days living in a van | solo female vanlife (Story 2)

[@maggie_xoxo5470]

Can you do a story time of how you decided to live in a van with your toddler ?? If that’s okay with you . …. You came across my feed in KZbin . And I’m like wow 😯 like in a good way . Makes me want to do the same thing with my toddler like . Just you and him and go anywhere you want . ♥️🤩

[@lakeshataylor1885]

I think babies need to be settled . He needs play with other children

[@erowry22]

@lakeshataylor1885 I understand what you mean, but you can still have them interact with other kids by going to the local parks, libraries, going to see family from time to time. Many kids are bad influences, so interacting with them all isn't a good thing either.

[@breed1537]

@@lakeshataylor1885 I strongly believe that she is doing the best that she can do. You never know her reasons for wanting or having to live in a van until she tells her story. What you may think may not be what is best for her life. With the way inflation, rental increases, and job lay offs this may be her best to keep her from living in worse situations or shelters. Yes her child can still interact with other child once they get out of the van in various ways. Don't be so fast to judge because it could be you, your kids or family one day. I salute the vlogger for doing what is best for her. That baby biy appears to be happy, loved, clean and well kept and that what matters the Most.

[@876Tiffany]

@@lakeshataylor1885bit I feel like most children are not safe and harmful to other children. Saying this as a child once.

[@HISdaughterC]

Yes, I would love to learn more about your story/ decision to #vanlife.

[@staceys.richardson5954]

That baby boy is having the time of his life.

[@iamDavidaRose]

Little man is so laid back. He’s the most chill kid I’ve ever seen. I think it’s cool people are curious about your van.

[@prettiiprettii2700]

Came across your channel and wow! Hats off to you mama ! You’re doing such a great job. This literally brought tears to my eyes in a good way. May God continue to bless you and baby boy.

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

Very much AGREED and the same with me✨💞

[@betsymoore234]

You are giving your son a nurturing and beautiful experience. He will grow up to be a kind, caring, genuine man because of the love and life lessons of his strong mother. ❤️

[@Kailaandshia]

I’m so impressed by you! It’s such a beauty in the simplicity of your life

[@tracymarie5]

Very loving mom...hes blessed to be loved, and all the hugs and kisses, not all kids get that

[@TaterGrabbinBass]

I think it’s awesome you have your little man with you, you’re parenting right and spending quality time with him letting him experience different people and different amazing places! I’m getting a van soon to hit the road with my puppy so he can experience different people and places and visit family and friends. Where were you at, the area looks great, is that just day parking or can you overnight there? Also, stay safe and protect that little man, when he gets older he will be your protector! Bless you 2!

[@robekiel1]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you for sharing your amazing journey bless you and your family.

[@LizzieCATs38]

Your boy is well behaved very lucky. I wish I could've thought of this when my boy was a toddler but at the time van life wasn't as popular as it is today it would've came in handy since we we're homless at the time but that was the past and we got through it and came out of it stronger and now my son is 16 years old. Enjoy every second of it they sure grow so fast. Good luck

[@EBabyy359]

Beautiful little family ♥️ safe travels 🙏🏼

[@Lovymoeethan]

Freedom awesome mother, you are to teach your son how to survive and live life without the stress❤

[@angelaportillo6777]

Your son is such a handsome little guy! You two are totally taking advantage of living in California, I lived there for 20 years and haven't enjoyed all the sites. Your son is so lucky that your giving him all that 😊

[@TheUnsupervisedBlackChild]

Your content is so beautiful. I'm 53 living in a huge townhouse alone. I've been considering taking some short trips and living my SUV rather than renting hotels. I'm a new subscriber from Hampton, Va. I'll be watching. Thanks for sharing🤩

[@lourdezmunoz3562]

My only concern is their safety, the van breaking down, and being followed by stalkers. But it is best for the child to be with mom, rather than a daycare without mom most of its life because mom has to work a job to pay the bills. I've seen van life with both parent's involved, but who knows, maybe the father in this situation didn't want to be around or wasn't going to be a good influence on the child. Who knows? But you can't judge. But so far it seems like this mama is doing her best, and these beautiful places are great for her mental health, who knows what her life was like at home to make her choose van life for them. Could have been a toxic environment? She is a good mom, she loves her child, shes trying her best. I pray 🙏 they stay safe. Maybe get a couple of dogs to protect them.

[@ClosewithKeri]

You are such a good mother!!! I have always thought of getting an rv to travel the us in with my children for a year.. but I was worried about doing it solo.. you give me hope that it can be done. Thank you!

[@sandraradford8644]

When my children were small we did summer travels. I wished that I had thought of this. It would have been less expensive and definitely more comfortable than hotels.

[@creeei9305]

Thanks for sharing your journey. Your son is adorable❤

[@karmaisreal7586]

Aww your baby is so calm and beautiful. You're a great Mom and your van is so comfy looking and clean. I just found your channel. Looking forward to checking out the rest of your journey. Stay safe out there if you're still doing vanlife. Peace and positive energy going up for you 2. 🧡✌🏼

[@Mayousse]

New Subscriber. Beautiful mom & son. Safe travels.

[@dehjhunaeday5743]

Love the decor looks so comfy

[@niebieskimotyl3308]

When we were travelling in a van, my son was all over the place. He was running not looking around. It was hard, I was picking places with no crowd, no streets around. Also season in my country lasts for 5 months only, so I was planning on going abroad South, but.. got scared of being on my own with energetic toddler. I went to physiotherapist as he was clumsy and found out he has autism spectrum. It was devastating, to put away my plan on travelling around Europe and raising my child freely and independently. He needed routine, therapy. Now I'm thinking again about travel during holidays, maybe by train, with a tent. He's almost 7 so much more independent and doing great. It was the best time in my life, living in a van (although I have an apartment that I rented for the time being away, which is very convenient)

[@robinvolpi]

Aahh..... I lived in Laguna Beach for a couple of years, during High School. I stayed with my aunt & uncle... and was 1 of 8 Black students (at that time) in the entire school. Was quite the experience. ;) But to you.... I've only just stumbled across your page and am grateful that I have. Since this video is my first introduction, I'm not certain if you're still living the vanlife but it is a pleasure to see you and your beautiful son seemingly embarking on adventure and life fulfillment. I wish you both the Safest of travels/stays and Blessings in Abundance, overall. Just subscribed! 🌺

[@aaleeyah]

I love your lil boy. he's so precious. You're such a great mom.

[@jessieisjournaling2390]

I love your videos. You show alot of the inside of the van and how you function, alot of people dont show how they do alot like cooking and cleaning and organizing just van stuff i love and enjoy seeing inside and how they live inside the van even simple things like turning the bed or putting dishes away i find it very helpful,,, i may be a van lifer here soon. thank u for sharing your life. god bless u and baby.

[@lavonnepruitt3905]

This is beautiful! I really commend you on being a great mom!

[@americandoodle]

You have a really nice channel and thank you for sharing your travels :)

[@christelarmstrong9598]

U are such a inspiration sis ..live your best life ❤️🙏🏾

[@suzy8109]

God bless you both and keep you both happy and safe. ❤

[@breannam8775]

Keep Doing What Your Doing Don’t Give Up! Seen A Few Of Your Reels And Fell In Love With What Your Doing.

[@pennyhinders339]

Yep I just came across ur channel too and very interested in ur story and how you came to the decisions u did. U seem very young but very responsible and that's not normal nowadays for a lot of people. So very excited to follow u in ur journey, ur boy is so cute and well behaved and , one can tell loved! Refreshing channel. Good luck and safe, happy travels

[@W3Slots]

What an amazing view and it looks so peaceful!

[@mrnosleepinhouston2132]

I've just wanted to start a Van life vlog seeing you do with a toddler makes it look so easy .

[@antoinettepeeps2640]

Love this video! 🥰 such amazing experiences you’re giving your baby! Way to go 💕

[@staceys.richardson5954]

This is life more abundantly that Jesus spoke of, I realize. Sigh

[@tylerdurden9416]

Omg, he is so stinking’ cute!!! Love this. What an amazing experience for you both

[@katcampbell9213]

Thanks for sharing your story 💛

[@LaineyBug2020]

With so many commentators looking out for your son, he should be the best protected kid on the internet!

[@monalingan9523]

Chilling in your van looks so inviting.

[@lynetteschenck4311]

He so sweet

[@gayleb9656]

Very impressed by you 💕

[@marcieharkness3373]

He is so cute!Girl you are brave tho dressing him in all white lol I'm grown&can't keep it clean lol he did good tho!

[@cindieramirez7080]

Have fun, enjoy life! Your a great mommy!

[@suegreathouse2037]

If you make these I will watch them for sure.

[@suegreathouse2037]

There’s some sense of peace I feel when watching your videos.

[@ColoCulture]

Little man was taking in them views towards the end

[@mrnosleepinhouston2132]

Did you buy the van like this or did you put it all together yourself ?

[@temamarshall92]

How old is your sweet boy there, and now. He is a sweetie.

[@jsid1981]

How do you keep the window covers up

[@piterofunlife3977]

I love your van

[@marydixon3673]

Hello, I love your van

[@marydixon3673]

and the way your allowing your son to see the world, great job.

[@preciousbrown73]

Can you tell me what type of van you have? I'm thinking about transitioning to a van with my 5 yr old daughter

[@garriona]

💫🧡

[@Roxy-Roxy429]

I'm a Steelers fan ❤

[@carlenhagan632]

You are very inspiring. I commend you on doing the van life.

[@mariadoloresmauro3253]

Hey Jayla you said in the videos where you are???? I write from Spain and I don't understand properly.. I read better than listen to... You visit so nice places...ohhhhh I have just seen that you write the place... Thank you!!! I saw Dana Point

[@kimberlyd.stewart4657]

Beautiful ❤️

[@alexisdulin4427]

What did you use to put your bed in?

[@Kaudri]

Where’s little mans car seat and where does he sit? I’m a widowed mama of a toddler considering doing the same

[@margaritamartinez6413]

Be safe God Bless

[@Threepacfeezy]

❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉your strong 💪🏾

[@theambitlady]

I subscribed. ♥️🌼🙏

[@angelabrookins4743]

I have just changed your name so so sorry for the mistake Kayla hope I got it right 😆

[@chantellejones8436]

I hope you and your son are are alright and are living your van life to the fullest

[@wyntersteele1a]

Put the baby on a safety jacket unless this is some kind of safety jacket.

[@simplysony7308]

Hi New to your Channel What do you for a living?

[@piapia7945]

You should monetize your videos hun.

[@cecegiles4583]

I think that's the purpose of everyone who gets on KZbin

[@angelabrookins4743]

@@cecegiles4583 I know right other wise she couldn't afford her travel and live her life comfortable she is doing good because everything she do it's all about her and her. Handsome 🤩🤩🤩 son she is young you can tell she is educated and good on handle her business I just adore her so so Sooooooooooooo much she had a plan and she is living it that is what life about hopefully she is saving $$$ but people can become almost do anything they want because her job pays her well I love she is excited and enjoying it with her son and not a man but being honest I will have a man it's dangerous traveling on the road with out a gun because she is a beautiful woman and most people nowadays take the advantage of these situations but we're all praying and holding her up with God in her life he is taking care of her and son I know she prays how can you not pray out on the road without a man she got all her aunties looking out for her hopefully she has a backup plan also love you so much safe traveling jalya

[@angelabrookins4743]

It's expensive traveling on the road gas prices are so unpredictable in each stop it could be lower are higher but as long as you are working daily and she knows when to park plus get her and her son a. Hotel and she gets nice one somewhere more safe she is no dumb chick she even cooked for her baby so proud of her we need a sign if some things feel funny let us know so we can be you helicopter aunties police aunties doctor aunties we have your best interest at 💜💜💜 believe that I am not the only one I do know that much love you kayle

[@stephpowell7648]

6:38 fire surrounded by materials is definitely not safe?

[@girlmomonabudget7709]

Right. She could buy a card table and cook outside.

[@Seabacon346]

I was thinking the same thing

[@npecam5996]

3:00 hey would you be able to talk with me I got some questions I would like to ask

[@angelabrookins4743]

Damn jalya again forgive me sorry 😐😔 boo

[@ronelllanear98]

I would love if you would come through Kansas City on your journey and let me cook for you

[@jonitrue295]

Where do you wash up? Where do you go to the bathroom? You obviously have some income. Work with a good realtor to buy a house instead of living the dangerous life of a nomad.

[@girlmomonabudget7709]

Maybe she doesn’t want to. Do what works for YOU

[@jonitrue295]

@@girlmomonabudget7709 and maybe she doesn't have brains or maybe she chooses to make stupid decisions. Yep to each his own.

[@Shawndaun]

Your speaking facts raising a child in a small van that’s horrible and to see black women championing this non sense is the reason why are people are so lost. Where is his daddy?

[@celestialvibes2418]

I have seen a white mother with 4 children and a viral KZbin channel and not one person asked where is the father.

[@jonitrue295]

@Celestial Vibes I didn't see that one. But best believe I would have asked. Especially with four kids? Yeah.

[@carlosflores4380]

Wheres the dad tho????also once he hits 5 or 6 its gonna be time for him to do school are u gonna home school him or what? This is great and all but this kind of life is not for a kid he needs to make friends and whatnot. Please dont homeschool him in a van. This is the epitome of a single black mother living off odlf the government and tax payer dollars. This may seem nice but its coming out of OUR pockets

[@Shawndaun]

You are the only person in the comments keeping it real. This is definitely some wratchet baby mom stuff. Raising a kid in a van…. Wth what happens if the van breaks down it’s really old ?

[@celestialvibes2418]

@shizz Wow judging without knowing the situation . She does not have any hint of ratchetness. She seems like a decent young lady. Your choice of words to describe this mother who is trying says a lot about you.

[@Shawndaun]

@@celestialvibes2418 living out of a van by choice is not trying. Washing up at dirty gas stations is not trying. Not having a male role model around is not trying stop it

[@celestialvibes2418]

@@Shawndaun it takes a simple search on YT to see how many people are living this lifestyle full time with children. Go to the tiny house living channel and others to see. This child is getting to experience and see the country like most other children will not. She may want to upgrade to a larger bus or RV as the child gets older . I applaud her bold approach to life . Its not always one size fits all. Like I said, search bus life on YTAnd you will see how many people ate comfortably doing this. Times have changed. The rent is too darn high especially in California. You will be surprised to see how many people are doing this with multiple children and pets. Come back and let me know how you feel about it after you watch the videos of other people living this lifestyle.

[@thefrugalwanderlustinglinguist]

Im sure this has been asked but I vouldnt find it. How do you finance your adventures? You seem to be able to spend all of your time with your adorable son which is so special for both of you. I'm sure many of your followers would love to be able to do the sme but how?

[@alphonso5688]

Where is his dad do you let him see his dad or are you selfish

[@janejohnson3031]

U have alot of nerve

[@christopherthompson1195]

Start a go fund me so she can get a secure home for her and her son instead of asking all questions