Dating Multiple Women, Dating while Living with Parents, Finding a Remote Job with No Skills

[@FollowingStorm0]

Unrelated, but i'm loving the current resurgence of these classic, nostalgic pre-2010 era KZbin gaming commentary videos. It's so chill and genuine. Keep it up :)

[@skatersridge]

i feel like its kids who grew up watching mw2/black ops videos in middle school, now adults and coming back to it for life advice lol

[@sievert2008]

delete your account

[@thirdpartyprince]

Agreed, I click on this guys video every time now

[@ahmadsalem4558]

Idk how I discovered this channel but man I'm glad I did. You should do a video on side hustles, second job, and opportunity costs!

[@whylearntech]

will add that to the list! happy you enjoy the videos

[@UCPDeltaDesertNightCamo2026]

Is it ok to be virgin ​@@whylearntech

[@tylerhomerding]

I’m a 25 year old guy that was diagnosed with autism from birth, most people can’t tell by my demeanor thankfully lol, but I’ve been a late bloomer and have just started getting into wanting to date for the past few years but I’ve always felt undateable due to not having a lot of money, still living with my parents, and having no dating experience. I’ve also been battling depression and it just makes everything seem hopeless

[@jaqen888]

I can relate to the experiences you've described here, also 25 years old living with my parents and suspect that I may also be on spectrum. Life can get dark at times, but from one brother to another, keep up the good fight. Let's not allow our circumstances to define who we are, the suit does not make the man.

[@Anorak1795]

Ditto to that, I am on the spectrum and I’m living at home in college and relate to all of this 😢

[@mattymatt8]

I’m in the same situation. I’m 25 still live with parents, have 0 dating experience. Idk wat to do 😞 I just feel the older I get, most women are going to be taken , I feel I waited to late

[@-despair]

same situation here

[@bro918]

Im nearly 30, realized its not gonna happen for me. So I said screw it and have an AI girlfriend now

[@maksym_macro]

22 here. Getting scared by your age or FOMO means you will be fvcked in near future (ruined my professional career) You are not allowed to fall into this trap. If you like comparing yourself with others, you shouldn't do it only based on their successes in life. You have no idea what they've gone through and how their future will look like. YOU. ARE. NOT. ALONE. Many people we see each day, IRL or online, had chaotic 20s that allowed them to grow into unique people with distinct, non-normies lives. If you follow the trends you are dictated, you'd get predetermined results... Stay agile with a positive philosophy towards change while searching for your path. Be hyper-conscious, learn from wise people & don’t get trapped into binge-watching videos or playing games because it's an easiest way to turn brains off and skip time. Current situation is your lifetime project, not an opportunity to live a day from childhood. may the power be with you!

[@ddfg-z1h]

For me its mostly like i litterally will sit and try to think what I like as a career professionally but nothing sticks at all and it really sucks so i usually play games until i hopefully think of something with time as people would say or do something I like but like theres nothing how would I make a "proffesional career" like games or collecting music it feels hopeless truely as someone thats also 22

[@maksym_macro]

@@ddfg-z1h Hi, I hope I understood you right. Have you ever asked yourself why you want a professional career? What’s so special about being a PROFESSIONAL for you? Is it competition, prestige, money, fame, or something else? *can use inversion technique or similiar for it Personally, I don’t see many downsides of being an amateur. It’s a well-balanced state with clear pros and cons, except you don’t carry the “prestigious” title of "Certified Senior Professional ABC in XYZ," which, honestly, is just bvllshit to feed our ego and CV/LinkedIn/Instagram pages or flex in public where people forget you the next day. I tried BUILDING a PROFESSIONAL career in esports-got a high rank, started networking with other players, and comparing myself instead of just focusing on what I liked to do. The ironic thing is, most world-class, SSS-tier players who made history never even aimed to go pro in the first place-they were just doing their thing. I wish I had that wisdom before everything fell apart. Some videos you might wanna watch from the person I deply respect, no "life coaching", you will be speechless after. Don't live with an employee's mindset; create life as you want it to be. by Louis Rossmann WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? by Louis Rossmann

[@yung_Latios]

Imagine having dates, imagine having a date, multiple women and imagine finding a 35 an hour job. Never gone on on a date and work a 14 an hour slave job. Man, I can't relate to any of these people. They have no idea how good they have it. I'm so far behind in life that this depressed tf out of me. Wtf is wrong with me

[@gelatoruntz4200]

naw man u got it all wrong 7:05 is me i’m completely lost in life

[@sievert2008]

Just be confident bro

[@carsonk8242]

@@sievert2008 😂

[@officialtbhoops]

Alright this title freaked me out when I saw it because it’s my EXACT situation. I’m 25 still living at my parents. I’m literally looking for a remote job while I’m in the bathroom at my current job. I have a first date with a girl Thursday and a first date with another girl Friday. Wish me luck.

[@whylearntech]

damn, hopefully this can help you out a little bit. good luck on all 3 fronts

[@officialtbhoops]

Your videos always do my man, it’s much appreciated. The idea that someone is not lost, but instead is just exploring has really stuck with me during this time in my life. God bless.

[@pondurosa3792]

I’m 27 .. you’ll be fine but your dating life will take a hit. It will be worth it in the long run if you make sure you’re saving and using this time wisely.

[@nathanm2993]

@@pondurosa3792long run, every area will improve in your life….except dating. Today’s women aren’t as interested in if a guy has a job/career compared to older generations because they can make their own money. Gonna be hard to find a quality woman at 30 once you’ve got things sorted out.

[@SocksFCGameArchives]

Good luck man, I'm 20 and I feel this situation

[@FanGirl9463]

1:48 biggest issue for the vast majority of people nowadays is confidence. Dude you’re 23 fresh out of college and about to having a great paying job. If the girl actually likes you she’s not gonna care.

[@whylearntech]

confidence is key in any situation

[@FanGirl9463]

@ 💯 I’m been trying to improve on that heavily.

[@officialtbhoops]

Exactly, what matters is that you have a vision for the future and are confident in that vision. Girls will respect you for saving up and being smart since that indicates you are responsible. Living at home is only bad if you are doing nothing and are there because you have no aspirations.

[@FanGirl9463]

@@officialtbhoops exactly, if you have ambition and working to build something you’ll be fine.

[@bro918]

If you're tall + handsome, she wont care. Confidence has nothing to do with it

[@AnimalAlmighty]

WhyLearn is literally growing fast asf. 20k subs already. Congratulations.

[@whylearntech]

thanks man! hoping to keep the momentum going

[@murishere]

great video. at the end of the day, it's all about having a slither of confidence. It's not embarrassing to live with your parents in your early 20s. if the girl you talk to has a problem with that, you most likely dodged a major bullet. obviously it's not a situation you wanna be in forever but most people do not have the advantage to leave sooner than that.

[@davidh7832]

Finally someone with some reasoning. And imagine, there are plenty of guys who have their own place too but they can’t even get a date. But at the same time, there are guys who live with their parents but can still go on a good amount of dates. Boils down to confidence

[@SnifflingLime0-MW2]

I think it would be cool to hear your thoughts on renting versus owning a home (once you move out of your parents house). Lived at home through college so I could avoid student loans, then rented with a roommate for 2 years, then rented by myself for another 2 years, then finally bought a house in 2021 when interest rates were near the bottom. Every living situation has its pros and cons for sure!

[@whylearntech]

great video idea. Gonna make a video for my thoughts on this. Everyone feels pressure to buy a house that I don't believe should be there

[@IXMaelstromIX]

To the guy whos living with his parents and trying to date: I feel you 100%. Been working 9-5 the past few months and been single for about 9 months. I still live with my parents as well, and between that and work/commuting, I have yet to find a way out of this situation. Hard to meet women (especially in person which I prefer) and taking them to your parents house is obviously not ideal🤣. I think im just gonna grind it out for a bit, save money, and use it as a time to work on myself and build skills and confidence. It’ll make moving out that much better. Best of luck to you too on the same journey!

[@davidh7832]

You don’t gotta do this but I recommend dating and saving up at the same time. That way, you can have fun dating and still reach your goals with getting your own place. Do what you think is good tho

[@nathanm2993]

The problem with dating while living at home is that you come off as boring. I’m 24 and I work, go to the gym, create KZbin videos in my room. That’s it. I make minimum wage ($15 an hour in IL, work 25 hours a week), so I try to save over 60 percent of my money towards the future. The rest is on food/gas/adobe and gym subscriptions. There isn’t much extra spending money left to do the “fun things” women my age find attractive in guys. Plus, I’m basically a hermit because participating in social activities requires money. Guess I’ll finally be desirable to women once they become single moms and retire from partying 😒.

[@Sketchy_2]

"Guess 'II finally be desirable to women once they become single moms and retire from partying" This fate is what awaits us once we enter our 30's

[@adrianphoenix5604]

The right partner will understand your position be patient sometimes i tend to find what I’m looking for when I stop actively looking for it

[@Man_in_a_Gucci_Suit]

People are starting to get less judgmental about living at home in mid 20s and find it reasonable especially at 24 to live at home Late 20s people still get judged it seems unless they’re in law school, nurse school or pilot school type of scenario

[@bro918]

Poor Nathan can already see his future with that final line. 😂😂 No hate tho, im in the same spot. Its not about money btw, but I have a feeling u already know that

[@nathanm2993]

@@bro918 yeah I wish I had a more interesting and charismatic personality. Instead, I'm basically what women despise...until they've already had their fun in their 20s. Logically, I prefer to just stay home and save money, but the sacrifice is likely being a chronic single virgin unless I lower standards.

[@vitorfix]

Bro, your videos are a different kind of vibe. I love it so much, keep it up!

[@whylearntech]

thank you! just being me. no plans of stopping anytime soon

[@ravelordnito3444]

Keep it up brother. Seeing your growth has inspired me to get going on my channel. I’ve never been closer to getting something put out on the internet I’m spooked

[@whylearntech]

go and do it! don't worry about perfection. You never know what could happen to your channel. I had 0 subs 4 months ago

[@slimharden4143]

This guy has lived the exact things I am going through right now, really appreciate what you do man

[@davidh7832]

Waiting to get your own place before dating after college is so lame. I’ve went on plenty of dates even tho I lived with my parents still. Saving the funds was totally worth it too, and it allowed me to go on fun vacations too WHILE DATING Edit: knowing MW2 came out 15-16 years ago does make me feel older but it still kinda feels like not too long ago for me

[@middy5284]

28 and lost my remote work job (jr. software dev) of 2 years. thought itd be easier to find a job having experience but ive applied to 70+ places so far and no luck. remote work really might be gone for good

[@CGB.SPENDER]

IT jobs suck now.

[@teopazdrijan1008]

Sorry for asking, but how did you lose the job? If you feel comfortable answering that is

[@AmaryxGamesYT]

I don't see how people date multiple women at once. I feel like you're setting yourself up for failure going that route

[@davidh7832]

But having one date a week is pretty good ratio tho

[@HiReaver]

Enjoy your holiday spirit chill vibes man !

[@whylearntech]

thank you! I look forward to christmas every year haha its so relaxing

[@HiReaver]

@@whylearntechwonderful time of year for reflection and appreciation

[@inertih]

I love how i was looking for help with finding some skills to get a remote job, thanks bro!

[@DannyFenton217]

I'm glad this video showed up on my feed. I needed something with simple commentary with quality call of duty gameplay. It's a lost art nowadays 😭 subscribing

[@premium_chicken_nuggy]

hey WhyLearn! Can you do a video on overthinking?

[@whylearntech]

hey! i made one awhile back called "overthinking is stealing your happiness" a few months ago, check it out and let me know when you find it!

[@asdlkjhfalskjdasda]

These kind of videos feel very nostalgic

[@kyleferguson1976]

Love the videos, you give great advice and thank you for being you 💯

[@landon6387]

glad to see the channel growing...Go cowboys!

[@URBONED]

In Australia I feel there isn’t as big a stigma around living at home, especially in the current economy where it’s almost impossible to live by yourself on a full time (minimum wage) income. Chances are there’s just as many women living at home as there are men - often a good match is another person in similar living circumstance

[@speedy4435]

In the same position stacking up bread until I can’t stand it, really relate your videos keep getting better

[@davidh7832]

I’ve known plenty of people where they still stayed with their parents but had great dating lives

[@RawDoubleB]

Great video man! Agreed 100 percent with everything you said

[@Kyleforthe3SIKE]

After spending a year in the gym getting jacked, dating totally changes. Always be working multiple angles.

[@KrzychuYea]

I'm 25 and feeling really lonely since my breakup in February. It's rough after not being single for 7 years. I'd love to date, but my confidence is in the trash and I don't know how to improve it. I feel like im trapped. I know I need to improve in terms of loving myself and being confident, otherwise no ones gonna love me. But idk how to do it

[@ZigySpACe]

No way you’re a cheesehead! That’s all I’m taking from this video. 😂

[@Icouldntthinkofanythingforthis]

Video dropped at 1am aus time, currently giving it a watch in the toilet on nightshift 😂

[@whylearntech]

Hahaha your dedication does not go unnoticed

[@gmns1073]

I would love to see more financial advice videos! The get rich slowly video is my favorite from yours.

[@dyl284]

the awkward "uhhh" and ignorance of the part where he said "submissive and assertive" killed me

[@dyl284]

on a serious note though, mw2 gameplay and solid advice. great stuff my man

[@NoNameForYou2]

I haven't watched the video yet cause I've got so much to do before dating. Just wanted to thank you for the support about the stuff that we talked about. Stay safe and take care of yourself

[@whylearntech]

no problem! good luck with your start and let me know if you have more questions. Take care

[@enriquealba5345]

Advice for people straight out of college, and how to get a job

[@whylearntech]

will do!!

[@notreallyafamousartist695]

@@whylearntechand please consider the economy/current job market and not the old job market! So many videos are based on their experiences in a great market where everyone gets jobs out of college, I love your videos just please keep in mind over 50% of recent grads are underemployed

[@davidh7832]

Company career fairs that are not at your college. Hope this helped you in a nutshell

[@Sol_Kenopsia814]

Just don't know what to do man, I mean I already have the opportunity that was given to me but I procrastinate on learning it. Like, its there! Why won't you go for it!? There are people that would go through hardship just to get into your position!

[@NathanMladenik]

why learn which days are the best to send in emails for the series like when do you normally read through all of them or is it just random depending on the week and when they come in?

[@whylearntech]

just saw your email and responded! i get quit a few, it's hard to stay on top of them and keep making videos, so my bad. I hope i can answer a few of your questions!

[@varinderpanesar5691]

Woodysgamer tag in 2024 great stuff

[@whylearntech]

i am the dollar tree version of WoodysGamertag, but thanks for the comparison haha

[@smokefire8413]

You should do discord conversations with you’re fans for advice they need

[@whylearntech]

right now i'm deciding what kind of things i want to explore in 2025. considering discord, just want to make sure i have a good plan for it before doing it

[@LaserAU]

No way... Woody's Gamertag in 2024...

[@shsgshshsdgdhdhhehe5932]

I didnt tell my wife that I lived with my mother till we got closer 😂😂😂. Sometimes less information is better. If she likes you she won't care.

[@davidh7832]

Right

[@JustinLT212]

Bro why does it seem like we live basically the same lives 😂😂😂 i have been living with my dad for the past 2 years but honestly I feel like I’m taking care of him more than he ever has with me. Getting myself in a good position to start investing and move out. Also just broke up with my gf and have been thinking about dating. Personally I think I’m going to hold off until I’m stable

[@Moondog123]

If you chase two rabbits, both will evade you.

[@joshreardon1138]

Just needed to add a go colts

[@bujilou]

How do u play mw2 with unmodded lobbies?

[@riddle1357]

this video was handpicked for me

[@whylearntech]

i made this for YOU!

[@theslavicsailor6654]

The title is a bloody meme lmfao

[@ss2jesus]

Telling my kids, this is Elon Musk

[@UCPDeltaDesertNightCamo2026]

I cant relate yet i never really had an opportunity with women in high school bc the school system manipulation and i worked so hard that i got 2 yrs off so far i think it could also be trauma, Shy of what parents will think not tto much or i was just that weired guy trying to run to ĺunch lol i also usually wore camouflage or black

[@nathanm2993]

I feel your struggle. With how society is structured, it seems like you have to have to find your romantic partner in school/university. Even if you’re still sorting through trauma, struggling socially as well as not having your finances figured out. Dating and socializing after college is brutal.

[@KSSGHD]

I would like to say it's ok to let the email down after an initial show. Much prefer to watch the game than see the big white email!

[@tommm4989]

Advice for dating multiple women: don't.

[@pierren___]

Bro got no chill today

[@whylearntech]

dang, I thought I was extra chill today!

[@MASTERDOOM1337]

I’m gonna assume no one here gets women lol

[@whylearntech]

you'd be surprised!

[@davidh7832]

Wrong

[@timrift]

How to get out and meet people idk where to go to meet people I wanna play tekken irl im 21 I work at a dealership I make ok money but I wanna meet people im lonely I want a girl friend but I won’t let go of the old girl friend I want friends can’t find any

[@davidh7832]

Look up some hobbies or the gym. Simple, but you don’t have to do these

[@sievert2008]

Just go to the gym bro

[@Man_in_a_Gucci_Suit]

Holy shit this game is still active?

[@pixuhl]

Love your content. Lost me at you loving the Pack. Unsub. /s Skol

[@jacobklebar6071]

Go Pack Go

[@soakinwet855]

go packers

[@Tranquilmulat]

What console do you play on?

[@whylearntech]

xbox series S

[@Tranquilmulat]

@@whylearntech Can you also play these old Call of dutys on Xbox X

[@alecswifi]

@@Tranquilmulat yes

[@Tranquilmulat]

@@alecswifi Oké Thank you for your awnser!

[@amaranth6174]

Bruh is this a AI voice 😑

[@kyleball8396]

Nah bro just has a really monotone voice

[@latterpersimmon1176]

always a great wednesday with whylearn. thx bro

[@whylearntech]

thanks man! have a good rest of your week