Having Your Heart Broken For the First Time - Ep 104 - GeniusBrain w/ Joe Jitsukawa

[@chelseythai2110]

this hits differently when you’re actually going through your first heart break

[@trojanwhore95]

Chelsey Thai all these heartbreak episodes from jk are coming out all at the right time 😭😪

[@broHanSolo]

It hits hard.

[@GotPoopWeScoop]

Count me in bro

[@GirlyPRO]

I feel ur pain but u can get through it... its been 5 years for me and now its gone. 😭

[@vincetv7398]

Don’t worry just remember it’s not worth

[@tweeze123]

My first heart break was from my mom calling me names. She was the person I loved the most and it broke my heart hearing those words coming from her. Kids were calling me names and to hear those same words from the person I loved and trusted the most broke my heart. I've never been the same since, I can't seem to be able to connect with people very well

[@legalcake6125]

woody if you don’t try, you won’t get that connection anymore, hanging on to the past is always a bad idea and it’ll hold you back, Ik it’s easier said than done but if you don’t try what are you doing?

[@ibrahimorton93200998]

@@legalcake6125 nah i understand when the person u love most bullies u the same way outsiders do it stays on subconscience even if u consciencely forgive them my mom used take out her anger on me even though i didnt anything wrong and i was just chilling

[@TubeDeviant]

Just recognize that type of behavior is toxic and it causes trust issues. That's normal. But remember that individuals are different and to try and learn about people before trusting them. Take it as a learning experience.

[@sunny-lynnsugimoto8092]

I recently discovered different forms of heartbreak....love, family, career & friendship. I’m just grateful what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger! Thank you for always giving different perspectives on all kinds of subjects!

[@1412Bunny]

joe should do an episode of his podcast with his brother, he sounds like an interesting guy lol

[@Dtzeo503]

We've never seen his face before. We always hear about him but we've never seen him.

[@JimmyKantstandyabitz]

Claymore007 or davids

[@Dtzeo503]

@@JimmyKantstandyabitz ive seen it in a video

[@JimmyKantstandyabitz]

Claymore007 what video ?

[@Dtzeo503]

@@JimmyKantstandyabitz i dont remember it's been a long time. It's when David used to do vlogs.

[@douyayang8647]

I can totally relate. My husband, then boyfriend, always left their apartment windows open. The windows were ground level. Their place got broken into. TWICE. I still smh to this day.

[@Amorsdad]

Thank you David and joe for the years of content I appreciate you guys so much I’ve been a fan since the Uncle Sam and the uncle chin days i loved watching both of your skits especially the Ice cream skit and I wish you guy nothing but the best 🤙🏽

[@oceanstaiga5928]

When joe said he’s 35 now I just realised 14 y/o me was lowkey crushing on him at 28 what- Then I realised he’s just a mudda role model for me to get my shit together in life

[@cguerrero1080]

Tell your friends to try sea sick patches when they travel by plane. It's a disturbance in the inner ear that causes the migraines. Prescription scopolamine also may help.

[@ClassyJohn]

Holy crap Joe, I went through the SAME experience in during high school. There was this popular (with the guys) and pretty girl named Cindy who I sat next to in AP history. At first, I wasn't attracted to her. But then, as we started talking more and I'm dishing out these corny jokes and making her laugh and we start talking more, I literally fell in "love" (the dumb teenage kind) with her. I was in marching band and she was part of the cheerleading squad so we'd always see each other during football games (because the marching band does half-time shows at the games). Towards Christmas of that year, I hear her talking to her friend about giving a guy a Christmas card and I say jokingly "Oh, is it for me?" She said "ew, no!" It turns out that was absolutely true because the following summer, I ask her out on a date online (cause I'm a little bitch at the time) and she says no. I'm sort of hurt by it but its okay because I'm looking forward to the next school year. I kid you not, the first week of school, I see her walking with this guy all the time and literally after seeing how they were cutesy with each other, my 16 year old heart sank like the mudda fackin Titanic. I was so heartbroken to the point where I'd literally go home and cried under my bed sheets like a little bitch for the first couple of months. I basically decided to ignore her at school by literally running the other way if I saw her in my path just so we wouldn't cross paths. Every time she said hi to me. I literally ignored her and quickly walked away. There was this one time where I was walking with a friend down a hallway and I notice her and her boyfriend are walking towards us. I look at the wall (to avoid eye contact) as they walk past us and she says hi to me and I don't respond. Her boyfriend immediately pins me to the wall and says "hey". Shes like "forget about it" to him and they leave. Literally that year, I basically ignored her the entire year because I was so hurt that it took a year to get over her. Senior year (the following year), we crossed paths again (she broke up with that boyfriend sometime in the summer and hooked up with another boyfriend) and I apologize to her because I'm finally over her. She, looking pissed off, says "its fine" and we literally didn't interact with each other after that. Looking back, of course, it was my dumbass self's fault for how things escalated. I think its exactly what Joe talked about this video where kids don't talk things out so its so fucking painful when heartbreak happens. I think, after all these years, that I still want to talk to her about it just to get closure on the whole situation, both for myself and for her. I never told her that I liked her but maybe she figured it out. I should've fucking confessed to her in person back then and just gotten rejected. That would've way better because at least I know for a fact, shes not interest and I can have my teenage heart broken for a week to a month and move the fuck on. You guys might think its fucking stupid that I got my heart broken from see the girl I liked with another guy but that's how I felt back then. Shit was stupid man. I felt so pathetic and like I was worthless. Its such a shitty feeling. Its exactly like you guys said, I was a dumbass kid who saw the friendship as hope of a relationship and that I gave myself too much false hope where I emotionally invested so much that I was going to hurt myself in the end.

[@annniea1566]

ClassyJohn truly agree with you 👏🏽😭

[@chrish5425]

Similar situation happened between me and my hs crush (who was also named Cindy) except for another guy being present. She just didn't like me

[@sunfire5790]

Joe needs to get a woman who has that crackhead energy like him

[@marissawasson4115]

Sun Fire I feel that that’d be so explosive tbh maybe not as much, but have the same morals, priorities, and mindset as he does and it’d be great. he just deserved to be happy and fulfilled man 😭

[@GaMeOvEr12454]

@@marissawasson4115 that was jess, but look how that ended

[@marissawasson4115]

GaMeOvEr12454 Shiiit u right

[@ayofrtho7014]

or someone he could kiss ass too again lmfao Nah jk, he needs a very submissive woman lol

[@WilliamMohamad-uv5fi]

@@GaMeOvEr12454 nah jess never had crackhead energy, she has always been reserved.

[@LaynoProd]

I love your stories about hanging around more privileged rich people in college. I went to USC (even tho my fam is lower middle income) and it was such a culture shock to see some of my friends from different, more privileged backgrounds doing stuff such as leaving their phones on the tables in the dining halls to get food.

[@kellyjass957]

i know i'm a david so fan because i've heard this story like 10 times already in four different videos (butthurt college girl)

[@mrmusicknowledge6354]

Fr

[@wd7643]

Kelly Jass I've heard it a lot too lol never gets old though

[@SecretAgent440]

When you guys were talking about being paranoid bc of what you’ve seen before vs feeling secure bc you’re privileged.. I grew up in a nice area (low crime) BUT my mom raised me so damn paranoid (she was a refugee y’all). So because I was taught to be cautious ALWAYS, I’m that friend who’s saying lock your doors, don’t put your bags in the car in full view, i don’t trust this person, etc etc. And they think I have a stick up my ass for no reason but it takes 2 seconds to take protective measures so why wouldn’t you? It’s funny bc when I went to college in Irvine, EVERYONE kept their doors unlocked, windows open which I’d never do. But the ppl who felt THE MOST secure in Irvine to do that shit were actually ppl who came from high crime areas. Their rationale was, yo Irvine is one of the safest cities this is NOTHING compared to where I came from so nothing’s gonna happen. (There were a bunch of burglaries bc of this lmao.) So a lot of it is not just rich/poor, it’s also a personality thing where some ppl overall are just more risk averse than others. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@anshikagupta6783]

Yea, I get u. I grew up mostly in nice places where crimes did happen but not too too much, and my parents taught and raised me like this cuz they grew up in India and they have gone through all this shit, I don’t trust people, I don’t get how someone can into their house and not lock their doors. I always lock my doors, check my windows, don’t leave shit in my car that can be seen etc. I’ve been fucked over and my parents are been fucked over and people with the same mentally don’t think this way and straight up call me paranoid like nah I just was raised this way boo lol

[@heytiny37]

young thug joe's heartbreak story was effing hilarious. Glad your homies were there for ya. "she lives in this neighborhood yo" - Joe, lmao.

[@magschan77]

Spend some time to heal your inner wounds from the heartbreak and most importantly from your childhood. Wishing you happiness Joe 😊❤️

[@MISSHONEEEEY]

Love the podcast, you guys are so relatable and funny. Listening to your episodes brighten up my day instantly

[@pico8239]

listening to this while going through a break up. my first break up

[@danielasome671]

pico it gets better. Life goes on. You just have to enjoy your own company and learn to appreciate yourself after having spent so much energy on another person

[@HLYFAB]

Halfway into the podcast and I'm already loving the convo. This episode might be my favourite one yet!

[@9122mint]

Really appreciate you guys talking on these topics today.

[@Theo-ix4um]

David: i wouldnt wish a heartbreak on my worst enemy *someone inconveniences him slightly* Also david: you could drop dead tomorrow and i wouldn’t give a fuck

[@nickitaday1786]

Can’t wait to hear what these legends say for the next hour or so

[@silentnight4025]

Love the young love stories, bring back so many funny story

[@molly806]

I needed this podcast rn, perfect timing

[@perplexedblerd1278]

I feel that I've been putting off watching this. I'm glad I watched it though.

[@teardropsrnng]

these guys would freakout at the mentality in some parts of Oklahoma. I visited someone and learned that no one locks their doors, even when they will be away from home for the entire day. Entire neighborhoods with unlocked doors and windows.

[@valeryhernandez5916]

I love your minds, You guys are so tolerant people supporting those that arent the same. LOVE EQUALITY ❤❤

[@teresadombek30]

That was absolutely hilarious.I was laughing to tears....Crazy things we do while intoxicated with youth and chemistry. Joe and his supportive friends, graffiti with your girlfriend's name, crying with a gun on your lap.That was just priceless.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@erlixi5892]

You should get Josh from JKP on the podcast 😆

[@calynguyen3339]

I went to Akita inaka school in the countryside, met the nicest people. 1st day there, some of the locals invited us out to drink! Maybe because I went to school there but Kosaka is definitely one of my favorite places!

[@thatboysnarly4471]

If we didn't put bags in the trunk we slidd it under the front seats

[@anthonyphamfilms9759]

Dawg as someone from an impoverished and minority-majority school district, I went to a PWI and I had so many cultural clashes with other students that were much more well off than I. It was crazy, I had a kid give me his car to borrow after only 3 instances of seeing each other. He even left his front door open for me once and went to sleep. It could've been disastrous if I was a bad dude.

[@jessjms1181]

3:43 that’s not what omnipresent means David hahaha It’s means he’s everywhere at the same time.

[@thebadguy4206]

I was thinking the same lol

[@adamwest6194]

Jess jms u know David a know it all lol

[@ttlqkf18]

HE SAID OMNIPRESENT LMAO 😭

[@reddd-77]

Yea I was confused lmao

[@navakashgill2967]

Chubby David is trying to reclaim his body 😂 no hate he’s even funnier when chubby 👀

[@oyas11]

Navakash Gill Send Foods is messing up his diet haha

[@ehhro]

he gained some weight back huh?

[@jessjms1181]

Personally I feel it’s Good either way but it’s nice seeing him healthier :)

[@kdlgs]

David’s literally the same y’all r so obsessed with him being fat again it’s weird

[@ehhro]

K S nah i only know of david from his lost 30 pounds video an i noticed he looks like he gained some weight back here

[@satt.1823]

i already told you guys this, but i love David and Joe conversation so much!!!

[@salinax98]

Love these romantic stories lmfao! Joe is hella funny

[@jessjms1181]

That went so fast!!! Yes please to more young love!!!

[@CAsaidit]

Low key, listening to Joe talk about relationships is such a turn on.

[@erikahudson5951]

You guys are like my dads teaching me life lessons from your own experiences 😢💖

[@xXxSaBakkaxXX10]

I slap the Greek letter of ur shirt HAHA

[@sleepyhead27]

I fucking LOVE joe 😂😂😂

[@aznmangaaddict]

Oh wow I relate so much to Joe’s travel preferences... Described it perfectly. One of my best friends is definitely like his ex.. which was a true eye opener for me because she has always been the more extrovert, bunny energizer and I’ve always been more calm and introverted. Tables switched once we went our first trip together. She loves to relax and chill by the pool and I love to go out and explore nonstop!! Lols

[@InnovativeASMR]

Yes we need more of this Guys! 😁🙌🏼👍🏼

[@ThallysonAcevedo]

"It's coo, welcome to da crackhouse!"

[@priscillaibarra9367]

Yess!! I love thursdays!! Love your content!

[@laurenhawes7201]

Its exactly that babying vs learn on your own type of thing that happens to me. Like my mom tries to baby me a lot but I end up telling her all the time "if its a mistake then its my mistake to make" or "just let me do the chore myself and learn, and redo it if its not to your standards" cause parents have high standards for kids to not make same mistakes but you gotta let your kid figure stuff out and build discipline on their own.

[@FULLMETAL5.0]

I doubt anyone will know me here so fak it. I grew up in a bad city, so bad that my brother was killed in front of my house. This is the kind of environment I grew up in but I've since moved away and live in a better place. I relate with sometimes reacting a bit aggressive in certain situations and people looking at me like I'm crazy. I've learned that regular people usually handle altercations with words and not physical actions. I'm really quiet so I still run into people who think they're tough but I usually just laugh it off but i do have my moments. 😅

[@ifeelikerain]

Imagine breaking up with someone because they like to vacation differently haha

[@kimberlyrok]

yikes lol

[@aracelixelhua6155]

But wouldn’t you want someone that likes vacationing the same way as you ?

[@SpyCrabsUnite]

We need more Joe love stories.

[@anshikagupta6783]

Nah I understand joe and David’s thing abt the living differences, I grew up mostly in America but also in India where I was born and I go there sm times to visit family, and because of that I usually look at things like that because of the way India is and what my parents have told me. No one I’m not good friends with is allowed in my house, my mom don’t know abt most my friends cuz I don’t bring them home cuz they aren’t good friends. Never shit in the car where it can be seen, put it under the seat or the trunk, no shit gettin stolen. And all that shit, growing up with a mindset with where u have to or are taught to worry abt ur money or ur safety makes u likes this and SMMMM many don’t understand it.... fucking hell

[@mike1005ful1]

I love relationship talk from GeniusBrain

[@RubyRim]

Me and Joe's brother are the same. I'm gonna have to try traveling alone cuz I'll never travel with THOSE people again.

[@crystalk9545]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh gahh Joe I love your fucken stories and the way you tell your stories!!!

[@soaringdavis8202]

Jess has nothing but good things to say about Joe! :)

[@VangKevinCatfish]

Joe is a real gangster. Niceeee

[@chobovoyager7143]

great episode

[@TheVangProductions16]

Please do more young love stories!!

[@marilyntran9242]

Is joe going to Paris ?? 🤩 it’ll be cool to see him there 🥰 LOOOOOVE your podcast

[@Renato5785]

This is my third one today and it’s just people have a conversation

[@C.Dat.guyoverthere]

Crying with a glock in your lap. I suddenly pictured Leonardo Dicaprio in Romeo + Juliet.

[@GirlyPRO]

Its odd coz I was in a 5 year relationship too... and now its over been with only one person in my life but its all gone. Dont know wer to start anymore. I feel like life is over and can't imagine how I can go on without that person... 😰😭

[@tomlinzombie]

Hope you're doing better now!

[@lienytran]

As a vietnamese woman, i stay classy but if you fuck with me though, i'll get rachet. Also, yes, are weddings are fucking wild!

[@rollercoasterrideinthefastlane]

Damn, that weight things is relatable when I go to India. I remember a cousin who was around my age called me fat and literally weighed me after I hadn't seen or talked to him in 5 years. I was super offended but he thought it was totally normal to do that

[@mrluis9456]

Best episode Yet🙌🏿

[@jelena-aka-jelzie91]

i LOVE japan! hoping to go again this year 😍

[@yokolmaz2597]

When I visit family in Turkey they also make a remark about my physical appearance from the get-go and it’s not meant to harm anybody too

[@143yaknow]

Hokkaido is one of my favorite places in the whole wide world

[@bageltime4992]

Thank you David for that story. finally got over my ex bc she always looked down on me for being half vietnamese and not full chinese. Her thought process is fucked because i never had anything bad to say about her chinese culture lol

[@timothylee3260]

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[@ogie86]

Holy shit. Me and Joe have the exact reaction on first heartbreak. It hurt so much I started smoking weed 😆

[@SantomPh]

I haven't traveled with anyone since 2008. No regrets

[@nathanielfoo96]

Same i just wanna LIVE IN JAPAN! T-T I want to buy an Abandoned house not to far from tokyo near a train station

[@anonymous_4372]

I love my life

[@testing123.]

Omg the Princeton girl story... sooooooo crazy. East coast people are different.

[@cguerrero1080]

I use tinder when I travel out the country to link up with citizens to learn about non tourist hyped places that I should see. Japan was interesting, I kept getting asked if I wanted a sponsor. I didn't find out what that meant until I got to Korea lol.

[@SantomPh]

they were offering a longer stay

[@Un1234l]

Out of curiosity, what does having a sponsor mean in this context?

[@1412Bunny]

@@Un1234l someone pays her with money/favors/connections for sex/company.

[@cguerrero1080]

@@Un1234l lol yeah, what everyone said is what I was told. I was so naive at the time, I thought they were offering sponsorship if I wanted to stay for school or work, since they need it to work in the US. So I automatically would say No thank you. I didn't know they were being gross at the time.

[@Abc-cp6cb]

we need joes brother on

[@matt__tab]

The knee crack hurt my soul 😂

[@pureleaf8259]

Big Dave is coming back

[@holdenedits6607]

"The lens a pretty person sees out of is different" bro thats just a delusional person trait lol

[@V4Now]

In England Racism within the black community is odd and it's always depends on the generation. The older you are the west-indie and Africans don't like each other but anyone growing up in the 90s are mostly cool with each other.

[@UCKABAH]

Joe sounds like Chavo Guerrero Jr.

[@jet715jx]

Only ganged ived ever joined. The Noti Gang.

[@sharigaming1662]

Are you sure you want to join this gang? Are rivals the First! Gang are pretty fast.

[@ShelbieMua]

Would Chia actually be their standard of beauty with her having darker skin though? Cause I've heard being darker is usually not considered attractive there.

[@no2sings]

He's just talking about in terms of head/face size

[@stevenkim9902]

guys get their heart broken in high school and never get back up

[@yurgr8hang]

Haha heart-broken young thug Joe hahahahahha

[@btung6164]

Great!

[@bpdb4rb13fhumphreys3]

when yall gna come to singapore thoooo

[@elle1718]

If we could stop skinny-shaming, that would be cool.

[@tankorthe-non-derpy9689]

Brooo my girlfriend is innocent like that where she doesn't think about that shit. Its so frustrating

[@matrickswayzee1026]

@7:45 "Talisman"?

[@danicahannaford737]

If someone was smoking in my house I would FUKIN FLIP! It’s disrespectful and I have a parrot and they have sensitive lungs and that could kill him. If anything happened to my baby someone would have to hold me back from doing something I’d get thrown in prison for.

[@Vincisomething]

One of my best friends, who doesn't know JK, thinks Geo is really attractive.

[@sharigaming1662]

I who do know of JK thinks Geo is attractive.

[@J3strX]

Ok recommended chill

[@nathanielfoo96]

1 week everything Singapore ( kinda fast)

[@Meiiiow]

Go to Sweden to broh.

[@josephduenas4718]

joeee needs to link with these japanese jewtubes...パジメ is a japanese expat and i think speaks engrish 😁 🙏🏽

[@holdenedits6607]

or that behavior is fueled by high anxiety

[@averyjohnson7600]

I can’t stay awake during a flight. anybody else?

[@therealneighborpaul_7807]

Sank you berry macha

[@Lalalalala...]

55:40 the first time? He lost his virginity multiple times?

[@jinyang5733]

34:00 but now I check everyone on their bullshit. even family. Majority of my friends are black so old folk Asians don't know but I love my homies too much to see their race get talked about like in a bad way. I'm not proud of this, but since falling out with my mum, I've completely messed up the family heiarchy 😭. But you reep what u sow and ill always talk my shit.

[@zo18376]

i hate seeing bare feet and davids are triggering meeee😂😂😂

[@rocklerock495]

🧐 friends... hmmm this some deep thoughts