Day In the Life As a Mother of 9. {Vlog Episode 7.10.24}

[@kgar67]

Another great video...thank you for sharing.

[@raisingcades]

Thanks for watching!

[@sherriekemper1828]

Spending time in the library with your kids is a day well spent. Also, love the baby's outfit--she chose well.

[@loveheals482]

Publix is the Chick-fil-A of grocery stores🙂

[@raisingcades]

Accurate!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😂

[@larose6551]

I’m grateful you were able to move past that childhood trauma and create a loving and nurturing environment for your self and family❤

[@MsJae2013]

Miss Flo Evans aka Miss Noteefah is too cute!

[@Mahogani.Sharnae]

Mrs. Cades you ain’t got to explain to us and, you have now built a new loving life w/ your husband and your beautiful kids!!! Love y’all and True Blessings!!!💞🙏🏾

[@SusanNachman]

Hi dear. I'm a lactation consultant. Forget about the bottle and go right to a sippy or trainer cup. Go slowly and the both of you will do great. Love from Susan in Israel.

[@raisingcades]

Thank you!

[@pennyrose9712]

Yes this is exactly what I did and it worked perfectly

[@BarefootFarm]

Little Miss Florida Evans! So cute 😂

[@bonniepwtf]

I laughed so hard!

[@carlabullock8681]

You are such an amazing and beautiful wife and mother. Your family is so blessed to have you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ceeceewyms3148]

I like how your videos are short, sweet, and fun. It hurts to hear that adults mistreat children whether they are blood or not. Sending peace, love, and light to you as you continue to heal from the trauma you experienced. Beautiful family!

[@raisingcades]

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[@sharonyork1547]

Florida Evan’s, waiting 5-7 business days for Publix to make a sandwich 😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t with you!

[@raisingcades]

@@sharonyork1547 😂😂😂🩷

[@pamelasinger2731]

You are hilarious 😂 not Florida Evans!! God’s continued Blessings to you and your family!! 🙏🏾❤️

[@larose6551]

Baby girl has so many names with her cute self

[@vickiefinney6073]

I'm 56 and my mother is a narcissist and I'm the middle child and her target. I have no clue what it feels like to be loved from a mother, so I made sure my 3 children knew I loved them ❤️❤️❤️

[@raisingcades]

🩷 Sending love and hugs to you.

[@vickiefinney6073]

@@raisingcades thank you. I love watching the way you love your family. Blessings to all of you 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@kittykooky]

In situations like yours I say one thing... "Her loss" my Mother never said I love you to any of us, she used to say I love you all the same.. 😐. My Son knows without a shadow of a doubt he is loved and not only by me, he loves his family it means the world to him. ❤

[@vickiefinney6073]

@@kittykooky my mother in March of 2023 physically attacked me in front of my teenage daughter. I haven't spoken to her since. I have left her to God for Him to deal with her and I pray for myself to heal from all the abuse I have suffered from her. I love watching these videos. I love seeing mother's loving their children the way I love mine

[@deborahharris8092]

Ahh thanks for sharing that. Its so true about how it made you feel and transporting you back to those times, with your step dad. You have love around you in abundance now! The kids are so lovely! from 🇬🇧

[@kamilfrancis737]

May his Grace continue to bless u all

[@sandyc2762]

Your children are going to be so well rounded. Kudos to you parents.

[@dianaday1]

Another awesome video! I love watching you and your family. And your narration is perfect.

[@marywilson1442]

Oh she's so cute and sweet💗. See that view of Little Miss No Teeth at the end is what makes people want babies🥰🤗

[@hazelgriffith4515]

Not a single memory was a good one... it's OK to feel nothing. Be blessed, my dear

[@foreverkellysunshine1502]

You called that baby Florida Evans and I almost choked on my ice 🤣

[@raisingcades]

😂😂

[@Babygirlll1234]

Loved this❤…And thank you for sharing a piece of you with us that we never would have known otherwise. Thank you for sharing your truth. God bless.

[@ReadingwithMrsInlow]

I love that you spend time in the library. I love being an elementary school librarian. You are a wonderful mom and a true inspiration. ❤

[@arneathercarothers9074]

Babygirl looks just like her Dad, she's Adorable!❤

[@deborahblackshear3325]

❤😊. I love Publix and Chick-fil-A.

[@asiriusworm]

Wow what a huge library!! The library was my safe place as a kid for sure

[@dianereeves8632]

I’m alway impressed and love watching you and your beautiful family. I’m sorry you and your mother were treated like that by that man. Sending you a warm hug🤗❤️

[@MH-wd2vd]

God Bless the #Cades you guys are everything.. Light, Love, hope❤ 🙏🏿 Praying for the baby @ Space Camp hope he has fun and excels in his craft and all the babies as well.

[@mattiewilliams1138]

Chile I need longer videos!!!!❤❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing your story time, I love YT/Influencers that are real, transparent and like me!!!!!!!

[@Justtee1989]

Totally agree with you…lol

[@marshownanderson8561]

Girl, you better go out into this here world, with YOUR storybook and tell them on stage 🤩

[@pennyrose9712]

Thank you for sharing that at the end about the guy who passed. It’s so true. Also, I have one 4 year old and idk how you do it with so many babies all over the place lol. You are amazing. Much love, be blessed❤

[@ladgers]

I love your videos so much. The names you think of are top notch hilarious 😂 Florida Evans with the fro 😂😂😂😂. You have the right to feel how you feel and sharing your story just shows you're human. Life happens with or without your camera.

[@raisingcades]

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[@jenniferwilliams3232]

Love you and your family. So precious

[@alicewalker838]

Hi Mrs. Cades love your videos and your beatiful family i love going to the library as a kid and now as an adult my daughter takes her daughter on fridays when she's off or her daycare , thats a nice wagon you used careing the small children and food around the baby is to adorable❤

[@nancybarnes4428]

Amen!!! Thank you for sharing!!!❤ I absolutely love you and your family. I love to see you cooking for the family. Amazing ❤

[@mikki3kids]

I love watching you and your family 🫶🏽 the realness of it all! I feel the same way when I don’t have earrings on 🤭

[@julieohanian4728]

First time watching your vids. Just lovely.

[@julieann6688]

Don't feel bad or guilty about not feeling sad about the man who clearly mistreated you and your mom. You came out the other side a better, stronger, more independent, compassionate human being. You know how to treat people and you have the love and support of a beautiful family. I am sorry you had to go through what you did but you are better for it and you learned from it. They say when bad things happen to us, the most important thing is how we choose to handle it. You are an "overcomer" as Mandisa says, God rest her sweet soul. Bless you and your family. ❤❤❤

[@raisingcades]

Thank you for the kind words. 🩷

[@bernadinewhitworth4262]

I just love Maya Angelou ! 😊

[@chekekaprice9592]

Beautiful family!

[@denise3885]

Good for you. You left the past in the past and built a bright future. ❤

[@chichi8946]

Thank you for sharing! Luv the library ❤Take care

[@Mindset630]

Like, I so get you..I like your transparency...Because this is so ironic, I too felt like you with a neighbor who had been a neighbor while growing up, she passed recently.. She could be just so very mean, and all I could remember was her being so mean to us children, always negative. So true, we must remember that others around us are watching and listening and especially our youth.

[@libertygiveme1987]

I'm sorry your Stepfather wasn't a nice person. Like you said, you at least now understand what made him the way that he was. I try and do good for people every single day, because for me, HELL IS NOT AN OPTION!!!! May you, your Honey, and your babies be BLESSED!!!!

[@sandragreen3691]

GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

[@Socivol]

Charity is getting so big!

[@queend5493]

My mother always had a spare set of hoops in her wallet. I love that you take your kids to the library and talk about how much they really offer. I miss hearing you say "little miss no teeth" That always made me laugh😄😄😄😄

[@Blackwomenrock12]

This family is awesome I love watching channel it's simply beautiful

[@Love101Movie]

Thank God you serve the true and living God that will heal all of our old wounds. And I must say in spite of your beginning you seem to have come out to be a women of compassion. 🙌🏽🙏🏽😇❤️

[@raisingcades]

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[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

I'm so glad that I listened to your video this morning. It has truly touched my heart. I love what you said about the children. You said, "That includes the children too." In my humble opinion, children should always come first. But, unfortunately they are the ones who are usually last. I had a step-father too. I can relate so much to what you have said.

[@raisingcades]

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[@tonyawilliams8341]

You are an amazing family. I love it blessings and love to you all

[@jenniferjones1840]

I can't help with the weaning! My youngest is a year and don't seem to be stopping. I've done over 2 years almost 3 even while working full time. They just do it on they own 😅😂 Good luck mama ❤

[@Kitkac80]

Beautiful family and beautiful

[@bonniepwtf]

I hear you about how that past stuff can come flooding in uninvited & unwanted. We all saw the little pick her outfit out, definitely did. Great day at the library, I miss those days.🤗🧡💛

[@raisingcades]

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[@michelleduff6085]

I just love your family and videos ❤

[@Momscool1049]

I love Publix!!

[@rosemarygray1175]

Enjoyed your story.

[@Babygirl899a]

I love your family and videos

[@RBOSTGLASS1]

Love this💞💞

[@nicoleking3996]

Enjoyed this..👑👑🙏🏾💞

[@SusanNachman]

Have you thought about getting a soda stream for your house? Super easy, saves on schlepping bottles from the market. You add whatever you want... cranberry juice, grape juice, fruit extracts....

[@JBandyesIhaveaJD]

Publix is my favorite, too!

[@KwanzaMyesha]

So many emotions in this video...sis❤️I too can relate to the phone/msg recvd that the man passed away...anywho...love your vlog AND Doritos 😋...until next time Chao 🥰😁

[@raisingcades]

🗣️AND Doritos! 😂🩷 Thank you for watching!

[@curiouscath7629]

Awesome 💯

[@silvacole8527]

Sending a big hug

[@tmoffatt2411]

Who needs metal forks...they're overrated! I can't count the number of times I had to repurchase silverware because the kids were throwing them out! 😂😊

[@jimiasturdivant5874]

OMG I knew it was you! I saw you at Sam’s and I apologize for looking hard/staring. I was trying to make sure I was seeing who I was seeing. I love your videos! Again, sorry for staring/looking hard. ❤

[@raisingcades]

Oh, sis you are the sweetest. No apologies are necessary. I usually think people are staring at me and thinking, “This lady with all these kids is cray cray!” 😜 😂🩷

[@jimiasturdivant5874]

@@raisingcades absolutely not! lol 😂

[@ExceptionalLibra]

It's ok not to feel anything. When my stepfather passed, I had no emotion attached to him, and I didn't attend the funeral. Although he was married to my mom, he didn't like me at all and did nothing for me throughout my life. He was a complete stranger to me.

[@daphnyhayes9702]

Thank you for sharing ❤

[@EricaStevenson-uj8ez]

Don't 😂do ms little no teeth like that Florida Evans❤❤

[@raisingcades]

😂

[@kittykooky]

In the UK we don't use paper plates or plastic cutlery on a day to day basis, maybe for a picnic, BBQ, party etc, I've seen some families on KZbin use them everyday but they BIN everything 😵 even the good plastic knives, forks and spoons, I'm all for recycling the paper but why don't they wash the plastic cutlery and use again ? 1, it's more landfill 2, a waste of money. Please tell me you re use the plastic. 😔💐 great video as per. 😁

[@Emme2975]

Did you call our sweet baby Florida!!!!😂😂😂😂

[@raisingcades]

🫣😂

[@suzyQ65]

Publix is the Best in the sandwich, better than the ones in NYC each time I Go visit my son and grandkids. He picks me up with a Publix sandwich delicious 😊

[@marshaanderson9176]

You have my sympathy

[@RobynViolet]

🙏🏽

[@allthingskia9424]

I had a lil bottle of lemon juice and nutmeg..then i put carrot puree on my boobs whenever she wanted to nurse..she was turned off .i kept applying it..with the bottle as an option. Eventually she took the bottle..and i took a shower..Was consistent like 3x and she was off

[@raisingcades]

Oh wow! Thank you!

[@k.fuentes7448]

“Florida Evan’s” that was funny! May I ask why you use only plastic forks?

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

I had an ex stepfather that passed away who I hadn’t thought about for years when I heard of his passing… the feeling wasn’t “nothing” or else you wouldn’t have made a video telling us. The feeling is not an usual reaction and you’re trying to work through that which is normal. Talk to someone a… pastor, counselor or wise friend about it🙏🏾

[@raisingcades]

Nope. It was literally nothing. Just because I have memories of him that aren’t good, that doesn’t mean that I have a feeling one way or another. Those issues were worked through decades ago, which is why I haven’t thought about him since I was a child. Thanks though. 🩷

[@marthafinizio5865]

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[@karenperry8813]

Florida Evans, 😂

[@Brandibell121]

Florida Evans😂😂😂😂😂

[@daiseymckinstry]

Instead of a bottle try a sippy cup

[@raisingcades]

I’m gonna pick one up today. Thank you.

[@angelawalker5104]

I'm sorry to hear that about your step father

[@SS-ch6hl]

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[@suzyQ65]

To cute

[@tyesabussey2106]

May I have your recipe to the butter chicken?

[@lyn8356]

Wait did she call her baby Florida Evans 😅😂

[@Monica0978]

💘💘💘💘

[@angelathomas4066]

💜💛💜💛💜✌🏽

[@larose6551]

Little Miss No Teeth is getting so big

[@stephani4636]

FLORIDA EVANS 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@sollandernorman-rv7dd]

Your baby girl is your husband twin

[@alexisoliver3321]

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