I THINK ONE NIGHT STANDS ARE FUN?! World Reacts to Sexuality

From one night stands, to friends with benefits, to waiting to have sex.. we go people around the world to tackle these controversial questions by either agreeing or disagreeing.. and debating. How do you feel about these questions?
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0:00 Introduction
0:51 I believe in having friends with benefits with no emotion attached
2:41 I believe in waiting a minimum of 3 dates before getting intimate
5:01 It's okay to tell your partner your body count
7:04 One night stands are fun
9:33 I would never date someone with OnlyFans account
11:42 Do you agree or disagree?
CREW:
Marina Iakovleva (directing)
/ youtubermarina
Umar Bakhtiar (video/sound)
/ rollingdollyinc
Oleh Voitovych (editing)
/ olkowg
CAST:
Alan (Brazil): / thealanbug
Malak (Egypt): / malaykamusic
Omair (Pakistan): / omairsh
Marcus (US): / marcusthemusic
Gabriela (Chile): / gmcortez
Paula (Croatia): / paulavuk
Filmed in:
Rolling Dolly Studio

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

Hey everyone! I wanted to try something a bit more controversial for this week. Would you be interested to see more of this style or do you prefer lighter/more educational content?

[@kadoradork4228]

more of this please! I like the juicy parts😋

[@johngonzalez4298]

You definitely should Marina!

[@gabrielvillar1787]

Definitely

[@HippiePajon]

This is interesting

[@athina1739]

Yes i loved this video can't wait for more ☺️

[@Noah_ol11]

"Dude , you are more pakistani than I am" that's Omair being honest , but still hilarious 😂

[@valsam9218]

We are human and not all of us think alike.

[@nitishsaxena1372]

Goes to show how one cannot be boxed into stereotypes based off their nationality. Every individual is unique.

[@henri191]

I love how diversity that group is , but especially their personalities , saying more about their spirit and tastes

[@Noneofthedays]

It’s diverse in some respects, but it’s still only about heterosexual relationships.

[@supermonk3y07]

@@Noneofthedays heterosexual relationships are pretty complicated. Being hetero I don't understand these relationships. What makes you think I understand other sexualities (homo or bi and others)?

[@JAG214]

Agree

I don't think is learning about "cultures", it's about looking different points of view from ONE person who doesn't necessarily represent all the cultural background from a specific country. Also, there are difference in regional culture into the same country. Thanks.

[@raic3283]

The Chilean girl made some points that really has me thinking

[@MovieRiotHD]

This is entertaining and all, but to have individual people represent whole countries is somewhat (or perhaps a lot of) nonsense. The people picked for these video's represent your average progressive western millennial, not a country. Friends with benefits in Egypt?? That girl does not represent Egypt. The channel never claims to be anthropological in any sense, but I would ditch the country of origin for most of these video's as half the time they do not represent a country or barely scratch the surface.

[@racine1685]

"western millennial", that's the word. And they all speak English with an american accent.

[@jesandybolano774]

This is more personal questions they don’t really represent the general mindset about people from those countries

[@fabb4i2]

The American guy somehow reminds me of Snoop Dogg lol.

[@raic3283]

😂😂

[@osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624]

Because of his look. I don’t see it. 😀

[@ninaaden8338]

He's handsome to boot.

[@jakoflynn2560]

I wish I was as aesthetically challenged as the Brazilian guy he seems to think he’s God’s gift

[@Alanbug]

Don’t even know what to say to this 😂

[@elianajuarez2777]

I hate him

[@nocapnobs7845]

This generation loves the comfort of saying demeaning things behind their computer.

[@jakoflynn2560]

@@nocapnobs7845 you’re about 3 gens out

[@jusjase27]

Marina. Instead of asking guys if they would “date” someone you should ask them if they would marry them. For eg, Ask a guy if he would marry someone who has an onlyfans. Men think deeper of relationships when it comes to marriage

[@gewglesux]

i dont understand.. the comment...

[@jusjase27]

@@gewglesux generally speaking for men there is a difference between sexual attention and relationship attention. They are sexually opportunistic, if you put sex in front of them they will take it. The idea of “dating” or just going out to see what happens means if sex is on the table they will take it. Marriage means this woman gets my resources she meets my family (moms) and friends, I have kids with her. That generally speaking meets a much higher bar.

[@gewglesux]

@@jusjase27 Ahhh.. ok that makes sense now..I'm more of a "dater" Marriage has never appealed to me.. Believe it or not i've turned downed Sex a few times.. sometimes you just know when trouble will follow... thanks for the explanation.

[@jusjase27]

@@gewglesux I would give you food for thought. I am making a bunch of assumptions as I don’t know you but I’m going based the general population. Statistics indicate (I can’t link it here) that women 40 and over without a family making less than 100k USD per are statistically the most “depressed and unhappy”. Like I said I don’t know you at all but just food for thought…if you decide to choose, choose wisely and think how you want your golden yrs to be. Enjoy!!

[@Joseph-qd9ew]

I definitely think Marcus the American is thinking of dating in terms of marriage he even said himself

[@KnijMagz]

This was very good loved the different perspectives, the ability to actively understand points of view, and even expand their knowledge on a subject and possibly leave with a different opinion or an enhanced one. Loved this a lot, I gave it a like. And I only like a video if it moves me, it's really informative, or if I can tell a lot of effort was placed into the video (and its high quality).

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

I enjoy both the light and the heavy, just like life haha. So keep up the great work Marina! I think it’s interesting to see how people from different places seem to view things like sex, love, dating, etc. It’s how we begin to understand each other.

[@tdog652041]

My one time hookup turned into an ongoing 19 month relationship, meeting her family in Colorado on Thursday.

[@henri191]

"As a man if you care too much about your body count , you are very insecure man" that's a point a little more realistic about "how someone attractive is in a relationship with someone not as much as attractive"

[@tavarshia3122]

I wonder what my body count is going to be when I'm 60. . .

[@Xenor999]

Double standards nothing else but atleast accept it as a double standard but most people will not even do that.fuckin hypocrites.

[@sabrinaknappett]

Great video, Marina!!

[@daglatem]

Love this new format!

[@omairsh8]

This was such a fun time as usual! 😃 Thanks for having me on again 🙏🏼

[@RizTheUrbanExplorer]

Sure omar is the most sexually experienced pakistani guy ! 😅

[@Ajax020Paris]

I feel like you could give everybody one moment to speak and share their opinion. I think this way we get a more broad picture, and every voice is heard! Great video still! :)

[@rayraygaleva9493]

i didn't like that comment that "men not having sex is a scary thing" like they shouldn't be held accountable for their actions just because they're not having sex

[@justynagorka3972]

Brazilian is a nighmare then.

[@ktaedear]

Não é bem assim!!

[@kerlipeterson]

It was so refreshing to see guys thinking more deep about it. We are more alike that the society wants us to believe.

[@gabel8345]

The middle eastern women that I've dated (some of them muslim) were very passionate, intelligent and liberal. And I have middle eastern male friends who are some of the best wing men. To those people who are ignorant and think middle eastern or muslim = extremely religious / burka : you clearly don't have much experience and are living under a rock

[@Amy_omer]

If they are doing these things then they are not real Muslims simple as it is..

[@Daniela-wg9nz]

Where? If you and them live in not muslim country it's obvious.

[@MiroMiroMiroMiroMiro]

This is quality content!

[@osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624]

This is really interesting discussion for every person around the world to know how to get to know that someone including their nationality and their life. Thanks for the video for me to watch on KZbin, Marina. 😀

[@Aeorocks]

The Brazilian was completely what I expected from Brazil 😂. Brazilians are very open and active, they're fun people.

[@Alanbug]

Thanks! 😊

[@NoName-yw1pt]

The Pakistanian was more open and progressive than I imagined the Pakistanians could be

[@NoName-yw1pt]

@youalrightboi158 does not live*

[@notmanymore1521]

Loved Marcus and his insights. Nice to know not all American men view sex as such a light thing. Personally, I find the current standardized hookup culture appalling. Even though birth control and protection removed many of the risks associated with casual sex so it no longer has the same consequences, many people still completely disregard the emotional toll it takes on society. With sex being so easily available it is 500 times harder to find someone who will actually love you and bother to get to know you as a human being as opposed to a piece of meat. Especially as a woman. In the old days, men had to wine and dine women and potentially marry them if they wanted to get any action. This raised responsible men who took care of their women and accepted responsibilities before being granted certain "privileges". Nowadays men can spend 2$ at McDonald's and expect you to put out just to dump you in the middle of the night. Forget about looking for a serious relationship or anybody to think of you as more than a piece of meat. I don't want to live on this planet anymore.

[@geo3898]

Yeah because men definitely did not sleep around and cheat in the olden days or treat women as pieces of meat

[@notmanymore1521]

@@geo3898 they did. But they had less access because most women didn't allow them to, either due to self respect or due to social shunning. Either way, men like that were often restricted to paid prostitutes. These days, every Karen and Stacy let's them get into her pants men no longer need to invest at all.

[@Bracarensis]

It works both ways. Drop the 1950s mentality and you will have more luck with good men.

[@notmanymore1521]

@@Bracarensis no thanks. I quite like the 1950's 😂 I refuse to corrupt my morals because the world is corrupt.

[@mirieshii1948]

as Dave Chappelle said, "you flood the market with p*$$$, the value goes down." Progressive women pretend that it is empowering to goe toe to toe with men when it comes to sexual encounters when in fact, it leaves them empty, bitter and slone in the end. Lots of the "strong women empowerment" these days are really just performative activism that holds no weight in reality.

[@TheRagingOmen]

LETS GOOO ALAN!!!

[@TheReaper215]

Just wanted to say that I love the new format and all the cast but as a fellow Egyptian, I think Malak's views represent an incredibly small minority of Egyptians who would be open to have sex even outside of marriage, atleast Egyptians living in Egypt where they are not as "liberal"

[@gabel8345]

All of the Egyptian women I met were very open

[@TheReaper215]

@@gabel8345 It maybe your personal bias that have dictated that but for me as someone who lives in Egypt has female friends and even family members, I know how they interact with men, and I am telling you the wildest thing you can get from an Egyptian girl (and this applies to alot of Arab countries except maybe Tunisia and Lebanon) is a quick kiss and this will not happen unless you are serious about marriage and meeting her parents. It's definitely impossible if you were not the same religion as her be it Muslim or Christian

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

@@gabel8345 impossible,not in Egypt

[@ninaaden8338]

@@gabel8345 and they are a handful out of millions, let's not get ahead of ourselves. Lmao.

[@Anastazka00]

@@TheReaper215 I thought so, egyptien sociaty is way more conservative. Even though it sure depends on city, region, class? One interesting thing I encountered though is once a girl or boy is out of their conservative countries, they display totally opposide behaviour. So maybe girls you know might have simular opinions to Malak, they are just afraid to share it. So yes, foreigners might have very different experinece meeting egyptiens abroad, where they truly can be truly honest and not afraid of judgment.

[@ishansharma5454]

New thing but this doesn't describe the culture as your previous videos did this is their personal opinion. But it was good though

[@user-pm9pw6cj4c]

This was an interesting video

[@patriciamartin6756]

I had a one night stand with somebody I met for 5 minutes after texting for months. We moved in together the following week and are inseparable after 2 and a half years

[@Dirtydreamer2023]

Well if it lasted more than one night, it wasn’t a one night stand.

[@i.5625]

That wasn’t a one night stand since you were talking for months before. One night stands are hooking up with strangers you’ve just met.

[@annieseaside]

That is not a one night stand. 1 night you meet, you hook up, you never see or speak again.

[@edithputhy4948]

"one night stand" "2 and a half years" the math ain't mathing

[@patriciamartin6756]

@@edithputhy4948 Well, Edith, you are right but it was intended as a one night stand

[@raphaelfp]

American people usually introduce themselves saying their city and state of origin assuming the rest of the world is familiar with their inner geography, however most of them are uncapable of pointing countries on a map

[@GabrielTrentinBarbosa]

I liked this kind of video!

[@ktaedear]

Já amo esse grupo!

[@Alanbug]

Valeu, Ana!

[@pcj8029]

This was a very interesting social study. Just as revealing about "modern" men as the women.

[@SquatBro]

Love this series!

[@michaelharper7350]

I would be interested in this style of intercultural response from non-politicians or high-strung activists. I learn so much from other's point of view. Like this one... hearing women and men on the questions. It was tasteful, forthright, and amicable. Even when they disagree noone was "attacked" for thier view. Bravo!

[@egatgens]

Spot on! I was very impressed with how respectful they were with each other. And how they stood by their beliefs, challenged each other and even changed their positions when they gained further understanding.

[@gabrielvillar1787]

I really liked this video! Very good idea

[@dipanjansarkarn2111]

The pakistani Guy and that egyptian girl ... definitely have a chemistry going on. They are mirroring each other ... they d go for a date for sure

[@robertperry6048]

No problems. You still have the original friendship, it should still be there. 😍

[@egatgens]

I love Marcus!!!!

[@commandersafeguard10]

please make a video with south asains talking about dating from their cultures face to face (Pakistanis, indians, bangladeshis, afghanis, sri lankans)

[@stayawayfromthewoke3412]

American guy is top g big up ya self

[@V1CTOR07]

Eu queria que tivesse legenda e saber o que eles estão falando

[@TatianaBalashova]

Interesting video, the truth is that it also depends what to call a ONS. For example in social dance culture through a connection on a dance floor the experience can be so emotional, deep and irresistable /confusing "what is it about?! Why there is such a strong chemistry at the first sight". Some people might see each other only once at a festival and end up to go explore further most often probably not just for the sake of sx but more of continuing the amazing unique connection or perhaps giving a test ride to see if it can be a relationship. And sometimes it ca n result in a love story and even a family, at other times it is sort of a ONS situation. But it is not always meant like that, just logistically living in different cities and countries it can be hard even to have a proper date. It can result in a crush and somewhat hazy unclear communication, and might take time to recover to people who are more naive and less resilient I'd say, if you are more of a daydreamer type. Although there might be a case also when one of the partners clearly doing it as a ONS (or a flame kind of thing) or FWB but the other is more into dating, romance and possibly a committed relationship or not fully understanding what the borders are. Which can become a mismatch. There are narcissistic players as well using their charms manipulating women. I assume also some people in a rsh might want to have something on the side and not be fully honest with that (ONS/FWB) partner upfront. On another note there are situations when you have 1-2 dates with someone and decide to give a try to sx as well possibly because of being celobate for way too long, or some people have difficulty saying no, stopping in the right time hoping "it will be ok" but it might be a mistake so one would not feel like continuing and it would still technically be a ONS. So the first thing to figure out what the terms mean ;). Myself personally I regretted some faster connections even they were not technically ONS, I knew the men before the night but decided not to continue or he would not be available for one reason or another or the communication got wierd. In any case not my preference. However in each there were some beautiful healthy moments as well, it still added something to the experience and helped me to understand myself better. I see not point in ONS for myself. if it is very good why not to develop it further, if it is bad why would you even do that first thing? Sexuality is sacred for me.

[@egolubitskiy]

Crossing the Line! What a great name for the series!

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

A subscriber came up with it!

[@Seanonyoutube]

These are all very westernized people. I don’t feel like they properly represent the mindset of the actual average person living in those countries.

[@thequeenv4638]

As a Chilean who spent most of her life there, I can assure you the Chilean is correct

[@rodrigosantosvaleriano1859]

Depending on what you call "Western" only two of them are not originally from there.

[@Seanonyoutube]

@@rodrigosantosvaleriano1859 yeah but people’s mindsets shift after moving to other countries (like Canada) and living there for many years.

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

@Adonis no ,omg ,you western white way is not better

[@JAG214]

The topics in this video were not controversial because it been talked about a lot online and in real life these are stuff people got to deal with now days

[@MajorKusanagi43]

Thank you very much for the diversity in opinions on these topics. I am also someone who values intimacy and would not want to separate physical from emotional intimacy. Even though we are spiritual beings, we experience our everyday interactions on a physical level. A fist bump, shaking hands, hugging, waving to another. Talking and listening are also interactions we would not be able to do without our bodies. And so I think that it is important to reserve certain physical interactions only to people that really mean something to us in order to keep the physical interaction meaningful to us. When I am with someone I want my significant to know what it means to me to share this part of my life with her and the other way around.

[@noushs8004]

Marcus is completely right

[@thebetterplaybook7891]

Fun in the moment but often come AT A PRICE. Once you realize that sex is an exchange of energy you become more selective who you let in

[@tosheriahtaylor6849]

This is interesting, good to see how various cultures and locations perceive the controversial dating topics

[@orrug2k]

Are these actors or are they on here to promote their channels?

[@hecadiana1640]

Whenever I was single it was, not whenever I was in a relationship, it’s more fun to give someONE true love and lust even if it either last or not at least I dint played, and after I got married, I found a lot of more fun activities such as traveling with knowledge (learning about their cultures and histories without relying on the internet or already written books) along with my husband and I found so much more artistic things I’m again passionate about. Me and my husband don’t usually relate with people who are TOO money hungry, I mean we earn and save money too, what I mean is those who are HIGHLY GREEDIER and we’ve encountered a lot of them we can’t relate with, and those who speaks no other interesting things but lust it’s like OVER-TALKED ALREADY around where I live, it gets boring, it’s too normalized and too casual, BOTH EDUCATED MALES AND FEMALES WENT TO DIFFERENT COUNTRIES WHERE PEOPLE TALKED LESS ABIUT IT AND MORE ON THEIR ACTUAL CAREER PURPOSES

[@silveryfeather208]

To me, sex IS special, but if others don't treat it that way, that's fine. I don't agree with people who say things like 'marriage HAS to be between men and women' or 'sex HAS to be within marriage etc'. So my beef isn't just weather sex is or isn't special. It should be personal. (Not saying she's not doing that.) It's fine to expect a partner to keep it special, but that should be it. Don't go out preaching to people, don't try to make laws about it.

[@mhd2680]

And I don’t agree on what you said

[@silveryfeather208]

@@mhd2680 why? If others wanna have sex, let them. And keep in mind I am personally conservative. but why should i dictate what others do?

[@mhd2680]

@@silveryfeather208 Because I wish good and positive life to these people

[@mhd2680]

@@silveryfeather208 It is not a dictate it is just advice you throw it and then let them work on their ways

[@mhd2680]

@@silveryfeather208 As well as, premarital sex destroys women mentally

[@bookworm5452]

Marina, you are looking super cute in that dress... 😎😎you need to wear it more often.. 😆😆

[@jonessmith3997]

Never go back for a third time. She'll think your starting a relationship. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@sakeebkamal3472]

Good to see a Pakistani there!

[@nitishsaxena1372]

Good to see a desi here :)

[@sakeebkamal3472]

@@nitishsaxena1372 sudh desi guy 😂

[@JAG214]

Feminist vs Manosphere, Men vs Women, Social Media vs Real Life, and Liberalism vs Conservatism

[@danyyesyes]

The word disappeared to fast

[@carotravaglia]

i love Alan, represented Brazil very well mto bom 👍🏻 só vrau

[@Alanbug]

E noiz hahahaha

[@mirieshii1948]

right. he acts like he is a gift from God. hahaha

[@Alanbug]

@@mirieshii1948 what do you mean “like” I am a gift from god? I AM a gift from god 😂

[@jacobsoto7228]

Damn didn't expect Malayka on the one night stand part. She's a trailblazer lol These are pretty liberal though. I'd like to see a religious version lol vs a liberal one. BTW Marina your accent is thicker lol I do think one night stands make one person actually feel empty. I remembered one girl cried when I was with her because she wanted a commited relationship afterwards. Maybe it was wrong...

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

As an Arab woman, I dont think arab women would "kiss and tell". The question was If they think nightstands are fun. She might think but havent actually been in one, especially saying something like this out loud on social media might risk her family seeing this and as an arab we fear our parents reaction because intimate stuff is supposed to be between the husband and wife, mind you arab guys can sleep around but most arab girls are still afraid to be judged/ called bad names or worse shunned by their family. Now Im sure some arab girls do get intimate with a guy (especially if they live abraod away from their family) but they wont advertise it out of this fear I mentioned earlier. I doubt any arab parents know their daughter is having sex outside of marriage and are okay with it... if this exists I think its rare.

[@jacobsoto7228]

@@_DeadlyNightshade_ I mean do you know any Arab women who have kissed before message? I can't say I know anyone, but I had met a Tunisian that wanted a relationship with me on-line, but she stopped talking to me because she didn't want to get attached. She did mention that we could kiss if we were in a relationship before marriage...

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Thursday Marina! The 1 night stands I have experienced, I had seen the woman once, twice, or three times and that was it. My last 1 night stand with a woman was back in May 2019 and she drove 3 hours from Orlando to spend the day and night with me as I live in Miami and her and I had been talking for about almost half a year at that point in time but she was someone who I was interested in at the time but then she told me the next morning as she was getting ready to drive back to Orlando that she wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment so I left it at that although we had a good time but we kept talking from time to time until she ghosted me. It happens but I move forward from it. Her and I first met in August 2017 through a mutual friend and then I saw her again in December 2018 when I went to visit my friend who lives in St. Cloud and my friend was the one told me that she was interested in me. It happens but we all go through it. Sending love from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲

[@70shahin]

cheers to Malik, from Egypt. We need more brave girls like her.

[@nicoparolo7078]

Well I mean she is living in Canada, not Egypt. So she can do whatever she wants without having to worry about the society.

[@70shahin]

@@nicoparolo7078 still, there are also many Arab girls in west. not all want/ are able to be brave like her.

[@osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624]

It’s Malak, not Malik. 😀

[@denfenrir520]

She is a shame for egypt as you are too shahin.

[@ninaaden8338]

Lol, trying so hard to be and act like westerners. How sad.

[@letsjoinhands]

They are definitely fun but their long-term affects are devastating, both on the individual and the society as a whole. The institution of the home and family is damaged beyond repair and family values are eroded. It does have many 'benefits' for some (like PIs hired to spy on a cheating spouse) but overall it leads to destruction of social fabric, morals and virtues.

[@MarcusStarksPixels]

Your my hero

[@KatGlos]

I think one night stands are fine as long as you are single and not cheating on your partner.

[@letsjoinhands]

@@KatGlos they seem to be fine when you're very young and physically fit. They start taking their toll on you when you realise humans have much more complex needs than animals who go around banging each other on the way. The need not just for sex but for genuine appreciation, attachment (to good memories like a relaxing experience of sex), loyalty (from others esp) etc. When you 'expect' such flings to give to the same feeling of genuineness that where the trouble starts.

[@VideoMagician77]

Dude what is wrong with the guy from America?! For Gods sakes make eye contact. You aren't having a conversation with the ceiling hahahahaha

[@Joseph-qd9ew]

It’s because eye contact signifies that he is challenging the person he is talking to which could come off as rude.

[@MarcusStarksPixels]

I'll work on that brother

[@Galegolas123]

Damn, now i'm hungry for Pizza

[@illillyillyo]

All of these people’s accents don’t sound super foreign, which makes me feel like they’re Americanized/Canadized because they’ve lived here for long enough to lose most of their foreign accents… so, it isn’t really a Croatian woman, it’s a Croatian-American woman.

[@thequeenv4638]

That's racist to assume someone has to have an accent to be foreign. Maybe some of us were just really good at picking up two languages at once since birth.

[@mirieshii1948]

@@thequeenv4638 goodness me. bring in the woke people. because being foreign to a place, MAJORITY has an accent. Can you stop making this about yourself? sure there are people who have no accent but they're outliers and they don't make up the general truth. and she's right. stop getting butt hurt over simple things

[@illillyillyo]

@@thequeenv4638 what is racist about what I said? Did I say that foreign accents are bad? Did I say that foreign people are bad? Nah. Anyway, I majored in linguistics and grew up speaking two languages (neither of which I have a non-standard accent in) in a country where only one of the languages was spoken by the majority, and I also took a graduate course on bilingualism, so leave me alone with your confused, “woke” shit.

[@thequeenv4638]

@@illillyillyo I grew up speaking 2 languages two. And I lived for over 10 years in each of those countries. So what? I still know what I'm talking about and I can represent my people even without an accent. Your "studies" mean nothing

[@thequeenv4638]

@@mirieshii1948 oh. So I'm making a beal deal about being attacked for not having an accent, therefore have no right to represent my people? Would you say the same to an Asian or Black person? Or do you feel I'm an easy target for being Latina? Racist

[@meetoo1922]

No sex before marriage

[@rodrigomachado5291]

Middle-eastern women are beautiful. Also Central Asian.

[@supermonk3y07]

The Chilean girl seems confused

[@macarenaeguillor2077]

Confused about what?

[@supermonk3y07]

@@macarenaeguillor2077 everything

[@thequeenv4638]

@@supermonk3y07 well THAT cleared everything up 🙄

[@thequeenv4638]

@@supermonk3y07 so giving clear and eloquent answers is seen as "confused"?

[@supermonk3y07]

@@thequeenv4638 I dont know where to start. Tl;dr seemed on the fence on all the topics

[@eldesconocido5734]

Chile in the house 🇨🇱

[@NightOwl_30]

Paula is gorgeous.

[@fabb4i2]

5:01 Is that the amount of exes?

[@XELAKION]

Body count is slang for saying the number of people you've had sex with

[@bjorneisenseite1]

People you slept with.

[@macarenaeguillor2077]

Paula is a complete hypocrite. She said she agreed to waiting for sex because it's a "spiritual" thing, but then totally agreed with a one night stand. 😑

[@paulavuk2045]

I’ve evolved over the years I’d say. So simply speaking from my own experiences and two different perspectives. 😊

[@msguy5877]

You would think the Pakistani and the Egyptian ones would actually represent their Islamic culture and provide answers that go along their Islamic identity! I guess that's what happens when people confuse modernization with westernization. Identity loss.

[@nitishsaxena1372]

Only goes to show how one cannot be boxed into stereotypes based off their nationality. Every individual is unique and if there's no social pressure/stigma involved, they'll open up about their true selves which might not correlate to the image of where they come from.

[@msguy5877]

@@nitishsaxena1372 nationality doesn’t translate to culture and civilization.

[@jacobsoto7228]

They're definitely confident ones!

[@nitishsaxena1372]

@@msguy5877 either way, it's not good to pigeon-hole people into labels, especially if they had no role in choosing that label.

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

I think every arab seeing this besides myself is surprised the 2 muslims are the ones talking the most about their sexual experiences more than the other more liberated countries.

[@meya4307]

Another part for these but with more diversity, include other Asians, and middle easterns

[@thequeenv4638]

Umm...have you seen the other videos? There are a ton of those.

[@Luan9Oliveira]

Alan is a Top G 🍷🗿

[@thequeenv4638]

You have the Brazilian guy the emoji for the Chilean Moai?

[@markthomas8680]

The American talked to much..

[@thequeenv4638]

He definitely talked over and interrupted often!

[@ninaaden8338]

The American also made the most sense.

[@markthomas8680]

@@ninaaden8338 no he didn't, he said a lot of stuff Americans actually do, but said they didn't

[@ninaaden8338]

@@markthomas8680 nah, Americans on the whole are generally lax when it comes to casual sex.

[@clouds1198]

The American guy interrupting everyone to voice his own opinions made this video unbearable to watch

[@Sisterlisk]

Yeah. I was interested in what he had to say, but I didn't like how rushed he was, or that he was cutting people off.

[@tavarshia3122]

I think that they are too old to be talking about 'the count.' When do ya'll stop asking about b-counts? Do you expect to answer that question in your 40s? Is the whole point of men asking women for that number because the man is weak in bed or to hold some power over their partner? I simply don't understand.

[@Sisterlisk]

I think people should ask themselves, why am I asking this question? What am I REALLY wanting to know?

[@ninaaden8338]

@@Sisterlisk STDs. Sexual health should be open discussion if you plan on having a fling with some random person you just met.

[@ayaebony4461]

@@ninaaden8338 you can get STD history without asking for body count. That’s 2 different questions lol.

[@ninaaden8338]

@aya ebony the more the body count, the more the stds.

[@FBAagent]

God I miss the Scandinavians with their easy attitude towards sex. People in here really put too much pressure on sex. It’s only sex guys chill up you’re not going to hell or to heaven because of sex.

[@marap4107]

Yeah it;s only sex but why do so many of them end up lonely and depressed? Their hookup culture does not allow for meaningful relationships.

[@mirieshii1948]

right. some of the loneliest places in the world with their casual hookup but difficult to find friends.

[@ninaaden8338]

It's only "just" cold, stoic sex because that's all you know. There's a certain beauty on the other side of courting someone, building a connection and then being intimate. You can learn that sh!t if you're committed. Don't know why men and women are pressured to know everything and be experienced just to have "good sex", it's something you work towards, not a natural talent.

[@ayaebony4461]

No wonder y’all lead the STD charts

[@marap4107]

@@ayaebony4461 chlamydia is considered a badge of manhood in Sweden. In fact, condom use in Sweden is among the lowest in the Eu.

[@NightOwl_30]

I don't actually know my body count lol. I never counted.

[@Luan9Oliveira]

Paula is wife material

[@user-my4lf4bx6v]

She is funny

[@paulavuk2045]

@@Ninja4ssasin How did you come to this conclusion? 😂

[@athelstan5794]

hell is waiting amigos

[@athelstan5794]

@Adonis yes it is, infidel

[@omairsh8]

😂

[@rodrigomachado5291]

Pakistani guy is a Chad.

[@patbecker333]

You guys need to add Israelis here on some of your vids, it’s about including ppl. Just saying… I dig the plethora of topics, but I don’t see Israelis included.

[@emanuelmota9563]

amizade colorida... quem nunca?

[@nico5173]

They are so complicated and over acting .

[@athelstan5794]

أكو عرب فى الطيارة

[@Picinacici]

black gay is the smartest

[@rodrigomachado5291]

Brazilian homie disappointed me. The Pakistani and the American have good minds

[@Noneofthedays]

I like the topic, but the channel continues to ignore LGBTQ people in its videos. The experiences shared here are all heterosexual.

[@mohammedkh4321]

Are you Arab?

[@wojtekatka8225]

bigots

[@j.2380]

How do you figure? They can be, even if they don't say it. These are very general question, the answer doesn't very matter either you're LGBT or heterosexual, it's more based on personality and culture.

[@Joseph-qd9ew]

At least 1/6 of the people are stated to be LGBT in the video…

[@mirieshii1948]

of course, the media is already saturated with lgbtq to the point where they are shoving it down on people.

[@HippiePajon]

Lol the American guy talk so much

[@Fatima.114]

L

[@meetoo1922]

This was one of the worst videos from DBB. For a topic such as this, going to the country and asking people there would have been better. Asking a bunch of westernized people from other countries try to justify their promiscuities was poor form.

[@senshai1267]

Would someone ask these people , "do you consider a relationship where you and your partner is virgin, a happy thing "

[@N_Loco_Parenthesis]

This channel has become like Jubilee. Pity.

[@NoName-yw1pt]

Like what?

[@saharn6767]

Disgusting!