Dealing with toxic partners || Acharya Prashant, Vedant Mahotsav at IISc Bangalore (2022)

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Video Information: 09.09.2022, Vedant Mahotsav, IISc Bangalore
Context:
~ How to come out of a toxic relationship?
~ What to do if my spouse beats me?
~ How to tackle violence in a relationship?
~ Why are people afraid to move on?
~ Why do we get into abusive marriages?
~ Who are our mentors today?
~ What is the impact of movies you watch?
Music Credits: Milind Date

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When sufferings labelled as justice, there is no question of freedom from sufferings. 🙏🙏👍

[@ramz2184]

Brutal truth.Society needs to change their mindsets.

[@joyetahazra2864]

Nothing in life is irreversible. The only thing that you never compromise on, never negotiate on is the central purpose of life, and that is liberation.

[@BD721able]

Great advice by Acharya Prashant, on an important topic in today’s times: Dealing with toxic partners (dealing with toxic societal conditioning actually!) Please do not expose your children/ grandchildren to movies or music which revolve around romanticizing man-woman relationship and making that a life purpose. Please watch what goes in through 5 senses in the children. I am also guilty of this. I let my son watch Bollywood movies & listen to the songs in his impressionable childhood. I have a lot of rectification to do now. Thank you Acharya Ji for this enlightening video! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Only Acharya prasant ji can save present and future generation.

[@Rishurao]

*We are Born for Something Higher* *in Life.* 🔥🔥 Please, please, kindly understand this thing. 🙏🙏

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Great eye opening session We are blessed to have such a great guru like acharya ji to guide us to the right path Wisdom literatures must be taught right from young age so that people will not fall for wrong things in life and can avoid suffering, which is not due to past sin, suffering is our own choice, we can change it, it is not inevitable or irreversible. Thankyou Acharya ji

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Society is born, when the individual loses his individuality. - Tarun

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43:50, you have the power, nobody is born to suffer. Suffering is a choice.

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If you find suffering is inevitable, atleast choose the higher suffering 🔥

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One of the most memorable answers by Acharya ji. 🙏🙏🙏. I would need to hear this many many times to understand and internalize.

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17:27 - 20:06 20:23 - 21:26 24:37 - 24:53 24:56 - 25:57 Thanks Acharyaji 🙏🏼

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The ending is quite bitter with the truest taste of truth.Naman Acharya ji🙏You always make us look into things with a complete vision.

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जीवन सार्थक हो गया, जबसे सत गुरु जीवन में आए! सत सत नमन आचार्य जी 🙏🙇💯🥰 आप न होते तो कैसा जीवन होता, कल्पना करना भी दुखदाई है🥺

[@preetinarwal2591]

Thanks a lot sir.....I have so many changes in my life....I had done many mistakes in my life ....now I m suffered....I want to be out from these suffering...

[@kahaniwithnaga]

Thanks acharya ji for choosing to teach vedanta, it has deep positive impact on my life. Thanks for clearity on this relationship issue

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Nothing in life is irreversible 🙏🙏💯

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We can never thank enough to Aacharya ji 🙏🙏🙏

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Naman Acharya Ji 🌺🙏

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Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

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We learn a lot from ACHARYA JI.

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We are born for something more in life 🔥

[@nehaatwal1462]

40:28, your suffering is your own choice. You choose to remain the sufferer, you can opt out the suffering. By choosing to suffer more you are not getting any better.

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Gratitude acharya ji 🙏🏻

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Great knowledge shared in this session...eye opening and liberating🙏👍

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Anand or joy is the name of higher suffering. Gratitude acharya ji❣️🙏

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Charan Sparsha Acharya Ji… Koti Koti Naman 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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I'm thankful to Acharaya Prashant ji today that I took life decisions where I chose to opt out of suffering

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Closing note is super sir. I feel touching your feet 🙏

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Thanks a lot Acharya ji....🙏🙏🙏😊

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Pranam acharya ji🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Your vedios are eye opener 🙏💪

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Lots and lots of gratitude acharyaji 🙏🙏🙏

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Another eye-opening session 🔥🔥🔥

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29:40, Give your life something worthwhile, not to some average Joe or Janes.....👍

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THANKYOU FOR THIS🙏

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Thank you Acharya ji, I was thinking is it only my thought process is this way. these kind of vedios should reach many 🙏

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Thank you sooooo much Aacharya ji🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

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It is neither compulsory nor irreversible You have a choice.

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Thank you ! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Gratitude❤ 🙏

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Namaste Guruji 🙏🏻 Amazing information. Your message can save all the relationships. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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Namaste Acharya Ji.🔥🔥🙏🙏

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It is neither compulsory nor irreversible!! 25:25

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Great insight Prashant ji Thanks

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[@BD721able]

We choose what we value. Watch your mind truthfully & see where your values lie- With suffering or with bliss?

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If you find suffering is inevitable atleast choose the higher suffering. Thank you acharya ji for providing this precious vedantic knowlege for free of cost. 🙏❣️

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Gratitude Acharya ji 🙏❤️

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Great content are also available in the world. But there are very few amount of people in the world who actually wants to consume them. And acharya ji your content is Kind to be diamond 💎. But wo kahete hai na hire 💎 ki pachan jauhori ko hi hoti hai. There are very few jauhari present in the world

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Thank you sir ❤️

[@PiyushGrover]

“Well known major cause of mental health problems is the institution of marriage” Would like to dig deep into the data/reports. I would be grateful if some reports/findings can be shared because google results says otherwise.

[@UnmayaSolren]

Acharya Ji is right 100 %. All the below are closely coupled with marriage institution and it is obvious. 1. Rat race in the name of Education. 2. Competition/Jelousy/Ambition to get govt jobs. 3. Indirect rat race during bride/groom selection. 4. Physical/Mental Abuse. 5. Divorce. 6. Mental trauma related to relationship/Child upbringing/Financial fluctuation. 7. False responsibilities(to satiate our own lust/insecurities) taught in the name of morality. We also have the right to brainwash ourselves with special investigation reports that says otherwise. If we are honest, Reasons are obvious. Only way we can save ourselves is to Opt out.

[@Ganitiya_Saundarya]

Yes, @prabha is right. Our reports won’t directly say that studying for govt. job is related to marriage. Hence, classify it as mental problem due to studies. NO! It is due to marriage.

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Isn't it obvious? Simply take a look at our surroundings.

[@nidhi6699]

You don’t need google reports you just have to look around .. Married people are miserable but pretend otherwise. And the impart their own trauma to their children and the cycle continues.

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39:20, For sure...

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excellent i will take care of this

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45:17, there are bigger things in life than a girl and a boy, a man and a woman, husband and wife. These are small things.

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Check your inner designing of your thoughts, that must be known to you, from where thoughts are originated. Who is doer?? Thankfulness Acharya ji

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Nothing is normal for me now and I too ask such questions which people are shocked to hear

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Just wow

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Real bad situation. How to stop our children from this situation. Pl. Continue your efforts. Atleast few will change.

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Life changing

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Beware from where you get your entertainment. -AP

[@daraiusdubash]

It is very well known that the major cause of all kind of mental problems is the institution of marriage. The extent to which this institution causes neurosis is unmatched by any other cause. The urge to not miss out on something extremely important and central. Do we see how much of our lives are dictated by the forces of entertainment? Right from the age of 6 or 8, we are forcefully made to believe that the purpose of life is to chase a man or woman. And the highest ideal of life is to spend time with some nice and ideal person. That ideal is engrained in our minds from a very early age and it refuses to leave us even after we turn 80 or 90. Life is not for a noble cause. Life is not for liberation. life is not for knowledge. life is not for exploration. Life is for romance. Why o you have so many husband wife jokes? Just to mitigate the suffering a little. Just to be able to laugh at your own sorry situation a little. Why don't you have mother-son jokes? Because without joking it would be even more difficult to tolerate. Who has taught you to put up with daily torture and abuse. Who declared that to be your destiny? That's why wisdom literature at a young age is so important, so that you may have higher ideals - especially girls. You must have great ideals in life, read great books, watch great movies, seek the company of greats, so that you can think beyond this man-woman game. There is not problem with being a man or woman. The problem lies in compulsiveness. The problem lies in the feeling that this is compulsory or irreversible. Is this what you're born for? Do you have nothing better in life to do? Be very mindful where you get your entertainment from. In the name of entertainment, we get a lot of poison. As you sink deeper into entertainment, you find that you need more and more entertainment. Because you suffer so much that entertainment becomes necessary. Do not take things as right just because they are normal. There is a difference between something being normal and something being right. This association that man is incomplete without a woman and woman is incomplete without a man is false, false, and false. You understand the question? A false morality has been implanted within. If someone is dangerous and toxic and coming close just to infect you, are you not entitled to take care of yourself. Your suffering is not your own stored Karma. Your suffering is your own choice. You choose to remain the sufferer. You can opt out of the suffering. Anand or Joy is nothing but the name of higher suffering. Why must you suffer like an animal in yoke? The man cannot be your God, the woman cannot be your Goddess. Stop this madness. If you had any fondness for anything high in life, you would have turned yourself into a de-facto god. Look what you're dedicated to - some piece of flesh. Tell me what is the primary qualification of your husband or wife? Let's be blunt - the primary qualification is the genital organ.

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And the most horrible is false 498A cases

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39:45, that person is toxic.

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Suffering is sin.

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[@saurav_advait]

🔅Why must you act as if you're helpless and powerless? Why must you behave as if there is no choice? 🔅The curse that we experience in our daily lives acts both ways. We feel compelled to stay in rotten relationships. Also, we feel constrained from entering the right relationships. 🔅You must have great ideals in life. Read great books, watch great movies, seek the company of the greats so that you think beyond this man-woman game. 🔅There is no problem with being a man or a woman. The problem lies in compulsiveness. The problem lies in the feeling that it is compulsory and irreversible. 🔅Hundreds of better options are available when it comes to having a great purpose for life. You were not born to worship some person of the opposite gender of your own age. 🔅Have something worth attending to then you will automatically become oblivious to all the nonsense in the world. 🔅Be so immersed in the right thing that you are left with no space, no time, no attention to spare on all the general normal nonsense. 🔅Be very mindful of where you get your entertainment from. In the name of entertainment, we ingest a lot of poison. A Lot of our entertainment is just about getting deeper into bondages. And then as you seek deeper into bondages, you find you need more and more entertainment. Because you suffer so much that entertainment becomes necessary. 🔅Learn to ask some basic questions. Do not take things as right just because they are normal. There is a difference between something being normal and something being right. 🔅This association that man is incomplete without a woman and a woman is incomplete without a man is false, false and false. 🔅Your suffering is your own choice. You choose to remain the sufferer. You can opt out of the suffering. 🔅If you find suffering is inevitable, at least choose the higher suffering. If you have to suffer, suffer at least honourably, for a higher cause, for the sake of freedom. 🔅If you have to suffer, suffer like a worrier, fighting a great battle. 🔅Look what you're dedicated to. Some piece of flesh, whose primary qualification is that the gender it carries is opposite of what you have. How high or sublime is that?

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