Dating in The Villages, Florida: Scott Costa & Tina Spill the Secrets! 💘”

Hey, Lanai Fam! 🌟 Get ready for an exciting episode of Ladies of the Lanai! This time, we’re diving into the hot topic of dating in The Villages, Florida. You know and love him, Scott Costa is back, and he’s discussing all things dating with Tina! 💑✨
💖 What’s it like being single in The Villages? Scott and Tina share their personal experiences and tips for navigating the dating scene here!
🚫 Find out Scott’s dealbreakers when it comes to dating - you might be surprised!
📱 Curious about the dating apps Scott has used? He spills the tea on his favorites and which ones actually work!
👏 Ever heard someone say, “I clap for you”? Scott reveals what he means by this intriguing phrase!
Join us for a fun and insightful conversation that’s perfect for singles and couples alike. Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to stay in the loop with Ladies of the Lanai! Let’s explore the world of dating in The Villages together! 🎉
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[@Susie-Joy]

"Depending on the patient.." eeeeeeeeEeE!! LMAO what a hoot! Love it LOL... Love you ladies! xx

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

I think Scott is a funny guy! Glad you enjoyed :)

[@marywilson1948]

The patient 😂. Love it!! Freudian slip for the win!!😂 Scott is so nice and friendly. I can see why the two of you are friends. Y’all can have each other’s back if you go out with a group! (Keep an eye out for prospects for each other too😊) Great in depth discussion, Tina and Scott!!

[@GAN-0]

Right?!? Hey …at least he didn’t say “the victim” 😂

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thanks Mary!! That’s what friends are for - we always need a good wing man!

[@timobermeyer4362]

The interview was very eye opening to hear Scott's take on the single life. I am single and 63 and I have the same or similar insight into dating. This was a great video.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

We’re so glad you found the video informative. Thanks for watching :)

[@janetpartyka5968]

Communication is number one. If you want your date to plan something, you may have to tell him/her that.

[@Scott-gx3ne]

If you communicate your wants, needs, and likes this way there is no confusion.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Yes, you’re right, but i keep thinking the right guy will be able to read my mind! 🙈 ha ha. Thanks for watching :)

[@kylereed980]

Great fun show Tina, you do a great job, thank you😂

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thanks so much always glad you enjoy our content!

[@victoriachanel2493]

Scott and Tina have great chemistry ❤they would make a cute couple!

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

We are good friends but he’s a great guy!!

[@Motlei1]

This was such a fun episode. Communication is key in any type of relationship! As Scott mentioned, too many people are too rigid in their ways, they may need to be a bit more flexible and it goes both ways. And of course read the whole profile. 😂 Kind of glad I’m not dating in this day and age. 🙄 Oh and how horrendous with the catfishing. Good luck to all of the singles out there. ❤

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thanks the Gods girlfriend. You have a good one and he’s lucky to have you 💋

[@NurseSuzetteRNCMCN]

Tina you look so young and beautiful and you are such a great interviewer.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Oh thank you! We both enjoy doing all our interviews on the show! Thanks for watching!!

[@sherrycampbell9196]

Another great show..have a awesome week❤from a Indiana girl living on the Virginia Tennessee line

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thanks. Appreciate you watching!!

[@Melodie007]

Always good information ❤

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Glad you think so! Thanks so much for watching

[@AClark-bq6oc]

Thanks for a great video😁

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@fierceflyer5]

Scott is great but the gecko on your screen was stealing the show with all his appearances lol

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

That was pretty funny right?

[@GinaSpizzinoco]

teeth are a #1 priority for me lol

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

What’s your #2?

[@tombuchta6372]

Really enjoyed the show. My take/experiences dating in my 50s are similar to what Scott expressed. One question I was interested in is dating within the social circles. I pretty much avoid dating within Meetup groups (assuming y'all know what that is) to avoid the potential ensuing awkwardness. TV circles seem similar to Meetup groups to me. Seemed like Scott has no issues with it. I'd be interested in Tina's take (or anyone else for that matter). Thanks. Keep up the interesting content!

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Hey Tom. It’s interesting that you ask :). I actually had a situation exactly like you are referring to. I had a potential date with a guy who had dated someone in my circle of friends. He was upfront and honest and I was impressed he gave me the heads up so I wouldn’t be blindsided if we ran into each other. I asked about how the breakup was, how long they dated and how long ago they went out and I decided I was ok with us going out. He was giving me the option to say no if I was uncomfortable with it… He also went back to the other person to let her know we were going on a date. The other woman and I actually started to have a conversation one night out on how should we ALL handle something like this since we are bound to have it happen with the dating pool we are in. The Villages may be large, but it’s really still small… we never finished the conversation so it’s something to continue but I feel if you are as transparent as possible (and I say as possible) that it can work… we just all want to try and be as respectful as possible with each because we will be seeing each other at various functions… what are your thoughts? So glad you enjoy our content. We try to bring something different that the other Villages channels as they all do a great job with the other areas :)

[@tombuchta6372]

@@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns Thanks for taking the time to respond. It's nice to get perspective from the other side 😊. My thoughts ? I think it's all fine most of the time. It doesn't work out, you amicably move on as friends. The concern is if for whatever reason it ends ugly. I guess that is why it is important to try to end things in a positive manner.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

@tombuchta6372 wise words :)

[@user-kf4zw8fc8f]

how is he living at the villages if he's 51 years old?

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

He lives and takes care of his mother who lives in The Villages…

[@christigallup2175]

I agree if I'm out and meet someone I want them to ask. I'm personally old school I want the man to be the lead

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Yes! I’m old school like that too. I prefer an alpha (ish) male 😝

[@magueysunset]

The Villages would make for a great story in that book called The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

That’s a good one! Thanks for watching!!

[@christigallup2175]

Is there any kind of socials for singles? Like bingo or pickles all or something? I think you have to be happy within yourself before you are ready to be in a new relationship. It's more the personality for me than looks, but agree there has to be some appeal.

[@Scott-gx3ne]

This is the villages. There is a club for EVERYTHING. If you don’t find what you’re looking for you can make the club up! But there are a lot of singles groups and Facebook groups.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Scott is correct. There are singles clubs here and also clubs for almost every interest…

[@ritafaulkner7042]

You look great at 58! Share the secret! 😀

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thank you. I actually just turned 59 on June 9th 🙈. My mother says i have her to thank for my youthful appearance… but i am religious with my skincare!!

[@JackiRose]

Depending on the patient - Ha ha ha ha

[@Scott-gx3ne]

It was truly a slip up.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

That was a funny one!

[@Thinking4myself-zt9vp]

😂Hysterical

[@Livefreeordi]

Yes Tina looks fab at 58!

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Thanks so much!! I actually just turned 59 last week…

[@atal68]

T, I miss that laugh!❤

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

I miss my friend :)

[@acekis1]

If he is 51, how does he live in the villages?

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

He lives and takes care of his mother who lives in The villages. One person in the household must be 55 or older…

[@christigallup2175]

If Scott is 51 if I'm not mistaken how does he live there?

[@Livefreeordi]

There is an 8020 roll only 80% have to be 55 and over. Plus he mentioned on a previous episode that he’s living in his mother’s home.

[@christigallup2175]

@Livefreeordi I hadn't known about that but when he said he was 51 I was like what wait. Makes total sense.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

That’s correct, he lives and takes care of his mother here in The Villages. Only one person in the household must be 55 or older…

[@janetpartyka5968]

What about the two of you?

[@GAN-0]

Exactly …I think there may be a “love connection”. Maybe he asked her out after the show! ❤

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Hold on there kids - we are just good friends but he’s a great guy!!! Thanks for watching :)

[@DBAMA-wm9jw]

He looks a lot older then 51

[@dennisd4027]

He has a better personality than you, that's for sure. Imagine feeling compelled to have to type that.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

Nope, he’s 51 and we think he’s a great guy!!

[@Coolor419]

Interesting content but oofff… he talked WAY too much.

[@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns]

He had lots to share :). Thanks for watching!