I have high-functioning autism, and I find it amazing that people will treat me just like everyone else until they find out or realize it. Then it's all slow talking and over-explaining, and overall awkward treatment. There are people with much more obvious disabilities than me, and I can't imagine being treated like that all the time. I hope this things like this video spread more awareness~
@kanjoloid9 жыл бұрын
Same, most people can't tell I have autism until I tell them, then they feel awkward, as if something changed. They get over it though
@maxnikolenko23025 жыл бұрын
Ok?
@mirandahall40794 жыл бұрын
that has not been my experience whenever i tell others about my disability (only under certain situations, which i'll explain in the next paragraph). they're more or less surprised by it consider how well i can talk, but i mainly attribute that to early intervention via special ed courses and my affinity with voice acting via intonations, humor, etc). i have SLI (specific language impairment), which means that communication can be a bit tricky for me depending on the situation (it ranges from not hearing the person clearly, especially with a heavy accent, not understanding long, complex yet grammatically correct sentences, and i misinterpret important information along the lines of the telephone game). i find that having written instructions and the like or having captions on during a video helps me to absorb the information more better. oddly enough, it doesn't fall under the autistic spectrum, despite language difficulties being a known condition under that spectrum (i guess since i know more about social cues, i'm disqualified, even though i can sympathize with folks who don't understand certain social cues; even *I* can find them alien at times). so in regards to your disability, the only time to take a person's HFA into consideration is in social situations; that is mostly the case, right?
@fosakos69573 жыл бұрын
I would guess that awkwardness equals "i dont know how to act appropriately for this person". Doesnt mean they dont wanna know! :) :) (just a thought)
@cbryce92432 жыл бұрын
@@fosakos6957 These days, it's pretty easy to find everything on KZbin. If they want to know, it's no farther than their keyboard.
@implosionator4 жыл бұрын
I thought this was gonna be like one of those weird training videos from the 80s but instead it was incredibly wholesome and actually very informative.
@supersuperardi3 жыл бұрын
It looks very 80s though. Good information, I agree.
@darceeneal99302 ай бұрын
Thanks! We enjoyed making it
@megapistol642 күн бұрын
It's a bit on the cheesy 80s side, but still informative as needed
@babystarcandy79 жыл бұрын
"Just because I'm in a wheelchair doesn't mean I can't sweep you off your feet." DAMN, SON. #slay
@darceeneal99309 жыл бұрын
+BookishKhaleesi bwhahahahahah Thank you my dear! I had to fight to get that in the video. But it was totally worth it.
@ladayka8 жыл бұрын
+D'Arcee Neal It was totally worth it!
@maxnikolenko23025 жыл бұрын
Why is beeing gay so popular right now? Its literaly cool to be gay. Im gonna pretent im gay, but il dress like im not gay and tell people im hiding my gayness becaise i dont want my wife and kids to feel awkward. That will get me some "Aww" points.
@CybershamanX5 жыл бұрын
@@maxnikolenko2302 It's not that it's more "cool". It's that, finally, it's becoming even more acceptable to talk about and depict them like they are actual "real" people. So, yes, over the last few decades you _are_ starting to see more things highlighting same sex couples LIKE THEY ARE "NORMAL" PEOPLE. They have the same ups and downs, victories and failures, and struggles and triumphs that every other human being on this planet has. But we're still not quite "there" yet as a society. Hence why a brief two second bit of video where it's implied that - SHOCK OF ALL SHOCKS! - a man can actually love another man "in that way" stands out to you in a 3 minute 40 second video. But, it's not your fault. Like I said, we're still not quite there yet as a society. At least you didn't come out with some other vitriolic comment.
@CybershamanX5 жыл бұрын
PS: I just noticed that this video is almost 5 years old. Yes, cool "today", indeed. ;)
@roberttang99086 жыл бұрын
man, its great to see these people showcasing of their sense of humour and personality, thanks for portraying the disabled as people as they should be and in a very positive light for everyone else to see them rather than sympathy objects used for media. Congrats on effectively putting this video together.
@Roadent12416 жыл бұрын
'Watch the person that's signing, not their interpreter'. Well as someone who's mostly deaf but can't sign or read SL, I need to lipread whoever's talking, so I'm stuffed XD Also that sweeping off the feet line was adorable.
@CybershamanX5 жыл бұрын
The big one I run into a lot (I'm wheelchair bound/paralyzed from the waist down and suffer from severe chronic pain) is people "helping" without asking. I get this A LOT when people come over to my house and just start doing things to "help". I depend on daily chores to help motivate me and when I complete them it makes me feel better as a person with a disability living independently. When people "help" by just doing things without asking, even if it is something that obviously needs to be done, like taking out my trash, it makes me feel less empowered and less in control of my environment. ESPECIALLY when it's my own house. Just imagine how YOU, a "normal" person, would like it if someone just started doing things in your house without asking every time they came over. Now, I do get the occasional "Oh, I would LOVE it if someone would do all those things for me!" But, come on, seriously? Do you _really_ feel that way? What if they throw something away that you didn't want thrown away? Also, EVERYTHING in my house, not unlike how blind people live, has its place, too. So, it's very easy to accidentally move something that seems like it's in an awkward place when in reality it's there FOR A REASON. But, all of that is incidental. Really, the main takeaway here is COMMUNICATION. Throughout this whole video, you hear time and time again "just ask me". So, even if you might break some of the other "rules" when talking to a person with a disability, as long as you ASK FIRST you're already WELL ahead of the curve! ;) I hope this video and my comment helps someone avoid a situation like I just had a couple of days ago when I had to tell a family member that their help, while the sentiment was greatly appreciated, wasn't required and that they should always ask me before doing something in my house. That person was GREATLY OFFENDED because they thought that I didn't appreciate their help and could not understand what the "big deal" was. But that wasn't the case at all for the reasons I listed above. (In fact, that's the reason why I'm here! I am searching online for information about interacting with people with disabilities in order to show them that I'm not just making things up. :/ ) So, again, I hope this helps someone in the future avoid an unnecessary confrontation like I just had. :)
@Soulessblur Жыл бұрын
100% agree with this video, and your entire comment. But yes, I REALLY feel that way. I would absolutely adore someone taking care of housework for me. Any potential drawbacks of them doing something "wrong" would not outweigh the benefits of not having to lift a finger. If I were rich, I'd have a maid, but alas, I am not. But seriously people, don't just assume somebody wants you to handle an aspect of their life without even asking first. That's just basic human decency 101, disabled or not.
@olliecantos79339 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this video and look forward to sharing this with others! This is a light-hearted way of answering some of the biggest questions that many without disabilities may have but could be afraid to ask. In light of how the 25th Anniversary of the signing of the landmark Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) is fast approaching, this video is an awesome way to help continue to educate the public! #ADA25
@oparctrainer98327 жыл бұрын
We love this video so much. All our sites use it during our sensitivity training. Thank you for creating an informative, engaging, and dare I say it? Entertaining video.
@TDS.HarperАй бұрын
Well, if "Alice" wasn't deaf before, I'm sure she is now, after the shouting and bullhorn.
@NoraGuy Жыл бұрын
I also wanted to say I really enjoyed this video. I watched as part of my study in preparation for taking the exam to, hopefully, earn my CPACC (Certified Professional in Accessibility Core Competencies). I am a website professional who also has numerous people in my life with various disabilities and can attest to the fact that there's a definite need for coaching/education on how to interact with one another. Great job!
@lisajester310710 жыл бұрын
Great video! Cant wait to share this with general education teachers and others who sometimes don't know how to accommodate for students with different abilities.
@TheTwigCrackedAnd10 жыл бұрын
this is so great! wonderful video and i love the "...doesn't mean i can't sweep you off your feet!" :P
@maxnikolenko23025 жыл бұрын
Why is the gay part the best? Why is beeing gay a" popular kid at school" type of thing now. Its literaly cool to be gay right now. Im gonna start tellimg people im gay, but i dress like a regular guy to hide my gayness. That should really earn me some bonus points with the gays. Awesome. Im so genius
@alraspberry43278 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video but it did not acknowledge one detail. I speak as the parent of a profoundly disabled son; many people have an aversion to the disabled. It is real but also it can be overcome. An ad like yours goes a long way to overcoming aversion.
@joebriggs69043 ай бұрын
They are people. Treat them like people
@196cupcake8 ай бұрын
This is still great in 2024, good job
@LeacieLea7 жыл бұрын
Love this... sharing with my friends and on my daughters HSP page. The amount of people who baby talk to her because she's in a wheelchair is frustrating... but don't they get a surprise when she answers with wit and intelligence.
@KettiexD9 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to learn ASL with memrise and I understood like... 2 words that the deaf guy signed. Progress :D
@isaiahacevedo5416 жыл бұрын
2:50 was adorable ❤
@mairingriffith54093 жыл бұрын
Would be great to see an updated one that includes other invisible disabilities like dyslexia which can impact the way people treat you in an office like constantly correcting your spelling when projecting notes/writing on a whiteboard.
@afternoondelight67418 жыл бұрын
The bullhorn was hilarious, great video!!!
@patrickrichmond98966 жыл бұрын
Using the bull horn at a blind person was stupid.
@wolfemobility501310 жыл бұрын
What a great video to educate the public on how to treat people who have a disability! Everyone needs to view this to see what we can do to create an inclusive environment; "Awkward No More!!" is a great slogan! Can Wolfe Mobility please have your permission to use this video and increase awareness.
@Kali952810 жыл бұрын
Hello Wolfe Mobility from the DC Office of Disability Rights! Yes, please share this link with your contacts to help increase awareness.
@josephbenito869110 жыл бұрын
Please don't talk to me like I don't understand what you are saying.
@edithbannerman48 ай бұрын
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@SuariseID2 жыл бұрын
So far it is the lightest yet super on point in explaining the interaction gap between people who barely interact with PwD
@ajwriter56998 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT video!
@davidgoldfield38863 жыл бұрын
This is a great video except that it needs audio description which would add narration to explain some of the video's nonvisual scenes. It's a bit ironic that a video describing ways to be more sensitive to people with disabilities is not fully accessible to the visually impaired.
@edithbannerman48 ай бұрын
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@bethmontanaro10 жыл бұрын
Love it. I will definitely be using it in my Intro to Special Education classes at Catholic U and will share with my friends who work at other universities. Nice job making an informative and entertaining video.
@NoraGuy Жыл бұрын
I was 100% waiting for "Just because I'm [name of disability], doesn't mean I'm stupid!" since I feel like I've seen that misunderstanding happen out in the world.
@MelissaGilpin6 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video! May I have your permission to share it in a class for our employees at the County of Sonoma?
@ladyjingjingyang4 жыл бұрын
XDDD u guys are creative “just because I m blind not means I m deaf”🤣killed me
@noelsilverspell32912 жыл бұрын
🎵 "Doofenshmirtz evil incorporated~" 🎵
@mirandahall40794 жыл бұрын
"Just because I'm blind doesn't mean I'm deaf." Wait, what? Do people seriously think that? Not everyone is Hellen Keller, for Nook's sake!
@the_5th_night3 жыл бұрын
Yep. For instance when they repeat instructions to me, with the implication that I'm either hard of hearing or developmentally delayed, none of which is true...
@-beee-8 ай бұрын
This is amazing! So clever (and funny). Love it!!
@lotsofthingshere7 жыл бұрын
as someone who's totally pet a service dog. I felt really foolish and bad. I apologized and honestly didn't even pay attention to the vest it was wearing and was like OMG YES A DOG.
@tracytrebilcox6 жыл бұрын
I have a bad habit of that with my boss' dog. I've learned to see if he's working or just on a leash.
@cpnederland10 жыл бұрын
Great video, many thanks. Hopefully not only people with disabilities come here to watch it, but also and especially those that need a sensitivity training. What I like is the positive approach: you try to take away their ignorance and give them tips to change their behaviour. And the good thing: it crosses cultural borders. As appropriate and useful here in the Netherlands as it is in the US.
@CofyjunkyPNW7 жыл бұрын
I've had osteoarthritis for more than half my life. It's chronic pain from the waist down. (24/7) I use a wheelchair, and a mobility cane when needed. The only 'awkward' moment I have with anyone is when able-bodied people actually wait for me to get through the electric door for disabled persons at public buildings, totally ignoring the several other sets of doors they can simply push open for themselves. Really?? I mean...really? (head-shake)
@DAWNRAFH10 жыл бұрын
Very nicely done!
@alvaroalas24507 жыл бұрын
one thing i hate about being disabled is the stupid questions i get like "how do you go to the bathroom" "how do you have sex" "how do you feed yourself"
@donnamglover79994 жыл бұрын
The door situation is a constant problem for me at my job. The doors are tall, heavy and we have to scan our badges to unlock. Navigating this while using a cane is hard enough. But at least once a week someone yanks the door while I am holding it, or jumps ahead to hold the door and I have to crab walk past them and the narrowed opening. I know they think they are being helpful, but ask first and practice opening doors slowly.
@jsptraining7736 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Will it be Ok to share during our training for our Support Workers working with disabled clients?
@melodiexu562511 ай бұрын
holy shit this was from 9 years ago? it holds up really well. ahead of its time, even, since during this time even though there was a ton of discussion of intersectionality and minority representation, i never see it made in like, a very professional manner
@promotingtherightsofperson895410 жыл бұрын
We as KAWULE DISABLED PERSONS AND THEIR FAMILIES ASSOCIATION (KADIPEFA, Kalungu District, Uganda) kindly request DC Government to allow us use it in our community disability awareness campaigns?
@Kali952810 жыл бұрын
Hello from the DC Office of Disability Rights! We would love for you to share the link in your community disability awareness campaign. Best of luck!
@lindawright94598 жыл бұрын
Bravo! Well done.
@shannonsmith781010 жыл бұрын
Great video but I'm permanently disabled and you need to know that there are many different types of Disablitys that need to be recognized as well as the ones 's that have physical appearance of their Disablity they are the invisible handicapped that you would never get to see unless you were told about this. I am just one of those people who look like they have no way that she has a disability. Its just not enough people who live life forever in the world with others have no idea what's wrong with her cause they are getting ignored by the ignorance due to the lack of information about what I call the invisible handicapped that experience problems each and every day. I think it's time for us to get some recognition from or by our own government agencies who knows about us but are left out of view. My nephew is hydrosyphalic I hope I spelt right by looking at him you would never Dr know that he has had over 35 surgeries from the day he was born. Or the people with mentally disabled both are very real life experiences that so many different types that we are going to get any better. I would like to see the invisible handicapped should be recognized as important as well as the rest of he handicapped who's going to be able to seen. Just put out more information about how many people are part other this world and maybe we need some people who can see that there are many different types of disabilities medically that we should all be treated included within the world today. are not yet even notice
@mikedavidz61613 жыл бұрын
The disability community is a large constituency, not a tiny special interest.
@mikedavidz61613 жыл бұрын
🌈⭐⭐✨🌟💯🦄
@chescaleigh9 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to let you know I shared this video on Upworthy! Thanks so much for making it! www.upworthy.com/watch-the-2nd-guy-in-the-first-15-seconds-now-dont-be-anything-like-him?c=ufb1
@Davidxdgh58 жыл бұрын
+southbeachmiami what is your disability?
@Davidxdgh58 жыл бұрын
+David Karlsson if it's purely a weight issue I'll treat you like a chronic smoker who needs a surgery for a hole in their throat, and keeps smoking.
@christiansgrandma68124 жыл бұрын
This was very imaginative and funny. Love it.
@JagerMikesterX9 жыл бұрын
This is a really nice production. Well done, folks. I SAID WELL DONE, FOLKS!!!!
@edithbannerman48 ай бұрын
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@RedWoodtrees77 Жыл бұрын
Really awesome video ❤
@PsalmMuzik6 жыл бұрын
Where words fail, music speaks... - Hans Christian Andersen
@finlee19808 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am a trainer for a small charity in the UK that supports individuals on the Autistic Spectrum and associated conditions. One course I train is Values, which focusses on equality, diversity and inclusion. It also looks at professional conduct and valuing/respecting the individual for their strengths and abilities, not judging them on their disabilities. I am wanting to gain permission from the creators of this fantastic video to show it during the training I deliver. Its intelligent use of humour and serious information is a superb way to educate, and I think it would be a very beneficial educational resource for the participants of the training. Any ideas who I need to speak to about permission?
@Kali95288 жыл бұрын
+finlee1980 Hello! I am the public affairs specialist at the DC Office of Disability Rights. Please reach out via email so that I can learn more about your training. kali.wasenko@dc.gov
@queentwilightsparkle49757 жыл бұрын
Okay this just made me laugh, lol. Grew up in the Autism Inclusion Program. Nice jokes. *Salutes*
@annamayzing17234 ай бұрын
I’m disabled and I look normal and talk normal I hate that my disability isn’t included in this. I was in Special Education right along with these people and I’m a 10 in attractiveness THERE ARE LOTS OF US
@kristinad8417 Жыл бұрын
I love this video and can't wait to share it with my colleagues.
@jamesdakis8263 жыл бұрын
"We don't bite...unless we're really hungry."
@Nyrua2 жыл бұрын
I love this. Thanks for sharing.
@jenwall67326 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree that people who have a disability should be treated with respect just like everyone else in our community. Just treat people with special needs the way you want to be treated.
@callme_arjun7 ай бұрын
My relatives and the mad man I'm staying with should watch this video.
@tracywang4929 Жыл бұрын
omg this is a really amazing video even i watch it after 8 years
@Ch1ris239 жыл бұрын
"And just because I use a wheelchair, doesn't mean I can't sweep you off of your feet" rawrrr ....there tiger ;)
@adorexmeli5219 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this !
@to1813 жыл бұрын
How sweet. I'm not crying, YOU ARE
@lbnise110 жыл бұрын
Very well done. Everyone should take 3 minutes of their time to view this.
@cbryce92432 жыл бұрын
My wish right now would be to see a checkout lane in the grocery store be at a level I can see and worked by a person who is in a wheelchair as well. Having a fully accessible lane with a person using a wheelchair too, would make my day. Imagine seeing checkers in wheelchairs and fully upright people using that lane. They'd have to bend over to use their credit card.
@LynnDeatherage-q3k7 ай бұрын
That guy spoke very loud 🔊📢 and I said I can hear you mister.
@cerebralman57246 жыл бұрын
Great video. Good awareness is always needed.
@LTZRS13 жыл бұрын
I have AD/HD and F.A.S(Fetal Alcohol Syndrome) and i watched this at the arc of Spokane(Spokane Washington USA)and i couldn't help but laugh with the person with the crutches fell when the door was being opened.... that is all.
@topkhadka84084 жыл бұрын
Great video
@droberts887 ай бұрын
Very good job!!
@krisrhood2127 Жыл бұрын
One of the big rules in our house is that you NEVER touch ANYONE'S gear without their express permission!
@lisasmith4265 жыл бұрын
I just sent this to my entire family. Superb!
@scccareerservices25354 жыл бұрын
A great reminder and video for all.
@lincidahotv67363 жыл бұрын
Hi! I'd like to play this during a talk I've giving in October. The folks sponsoring the event want to know that I have permission to show this without violating your copyright (I want that as well). Who in your organization can I talk to about that?
@lorremendelson6369 жыл бұрын
It was cute and great to have captions, but not accessible for people who are blind- audio description would make it more interesting. Lorre
@muhammedafsalmh88678 жыл бұрын
it is better to use the term visually impaired instad of using the term ""blind"".
@emiliomontano26434 жыл бұрын
I like it
@alyssakennedy54032 жыл бұрын
Super informative!
@FlutistPride9 жыл бұрын
Don't know how to interact with people with disabilities? Watch this video (and get a good laugh at the awkward parts too).
@sauskeuzumaki1215 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel a lot better. thank you
@bornfromkeyos9 жыл бұрын
This is a really good video!
@SigureRangiku9 жыл бұрын
This is a great video. Thank you.
@MinooDabiri Жыл бұрын
I want to translate it into my native language; who should I contact?
@jewelghavimi619210 жыл бұрын
Ditto! The video really hits the spots!! Jewel @ NRCS Athens GA
@zseeko3 жыл бұрын
Isn't, "treat us the way you would want to be treated part of the problem?" This was a good video up until that point.... People are guessing how THEY would want to be treated from an able bodied standpoint thinking that's how they'd want treated as that individual with a disability. That's wrong! Everyone is different. The part you said about ask them is the solution here.
@AndyMJF7 жыл бұрын
Super video I love it
@sarachang62013 жыл бұрын
Can I include this video in my virtual class for students in school public health? Do I need to inquire any permission in case of copyright issue?
@9999AWC6 жыл бұрын
Doofenshmirtz Evil Incorporated
@noelsilverspell32912 жыл бұрын
Right?!
@mikedavidz61613 жыл бұрын
Disability issues in particular risk being sidelined even more than they usually are. Despite some notable recent success in bringing disability policy to the attention of politicians, disability is still widely regarded as a niche concern. Conventional wisdom might suggest that with American democracy literally teetering on the brink, matters like Social Security rules, disability rights laws, and even health care eligibility should be put not just on the back burner, but in the deep freeze for the foreseeable future.
@GreenRiverCollege10 жыл бұрын
Excellent.
@luiysia10 жыл бұрын
the deaf guy (at 1:04) looks like a.j. jacobs
@thersten7 жыл бұрын
This was amazing. really well done!
@checkmate53389 жыл бұрын
Being gay isn't a disability. Check Mate.
@supamaorifella1959 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right. Plus Gay jokes Aren't funny. . . Come on guys :}
@janedoe32099 жыл бұрын
Is this a serious comment? Wow...
@69gringo699 жыл бұрын
Hahaha hahahaha xD good one
@darceeneal99308 жыл бұрын
+Check Mate Really? Fascinating. Tell that to gay people who seem astounded by the fact that you can be both.
@AndyMJF7 жыл бұрын
The point is being disabled dosnt shouldnt stop you from being who you are and how others should see you. my sister is disabled in a proud gay relationship.
@communitylivinggrimsbylinc40436 жыл бұрын
What a great video!
@deafphilosoph0810 жыл бұрын
This is great Quick question: are there visual descriptions available for this video?
@Kali952810 жыл бұрын
Hello deafphilosoph08! ODR is working on visual descriptions. Those should be ready by next week. We apologize for the delay but hope you still enjoy the video.
@user-do8jz6mz4x2 жыл бұрын
i’m so sick with my mom treating me like i’m to stupid to do adult things i feel so hurt that my mom gives my brothers adult privileges and not me the same privileges
@pauldpd32728 жыл бұрын
now days people behave very akward towards disability they comments we are burden on earth . some time feels like its a curse.
@beccawallercounselorintrai82506 жыл бұрын
Paul, no one is perfect, not even the "abled". Don't let them make you feel like you're less, everyone has something special that they can contribute to the world. I don't know what yours is, but maybe it teaching people about sensitivity! Maybe it's teaching those ignorant people that you are a person just like them, the only difference is, you're educated about disabilities and they aren't.
@chickenlurkinyungchihuahua5 жыл бұрын
1:42 - HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@GGarduchi6 жыл бұрын
All I can say is.... I was taught to be respectful to everyone, I hold doors open for both men and women. I will open the next doors as well, and let you go in front of me in line if need be, it was how I was raised, this b.s. of don't open/hold the door for me unless you ask.....yeah, I'm showing respect. I was outside a home improvement store one day with my wife, an older lady was struggling loading landscape bricks in her car, we stopped and I offered to help, her response, she didn't need help from a man. Held the door for a college girl in a wheelchair one day, she cussed me out Going in a bank one day, a lady rushes through the parking lot to "beat" me to the door, I got there first, got the first set of doors for her, she rushed to the second and pulled it closed behind her, even though I was still there and coming in obviously, so I guess she hated men too? Men don't have an issue with you helping them or holding a door, all my bad interactions have been with women, maybe it's just my male chauvinistic pig coming out
@miteamnutrition18 жыл бұрын
Well done and thank you. Will share :)
@aidandence59282 жыл бұрын
Wait this was amazing
@rev.evelynwmorrisonmba85375 жыл бұрын
good tool to teach awareness
@larrykav5 ай бұрын
God in our life 🙂 Peace & Life Everlasting with Jesus ❤️ Pray for guidance and wait Patiently ❤️