dating men by their secret red flags | vs 1

[@lovecommanectar]

ok my red flag is that i fart too much, ur turn

[@lovecommanectar]

it’s a red flag if u don’t like and subscribe btw

[@omi4470]

It’s also a red flag when u sometimes promote unwanted diseases, this video is valid though

[@Terra_66]

Mr Inconsistent here 🙋🏾

[@BIGETV.]

would like to see Salem back in your videos

[@hillaryxxn1]

and my red flag is that I have attachment issues, who's next?

[@nicoleavery7238]

Does no one realize that some people have toxic families and SHOULDNT have a relationship with them?

[@gracedemerling9492]

And having that emotional intelligence to understand that what's best is to leave is honestly a green flag

[@SlR-]

Ik that's harsh as a red flag but try see it as less of "Your family was fine but you don't have a good relationship with them so you're not fine" but more that even though it's not your fault that you were born into a bad family it has still *probably* affected you negatively. e.g. just statistically, if you grew up in a family where your parents physically abused each other, you're more likely to physically abuse your partner. Like if your parents solved arguments through shouting matches it's more difficult for their child to learn how to solve issues openly with gentle communication. Again, it's not 'fair', it's not your fault, but it is logical.

[@im26c4u5]

​@@SlR-Having a dysfunctional family is 100% a red flag, but it doesn't make one a red flag for sure. I come from a dysfunctional family that I don't speak to, but I've always been family oriented so it doesn't mean you wouldn't prioritize the family you chose to make. I wouldn't mind someone not dating me because of that, dating is discriminatory by nature.

[@maggyleemusic1793]

This

[@kibyysss7635]

It’s her choice lol

[@33niboR]

Ending is legendary my guy shat his pants bc he was so committed to the job but they still fired him😪

[@electric336]

I know right.

[@Kit-ux4vp]

nah they did him wrong, no bathroom breaks. bruhh

[@RoseTintMyWorld-cr5zo]

If it's not illegal as an employer to forbid bathroom breaks, it should be. Smh @@Kit-ux4vp

[@alyssaalcantara6739]

@@Kit-ux4vpikr and that’s a human right. I would understand if they were a surgeon or firefighter when it’s not possible to use the washroom for certain, important periods. However for McDonald’s workers, allow them to have bathroom breaks occasionally when needed and just alternate with another employee.

[@punisherhq2182]

@@alyssaalcantara6739 fax

[@Chelseaaaa333]

The family dealbreakers are unreasonable in my opinion… it shouldn’t say anything about a person if they were born into a family that was already broken to begin with..

[@Iammarado]

Damn I get that. We can talk about it.

[@phineas8015]

Right?? So weird

[@Selanaxfanx]

Ive always felt this way. No one chooses their families and some people have terrible famillies.@@phineas8015

[@pragyaativity]

I so agree!!

[@KathrinH1997]

For me it was honestly a red flag when they said that. Like just because one was born in to a horrible/narcisistic family that doesn't mean that one can't be a good person... In a situation like that I see it as increcibly mature to not have any/or very limited relationship with their parents.

[@reese5800]

I did not expect her to eliminate those three guys in the first round I thought she got along with them the most 💀

[@samukelisiwengubane6887]

Same especially the one with them headphones 🎧

[@fragnator3017]

ptsd from dating other artists

[@xodanny2955]

looks like she has a type

[@yourdoneyourdone8551]

same!!

[@Makiaveliiste]

R I P G guys are the worse: they just want to fu*k Reflective "I" instead of "WE" Physical guarded --> closed people but ok to engage in physical activities.

[@girlplease2452]

Just because you don’t got a good relationship with your family doesn’t mean you won’t have a good relationship with someone else. That makes no sense

[@Nikki-lh1tu]

Yeah I was literally about to say that 😧...I was like what!?

[@Whirlbee]

Yeah, also if it's not good because one or both parents were abusive, it's hardly the person's fault

[@khalilmoallaqat8999]

it usually depends if the family seems sweet then totally a red flag but if it's a toxic environement then of course not,but there are also people who should work on themselves first before a relationship cz you know trauma can manifest in many ways and i wouldn't really like to bring other people into my own mess

[@namantherockstar]

Nectar inspires me.. My parents said if i get 50K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging...

[@Whirlbee]

@@khalilmoallaqat8999 shit families are seen as 'sweet' from the outside

[@alonebambi]

the amount of them saying “people with a bad relationship with their family” as a red flag was honestly off putting. people sometimes have to know that a lot of the time when someone has a bad family relationship it’s because the parents were physically abusive, verbally abusive, or controlling. i have a bad relationship with my parents because they use physical discipline such as hitting me and restraining me, and would starve me and not let me have meals if i didn’t get an a on an assignment. i’m still family oriented

[@DiogoChris]

Thought I was the only one who had this thought. I was surprised none of them brought up the fact that "dysfunctional families" were a thing

[@Night-Shade.]

Don't let people like that bring you down. They don't understand the struggles of being mistreated, abused, and neglected in your own home. We don't pick our families. Stay strong ❤

[@casiesilverman]

Super agree with this

[@Kit-ux4vp]

i agree, friends over family 1000%

[@MEGIDIOT]

Thank you

[@Celestria]

Crazy to me that waiting til marriage is a bigger red flag than lying

[@blue.6641]

Riiight??

[@onyiegbuna400]

Or pooping in pants 😭

[@Mal_nikole15]

exactly like ??? thats a huge green flag imo

[@alessiagatti590]

She said she is probably never going to marry and made clear that is not the wait itself but the marriage part. She simply doesnt want to get married, therefore why it is a red flag in HER EYES.

[@Ota_ku69]

​@alessiagatti590 Doesn't make it ok. Nor really a red flag. It's an objective green flag. Why be in a relationship at all if not for marriage. Sounds like comment issues. Using it as an excuse to leave whenever you feel like it, for simple or petty reasons.

[@kaylamalinga5912]

I'm shocked that people still date others based on their zodiac signs. I thought we left that in the past.

[@hahahaaha7208]

I thought we left religious trapping in the past but here we are😂.

[@en2p187]

i think people who date based on that don't have really authentic relationships. Millions of people share their zodiac signs, does that mean they should date all of them?

[@lovecommanectar]

it's all abt dating by loveprint now

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

@@hahahaaha7208to be fair religion and astrology are completely different categories. Astrology is pseudo-science and religion has many cultural, historical roots to it.

[@trapbois4573]

I think people use zodiac signs as a means to justify whether they should date someone or not based on past experiences. Just because you are born in a particular month doesn't mean anything until you start believing it to be true.

[@Night-Shade.]

The term "Red flag" has lost all it's meaning... Not eating tomatoes & onions is not a red flag 🤡 Someone needs to define the term for ya'll

[@RextheRebel]

I'm pretty sure that was a joke lol

[@SlR-]

He expanded that more into, someone who doesn't wanna try new things and is picky.

[@katet8639]

Thats with almost every word. It used to have a actual meaning thar is concerning or alarming but now... Red flags are cheaters or abusive behaviours.

[@ethanw5231]

Deal breaker and personal standards is different from red flag and I think that’s what people are pegging as a red flag

[@niy._.]

That was a joke 😭 his real answer was someone who doenr want to try new thing and is really picky

[@Lollbunzee]

For a change could we have someone who doesn't have a product to sell? It always feels disingenuous when the first thing out of their mouth is an advert for something they're releasing.

[@anushehsyed]

literally!!

[@holisticmaya]

I know what you mean but at the same I think it’s awesome that they give a chance to less known artists to mention their work to a bigger audience! What a great opportunity. I would for that to happen to me or someone I love, so I’m happy for them

[@jem3706]

No fr all these people here are for clout. They probably pay jubilee well for PR so they accept them

[@niy._.]

@@holisticmaya she is the I'm mad at Disney and the ps5 girl 💀

[@ivy2828]

@@niy._.nah i hope ur lyin💀

[@Typosflair]

I've never heard a bad relationship with their parents be a red flag and it honestly triggered me, especially when everyone in the video seemed to agree. How is it someone's fault when they were literally abused as a child for example?

[@mellowaurora]

i hear u, i triggered me too and i had to stop the vid. thankfully i read through some of the comments and a lot of folks see that perspective. sending u love.

[@RedDeadReverie]

Why is the pathological liar not the biggest red flag??? 😧🤔

[@delta22ization]

because you can always trust a liar to lie, but you can't trust a honest person to always tell you the truth..... its the honest one's you should watch closely....

[@Angiesensei.]

Agreed with you, Luna

[@BondofOblivion]

Who tf said *pathological* ?💀

[@BugattiVeyron267]

@@delta22izationok Jack sparrow

[@calum8399]

@@delta22izationThis is some A-grade bullshit hahaha

[@izahhhhh]

haven't finished the video yet but omg she and tyler look and seem so good together Edit: I finished it and am soooo thrown off!! I never would've thought with her vibe she'd go with who she picked 🥴

[@hopsmax2827]

Fr why did she pick him 😂

[@Nina-__]

Right! Tyler is the finest idc, that other man was lame

[@maggys1244]

Nah, you could immediately tell there's some chemistry - neither him or her are necessarily my cup of tea, but I think they are a good match for eachother

[@marvin2678]

@@maggys1244 fax

[@Lomoney191]

She’s not into the idea of marriage and he just got out of an engagement. Not a good match.

[@miau3280]

It’s a red flag for me when people say their red flag is non-family oriented people

[@m3r3dith]

Right! You can't choose your family and sometimes they treat you or others like 💩Or they live on the other side of the world. Heck maybe you even have none! I mean, it can be everything, that doesn't define you as a person tbh ♥️

[@rockstarburne]

⁠@@m3r3dithbut if you let your experiences turn you away from wanting to be family oriented then it 100% does define you. Good or bad, your past experiences will always define you.

[@Loupoonug23]

Not really some people want family oriented people, they can also understand that not everyone has a good relationship with their parents. Calling it a red flag would depend on the issue. Either way some people want people that have good relationships with their family members and that is fine, just don’t think that everyone’s life is the same and that everyone has decent parents.

[@m3r3dith]

@@rockstarburne Turning away from wanting to be with family defines really nothing imo. You might have a chosen family aka your friends with a family bond and therfore still be family oriented... "you as a person" can be defined as anything though

[@marvin2678]

@@m3r3dith you ddint understand hiis comment

[@oshibo]

Have these people never heard of abusive parents/families before? The privilege cringe 😬 gives me vibes of assuming everyone has 2 parents just because you do.

[@corndaisy]

FOR REAL i feel like somene says that on every one of these shows it screams privileged!

[@massasteria6479]

​@sweetheartdollies it may not be your fault but people look at how you could have been raised and could be suffering from mental issues, having those in a relationship make it VERY hard

[@rockstarburne]

@sweetheartdollies there has been many times where women have falsely accused people of being narcissistic. But assuming you are being truthful. You cant deny that it hasnt had an effect on your view of relationships. How people are raised can truly alter their personalities and its not always others responsibilities to look past the red flags you carried on from your experience

[@SlR-]

Ik that's harsh as a red flag but try see it as less of "Your family was fine but you don't have a good relationship with them so you're not fine" but more that even though it's not your fault that you were born into a bad family it has still *probably* affected you negatively. e.g. just statistically, if you grew up in a family where your parents physically abused each other, you're more likely to physically abuse your partner. Like if your parents solved arguments through shouting matches it's more difficult for their child to learn how to solve issues openly with gentle communication. Again, it's not 'fair', it's not your fault, but it is logical.

[@Me-su2bu]

Right! They say that they can’t be with someone that doesn’t have a good relationship with their parents, but it doesn’t mean they can’t have a good romantic relationship with someone I don’t understand the link….. having toxic parents doesn’t determine the worth of someone’s dating abilities

[@jennyinouterspace]

I have SUCH an issue with people who write people off when they have difficult familial relationships, or call it a “red flag“. It’s personal for me, I realize.. but man… there’s so much room for nuance there. What about kids who grew up in physically abusive situations? Or kids who’s parents were addicts? There are so many thing that could have happened that are not the child’s fault.

[@SlR-]

Ik that's harsh as a red flag but try see it as less of "Your family was fine but you don't have a good relationship with them so you're not fine" but more that even though it's not your fault that you were born into a bad family it has still *probably* affected you negatively. e.g. just statistically, if you grew up in a family where your parents physically abused each other, you're more likely to physically abuse your partner. Like if your parents solved arguments through shouting matches it's more difficult for their child to learn how to solve issues openly with gentle communication. Again, it's not 'fair', it's not your fault, but it is logical.

[@jennyinouterspace]

@@SlR- absolutely not. Come on man.. where’s your empathy? Your comment is so insulting and off based.. I would assume the exact opposite. Not sure where you get the idea that growing up in an abusive home means your more likely to hit your own spouse/kids. Maybe try to think of it as if you grew up in a family where there was physical abuse, you are far less likely to abuse your own family members after knowing first hand what the impact of that was on you and having had to put in the work to overcome those circumstances. Many people who grew up in bad situations seek out therapy and other forms of professional council. Many people who have experienced abuse, have heightened levels of empathy and a strong sense of emotional awareness, ESPECIALLY if they had both the awareness to recognize unhealthy behavior and the strength to then exit those unhealthy relationships. That’s a big step to take, and it takes immense social and emotional awareness, bravery and hope. Many people who grow up in abusive homes spend a lot of time working on themselves. Quite the exact opposite of your offensive assumptions. And if anyone is reading this thread that has a strained relationship with their parents, I hope you do not allow the ignorance of those who don’t understand your story, to keep you in a box. I see you- be well.

[@flowersafeheart]

I was also offended and frustrated by the two people saying it's automatically a red flag if someone has difficult relatives. In fact some (definitely not all of course) people like that are some of the most kind, mature people. I wrote a long comment above about it. It's nice seeing other people have commented similar.💚

[@andreahopeorg]

I feel the same. I have a good relationship with my family but that is such a complex matter to make a red flag.

[@SlR-]

@@jennyinouterspace I’m sorry you found my comment offensive and insulting, I was really trying to present the opinion in an object and factual way. I understand that many people who grew up in abusive environments work on themselves to fight against the effects of that but even just that sentence itself is acknowledging that there ARE in fact effects of abusive or even just not great parents. Many people who were abused are great, I agree, my own parents included. But there are also many who aren’t. You’ve used anecdotes to support your point and say that I’m making ‘insulting *assumptions*’ however they’re not just assumptions. If you’d like to research further on how the claims I’ve made are quite factual, look into: WomensHealth.gov “Effects of Domestic Violence on Children” Backing up my claim the children who see parent’s abuse each other are more likely to abuse future partners. Or see: NationWideChildrens.org “Addiction” Claiming that children from parents with substance addiction are much more likely to abuse substances themselves. There are many more sources to cite on this matter. Again I know that this is personal to you and I’ve tried to write this comment as passively and inoffensively as possible. I’m sorry if it offends you, I’ll reiterate that I agree growing up in an abusive/dysfunctional household is NOT YOUR FAULT and I have sympathy for people that have. But it’s also a fact that that situation has lasting affects (usually negative) on the child. You can overcome them for sure but even for many that do, it takes the whole span of their life. I hope you have a great day anyone who’s read this far.

[@gabbie3174]

I like Youssef! He seems so chill and straightforward

[@Kaienhere]

He's pretty cool

[@tack3545]

use normal people not semi popular content creators

[@candysweet434]

is she popular? i’ve never heard of her in my life. but yeah i agree they should use people that aren’t there to promote something. they’ve done this a lot.

[@alyana.kaviqq]

@@candysweet434she sang “im mad at Disney” if I’m not wrong

[@katesolis756]

Yeah, over the content creators

[@MEGIDIOT]

@@candysweet434she sings the “me or the ps5” song which was everywhere last year or so

[@nihonzaki7048]

Yeah I’d much rather have regular people without big followings

[@freiyakd]

andrew having a deal breaker based on horoscope definitely shows he’s got some growing up to do hahaha

[@hahahaaha7208]

As an aries, if I trusted astrology and flat out rejected cancers I would have never met the love of my life. So stupid to split all of the worlds population in 12 groups.

[@ayyitscilla]

REAL

[@maggys1244]

Blows my mind how astrology has such a comeback in the US - people literally making LIFE DECISIONS based on the most random & baseless pseudo science there is 😂💀 Believing in that crap is just as much a red flag for me as being caught in a MLM - both make me question their sanity, critical-thinking skills & intelligence all at once.

[@kirrariley2066]

That wasn't Andrew

[@queenmia1965]

“Wants to wait till marriage” BIG GREEN FLAG ✅

[@syulangg]

the fact that she rejected Tyler is CRAZY, their chemistry was really good, he's super kind and handsome, and seemed to be a really good listener. she fumbled hard.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

Not really. Tyler is great but the guy she picked was just as good IMO. Tyler is more quiet and I didn’t feel that much chemistry. Plus he said that he talks to a lot of girls so that’s not a good thing

[@pao-yt1nd]

wow this andrew guy seemed like the chillest person. wish he was able to talk more. and hes cute. and abstinence is NOT a red flag. respect.

[@ashleymulenga9115]

It's a shame that nowadays that's the biggest red flag

[@gracedemerling9492]

It is more of an incompatibility. And it truly can make people not work out together

[@Whirlbee]

It everyone is religious, not everyone wants to get married, some people enjoy sex and want to explore that with who they are dating

[@rockstarburne]

@@Whirlbeenot wanting to get married is the real red flag. She doesn’t want commitment. She just wants to rent a boyfriend

[@Whirlbee]

@@rockstarburne you can commit without the need to get married though, it's still a relationship

[@Ray03595]

Didn't think she had a connection with the last guy. Youseff or Tyler seemed like better matches.

[@ike4282]

Yeaa and emt is such a respectable job

[@JessieR2023]

Thank you! Like what the hell was she’s choosing. I like Tyler better after hearing Youseff not being in a committed relationship.

[@sweetlove3391]

How is wanting to wait for marriage a red flag. That is a protection. The guy who wants to wait would probably not say that this is a red flag?!

[@shannilove2801]

exactly lol .How is that a red flag??

[@anushehsyed]

right like what ??

[@vicky8752]

right? im waiting until marriage bc im christian so

[@windylue6206]

At least the guy won't have to waste time on building a relationship that leads to nowhere (with someone that never wants to get married) if this topic comes up early and the girl is like no

[@shaaylaaaa]

Well she said she doesn't believe in marriage in general. So that's a red flag since they're looking for different things.

[@madisonlove7580]

no way they fired that man for shitting his pants

[@sTeeZyxo]

LMFAOOOOOOO

[@kamauh268]

Please get back to showcasing non celeberities. Despite being interesting to watch, we well know the chances of further dates are lower. Just my two cents anyways..

[@Ray03595]

is this girl supposed to be a celebrity? Never seen or heard of her in my life...

[@MarcoDSabo]

@@Ray03595I guess the user meant influencers. Cause I’ve never heard of her either lol

[@user-bn4np2qz3t]

Agreed. It’d be more relatable with no influencers

[@katet8639]

A real celebrity won't need to plug their shit on nectar. You meant wannabe?

[@piscesfae]

i did not expect her to pick him 💀

[@sena9731]

he looks fruity

[@madisonprzy]

@@sena9731THAT’S WHAT I WAS SAYING

[@emily-pw4cc]

@@sena9731ive been searching for this😭

[@Jamierice139]

“They don’t allow snacks inside” yeah this guys smooth…

[@MEGIDIOT]

Thanks. I repeated that part twice and didn’t understand

[@alexxisdanyale2179]

I liked Andrew and he seemed so sweet😭. I wish he had more time to speak.

[@donid.333]

“more like growvid” was absolutely fking hilarious bro 😭😭

[@lesleydamon691]

The end with the pooping story was the highlight for me 😂 About the toxic families, some people just don't know because their reality is far removed from it. If they knew or thought about it they'd phrase the red flag differently. Like its a red flag if you hear "my parents are embarrassing because they're old, my family is embarrassing because we're poor" etc. Having a bad relationship with your family because of the above is a red flag. Having a bad relationship with bad family and keeping a healthy distance or being completely cut off from them is a green flag for them and for you.

[@karuwhaa]

Her: can't have narcissistic tendencies. Also her: if he doesn't like my music it's a red flag.

[@darkgrandpriest1645]

Narcissists don’t like other narcissists. I have narcissistic tendencies and can spot them on others and I don’t like them. She just doesn’t admit it.

[@diegoaygo]

wait what lmao, music is her life, why would you wanna date someone that doesn’t like who you are 😅

[@karuwhaa]

@@diegoaygo that's such a dumb take. I'm a lawyer. Should I only date people that are really interested in the niche areas of legislation that interest me? Or worse, should I consider it a red flag if you don't like the piece of legislation I've written?

[@njasmineb3972]

@@karuwhaaI disagree things like a job are different from what creatively create, why would you date someone who doesn’t like what you are actively making as a artist, music is already a bold career choice, why would you want to surround yourself with people who don’t support you

[@ashban1752]

this is such a weird comment

[@adub24724]

This is 100% a video we need an update with. They seem like they'd be such a wholesome couple.

[@CatherineAngela]

Not eating onion and tomatoes is a red flag? 🥴 what if the person has an allergy or is intolerant to them (IBS)

[@ike4282]

Also tomatoes suck 😭😭

[@diegoaygo]

He was most likely saying that as a joke to get people laughing lol, I don’t think it’s thatttt serious 😂

[@kaitbunni]

i assume he didn’t what someone who is picky

[@hc7092]

Remember he’s the guy thats a liar.

[@mina8495]

If they're allergic it's obv not the same thing.. And he meant being picky and not willing to try new things, that's valid

[@oxjobros]

There are SO many people with horrible and toxic parents. Show some empathy smh

[@niy._.]

Agreed, that is very unfortunate but people who grew up with toxic parents often have a lot more mental issues than people who didn't and not wanting to date them as it can affect the mental health of the other person too is valid

[@plus7560]

If I were her, I would choose Andrew. He only had few opportunities to talk with her😢

[@anyadarlingg]

Taran's red flag is wanting someone experimental / open minded, but refuses to date someone who doesn't like tomatoes & onions 😂

[@chrisel4349]

Yeah, because that would show that they are closed-minded…tah-dahh

[@holisticmaya]

Poor guy got fired when he was doing the best he could to stay at the damn window😭😭😢

[@Iammarado]

I didn’t deserve it! I worked really hardb

[@janicelee4333]

WOW THAT ASIAN GUY IS SOOOO FINE

[@fatima.x11]

which asian guy?? there were like 3

[@ritastepien5795]

@@fatima.x11the Asian who is waiting for marriage

[@fatima.x11]

@@ritastepien5795 okay because taran and youssef are asian too

[@moeezS]

In this awful economy, living at home should not be a red flag plus living in a multigenerational household can be great for your mental health because of having a support network. As long as they're loving rather than abusive. Living with family has been the norm forever until recently due to industrialisation and capitalism.

[@talkingtochapri]

Honestly, none of these guys are her type 😅 and she didnt like the guy at the end either. She went to promote her music and thats okay

[@Iammarado]

This is true

[@SlR-]

no, "and that's *not* ok"

[@falconawesome]

Ok but her biggest red flag was someone waiting til marriage because she doesn’t know if she wants marriage, and his red-turned-green flag is that he’s ready for marriage

[@jowahnuh]

waiting until marriage definitely isn't a red flag

[@Littleleprechaun-ck7uz]

Ok but i actually loved Tyler he was so sweet

[@ava1772]

awww chris seemed like such a nice person, and his red flag was definitely not a bad red flag

[@igorpereira7882]

if u guys shave his hair, he looks like channing tatum

[@karliereagan9128]

I feel like she is the type of girl to tell people that she just has a “naturally flirty” personality

[@Aa-jq3yu]

💀

[@diegoaygo]

?

[@xcaseuu]

seems like a personal problem, salem just seems like a really kind and sweet girl

[@hc7092]

Now you’ve said that, I can’t unsee it 😭🤣

[@briannam916]

Are you mad that she's being flirty while on a dating show??

[@miarenteria1758]

there’s no way jeremy isn’t 💅 LIKE HELLO?!?!?

[@MEGIDIOT]

Why would he sign up on here? None of our speculative business. He might be bi. He might be straight. Soft-spoken isn’t automatically gay, keep your toxic masculinity stereotypes to yourself.

[@elitemidrange]

⁠​⁠@@MEGIDIOTNot saying this is what he did, because I don’t know him but a lot of people sign up for these shows to get their name and face out there, are aspiring actors/actresses, and want to promote their business, and less for the actual show lol.

[@raffyoei6647]

Jeremy might be gay

[@MEGIDIOT]

Why would he sign up for this, then? He could be bi or straight. None of your speculative business

[@kristiansand2480]

Thought so too.

[@pattheticc]

My gay radar was going offfff

[@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063]

Maybe bisexual. His skin was glowing, he looked like he takes better care of himself than the average straight guy. Very handsome tho. I knew she was gonna pick him as soon as he walked out. Hes the conventionally attractive white guy, that seems tl be her type

[@LaurenKaminski]

He isn’t that much different then Ryan Reynolds!

[@SayYesToTacos1217]

I hate the assumption people have that having a bad relationship with your parents means you can’t be a good partner. Some people’s parents are abusive, narcissistic, etc. I’ve also found that people with childhood trauma can be some of the best partners because of an increased sense of empathy.

[@alexxisdanyale2179]

PLSSS the first few guys that were eliminated tried to shake her hand, but i don't think she noticed 😭

[@melaniinlayy]

I SAW THAT LOLLL

[@GospelNephilim]

i’ll take andrew 🙋🏼‍♀️; ideal type and he seemed really friendly and sweet

[@kazandeffect2205]

I always hated the "red flag" of when ppl will dismissed ppl if they have a bad relationship with their parents/family. Like that should be more nuanced because we don't know why that bad relationship occurred. It could be because of the shitty parents

[@SlR-]

Ik that's harsh as a red flag but try see it as less of "Your family was fine but you don't have a good relationship with them so you're not fine" but more that even though it's not your fault that you were born into a bad family it has still *probably* affected you negatively. e.g. just statistically, if you grew up in a family where your parents physically abused each other, you're more likely to physically abuse your partner. Like if your parents solved arguments through shouting matches it's more difficult for their child to learn how to solve issues openly with gentle communication. Again, it's not 'fair', it's not your fault, but it is logical.

[@shrutikumari5882]

@@SlR-ik this may sound harsh but why are you going around copy pasting this comment everywhere? Don’t you understand how human works? People who say that “having a bad relationship with parents “ are just super sheltered people who haven’t experienced the real world yet. Only close minded people think that way,and you seem like one of them.

[@avagrace3645]

she literally eliminated everyone except the person she shouldve eliminated.

[@BondofOblivion]

Why should she have eliminated him?

[@JJ-minus]

​@@BondofOblivionbro fruity

[@BondofOblivion]

@@JJ-minus oh yeah😂I forgot

[@owlstarot]

@@JJ-minus lmaooo i thought i was the only one

[@Shewas-kathybates]

@@BondofOblivion he was engaged and said “That’s how you know I want something serious”. She doesn’t want to get married.

[@Myatheroses]

I always feel sad that everyone’s red flag is bad relationships with parents cause some of us were not lucky to have unconditionally loving, safe parents and it’s like being punished twice by the world. I’m only a good person because I distance myself from them cause they’re not a good influence

[@QueensNYgirlie1988]

"And then I got fired" 💀😭🤣😊

[@pragyaativity]

This lineup was so good, one of my fav I've seen on here and our girl Salem deserves nothing less!! She's so lovely!! And such an amazing songwriter too! Love her and her music 💗

[@cassidyauld6413]

i’m obsessed with salem’s vibe, i think she seems really cool! plus she’s got a great style

[@lillyarce3960]

tired of the use of influencers / people using this as an opportunity to just advertise whatever they do. makes the episode feel disingenuous + uninteresting

[@tycho7149]

Calling narcissistic tendencies a red flag and immediately after saying they HAVE to like her music??🤨

[@LianaKristina]

I thought about this too :D

[@candysweet434]

why is that bad, that’s normal. wouldn’t you want your partner to like your music if you were a musician and be supportive of you? that’s not what narcissistic is btw.

[@SerpentineWisdom]

​@@candysweet434You completely misinterpreted what the original commentor was saying. No one said "You shouldn't want people to like your music or the art you create!!!!" Did anyone say that? No. They're exposing the contradiction of someone saying "Narcissistic tendencies are red flags" (which...fair enough. They most definitely are) and then saying someone HAS to like your music. Is that the same as WANTING them to like your music? No. "I want someone to like my music." "They HAVE TO like my music." Obviously these are two totally different statements. This is why it's important to actually read in context.

[@lifeisshrt7929]

@@candysweet434go back to school and learn context clues

[@darkgrandpriest1645]

Narcissists don’t like other narcissists that’s why. She probably doesn’t admit she’s one.

[@wizzykhalifa3552]

I never got the bad relationship with the parents deal breaker. I think having that as a red flag is a red flag 😂

[@ohwelljamie]

JEREMY AND YOUSSEF ARE STUNNING OMFG

[@chuchuRomero-hd1uk]

she picked zesty dude

[@samoicebreaker5117]

fr

[@rebetrujillo]

So the girl doesn’t believe in marriage and the guy had a broken engagement…perfect couple, yeah

[@AlexOuellette_]

Biggest red flag is waiting til marriage ?? Not pooping pants??

[@Nikki-lh1tu]

I think it doesn't align with most people's beliefs...I feel like people have the mentality that they need a physical connection with their partner before they can fully commit to marriage. There's nothing wrong with either, it's just a preference people have

[@SerpentineWisdom]

Pooping your pants is the most non red flag in the context of relationships and interpersonal dynamics because it has nothing to do with relationships at all. You could try to force some weird conclusion in your head of "If they poop their pants a lot, they probably are careless, and that could affect a relationship" but that's just weird speculations. They could just have health issues🤷🏾‍♂️ Its not a relationship red flag cause it has nothing to do with relationships.

[@pearl.6711]

Ikr how tf is that a red flag I guess just fucking everyone is the norm now🤷🏻‍♀️

[@espvp]

Or being a liar. Sometimes i forget this show is for privileged out of touch kids.

[@70spoem]

that's probably the only green flag out of these red flags. and it's batshit crazy that she thought it was worse than being a pathological liar

[@skyemerald1903]

The guy she picked is literally gay. I feel like this episode was only made to try an promote her music cause the guy she chose gives off extreme flamboyant and feministic vibes. Not to mention the gay mannerisms. Can y’all not see this

[@sedimoonchild]

the poop story is hilarious he looked so cute talking about it it got me cackling

[@kailyncorey8267]

I feel like a lot of people who have bad relationships with family often work on the aspects of themselves that were related to that (communication, etc) so that they can try to not pass on that family trauma to their spouse and kids. I mean, not always, because the cycle of abuse is a thing, but still . If that’s the ONLY red flag ?? That doesn’t seem fair to judge

[@user-rg1om9ef4b]

I can’t believe onions and tomatoes made it to the end 😂😂

[@cicijanelle]

maybe jubilee can redo this as “dealbreakers” rather than red flags bc people aren’t seeming to understand in the comments lmaoo

[@lillythegamegar]

I like how the “toxic guy” his response was, other people call him toxic not him 💀

[@87enoughBULL]

I knew she would choose him based on her personality. Wholesome couple.

[@chriskalavrou573]

2:39 GROWVID HELP I LOVE THIS GUY

[@juanca9864]

Jeremy is a little 🦋🧚🏻‍♀️✨🍒🍍

[@jordanstarr2992]

honestly, she was really sweet and down to earth. cool person. also interesting how labels are clearly paying yall to have artists on.

[@jordanstarr2992]

though must say im dissapointed she went with white guy in gray shirt and black pants. literally basic white guy with jaw. no offense

[@marvin2678]

@@jordanstarr2992 nah he cool

[@db_2408]

@@jordanstarr2992 not you saying a majorly offensive line and ending with the typical 'no offense'.

[@jordanstarr2992]

@@db_2408 I'm sorry snowflake

[@becca53444]

I knew from the start that guy would win. He was handsome enough to be a male model. The other guys didn’t even have a chance.

[@famous_movies_scenes141]

Or he is just white

[@gillowens24]

Guy said at the end no toilet breaks a legal should not got fired that is horrible all guys where nice .

[@duckymomo6675]

wait…she sang that viral song i’m mad at disney! she’s really talented.

[@MEGIDIOT]

And 🎵me or the ps5 tell me which one is more your type

[@flexxy.1701]

Ain’t this the “it’s me or the ps5” girl

[@auraliax1323]

yes it's her

[@poejavelski148]

Literally my first reaction. “She’s pretty cute… wait that’s the ps5 chick!”

[@shinchan5700]

@@poejavelski148 bro have some manners. Why u call women as chicks🤬

[@itzhen7032]

Guess shes got her own red flags huh

[@duckymomo6675]

i need context lmao

[@Catholicsquirrel]

Imagine saying that not liking animals is a bigger red flag than being a narcissist

[@pencil6965]

they are both pretty bad

[@db_2408]

everyone becomes a narcissist at atleast some points in life.

[@Catholicsquirrel]

@@db_2408 I have a degree in psychology, and no they don’t.

[@Myatheroses]

Usually narcissists also don’t respect animals

[@terecitanevarez2905]

Her saying wants to wait till marriage is the biggest sort of flag is crazy

[@thisguyknowsball]

AYO double down on that sponsor with a cooking date video

[@Iammarado]

Facts my guy

[@ekaterincastlegrove9353]

BRO I KNEW IT WILL BE HIM like bro who won was like basic but he was so calm and seemed nice so I was proud of her when she choose him

[@dakotac180]

I'm so glad she chose Jeremy, he was sweet, hope the flee market worked out

[@marianajmj]

The guy she picked looks like dreamboat, the guy Katy Perry crushed over years ago in American idol, who had a girlfriend at the time and he was a musician.

[@kittysrock16]

This is the gen z version of Baggage

[@joshdaniels]

Jeremy, Youssef and Tyler make me blush every time they pop up on screen

[@jem3706]

I don’t like people who come on a dating show just for some PR like make it make sense

[@talisacore]

who gon tell her

[@Jamierice139]

She literally said, get all of these ethnics outta here!! 😂😂😂

[@hahahaaha7208]

Not because they have insane and ridiculous standards🎉

[@marvin2678]

@@hahahaaha7208 how ?

[@cookiesarelikecream]

You guys get so pressed when she doesn’t pick a MOC. She vibed more with the guy she picked. Tyler and Taran were literally in her top 4 ethnics

[@sajaissa634]

Taran is asking in each video, ' what was your first impression of me" Idk he comes up as liking to be praised too much 😂

[@corndaisy]

stop saying a bad relationship with your parents is a red flag thats stupid.... not everyone can have great parents and for them to think that is so ignorant.

[@chroma._.5986]

thank you 👏👏

[@rockstarburne]

Cut the bullshit. Most of the toxic people you met, usually had toxic parents. Either you will be the exact opposite of how your are raised, or you will imitate it. Most circumstances you are probably gonna imitate it. And ive read a lot of stories of people saying they had bad parents only to find out that the children were just as much of a problem

[@MajesticViking]

Some of these guys dealbreakers are absolutely insane.

[@shiny_edin]

His biggest dealbreaker is aries... do these people have lives?

[@Mc_G-SN]

That fart bait is everyone's nightmare 😭.

[@stephanieriley3227]

She picked exactly who I thought she would!

[@chuchuRomero-hd1uk]

she look like she like white guys 😭

[@femmechatnoir863]

Did he not seem gay to you?

[@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb]

@@femmechatnoir863 lol he did for me. seems closeted or something like that

[@BondofOblivion]

​@@femmechatnoir863kind of, yeah.

[@chuchuRomero-hd1uk]

@@femmechatnoir863 he zesty

[@QueenZsWorld]

I worked at McD there's no reason why they shouldn't give you a bathroom break, ESPECIALLY if you work window. because all anyone has to do is hand the customers their orders (which is already put together) anyway, so any of your coworkers should have covered for you 😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@notmee542]

no way jeremy aint gay

[@LaurenKaminski]

That is really rude!

[@cookiesarelikecream]

@@LaurenKaminskiwe love gays

[@ellegriffow.]

Is it just me or does she look like Lily - Rose Depp

[@mantaraylove]

I think she should let the ex adopt the dog and call it a day

[@Iammarado]

Yooo it’s such a red flag