[@miraal.b]

@@AnthonyRecenello oh well thank you so much for clearing that up with me and I'm very sorry about the threats you received

[@BobMyrul]

@@AnthonyRecenello shit. That is so messed up. Im disgusted by their toxicity. I hope you're alright. But i really hope you reupload it, that vid is really good. Shame that your hard work is wasted.

[@summerraine9449]

Hey, could you do a video on Miami the Kid? He is a KZbinr and there is something about the way that he talks to girls that is mesmerizing, but I can't put my finger on what exactly it is.🤔

[@wickettheewok7356]

Y’all what do I do when I get left on read

[@AnthonyRecenello]

You move on

[@unwanaudosen8806]

What about if she's enjoying the conversation and then she just stops being enthusiastic

[@rotisseriechickenlover-jb4cc]

A lot of your other videos talked about how being authentic is one of the most important things in building a relationship, but the things you suggested to say in this video are things I wouldn't be saying normally, and it seems not genuine and seeking a particular response. Can anyone explain this? @Anthony Recenello

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yup! Authentic for me is diff for others. Also, authentic doesn’t have to mean “factual”. It means in alignment with who you are. That’s why humor is about saying opposite of who you are but it comes across authentic.

[@rotisseriechickenlover-jb4cc]

@@AnthonyRecenello thanks for your response! I appreciate it

[@kayligo]

He insults her and doesn’t ask her on a real date...honestly I would have blocked and deleted him.

[@alexia2740]

Please react to Finn Wolfhard and Millie Bobby Brown!

[@enricferrera8106]

Can I return to the conversations I screwed with all my new nowledge? Xddd

[@andrew-ll4un]

12:57 I though romance was fiction. I might be trippin tho

[@asi5269]

Why did you delete the larry react video ?

[@theatomicstuff6101]

I had a girl text me wanting pictures of my socks

[@beafoxxylady]

Sounds like she was trolling lool

[@isaiahgurule5031]

I don’t know, you can tell a lot about a man by his socks 🧦

[@03jay562]

🔥

[@AnthonyRecenello]

funniest comment gets pinned

[@fcchannel6162]

no jokes but i wondering about your classic charm show i was wonder can the next one be dennis rodman if you look at his dating history wow madonna carmen electra.

[@DiogoGaming2]

My coment is Not funny but can you make a video about that "friends dynamic" that you talk a lot on David Dobrik videos???? I think that is very close to my type of "game" if you want to call it like that xD

[@elisef3241]

Anthony: funniest comment gets pinned Also Anthony: *pinns own comment* Man this is the sorta confidence I strive to have haha

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yeah true and he’s coming up again

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Wish I could pin this

[@ValentinaIbero]

Why did you make the Larry's video reaction private?

[@lalalalaaAa123]

They’re young so I get it, but if a grown man called me “dry” over text (why is he texting instead of calling, anyways?), I’d block him IMMEDIATELY 😂

[@TheTheawesomeguy35]

Most people don’t call nowadays wynnie 💀

[@lalalalaaAa123]

@@TheTheawesomeguy35 My husband sure did when he started pursuing me 2 years ago! But he's a business guy, they may be a little old fashioned. We're 27.

[@nicolelim3796]

@@lalalalaaAa123 It's probably an age thing. I'm 16 and if a guy called me to have an early convo like that I'd think he was a serial killer lmao

[@lalalalaaAa123]

Nicole Lim Oh wow that’s actually super interesting! I mean, whatever works, as long as he’s not disrespecting/insulting you 😂

[@37thraven]

Wynnie M You're right It's never a good idea to insult someone (vs fun teasing). It's hard to tell the difference by text. But to be fair, if I got responses like@@TheTheawesomeguy35 did, and I'm making a genuine attempt to connect and talk about interesting things like Anthony suggested, I would assume either 1) they're not interested in me, 2) they don't want to talk, or 3) they're an *uninteresting* person, which would kill my attraction. I get that some people don't like long texts, or can be shy in person. But if you've got nothing to say and nothing you're interested in, why would I want to get to know you? Adonis' crush: "Watching some show".... like *bare minimum* say what show you're watching. If you don't want to talk, just say you're busy

[@professorkhan5315]

"What amazing world changing achievement did you accomplish today?" is such a trash open lol. Put them on the spot. And isn't something you'd say naturally. Just sounds so stilted and weird.

[@dianana7371]

I liked it, it's an original fun way to ask "how was your day". People are honestly reading a bit too much into it

[@idzv9]

Can you please react to CAMREN ( Camila cabello & Lauren jauregui)..

[@diegocloroxx]

It's hard to be funny when you are trying to do so

[@stefanopaolini6117]

Unless you are just having fun yourself. Write things that you find funny, she will follow ;) or not, but probably in that case you wouldn't have had fun with her anyway, no matter how hot she is, so no loss

[@diegocloroxx]

@@stefanopaolini6117 Thanks for the advice! But I was talking about Anthony's comment that said he was going to pin the funniest comment lol

[@emmaduchateau7753]

When are you gonna do braddison?! (Bryce Hall and Addison Rae).

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Not sure.

[@emmaduchateau7753]

Anthony Recenello oh ok!

[@darknostalgia2668]

Isn't Adonis Drakes son!!!!!???