ASMR In A Graveyard

[@alicescott3770]

it’s the calling them “vintage” for me LMFAO

[@milenajovanovic3104]

Same 😂

[@chihuahua300]

he was trying to be respectful...??

[@harlow4095]

@@chihuahua300 how is that respectful?

[@alicescott3770]

@@chihuahua300 i wasn’t criticizing him i was saying it was just like funny bc they’re so old but he said vintage like they’re stylish or smth LOL

[@chihuahua300]

@@alicescott3770 yeah i just feel bad JzhzjshshahahIsbskfks everyones being so mean

[@Oliver-yf2tl]

This dude be calling the tombstones vintage like he’s shopping in urban outfitters

[@Donglover000]

Just a reminder that people have preferences

[@bella-ge2ke]

@@Donglover000 what

[@Donglover000]

@@bella-ge2ke what

[@bella-ge2ke]

@@Donglover000 what

[@Donglover000]

@@bella-ge2ke what

[@cassandra238]

People forget that graveyards originally were used as parks to eat and laugh near their dead friends and family.

[@dc9067]

Dark

[@redvelvet6969]

@@dc9067 Not really it was supposed to be this whole idea where death shouldn't be a scary thing and both living and dead could be together in happy moments

[@dc9067]

@@redvelvet6969 well yeah

[@Arcania9516]

Stan.

[@juju-be4279]

Oddly wholesome 🥰

[@toxin7111]

Imagine dying and sitting on your grave and suddenly a guy came around the corner and started whispering and tapping on your grave. I'd want that

[@charlottequercus]

And then say: omg this is so vintage! While tapping on ur gravestone

[@andreao.2722]

Where do i sign up

[@The_Rhino1997]

Is that not disrespectful to mess with someone’s grave

[@quandlecredit7745]

You are rigth thats evil

[@saphiquefemme]

I wouldn't like that! Don't disturb my peace when I'm dead. Seriously I hate being woke up. 😤

[@crookedanchors]

"maybe this gravestone was for like a dog or a cat or something. it's very tiny." the infant most likely buried there: not quite

[@kairoblues9406]

So disrespectful lmao

[@sparky8197]

@@lyndleecox What happens when people don't have God, sorry to say but don't think he does.

[@kairoblues9406]

@@sophlaransanford145 to tell him it's disrespectful, like many other people did.

[@skyyy9121]

@@sparky8197 huh??

[@sparky8197]

@@skyyy9121 Jesus is coming.

[@neotreo92]

I can see both points of this. But he does show big respect while he taps, he is careful, describing and being careful, at the same time I can see how people find it disturbing. But no ones is destroying anything, no one is actually being rude or disrespectful. Most likely there is no relatives left, it doesn’t look like that (or no one care fo them). And maybe this is the first time in a longtime anyone actually visit just those gravestones, now we are thousands of people thinking of these peoples in the grave. They are brought back “to life” in our thoughts.

[@peepee9073]

This. This perfectly explains it.

[@analukac5301]

this is such a positive view, i hope it's that way fr

[@jay_1001]

yes! you explained it perfectly!

[@thematch5858]

U should be the disclaimer

[@marpro5610]

Perfect explanation

[@emilyd6618]

May all of their souls Rest In Peace.

[@willfletcher8955]

They dead. There fate has already been decided.

[@Emily-tf6gz]

Same name and same innicial like me lmao twins

[@xsxnnystar8844]

@@willfletcher8955 o dang

[@offisied]

What shoes they get on

[@xsxnnystar8844]

@@offisied Vans?

[@pastelcorpse3580]

Why must we keep graveyards so damn depressing? Graveyards were originally made to celebrate lives and represent parks. When i’m dead I HOPE people visit where I lay & have fun around me.

[@nora1423]

also in a lot of cultures death is just a part of life and the days dedicated to dead people are not a way to commemorate the dead person in a sad way, but to remember their life with good memories and “celebrate” them

[@boiledtoes]

i love this comment

[@skullzforu]

Fr tho if I die I’d be happy if someone tapped my grave for a ASMR video then said thank you, I’d rather have someone be happy near my grave instead of crying near it

[@WaffledPigeon]

Fr tho, I’d be happy as hell if other people hung out near my gravestone (as long as they be respectful to it, so like no breaking it), in some ways it even sounds really nice to know that other people who had no relation to you during your life still notice you

[@Jonibear22]

Just default dance on my grave, just don't dig be up

[@martinabaduraquarellmalere947]

The anchors can mean that the person was a sailor and/or died on sea

[@martinabaduraquarellmalere947]

Its also a symbol of hope, for some maybe for the eternal life :)

[@milo8818]

Oh wow I didn’t know that that’s actually really cool

[@ace6645]

thanks for sharing :)

[@zoeysealey5181]

Personally, I think it’s nice to shed some light on tombstones that most likely don’t get as many visitors. The ones shown were from long ago. As a side note, the little stones are likely due to having less money than those with larger tombstones, animals are not typically buried among humans in graveyards.

[@abbey9216]

i think a lot of the small tombstones are for infants. my brother passed away due to a miscarriage very late on, and he has one of those small stones

[@yasuhohirose2340]

Oh well I've seen some graveyards in my place (I only visited 2 till now) burying animals with humans, I didnt know that was the case for you guys! Interesting.

[@Isabelw3]

The really big ones are usually not one person bit a family then the family members will be buried around it.

[@thatonedude7553]

Hes tapping on random peoples gravestones and walking over them-

[@skin4700]

If he tould what happened to the people that died then its ok, but he acted like they were some stuff that he found in his room and tapped on them.

[@simonelijum]

Day 3 of requesting: *Conan Gray does your make up and gossips about Heather*

[@Alphamatsu]

omg I would love that 🧑‍🦲

[@calswildflcwer8556]

yesss he literally reminds me of conan sm

[@simonelijum]

@@calswildflcwer8556 ikrrrrrr

[@simonelijum]

@@babyaquarius4331 YES! FR WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?! His videos are so creative, entertaining and tingly :)

[@siobhanmcf2667]

Oh tjissssss

[@teddy2271]

Some of y'all talk about how dean disrespects the dead when most of you can't even respect the living 💀💀

[@myriambelecc]

RIGHT

[@rawr2615]

PERIODT

[@Sambradders-qz6ws]

Your deluded

[@acneify]

LMAO

[@alice-cj3tb]

@@Sambradders-qz6ws And you’re a joke 🥺🥺🥺

[@corpseparty0u0]

Imma keep it real...he didn’t go to a modern cemetery. I live around the same area as him and there are a lot of historical graveyards/cemeteries where there are historical sections where the only visitors are people who come in to do the paper and crayon grave rubbing thing. If he was in a modern cemetery and was visiting people who died within recent years with fresh flowers on their graves, then sure, super rude...but these people who passed in 1900 are not getting visitors.

[@delaneygrace3569]

finally, I’ve found someone who shares the same opinion as me!

[@RinRinAngel]

Agreed.

[@pastelcorpse3580]

What’s the difference? Visitors or not, everyone should be respected. And he IS being respectful here so I don’t see the problem.

[@corpseparty0u0]

@@pastelcorpse3580 Of course generally everyone should be respected in both life and death, I was just noting that if he did it at a more modern cemetery where there was a chance someone’s daughter or brother or whatever was coming to visit their fresh grave, crying their eyes out, and arrived just to see him filming it and whispering, “ok miss ghost!” that they might not have the same appreciation, lmao 😭 I just meant that I think it was a responsible choice to film in a quieter cemetery where the pain of mourning may not be as fresh.

[@veronicaave4787]

@@pastelcorpse3580 being disrespectful is defacing the property in which he IS NOT 🙄 him making jokes and tapping isnt causing any harm relax

[@lonelynovember2835]

Imagine if a ghost just pop-up and say ”ok, could you repeat that trigger at night?”

[@AT-vo8zm]

lmao

[@mochi5212]

Lol

[@senator5975]

Ghosts meanwhile : wtf is this dude doing? we must go to his home and do the same on doors

[@deleted1803]

Lol

[@msanna4]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rolledsleeves97]

funny because this ‘ghost knocking on doors’ thing is literally happening in some parts of Malaysia right now 😂

[@brigitapimenova1396]

LOLLLL

[@sal4649]

best comment so far

[@sar6562]

there is a very old and historic cemetery in my town. amazing place. i go frequently just to look around. i don’t touch anything and try to avoid stepping on graves but when the graveyard is older and has less order, it’s hard to not. i go to just read the graves and look around at the scenery. i really don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. it’s also a historic cemetery so no family will be there. the graves are from the 1800s and it’s with good intentions.

[@mnshima08]

"They died 1892, wow that's like a thousand years ago" Deans math is on point 😂

[@connorc5656]

Holy haha 😂😂

[@Ana-anna9]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aanyaprasad6120]

i think its 108 years actually, don't come for me if it wrong it did it quickly in my head

[@nanerz519]

To be exact 128 years...just saying

[@elweydelosdibujos7885]

well, as a fellow gay i remember you, we can't do math lol

[@hannahbull]

if dean doesn’t tap on my gravestone I’m haunting him

[@hihi8921]

That’s what i said hahaha

[@deviiltownn]

LMAOO😭😭

[@angieivezaj1526]

SAME LMAO

[@SpocksVersion]

Same

[@bella9154]

U

[@jay_1001]

I found these sounds very relaxing, and personally I think it’s sweet that he’s giving attention to these graves that have honestly probably been forgotten. He even thanks a lot of them after tapping, I think that’s a good thing to do

[@cryptcr3ature81]

More people should visit old graveyards, read the tombstones and reflect on what the people's lives might have been like.

[@royalpain9939]

I agree. I hope long after I'm gone people still visit my gravestone. Even if it's strangers

[@EanTheMan]

POV a ghost is watching this right now

[@FoodIsOverrated]

I'm the 69th like... You're welcome.

[@pdninjaa315]

I am the ghost

[@sylviarodriguez7853]

Lol

[@nicolas_h4161]

I'm the ghost I was born in 1756 👻

[@perppull]

It's pink from electrical. She was killed by black.

[@sscaglione94]

*Sees 1918 tombstone and guesses Civil War and Cold War* WWI: "Am I a joke to you?"

[@bean.gangbanger7360]

There was a cold war in 1918?

[@Hoss04-05]

THANKYOU jesus the kid needs to learn about history.

[@bellac3630]

Well I suppose that ww1 wasn’t as important in America as it was in the uk or Germany as US wasn’t really involved until the middle/end

[@AlondraNC]

He: sooo vINtAgE

[@skin4700]

@@bean.gangbanger7360 No

[@jaasonmiller]

I think it’s nice to “introduce” us to tombs who probably don’t even get visitors anymore like those from 100 years ago. Coco taught me spirits loved to be remembered. Now I know Preston, Melvin, the wife of A.W Murphy, etc. If you get offended then click off.

[@butterflyasmr711]

Thank you for this comment!♥︎🥰

[@tako5916]

Respects to you man

[@monicaailyn4816]

We do ofrendas for our ancestors. It’s a very beautiful time

[@ia2470]

not coco 😭 but beautiful message tho

[@Em-wq9cn]

Same I thought about this movie too and how ppl are saying it’s disrespectful but in dia de los muertos they are running around partying to celebrate their ancestors... please forgive me if I spelled dia de lo muertos wrong ✨

[@jasmine10799]

“He died in 1918 back during the Cold War 💕”

[@mariepret3903]

Yeah because ya know, what’s a 30 year difference? War is war lol 😂

[@alexolson8406]

“Civil war or maybe the Cold War” went from the 1860s to the 1950s real quick 😂

[@aid2381]

@@mariepret3903 maybe work on your reading skills, he was honoring the man for being in the cold war

[@mariepret3903]

@@aid2381 maybe mind your business, I know exactly what he was doing lol it wasn’t shade on my part. He just mentioned the wrong war.

[@aid2381]

@@mariepret3903 I can't mind my business on the internet. Because well.. It's the internet lol

[@youparejo]

I was expecting a "sassy" one or many jokes. But this was actually respectful and appropriate, and sweet he thanked the gravestones. The only disrespect was towards History dates lmao

[@szeponzi]

Oh he died in 1918 so around cold War xD

[@analypalacios2769]

Lmfaoooooo @cold war 🤣🤣

[@shay2262]

no he was disrespectful all around

[@bella9154]

B

[@bella9154]

H

[@Usakko]

I used to work at a graveyard and I have no idea why some people think this is disrespectful. He didn't cause any commotion and it's not like you're not allowed to touch the stones. I've seen people do way worse things (sit on them etc)

[@Travishatz]

Calling them sugar daddy’s that is 100% not ok….

[@thatweirdodaniel]

people are like "i would be offended if he did that to my relatives gravestones" be honest,, when was the last time you visited them? if i was one of the spirits there, i would appreciate the company. no one really visits graveyards anymore because of the stigmas that they're haunted or that bad things happen in them. he's only lightly tapping the gravestones and being sarcastic i dont know what the big deal is.

[@bumblevip4714]

I visit all my relatives gravestones once a week since they are all in the same cemetery. But still, I wouldn't be offended if he did this in one of my family's gravestones

[@americanpiez]

I wouldn't mind if he was tapping on graves but that's not my place to say I know he was being sarcastic but you don't call gravestones "vintage" as if its some kind of friends t shirt

[@deadicated9525]

Who are you to question that? I visit the graveyard once every 2 weeks. Fuck off, this is disrespectful. Stop trying to defend it

[@godlydesire]

The big deal is him getting the dates wrong lmao (jk)

[@godlydesire]

Deadicated X no need for profanity just tell him u do go

[@mojom7564]

Tbh, I think him being relaxing and giving attention to the graves is actually rather sweet

[@reaper1658]

yeah but he’s being disrespectful for stepping on the graves and touching there stones. thats like doing asmr with dead ppl

[@xtalfinn]

@@reaper1658it’s not

[@raizuwi0004]

​@@xtalfinnstop giving vague replies and tell them why😭

[@reaper1658]

@@xtalfinn bro what do u mean

[@jasonbenavidez]

No it's not if u knew a guy that died and u went to go visit his grave and u see someone doing this would u find it "rather sweet's"

[@Cherry-oj6eo]

Fun Fact😋😋: The anchor is actually a symbol of hope, steadfastness, and eternal life. It's mostly found on sailors' headstones. Masons used it as a symbol of well-grounded hope. Early Christians used it as a disguised symbol of the cross.

[@OldGrandmaCouch]

That’s an awesome fun fact

[@Cherry-oj6eo]

@@OldGrandmaCouch Aww thanks🥰🥰

[@sunmi2539]

Wow

[@artisticallykaylee7440]

Oh no this is gonna be controversial-

[@abbeygibson9813]

That’s what I was thinking

[@abbeygibson9813]

Mmh just don’t know about that i kinda see this a little disrespectful in some parts

[@ASMRfleur]

@mysterious alien very different kind of triggers lmao

[@tomfod96]

*Logan Paul has left the chat*

[@KurdishMuslim99]

mysterious alien omg 💀💀💀💀

[@johannagochez6356]

If I was dead I would like if someone was tapping on my gravestone :)

[@idkwhatgoeswithsausages]

Same it’s a way to not be forgotten

[@deadicated9525]

If I was dead I wouldn’t :)

[@m1ll1eb0bbybr0wn]

@@deadicated9525 good for you💀

[@deadicated9525]

@@m1ll1eb0bbybr0wn I wasn’t talking to you 💀

[@m1ll1eb0bbybr0wn]

@@deadicated9525 public comment section babe ;)

[@lilly.franco]

7:28 “that’s like 1000 years ago.” I’m dead 💀✋🏼😭

[@xchibikiller2005]

yeah wtf

[@ImmyThomson]

IKR

[@ninac1954]

as someone who walked through a cemetrary everyday to get to school, this is not disrespectful. I've seen people in costumes and alcohol containers on the ground, worse has been done in a cemetary

[@justvibin7883]

What kind of costumes

[@dc9067]

@@justvibin7883 BDSM ones

[@justvibin7883]

@@dc9067 most likely 💀

[@creepyclowness2520]

I wish I had to go through a cemetery to get to school

[@szeponzi]

@@creepyclowness2520 not op but I also used to walk through cemetery to get to my tram stop. There were cemrnetry workers sweeping the leaves and other similarly staff. :)

[@mandsviieira]

when I first clicked the video I was a little frightened because some people are kinda disrespectful doing videos at graveyard. but trevor was so polite and respectful the whole video🥺🥺

[@lillianking08]

Finally, someone with a good mind. :)

[@gianna5468]

uhhhh trevor what was that a audio correct

[@strangeanimations588]

@@gianna5468 auto correct

[@cringe_lord8958]

yey someone who as brain cells

[@rnelan1e]

@@cringe_lord8958 PLSSSSS ✋just because someone finds something unappealing doesn’t mean that they don’t have brain cells, miss gacha

[@pinkaimeesuh]

He literally said multiple times that he respects these people that have passed. He is being gentle and quiet and had said thank you multiple times. He has no mal intent and made multiple disclaimers. I think this is being blown out of proportion as usual.

[@squishapricot4890]

POV: you’re scrolling through the comments trying to find the triggered pplz

[@spyllblud]

Lmao yeah, but why do people get triggered? Gravestones are made with strong materials, they can't break down by some taps. Also, he isn't vandalizing or disrespecting anything.

[@4shotss]

@@spyllblud they get triggered because a graveyard is not a place to tap for asmr triggers, people need to rest in peace.

[@littlechungussss]

we found one

[@mjtchj]

“pplz”

[@tre7523]

I'm not christian but I would not want people going tapping on me or my parents when I die

[@kaitlin7864]

"for a dog or a cat maybe" :'( honey babies die too

[@nora1423]

it could also be poor people that couldn’t afford bigger gravestones

[@lily.s.]

I didn't know that either (in my country babies usually don't get smaller gravestones)

[@CloudDistrict7]

@A&E fam 🤣🤡🤣🤡

[@meliemays1917]

299th like

[@kaitlin7864]

@A&E fam I call everyone honey as a form of endearment, not to be rude.

[@mimilil1750]

at first i was a bit sceptical and afraid that this would go into the wrong direction (aka the "goth" that danced on graves lmao) but i was pleasantly surprised! you were respectful in the way you treated the gravestones (being gentle, pointing out what you like about them, thanking them after you were done tapping). you also chose old gravestones, which i liked for two reasons: it ensures nobody sees you tapping on the grave on their recently passend grandma and gives some love to the gravestones that aren't visited often! and while i can see how people could find this video disturbing and disrespectful, i have to agree with the people that think this is an oddly wholesome way to honor the death. and if anything, dean isn't disturbing them, he is only tapping them into further peace! :>

[@3ll3llyyy]

if you mean the goth girl on tiktok who only danced on one, im pretty sure that was her dads (if not sorry lol)

[@blobfishbeans]

No, her dad is alive. She did that on some random guy's grave. That was a weird time😭

[@Kubzscout]

@@blobfishbeans@?

[@kikiwannabananawatermelonmango]

@@KubzscoutSnowthesaltqueen I think. They shot one of their younger friends and went to prison recently 🫤

[@Kubzscout]

@@kikiwannabananawatermelonmango WHAT

[@roadblock6760]

I lived next to a cemetery for almost 10 years of my life and I can say this was not rude or disrespectful and he was actually very respectful and polite, you guys need to chill, I've seen people pee on gravestones

[@skin4700]

In my country if you did this your getting beat up

[@fer965]

@@skin4700 exusse me- did- they- beat u up- dude-

[@ennisivy279]

@@skin4700 good thing he ain't in your country then huh. Get over it man, no one cares

[@bloom069]

Proof???

[@thepersonwhoasked540]

@@bloom069 why???

[@osamaal-humaimidi1481]

His tapping is so powerful he puts people to sleep permanently

[@madselisabeth02]

omfg😭

[@lacy01]

noo😭😭😭

[@firelordzuko4862]

You can’t say that nooo🤣

[@Farahkandil]

💀💀

[@ev9u]

@@Farahkandil just like the people in the grave yard

[@celia2116]

dean rlly said: “REST in peace ✌🏼😋”

[@jaasonmiller]

Your comment needs more recognition 😂

[@rae1687]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@dotheroar4142]

When??

[@Em-wq9cn]

Underrated comment 🤣

[@whatisthisbro]

nah he said step step step on their grave

[@priv0839]

There’s reasons this isn’t illegal.don’t get me wrong, people are sensitive about different things and that’s fine but please click off if your not interested or get offended. He gave a tw at the start, he isnt saying anything offensive(he was saying thank you and saying he was trying to be respectful ab it)personally I wouldn’t care if someone was tapping my tomb stone(I’m dead ffs, I would literally be a corpse getting eaten by bugs in the ground). If I saw someone tapping my grandads tombstone for example, I would be a bit weirded out but not angry. I would politely ask them to leave and go to another one to give me space. Half these tombstones are really old so nobody’s visiting them anymore like I’m hardly gonna track down my great great great grandmas tombstone and visit it.Also like he said, no one was there so what they don’t know can’t hurt them

[@LaurenGodmer]

Yes i agree he even says like thank you to them for letting him tap on it he’s being respectful

[@tokyotalk8259]

@@LaurenGodmer what if he was tapping on ur grandmas grave?

[@gabrielpink]

@@tokyotalk8259 I honestly wouldn't mind as long as it was just tapping and his words were fine

[@tokyotalk8259]

@@gabrielpink bruh it's really not funny at all about what u just said.

[@yourlocalstaledorito5829]

@@tokyotalk8259 its not disrespectful, he used kind words he even said thank you. no one was there, he didnt vandalize anything. so why you mad? i’m pretty sure no one visits those graves, more than half of those people died in the 1900’s, most likely no one has spoken of them or visited their graves in a while. so i see it as a way to “bring them back to life” as long as he’s being nice thats all that matters. now stfu with yo goku bape wearin ass, go outside stop bein mad in the comments

[@arianaschilling]

"I'm getting like mold in my nails, it's kinda gross"

[@samterry2000]

I read your comment just as he said it haha

[@Brandon-go5oq]

@@samterry2000 same lol

[@champagne6933]

@@samterry2000 same wtf

[@Juliannafoster]

" Hopefully, They Will Feel My Respects When I Tap On Them" THAT'S WHY HE'S MY FAV

[@uamazeme2146]

His asmr: amazing✨ His knowledge of history: amusing✨ (Just a joke)

[@sambuys6415]

Fr I snorted so hard when he said the Cold War about 1918 he’s so precious lol

[@vocodabaddest]

It's a joke!! just like his knowledge of history 🥺💓

[@jaylenedasleeze]

LMFAOOOOO

[@fairyLinkk]

​@MOZ552a year later and I still agree with you lol

[@THTETFOREVER]

@@vocodabaddestyo hold up wait a minute somethin a right

[@freyax6587]

Graveyards were originally a place for people to have picnics and be happy near their deceased loved ones. Nowadays they’ve become more abandoned & lonely because they’ve almost been turned into something negative & people are so scared of being disrespectful. Which I think is kinda sad in a way.

[@skin4700]

Who tf would go and have a picnic in a graveyard

[@deadicated9525]

Stop trying to excuse this

[@freyax6587]

@@deadicated9525 not excusing anything, simply stating a fact about graveyards original purpose.

[@freyax6587]

@@skin4700 back then the atmosphere in them was completely different, you only think that now because nowadays they’re mainly empty & quite eery. but if you think about it, many people spent time at the graveyards having picnics etc. so the vibe was the same as any other park or place where people relax.

[@hellur550]

@@deadicated9525 Excuse what? You’re acting as if he’s physically harming the gravestone. He isn’t doing anything wrong. Calm down.

[@dorian1364]

Yall acting like he destroyed these stones, painted them or whatever. Do you realize that if in few years someones gonna buy that place he will bprobably destroy all the stones?

[@Arcania9516]

Sensitive over non existent comments that are against Dean? Ok....

[@delaneygrace3569]

I see what you’re saying but Actually, it’s illegal to destroy someone’s head stone, disrupt their burial site and etc. highly doubtful for someone to purchase the land “in a couple of years” if ever.

[@jinxk1043]

@@delaneygrace3569 some places they do that, idk if that’s illegal? but where i live they did that and build homes and parks. and what about destroying them so they can be replaced by other dead people. what about that?

[@milo8818]

@@tosjanechapman5447 where I’m from you can do that

[@Arcania9516]

@@milo8818 Where is that?

[@daddychill6473]

so i live right by a cemetery and let me tell u first going there i had the stigma in my mind that it’s “creepy” or bad to be going there, but as time went on i grew on to it . i could get out alone (wether i rly needed to get out of my house or just needed some fresh air) and look at all the stones dating all the way back to 1790 !! i’ve done research on some of these people and have really admired a lot of them . now bc of the dumb snow i haven’t been there in a bit and tbh it makes me feel bad ... almost like i left that small cemetery alone for a while . no one ever visits it either :(

[@snazzycat5480]

"Hopefully they can feel my respects when I'm tapping on their gravestones" 💀💀 I'm dead (No pun intended)

[@marli1904]

wELL AT LEAST DEAN HAS HIS NEXT VICTIM 💀

[@sunmi2539]

SICKK

[@keniaakridgearts]

Btw, this video is really not offensive at all. He's just walking around showing us the different kinds of tombstones that's there. He didn't bring an spirit board or any of that. He's just showing us the graves and tapping on the tombstones. If your sensitive to that, simply don't watch the video. Not trying to be disrespectful or anything, just gotta let ppl know bc everyone gets offended by everything these days....

[@けつあな確定-r6x]

Ikr

[@gyalsnextman4725]

It’s not that it’s offensive it’s how he’s talking about the grave stones remember they’re family members to other people you would hate to see a 5’5 gay kid tapping on your grandads gravestone whispering into a mic that he’s getting mold in his nails

[@mia7-411]

@@gyalsnextman4725 Idk what him being gay has to do with this but agree with the other part. would be offended if someone was tapping on my relatives' graves

[@nickb1156]

He doesn't have to start twerking on the graves to be disrespectful. The fact that he is filming an asmr video (meant for relaxation and entertainment) in a cemetery (meant for mourning and remembrance), is disrespectful on its own.

[@jasmincoplin665]

@@gyalsnextman4725 why tf does him being gay have anything to do with anything.?? Get over yourself

[@kqyla8145]

i feel like the spirits would be very pleased to have visitors though? it's not like he's saying anything bad or disrespectful to them. as someone who visits the graveyard often, I found this pretty comforting. that's just me though :|

[@sweetner844]

As someone that had to bury a loved one last year, this is uncomfortable(Not your comment but the video btw)

[@azza1074]

@@sweetner844 tonnes and tonnes of people experience burying people and death every day. this video showed no disrespect at all. i’m sorry but if you don’t find these types of videos appealing, don’t watch them

[@Corringe]

@@azza1074 agreed. Don’t watch the video if you know it’s gonna make you uncomfortable lol pretty smoothed brain thing to do tbh

[@angelsebonga1900]

@@sweetner844 as someone who buried 5 loved ones this year, I don't find this disrespectful.. Sorry..

[@azza1074]

@@Corringe lmaoo exactly

[@ryderthechallenger2788]

People: *Why disrespect* Dean: gives the dead souls asmr

[@JJosiahG]

here before he deletes the video 🙋🏽‍♂️

[@Raini33]

🤣🤣

[@igasparovski]

I don't think he will, he mentioned at the beginning that this isn't disrespectfull. He actually filmed so many weird videos so far and he really is used to comments. Trevor is naturally sarcastic but he isn't a bad guy.

[@jannasmr7608]

Loool

[@sylviarodriguez7853]

Not funny 😐

[@JJosiahG]

@@igasparovski didn’t call him a bad guy. I’m a huge fan of Trevor! Comment is purely comedic

[@busratz]

10:45 she died a day before her birthday...

[@stephaniehavoksen1761]

Noooo that’s so sad

[@420sadness]

That’s my biggest fear in life tbh...or dying ON my birthday.

[@busratz]

@@420sadness ikr 🥺

[@ellietchi]

Personally, I don’t think this specific graveyard is offensive. If he did it to fresh graves sure I’d understand it being offensive but these are from like the 1900s, none of their family members will be upset, they’re dead too

[@meowtoz]

“Their dead too” dang

[@yungdiddy475]

Just because their all dead doesn’t mean they can’t be respected either? I hate Gen Z kids

[@royalpain9939]

@@yungdiddy475 no, I think what they meant by "they're dead too" was that these gravestones likely haven't been visited in a long time by anyone

[@vanillaporridge]

Gen Z in a graveyard be like: "This is so vintage" "It's giving me Egypt vibes" "I don't think any negative energy will come to me because they are all dead" "They died in 1882, that's a long time, that's like a thousand years ago" "It's kinda creepy because we are the only people here and a kinda expensive car just pulled up" "The anchor is giving me Hampton's home vibes" "This is like a giant rock" "This is like granite vibes" "This looks like a good place for a thumbnail" I CAN'T💀🤚

[@Cheeze258]

"1882 was a thousand years ago" 😭

[@xaerinas]

and “oops i just fell into that gravestone”

[@autistic_dude]

Yeah right

[@vanillaporridge]

@@LuisV4572 i said 1882

[@LuisV4572]

@@vanillaporridge um ok but I think you changed it

[@breezyvol.1908]

it’s people who do worser than this like piss, spit, or vandalize on tomb stones . i see nothing wrong in this & plus he gave a disclaimer in the beginning of the video .

[@ajstyles7678]

Worser isn't a word

[@cleo-mmvi]

@@ajstyles7678 And you didn't put a dot at the end of your sentence.

[@မိုး-ဘ၃ဓ]

@@cleo-mmvi The dot is called a full stop.

[@misha8200]

Just wanted to let you know, World War 1 was around 1918, not the Civil War.

[@tag7137]

And the cold war was around 1980

[@lillyputian5907]

@@tag7137 cold war was around the 60s

[@sophiiesgm9279]

i don’t know the difference anyways

[@tag7137]

@@lillyputian5907 ended, I mean

[@dc9067]

Cold War was between 1940 and 1990

[@dog8068]

the ghost: Which war did u just say bro

[@alexisflorial2627]

I loved how he said “Thank you so much” to the grave stone😭

[@Yongbokez]

Personally I don’t really see how this is offensive hes not being rude or disrespectful to the tombstones in anyway and he’s showing repsoect towards them

[@rnelan1e]

saying that someone was probably a cat is...😒

[@nval21.]

@@rnelan1e he said he didn’t know if it was, it’s not like he said it intentionally..

[@Arcania9516]

Stan

[@Doryplory]

Exactly!

[@deca3260]

@@rnelan1e He didn't mean any intention by it. Smaller tomb stones can be for literally anyone, he might've not known much about tomb stones prior to doing this video. And people do bury their animals in the graveyard so :/

[@jennaasmr1]

Maybe I’m weird but I don’t find this disrespectful at all 🤣

[@deleted1803]

Right!

[@catalinaisabel4500]

Saaaameee

[@ViaandVirtue]

I grew up in Salem, MA, and I've seen tourists who are infinitely more disrespectful, littering, over crowding, damaging stones. This is totally fine

[@connectionlost3917]

ALL RISE

[@KurdishMuslim99]

Me neither

[@sallypaulsen8063]

This one is rated “N” for “not everyone is going to like this”

[@earthh2niy]

this!!

[@ipoop4359]

N word

[@illusion743]

@@ipoop4359 ??

[@Divinestq]

@@illusion743 the n word is what you call black people when being racist

[@toxic_bunny_9828]

@@Divinestq I think they know that

[@mushroomkoala]

Dean: tapping on the gravestones Spirits: feeling tingles ✨

[@analukac5301]

dean idk if this is appropriate...not hating, just giving you a heads up, wouldnt like u to face backlash

[@morgan5794]

@@c7326_ I agree, he also set his intentions in a respectful way. I think it’s good to show cemeteries in a positive light.

[@dianab5340]

@@c7326_ i do believe this video is disrespectful for the dead. I think he could have done a video in the cemetery in a different direction without showing names or standing on top of the burial. He could have been there, walked around, talked about his perspective of life and death, tapped on trees and benches. In my opinion that's way better

[@floflo5940]

People should be more comfortable with death tbh

[@analukac5301]

guys death is not the problem here, he did darker asmrs, like doing your makeup for the electric chair, but i wouldn't appreciate someone doing this on my beloved deceased family/friend's grave & i'm sure many people feel that way too

[@azza1074]

@@analukac5301 but most of these people died over 100 years ago, doubt they have any living relatives that care

[@jesuschrist6609]

he really thought cold war and civil war happened in 1918 💀💀💀

[@choco9418]

Hi Jesus I promise I'll go to church on Sunday and pray to you today and read your Bible

[@Darjko]

did that happend in like 1700🙄

[@Darjko]

No but really didn’t it

[@briiezy]

@@Darjko cold war was 1947 - 1991 and the civil war was 1861-1865

[@andeeznuts1]

@@Darjko listen, you’re not quirky for not knowing anything about American history, and the fact that you’re going back to t proves that you know you’re wrong. You’re legit just trying to gloat about how ignorant you are. Maybe take a skillshare history course and learn a few things, thank you, goodnight.

[@ambreaolson6320]

I love how he refers to the graves as ✨vintage✨

[@wensdayaddams2739]

The anchor means hope. It’s often used when it’s believe, hope and love. It’s a Christian thing ⚓️✝️❤️ i’m from Norway (a Christian land) and there it means tro, håp og kjærlighet

[@candicejones8819]

Cool

[@kngxmas.1879]

@@candicejones8819 cool

[@liyawilson4633]

*honey, there's a big storm comin.* this is probably gonna receive a LOT of backlash-

[@Gardenfullofchaos]

It really is, I think it might be disrespectful to the dead but I'm not sure Edit: Omg people are saying it is and it isn't. My final view is that he wasn't trying to be offensive or disrespectful but he was because he was standing on a grave and touching others tombstones Edit: Please stop replying to me, I'm not trying to debate if it's right or wrong

[@ang3laswrld939]

IKR

[@liyawilson4633]

@@Gardenfullofchaos yeah thats what im saying there are very mixed opinions

[@strangeanimations588]

@@Gardenfullofchaos it's not

[@mallorieferguson7747]

@@Gardenfullofchaos gurl- what are they gonna do✋

[@kareny_1572]

Not gonna lie The first thing that came to my mind Imagine a person getting out of their car and starts to walk with flowers and then sees a boy tapping on the grave of someone they really loved...

[@priv0839]

I just imagined that and I’m dead💀😂

[@itaybs9914]

@@priv0839 if u read that joke and died i think everyone in the graveyard read that comment too :D

[@azza1074]

someone they really loved? when most of them died almost 100 years ago? yeah i don’t think so

[@mady3187]

It’s an old graveyard. And why would you get offended at someone else walking around a graveyard

[@WhisperSonnet]

If I saw someone doing ASMR on my loved ones grave I would be so charmed by that, I don't know what eveyrone's going on about

[@unholypossum]

I'm happy you're showing old gravestones attention and I'm sure they appreciate it. He's gentle and sweet. Stop disrespecting him, go disrespect the people who take pictures on gravestones without thanks or respect to them.

[@AdrianskiASMR]

they're dead, they don't give a shit

[@allaboutellaa]

Dean: Oops I broke a piece.. The mummy/ ghost: you better put that back boi

[@Beststayfrfr]

Or we gonna haunt ya

[@kazagirl]

I am personally not offended by this but I can see how others would be. At least he refrained from tapping on the newer graves, which I think would have been incredibly disrespectful.

[@theASMaRtist]

So there's some magic period of time after which it becomes not disrespectful?

[@kazagirl]

@@theASMaRtist The sarcasm is unnecessary, but yes. There is a difference between him tapping on the grave of someone who just died versus a grave from the 1800s/early 1900s.

[@skin4700]

I can sorta get what you are saying, but still its disrespectful.

[@colobolo7532]

This is the first comment that respectfully acknowledges both sides of the argument. The comment section could learn a thing or two from you.

[@rosieposierae6035]

As a mortuary science student this is so right up my alley! Also I appreciate how respectful you were. I think this video is a beautiful way to remember these people who we don’t know and who may not have living relatives. 🖤

[@khaleesi__]

Like someone else mentioned, it’s good that he didn’t show him standing on or tapping newer graves. Those losses could still be fresh with the people who knew them. Also there is a certain history element to seeing all the older graves, most of which looked military related.

[@daynadrygeese9683]

I don’t find this disrespectful at all. These people that have passed we’re from longgg ago and probably don’t get visitors. Love you Dean!

[@jessiese]

aweee wait i didn’t think of it like that that’s honestly so sweet

[@beast_master_6919]

3:05 disrespectful asf

[@Hehehegrant]

No

[@willamascell7288]

We’ve had art classes and outdoor movie nights in our cemetery in Philly. And a lot of events and historical nights. There isn’t anything offensive about this

[@Sofia-zq4cy]

Art classes in a cemetary sounds so fun

[@angelina2360]

@@Sofia-zq4cy iikr

[@mykelgaming5037]

I’m from philly too lol

[@willamascell7288]

@@mykelgaming5037 cool check out Laurel Hill cemetery

[@DCpub189]

as a ghost i would crying laughing if someone was tapping on my grave

[@myunili]

Personally, I would just enjoy the ASMR lmao

[@ssssss.s]

Chill out you guys. There’s literally nothing disrespectful with this video, he’s doing nothing to be called insolence to those dead people. I think you guys don’t even know why you’re saying that this is disrespectful. Please think about this concept, like why you think that this is disrespectful. Probably because no reason but because of some thoughts that are imposed to you by society which make no sense.

[@sparky8197]

Why disrespect my religion?

[@sweetner844]

@@sparky8197 he didn’t mention a religion

[@krispytreats.-.4373]

He’s walking on people that are dead and buried in the ground... he also is tapping on people’s graves and doesn’t think people will care because they’re old. Imagine if you go to the graveyard and see some random tapping on your loved ones grave -.-

[@sparky8197]

@@sweetner844 I know but do people talk about him being gay?, it's wrong.

[@strangeanimations588]

@@krispytreats.-.4373 Stop being overdramatic

[@gachatoons7288]

8:36 an anchor on a tombstones represents Hope and Steadfast. Usually, the tombstones with anchors on it means that the person who died was a sailor. 10:31 people get different size gravestones because not everyone can afford the big ones. The huge fancy gravestones with all the pretty details are super expensive. (Gravestones can get up to $30,000+) Not everyone is super rich so they will just settle with a small gravestone.

[@Bee-vc2yd]

I feel like the spirits of these people would be happy to have someone visit their graves. Most of these are from over 100 years ago so they probably don’t have many visitors anymore.

[@williamcruz6829]

you gonna get haunted girl

[@lyndleecox]

You can say that again lol

[@molly-rosewicks4798]

Dude, shouldn’t u be sayin BOY lol

[@choco9418]

@@molly-rosewicks4798 I think her pronouns are she/her

[@ihate4286]

Yall

[@lolz3651]

@@choco9418 but their gay

[@ayalolz734]

why are people mad at this saying its disrespectful like hes literally only TAPPING on them gently what is wronggg

[@zoetardif4036]

i mean ig but like if i see a guy tapping on my grandparents' graves for youtube....i would be fucking mad like no thank u tf

[@fatal5592]

Unrespectful 😂

[@ayalolz734]

@@fatal5592 better now?😭

[@geminiuntilidie882]

He’s videoing it for amusement and making money from it. It’s putting on online and reading names out and disturbing the peace

[@jillreyerma7592]

@@geminiuntilidie882 He wasn't disrespectful though. I go to graveyards all the time, read the names and touch them. Why does recording it matter? No one is going to do anything with a dead person's name. I respect the dead as much as the next guy, probably more than I respect the living, but I don't see how this is disrespectful. Even if the dead person knew I don't think they would care. They have an eternity after all. Plus, I doubt these graves, given their age, get many visitors :(

[@savannah_thomas03]

Imagine pulling up to the grave yard and a random kid tapping on ur dead grandmas grave

[@edenskipper5031]

I actually found this so relaxing and interesting to watch!

[@prettykush7924]

Y’all out here acting like dean made a tik tok on top of people’s gravesites like he’s was respectful chill.

[@jroberssts1202]

He was respectful to an extent but could of always been more as he was walking over graves and calling the gravestones “vintage” which I myself believe is quite disrespectful to the spirts in that cemetery

[@annad6933]

@@jroberssts1202 first off, the graves were burried underground, with dirt covering them, how was he suppose to know where the graves were, if he couldn't walk there, how do u expect him to cross, fly??? if u didn't see in the video, there wasn't a CLEAR path for him to walk on, clearly he didn't rlly know where to walk on, u can't blame him. Tell me if I'm wrong but u can't tell where to walk if the graves were covered with grass and dirt, unless u have a way, tell me. and by graves, I meant the coffins, u have no way of telling how long the coffin was, ya ok they have labels, but does the labels says exactly WHERE the graves were?

[@avamoomoo4019]

@@annad6933 you can tell because there’s gravestones your just generally not supposed to walk in front of them .I have no problem with the video just thought I would inform you

[@annad6933]

@@avamoomoo4019 ok so there IS gravestones, but do u know where the coffins are directly placed?

[@prettykush7924]

@@annad6933 exactly and yes dean called the gravestones vintage they are old I mean seriously that one was reaching . Y’all acting like he called them ancient .reaching for a issue with the video .

[@katielinkous4592]

I could smell the backlash from a mile away

[@ameliemsp278]

It’s the “vintage” vibe for me

[@m_6529]

this ones like vintage * points to a grave * LMAO PLEASEEE

[@eileenguevara4363]

“Also, I wore this shirt that says holy spirit on it to be protected. In case any bad energy wants to come to me, but I don’t think so because ✨ they’re all dead ✨ “

[@Biigbussii]

“Comment down below if you’re a mortician” 😂😂😂

[@Corringe]

Omg I read this as he said it

[@thatgtr3597]

Out of all the places to do asmr you choose the graveyard bro😭😭

[@fireschoolbus]

Tbh idm atleast he gives attention to it

[@thatgtr3597]

@@fireschoolbus true

[@nietcherry4360]

How is this disrespectful? Like dudes, go actually say that to people being disrespectful irl..smh. Dean literally did nothing wrong lmao Nive video buddy, I found it relaxing. Just like when SouthernAsmr did it

[@0x1gyu]

@Basseses they never acted as if it was a joke, all he did was tap on it😐

[@morgan5794]

@Basseses I wouldn’t mind lol

[@phe.mp3]

Southernasmr at least didn't make insensitive jokes while she did it. It was far more respectful, even if I find it just as odd.

[@patealapom]

0:46 *not disrespectful*

[@tikitorchgamin1842]

@@0x1gyu tapping on gravestones. That's so disrespectful.

[@Emi-cl2rt]

I understand both point of views here. But in the end, it's Dean's channel, and his videos. As long as no harm was intended (which, of course, he didn't do this with the intention of hurting anyone). If someone got hurt in the end, then it was a mistake/accident. We all make mistakes.

[@phiathefirst]

To everyone saying that what he did was disrespectful: •He tried to show some respect to the dead people. •You guys are saying he should’ve done his reasearch, but not much people even do that. Even if he did I’m guessing your comments of him being disrespectful wouldn’t even change much. •At least these graves are being seen, I’m assuming half of them don’t get visited anymore because of how old it is. Gravestones dont often get much visitors. It's nice that he was visiting them. •Even if you think it’s disrespectful at least know that there is good stuff about this. •No one is getting hurt and he shows big respect while tapping. You can tell that he was trying to be careful with his words. - 11 year old (By the way if your going to say “You're just supporting him because you're a fan” then I would like to remind you 60 percent of the comments are like this or shorter.)

[@britneyiyanna]

11 years old with this kind of positive knowledge. This is great. Much respect to you baby girl because you are absolutely right❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺

[@phiathefirst]

@@britneyiyanna Thank you so much ☺️

[@buddy.ymotard]

You're gifted with the kind of sensibility and level headedness that our society is tragically deficient in. Put your gift to good use.

[@melanie6018]

I think this video was great, he visited people who probably havent had visitors in years he even thanked them, there is far more worse things in this world to worry about then a harmless asmr video

[@yeehawies69]

dean to spirits: damn ma' your gravestone is huge... so u rich RICH huh 😌

[@xboxnation2854]

"He died in 1918, that might have been when the cold war or the civil war was happening" neither one was even close💀

[@jroberssts1202]

@Lil Ant agreed

[@jroberssts1202]

Btw it was the end of ww1

[@Mister_Rat_]

@@babyaquarius4331 I honestly fucking doubt it

[@Emily-tf6gz]

Some people aren’t interested in war dates so don’t remember them

[@ch7arasue]

Nah there was a world war and it ended in 1918 so maybe it’s coz of that

[@sierrastar5155]

Imagine walking through a graveyard to visit a family member to then see someone tapping on their grave

[@krybabiexo111]

I’d just laugh tbh wouldn’t bother me at all

[@sierrastar5155]

@@krybabiexo111 it wouldn't bother me either. Its just the thought of seeing that 😂

[@deadicated9525]

@Jasper you’re white

[@KyletronIscool]

@@deadicated9525 and what are you??

[@jlaanesaar]

"Dean talks" Random car: 🚗💨