Never Chase After Being Dumped

[@DoomCoC]

love of my life dumped me with no warning. said she lost feelings. anyone else here edit: found the actual love of my life and i am happy. keep moving brothers

[@stephenpark6157]

Same here. I hear ya

[@DoomCoC]

Stephen Park doesn't get any easier from here man. how you holdin up?

[@DoomCoC]

Song Lyrics fuck man i feel you

[@dillon694]

You may think she is the love of your life, but she isn't bro.

[@DoomCoC]

Dillan Mendis its easier now but you may be right

[@Erweezy27]

I wish I never met her. This has been the most painful thing I have ever dealt with. Even the lost of immediate family members didn't hurt this much. I am heartbroken beyond words.

[@edgarasa3610]

Dude same. We had so much in common and everything was great. But looking back now I could tell she was afraid of love. She stressed herself out so much that she couldn't handle it anymore and left. Messed me up bad. My advice, cry as much as you can dude. Not even kidding, crying is such a good medicine. Sometimes I study and she intrudes my mind and i just bawl it out and get back to work when I numb out. I feel this is why everyone is doing the "hook up" thing because everyone has gotten burnt and now nobody wants to commit.

[@kenhenry4389]

True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost. Do you need your ex back if yes I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay

[@kenhenry4389]

message him on WhatApp.

[@kenhenry4389]

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[@adamgafa1693]

Same

[@Plainsimple67]

SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO BE ALONE TO REBOOT YOURSELF.

[@donmental12]

Reboot and build up your mind!!!

[@Plainsimple67]

@@donmental12 YOU CAN PUT IT OR WORD IT HOWEVER YOU WANT.

[@jaycris1980]

Sam Gregorian exactly. Honestly though I’ve been just concentrating on my self my houses my cars and business I don’t need women. They just get in the way! If I need to get laid I just lease a nice hooker at Vegas.

[@Plainsimple67]

@@jaycris1980 WELL, THAT'S ONE WAY TO GO. I THINK IF YOU DO EVENTUALLY FIND SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE COMPATIBLE WITH, DON'T BREAD DOWN THEIR NECK, KEEP THEM ARMS LENGTH AWAY AND LET THEM COME AFTER YOU ALL THE TIME. WOMEN ARE LIKE YOUR SHADOW, YOU CAN NEVER CATCH YOUR SHADOW, BUT WHEN YOU WALK AWAY YOUR SHADOW ALWAYS CHASES YOU.😉😏👍

[@jaycris1980]

Sam Gregorian for sure.

[@rolsonDotcom]

Walk and never look back. Close to 3 billion women on the planet. Move on!

[@suit465]

R O hahaa 100% like.

[@miguelibaceta5800]

that's the spirit

[@sinthiyapremra7793]

R O have sex with all 3 billion these men will never be fulfilled!

[@Lyndan]

What bad advice

[@twotearsinabucket5111]

R O slow clap

[@kenwilson4477]

Don't chase them, replace them.

[@northtown3816]

That real G Shit im going thur this to F Her....

[@ahmedalhosani6895]

But it hurts.

[@garrettjones8017]

@@ahmedalhosani6895 Dude get used to it life sucks. Learn to enjoy the little things cause most things are shitty. Dont wish for things to be easier train yourself to be stronger

[@lonewolfgaming7511]

But I only want her

[@culu4877]

Next one that comes along... Dump them, before they dump you. Kind of like being faster in a gunfight duel.

[@xmontovanillix]

If you just broke up with your S/O trust me on this, Don't message them or anything. Move on with your life. They will contact you in 3-6 months and you most likely will be far over them by then.You'll also see that in the end it was most likely for the better. Yeah, you still love them now and a part of you always will but trust me it gets way better. Not saying 2nd chances never work but it will be if it's meant to be. And if they cheated on you please do yourself a favor and delete them from your life for good lol don't fuck with cheaters, they're a waste of time.

[@sshuteandrew]

My guy left me 16 months ago. The past 15 months I’ve been seeing him casually hoping if I was understanding, patient and kind enough then he’d choose us. Instead he emotionally dead and remains alone.

[@xmontovanillix]

@@sshuteandrew I see you and a few other people on like every video I watch 😂 keep up the work. But I feel you, It feels like things would be so much better now if only they'd notice. (probably the original problem 😂😂)

[@sshuteandrew]

MixDatSalt Yeah, Thx...I don’t even know why I miss him anymore. He was a shell of his former self but I kept thinking he’d come back. You can’t make someone step up. For the first time I’m going to let him feel his choice.

[@DblockK.Ford720]

💯💯💯💯

[@scottdavidson526]

@VKRGFAN I know them well. The Cluster B and there is and C as well, but the Cluster B's are the most talked about as well as the most damaging; especially if you're a codependent.

[@breatheliveandthrive7404]

She's never yours. It was just your turn. NEXT!

[@Ptolemy336VV]

Such low view of yourself. Noone is noones posession. And I don't do turns as a man. When I am going for a woman, I am going for being decades together. I don't need the other bullshit. I only hear guys here saying this simplistic nonsense you're cramming and that many of the men just like to do a quick date and go on to the next. Yes, with such mentality I can understand you talk about someone is never yours and it was your turn. Some women also think like that. But they are the women who I don't want. They are the crappy ones. I had a 11 year long relationship which I broke up at the end. But it was not because of her, but in how I felt physically in attraction to her. But either way, she was an incredible person, she had incredible heart, carried great values, and till the end of the relationship she still believes I am the best person ever to be in her life. That is the kind of women I am talking about. And I have always tried my very best for her. That I had change in feelings over so many years is something I could not help and does not make me or her better or worse. In any case. Women or men who think like you do, don't really have good self respect nor values

[@breatheliveandthrive7404]

@@Ptolemy336VV dude, relationships rarely work. I don't hate women. I just learned men and women respond differently in love dynamics. Get yourself more info. on how women operate so you will have a better understanding and ultimately place you in a better position in your next relationship. Goodluck!

[@Saniraf808]

I’m never her’s. It’s just her turn. Or We are never owned, we just have our time together.

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭👀☝️😥👀

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

ViawhatsApp💔😄👀😥

[@bijoybasumatary3163]

Breakup is like a second chance which gives the person to learn more

[@ck552]

That's a good way of looking at it.

[@joeashbubemma]

Chase and you've lost your balls. It took me years to grow them back. It's not worth it boys. You pursue her, to get her to chase you. If she's not chasing you, you're dead in the water.

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

true

[@lisaariottiart]

Get therapy- know who you ARE-- get to KNOW the person you WANT and STOP wasting TIME ...

[@kb2825]

What if she pregnant, a whole new ball game now huh 😆

[@Wolf-Law77]

Self esteem and self respect is paramount. If you want her and she dumped you, don’t chase her. Only ONE time tell her that you want her, and if she change her mind to give you a call. Just that. After that, you must move on as much as it hurts. (Special note: if she slept with someone else during the break up, DONT take her back) This is a great video with great advices.

[@funnygirlever]

Good advice if it was a bad relationship. A person should never go back to a toxic relationship.

[@jaycris1980]

KaribadariBoo Yang relationships are toxic! Mgtow is the key. I will introduce Tom leykis to these men who are lost!

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

never

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Chasing after someone who’s already decided to move on can be so tempting, but it rarely ends well. Instead, focusing on self-improvement is the way to go.*

[@nunovyobeeswax4177]

never chase busses or women, you'll always get left behind

[@zoyjoy4567]

Also bus train women

[@ifeanyindukuba]

"Soul mates don't exist" I like that 👍 true.

[@MrCjchamp]

Jim is the best

[@oneputtsteven]

When you made mistakes(like I did) and you know it, it's even more painful. You can ask for a second chance but it just makes it worse, because she probably gave you second chances without you knowing. Plus like he said, those negative things you and I did will never ever leave her mind, even if she wanted to erase them, it's very sad that I lost a beautiful woman because I didn't have the right relationship skills.

[@rosilypianist759]

realist stuff right here. but most likely bro she loved you and she probly sad too when she gets married double bet she be miserable as hell. my ex/ friend now made mistakes and i doubt ill even get married now id rather stay single if it isnt him.

[@Don-pk2uy]

What did you do wrong???

[@giordanopioli1922]

My exact same story

[@aviationwingz9402]

@@immanuelcarretero103 LDR worst type of relationships Hate LDR soo much , rather stay single than be with even my soulmate on LDR I've experienced it. Its like a cracked window waiting to be shattered.

[@joshforeman1723]

In many cases, possibly yours is not his fault but the woman's, or rather the mother of nature. You may have committed things like not bringing that sexual intensity, that affective communication, not being emotionally present at all times, etc but let me tell you the following if the thing breaks down, it is her fault because she has not put in effort, she has not He indicated exactly what was happening to him and he has not shown empathy in the face of your difficulties, a situation that you could be going through. She still complains about 3 of your mistakes but if you analyze it carefully you see that she made those same "mistakes" or even made the same mistakes even to a greater extent or even more but yours are the ones that will count. I am not saying that you cannot be guilty, nor that you are perfect, nor that you do not need it or that it is good that you learn more about relationship skills but so that you take it into account. You did everything you could with the resources you had, they were not enough for her, keep in mind the hypergamic side, she could have seen someone who was a better match, more handsome, rich, successful. Get better, increase your value, learn more about social skills, sexual skills, relationships skills, dating skills, men and woman dynamics and go with another woman. That woman doesn't deserve your best version. Good luck and I hope life smiles on you!

[@RocKaiGaming]

I got dumped outta nowhere by an ex-narcissist gf. That shit hurts man. 10 minutes ago you're both happy, 10 minutes later. Boom!

[@renep7008]

RocKai74 Pretty much how it happens. Welcome to the club.

[@RVCAXD]

Same

[@darrenwong1719]

Same here. I hope you are okay now

[@Sekouguru]

Still happeneing..

[@mr.blulights1165]

My girl left me just an hour ago. Said I was too negative. She bitches about everything. Got me lost while driving because she wanted to talk about something and then called me stupid and whatnot because I couldn't follow her directions that she wasn't giving.

[@jasonmaruszak812]

similar to what i went through. I paid for a trip. Road trip through mountains. She wants to pull off and eat, were already running late. Shes navigating but on her phone texting. We miss the exit in the dark rainy mountains. I show annoyance and she barely talks to me, turns it around on me. I didn't mock, name call, raise my voice- yet I was still the bad guy. How's your year been?

[@kb2825]

😆 sounds like that's been going on for too long if she's comfortable enough to call you stupid to your face bro.. Hopefully, y'all don't have kids or married that will make things much easier to start over

[@ianbetts4435]

Sounds like you dodged a fuclcing bullet bro. Thank your lucky stars.

[@marcvslicinivscrassvs7536]

Take the time for introspection if you get dumped. When I was younger, I never really registered getting dumped because there was always someone else in the picture immediately after. A series of rebounds. I never really learned anything about myself. I never learned why I was losing women (or keeping toxic women). This time I decided to not do anything after getting dumped. I faced the loneliness, took time to look at myself and what was wrong (fear of being alone). Now, I feel so much better. Also, the ex is back looking for me...

[@Rapture749]

I'm in the same situation. Breakups haven't affected me before but now I am alone to work on myself. The loneliness is tough but I'm learning so much about myself.

[@marcvslicinivscrassvs7536]

@@Rapture749 Give it a month or two. You'll be surprised at how different your perspective is after.

[@kimberlytippen4436]

Damn ur ex is looking for you wow wish my ex too 😔 6 years of relationship one day she left me cuz of anxiety why people are so mean i just don't understand 😔😔

[@marcvslicinivscrassvs7536]

@@kimberlytippen4436 The ex looking for you isn't really a good thing. It just means that they are looking to keep control over your emotions. They can't understand why they were able to control you and then you got away.

[@k-grizz541]

Females love attention. They want all the attention they can possibly get and they try to keep you in your back pocket as plan B in case the guy they really want doesn't work out.

[@SinisterSinemaProductions]

I was always more healthy and in shape than my ex. I just remained focused on making music and promoting it. I didn't like how she was negative. She had no hobbies so she was clingy and wanted too much of my time. She needed constant reassurance and validation. She needed me because she was a single mom and I said I never would date a single mom but I went for her anyway. But I was seeing someone else since we weren't official yet. Honestly, she didn't want to lose me to another woman so she tried to get me. Once she got me she found someone else. I learned that women love/like you for who you are then they spend time breaking you down and changing you. After they change you they leave for the guy who you used to be. So always be yourself. Don't change for anyone.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

I would watch what you say about single mothers. They are trying for their kids. Watch what you say or come out ..!! Take it from me I'v been a single mother I am still young and doing what I need to do for my kids. Maybe you were'nt not mentally ready to be a step father that's all.. I'v been single mother for 3 years without my child Father Around. I work 2 jobs and going to school and taking care of my own Family's.. like I mean we do co parenting together for the sake the kids. But anyways I would of you I would watch what you say period.. !! All single mother are trying .. if you can't take the lead of being Father Figure than you wasn't ready in the beginning

[@SinisterSinemaProductions]

+Camille CE I say whatever the fuck I want and no I was not ready to raise anyone elses fuckin children. She couldn't give me one either. im not talking about all single moms im talking about the woman I was seeing. So, get your kid a juice box and get the fuck out of my face.

[@SinisterSinemaProductions]

+VKRGFAN She claims to have a few things going on with her but nothing is coming out as truth. there's always something going on with her.

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

NEVER CHANGE FOR HER

[@chetan3847]

golden words

[@acedjgaming6779]

She's not yours. It's just your turn to ride the ride. Enjoy it while it lasts. Nothing in this world is permanent. Embrace fluidity and change. May the blessings be.

[@ahmog]

being dumped is a blessing. New life new ventures new opportunities

[@joybaylon1075]

True

[@KingOfZamunda]

If you get back with your ex you will forever be on the backfoot. You will become a jester. Never take back your ex.

[@snowwalker9999]

9:35 a woman who is interested in you never dumps you. If they dump you it's because they were never interested in you. They have just been using you.

[@aruvielevenstar3944]

Snowwalker or pity you...and wanted to leave earlier but the boyfriend threatends to kill himselve if she does..

[@i_know_youre_right_but]

I don’t agree with you there. Attraction does fade. I was crazy in love with a girl, two and a half years later I fell out of love with her. Times change and we change with them

[@Don-pk2uy]

@@i_know_youre_right_but why did you fall out of love?

[@i_know_youre_right_but]

Don Smith she was sweet and loving at first, she was the perfect woman for me, everything I wanted in a woman. Fast forward to about six months later and she turned out to be a nasty girl. Constantly put me down and tried to stop me from going out with my friends, pulled me away from my family, called my money “our money” (even though her money was for herself), constantly guilt tripped me for anything as simple as not cuddling her to sleep. She would demand to check through my phone and actually got pissed off when she couldn’t find proof that I had been cheating on her, one time she wouldn’t speak to me for days.. Because she had a fucking DREAM that I cheated on her. But, I was young and naive, she was older and would tell me that those things were normal in a relationship. In the end I had enough. She drove me away from her so I finished with her and never looked back. This is partly why I think the no contact rule is bullshit.. When I left my ex girlfriend, I felt free like a heavy weight came off my chest, I found myself again, now I’m in an amazing relationship with a woman who really is perfect for me, as I am for her

[@antilaw9911]

Not true.

[@hassanoa6242]

she asked me if I still like her and I left her on seen

[@madden12]

Savage

[@Jhonatittz]

BF3 FreeKickers did she break up w you?

[@joelcuellar8405]

BF3 FreeKickers haha!

[@AbhishekRawat90831]

that's the way bro.. love it :D

[@unk4659]

good job

[@charlesbl3431]

Wishing all of you watching this, self growth and a healthier futur relationship. Keep growing personally, financially, spiritually. It's not an easy road, I hate being single, it feels so lonely. In my case, I dumped a girl who had already moved on, had another guy in mind, but didn't have the guts to leave me yet. When you hit rock bottom that can become a solid foundation. Keep it up ❤

[@paradiseisland3352]

The thing is when you walk away that same person who dumped you gonna see you so different and want you back so bad

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

I Doubt that very much... IM ALMOST POSITIVE WHEN A PERSON JUST WALKS AWAY LIKE YOU ARE NOTHING IT IS , WHAT IT IS....

[@leonbatista7654]

If she dumped you she already had somebody!! Great video!!

[@MrMrjack18]

That's not always true, some women just can't go on with the guy and brake up !

[@franciscomaldonado37]

Moo

[@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359]

Not always the case..i have done it 2 times...and i didnt have a back up...it was because i was tired of their crap...a good woman will never return

[@fouinylantigua5701]

Going about my Fathers business u ll never tell the true

[@ovir1872]

Yeah just found that out

[@rjack58]

Generally, when she initiates a breakup, she's not hurt over it. He, on the other hand, is devastated! Accept the breakup, suck it up, show no emotions, and wish her well! Never look back, move forward. The same holds true when he breaks up with her.

[@andrewhurst918]

Learned so much from this! Its so important to take time to realise what mistakes you may have made whilst with a woman. This is the only real path to learning and wisdom - and making sure you don't do the same again in future. But definitely move on and forward, one day comes when the cloud just lifts and you feel electric. But its all a process. Step by step.

[@advokris]

Your advice here was absolutely correct here after a rejection. I walked away never looking back when she said " I'll call you, don't call me". Then she called me after 30 days which I thought might happen. This has happened before when I didn't give a sh--t twenty years ago. You have to show emotional strength as a man. Its an attractive quality to women. Then YOU decide what you want to do.

[@seadd1]

best advice ever! Just move on, don't chase!

[@HahnBB]

I like how this guy repeats everything. HOW - HE - REPEATS - EVERYTHING !

[@RecreationalUseOnly]

Want to get your ex back? Find new women. Younger women. More fun women. But focus on the career just as much.

[@alanabutkiss5331]

There is a high price to pay for dating younger women. They are shallow, get board easy and are extremely fikle. If you want to date a woman for her youth and looks expect her to date you for your money and privilege's.

[@alanabutkiss5331]

But by the sounds of it you are shallow and fickle anyway so I am sure you will get what you deserve.

[@Wolf.88]

Just A Tip TRUE

[@mrpickle9117]

Why would you date another woman just to get your ex back? It doesn’t make sense. Your just wasting the other person time. How about don’t date and rush into a relationship cause it’s not healthy if your not over your ex.

[@azeer777]

Alana Wray women in general get bored .. some quicker than others.

[@serenechong3652]

After 5 long term relationship. Man. Take this advice. STAY SINGLE.

[@kateowen5384]

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[@Cris5598]

5 months, talk about 10 years and three children.

[@crazymartinez2814]

Time is a good healer...acceptance is the best answer...let it be

[@wyzee6262]

I was a fool. Shouldn't have let my heart out for her to step over. But we learn from mistakes, don't we?

[@sanub4830]

Yes we are

[@jamesg2609]

I get it.. 16 years she left on October 9th. Heard from her once.. Never mentioned getting back together. The more I listen to Jims videos the better I am feeling. She has a borderline personality disorder. I feel you your pain. Just remember you can't get dents out of a can from the outside only the inside out. Let's be strong and get the women we want.

[@Samanthax1221]

i heard that you should RUN from anyone with borderline personality disorder, because they will destroy your entire life, fortunate for you indeed to be left by this woman, thank your lucky stars,

[@Lifes_Frosting]

I feel like people get too comfortable when they're in a relationship and they take things for granted. They stop doing all of the things they should be doing, like taking GREAT care of themselves, doing things for others, examining the problems in their relationships, learning about women/men, creating a life they enjoy etc. If you are constantly a work in progress and trying to live your best life and treating women/men well, you will have great relationships because you will be doing the WORK. Relationships are work not a vacation. If you want that special woman back then do what you need to do to improve yourself to make yourself attractive to her again. You don't need to give up and move on, just do the work and show her that you're different, you've evolved. You will have to do it anyway but it takes more effort to start from scratch with another woman than to reignite the flame with a woman you've already built something with. I agree that you shouldn't "chase" but, let her know VERY subtly that's she still on your mind and that you haven't lost interest. Don't stalk her. Act confident even if it's killing you inside. She wants & needs to see your strength. Give her the space she needs to begin to miss you. She'll start to notice that you're changing and the attraction will begin to build again. Take it slow. Good luck everyone.

[@mixedchickULike]

I love your advice. It's so much better than the video. My husband of 35 yrs left me 3 weeks ago. I'm working on me now but I hope he comes around again and sees the changes. Right now he deactivated his phone, closed his p.o. box and moved out of our home. Blamed me for everything. He wasn't able to look at the man in the mirror. I still love him and I pray that he comes around.

[@jeremyfannon8537]

That's exactly how I got my ex back. We were only broken up for 3 months that time then We were back together for 2 years. Were Took our daughter to Disney and everything. Now she's ended it again and with someone else again. We were together a total of 7 years. I miss my family :(

[@WHaAteVaA]

you make more sense than the coach up there ....

[@stevewoodson4635]

Tayurus. Nonsense

[@amiteshdas6595]

That's like licking your own spit

[@betareybill9400]

It really just depends on your situation...and if you were the one who was at fault for her falling out of love with you then how can you blame them...if you did absolutely nothing wrong and you were perfect then yeah...move on.

[@TheSunnyMorningsStarryNights]

First comment that is not gender biased and makes complete sense!!! 😊 Good luck with your life. 👍

[@Bradlanpher]

We were engaged. I lied about a small thing...she left me...i wound up in a mental health ward for a week

[@fletcherjones605]

For how long now Do you need her back

[@jasonmaruszak812]

How are you now?

[@carolmaz8675]

@@fletcherjones605 the right person won’t ever let you go . And you can never scare away the right person x stay strong 💪

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭🥺😥💔

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

ViawhatsApp💔💕❤️💔

[@sports4160]

0:51 "Angelina jolie recently left brad pitt".... Let that sink in guys!

[@Tony-dh]

KZbin KZbin she is one step away from satan.

[@djsonofibiza]

and she cut off her tits and adopted 5 extra kids go figure hahaa how low can u go as a man when u have it all and dont use it

[@robpolaris7272]

A lot of women date, get married, have kids, divorce you and take 50 to 90 percent of everything you worked for. They see men as useful until they have kids. They don't care that kids need a mom and a dad. Now that Brad got sober she is still fighting to give him zero visitation. Nothing but vindictiveness. And in the long run it damages your children. But a parent that is narcissistic think their kids don't need anyone but them.

[@Tonychavez8226]

R Rockwell so true

[@StripesEmpire]

Whats the point....

[@jonasailo6819]

I apologise, told her that I've realise what i did wrong, ask her to give me chance to prove it, but she dont trust me..... So, the next girl will be the lucky one...

[@ifyify6073]

Absolutely

[@freezyjahau2995]

Kal tir daih rawh

[@wendygonsalves8587]

I'm a woman and found this information very helpful. He just told me he still loves his ex and always have after being with me for 4 years. Definitely not chasing after him. Thank you for the video.

[@ceoChief09]

4 years? Oof... sounds like he was just using you to get over his ex, you were the rebound.

[@islamo9200]

I am a girl and found this after my ex husband dumped me.

[@rc2487]

Thank you so much for the words of wisdom and encouragement. I am so grateful that I listen to your videos. I am 51 years old and I'm barely learning the true dynamics of women. One thing that I'm confused about is. Women are attracted to a man that is focused on his own goals, that's self confident. However what do you when a woman complains that you don't spend enough time with her? Alot of women desire attention and admiration. It seems like relationships are not about comprising. It's about a man accommodating his significant other. Yes alot of women in today's society are hypergamous. Women don't love men for who they are. They love what they can do for them. Alot of them are not emotionally stable either. I guess that it's true that you can't sacrifice your happiness just to make a woman happy. Hope you continue to make more videos.😊

[@stephenmartini5890]

We were totally in love with each other but I made a small mistake and she led me to believe she needed some space, ok she got it. (It was a work romance). I backed off and she chased me at every turn but she kept backing away when I asked her out. So, I walked. Being angry, she went to HR, said I was stalking her which ultimately got me fired. So, although I still love her, I may be their if she needs me but even if she begged and groveled she will never get me back. After five years with her living out in Tahoe, she is now texting hints. Beauty is skin deep but ugliness goes clear to the bone.

[@WellingtonNZdojo]

If you had text messages of her chasing you, they may have saved your job.

[@kerryfoster1]

STEPHEN MARTINI sounds like she played you like a violin.. Don't see you mention any new women? Five years I'd nothing. You can re-connect, after 10 or 15 years. Time is no separator!

[@Carybarnes123]

STEPHEN MARTINI good on you don’t dare be the narsasits victim They are damaged woman ! Save yourself as she do you more damage than Youl ever Know !!!! I have just come out of a narsasistic relationship and there is only one word for her !!! The Devil !!!! She was dead spiritually mentally physically and emotionally !!!!! Peace be with you ! Stay away 🙏

[@Carybarnes123]

Rembuden very true use them and show your bosses she will be in the kind of trouble she deserves like hell !!!! Do it

[@MrNormallan]

Youll be back with her by now being s sucker

[@clippers4me]

I was just dumped 2 weeks ago and it hurt's like hell so bad. So hard to move on. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. Unfortunately it's not easy to find another girl for me especially someone like her.

[@mrpink6337]

You’re gonna be ok, man. It gets better with time. But stay strong now

[@ashuporte5916]

I feel u man 🥺❤️

[@wyliehj]

Wish i saw this right after my breakup. I was one of those dudes who was obsessing over "how to get your ex back" vids. Never spent money on the programs tho thankfully 😅

[@elmalanmalan2175]

You are right about happiness nobody else is going to make you happy you make yourself happy 😊

[@shanuv12]

All these dating advice boils down to how much you value yourself, how much self respect you have. Once you establish your self worth everything fall in place automatically. Most people can not enjoy solitude and go crazy when lonely, we need to establish a healthy relationship with ourselves first before anything else.

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭

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[@michaelalexander4656]

Thanks Man, this has been one of the most positive messages I’ve heard in the last two weeks since my wife of fifteen years and four kids told me two weeks ago that she just wants to be single. She doesn’t want to talk about anything or go to counseling. She just wants out. This video makes more sense to me than all of the how to get her back videos. Thank you

[@natturnershatchet784]

Dude I’m in the same boat. How are you doing today ?

[@desmondlau1385]

Just to point out a few quotes and points that I personally love and can't agree more in this presentation. 1. We're not robots, we have feelings, it's hard to let someone go, but you're gonna look back, feel better and be more successful 6 months from now if you take that pain right now. 2. Remembering things you didn't like about her is not for putting her down. It's about painting a more realistic picture of her and your relationship. And keep the list to yourself. 3. Happiness is your job. A woman can add to your happiness but no woman is the source of your happiness. Happiness born from your genuine desire in life, a good woman is only there to make it better. 4. You're whole, awesome and complete the way you are right now. You don't need a woman to complete you.

[@MarkAlex]

It’s very difficult to forget betrayal after 27 years…

[@byronpawlitschek1400]

She said that she would never break up with me because of distance. Then three weeks later she broke up with me because of distance.😭

[@calliph]

Byron Pawlitschek same.

[@bettykoech9964]

she lied

[@petparadise6955]

Never trust human beings.

[@yourpoolguyz2904]

Bryon___ Same here! Women just enjoy lying to guys because they DO NOT like confrontation. They will look you in the eye and tell you how you complete them and are the most important person in their life and love you more than anything or anyone and then the next day tell you its over and to move on. Ha!Ha! Classic!

[@WWammyy]

Women live in the moment and act upon feelings so when their feelings change so do their actions

[@lemalu91]

No man was born incomplete...

[@timothycarljones4551]

As a 50 year old, I tried so hard and I don't think I could have treated a woman more perfectly. We seemed perfect for each other and had a wonderful 3 week holiday in the south of France. We lived separately and she lost her mum a couple of months ago, I supported her so much and all seemed great. Recently our intimacy became less and I eventually brought up the subject... She left immediately and we are over. I am devastated and feel alone, family have helped and I have left her alone. It is awful to be told that "it was never going to work" I am doing my best to move forward and hope to feel happy again. Good luck with anyone who has the same pain.

[@charlesjones2233]

I remember... going to counseling before we got married to get to the core of our issues and I have addressed my concerns over a particular man in her life while I watched the therapist asks her and hear the response...time later, my instinct was true... she was cheating Yes I want marry after that...and during a marriage counseling to correct communication, I as this therapist now focused on her mishaps... comes in the house from a toddlers birthday party with passion marks on her neck claiming, "I was blah, blah, blah... " Why did I stay?

[@chanchanbasumatary]

I used to chase before but now i dont care even if i love a lot ...but i know if u love u cant say i dont love u...if some one does never fall for him/her ....again

[@JohnSmith-cc3ud]

I needed this tight now. It's not just the advice, it's the genuiness behind it. It feels good to hear sense.

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

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[@orienator]

I am watching this as a girl and thankyou for this. I been dumped & lied to. He wasn't right for me, hopefully one day I can truly believe it

[@MichaelForrestChnl]

women just climb the ladder until they are with a handsome rich guy. We are just temporary entertainment for women. Someone to keep their ego boosted up.

[@MichaelForrestChnl]

the "me" generation

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

it a game loving women is mental i[[ness it a spell

[@MichaelForrestChnl]

you have to play a deceptive game to be with them. They automatically disqualify someone 100% honest and sincere.

[@chetan3847]

hahaha fact

[@MichaelForrestChnl]

VKRGFAN it's almost like the aliens wisked away all the "normal" women and so men are so fed up wasting their time getting their hopes bashed every time they go on a date that they just give up on women. I left the States because of that in 1997. I would average one very short relationship every 5 years in the States but down here in south america I average 1 every year. They remain short term because I just don't want to raise a family which is what these women want. But at least I can be with someone till they decide to search for greener pastures.

[@nathanclevland399]

I was just dumped too by the "love of my life". Even though the whiny baby part of my brain doesn't want to accept it the harsh truth is that these woman are simply not the love of our life. Neither of us have experienced true love yet nor do we know what it is obviously since we THOUGHT we did but here we are right... So lets do ourselves a favor and remember #1 shes not the love of our life. Even though our exes said it 100 times probobally, it was just something we said out of pleasant feeling. #2 thinking we lost the love of our life is extrememly toxic and will only be counterintuitive to moving on or trying to get her back. #3 if we never get back with our exes we will more than likely find another girl that we will reach true love with. #4 we have a purpose in life to work on that is far more important than a woman. #5 God is always there and he loves us more than anything. #6 it is 100% truth that we do not need a woman to live a content life. Peace, happiness,contentment, purpose.. these are not things that come from the world or any woman for that matter. They come from God and we can be the greateat version of ourself without any of these things we feel we need.

[@dan-sx1ig]

Everything happens for a reason.. So painful at the time 7 year breakup took me about 3 or 4 month to feel better. Going through a 6 month relationship breakup and this is just as tough.

[@frankovera7553]

The bad thing about starting fresh is that you will repeat the same circle and get from a position of strength to a weak position. People have to change to have a different result or find a more suitable woman.

[@Ascension_3030]

Good point. But one might argue, how do you maintain position of strength, when you live in the west? You get married and she has you by the balls, the moment you sign on the dotted line, and she is well aware of that

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭😄🌆🥺😄

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

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[@tomato474]

I was his soul mate and he dumped me for someone else, I love him more than myself. My big mistake )

[@tomato474]

@@xrpmax Thank you for support and kind words )

[@xrpmax]

No matter what you are a good person, believe in yourself, Pray and worry about you. Hopefully you will overcome the pain in your life. This whole event in the world has everything up in the air, sometimes we see the truth we were blind to see. I just woke up crying to God , I can't sleep. I feel a big hole in me.

[@tomato474]

@@xrpmax I feel your pain and will pray for you too. I hope you will recover soon. You MUST!

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

Obviously you weren’t his soulmate!!!!! He dumped you for his love of life the women who He Chose......

[@tomato474]

@@martinemaryhernandez729 I don't really care anymore, I lost him but I find myself and happy now! ))

[@markmessi335]

Thanks! I got dumped 2 months ago, and im still finding it hard to move on, but I will get there! She dumped me because she lost feelings for me. Still haven’t accepted it, but im trying my best

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭😁☝️❤️

[@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449]

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[@samfowles4580]

I'm a woman. And this has helped me

[@KnightessAndHerNobleSteed]

I was very mentally and physically ill and had a nervous breakdown and I pushed my wife out and I'm regretting it she is my true love and my heart only belongs to her we girls are soulmates and I'm forever without her going to be miserable and I'm working on every part of my life to try to get her back and prove to her how Deeply passionately our love is

[@kevindotson4567]

The amount of time that it takes to "get over" a relationship, depends on both the situation and the individual.

[@rickharnish55]

My problem loved her to death am old 57 feel i will never find that again... she was a Narcissist....heartbroken

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

love them to life

[@goldennightingale5791]

Narcississt even with friends is dangerous

[@SoberIrishman]

Dealing with the narcissist discard currently

[@soundgarden7928]

Come here to the philippines rick. I’m gonna give you the girl that you’ll want first.

[@Omnitrix8]

@Andrew Adams it Will NEVER last. Trust me. Most young guys don't ever want to be seen in public with a 50yr old woman. They only see older women as fantasies and conquests. In time, it will hit her.

[@donallwin1663]

She just dumped me, I thought she is the one and this just happened, Anyone else like this!

[@Richjunior1]

Simps will never learn

[@noi5019]

I decided to be a better liar and use people it works alot than u think

[@jackassfat]

lol

[@gothamems5628]

😂👍 SOLID

[@mr.know_it_all]

Date as soon as possible, even if it doesn’t feel right. Way better then sitting around with self pity. The adventures alone will be satisfying.

[@BLaCkKsHeEp]

I would leave an insightful comment but damn I gotta take a shit

[@PopcornHunter0]

Right now i’m in the gym on the same place where I was 55 weeks ago. My love life hasn’t really been what I’d hope it would be the last few years.

[@rjack58]

If you get her back the problems will be WORSE!

[@addisonbyers9958]

This is a bit deeper than most of the relationship advice out there. Very insightful.

[@veraoipe3327]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭😁💯😭

[@veraoipe3327]

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[@mahanaryan7806]

0:23: 💔 Dealing with a breakup is a common experience for men, and seeking advice is a positive step forward. 3:38: 💔 Moving on from a breakup is essential for personal growth and success. Starting fresh with a new partner can lead to a stronger position and greater happiness. 7:11: 🔑 Moving on after a break-up: declutter, help others, and reflect on past relationship without negativity. 11:07: 🔑 Importance of continual learning in dating and relationships. 14:51: ⚡ Building a fulfilling life before seeking a partner can reduce the impact of rejection and breakup. Recap by Tammy AI

[@jacobjerde1315]

Don’t give money to institutions give it to friends 👫

[@stevenbeesley3329]

Get over it and walk away. If they comeback, walk away! Remember, she can and will be replaced !

[@stevecotton453]

When dumped do this... 1 - Start training Jiu-Jitsu 2 - Train more Jiu-Jitsu 3 - Tell people you train Jiu-Jitsu 4 - Train more Jiu-Jitsu 5 - Buy Jiu-Jitsu related apparel so you don't have to tell people anymore...they just know 6 - Quit your job so you can train more Jiu-Jitsu 7 - Teach Jiu-Jitsu so that everything comes full circle. Answer = Jiu-Jitsu solves everything and chicks dig Jiu-Jitsu(at least that's what I tell myself when not doing Jiu-Jitsu, which is never). At the very least you will become a savage who can handle anything Results may vary...

[@Samanthax1221]

steve i guess you are awesome at jiu jitsu now lmao does it attract women, :) it must,

[@steviejits2967]

@@Samanthax1221 Only if you’re humble about it my friend 😉

[@Samanthax1221]

@@steviejits2967 steve how do you be humble about being a ju jitsu god

[@steviejits2967]

@@Samanthax1221 Dude I’m so humble that I don’t even remember writing this nonsense lol🤣

[@Samanthax1221]

@@steviejits2967 You are right dude, no need to show off when you know who you are. you will have an aura of invincibility!:)

[@Marshell1999]

2023 at the start of this year 15th january she broke it off. Wooow, gotta say it hurts a lil, but man, this was a wake up call. Life doesn’t get easier or better, you gotta work hard and never stop. And most importantly NEVER value someone else more than yourself, unless its your blood related family, but even then, its yo life, dont let anyone else effect it and have such a big impact on your wellbeing. Your life, live it to the fullest. Gl lets kill this year baby

[@davidkhadka8023]

she broke up with me because her sister and mom told her to do so.but her sister wasthe person who made us together 1 year ago.I want to talk to her mom but I fear of it.

[@sell3100]

Do NOT ever go back...

[@nightwalker3355]

Why we need to make women like us in the first place why we need to satisfy their likes and dislikes? Do they care doing the same to us?!Women mood is like storm keep changing so it's crazy trying to catch that or modify yourself for that. All you have to do as a man just observe without interfering .And everything will be fine.

[@jackassfat]

because men need sex!

[@sda9995]

There's still good women in this world we all not narcissist people Watch out for the red flags

[@shakaro26er97]

Really?? Idk, not suggesting that there isn't but I am a good guy. I have been hurt twice by women that promise me they wouldn't hurt me. My faith in women have diminished. I don't think I will ever fall in love again.

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

WATCH FOR THE RED FLAGS

[@shakaro26er97]

@VKRGFAN I completely agree. I'm just hurt. I have a hard time accepting that there are people out there that are malicious and cruel. I'm still struggling to let that bad relationship go even though I know she doesn't truly care about me. She was abusive phy6and mentally towards me. I know I stood by cause its something from past that I haven't fixed. I scream inside telling myself why?? I just keep praying that I will release myself from all of it.

[@para-mentischannelbypiggsy4240]

If you get her back, your her slave. Well depending on what happened.

[@paulmarshall2366]

I went through the no contact process and that helped me out a lot. When that was over I was me again and i told her thanks for the break up lol

[@ronitbhujel3495]

How long u did NC??? CAN U ELABORATE??

[@ceoChief09]

@@ronitbhujel3495 NC until you stop thinking about her

[@rjack58]

She'll want you more, when you REALLY don't want her no more!

[@galaxie8000]

Truth

[@Videokeizah]

70 to 90 percent of relationships not happy?? Than what's the point of dating?

[@robdandapani9303]

For the sex.

[@sda9995]

Yup all about sex smh

[@sda9995]

More to life then sex? Sex is not all that

[@xmontovanillix]

Because you'll eventually be part of the 10-30%% lol

[@Carybarnes123]

Arnoud for fun treat woman foe what they are bud !

[@kar3n35]

In a break up your goal should be to end it with dignity. Don't go back to sleeping with them. That just makes it way worst. Ones u verbally say u want out or she says she ones out don't sleep with them again. Don't humiliate ur self man or woman. End it like a lady or a gentleman. Like my grandma says "Conduct ur self with decency". And work out weights and sports will be your best friends.

[@andysyark4696]

I was her boyfriend of 2 years, i handle her stress, her depression even abuse and emotional and beatings because.. I don't know. Love? But i made it, i literally bring her up, bring her to health. I covered her constantly from financially, emotionally even work. She's all healthy. And got a new job. And a new guy. Leave me on Valentine's day, broke up with me through phone on Valentine's and gave away my bouquet of Flowers to an event at her work. Wow. Suddenly. I'm not as important. Suddenly I'm everything that's wrong. Suddenly I'm the attention seeker. Suddenly. I'm not good enough. I'm not worth it. So yea.. should have seen that coming

[@rawtralala]

tsk, mate, u tried to save her, u were the only one probably and as soon she got better, she just moved on...learn from this and never let anyone use you like this, its like a beggar who tells u a great story and u end up giving him your money...

[@fractal97]

Sounds like borderline disorder. Get knowledge from Psychopath Free by Jackson Mackenzie.

[@eenpaard3915]

i feel like we through the same thing i did everything what you did almost and she had the same problems too.. in the end she tells Our situations are not compatible

[@george4272]

sounds like you dodged a bullet, my friend! Wish you the best! let her suffer and destroy someone else

[@Richjunior1]

This is what happens when you pussybegging simps refuse to take the red pill! From 2020 onwards we should be laughing at all of you pathetic simps that refuse to learn!

[@Zhannerf15]

I was dumped on my birthday then she apologized and got back with me again a few months ago. After our lockdown we didn't meet for almost 2-3 months. Then yesterday she said no more after being in a relationship for three years. I wrote her messages, left her voice notes, and even drove a long way to see her. At the end of the day she couldn't even look me in the eyes. She cried because she had to be there and do a difficult thing, rather than for me. She was cold and she said she fell out of love. It happened without warning. Women are wishy washy with their feelings, and have roller coaster emotions. But I can tell you driving there, I made a big mistake. It took away my dignity and self respect and I felt like shit on my drive home. I felt like I was begging to get her to love me again. She just blocked me on everything in the end, emotionlessly. Thank you for this video because it emphasizes self respect and helps you realize that something ending can always be a good beginning. To love yourself before you can love another and to have that person join along willingly rather than force them to be your happiness. The wound is fresh and difficult to manage during the covid quarantine but atleast I know I can count on these videos being stuck at home. This too shall pass.

[@paulinaharvard4779]

Do you need help???

[@Zhannerf15]

@@paulinaharvard4779 You're so sweet, thank you. I was in a very dark place. We've all been there, where you lose the will to keep going after your heart is broken. It's worse that we're all in lockdown due to covid. But I'm learning to pick myself up. I've been watching videos like these before bed, keeping active and healthy, staying busy, and even sought out a therapist. It's been a few days but sometimes it does get to me when my mind wanders or I see something that reminds me of her. I chant audibly "neediness leaving the body" when I think of her now. Your comment asking me how I'm doing proves that there are beautiful people everywhere, even when you're most vulnerable. Thank you for making me smile when I needed it most. We will all be ok, time will heal.

[@truongnguyen-tw2do]

Exact shit happened to me. I am still confused.

[@Zhannerf15]

No sense in asking 'why' it happened my friend. It keeps us from moving on and the truth is we never really will know. The sooner we recognize and accept it ended, the faster we will move forward. Why would you want to be with someone that didn't see your potential? I highly recommend you watch this video as well. It helped me tons : kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3aakImelJd6hK8

[@truongnguyen-tw2do]

Zhannerf15 she made me feel so guilty. Thank you for the video. It helps a lot.

[@robertosuan8330]

I'm telling you guys.... it hurts more before the break up.....

[@gagerdrg]

Been there because you stay wondering if you still matter.

[@nabilmjd182]

True

[@travisanderson9094]

Anyone here watching in 2021 u got it. Things will get better

[@justinstevenson9680]

If our attraction to them doubles when they break up with us then what happens if we respond to them and say "don't ever contact me again"? That's literally saying "I don't want you either!" Does that make their attraction to us double? I doubt it

[@AakashKumar-tn6yh]

Please don't do that. That would blow up onto your face. Watch "Coach Lee"

[@mushuchicken8256]

Yes do it, it works!

[@JollymixYT]

She left me for a job back home in her country. We both dated abroad. I do feel the pain but I do see what your video is teaching me.

[@riccia888]

Not to mention how many male suicide because of break ups

[@zaafirahmad1889]

I’m considering it

[@victorsuarez3]

@@zaafirahmad1889 Dude, start dating other people. Sooner or later you will get it out of your system.

[@sophiacoichy3312]

riccia888 what about female

[@korncows1]

I almost thought this was a valid option.

[@rosilypianist759]

this is a real thing

[@unknownlife8022]

I lift her from her breakup and healed her ...love her.....does everything for her and after a year she dumped me for that one who dumped her a years ago...what could be more painful than this.....

[@diamondlovecoach6930]

My ex was more then hurt? She is a narcissist? He is right you will not get your ex back find someone new then in the future you may have a CHANCE

[@sda9995]

Narcissist women are pretty bad but so are some men

[@Carybarnes123]

Diamond Love I have just been through the exact same a devil narcissist and ir was hell on Earth ! Fact and please take my word any any any woman girl thing !!! That has had a bad relationship with their father then run run run they are damaged beyond repair !!!!!

[@Jacare1973]

The only thing I have issues with on this list is the join the gym, get in shape thing. Its not that men and women shouldn't do that if they aren't already doing it. Its the point that why did you wait till you got dumped or ended the relationship to get in shape, lose weight, whatever it is? I believe men and women should make an effort to maintain the interest of their mate by staying in shape, while they're in the relationship. Maybe more relationships would be saved.

[@ceoChief09]

It's to keep your mind busy and focus on yourself, it worked for me. Turn that anger/deppression into power and pump those weights. I guess its for people with no hobby, hitting the gym is pretty good and boosts your ego.

[@alonzosmithpowergog4946]

TRUE

[@brianmalagon9250]

Thank you for knocking some sense into me I was so close to showing up to my ex house to talk things out 🙏🏻✅

[@sergiouvalli7122]

She left me yesterday after a heated argument, last night she tells me that I have her heart and I can keep it forever, this morning I wake up and I’m deleted from all social media

[@elenamagrette2313]

Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

[@elenamagrette2313]

What sApp him

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[@ngozichima1661]

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