More on this subject please. Still confusing. Long story made short: All my life I was at odds with my mother ( from 3 yrs old on). I hated her. She could never make it up to me to let me know she was sorry. A week after she died I am absolutely convinced she came to me in the form of a dragonfly (this is the part where the story is short) so she could let me know there is life after death. Her gift to me. Such peace and joy came over me after that encounter.