I really wish to talk with this woman .. something is just so so wrong .. The Day Of Recompense is coming, you will both stand in front of Allah, who knows the deepest thoughts and secrets and everything, I Warn you, both, the one who knows something or somethings must be done before the day comes, if there are some files to close before death takes the chance of preparation to that day, you will be in a Horrible trouble.. if you are not sure what to do then head to a wise person, the wisest person you know, ask to be listened, and tell your story from tip to toe, before it is told to you, when there is No Returning to fix a thing.. sit and say you are ready to listen to the points you were right about and the points you were wrong about, and don't tell anyone, no one that you are going to ask for a wise person's advice.. do that.. even if you consider yourself 100% right and innocent do that for Allah to be happy and satisfied of your honesty.. and This is the most important thing, your relationship with Allah, right? And do not look at the replies to this comment, just concentrate and do this then live your life.