DATING GHANAIAN MEN: IN AMERICA VS. GHANA| CHIT CHAT GRWM| RETWIST FAUX LOCS| by Gabby Mack

[@tlove2996]

Your voice reminds me of Remy Ma. Love the makeup. Simple yet beautiful. 👑

[@tamikahedin3960]

Exactly!!! She reminds me so much of Remy Ma!

[@ninaaikins3283]

Definitely

[@kaeteedwards7274]

I literally just commented this.

[@tlove2996]

@@kaeteedwards7274 confirmation👍🏾✊🏾

[@isaiahdonkor6177]

if you want to know how Ghanaian man is romantic touch his woman and you will know from there, our woman are so special showing out is our weakness,we have to keep it to protect you for life, that is where the family and tradition comes in, so my dear don;t worry if not show to you outside, it's still in our heart you're dear to us

[@SonjaS222]

😍

[@whatisthetruth.8793]

Remember to Africa Americans women it always about worldly and bodily pleasures. They are coming from broken families so married is nothing to them, they have their 3 , 4 . 5 kids fathers.

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

@@whatisthetruth.8793 That is derogatory and sterotypical about African-Americans. 😕😒😒

[@ms.d302]

Isaiah, you do realize she's a woman & you're a man. This is from HER perspective.

[@BlessedBeyondBelief83]

@@whatisthetruth.8793 stop stereotyping a group of people. Maybe those were the type of women you attracted

[@estherserwaah4245]

Hello my sister I'm a Ghanaian woman our culture doesn't permit as to do romantic affection in public, but one thing I knew, Ghanaian men know's how to takes good care of their ladies that's for sure

[@Manatti06]

Thank you for posting this

[@D_RanD]

@Fidel Castro ...it's never true. Our women are really decent and are not into Whites.

[@hakimvanadams]

@Fidel Castro haha I don't know where you got that but that's absolutely not true at all.

[@kindomofghana]

​@Fidel Castro So as a grown adult, you have been told that Ghanaian women in Ghana only marry whites in a country where whites don't even make up 0.017% of the population. Common sense didn't inform you that, that can't be true. You needed confirmation from a youtube comment section first. Let me help you identify what this is; it isn't that you have been told anything, but it is rather a figment of your own imagination, born out of a prejudice for people you consider "the others," in other words Xenophobia. It may not be maliciously intended from your part but, that is what it is.

[@johncarter6781]

@Fidel Castro no it's not

[@BDB-ji1ui]

Ghanian men focused on the Money matters more than actual love or romantic. Because Ghana is very competitive when it comes to Money or, doing business. So, most of the Ghanian are always in competition with one another. When Money matter going well with Ghanian Men they will love but when Money matters is going in the wrong direction, they will not focus on the love or, romantic more.

[@kiiza2886]

hahahahahahhahha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂how wish we could I could record because ma dying of laughters ahhahahaha that's the truth it's all African men not only Ghana

[@gb6041]

Because these days if you're a man and don't have money don't expect to have a beautiful woman. Puxxy is never free anywhere! Black women are always at the receiving end. They expect the man to pay for everything when you're dating left alone marriage. Always choose money first, then you can talk about women. THERE'S NOTHING CALLED, "LOVE IS NOT ABOUT MONEY". Women are out there looking for the highest bidder, period! Ask any Ghanaian woman the type of man she wants to marry or date, one of the answers would be "a man who can take care of me". What do you use to take care of a woman?

[@jonasnartey4227]

Interesting how African women try and dodge the money thing cover it with romance. The money thing is always hidden but if you don't have it you are in trouble with the African woman.

[@becky7637]

If he can’t be romantic then she shouldn’t let him even touch her and she shouldn’t show him any attention if he isn’t doing what she wants in return

[@regrich8795]

Man i met this Jamaican chic and the whole conversation was about money. No matter where a woman is from most get excited when it comes to money. Get your ass out there and make your own. I don't think love exists anymore it all about what you can do for me 👊👊

[@ebibimanntv3582]

Ghanaian men are the most romantic trust me... Buh it all depends on the character of the girl.... I’ve always loved cooking myself so cooking for my girl won’t even a problem for me... #We_are_the_Best 🙌🏾🙏🏾✌🏾🍷🍾🥘

[@maameabena1458]

Apuu romantic where

[@ikemanassehbryn4041]

@@maameabena1458 maame ad3n😂😂😂 Na wo boyfriend no ny3 romantic anaa😆😂😂

[@vibeswithjules5895]

Then my Ghana man is different i guess cos he is a romantic and a good listener too

[@GabbyMack]

Shanty Royals that’s good! Keep him close sis

[@farminginafrica5220]

Will you Mary from Ghana

[@leopoldnguessan4639]

@@GabbyMack you're funny and very American

[@mariesascott506]

Definitely giving me Remy Ma vibes.

[@mysterygodhead9583]

I know why women keep on saying we (Ghanaian Men) are not romantic. We don't fake things up. As Bob Marley said, I am not the kind of guy who will bring you flowers everyday. And it not coincidence Bob Marley said that, because he trace his roots from Ghana.

[@GabbyMack]

Anonimoux Yaw Badu well maybe u can change that old mentality. Nothing wrong in giving your girl flowers. You might want to reconsider your mind set on romance!

[@frimptop.9813]

I always say this girl is still Americanise their rudeness and proudest behaviour the think they're better than African when you meet them. your not the only one who grow up in US . She sounds even like leisb

[@yawos9024]

I would tell my wife: 'Flowers is a European thing'. I will cook for you, give you massages, even wash your dross. I think the flower message is plastic.

[@natashaaddo3948]

You are so true I’m a Africa American (Caribbean) woman married to a Ghanaian man. Different culture.

[@lightoverdarkness3078]

You have amazing skin. You don't need foundation.

[@Jay-Kay-Buwembo]

Facts

[@Head_On]

Are you a RACIST? What is so special about her skin color? I wonder how much money you spend on your skin just to be admired

[@raiethefantibae]

I’m british born half Ghanaian. I’ve dated british born Ghanaians and Ghana born Ghanaians who live in the UK. My current boyfriend is Ghana born and bred, he lives in Ghana so its long distance. I prefer Ghana born and bred men; they tend to be more immersed in the culture (as you might expect). And i think i just like the fact that despite the fact that we come from the same culture, we still have such a big difference due to upbringing. You’re right, Ghanaian men aren’t romantic but they can try. My man likes to order things online for me and have it delivered to my house as a surprise, or he will order things online for our daughter. He’ll arrange video call dates, make plans for whenever i do go to Ghana etc. He tries, google is his best friend 😂 we speak as many times a day as possible between work. He knows I’m accustom to certain things being from the UK so will try to maintain those things and vice versa. Loved this video💞

[@GabbyMack]

That’s very sweet of him. Glad you found a good one. Still on a search!

[@raiethefantibae]

Gabby Mack you’ll find one hun, they’re out there🙏🏾

[@dan2000gh]

@@GabbyMack I just got home from a night shift here in AZ, though I am tired and need to get some sleep, I found myself glued to your videos because of how honest you present your experiences in Ghana. I returned from Ghana right before the lockdown. There is a sense of peace that you feel when you get to Ghana, but honestly, we still have work to do. Thanks for sharing these videos. I really will like to be a friend if you don't mind. My email is [e-mail]. Thanks.

[@ebonywhite6677]

I am so glad I came across this piece cuz I am currently dating and gentlemen from Ghana and I do question where is the communication skills and the romance now I have a better level understanding

[@adjowaacolatse4601]

Even people are exposed to western way of thinking, I always think it starts at home. If a man never see his mom and dad kiss, even though he saw it on tv, he isn't going to be Mr. Romantic.

[@lptinvestor1781]

Yeah........... And Gabby and the Sistas that agree with her don't take what I'm saying as a "knock" to American Black women because it's not. Having a Sister of my own I truly truly truly understand the Black American woman's pain so hear me out on what I'm saying. This video right here simply displays the 2 reasons why Black-on-Black marriage within the U.S. is going to become more & more "rare" as time goes on.......As a Black American Man I can tell you that it's not just Ghanaian men who are "controlling".....MOST men of African descent period are "controlling"......(me included). And this video just displays why more and more African Americans in the future will be marrying outside of our race OR outside of our country (which is the path that I'm on as I do most of my dating on Afro Introductions and will more than likely end up married to an African woman). So what's said in this video puts on full display what the 2-fold problem is between Black American Men & Women........... #1. Sistas fight allowing their Black man to be "in control" which just runs most Black American men away. And #2. The Sistas that DO allow their Black man to be "in control" find that WE FUCK IT UP COMPLETELY by stepping outside of our marriage to that submissive Sista and having sex with other women.....We use the control to our "sexual" advantage and then we make "excuses" as to why we did it......Well she got fat.....Well she was high energy in the bedroom in the first 5 months but over time she became boring......Well she used to cook & clean when we first started dating but she stopped doing that......Well I got tired of her not bringing any money to the table and I felt like I had to bust my butt just to keep the lights on.....We use ALL KINDS OF EXCUSES for our failure to keep it in our pants. That right there is the trap that MY OWN Sister fell into with her ex-husband. And there you have what the problem is between Black American Men and Black American Women which lends itself to Black Americans marrying either outside of our race OR outside of our country. White women, Latin women and Asian women have less of a problem allowing Brothers to be "in control" of the relationship, and White men, Latin men and Asian men have less of a problem dealing with "A strong black woman" so to speak. And like I said at the beginning, I don't blame Sistas for refusing to give up control because often enough when they do they get burned. And you want to hear the worst part??.....A White woman who was a co-worker of mine several years ago said something that I have NEVER forgotten.....Although her husband was White, her ex-boyfriend for several years was African American and although her entire crew of Karens were also married to White men.....she had about 5 or 6 White girlfriends, ALLLL of whom had dated Black men but all had ended up married to White men, they ALLLLLL shared the same consensus on 1 thing when it came to Brothers.....This entire crew of Karens shared the view that White men were MUCH MORE EASILY pu$$y-whipped than Black men.....MUCH MORE easily pu$$y-whipped, much easier to get along with, much less commitment phobic. And let's take it even a step further.....Based on the things told to me by my Sister and her girlfriends, Black women have figured that shyt out too!!.....Black women have picked up on the fact that White men are "much less particular" and much easier to satisfy than Brothers.....With a White man all the Sista has to do is feed him, fix him a glass of wine, run his bathwather, f--k him speechless, and she's free to come to bed with her bonnet on and everything and Chad is IN FOR THE NIGHT.....that Whiteboy ain't going NOWHERE.....Including my Sister and her girlfriends all of them shared that same consensus and viewpoint that this former White co-worker of mine had with her and her White girlfriends. This is just a sad reality among us in 2020......it's just the way it is.

[@boyprince6544]

I think this explains Y most of these sisters keep avoiding me!! Thnx

[@lptinvestor1781]

Being in control and being the dominant figure in a relationship or marriage is simply "innate" with most Black Men regardless of whatever country we come from. Some brothers are down for being henpecked and I definitely know a few that are....but MOST of us aren't.

[@tjones4495]

During this Black Life Matter Movement, you think it word go unnoticed calling Black Americans “AKATA”. The word Akata is a term of degradation, not a term of endearment. It is a divisive slur, and as a result it has caused the opposite of solidarity. It has contributed to the “Otherizing” of native Black Americans and has driven a wedge between those who use the word Akata and those who get called the word Akata.

[@legion1630]

so what does AKATA mean if its degrading..you didnt tell us the history and why it is degrading...

[@diamondrose775]

@@legion1630 it can also be a degrading slur and Americans do not like it.

[@ronnieg6497]

My boyfriend is from Accra Ghana. He is my soulmate. Plot twist. . He sends me money and does everything for me, great listener and shows so much affection. has a great job, and we will be together soon. My experience tho. My bf and I pray together and we talk about family. Ghana was interesting and beautiful in some areas. Also yes Ghanaian men can be a bit controlling but my bf is catching up with how I am, because he met his match. Lol

[@ronnieg6497]

The food was mostly healthy but weird dishes. It was an experience lol

[@Dee-dj1uv]

😂😂 boy i aint your mother line + the laughter is hilarious😂😂😂😂.

[@mikolohouse]

Where you stay in Africa determines your experience. Even in Ghana, if you live in remote areas, you get backwards experience, you live in city centre, you get city centre experience

[@kaeteedwards7274]

Energy is on 10! Your voice puts me in the mind set of Remy Ma.

[@asmara4353]

Thanks for video! Very informative. And i would like to say that there are many different types of african american women. And there are many of us who have been raised in subcommunities here who have would love to be submissive and give our man all he needs and wants. Many african american women raised in these subcultures were raised with different value system than other americans but u wont find us out in open. We are with our community. So as i read comments i would say dont judge all of american women the same. Our variety of character is just as diverse as our variety in looks. ❤

[@ajoaayebo6752]

Am born and raised ghanaian same as my man. Its opposite when it comes to ook. I dislike cooking. He does more of the cooking. Hes fante so he good at cooking rich. Food. Its depends in who you meet but for the most part, what you said about cooking is true. I wouldent want to e someones cooks especially if am also bringing money home thats why i chose who understands my want and vice versa.

[@kennethsecrease8417]

You look and sound like Remy Ma, I mean this in a good and beautiful way.

[@sammynoble120]

Lovely voice

[@tinahouston9877]

I just escaped a ghanian man Very jealous, mean, cheater and a liar I thought we were in a relationship he just married a Tanzanian woman 25 years younger than him

[@yusefshakur669]

U seem like a good woman my queen

[@tinahouston9877]

Whats so funny?

[@tinahouston9877]

Far from it

[@jamesstory364]

My ex gave up the rights to all 6 of her children and moved in with a Ghanaian man that was a co worker at Walmart, we haven't heard from her in 3 years

[@tinahouston9877]

@@jamesstory364 that is crazy!!!!

[@nicholasgrant300]

Love how u put this video together and your attitude makes it more fun.

[@sherrysearcy1608]

Boy I’m not your mother...for real boy bye 👋 Everything you said is true. I’ve dated Ghanaian guys from Ghana and Ghanaians here in the states. I do love Ghanaian men.

[@GabbyMack]

😂😂 right!!! Yes I love them too can't stay away

[@MissActionJackson]

Gabby, I so enjoy your videos. I am much older (55), but you bring out the youth in me. I am going to shop for some of the makeup you share on this video... and I am going to begin making myself look pretty just because. As far as men are concerned, I have such a strong, direct, and shoot-from-the-hip disposition. Only a very tiny, small, minuscule number of men can deal with me. LOL You are amazing! Stay true to yourself and continue to enjoy your life! Life is short, my love! Continue creating these memories!

[@GabbyMack]

Thank you 🙏🏽 treat yourself & look good

[@ube4me114]

What do says about yourself in Ghana?

[@foreverlove3002]

After seeing some negative comments on Ghana men,I lose hope in my Ghana man though I think he's a nice person

[@queenesther3471]

It's up to you dear It's their experience and not your experience Your happiness and not the happiness so think wisely

[@juliencartwright4218]

Beautiful before, & beautiful after! xx yu got it girl! xx

[@marteionthenet8234]

I thought this had good balance and yes, we're poor communicators, in general. Thanks for sharing and hope you meet Mr. Right in the near future; Ghanaian, or otherwise. (Every attribute other than one's faith, or religious belief is negotiable, right? I know we all have our lists; both men and women, but Challey, life happens). Will keep a look out for you when I'm able to visit GH again under a less restrictive travel regime. I'd love a selfie with you, if possible.

[@D_RanD]

My most beautiful blogger. I'm hurt I couldn't meer you in Ghana. Love u

[@ayeshac2813]

You are sooooo correct! It can be really sticky and frustrating!

[@ronnieg6497]

Love the look. Slayyyyyyy❤❤❤❤❤

[@remyedouard497]

No, stop it's not about the money or material things. It's about love, caring and attention..you have a change of heart for your people and your culture, you also have a western mentality, please leave them alone.

[@whatisthetruth.8793]

Plus Africa culture is always about family, these sisters of mine are coming from broken families in America, all they are always looking is worldly pleasures .

[@BlessedBeyondBelief83]

@@whatisthetruth.8793 stop with the stereotyping. Everyone doesn't come from broken homes. Maybe they just don't like you🙄

[@whatisthetruth.8793]

@@BlessedBeyondBelief83 haha ! Real !!! I am not the only one with such experiences with our sisters in US to be honest i have countless examples from many people i know . My only intention was to remind my sister before thinking to take out a speck out of your brother eyes remove log first out of your own eyes then you will see clearly a speck in your brother eyes. And true love is always come with sacrifice without sacrifice there is no true love . It you meet some has list of criteria of what kind of man or woman is looking for then she /he is not looking for true love .

[@gidigod1618]

That is your opinion and what you think and not all Ghanaians are the way with the same life style same goes to the ones being born over there as well.

[@chancemiller3263]

I love when your accent comes out. Do you girl!

[@edwinakwabena7284]

1st thing,their country food is their first favorites ever. 2nd thing,as for naming a child in America,they want to name the child their mother and father names,but if you the woman from another country,they don’t want to allow the woman to give the name she want for the child. 3th thing,dating or married to a Ghanaian man,I don’t know about the others,but the one am with,he has so much ego for himself not romantic unless he has alcohol in his system before he be messing around that is so wrong. Although we both from different countries but at least show that she important as well don’t just think about yourself.

[@williecox7377]

What about a long distance relationship with a Ghana woman if you stay in the USA

[@FreedomQuests]

You have been Americanized for sure....

[@GabbyMack]

I’m American lol born and raised in both America and Ghana

[@FreedomQuests]

@@GabbyMack ohhh ok I see

[@ewessyo]

Next time you travel to Ghana, do a worksop for Ghanian guys on modern dating and what a young woman expect in a man. They don't know how to be romantic, because there is no word for romantic in African language. And don't forget we think in words.

[@isaacs2539]

@rdokoye Thank you for your brilliant and persuasive argument. Africans should discover for themselves what works for them. There are too many pontificators who think they know and understand Africans better than Africans themselves.

[@jonasnartey4227]

Hey Gabby, have you had a bad experience with a Ghanaian man in the past?

[@GabbyMack]

Jonas Nartey yes I have

[@jonasnartey4227]

@@GabbyMack such a shame, you were soo unlucky because Ghanaian men general are calm and cool. You have to take tribes into consideration next time which informs behaviour and culture

[@GabbyMack]

Jonas Nartey yea but I haven’t stopped talking to Ghanaian men. Couple of bad experiences don’t scare me

[@jonasnartey4227]

Nice to hear that. I will be in Ghana soon from Europe, and will be on standby to help you with assessment of any man. I'm from Accra so well qualified!

[@GabbyMack]

Jonas Nartey lol I hear thank you!

[@quintinasonnie]

Obsessed with the faux loc tutorial

[@LizzyYeboahTV]

I enjoyed watching this, the hair,makeup and topic was on point.

[@GabbyMack]

Awwww thanks cuz 🥰

[@GDanso]

Oo I can’t wait to watch this lol

[@ube4me114]

What happens?

[@greatsalangie9950]

How do I find a Ghanaian living in America

[@chancemiller3263]

Question for the ladies: whats the difference between dating American men vs Ghana men. Attitude, Romance, money, sex??

[@codjoeify]

Those Ghanaian women saying we're not romantic, are they romantic themselves. It takes two to play.

[@johncarter6781]

I know my queen from Ghana is and she's here with me in the U.S. facts

[@codjoeify]

@@johncarter6781 Good for you

[@johncarter6781]

Yeah you right it's a major difference but I love Africa women my girl is natural

[@murkcash]

Great Video. Maybe you can do a video Ghanian women vs American women their differences and their similarities..Thanks!

[@pamissah16]

Very Educating and interacting subjects. I think you spoke about me . I am going to try what you suggested because I work a lot and do not travel or go on vacation, it's been 22 years.

[@Crob100]

Here for the dating piece 😉

[@FreddyWill]

Happy Birthday! And yes, you are absolutely beautiful! ...The Chinese love Chinese cuisine, Indians love Indian cuisine. It is good to ponder on what defines a culture. Is it the language, the food, the clothing, the religion, or the overall system of people? Or is there something more than these primary aspects of this domain? Do we have to follow every tradition or modify them? If so, what are the guiding principles? How do you maintain who you are as you evolve into a modern version of your core? Continue the videos. One Love!

[@dqmiles]

My BF is not romantic lol he can be real cute sometimes. But if I don’t text or call him first we don’t talk. I’m big on communication in a relationship. He said he would work on it bc he knows he doesn’t lol we shall see. He definitely mentioned the guys in Ghana are controlling and he does not want to be that and he is completely the most PASSIVE African I have ever met 🙄 I completely agree on they can do BETTER but that’s American and African

[@GabbyMack]

Its just a matter of effort and putting in the work for your partner. We can all unlearn some things and learn as well!

[@christchild1711]

I really appreciate, you not loading on a bunch of NONSENSE CONCELER. Ladies its so unnecessary, This is simple beautiful makeup

[@ClarenDon2024]

Great vids sis...you know you don’t need makeup coz you look better with it but not that much better

[@rhyndawatson4173]

Your makeup is very nice, brings out your natural beauty, not overdone, cute outfit

[@nevadasharp8408]

thanks Gabby..my friend lives in Ghana the Volta Region..she says she works for a gold mining company..she is always asking me for money..she says she is an American living in a compound that her company supplies..is she a scammer? I've sent money for food, and gifts she received from me.. health issues are just that..what kind of compound is it and she says she makes $550.00 a month..she is white as am I..are there gold mining companies that houses their employees?? in the Volta region..near a beach? any beaches?? thanks Gabby..I need your help..stay safe and please answer.. sincerely, Nevada

[@ikemanassehbryn4041]

Hi my name is Ike and am a Ghanaian. I think she's a scam 😀 because there is no gold mining company at the volter region for now and I haven't heard any

[@diamondbrown493]

Definitely scam

[@brittanydove8063]

Your so right I’m married to a Ghanaian man and he try’s to be in control all the time and we bump heads and want you to cook all the time they do like to be in control but nooo sir

[@cheyennesutton2055]

Ms. Gabby, your skin is beautiful and you have a perfect face! Thanks for sharing, sister.

[@GabbyMack]

Cheyenne Sutton thank you 😊

[@etteyabena9186]

chale everything u sed some are true n others not entirely everyone , so we ll learn ask u sed .I made friends with AAs during afrochella lastyear.

[@indigoearthangel888]

You are really pretty. Lol why does this remind me of the old 'Love Connection' dating game show from the 90s.

[@terrypayton6749]

Gabby do you date in full relationship with Black African American Men versus African Men or Ghanian or African Men.Who is the better lover for you and who gets you to your full potential as a Ghanian women living in America.

[@GabbyMack]

Since college I have only dated African men and I believe they get me. Not all of them but at least we understand the culture and its expectations. Love my African brothers, a few just need to be more open minded when it comes to love & dating

[@terrypayton6749]

Ok why not Black American Men we look for a women who is educated versus not, employed vs not employed loving and giving vs not working or doing something positive. It is belief some African women believe on whodo, I thinks It is believed more to bring or keep oposite sex to you for love, sex, relationships.

[@terrypayton6749]

how Gabby to contact you. [e-mail]

[@nthomas2163]

Would you date a white American man👨 ?

[@UniqueBeautie]

Happy Bday Sis. My Bday is 7.22. 🎂🎉🎊🎈🍧🎉🎊🎈🎂🍧🎉🎊🎈🎂💖😁

[@johncarter6781]

If you change I would be pissed because I have big sister's you remind of them I just smile

[@serwahnana9322]

Hi! where are your lashes from?

[@GabbyMack]

Serwah Nana they are “Ardell Wispies 700”

[@gb6041]

The fake ones that makes you look like dead body?

[@ohreally404]

Did I just see the words “hair moose”?

[@geraldfontain4652]

Please try a Haitian guy you will love it.

[@jaymesmensah]

I love the Ghanaian accent at 18:25.... 😂😂😂

[@GabbyMack]

😂😂 thanks

[@BernardKOsei]

Your looking so beautiful but still Ghana is Africa and lifestyle is far different from America please note that

[@edwardowusu-twum2275]

Wow 🤩 great beauty skills! Thanks for educating us

[@FreddyWill]

Okay, by that logic, if you are Indian or Mexican, you should not want Indian or Mexican cuisine. Do Americans, Arabs or Europeans love to eat none American, Arabic, or European cuisine? Okay, so, only the African man should give up his traditional food even when he is with an African woman. If men should not wait for their woman to cook for him every day. She will cook when she feels like cooking and when she does, if she feels like it, she will invite the man to come and eat. But he should not wait for her to cook their lunch or dinner. How should her family eat? Alright, for the sake of equality, let's agree that he should also cook dinner. The Ghanian men should agree to give up Jollof rice, Waakye, Banku and tilapia, Red-red, Fufu, and goat light soup, Tuo Zaafi, Kenkey, and fried fish, Kelewele, Omo tuo or Boiled yam or plantain with Kontomire stew. I'm not a Ghanian, and I love to eat those dishes. Ghanian men are "controlling," "unromantic," and rarely take women like herself out on dates. Arent those things an expectation that she has of them? Is she expecting the Ghanian men to do specific things while not expecting her to do particular things? My question is if she does not believe that there should be any expectations on his side, then why does she have any expectations? It does not sound fair to African men. Seems like we are expected to give up our culture, food, etc., and embrace that of another. What will an African man be, if he complies with these expectations? Is he still a Ghanian man?

[@charlesakan-man7859]

To an African woman in the continent and diaspora, money is romance. You can be romantic as hell if you are not rich or well to do they don't value your romantic gestures, period !!!

[@yawos9024]

These days, they say: 'God creates, money maintains'.

[@Kinngdela]

I live here and there so I understand what you saying

[@svetlana5485]

Don't fall for those western romantism standards please. There are more plastic- made fish in the sea than the real ones. Can't wait to go back to my dear west Africa and meet my future hubby!

[@PortiaSenade]

Enjoyed this 🔥🔥

[@sherrysearcy1608]

No man will ever control me.. That will never work..🙄

[@Stclairebeauty]

According to the African culture.. You are not ready for marriage if you keep that mentality

[@yawos9024]

No man wants a woman who will not submit.

[@johncarter6781]

Girl I ain't your father 😂😂🤣🤣

[@senaunfiltered]

You look gorgeous in those glasses! 💕

[@GabbyMack]

Sena Unfiltered thank you 😊

[@ube4me114]

She looks like you

[@senaunfiltered]

@@ube4me114 she does? 😊

[@ube4me114]

😘🌷

[@ube4me114]

are you African american one?

[@empressnyamvula3691]

We all attract the kind of partners that R on U frequency

[@chimakalu41]

So you are an American or a Ghanaian born in America?

[@lawman4272]

Hey, Gabby. I thought I was commenting on your response about Ghana is hard.

[@johncarter6781]

I had to let boys in America see this video and read comments now they see what men in America deal with and run away 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@jonahyahwehseeker4555]

If I date you and you and I love each other will you or I pay for the dowry?

[@RootedInRoyalty]

Sis, Im preparing to relocate to Ghana. Im a Cosmetologist & Massage Therapist. Is there a full service salon there you can recommend to work in?

[@GabbyMack]

Diamond Israel hey sis! Yes there’s a few. Becca’s spa is nice I have to find the other ones can’t remember there name right now but I’ll get back to u. Message me on Instagram @thegabbymack

[@RootedInRoyalty]

@@GabbyMack ok Sis!!! Thank you so much!!

[@Ghosststar]

Your wages will be Low Speaking as a Black American who does business in Africa you best come here with a Mindset of Entrepreneur/Ownership there are reasons Africans Go abroad

[@gb6041]

@@Ghosststar I agree with your comment. Better to work for yourself than going there to be employed

[@Ghosststar]

@@gb6041 🤝🏽✊🏾💪🏾🖤

[@johncarter6781]

My girl from Ghana I'm from Arkansas the dirty south no you can't cook every day I hate that shit

[@TiffanyWilliams-d5t]

This was a good video…: most people probably getting the wrong African men but they are interesting to me. It doesn’t matter what the culture is, a good person is a good person… I’ve dated Nigerian, love the balling and the lifestyle and he’s a kind hearted person, sex was okay but Alden’s marry him. Dated Ghanaian, he adores my culture, I’m Jamaican and he would give me the world. Very romantic, and communication wasn’t awful…distance crumble us. Married a Nigerian, giving me the world! Never tell me no…. Liberia can’t communicate and he was ok…. He was cute tho and the sex was fantastic 😅 one thing I love about African men they don’t care how much a woman makes, and ladies please don’t spend ur money on an African man hoping he’s gonna love u for that….. that’s like a reverse of culture for him. If he’s not taking care of you, leave him he doesn’t want u. They all spend money on me and spoil me even the wild ones. But maybe it’s me… cuz I’m Jamaican so I love to cook and sex and I was raise to respect men and that they are the head of the house… I’m also cultured to believe that good women should be modest and decent so something’s don’t bother me as long as ur paying the bills.

[@TiffanyWilliams-d5t]

* couldn’t

[@SuperKwame1]

watching all your videos.

[@johncarter6781]

This video is so funny to me American women 😂🤣🤣

[@geraldfontain4652]

BEAUTIFUL I REALLY LOVE YOUR VIDEO

[@ube4me114]

Yes we can, I'm citizen from gh 😘🌷

[@johncarter6781]

I'm a master chief she still wants to do all the cooking like really that's not how my father raised me

[@yawos9024]

African men show affection by giving stuff. We are not control freaks. Your woman should on your side as you are on her side. If someone does not like your man, he or she is an 'enemy' to both of you.

[@stanleyglover5534]

Multi talented Gabby , good insight into the overlapping cultures of the Ghanaian diaspora male and the Ghana based male . ❤️

[@GabbyMack]

stanley glover thanks 🙏🏽

[@edwardowusu-twum2275]

You made me laugh 😆 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 our mind is only rooted on money and making something back home 🏡 not easy ooo Gabby.🤣🤣🤣🤣ain’t your mother y’a right. Cook cook cook🤣🤣🤣

[@ayokunleisrael8792]

Hi I am Nigerian, and that is why these "akata" African American women with these attitudes are all left on the shelf, they would never learn.

[@soothingrelaxation.sleepan3224]

I think you need a white man. Not to be disrespectful, but I think a Ghanaian guy or any African guy is not good for you. The reason why most African marriages last long is because the ladies dont act like men and bossy as your statements come across. Just a sister advice, I think you will be best served with a white man wherever you're in the US. My question is, if you dont cook for your man, are you going to cook for your kids on a daily basis or you're going to feed them with junk food? You seem a bit over- americanized and that takes away some of your marketability. No African guy marries just for your beauty, money, or what you can provide in bed but your character and how well you match and that includes holding the family down with some good food when friends come around on a superbowl night. They may date or marry you for those out of lust or immediate gains but your character and how you manage the family will get you the marriage longevity points. Many Akata people even think; "The way to a man's heart is through their stomach." Good luck in your Americanized expedition to finding this Ghanaian or African man with this ego.

[@gb6041]

Good comment If you aren't my mother to be cooking, am I your FATHER to be wasting my money on you too? Asking you to cook is just one of several tests

[@johncarter6781]

@@gb6041 😂🤣🤣 only in America

[@johncarter6781]

Don't date American women and I'm from America and my fiance is from Ghana she cooks all the time best move I ever made

[@gb6041]

@@johncarter6781 good for you, I've had enough of them so I'm going to just hang out with women without any commitment. Freedom!!

[@GabbyMack]

It so sad how lots of you have the wrong impression of me but then again I really don't care. I clearly said in the video that I do not mind cooking for my man meaning boyfriend. he's not my husband for me to being marriage duties for him. I can and will hold my family down don't worry about that. I was taught and raise well by an African women. Wanting my African men to try more and do more is not wrong. We all adjust and compromise when in a relationship we don't need to follow the old ways because I refuse to be in a miserable marriage for the sake of pleasing family and society. and that is most African marriages because the women wish the men will do more period. Whether you want to deny it or not thats your choice I know what I want and I know I will get it.

[@naadedeiarmah6455]

🇬🇭 Ghanaian 🇬🇭 men are never romantic...Aswer dating there is hard

[@GabbyMack]

Lol it sure is very hard

[@gb6041]

Bad you can't find the right guys

[@gettingrytwithGOD]

Define romantic

[@gb6041]

@Mcmillan Mckay she's the problem herself. How could you say a whole big country you couldn't find just o e good man? We teach people we love what we like and they do it for us

[@lawman4272]

Keep telling the truth young lady. Don't try to be diplomatic in this kind of things. People that really matter appreciate your truth. My sister your Ghanaian people hate people telling them the truth about their country, especially if you're from another African country. They're blindly patriotic. The ugly things you talk about are universal in the continent. They love talking about another country tho. I am a Nigerian, and you know they hate the fuck about Nigerians. I call it inferiority complex with the Nigerians. Anyway that's another story. But keep telling your subscribers the truth, that's why I subscribed. I live in the US and I know what you are talking about. Yes, we can't compare, but that's another way you could make your point. Sorry, Ghana let the lady say it like it is. When she points those things out I felt she was talking about Nigeria. And I would appreciate that. Go beautiful, do your thing🤣🤣

[@edwingross9778]

How you like living in Ghana

[@GabbyMack]

I enjoy it. its not easy adjusting but I've grown to love it

[@regrich8795]

You look nice!!

[@jattyalvinjohnson6505]

🔥🔥🔥🔥😘