Lost my husband in the summer of 22. We both loved this song. Now it feels like a eulogy every time.
@Danae783 күн бұрын
Wow sorry to hear that loss. 🌹
@katwitanruna9 ай бұрын
May the memories of love outweigh the grief of death.
@MrKDB0018 ай бұрын
The price of love is grief
@SARA-kd5ve3 ай бұрын
🙏
@spademusic6496Ай бұрын
Well said
@lisaperry5003Ай бұрын
No Death Only Rebirth
@philipnorris6542Ай бұрын
They do and they will.
@watchmakingman9342 Жыл бұрын
What a genius music video. The imagery of the tiny hole (Idea of death) growing from the minuscule thing we never think of as a child. Gradually growing larger and larger to when it's unavoidable later in life. Then the reality that maybe it's nothing to be scared of or worried about.
@The_Khuzdul12 ай бұрын
Not to mention the hole is foreshadowed at the beginning of the video with thr shot from inside the guitar. Maybe to represent birth, coming into light as opposed to moving away from it
@sammgualberto Жыл бұрын
I can't believe it's been 15 years. I still remember being a young teenager, headphones in ears...crying listening to everything death cab. Now I'm double the age, still crying.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@Tormund_Giantsbrain Жыл бұрын
SAME!!
@vicm23 Жыл бұрын
same...
@user-ch5qd3uz3l Жыл бұрын
i remember being in my early 20s thinking i was too cool for death cab for cutie and what a fool i was finally discovered death cab and MCR in the past couple years and feel like an idiot for not listening sooner
@goobles64 Жыл бұрын
Man I love death cab and their songs, wonderful music but this really isn't good for us. The music is dark
@breonna3658 Жыл бұрын
I first listened to this song when I was about 15 years old... 32 now and I still love it the same. Beautifully written. All of death cabs songs are! Thank you for being there for me through the different chapters of my journey.
@GhettoBagel3 жыл бұрын
I used to think it was really really sad, but now that I'm older, a little wiser, and have someone whom I love with all of my heart, I see it as a dark but really sweet and comforting song. I really would and _will_ follow her into the afterlife, no matter what it is. Whether it's heaven, hell, or absolutely nothing at all, I'll be at her side for it.
@filipinagirl73932 жыл бұрын
i felt a love as deep as what this song portrays, to someone i connected with the most in my life.. only for him to cheat. now, i don't know where that exact love goes.. maybe it just goes..
@zedzeduk2 жыл бұрын
@@filipinagirl7393 I'm not religious, but I firmly believe in the passage "Love is patient, Love is kind", which contains "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth". Your man could not be honest with you (he cheated), so his love for you was not as yours was for him. The man you loved wasn't actually the man himself, but a better man that who he could be. It's so sad that he was not worthy of the love you had for him, but so it goes. You will, in time, find another that does, and realise that above all else in a relationship - there must be "truth". I hope you are ok.
@james-nw9up2 жыл бұрын
Everybody dies and whether you believe in an afterlife or not you still wish to be reunited with someone you've lost when the time comes at least
@bradleynicholson74042 жыл бұрын
The lyrics are something that will let your mind to all the way into your heart and deepest soul...love is amazing
@BunnyQueen972 жыл бұрын
@@zedzeduk it’s so hard not to fall in love with someone’s potential, especially when you believe in them so much.
@VivaLaReverend3 жыл бұрын
My grandfather died 2 weeks ago and my grandma followed him 3 days ago. She really followed him into the dark. Although we miss you both a ton, we hope both of you are happy together
@hopebgood3 жыл бұрын
Maybe they're together forever. Hope so. *hug*
@lijo45189 ай бұрын
🙏 RIP 🌹
@DavidjessRobitaillie5 ай бұрын
That is true love.. god bless both of them ❤
@davetoms110 ай бұрын
Today is an incredibly dark anniversary for my family. And I'm hearing this song for the first time, absolutely weeping. Thank you for making powerfully raw music. It's important.
@philippbrad21872 жыл бұрын
Rest well jessica. J.R.K. its been a few years since you passed but you are so missed, i havent listened to this song since you passed.. I just couldnt do it. I tried to follow you to the dark but unfortunatley couldnt make it there. Til we meet again. Always love, phil.
@WhiteplumeeАй бұрын
I lost my best friend last October and I’m still struggling with this loss, but I know the amount of pain that one person can make by cutting their life short. I still feel so empty without them. It’s not like every day is bad, but there’s moments of light when I remember them and I can’t help but to cry because I wish they were still here. You were an amazing musician, singer, and artist. I never understood why you never reached out when you knew I would be there for you without any judgement. I miss you so much, and wish we could’ve gone through this life together.
@PhilippBradАй бұрын
@Whiteplumthats my old account, and I haven't listened to to this song since I wrote that. Shit sucks man, I hope it doesn't continue for you, I hope everything gets better for you man. It seems like I been floating over and just watching myself on autopilot for 15 years or so now
@nonsense2369 Жыл бұрын
This is truly one of the most powerful songs ever written in the English language.
@fidelis7727 Жыл бұрын
One of my best friends committed suicide after a long battle with depression and this was the song we sang for his sendoff before they pulled the plug on his life support. Fly high and free, Kyle.
@I_love_the_sunset Жыл бұрын
I’m rly sorry for your loss
@elsvaughn7959 Жыл бұрын
I'm so so sorry. I hope you're doing well ❤
@jesssobel73148 ай бұрын
I don't know Kyle, but this comment fucked me up. Rest easy buddy
@shugaggsoar25357 ай бұрын
rest in peace kyle u touched my heart
@musatariq20007 ай бұрын
What a loser, sorry to say that, but yeah, people like this actually are.
@jessesgirl109 ай бұрын
Good God, has it really been this long? My daughter really loved this band and she saw them twice before she got cancer. This was one band that helped carry her through the treatments along with a local radio station. Her fiance sent a letter to the band letting them know how important they were to my daughter during this. To this day I still am not allowed to play this CD around my daughter's fiance. And I still cry hearing certain songs because i miss her every single day. But hey, For Aletha's sake Stay Beautiful.
@zeldahasastory8648 Жыл бұрын
I sing this to my daughter all the time. She's five. She has cerebral palsy. She was born very very early and she and I both passed away during birth. It was very traumatic but we both survived. She's now a healthy vibrant little thing, fighting the good fight as we diligently try to help her learn to walk and live the best possible life. She is such a bright happy white light and what can sometimes be a very dark situation and pulls both of her parents through everyday. She loves to hear me sing this song. She can't fully talk yet but she sure can hold a note. This might be one of her favorite songs that her mama sings. Children with cerebral palsy don't have a very long life expectancy. When she decides it's time for her to go, I'll be right there with her. 💜
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@janicerobinson1198 Жыл бұрын
TY for sharing you and your precious daughters story. You both have a purpose and I'm so glad you both are still here ❤ Sending all the hugs and positivity!
@haeleysundin386 Жыл бұрын
This is the most heartwarming heartbreaking comment. You are such an incredibly brave woman and mother. My heart goes out to you, and I hope the best and brightest of days come for you and your daughter
@tritesy Жыл бұрын
I've been singing this to my son since he was 1 year old and he dis now 5 years old. This and Tiny Dancer by Elton John are 2 songs that I sung to him all the time when he was just a little baby. For some reason they both reminded me of mine and his relationship.
@customconcern1 Жыл бұрын
My brother had cerebral palsy and passed away about ten years ago I sing this to him all the time.
@karlat78809 ай бұрын
This song hits different now that my husband died at 53.
@InstaMemesio8 ай бұрын
Rest in peace Ma’am.
@BtardCreator6 ай бұрын
@@InstaMemesio🤝🏼
@provostpl2 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@VincentLAndersonАй бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss.
@bigusdickus1595Ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss
@OikoEco2 жыл бұрын
Hands down one of the most beautiful songs about love and death.
@johnd3124 Жыл бұрын
honestly this is one of the best songs of all time, up there with the Beatles and Queen songs
@nonprofitgirl Жыл бұрын
It’s my song to my best friend of 30+ years. We love each other.
@fr4ctal2724 жыл бұрын
no way, the audio is finally fixed :')
@preeetistfu4 жыл бұрын
Fr... I can't believe thisssssss
@martha48294 жыл бұрын
Heyo frac
@andrewkappler1234 жыл бұрын
What was wrong wit it?
@ydk22844 жыл бұрын
Just realized
@ydk22844 жыл бұрын
So happy that they fixed it!!! 😊😊😊
@michaelrauchett76013 жыл бұрын
September of 2020 i lost my father to brain cancer. He was such a caring person, he loved helping anyone in his family. Losing a parent suddenly is a pain I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Now my best friend has 6 months or less to live and I can't do anything to help her. The fact that I lost my father and now im losing my best friend is the hardest thing right now. But I hope when my time comes I'll be able to see them again to hug them and tell them how much I love them
@bellamay66083 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss and to hear this news it is so sad and I cannot imagine how you must be feeling
@presidentstevenking3 жыл бұрын
Ive got cancer myself.
@presidentstevenking3 жыл бұрын
I'm 2 years into the last 4 of my life....
@presidentstevenking3 жыл бұрын
I'm lonely.
@adg_873 жыл бұрын
Brother keep your head up. I wish you all the best.
@themyriadband18 күн бұрын
Still one of the best acoustic songs, let alone songs of the last two decades.
@jenniferking97322 жыл бұрын
My husband died 9 years ago... Perfectly poetic for loss. Thank you❣️
@thomasaanderson124552 жыл бұрын
Sry to hear that. But life will move on. We will follow. Hopfully later than sooner. 👍
@mrtophat122 ай бұрын
How are you now?
@jtokes9400Ай бұрын
This song helped me a lot as a 14 year old and continues till today at 31. thank you
@sleeplessnight2163 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: Love of mine Someday you will die But I'll be close behind I'll follow you into the dark No blinding light Or tunnels, to gates of white Just our hands clasped so tight Waiting for the hint of a spark If Heaven and Hell decide that they both are satisfied Illuminate the no's on their vacancy signs If there's no one beside you when your soul embarks Then I'll follow you into the dark In Catholic school, as vicious as Roman rule I got my knuckles bruised by a lady in black And I held my tongue as she told me "Son, fear is the heart of love, " so I never went back And if Heaven and Hell decide that they both are satisfied Illuminate the no's on their vacancy signs If there's no one beside you when your soul embarks Then I'll follow you into the dark You and me have seen everything to see From Bangkok to Calgary And the soles of your shoes are all worn down The time for sleep is now But it's nothing to cry about 'Cause we'll hold each other soon In the blackest of rooms And if Heaven and Hell decide that they both are satisfied Illuminate the no's on their vacancy signs If there's no one beside you when your soul embarks Then I'll follow you into the dark Then I'll follow you into the dark
@eliuvillarreal80013 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this.
@rj_ocean74172 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@RafaelGeeBassPlayer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@sha73032 жыл бұрын
lol who doesnt have this shit memorised this is lik3 a 15 year old song
@malucklo2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@ScienceFoundation3 жыл бұрын
As sad as it sounds, I was introduced to this song by a girl from Canada that I never met in person. We met somewhere around 2001 on MSN chat and talked for hours a day for years and one night on video chat she just started singing, it hit me on a deep level. That was well over a decade ago and it's just stuck with me like a bad habit. Sadly we grew up and drifted apart.
@ScienceFoundation3 жыл бұрын
@A G I had friends here and there, online and IRL but me and this girl were thick as thieves. She wanted a family, two kids. I hope she got it.
@ared.a3 жыл бұрын
Its so sad, many people you know on Internet and you talk with them, and someday you just stop talking with them for no reason, sorry for my bad english, its not my main language
@ScienceFoundation3 жыл бұрын
@@ared.a I understood you perfectly my man. And it really is a heartbreak
@ared.a3 жыл бұрын
@@ScienceFoundation yes man, its so sad, I think that the internet and all of this stuff is depressing a little bit too, you see to many sad things, so many people that have this problems that you wish you can solve for them, damn man
@user-cx9gq2ud6t3 жыл бұрын
Same, someone on MSN introduced me to Death Cab and I’ve loved them since. It’s sad how close we were to friends on MSN and then just all grew apart. I often wonder how they are now.
@buellfuel20019 ай бұрын
Sitting next to my exwife (I love her so much, but we let life get in the way) she is slowly moving on to her next destination in this journey. The pain from the cancer treatments were too much and she decided that she had had enough. I played this song for her, I held her hand and kissed her.
@TheHappys8 ай бұрын
You are better off without her sir get what you deserve. Any women that left when you got cancer isn’t cool. I know you had a lot of memories I’m sure but you deserve better.
@Persewna48 ай бұрын
@@TheHappys you're making some wild assumptions here. The way I read his comment is that his exwife is/was the one with cancer, her treatments were too painful so she elected to stop the treatments and move on to the next step in the journey of life, and that OP was by her side because he loves and cares for her still. I recognize where you came to your conclusion, the wording is subject to interpretation, however let's not by hasty in disparaging the character of a person you do not know and that another person has already stated they care for.
@thomasmiller23958 ай бұрын
@@TheHappysYou may have just committed one of the worst misreads of all time my friend.
@xerowolf42428 ай бұрын
@@thomasmiller2395 To be fair, OP did call her his ex wife. I can easily see where the misunderstanding happened. But it was pretty terrible.
@tritthompson6315 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry
@TheGr8Herd Жыл бұрын
For whatever reason this song has always had a very visceral effect on me. That lump you get in your throat right before crying appears whenever I try to sing it all the way through. Been a singer all my life and this song is the only one I find it difficult to resist crying during....
@KB-de7tv4 ай бұрын
I could NEVER sing this! Completely get it.
@DawgYa1 Жыл бұрын
I lost my fiancé 3 weeks ago because of liver failure. this was one of our favorite songs before we knew she was sick. it is spot on. Lisa, till we meet again...
@jellybeanx489 Жыл бұрын
May she rest in peace. I hope she watches over you
@river_brook4 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I remembered the existence of this video so conveniently that I completely missed the period of time where the audio got taken out, and came back just as it returned
@bobbycool5044 жыл бұрын
Same here! I just remembered this song a few minutes ago and that I listened to it and watched this video when I was 14 years old (today I’m 26). Back then the audio was totally fine.
@satisfyhelter-skelter46664 жыл бұрын
Hahaha me too!
@ZakeandZach4 жыл бұрын
Same
@CodyMoore19873 жыл бұрын
First time I've ever seen the video. Love the song
@jennpark85593 жыл бұрын
Synchronicity. Timing is key as is patience. Never cut out unless you are sure its a lost cause. I hate those love stories where the soulmates keep missing one another by a hair. If one had been patient and waited, they would have reunited. Always stay.
@Fleurdelisxx174 жыл бұрын
audio is here in 2020 cause they knew we needed it more than ever
@tfgbest77634 жыл бұрын
the darker it is the easier the light can be spotted! thanks for your comment
@lelandthacker80813 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure audio is here bc that’s how it works but whatevs
@tfgbest77633 жыл бұрын
@@lelandthacker8081 thats how it works but it wasnt working... audio was broken on this video for a while
@hummingmostbird3 жыл бұрын
@@lelandthacker8081 There was no audio on this for over 10 years
@mikemo51963 жыл бұрын
Hendrickso😂
@kaysweet24473 жыл бұрын
My friend Hannah used to listen to DCFC a lot before she died amongst other music. I always attached myself to this song after she passed. I miss her every day. 9 years and still not easy...
@niceguy25363 жыл бұрын
It's so sad...
@ronaldvaldez59553 жыл бұрын
She knows you loved her ..death is a door way to another life I believe that
@niceguy25363 жыл бұрын
@@ronaldvaldez5955 thanks for your wisdom word...
@Johnny_Dregs Жыл бұрын
All of you here because your missing someone, I will not pretend to have the words. I hope you all find some comfort.
@MrKDB0018 ай бұрын
Wise. Thank you.
@spademusic64965 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏 ❤
@MJC18915 ай бұрын
Been 3 years and still I cry like it was that horrible day. ❤
@ralphfoulkes93845 ай бұрын
Getting to the end and I want my significant other to know that I love her
@Johnny_Dregs5 ай бұрын
@ralphfoulkes9384 I'm sure they do. Your concern speaks volumes.
@colleenc.99002 жыл бұрын
Lost my heart on 3-30-13. Just coming back to life now. Miss you, pup. Thankful for this 2nd chance though and I just know you're right there with me. Also, I'm speaking about a human man lol. I followed him right into the dark and I can't believe I get a 2nd chance at life. Love to you all... honestly.
@domeplsffs2 жыл бұрын
Glad to have you back
@colleenc.99002 жыл бұрын
@@domeplsffs I have chills. You've no idea how much your timing means. Thank you, kindly.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@jessovenden3 жыл бұрын
Oh my heart hurts for each of you. A beautiful song and a beautiful video, please never feel alone, okay? Music that touches you deep inside is a good thing. And the person you love who is dead would not want you to end your life. Promise.
@maryhenningsen41632 жыл бұрын
❤️ Well said!!!
@devinianschramm55074 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad the audio is back on this. Great video for one of the best songs ever.
@shouldwemakethis3 жыл бұрын
Why was the audio removed in the first place?
@jac0b_652 Жыл бұрын
an end of an era for me graduated high-school about a year ago, took a gap year and have worked in construction for the remainder of it. i've applied for a local nursing program and the results will come in two months, i don't know whether i'll make it or not, but it'll all be alright. it'll workout the way it's supposed to, the only thing i can hope is that my life is a good one and that my last thought will also be a good one. whoever's reading this, thanks i guess
@Emdaye24 күн бұрын
Did you make it Jacob? Hope you're doing well
@robertfergison9921 Жыл бұрын
I sang this song to a dear friend of mine as she was dying of cancer at the age of 46. I weep like a baby every time I hear this
@tomskimcdouglegaming8065 ай бұрын
How many vaxes?
@robertfergison99215 ай бұрын
@@tomskimcdouglegaming806 Died before Covid. Not that it has anything to do with it. Meanwhile thousands of idiots like you died of Covid 19 because you insisted on doing so. Good riddance to bad garbage. Retard. And you all continue to die. And I laugh and laugh and laugh.
@poulamimukherjee57162 жыл бұрын
I listened to this while my dog was dying. And I know I will lose my other dogs, and everyone I ever loved. Music remains.
@buttersstotch20142 жыл бұрын
That’s why im here now, my dog was my best friend, and I just recently lost her. I just went upstairs to get something and saw some of her stuff and her ashes…and I just broke down and came to this video. We fought her cancer hard and did everything we could but she had the worst lymphoma diagnosis you could have. I thought it would get easier, but it’s unlike any other loss I’ve ever gone through.. a piece of me is missing. Cherish your time with those you love y’all, and be well
@goobles64 Жыл бұрын
:(((
@cpudemon2 ай бұрын
I've been listening to this song constantly the last few weeks as I've had some rough times with my dog as well. It helps, but I always tear up hearing this song. I know when it's time I'll be with her
@freedom_foz_63374 жыл бұрын
This song makes me cry every time I listen to it... My grandparents were married over 50 years. After my grandmother passed away my grandfather went from being healthy to in a wheelchair with multiple tumors in his brain in just two months... He couldn’t walk and hardly talked.. Je passed away 3 months after my grandmother.. It was the broken heart 💔 that broke his body down... Thank you for making this song and reminding everyone what true love is like. It’s an ocean that can be the most fun you’ve ever had but can also consume every part of you.
@williampittam13 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful after his wife died his body literally said nope not without the one I love
@freedom_foz_63373 жыл бұрын
@@williampittam1 that’s right when two souls become one they can’t live without each-other. I think they missed arguing with each other too!
@williampittam13 жыл бұрын
@@freedom_foz_6337 its one of my favorite pastimes with my life I just feel bad for all these young people nowadays it seems like love is dead and gone for them
@maplelatte33663 жыл бұрын
Not many songs can make me cry. This one does every last time. Xx Mike & Ginger 🖤
@zacharyryan37122 жыл бұрын
Tumors dont just magically form lol. He had them more than likely a long time before she died. Dont let emotions cloud your reasoning.
@libationsofaphrodite35293 жыл бұрын
I just came here because I lost so many people in my life this year. My Grandfather, 2 of my uncles and 2 of my teachers and a ton of people I’ve watched on tv. It really taught me how I should never wish death upon anyone and how I must cherish all the relationships I have in life.
@dierdriu3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. That is so much loss in one year. It is a good lesson to learn in a dark time. But I wish the past year had been much kinder to you, those you lost, and everyone else who's been touched by the nightmares these past 20 months or so.
@johndyson4109 Жыл бұрын
I lost 3 out of the 4 loves of my life to cancer and infection.. Kellie In 2015, Tasha in 2018 and Beatrice in 2019 I had been apart from them but still loved them all deeply. Then my brother and sister in 2022 3 months apart... My guitar player that I played in working bands since 87' he passed in 22'.. it's been a lot and I'm still grieving almost everyday!
@parispoet8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your losses. 😥
@graemep.13166 ай бұрын
🫂❤
@imatsoup1437 Жыл бұрын
I'm chronically ill and my health has completely failed me. I turned 31 yesterday, I married my wife four years ago and intended to get a tattoo related to this song. She is an artist and she actually became a tattoo artist and she tattooed it on me herself for my birthday. I'm totally disabled and she's my sole caretaker. I've tried to get insurance to help but they won't send me home health nurse to alleviate my wife from caring for me. We've always loved this song and it's especially been meaningful given our situation and my failing health. I love her to pieces, sometime I just feel really bad, like I'm a burden at 31 years old. It sucks but I'm glad she loves me and we can share music like this that we grew up on and really cherish it together. It eases some of the pain being able to feel loved and validated hearing words that we both hold dear for each other. What a wonderful song that holds so much meaning for so many different people.
@piertimp2936Ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing better man❤️
@AnnaNeal-qt4lk20 күн бұрын
I lost my husband a 40 years this is the first time I've had the courage to listen to this song I loved it for years and I will follow him
@katelyntarnow3224 Жыл бұрын
Anyone else just burst into tears hearing this song?
@RelentlessOhiox Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Reminds me of my ex from when I was 17.
@mitragynin5442 Жыл бұрын
Always. You are not alone. Feel understood.. at least that's how I feel when the tears are coming out..
@hayley8715 Жыл бұрын
Be grateful that you have people you love to feel this way about some day in the future or in your past. ❤️ = 💔= ❤️
@mitragynin5442 Жыл бұрын
@@hayley8715 Hope you are alright
@zigzag-iy7tm Жыл бұрын
reminds me of a different day. brought me absolutely to tears and I'm not even sure why
@baukerman1004 жыл бұрын
13 years ago this song came into my life. I'm 24 now and I didn't know it then, but these lyrics and this melody would change my life for the remainder of my days on this earth. This song makes me so emotional. I listen to it to help me cry when I need to release my feelings. Thanks, Death Cab. Your hurt helps others deal with their losses in a way you can't begin to imagine.
@felixarchuleta70613 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone Bennett. I’m 25 I’m with you
@susansanchez65283 жыл бұрын
Damn ya'll still so young I'm in my 40's and this song makes me think of my best friend who past on 9/11. Sad yet oddly comforting
@atmywhitson3 жыл бұрын
Oh what I wouldn't give to be 24 again.. I'm in my late 30's & although I'm now over 6yrs sober after a decade long opioid addiction,I feel much older than I am. I remember hearing this song in the midst of those dark times yet it reminds me of how I dug myself out of my own pit of misery even if it took a few tries. If I could have a redo I'd surround myself w/good people,finish school and make something out of my life but I obviously can't redo my life so I'll try to make the best out of the rest of my life,God willing. If you're still young and are reading this try not to be so hard on yourself,do the best you can do that you feel proud of YOURSELF years down the road,try not to spend time worrying so much about people who won't/don't respect you or who bring you down,be your beautiful,unique self and make sure you don't lose yourself in the madness of the world. As the saying goes: "Wherever you go,there you'll be" Make it a good life.
@bunnybit47223 жыл бұрын
my father is 37, and going through some addictions. he introduced this to me, an 11 year old. best experience ever. this was actually their wedding song! :) I’ll follow him into the dark, anytime.
@rondabealer74162 жыл бұрын
1st time I heard this,I ugly cried!! I cried because of how beautiful but heartbreaking I found the lyrics and never knew just how personal they would become. I just turned 55 in February and this still is my go to when I need a good ugly cry!🙏💜🎶
@toyotaweekend5263 жыл бұрын
RIP George from Scrubs. Classic episode.
@AngryFrog973 жыл бұрын
“I think I want to take a little nap...”
@goonerOZZ3 жыл бұрын
Good bye George! * Shoots flare *
@383SS3503 жыл бұрын
I just watched that episode. That show and this song hit differently, when you're terminally ill.
@vedantshah94803 жыл бұрын
"will you be here when I wake up?" "of course" 😢
@BATM_Media8 ай бұрын
@383SS350 rest easy where ever you are.
@CraigKearns5 ай бұрын
One of the most beautifully written and scored songs I’ve ever heard.
@lovealways26095 ай бұрын
it sure is..
@darkroom553414 күн бұрын
9pm at night. Driving a car up a winding NY mountain road, a light drizzle and windy with the leaves falling on cold and chilly fall night back in November 2007. Listening to this song after losing some people dear to me at the age 16. Heart wrenching but also soothing. Never changes Great song
@AlyssaRae953 ай бұрын
I remember sitting in his car 9 years ago showing this song to him, holding his hand and we both cried. I still love him. I always will. I wonder if he remembers this.
@jonathandeneke71922 жыл бұрын
I first heard this song around a decade ago. I immediately fell in love with it and thought about it being a first dance song. I recently reconnected with someone who my heart bursts for. I mentioned listening to this song and she mentioned it being a first dance song with no prompting.
@chuckjamesnorris59283 жыл бұрын
This song is so equally beautiful and wholesome as it is dark and depressing and that’s what makes it such a classic
@goobles64 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@skhetm70939 жыл бұрын
at 00:49 the sound cuts out completely.. does this happen to anyone else???
@christovix45409 жыл бұрын
Skhet M I have a feeling that their own song got a Content ID match. I'm sure Warner owns the rights to the music. And this is why KZbin sucks.
@sherlynhood53359 жыл бұрын
yep
@sherlynhood53359 жыл бұрын
yep
@punstress9 жыл бұрын
+Skhet M Yup
@skhetm70939 жыл бұрын
phew, at least it happens to other people... they should fix it!
@DA-ft8eb10 күн бұрын
2025 anyone?
@fabulouslyFM Жыл бұрын
I just lost my little dog. He had a wonderful life and I know I did what was the very best for him. This song is helping through some things right now.
@eisa924 жыл бұрын
literally forgot abt the fact that i was waiting for the audio 2 years ago, omg finally listening to the original audio
@samanthastudios6182 жыл бұрын
I loved her so much. Oh Eden... If you're still listening, I'll never forget you. I never have. I'm so sorry dear.
@TheRealToot_McDootАй бұрын
I don’t know what happened But, sorry
@kengreenfield-nman3 жыл бұрын
One of the most beautiful songs ever!
@American.Reject2 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of my parents because it's their "song" for each other and now I can't stop listening to it, such a beautiful song
@LalliPalleroАй бұрын
Great music video, can't believe it took me almost 16 years to see it. I miss listening to this and zoning out
@karenengatai70224 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks every time I hear this song! It’s soul. Can’t be without it ❤️.
@kennc-13733 жыл бұрын
"I still didn't believe in the idea of marriage, and I still don't. But I believe in her, and I've given up on the idea of being right." Here from one of Mike Birbiglia's stand up. Damn
@ronaldgrove328310 ай бұрын
💥
@some_random_guy_lol Жыл бұрын
I lost my wife 8 years ago. Last year I dated a woman who ended up breaking up with me, partly because her whole existence has become avoiding the grief of losing her sister and mother within a year of each other 25 years ago. If you don’t do grief, the whole only gets bigger. Eventually you are forced to walk into it. Love this song.
@kimberly-6407 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone , I lost my Husband years ago in a car wreck , it's hard but you have to go on .🙏✌️
@madalyneselbe99082 жыл бұрын
My bf and I would send this song to each other when we were younger and feeling hopeless. He was 9 hrs away and never met him in person until Christmas of 2021. This is now our official song
@brandengill140510 ай бұрын
So I'm an alcoholic, and the first time I tried to get sober a couple years ago, I basically, in a nutshell, hallucinated that a ghost more or less was trying to kill me and make me it's friend forever. Crazy I know, but I would hear this song being played somewhere outside in the distance, and when I would walk through my yard, the sound would change direction, but the song would play on repeat for hours on end, (all while dealing with this "ghost") and I swear I had never heard this song before. I googled the lyrics and here I am. I still swear that I've never heard this song before then. I'm a year sober now and this song still scares the shit out of me
@archdevil74723 жыл бұрын
This song is as old as me. I've been told it's what my dad listened to driving my mom to the hospital. It's helped me through so much. I'm glad I get to grow with it, side by side
@JNava6 жыл бұрын
I always thought this music video was about depression, that hole represents the emptiness you feel when you’re depressed, starts off small & it continues to grow. & as it grows bigger & bigger every day you learn to move your way around it & ignore it as best you can without falling into that hole. That’s why at the end he just lets himself fall & when he realizes it’s not that deep of a whole he comes to an understanding that death is not as bad, so he sinks deeper & dies or commits suicide. That’s why you don’t see the hole or him at the end of the video because there was never a hole, there was just his depression. The singer did say the song was about loosing a loved one & coming to the realization that we’re all going to die someday, maybe he just lost somebody & is depressed? ...Either that or the guy has a really bad termite problem. 🤷🏻♂️
@gisselleramos3314 жыл бұрын
This comment really help me with my mental health, thank you I just wanted u to know that.
@DestineeReynolds4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I believe the hole represents his grief over losing a loved one.
@debbyw904 жыл бұрын
she “ripped a hole” into his life by passing away...in the end he wants to follow her, i think that’s what the hole represents...her passing
@seangallagher19474 жыл бұрын
It is about losing your spouse. The hole it leaves behind.
@redeyedrednek4 жыл бұрын
I lost my wife 5 years ago. Theres def a massive black hole in my life. Sucks.
@davekerwin2579 Жыл бұрын
I think of my partner of 25 years every time I hear this song. I would absolutely follow her into the dark, no questions asked.
@painhaver2207 Жыл бұрын
It’s comforting in a way to find that a lot of other people come to this song when losing a loved one. This is one of the few songs I can play on guitar, and I play it every time a loved one passes. Today I’m playing for my beloved Margot, rest easy sweetheart I’ll always cherish our time together and forever love you.
@Sarahbellum6272 жыл бұрын
I lost a friend to the Club Q shooting last week. At a vigil at one of the clubs here in town, someone sang the song, but I wasn't really paying attention to the words until I just listened to it. And it brought tears to my eyes again, just like a week ago when I found out that he was no longer with us. I will miss you Derrick for the rest of my life.
@maryhenningsen41632 жыл бұрын
I so sorry. What a horrible event, and it would be awful to lose someone close to something like that 🖤.
@pobstrel2 жыл бұрын
xxx
@abbygaleforcewind2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I am so sorry for your loss.
@hi.10953 жыл бұрын
i always thought that the song is about surrender and total acceptance to an inevitable truth that we're all gonna die someday. the acceptance that your loved ones will die someday. and the fact that he is willing to be part of the pain and the suffering when they're gone is both painful and beautiful at the same time.
@matt-oo6fu2 жыл бұрын
I remember hearing this song for the first time on the radio and absolutely bawling my eyes out. I've had a severe and omnipresent fear of death since I was a child (unprompted by any event-- I just suddenly realized i would die and it has consumed my life since then), and this song was so soft and sweet and unafraid. It still brings a tear to my eye. I hope someday I can have this kind of comfort, and someone I love so much that I won't be afraid to join them when the time comes.
@JahWontPayTheBill2 жыл бұрын
Get some help with that. It’s no way to live. What’s the point of life if you’re constantly consumed with the thought that you’re gonna die one day? We all die. It’s unavoidable. It’s also nothing to be afraid of. Most people that grow old are far more accepting of that fact. Some even long for the release. I’d like to believe that when I’m old as dirt and am on my way out I won’t be afraid. I’ll be ready to go. I’ll have lived my life, raised my children and accomplished what I wanted. What more could a person desire? I’ve always thought death will be a lot like it was before I was born. The absence of everything. No consciousness, no feelings, no thoughts, nothing. You wouldn’t even be aware of it. It’s really nothing to be scared of. You won’t have the ability to be afraid of it. So why let it control your life? I assume you’re young. Deal with your fear now so you can enjoy what time you have left. I’d bet if you do you’ll be ready and willing to go when your time comes.
@matt-oo6fu2 жыл бұрын
@@JahWontPayTheBill that's a lot of wasted words (all of which i've either heard before or thought of myself at least a thousand times) all to add up to the ultimate stupid asshole advice: "lol just get over it!!!!!!!" I'm 26. This started when I was 7. stop for a single second, pull yourself out of your little savior-complexed ass and think about that. Nearly 20 years of constant awareness of your mortality. for nearly 20 years, you go to bed every single night and think "Another day is gone that I will never get back. I'm another day closer now." And just try to imagine nothingness. Can you? Can you really? Can you imagine not existing? Everything just being gone, forever, and none of it mattered? Can you honestly say it doesn't scare you at all? I've been to therapy. I've been to church. I've meditated. I've worked around dead and dying things. I've done just about everything that I've ever heard anyone say helped them "come to terms" with morality, and it's all been bullshit. But sure, Genius Stranger On The Internet. I'll just Get Over It because you said so.
@tomasrivera43482 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me when I was 10, I suddenly realized my parents and my grandparents would die and I just couldnt let go. That fear never went away, and I've seen my fear become true many times now...
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘
@pranshul619 Жыл бұрын
Bro how are you doing? I hope you are well .
@jessicablevins59099 ай бұрын
2024 anyone?
@parispoet8 ай бұрын
Hearing this song for the first time!!❤❤❤❤
@sayogasiwi8 ай бұрын
yipp
@drewmincey36538 ай бұрын
Glad I'm not alone 😂
@overlorddante8 ай бұрын
Oh yeah 👍🏻
@joeydurant62678 ай бұрын
Yuppers
@flattheyounger10282 жыл бұрын
As someone who's fiancée passed away. This song hurts but in a kind of cathartic way. I had thoughts of "following her into the dark" but I know she wouldn't have wanted that.
@chelsmac31792 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. You’ll follow her when the time is right. She’ll be waiting for you ❤
@flattheyounger10282 жыл бұрын
@@chelsmac3179 Thank you
@ColbysUncutStrings2 жыл бұрын
Gee I love my wife so much. 👩🏼❤️👨🏿
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@nicknack6042 Жыл бұрын
It's been 27 days since I lost my brother and it feels like so much longer. I love you and I miss you. Constantly. It's overwhelming. I pray you're at peace.
@L134RD Жыл бұрын
i’m with you 😔
@d00msd3y Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. Your brother is an angel now.
@gwynnielsen50812 жыл бұрын
I just discovered this band today. I have a great appreciation for indie groups that tell it like it is. DCC is definitely one.
@db19892k72 жыл бұрын
After life brought you didn't it.
@gwynnielsen50812 жыл бұрын
@@db19892k7 Not sure what you mean.
@db19892k72 жыл бұрын
Sorry, I thought you had heard this song on Ricky Gervais after life TV show.
@gwynnielsen50812 жыл бұрын
@@db19892k7 No, I was surfing KZbin. I'm an indie artist myself. Check out my tunes if you like female singer-songwriters. Thanks for the clarification! Take care.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@MEGalomaniac6829 Жыл бұрын
This song always reminded me of my mother after she lost my dad. Now that she's gone, this just reminds me that they're together again.
@adrianfoxes4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God the audio is finally back, I waited for it like fifteen years!
@spademusic6496Ай бұрын
My little sister showed this song to me when we were little. Fast forward over a decade and she was taken from this earth way too soon. I listen to this song every time I have a chance to hide behind doors thick enough that people can’t hear me. I love you so much, Ash. Always ❤
@anandodasgupta Жыл бұрын
Probably one of the most romantic songs ever, at 39 not having someone to love.. One can keep dreaming.
@kq87 Жыл бұрын
Love ourselves. We will always have ourselves. And of course everyone around us.
@dustinhuiting Жыл бұрын
This may be the best song written/composed for a long time. This song hits hard for 00' kids but my dad does/could also love
@jayx4996 Жыл бұрын
I lost my daughter 2 years ago. It is hard to find a song that truly captures the emotion like this. She died suddenly and unexpectedly of illness and I was not with her. It is hard to find out and not have had a chance to be there. I could not see her immediately after for this reason. I knew I could not walk back out of the room with her. I have a younger daughter. I had to stay strong for her. It is incredibly hard. I sit alone all of the time thinking of her. They both need me and I can only be with one.
@TheGoddamnBacon Жыл бұрын
I feel so much Sorrow for her. But I bet she remembers and loves you. Be strong man.
@dude13132254 жыл бұрын
So this is what Dwight was getting up to in his spare time
@zarintasnimela1384 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@shithead-pf8hn4 жыл бұрын
yeah, on his beat ranch
@dude13132254 жыл бұрын
@@shithead-pf8hn He be growin beats in that hole
@arelyMod3 жыл бұрын
hahahaaahah
@oopurpledove3 жыл бұрын
“Dwigt”
@silvercipher6797 Жыл бұрын
This song gives me a sense of peace and nostalgia. I found this song when I was in middle school/high-school and 13 years later I still absolutely adore this song. I sing it to my fiancé and it means so much to me.
@cass6790 Жыл бұрын
Mum last week. We were all there until the very end ❤️
@ShadowsAndLight4 жыл бұрын
I would literally check at least once a year to see if the audio got fixed. I'm so happy it finally came back. Thank you to whoever fixed it ;A;
@samanthadeemer19193 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel alllll types of ways. The people I love and have lost this song has been around for many of these events. I know I can't be the only one that feels some type of way when they hear this song 🥺 this song is a work of art truly.
@INTERNATIONAL_RDF-D4 жыл бұрын
Austin powers sings so beautifully
@Anthony-gw8sx3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@ramaya0073 жыл бұрын
Isn't this dude married to Zoey Dushanel?
@fefeh17553 жыл бұрын
I can’t unsee it now lmao
@rpn000rpnca3 жыл бұрын
Looks and sounds a little like Crispin Glover.
@Keneisenuo_Sorhie3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nasty56342 жыл бұрын
Lost my identical twin brother Xmas of 2018. Was going through his stuff and found a piece of paper that said funeral songs, this was one of them. We both admired death cab. I reminisce with this for the intent of remembrance. Now onward, into the dark.
@tfritz90682 жыл бұрын
Quoted this song in my wedding vowels, to think of everything we've been thru since then, but it still holds true. Beautiful song.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹🎧
@metrotek52 жыл бұрын
Wife has terminal breast cancer. This is now my song for her. Much love to you all. . . . There's a Mako here, if you need one.
@domeplsffs2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you and your wife, sir/madame
@ColbysUncutStrings2 жыл бұрын
( • ) ( • )
@dabbincabinstickers2 жыл бұрын
Much love to you and your wife, my mother passed of breast cancer in 2019, it was the hardest thing I've ever been through. I hope you find peace.
@BreakfastK1ng Жыл бұрын
I hope things have gotten better for you two
@metrotek5 Жыл бұрын
@@BreakfastK1ng thank you so very kindly
@mondaybluesenthusiast Жыл бұрын
I don't listen to this song too often cause it makes me tear up almost every time
@bacillusrex2 жыл бұрын
I don't know what is more amazing, this song or the fact that I didn't realise it existed for 16 years.
@BreadlySteadly2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realize it existed either
@wrenbyrd10932 жыл бұрын
I remember when it came out. I must have seen it on FUSE. Better late than never. It’s new to you so it doesn’t really matter.
@ericortega17452 жыл бұрын
I heard it 15 years ago. I later started to get the message.
@lupusalbus37952 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of catching up to do
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘
@GeekyMitch29 күн бұрын
This is my song with my wife. I don't take it as darkly as many below do but rather as a sign of my dedication to her, and her to me...and tonight is our 10th anniversary!
@billmason27852 ай бұрын
I lost my Michelle 1.13.24...breast and brain cancer had other ideas....I want to follow her into the dark now...She was so scared at her end....I want to hold her hand again...
@shereleestrauss5942Ай бұрын
I relate with what you are saying, want to follow my love also. 😢
@billmason2785Ай бұрын
@@shereleestrauss5942😢...I am trying hard not to let go...I am only 56...she was so special for 20 years
@billmason2785Ай бұрын
@@shereleestrauss5942Please stay...❤
@billmason2785Ай бұрын
@@shereleestrauss5942We can do this 💪...I want to be with my wife....I feel like giving up...I refuse...It's heavy to carry grief...❤...hang on...wish I could share a genuine hug of understanding...
@chrisangela89343 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song. Life is so g.d. fleeting. Enjoy every second and appreciate everything and everyone in your life
@Ghostposter832 жыл бұрын
I am embarrassed to say that despite my eclectic taste in music, DCFC somehow eluded me until now. I love playing this chord progression and the lyrics are brilliant. I have yet to make it through this song without tearing up.
@ryanjsnyder7310 жыл бұрын
The sound cuts out at about 50 seconds into the video!! Please fix this. Its only about 2 cords into the song.
@jayjerrz10 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@harrietthornton95029 жыл бұрын
Ryan Snyder I agree it needs to be fixed
@nostalgiamostalgia03193 ай бұрын
Look now
@DanielPuskar-oc4rh Жыл бұрын
I sing this on the streets Acapella. Over and over and cry.. Thanks dude. Can't forget her now. It was an "Our Tune" Nigel Planer style. And she made me learn it and play it on guitar and memorize the lyrics. Now love is in the great beyond. Thanks dude. Gob.
@stellalebo670711 ай бұрын
2 years ago i lost my mom and I sung this song for her I her death bed so she would feel that I'm always right beside her and I'll never forget about her and I'll always love her no matter what she was very kind and sweet to my kids she bought them toys and I know that she was apart of their childhood and I told them this and once I did they cried for weeks and weeks and after our dogs died and they only had them as their friends they loved them with all their heart I remember them playing together in our home when she came from Las Vegas..I love her and miss her so much she was the best to my kids I love them...
@skullsaintdead Жыл бұрын
Everytime I pass by a VACANCY sign, I always hear this song in my head. A small, beautiful, melancholic moment. Memento mori.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
This is so good but you must hear “Winding Road” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🎹
@skullsaintdead Жыл бұрын
@@beezybeez7231 Are you paid to promote that band? Unfortunately I saw your comment(s) only after I already checked out the recommendations, thinking they were genuine, not just spam. That band doesn't compare to Death Cab, no melody, plus trickery isn't very becoming.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
@@skullsaintdead doesn’t me sending the songs more times make it more genuine ? I’m confused by your logic. And no I am not paid. I seen SLT live in 2019 when I went to see another band. And I was blown away. They are my second favorite band of all time besides Thrice. Ever since then I have been trying to spread the word. I can’t believe how underrated they are. Do you think a band with such little views has the budget to pay an actual person to promote for years 😂 I dint even think death can has that kinda budget.
@skullsaintdead Жыл бұрын
@@beezybeez7231 Well, I can only say what I did, but you're reported for spam/scams x 10-20 comments, however many times you needlessly, anxiously, lazily & selfishly posted the same comment over and over again. I'll forever associate that bands name with scammers and spam.
@beezybeez7231 Жыл бұрын
@@skullsaintdead ok April O’Neil ! You’re the best reporter ever. I can only say what you did is what nerds do 🤓 U know the sell books right? U don’t have to read the KZbin comment sections.
@coolchrisrm4 ай бұрын
liked for the cinematography 0:27
@samantharae99963 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this song. It helps mend my broken heart.
@caitlinw6511 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ben 👋🏻 I listened to this song in visiting SF for the first time with my friends family and they put on some death cab and postal service and it SENT ME. I remember hearing this song for the first time and it was all my body focused on was this work of art. We were in the car and everything around me just went hazy and it was just me and this song. Ben you’re the only artist to completely send me into another realm lol I was blessed to have seen you in LA with my same friend and it was like a spiritual journey and I’ve never looked back. Thank you so much.
@kevinfuria898910 ай бұрын
One of my best friends and his girlfriend died together in a car accident in 2020, his little sister added this song to their slide show during the service. Every once in a while I come back and listen just to feel them again.