Dating with disability

[@emilyhird2332]

Thank you so much Salt for talking about this subject. It was so lovely listening to Brittny and her experience and Godly take on things. It's not always physical disabilities but invisible disabilities too. I have epilepsy and have found people will be all too happy and enthusiastic to talk to me until I tell them I have epilepsy, then more often than not they will just simply ghost me or slowly but surely wean the conversation off. For me there's a certain amount of dread attached as I'm just ready for them to disappear, it will usually be in the "so what do you do for a living" kind of questions that it comes up- it makes me appreciate the ones who stick around and take the time to truly know me even more!

[@emilyhird2332]

@@bre496 thank you so much Brittny! And you, you are deserving of someone so special! 😘 Xxx

[@be_salt]

Thanks for sharing so openly

[@aliciajo5802]

I am so proud of you Britny. You had a lovely interview. Expressed yourself extremely well & you were very open. Job well done. Applications are open.🥰😆🤣

[@be_salt]

She did well

[@SilvanoGF]

Great interview. Such an intelligent and articulate young woman.

[@be_salt]

Yessss

[@ebbie118]

Thank you for taking about this as have CP to soo I can relate soo thank you soo much love Ebony

[@be_salt]

You are so welcome

[@blessblessthompson7554]

BlessBless Britny, You are amazing🙏🏾 love your positivity

[@be_salt]

She really is amazing!

[@raes-world]

Britny is beautiful and glowing ✨ loved this conversation!

[@be_salt]

Yess!

[@britnyvirginiaa]

Awww thank you so much!!!

[@rozetahenry4697]

This is soo Amazing britny! Thanks for being transparent. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@rozetahenry4697]

@@bre496 keep pushing through ABBA got plans for you!!!🙏🏽🙌🏾👏🏾❤️

[@be_salt]

He's got good plans!

[@francessedward9341]

Great interview Britney. God bless you always

[@be_salt]

She's great

[@yvonnegrundy9765]

Great conversation! Thank you for sharing ♥️

[@be_salt]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@CalJonel]

Well done for bringing this to the platform! Great work, Britny. 🙏🏾❤️

[@be_salt]

🙌

[@fiyinifebogun7932]

An important thing to talk about, Britny! ❤️

[@richardshanemaxwell9015]

Congrats 👏👏👏👏👏 hope to see

[@handlinggrief]

Looking forward to seeing you xx

[@yvonnegrundy9765]

Looking forward to this Brit! ♥️

[@testimonymaria7677]

Looking forward to this Britny🥰🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@NadiaRMantock]

Britny is such a peaceful, graceful, wise woman of God, loved the video! 💕

[@be_salt]

We agree!

[@britnyvirginiaa]

Awww thanks Nadia❤😊😘😘

[@alexogilvie9668]

This is a very complex topic to dissect, but I wanted to focus on what Lauren said about getting in a dismissive 'no, no, no' mindset. I think oftentimes it's women who are choosy like that - I'm sure the stats will agree that women swipe 'no' far more often. Biologically, women carry more 'risk' than men when it comes to sex, so they must choose well. Also, women are the fairer sex, so naturally they're more attractive on a dating profile that's a few photos and a snippet about them. Men however provide their value in ways that aren't based on looks, that can't be easily captured for a profile. Since men and women are attracted to somewhat different things, I don't think a dating app can ever balance things - as good as SALT is, it can't fix that kind of systemic imbalance. If you ask men and women what is difficult about dating - women say it's finding a quality match, and men say it's getting any matches. At the end of the day, the best option remains to trust in God's goodness and His provision.

[@be_salt]

Dating apps are certainly a tricky environment

[@stevenhallows5056]

To work together. But honesty is important. ? Does Age differece matter to you

[@be_salt]

That's a good question for another video - is age difference a deal breaker?

[@aliciajo5802]

I am so excited 😊

[@britnyvirginiaa]

Interesting perspective. CP isn't generic or passed down and infertility affects non disabled women and men. But I pray you find your person and have many healthy children, and grow in your understanding of the world and others too. God bless you!

[@deynahbc-worshipleader4012]

Love this sis🔥❤

[@be_salt]

Thanks 🔥

[@ghgghhggghhh]

Based Christian men want children and in my case want many children. Having a disability excludes you from that selection process. It isn’t ‘his’ loss, it’s your loss. But you can still date and find someone right for you

[@alexemily5945]

Having a disability doesn’t necessarily stop you having children.

[@be_salt]

That's true, often a conclusion people jump to

[@ghgghhggghhh]

@@alexemily5945 it doesn’t- but if your genes are faulty there’s a biological disincentive for a man to want to have children with you.