Dealing With The Loss of Loved Ones - Jocko Willink

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Excerpt from JOCKOPODCAST 27

[@Bearnos]

I lost my mom 3 weeks ago. I'm only 20 and it was killing me but I'm starting to feel a lot better.

[@alexanderwilson2865]

Dying isn't a bad thing, you know this if your spiritually woke, your mom left this chaos that's run by Freemason shills, your mom is lucky to leave this hell hole

[@alexanderwilson2865]

You can connect with her spirit anytime you want

[@alexanderwilson2865]

All we are is a glob of meat, are souls are immortal

[@dominikarndt6049]

Keep on moving forward bro! Bad times will pass you´re only getting stronger!

[@macktheripper7454]

I know your pain bro, just take each day as it comes and make sure you take care of your body. Eat well, exercise. Rest well. God bless you

[@petarniciforovic6543]

1:57 "It is foolish and pointless to mourn the lost ones; instead, we should be happy that such men lived" - Patton

[@Tracker947]

If only Patton were here so that I could argue semantics with him about that quote

[@windowdancercymbals8246]

But it is okay to grieve for a time when we need to.

[@coltondavies2143]

Thank you for these words Jocko, this really hits home to me. My little sister passed away almost 2 years ago now, still to this day I struggle with it on a daily basis. I am 23 years old and she was my best friend, I tried to use your "good" speech when it happened and It hurt me a lot, it was hard to think that there could be any good to come from her death. I still would not say there's anything "good". But you definitely opened my eyes up to it a bit more. I am absolutely honoured to have spent the time I did with her, she's really changed a lot of peoples outlook on life. For her I try to smile extra each day, be kinder to humans and try to love and accept everyone, because that's what she did during her time here. Again, thank you so much Jocko, I have been a follower of yours for 3 years now and your words never fail to motivate me sir. I really needed this. Time to get after it now!!

[@dream1way]

Colton sorry to hear that friend. Take care.

[@coltondavies2143]

@Kevin Castellanos Thank you Kevin for your kind words. I definitely agree with you, tragedy should be dealt with gently. I am new to grief, all my life my family has been fortunate in regards to death, we have lost some family members but nothing like this. So when this happened it shocked everyone for obvious reasons. I try to live for her everyday, I went down a wrong path shortly after her death but straightened myself out quickly and realized I was being very selfish. Like you say it's about having the motive to live for the fallen, I totally relate to that. Again, thank you! I appreciate the words a lot.

[@coltondavies2143]

@@dream1way Thank you very much. Appreciate it lots.

[@EMCEERENZO]

As someone who also has a little sister, I can’t imagine how you are feeling but she would be proud to know that because of her you smile everyday. Take care

[@addictedtohisgrace]

Sorry for your loss. We will all face that grief eventually, and you will be able to comfort others that go through that hell, since you have walked that path already, and honored your sisters life by doing it the right way. You have my deepest respect soldier. Stay the course Brother

[@charlestour4681]

I lost my wife of 32 years recently. Every word you said rang true with me. I use the love I have for her to live better and be a better human being. Thank you for that. Aloha. Chuck

[@hanginlaundry360]

Bless your heart, and an inspiration that you walked this earth together 32 years! Peace!

[@benparrish672]

That is an amazing way to look at it. I wish you the very best sir.

[@coltondavies2143]

Stay strong sir! She is looking over you everyday. Bless you and your family, you are in my thoughts.

[@newmanoinstagram]

Hi Charles. Just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of ya mate ❤️🙏🏻

[@charlestour4681]

Anthony Newman I would prefer you send money and cookies but thanks. Aloha. C

[@GT47179]

Lost Mom in 14...a part of you is gone when Moms gone

[@jimgritty7064]

Keep on going bro.

[@GT47179]

@@jimgritty7064 all we can do...keep rolling

[@hughmungus813]

I hear you on that. It's like eating food with no salt and no flavor.

[@ShepSheppard24]

Lost my mom 2 years ago....its tuff. I break down at times. But i still feel her and talk to her! Its getting a little better. I keep going not just for her but for my self and my family. That's all we can ever do. Keep going!!!

[@GT47179]

@@ShepSheppard24 losing mom is a different deal, a whole new realm, different kind of bond with your mother, many condolences while you grieve

[@tylerp3327]

Nailed it. I lost my best friend in 2014 and it still hurts.. but knowing I was lucky enough to know such a great person with such a great personality and sense of humour is so comforting. Lucas had all the potential in the world, but shit just happens… Miss you to death big dawg… see you when I see you.

[@Gruso57]

I lost my Dad to heart disease when I was 10. It took many years to see the good. When I did it was liberating. I live every day with appreciate of what he's done and the lessons I had learned with that loss are priceless. "Live everyday with purpose and passion" well said Jocko

[@201jaecee]

I just lost my son and this hit me harder than anything anyone has told me. Glad I listened and can share with my family .

[@matthewleos71]

Just lost my mom yesterday, jocko these words will be playing in my ears for years. Thank you sir.

[@thedude1982]

Needed to hear this. My mother passed away about 10 months ago. I still think of her everyday

[@jagsfan0864]

So sorry to hear that . Wishing you strength . Take care

[@thedude1982]

@@jagsfan0864 thank you 💜

[@BaronVonBlair]

To live. Mom passed at 5 just before fall of Berlin wall. Am 36 now. Discipline is freedom, indeed. Thanks Jocko

[@c.mcdonald5338]

This came at the right time for me. My best friend of 22 yrs died two weeks ago.... died suddenly, leaving behind a wife and four kids. He was 41 yrs old. Your podcast is on point, and I appreciate your insights.

[@customgadget3385]

Lost my mum in October 2019 and watched my siblings attack each other. I distanced myself and avoided them. Both my parents are now gone and this world feels like a place I no longer know.

[@cumminapart77]

Crazy this video comes out on my mother's birthday. She passed away 4 years ago. Thank you Jocko!

[@arthurfleck629]

MB Edits Treasure your precious memories of her for they are priceless, she lives in you

[@Brumasterj]

Back in July 2019 I was listening to pod cast 157 about 1hour and 30 minutes in where Jocko was talking about picking up the pieces after losing a child! I really listened to that piece intently and then listened to it again, for some reason I really pondered those words! Then 2 weeks later our 30 year old son was killed on his motorcycle when some one made a left turn in front of him. Our son Josh left behind 2 beautiful boys and a wife (Fiancé)! He also had 3 siblings that was all very close! His death has hit us all so hard! His mom and I started grief counseling thru Grief Share! I think what’s helped us to move forward is our Faith and we try and concentrate on all the good times and memories! It still doesn’t take away our pain but it’s sweet to look back and know the love we all had for each other and the valuable times we got to spend with each other before Josh’s death! I could probably write a book on all the things that God allowed our family to do together right before his death, and how God has worked in our lives since his death! Thanks for the words of wisdom Jocko!

[@jays_way5584]

You are a great man Jacko. Thank you for your wisdom your out here saveing lives and dont know just how much. Thanks again for helping me become the man i know i can be

[@MultiverseMediaSpace]

I honor those I knew and loved who have passed on by integrating aspects of them I loved, into myself. It's my way of keeping some of their amazingness alive in this world. I hope this helps others cope like it has for me, plus it makes this often miserable world a little better and beautiful.

[@pursuitofspirit]

Thanks for talking about this topic guys. I lost my best friend to cancer last year and it was the biggest reality check I’ve ever had to face. It really is a test of character / strength and being there for the family in the hard times. Thanks again guys

[@rolandrhoward9361]

Lost my little brother 28 days ago, he was just 55 years old. Thanks Jocko, for your hard truth and inspiring retort.

[@nehamariyabenny5878]

I lost my Brother 27 yrs old 5 months ago ... & I am 18 & have a younger Sister. Now also i am not OK..... I miss his presence So much... He was my Everything... I lost him due to Covid 19 ... He was such a caring, helping, loving Energetic brother.... He always had a smile on his face.... My brother was the one who talked non-stop to everyone .... I cant accept his LOSS... 😥

[@kayleenmay199]

I’m listening to this as my cousin is 54 dying of cancer, this weekend I have to say goodbye. I’m grateful for your wisdom.

[@jonmarlar4346]

Thank you Jocko. My older brother died of cancer last year (he was 52) and it has been a rough road.

[@KathleenMcKay]

ahhh my 11 yr old daughter was killed less than 18 mths ago...all I can say is it was medical. it was avoidable and I had no idea what I would stumble upon.....and all is not as it seems here in New Zealand...thank you Jocko and Echo...I keep my shit together mostly and now I must hunker down for the long game after showing my hand as I thought being open was good. Not when you deal with the Govt...some days I don't know who to trust...at the moment I can only trust myself...I am the only team member left...

[@robertbaratheon2193]

Idk why this is suggested right now. My best friend died on November 10th, 2019. He wasn’t a saint he wasn’t super man. But he was my best friend. Jocko speaks to all of us, not even about death, but I need to remember his life not that he isn’t here. Thanks everyone I hope you all get after it.

[@simulationracing930]

I had to put my dog down 4 years ago when I was 16 it was the hardest thing for me, 2 years later I bought a new pup and spent every waking moment with him and he sadly passed away last weekend from lyme disease at only 1.5 years old didnt even know what going to happen till it was too late and he had a heart attack in my arms. Ever word Jocko speaks rings true you need to honor every moment you have with he ones you love.

[@johnmausteller]

My family disowned me. They’re already dead to me. I think they did me a favor honestly to keep it short

[@brandon2498]

hulk thruster That’s not always the case. Families disown people for multiple reasons and many times for stupid reasons.

[@Tracker947]

@@brandon2498 I think the idea behind it is that the bandaid was ripped off quickly and all at once, better the separation than a prolonged exposure to toxic relationships.

[@MusicloverX88]

Thank you for this Jocko. I just lost my best friend… it’s so hard right now, but I know she would still want me to live my life well.

[@jagsfan0864]

So sorry to hear that . Wishing you strength . Take care

[@MusicloverX88]

@@jagsfan0864 thank you so much, I really appreciate it.

[@streetglidesteve7315]

Jocko I’m 54,retired LEO, lost my 17 yo Son Ryan in a car accident in 2017 Your words just helped me Thank you Brother

[@Chantelofficial]

Thank you I needed those words after losing the biggest person in my life

[@ethanmarshall7822]

I just found out one of my best friends died of a probably OD today.. I knew you would have something to say to help. Thank you Jocko. You touch people deeper than you realize.

[@glenm5081]

Jocko u have changed my life with ur speech

[@FrodoTbaggens]

I buried my girlfriend yesterday, she passed from suicide. I needed this so bad. Thank you

[@macktheripper7454]

I had the same in 2008. My dad in 2017. Both suicide. I know exactly how you feel. If you want some advice just comment, God bless you bro

[@joseeleazararenasramirez1967]

So hard bro, i survived her suicide, almost 3 Years have passed, and sometimes i struggle to stay on the path, just know that you are not alone, honor and love her by being your best and being humble, i send you an honest hug from the bottom of my heart brother, just one day at a time

[@chilldudesam]

I lost my granddad today. I’m not going to mourn. I’ll be happy for the mark he left in my life. The moments. He is in a better place. Thanks for sharing

[@RannPatterson]

Thank you, great advice. I found you through Dan Bongino. I lost my twin brother last year and I’ve had a hard time with the separation and the will to go on. I am a two-cancer survivor so I am tired. And people congratulate me on that but I give God the credit. Still, my broken heart has been a bigger challenge than facing my own mortality. Thank you for your words of wisdom from experience, I will write them down and try harder. The memories actually hurt at first, but you are right. In remembering Phil, I realize I was the most blessed to even have my beautiful brother, and being a twin is an awesome place in life. He was street wise, I was a Pollyanna. He taught me so much of what I now need to know and practice in this cruel world. Thanks for the reminder! Much love and gratitude. P.S. This is my first podcast view of you except with Dan Bongino recently, which I really enjoyed. I love the fact that you think outside the box. ♥️

[@MD-jp5oc]

Hang tough bro. I feel every bit of your pain. I lost my older brother a year ago to a slow painful stomach cancer. Pray and live with purpose knowing you will see him again.

[@IntiqYana]

wow this helped me a lot too Jocko, my cat was killed by a car a month ago, he was only two years and a half old, i really spoiled the little demon, we sleep together, enjoyed every single of his almost 1000 days, i was unemployed the whole period, its been so long since i lost a dear one, it totally blew me away when a co-worker told me he saw him on the street lying death the night he got lost. it has been the biggest lesson of my life, he was a hunter, i was undisciplined, now i never fail, i always have been your follower, i knew i should have tried harder, but well what a lesson, even i dont fear death anymore, i just want to bring kids to the world now, and cats, and to live long and prosper, i used to play it safe always, afraid of having kids, hey love your podcasts!, thanks a lot for this one !!

[@robertbaratheon2193]

I sent this to my uncle (by marriage) who is a constant source of inspiration to me he’s a titan. He became hostile and it actually put a dent in the relationship. But I don’t regret it, this is amazing. My best friend died on November 10th, thought he might appreciate this but I was very wrong.

[@DATDUDEMAN101]

This came out the day my dog passed away. Thank you for the guidance Jocko it means a lot

[@DanielThomasArgueta]

Perfect timing. One of my grandmother's health is not well. Cancer.

[@colbeybrown]

I lost my mom a week ago and my father from suicide when I was 14. I’m 24 and going to school but now reality hit. I guess it’s time to hit the gulag and keep fighting for her.

[@tomaswhelan9375]

Keep going brother!

[@jagsfan0864]

Stay strong . Take care

[@ajgambs44]

At my last breath when my ride comes to an end, is a smile as big as yours knowing I'll see you again~ in memory Kyle T. Gamble 1989-2020.

[@soulresonance1267]

Jocko you are a gift to humanity and to our country, thank you for your service and you're strong words, you are an inspiration and a hell of a guy

[@kinazz19]

Just lost my brother last night and I needed to hear this!

[@stephenrigdon374]

A timely reflection in prevision for what is to come.

[@ceoofswag6348]

I lost my great grandpa today. Thank you for making this video.

[@samneedsanap7802]

My husband died unexpectedly in April 2021. On my 40th birthday. We have 3 kids. I'm having a hard time finding the good here.

[@richardmcguinn732]

I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's. My son and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again. 😢

[@bsaamichaelodst]

Thank you I needed this 😭❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@lesteralford5189]

Thank you! I don't process my buddies last moments.

[@markdalton3900]

Lost my Dad to covid this really helps words of wisdom

[@christinajones6448]

I lost my significant other and still keep questioning myself every day if I could of done more. It's so hard I've lost siblings and my dad and lots of people but I'm not sure how to move on he was my heart and my life but I did like your message and know I have to move on just not sure how.

[@Lvlolv]

Wow this was a word. Ty Jocko

[@georgecraddock85]

I lost my uncle today. He had 2 heart attacks and while the hospital were doing tests they found he had stage 4 lung cancer and I guess he just give up. My dad is devastated and I don't know how to comfort him. He died in Australia and he's from the UK. I just feel lost

[@NavdeepSingh-vl6ff]

That's why in spirituality it is said that detach yourself from your loved ones. How? By accepting this fact (that one day they gonna leave you) now. So spend every moment with them as if this is your last moment with them, coz it's fact that one day that last moment will come. And when it will come, it won't give you a shock as you had already accepted that. And you would handle yourself much better.

[@j6865]

Live every day to get even with those that have harmed you and let your revenge be equal or greater to the damage they inflicted upon you, and celebrate that revenge afterwards by joyfully moving on to the next person(s) on your list. Every act of revenge will bring you closer to happiness and to the closure you need. But remember, tell no one what you're doing, just get even. Happy hunting.

[@slateer55]

thank you jocko

[@Steve-holm]

Thank You Much 😊

[@maccumhaill5534]

God this one hits hard. It really helped Jocko, thank you

[@ScottPutman]

Thank you for this..

[@ليناوصاف]

My boyfriend died In a Thursday night august The 5th ,islem was accidentally suffocated in his car because of air conditioning while he was in the garage,we planned to go out few days before his death but it never happened I saw him last 3rd of July I never knew it was the last time I would ever see his beautiful face I miss him terribly his death was a shock the worse thing that happened to me he was 24 he was beautiful inside out fun full of life sweet gentle smart 😭he was the perfect boyfriend although our relationship was short we didn't have the time or chance to live more together I only have beautiful now painful memories of how he made me feel how we made each other feel💔 Islem bendada you made me feel like I was flying I miss you I miss going out with you hugging you kissing you I miss talking to you I miss your details im in pain and darkness I don't know if there is any hope left for me your death took all my hopes and dreams and joy

[@richardmcguinn732]

I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's. My son and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again.

[@malcolmxraw1342]

Life is precious

[@hdvisualartsprojects6759]

been 2 months since mom passed and it fuckin sucks still, she is the absolute best amazing person that wat kills me she deserves so much more fuckin sucks

[@eric43085]

thanks Jocko

[@glorialozano2199]

It's been a year since I lost my brother and it's still so hard to understand ..WHY Him..?! His favorite month was October because it was our birthday month and he was a horror Movie junkie that's the month he passed from Brain Cancer 💔 I miss him everyday!!!!

[@ZomBSnatcher4671]

Excellent way to way to embrace the inevitable, old friend. Be well always

[@himikotiro8487]

My gf died a few days ago... this changed my entire view on it,

[@joshuawilliams6866]

I am a triplet and I lost my little triplet sister 4 months ago, still feels fake

[@franks2394]

Awesome

[@tylerm7300]

Life is cruel and it will only make sense if you force it to.

[@speedybluesYT]

i lost my dad a month ago im 22 years old and im struggling

[@jagsfan0864]

Wishing you strength . Take care

[@speedybluesYT]

@@jagsfan0864 thanks bro

[@vincentrepins5825]

Go bake a tenderloin and become the man you aspire too be

[@juanleal1972]

Beautiful

[@donjonson6407]

To anyone who lost a loved one recently, GOOD. This creates an OPPORTUNITY for you to taxidermy their corpse and display them to your friends. RECHARGE. RECALIBRATE. RE-ENGAGE.

[@ThundaAaAaAaAaAh]

Right on time for Coronavirus

[@firstnamethenalastname]

good video, lose the closeup side on angle, it's just weird

[@ThePointlessBox_]

“Jocko my mom died yesterday” “FUCK YEAH BRO, THATS AN OPPORTUNITY”

[@srgvette28]

At the end of the day even if every single person you know dies you still have to get up and go to work you still have to make money to pay bills you still have to feed yourself so just accept the fact that death is natural there's no escaping it everybody you know will die including you get over it. And no I'm not some little Suburban County boy whose only funeral I've been to his my grandparents cuz they were old. I've had friends shot to death I've had friends OD I've had friends parents OD. That's life, people are born, some people make bad decisions and die early, some people make all the right decisions and then get hit by a fucking bus right after they get married and get that big promotion at work. I think part of the problem also is people have this false perception that they have any sort of control over their life and the world. And so they get it in their head that they're owed a full life when you're not owed anything, even a full life yes it sounds harsh but that is the reality and there is no getting around it.

[@katkatbukid3057]

that guy who sounded like Matt Damon just close your eyes

[@serenedelusions]

Who really gives a thumbs down to this?!?

[@MarkNOTW]

John 3:16

[@hebaelzaiani3761]

In the video jocks is wondering why do the best people leave first? The answer is that life is a test ,those good people have passed the test so there’s no need to stay any longer.

[@meidamx]

Maybe the best ones were needed elsewhere?

[@macktheripper7454]

After the death of my dad (Suicide) in 2017 the things that saved me were and are: Working out (in the beginning running was the best stress relief) writing (daily) and working. You can’t sit at home and do nothing. *edit* I’d add praying to that too. God will carry you through

[@newmanoinstagram]

That’s so positive mate. I feel for you. I wish you all the best always in life my friend ❤️🙏🏻

[@christopherbiondi13]

Well said and so sorry about your dad. ❤

[@sheriffwasted6426]

“Rejoice for those who pass onto the next life. Attachment is the shadow of greed, train yourself to release what you fear to lose. Let go of fear, and loss cannot harm you.” I’m sorry for your loss friend. I keep this in mind but it still doesn’t make it easy. It’s nice to meet someone of similar interest though. How big into the Jedi thing are you?

[@daddygarhart6900]

Currently dealing with a lot of loss in my life rn. This podcast has been so uplifting for me. Thank you sir. Thank you.

[@macktheripper7454]

@@sheriffwasted6426 not really into it .. just. Name because I see a Jedi as someone who goes above and beyond

[@ceoofswag6348]

I lost my great grandpa today. Thank you for making this video.

[@El_Lobo_Solitario]

I just lost my father. He was my world. My Motivation! My Hero! My best friend! My safety blanket! Now! Now I'll be strong for you Dad! I love you! And we all miss you!

[@jagsfan0864]

So sorry to hear that. Wishing you strength . Take care .

[@josed8712]

Thank you Jocko for your content , growing up without a father your content has helped me become a better man .

[@mike579uk]

The love of my life was murdered recently. I'm still in denial & haven't accepted it yet. I'm going to save this video to my playlist and watch it again. Jocko has always inspired me with other issues, struggles, etc - I really hope I can get through this. 💔 RIP Tara Lynn

[@chilairearts4238]

That’s heavy bro. I wish you peace in these trying times.

[@KT-lh9gp]

I just lost the love of my life so suddenly, it doesn’t feel real and I don’t see a sign of it getting any better..

[@Ipashi78]

Needed this thanks Jocko.

[@Taxmaster3000]

Lost my dad yesterday. I’m 22, just graduated college, and now it’s just me my mom and brother left. I’m extremely broken but know that I need to move on. Probably won’t see this but I appreciate these words Jocko, a true hero to all

[@katvin2337]

You do not need to move in. You only need to move forward WITH this.

[@lizmarshallfamilyvideos7344]

No moving on, just learning to carry and integrate it into your “new” life.

[@H0ndaxrider]

Thank you Jocko. I can't express how much this is helping me right now.

[@jamesseets906]

I teared up from this speech. It hits so close to home.

[@quantumcrash7266]

The hurt of the loss is like no other kind of hurt. But the pain is love. The love persists and crosses the barrier between life and death; the pain of separation from our loved one will always be there, I think. That's just how it is.

[@alexanderwilson2865]

Passing away as I see it isn't a bad thing, you transcend into another dimension and leave this hell hole that's run by Freemason shills, I don't want to die but i see dying right now as leaving this wretched Earth which is good

[@SpaceDruid999]

Nothing ever lasts for ever, and that’s how it’s gonna stay.

[@srgvette28]

Exactly. People are so wrapped up in their materialistic lives never stop to think about the things that actually matter, like spending time with people before they die because they are going to die.

[@rivalsports6276]

Jocko, you outdid yourself this time. Thank you, I really needed this.

[@corndogills2]

Hear me out. My son felt the loss of his first pet...a small fish. This fish entered his life when we were locked in our house for 8 months as he sat at a lonely desk by himself doing Zoom school every day. Staring at this small fish gave him ease and welcomed distraction. Point is, to my surprise, he's cried uncontrollably for several days at the loss of this fish. My first reaction was to dismiss it and not expect it to be a big deal. This was a huge loss for him. I could have missed the opportunity to share this video with him. Instead, after watching this, we had many long talks about life and death in a much deeper way by me respecting his pain. I know he will take this lesson when he loses people in the future. Thank you.

[@RodneyReyome]

I lost my Mom a week ago to liver cancer and spent the last week of her life by her side... this video right here. May you be blessed for making it.... I thank you....

[@t-roy13]

My dad died 2 months ago. Still dealing with it, but Jocko just put into words what his death made me realize. Life is precious. Life is short. Live it. Side note, it also was the final push to start Jiu-Jitsu. Oos

[@BEERBOMB113]

Reading through these comments and see a lot of young people (14, 17, 20, 21, 23) who have lost their mothers fathers or sisters... My sister and I almost lost my mother last month a couple days after my 23rd birthday and we are fortunate enough to have come together to support her through weeks at the hospital. Moms a lot better but her life won't be the same. I pray to the higher power with gratitude that she's still strong and not suffering. Let us worry not. Thanks Jocko and thanks fellow KZbinrs. I am sorry for the loss you've all had to endure. Stay strong.

[@gourdlord2112]

Lost my mom this past thanksgiving. Missed a call from her that day and won’t ever forgive myself for not being there to answer. Still break down every time I think about it. She was only 46, tried to get her to take better care of herself but addiction got the best of her. We had a rocky relationship but I’d be lying if I said I wouldn’t give anything to talk to her again. Best wishes to anyone coping with the death of a loved one.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Well said by Jocko. We always need to remember how people lived, because if we miss them or mourn their loss, it means they had a significant and important impact during their life

[@ethankrafft9386]

Last september i lost my aunt to cancer and the only thing she wanted to do before she passed away was to see her youngest of 3 graduate high school. All she wanted was 2 years to see him graduate. All of this hits so closely to me. I miss her every day and even typing this right now I am crying. One of the things she wanted to see was see me play tennis. She never got to. I'm 16 and now I have dedicated this season to her because I know that she may not be watching physically, but she is watching me up above. Whether I win or lose I may cry after every match that I play out of happiness because I know she'll be proud of me no matter the outcome.