If he is not trying to impress you then he doesn’t like you
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
As simple as that.
@Jaesingh4 жыл бұрын
Or hes a real man
@empressqi17224 жыл бұрын
@@Jaesingh What would you know about real men, you're here watching women's videos
@Jaesingh4 жыл бұрын
@@empressqi1722 gotta know what the ops are plottin and the plays are all here
@BlackCulturalPreservation20234 жыл бұрын
Lol FACTzzzzzz
@greyahmarie09054 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't want to impress you, you're not the prize , never will be the prize and he won't be giving ! Next!!!
@Jaesingh4 жыл бұрын
City girls!!!
@greyahmarie09054 жыл бұрын
Awww poor trolls are mad poor boo boo's (literally)😭
@Jaesingh4 жыл бұрын
@@greyahmarie0905 you dont want a man who has to try to impress u
@tonismith888994 жыл бұрын
@Tony Johnson her hair probably costs more than you make in a month 😂😂😂
@tonismith888994 жыл бұрын
@Tony Johnson Wow! Was that your best come back? 😂😂😂 Ribbit Ribbit dusty ✌
@flowerjade59384 жыл бұрын
“With confidence and a positive outlook in life.” That’s how you attract whatever you want indeed.
@britshanesmom4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@patriciasamanthaifill17154 жыл бұрын
Amen yassss ❤️
@Thislife78-p1w4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@docalgaryrealestate3 ай бұрын
100%
@venty51974 жыл бұрын
I would’ve been the biggest, Bob the builder, pickmeisha in the world but YOU SAVED ME FROM PICKMEISHA PANDEMIC. Thank you for being on youtube, you’ve saved me from situations I would’ve never been able to come out of on my own. I don’t start playing games but I do know when I see someone running a game on me and start playing along instead of being naive and trusting people & being emotional.
@Revengestar4 жыл бұрын
I was also a victim of Pickmeisha pandemic!
@rachellecheri28274 жыл бұрын
Yes she saved me too I had a lazy bum for three years start watching shera and got rid of him
@prettyqueen79853 жыл бұрын
« Pickmeisha pandemic » Girl I’m dead 😂
@psat212 жыл бұрын
Lol SAMEEEEE
@Stormy25932 ай бұрын
This is the reign of anti dusty revolution! Sprinkle Sprinkle ladies thanks Shera ❤
@gianabecker92884 жыл бұрын
Ladies whenever you have some spare time get a big container. Go into your closet or drawer & everything ill-fitting, masculine, worn out, dull, holes, tomboyish, lazy looking, high school looking ect put it in that container! Take it to platos, sell some on Poshmark, take it to a homeless shelter, or give it to your pick me friend. Either way if you keep having access to these low value clothing out of mere comfort you will continue go back to them. No more leggings & big shirts for me! It was hard at first, but now since all I have is floral & feminine clothing in my closet that’s all I wear!
@chocoflan66724 жыл бұрын
exactly I bought me a purse that forces me to change my entire outfit to match the purse becus it is too posh for any pick me outfit
@lofiafterdark98824 жыл бұрын
@@zoeskyelar8564 If you're in the gym, then yes. If not, no.
@Luckimee4 жыл бұрын
Yes and dresses are quick and comfy
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
Some men like leggings because it's tight and shows off the leg shape/curves of a woman. Everything else you said was on point though.
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
@@miamitten1123 yes they're called duties
@user-cp5yi8cr5w4 жыл бұрын
Timing is everything! It took 3 dates with my (salt and pepper older man) for him to ask what I needed. Ladies be patient, it’ll come. It’s worth the wait for someone to Want to provide and impress. I’m in tears because I feel blessed to have come across this channel at age 28. Never too late ... ladies please Listen Up , Level Up and get what you deserve from these men.
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
Those tears of joy.. to know a man is willing to do for you just because.
@tonismith888994 жыл бұрын
28? Girl you are a baby. You have plenty of time 🙏
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
@@tonismith88899 thats what I said and im now 31.. She's the perfect age to start..
@tonismith888994 жыл бұрын
@@Theoracleprincess I agree. Just don't want her to feel like its too late because its never too late. I ran into a couple at the lake yesterday getting married and they both looked well into their 50s. You never know what will happen...
@xoxogemvenus4 жыл бұрын
This gives me hope! I just turned 30. I lost two providers this year and I was out of the game for a bit but I’m relearning again.
@alexisco.33584 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy who didn't have a car and wouldn't pay for breakfast at a fast food restaurant and told me that the reason he didn't pay was to empower me. LOL duties...
@RoseyBlaire4 жыл бұрын
That's crazy! Such a dusty!
@cosmiccrush224 жыл бұрын
At least he was straight up but the nerve of him Men like that babydaddys to multiple women if not now he will be
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
That's not even dusty... that's just dirt lol
@safw73794 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@annickrosey3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣 the dustacity!
@MzMahoganyHoneyBrown4 жыл бұрын
Be the decoration not the foundation!
@venty51974 жыл бұрын
Woah! I better write down these in my shera notes.
@come_on_barbie_1234 жыл бұрын
I like that!
@Luckimee4 жыл бұрын
We're gold diggers over here 🥰😘
@adele-francescahermance87594 жыл бұрын
Can we be friend ? I’m from 🇫🇷
@BlackCulturalPreservation20234 жыл бұрын
Provider seekers the gold comes with that...
@gloforfitness4 жыл бұрын
No Bills No Feelings.🥰
@deed14364 жыл бұрын
How to not have to sleep with your SD eventually: Here is the process I use so once it’s all over he never even thinks I was just a gold digger. 1. Get him to buy you a bunch of stuff and give you money for as long as you can. 2. Like Sheera says, just keep postponing the night you guys are supposed to be intimate. 3. When you feel like you’re getting to the point that you can’t postpone it anymore, go to dinner with your SD and invite your girlfriend. 4. Go to the bathroom or leave them alone together a few times and have her hit on him, get his number and have her start sending him inappropriate texts, get him to engage and “cheat” on you emotionally or physically if she’s down for it. 5. Once you’re ready to dump him, pretend you just found out that he’s been flirting with your best friend behind your back and act like you’re completely devastated, depressed me broken hearted over it. Then leave him and he’ll blame himself and never be able to call you a gold digger. 6. Or, you could also use his guilty mental state at this point to get him to start chasing you and sending you MAD $ to make you forgive him. 7. Pay your girlfriend a commission for her services. 8. Pat yourself on the back for figuring out a way to get his money, not sleeping with him and for going through the process completely undetected as a gold digger. In the end you’ll look like the victim and he’ll always see you as “the one that got away”. And this is good because it leaves room for you to do this to him for years to come. Every time you need $ you can just call him back 2 years later saying that you miss him and want to give him another chance and you can start the cycle all over again. He’ll jump at the opportunity since he never got to conquer you.
@Mamilicious234 жыл бұрын
💎💎💎
@morganj27524 жыл бұрын
I love it
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
That wont work. 1) That makes you a Money-Grubber not a Gold-Digger....which is worse. 2) That's pimping out your friend (even if she's in on it). 3) He wont want you after two years.. 4) You may actually fall for his charms and start developing feelings. You wont be his first or perhaps he is THAT charming. 5) Most importantly.......Bringing a friend is a DANGEROUS element for you. You could be a 5ft10 Scandinavian blonde, but he really wants the 5ft4 Spanish type. You many think your his type and what he wants, but your friend may be EXACTLY what he's been searching for. Your friend texts him etc and will he'll offer money etc to her. HOWEVER........before you know it, he is offering her $1000 a week (where you got $500 a month). He offers her her own tiny house or an apartment, a car *AND* may charm the pants of her and she get the benefits of your hard work.
@deed14364 жыл бұрын
Mia Mitten that’s why you should always have more than one. We can’t have the scarcity mentality while dating because then we’ll start acting like pickmesha. If my friend ends up getting money from him, I’m happy for her then. That just gives me more time in my schedule to see my other guys.
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
@@deed1436 True, but how many times do you plan to win The Lottery? Your mind-set is jut to get money. Shera is mind-set is to get a man to provide. You will have to get a different man every few months. You don't want the relationship.
@Lotus3six94 жыл бұрын
“ You’ll never find your fulfilled desire until you are the desire!” Leveling up never ends. Shera practice what she preach.
@donnamcintosh21094 жыл бұрын
Real high-value people don't talk about being high-value the way a certain man on You Tube does.
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels has a high value engineering degree that high value companies pay money for.😉
@singuensful4 жыл бұрын
Acting like he’s Rockfeller or some shit. He’s a dusty.
@wanjiruchelagat65654 жыл бұрын
@@singuensful lol girl 🤣🤣 I just watch such channels plus AMS so that I stay ahead of the game....
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t he say in videos that a man must always pay? Doesn’t that make him a supporter of Shera’s mentality?
@singuensful4 жыл бұрын
Mia Mitten he’s ageist. Trashing women over 30 while being 51. He’s spewing hardcore criticism on women a certain age and single mothers. Shera is preaching leveling up at any age.
@ivaobryant4 жыл бұрын
I finally found a older man that is catering to me. He's twice my age (50's) but has a young style and that's all I wanted. He spoils me dearly and loves how girly and feminine I am ☺️☺️🥰
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
Giiirl, Its the best feeling. Im 31 and my bf is 57 and at first i had some hangs up about it but now after 7 months he's still consistent in paying bills, spoiling me and now encouraging me to start my own business in which he will fund. He just wants to see me win in life which is so refreshing. Im so glad I started watching Shera channel or id be somewhere with a dusty struggling wondering if this is all life has to offer lol !
@ivaobryant4 жыл бұрын
@@Theoracleprincess lmao girl me too! Still struggling with that young dumb love. Nah it's time for us to level up! I'm so happy I've been watching her videos. I've been going back watching the older ones too. Older men are just happy to be with us (if he's the right one) they worship our beauty and we worship their finances😂
@MA-rn2xp3 жыл бұрын
Girl how’d you find him I need some tips on where to find and older provider man
@ivaobryant3 жыл бұрын
@@MA-rn2xp I met him at a NA meeting lol we are both in recovery 😊
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
He's too old for u. Old enough to be your daddy. U really wanna sleep with your daddy. U have daddy issues.
@divinelycocoa70224 жыл бұрын
The guy im dating jus bought me a msi Gs66 stealth 16gb laptop today ..its 1800 the one i asked for was only 1000(a cheaper model only 8gb) i need it for my business and for video editing...my life has changed so much since i found shera🥰
@divinelycocoa70224 жыл бұрын
And he paid to get my car fixed a week after we met dont be fooled ladies money is still circulating during this pandemic!
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
I love when you suggest something and they find a better version that costs more. Shows that they value you and are eager to please. Hold on to him sis! I agree money is still circulating during these times. No shade to anyone that's lost their job, struggling or affected in anyway by the virus but... a sista has been blessed during these times by a generous wealthy man that finds any and every excuse to impress me 💅🏾
@divinelycocoa70224 жыл бұрын
Yesss gurl I was so shocked he went to Best Buy and basically got the best msi they had...and surprised me with it ...I had mentioned I couldn’t get anything done on my current laptop it’s holding me back.. the link to the one I wanted was at Walmart but was a cheaper one and a different model....he takes me out all the time n spends a lot but Yass I have been so blessed during this pandemic and I have another guy who been giving me money too... life is good lol
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
@@divinelycocoa7022 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love hearing these stories. Next thing I need to work on is getting rid of this weight then its a wrap
@divinelycocoa70224 жыл бұрын
You should try vegan that’s how I lost the weight a lot of weight too...
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Let me catch my daughter dressing like she’s not trying to attract a rich man.
@mikapettigrew56754 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@debbyluxe4 жыл бұрын
Honestly!
@destaniehugs674 жыл бұрын
i went to her level up list on amazon and she put a dust cleaning product and vacuums LMAOOOO
@tonismith888994 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Blissful_Gia4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jaesiraki842 жыл бұрын
Lol! 😂
@ladylady7848 Жыл бұрын
Damn😂😂
@GoddessAries9 ай бұрын
Wow lmao 🤣
@KeiyaHood4 жыл бұрын
I haven't been on here in a while and have recently encountered this mentality from my man. Please be aware that men who want a "partner" or someone who they can build with they want a Pick-Me. Even if they approach you, pursued you, I agree if he is not trying to impress me it's a waste of time to me.
@olivette39484 жыл бұрын
If he’s not asking you what you need, buying you things and giving you money then he’s not into you! #he’s not the 1 ☝️ Sis ❤️
@kayyoung92424 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@slimmsg74 жыл бұрын
Yall cant be serious, explain this to me ...
@olivette39484 жыл бұрын
SlimmSG7 Basically Meaning that if your a real Man and love taking care of your lady and making sure she’s covered in a lot of life situations and have what she needs to the best of your ability Financially & etc .. Unless he’s Build the Bob and needs the Woman to teach him how to be a leader, provider and a protector of her then wrong target 🎯
@slimmsg74 жыл бұрын
@@olivette3948 the hypocrisy within those statements and philosophy, thats not how we operate, but imma let u guys find out the hard way ...
@olivette39484 жыл бұрын
SlimmSG7 Okay 👌🏽 😂 thanks but no thanks on your input. I’m going to still get mine like I’ve been doing 😉. Good Luck to you too sir. 👋🏼
@ultravioletpisces36662 жыл бұрын
"My ex took advantage of me..." Oh baby I'm not a rehab center.
@olivette39484 жыл бұрын
Exactly! “ leave your Emotions out of it and get the 💰 bag” this is not for the weak..
@ultravioletpisces36662 жыл бұрын
I read this as: leave your emoticons out if it. (!)
@4rmwestcoastmagsonia4 жыл бұрын
law of attraction Attraction is your suppose to make your self attractive and appealing I was at Trader Joes n I looked very decent I had my hair in Mariah Carey ringlets from her music box days I had on a really cute outfit that showed off my shape. I had my brows waxed my make up was nice I walked passed these crew workers and they were looking a whole bunch of white boys anyways My stupid credit card was acting dumb and this white boy who worked there paid for my things so listen to her look your best at all times.
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Damnn...I was dressed like a dusty bum and and forgot my cash. and a cashier paid for my groceries . I told them I’d come pay them back and they said “don’t worry about it”.🤑
@4rmwestcoastmagsonia4 жыл бұрын
I highly doubt that lol
@7Mushrooms74 жыл бұрын
Unknown random men don't do shit for me regardless of how well I'm dressed and styled lol I think I need more physical leveling up and more self confidence.
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
U just got embarrassed in front of a bunch of white guys.
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
To the one who is embarrassed to be seen in public with an old man then dont date him.
@frenchwithbonjouracademy16564 жыл бұрын
This is the best channel on KZbin for relationships advice for women , femininity, mindfulness . I’m lucky that I found it !
@ScorpionPrincess19894 жыл бұрын
You need to be feeling yourself and love yourself first! And when he reflects that level of respect and love towards you then you give them a chance! ✨
@MsSunshine8464 жыл бұрын
❤️
@love_reka_88774 жыл бұрын
“Get another one🤙🏾” yasss
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
End up in a box six feet under
@mrs.tishposh-paige35704 жыл бұрын
" The older, the better"😉 #loveit
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
How much older you going?
@cosmiccrush224 жыл бұрын
Yh but eventually you'll have to be intimate with this person so consider his looks ect even just abit
@cosmiccrush224 жыл бұрын
Yh but eventually you'll have to be intimate with this person so consider his looks ect even just abit
@michelejoseph62024 жыл бұрын
Great talk! And so true when you said get over them the same way they got over you! Simple but so profound
@JustTiaMarie4 жыл бұрын
At a certain age they should know that. Smh
@flowerjade59384 жыл бұрын
You would think so but giiiiirl you still have to nudge them into the right direction
@Thislife78-p1w4 жыл бұрын
We need a book of Shera’s quotes. It would be an amazing gift for Christmas 🎄
@IamKarryanne4 жыл бұрын
I love how unfuking bothered you are ‼️‼️
@JayLeiRay4 жыл бұрын
Shera, I don't think you know how funny you really are! I was weak when you asked that troll if it was illegal for them to speak up in their country from the silly questions they were asking. Lmaooooo! Almost spat out my tea girl LOL
@cosmiccrush224 жыл бұрын
Same here she's like the funny aunty that keeps it real
@oziomaannieiwuoha46124 жыл бұрын
Sprinkle sprinkle, how I love you. You are simply, positively, innovatively, straight to the point. I feel at home listening to you. Thanks a lot.
@silverkitty25034 жыл бұрын
make up fake childhood memories to tell him
@empressqi17224 жыл бұрын
What "memories" would work in our favour?
@bonvivant37044 жыл бұрын
Example pls
@loveyhernandez52034 жыл бұрын
Example?
@PortiaMonique4 жыл бұрын
I detect no lies. Thank you Shera.
@gia48224 жыл бұрын
"I'm comfortable & this is what it's gone be"
@love_reka_88774 жыл бұрын
Much respect ✊🏾 u need to be over him already if u over here
@xxmegababygirlxx3 жыл бұрын
The best way to get over someone is to jump over them and get over them lololol.
@BrandiXo4 жыл бұрын
Leveling up myself and my family.
@justinpierre14 жыл бұрын
Actually miss sprinkle sprinkle is absolutey right. No love fixing and getting that gold. She is not a love coach ladies but probably the best female coach you guys got in 2020. I see wife/women/ marriage as strictly a business deal. "RICH" men are willing to do that because lets face it, we truly don't want love from each other, lets just bust each other for what we can get and then move on, always move on. Everyone is over each other.
@sylviecaramela45054 жыл бұрын
@Cátia shera always says play "damsel in distress"
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
🤑
@KeiyaHood4 жыл бұрын
@Cátia From my personal experience you don't have to ask.
@KeiyaHood4 жыл бұрын
@Cátia I am fifty now. I would advise older men BUT let them spend, don't offer or open up your purse ever. Just tell him what you like. I do want to add, in my current relationship, my significant other is tripping and is not generous which has me confused because he claims he wants me so bad. If he doesn't come through financially it's going to be a wrap for me because I do not have time to waste when I know I can get a man to spend easily and freely.
@KaylenApril2 жыл бұрын
I was about to be a bob the builder and mother... but you saved my life and future.
@Studyandvibe4 жыл бұрын
I think it’s a lot of. Girls who don’t look as good or talk ghetto that are having problems don’t blame raven . I made 2k this week from my sugar daddy
@isabellesender6 ай бұрын
I have always gotten more $ from upper middle-class men than rich men. That's because i know I'm not a 10. Go for the ones that chase you and think you are the prize. I got $20,000 for a down payment on a beach house once. He was trying to impress me. Know your level and go for the right target for your level. If they want you, they will spend $. Annnnd, I'm old and can do that.
@jamayaj4 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy I’ve always wore makeup but I lost myself in a relationship and stopped but I’m back on it again and these women are haters FR. I had a coworker say when we were talking about COVID and how it was brought here, she’s gonna randomly say, “ well you know our eye makeup is made out of rat poop “ WTF?! 😂😂😂Mind you my face is BEAT, I used to be MUA.
@RoseyBlaire4 жыл бұрын
I had a fellow black coworker always say slick stuff about me to me and I just ignored her because her comments are always towards my appearance. I noticed that she does this with only women lighter than her. I'm all for sisterhood but I dislike in a work environment how some women surface their insecurities on to you and then get mad at you for it!
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
Basic women always hate on women that choose to wear makeup. Like girl, you could wear some too!
@SashiKouran3 жыл бұрын
I recently went out, it was fine. Reached the level of comfortableness. Go with the flow... always. 😊
@oziomaannieiwuoha46124 жыл бұрын
I love you. And I really don't care what Dusty's say about you. You are making us to level up.
@KeiyaHood4 жыл бұрын
yes! Just don't care
@anonymousbee4 жыл бұрын
Physically jump over them lol haha
@Badgirlkoree4 жыл бұрын
lollll
@JustTiaMarie4 жыл бұрын
Speaking nothing but facts.
@MICABLUEreborn4 жыл бұрын
I'm pregnant now but after this baby I'm gonna level up or I might of well just level up now lol
@camiller9584 жыл бұрын
Yeah you can level up while pregnant💕
@bodnarova054 жыл бұрын
Eat healthy and low impact exercise
@qsmimi93474 жыл бұрын
Yes you can level up pregnant don’t forget to moisture your skin so u won’t have stretch marks .
@passion84lifelove134 жыл бұрын
Level up on purpose every day in some way
@cosmiccrush224 жыл бұрын
Start now why not but take it easy and dont pressure yourself x
@mercyshaba35304 жыл бұрын
I always like the video before I watch because I know it's going to be lite
@ZNMelowLeloNeka4 жыл бұрын
I have had two men ask to spoil and take care of me in the past two weeks. one asked me how much my rent was....and that he wants to help me with any bill I have. the other wanted to give me a TV because I don't have it. I just don't know what to do after...so I can get a man to want to spend on me, but I don't know how to move from there.
@Theoracleprincess4 жыл бұрын
Girl accept... be girly and show appreciation not toooo much you don't want them thinking your not use to nothing lol
@MissBrandao4 жыл бұрын
You're saving lifes. Thanks
@christopherwilliams77924 жыл бұрын
Right. It's unbelievable when your crush doesn't give you the attention you desire. If we look in the mirror like Michael Jackson said, we'll know why 😊
@ernestrobinson66754 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@rabeccamwale16954 жыл бұрын
I love this topic really,I like men who impress me.
@alinareads994 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say hello. Love that cute look you have today!
@Baddestchik9114 жыл бұрын
Hey Shera! I bought some products from dark realm and I was highly impressed by the fast shipping and packaging. Thank you! Looking forward to patronizing you in the future.
@aleeyahsimmons65845 ай бұрын
1:37:30 how to play the damsel in distress
@mercyshaba35304 жыл бұрын
This is real tea
@Evilkitty644 жыл бұрын
Please and thank you Shera 💅🏼🥂, put the disclaimer up... @15:56. Some women 🙄 just wander in expecting Dusty 😷 help.
@realpristine4 жыл бұрын
It took me like 3 days to watch this lol
@essiemay29564 жыл бұрын
Great advice Shera.❤...Much better than another KZbinr that I watch, where she's doing all the impression(Pickmeisha), and shows off all the Men she sleeps with...Uggghh...😩...that are Dusties and Users. She's in her mid 40s, but I thought she was in her mid 50's, because of her face, and all the make-up she uses to hide imperfections...😱... You are naturally Beautiful, because you lived right, and it shows. You are also a Leader for Women of all ages, especially younger women. You are Sophistacated and you have Class, and we all Thank you for that...❤
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
On your way to the top ladies, you may bump into the _’Ted Turner’_ affect. He is a man with 4 girlfriends who know the score. In other words you might meet a guy who not only promises the world but delivers it, but the catch is you will be one of 2/3 women. Not the mistress to his wife. He ain’t married. He just has 2/3 women that he has bought a home, car(s) large allowance and anything they/you want each. You just will never be his only one. I know a Muslim man like that. One traditional wife 🧕🏻 (Pakistan like him) with 3 kids by him. The other wife (Arab) 💃🏻 no kids yet, but WAY more free spirited/sexy looking to the public gaze. Both live in a big house, both don’t have to work if they wish (they both do). What one has, the other gets. That can happen. Is it good.....I don’t know.
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
Cátia I don’t think so. He might want it from you once a month or to have children. Then again, you might be his favorite.
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
Cátia for that you need a fin-sub. What you say is true though. Jealously can appear. Best to find a man who is solo infatuated 🥰 with you/one woman. Then you can have all the wealth too.
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Cátia You might have to be ok with getting chained up a peed on too. 😲
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Cátia What yearly salary is “rich” to you?
@miamitten11234 жыл бұрын
@Cátia No sex will just make him get it elsewhere. Remember, if he is a man of means. You wont be his first and if you are he'll feel more bold now around women because of his success. You maybe pretty, but might not be if No.1 type and he can wait while he looks around for commitment in other arms.
@judelyne084 жыл бұрын
Or "be the decorator but not the builder"
@honeybadgernasty4 жыл бұрын
The audio here was great SheRa!
@Zeroboy54672 жыл бұрын
Girl you have changed myn LIFE 💃🍷💯I always get from myn Man what i want and needs👩❤️💋👨Thank you sis 🙂we love you shera
@tanaicannon58434 жыл бұрын
I just discovered you...first off your bow and top.. soooo cute!!😍🤗 Your energy and advice...a whole mood! #newsubbie Sprinkle Sprinkle!!
@SheRaSeven14 жыл бұрын
Tanai Cannon thank u 🙏🏽✨✨
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
To the guy that got played. He is trying to tell u not to ask for no money..so u might as well move on..
@JustTiaMarie4 жыл бұрын
This bow in your hair is giving me little house on the prairie. I agree no dusties tho.
@MaryamAli-vd1xv4 жыл бұрын
Love the look 🌻
@janayewill38834 жыл бұрын
Deal with men who want to impress those be the ones that is quick to walk out the door
@BrendaBaBoom4 жыл бұрын
Let them GO and stay GONE.🖐🏽
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Lol
@BlackCulturalPreservation20234 жыл бұрын
Those are probably the narcissistic ones.
@amilllion14 жыл бұрын
I'm actually brown 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️, me too sis!
@missbrendacrawford88654 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you
@ParisLoveBlue4 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1, you are so beautiful!! You reminder me of the girl group, called “ The Good Girl”! 💕
@shandrekacopeland33534 жыл бұрын
Shera Shouldve been my Mama😭😭🤩🥰😘 LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL #Sprinkle Sprinkle💞💕💯💋
@sheiswildlyfree73194 жыл бұрын
Hey Shera! Love ya girl
@flyandshy004 жыл бұрын
You should keep your damsel stories when you know each other better, for a 4-5 date. Unless he encourages you to buy you anything.
@sweetgoldenbrown4 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeaaaaasssss big facts!!!
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
Im not dating older..i dont have daddy or grandpa issues..
@mikapettigrew56754 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣we here for this bag lol
@loveyhernandez52034 жыл бұрын
G H O S T ghost 💀😭
@luisavieira29852 жыл бұрын
Want to be friends with benefits?! There is your answer: 49:40 !!! 💯
@amanatj45644 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how do I ask for things... Directly or indirectly (telling my problem and waiting for him to ask .. should I buy/do this for uh) ?
@likemycommentifyouwantareply4 жыл бұрын
Play damsel in distress. Present a problem for him to fix. If he tries to fix it for you himself then you know he likes you. If he doesn’t then that means he’s not trying to impress you, which means he is not the one. You don’t ask directly, just state your problem and then say you are worried about it and don’t know what to do. If all he gives you is advice then he is not the one for you and you should try to find someone else who will jump to help you.
@likemycommentifyouwantareply4 жыл бұрын
The test is stating a problem and seeing his reaction. Don’t ask directly.
@KeiyaHood4 жыл бұрын
@@likemycommentifyouwantareply I agree 100%
@ramonasawyer77494 жыл бұрын
Meet him at training camp!!
@Kissp1nk Жыл бұрын
I want video about first date. Like all tips for the first date. From how to act to what to say absolutely everything all instruction guide ❤
@profitsextend3074 жыл бұрын
go SheRaSeven1!! make them dollars country gal!!!
@user-cp5yi8cr5w4 жыл бұрын
1:10:17 best advice ever for those who stay in their feelings about the truth of the game.
@ImabelleRegine4 жыл бұрын
Wasting Time On The Real Real
@missbrendacrawford88654 жыл бұрын
What if he’s got requirements right off the bat but wants to give me anew apt in Atlanta
@momomomo84263 ай бұрын
You are the prize and your requirements should be met first also sounds like he doesn’t like you that much. Say “ I’m sorry I can’t do that unless we are in a committed relationship’ and if he agrees tell him what u require if he wants to commit
@jane-ew2jh4 жыл бұрын
Should u be direct or indirect for financial matters
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
You need fix your makeup in that thumbnail 🤮
@jane-ew2jh4 жыл бұрын
@@uoenoho5788 wat u mean
@jane-ew2jh4 жыл бұрын
@@luxuryqueen42 aah ok got it thanx
@zztops37394 жыл бұрын
Look up her videos on how to ask for money. She gives a lot of examples
@iC0NtR0L2 жыл бұрын
she’s like the female kevin samuels i love it!
@chelseajanae54974 жыл бұрын
💫💫💫speak!
@spiceanddice104 жыл бұрын
You are so funny 😘
@ayldn79694 жыл бұрын
Oh lord 🤦🏾♂️🙅🏾♂️🤣
@arcadiusisaac92204 жыл бұрын
Do u have any experience in conceling or ru a therapist how can u convence me if this is the right move or option in life ?????
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
U r telling a woman to leave her husband for her ex..i thought you are supposed to go forward not backwards.
@Nitaa_Ayanna4 жыл бұрын
One of my POT’s has a 14 year old & older in age & he sometimes has a hard time planning our dates ... I have a 4 year old and can find ways to get out for dates .... I’m thinking if I should keep him around or not 😳 cause my goals are a house & a newer car 😭🤧 and a bbl for a bonus 🤣 but idk how I’m gonna get there because it’s moving SO SLOW, should I keep him around ? Or leave him alone ? He hasn’t done anything yet but today will be our 3rd date, we usually spend about a hour with each date
@CS-pl1re4 жыл бұрын
Shera I have one that want to give me a BMW but lease , he said you gonna leave me if I give you the car. Should I continue? I didn't wanted to argue otherwise he will think that I want to do that. So I just ignored him.... But what should I do?
@uoenoho57884 жыл бұрын
Stop being a headache and just say “yes daddy...whatever you like...”. Or be a dreadful nag...choices
@natashasoteli29154 жыл бұрын
Use the BMW on lease to find a better provider who can actually get you a better car.
@minniemouse83894 жыл бұрын
If it's a lease with his name on it I'd pass.
@Lovetheonewithin4 жыл бұрын
Take it, and keep looking for what you want. Only put it in your name if you can afford the payments when he stops paying.
@mikapettigrew56754 жыл бұрын
natasha soteli make sure it’s in your name...because “ you want to get a credit score increase “ blah blah but I’d rather have something I don’t have to WORRY about paying for every month.
@waskily14 жыл бұрын
I go between loving you and thinking you have no soul. xoxo Mostly, I love you tho.
@lc-il6wr3 ай бұрын
Yall r not following the hallmark channel way of finding luv.