Dear Souflo this is why i left

This video is from our Dear Souflo catalog and in this video we read a email from a subscriber who is asking for advice from the host and from the audience members.

[@Bajanprincess42]

She overreacted. It was just a toy not that serious. To break up over that one thing the relationship was never real. She's leaving out something. I send my spouse things like that all the time. Even introduced him to the adult films 24 years ago. I feel if you are grown enough to get down, your communication should be open and free with your partner before you take it there and the rules should be set ahead of time.

[@wheeldealstt5445]

She forgot to give the back story, because that's what's missing, I think she suspected before that her man have battyman tendencies & maybe this confirm it

[@natashamapp6635]

😂

[@RenaeSoPurple]

It sounds weird that his sister would send him a pic of sum like dat but if she had loved him she wouldn’t have left him 🤷🏽‍♀️ she did a look fi a reason fi lef him . My opinion .... if my man sent that to me i would definitely ask “wah dis fah” because we don’t get down like that .

[@trej9826]

Her panic button goes off she might believe he may be gay playing around but she should be open with her man she talk to him more on the subject to find out why from him

[@analyticalmind8077]

Him a try bring out her inner freak. But she got scared.. and now she is considering if she was too shy/scared to let him know. Because every females has a inner freak.. young and old.. he just got her off guard.

[@shellzbelle8767]

If I got it from my man I would ask him if he is going to be getting it for me and thanks. I would not leave him, that would be the perfect opportunity to have a conversation exploring our likes in that department.

[@123kjaah]

What kind of hot headed brute of a female is she. So she did not even have a conversation with him before losing her head. She wanted to know more about WHO sent the pic to him than WHY her man sent the pic to her. SMFH!!! SIGH!!! My woman could never have those qualities and stay in my LIFE... in regards to the sister issue, it really depends on the family structure and how close they are. I for one do not want women like that in my space ever. What's the quality of the relationship that they could not reason it out.

[@Ramakan]

That was silly on her part to break up with her dude for that!!! She is petty as hell!!🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kxngque996]

Maybe homeboy just feel excited and a think about it..and just send it to her...doubt he meant anything outa the norm...I doubts it’s about side chick..but she harsh tho...smh

[@hitwondatalkditingdem]

Big up yuh self love how u helping out the people

[@sophiadavis9090]

SOULFLO on a real talk if my hubby sent that to me I would die with laughter, it's just like when I go grocery shopping he shows me the English cucumber the big long ones. And said this is what I want.😆😆😆

[@donnajacksunn489]

Lol..it's fun to have a joking relationship. But like your point..She can't take a joke..sorry for her

[@mrsettings5575]

She have one next man line up Thats why she gone so quick...

[@Mai-fn5ml]

She didn't love him because you ended the relationship over something little like that. She was looking for a reason to end the relationship.

[@vivimanchester2541]

Wow! I always overact in my “short term relationships“ SouFlo, You’re last observation on this young lady’s behavior is 💯 correct. Her and I have a lot in common. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@rhondasmall6282]

he want her to use the toy on him that's all, just joking.If she leave, she wanted to leave long time. Just ask the man a question

[@natashabell209]

I would ask to see his phone just to see if the message is really from his sister....it would be weird for a sister to send her brother that kind of things...but if it is proven that his sister sent it well just drop it....sometimes secrets has a way to show up themselves....

[@theonly1freshmedz990]

Blessed Sunday to you the family and the RC Special ya 😃😂 and weird Bc she left out some details that would help understand the situation a little more.

[@djohnson496]

THAT A SIMPLE THING, I WOULD LAUGH IT OFF.

[@mcleo9935]

Family big up that don't make no sense.let us all have a big laugh.😄😄😄😄.

[@carefuld9779]

Brother, I think there is more to this story, too many missing factors...such as, did they had a healthy sex-life..or did it need improvement or were they happy in the relationship or were there any infidelity in the past? It could also be that she wanted to end the commitment and this incident was the opportunity to do so.🤔 When you are in an relationship, you should be able to discuss upon many topics whether sexual or not and not feeling threatened if there is an disagreement. It shows maturity to compromise. I agree with you, the pic was probably meant for someone else and he didn't know how to explain the situation or maybe he is telling the truth about his sister sending it, some siblings are close that way and have jokes all the time. Based on the limited information, she did the wrong thing, her action is very juvenile. Maybe she was raised to believe "toys and certain sexual acts" are taboos. There are people who have that mentality. Sis, if you are reading this.., don't knock it, until you try it😎😎 and be open-minded to new things.

[@sambarnes4066]

I don't see for what reason for my sister to send that to me.i think sending something like that would go for intimately people.not my sister to do that. If it was him just send it to me then I would look at it differently. Is he telling the truth??humm

[@iamwinningrightnow]

Night. First thing tht came to mind...I dont believe this young lady liked this man very much. She wanted to break up with him, this was her out. How long was she with him? To break up just like tht, to me, she was not vested in the relationship. It was too easy for her to leave.

[@pauletteblair2204]

My male cousin gave me one, for my birthday. He said every woman should own one as a back up. I had in mind to buy one but** didn't get the motivation to do so. One of the best gift, I ever received.😂 Everyone I date I let it be known, if you mess up, I have my man in my drawer.😂😂😂😂🤣 She's very dark, and old fashioned. In order to sustain a good and sexual relationship, one have to be open to new and respectful things, and aim to please.

[@muffy9215]

LOL HIM A GIVE AR BUNN😂😂😂😂😂😂 HIM GET CAUGHT....WOOOIIIEEEE What sister send that to a brother unless it's by accident. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bromellwright1651]

Souflo she did wah leff long time. I know its a few yrs back im just catching up on your old videos. Happy 2022 to you and family

[@Thenewgirl36]

She knew something weird about him from the gate.

[@clarkclarke]

Good morning SouFLo..I don't think she over reacted. Some things make people very uncomfortable...we don't know what it was that made her react the way she did ... A lot of details are missing ......if talking about that stuff was already a part of their conversation/s then ..yes ..maybe she did overact......however if this pic just showed up ...out of nowhere?? .. his sister sent it to him???? He lied to her .... as close as my brothers and I are and the things we talk about .. I'm the only girl ... they would never send me something like that ....NONE of my male friends have never done that ......and no I have never dated someone who has send me pic etc ...because I would cuss them out ..... even when they have asked ME to send them pics ..I always make sure I am clothed ...these things live on in the digital world ......NOTHING is ever really erased.. I think it is interesting how people think that it is ok... People have to be careful with send things around ...

[@mrspecialedition]

Makes kinda wonder if she probably have a side man because she broke up with him way too easy

[@graceabel6292]

His sister sent it .....😞ok then....very close sister and brother though....for me personally my siblings and I get along very well "but" I would not send that to any of them...the leaving part I don't know....had to get some explanation(that's where communication comes in)after that I would make my decision(thats my take on this )

[@angeldawkins9303]

Soflo my Siblings and i are all grown we find sh** on the Internet and send it to each other all the time then we comments and loao,but if my man sent that pic to me i wouldn't leave maybe its his way of trying to see how she would react,because we all have secret fantasy in term of sex,even though some of us are afraid to admit,but if my man send it and im not into it then we would talk if its something new he wants to introduce im down💯💯💯

[@olandomartin5216]

Angel Dawkins Good point but my question to you is are your siblings females as well? Because its kind of weird/awkward for a sister to send something like that to her brother and vice versa

[@angeldawkins9303]

@@olandomartin5216 both brothers and sister,i dont find it awkward,my brother sent it to us his wife send him those stuff all the time then he or she will send it to us its not like we having sexual explicit convo, its like a wth is that,or no way thats real,

[@olandomartin5216]

Angel Dawkins OK kool

[@Headxxzcase]

Souflo I'm curious, If I comment using Jamaican patois would KZbin recognize what I'm saying, just curious.

[@carlajones2619]

lol lol lol I saw the title and was waiting to hear that he cheated,( no evidence of it) that he stole something, that he hit her etc. A picture of that made her break up with him?????????? All she had to say is dont send me pictures of that sort anymore. Making a MOUNTAIN out of a mole hill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Communication is the key.

[@georgiagerald1392]

If my significant other send me a picture like that oh well let’s try it lol 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸

[@katina1976]

First of all....she is not telling the entire story....so how does she expect to get a good answer. There's too much missing information.

[@georgiagerald1392]

Yes princess Brains she didn’t do the right thing🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸

[@souflotv]

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[@nicolescottwilliams2602]

Lord have mercy Souflo why would he sent a pic like that knowing that she isnot into those kind of things obviously look at her reaction?? Nothing more than she was not the intended receiver. He messed up by sending his pic man phone.

[@rodellwilliams871]

The fact that she's questioning if she did the right thing maybe tells you she moved too fast. Me personally I wouldn't send pictures like that to my woman

[@bosslady7147]

For her she did the wrong thing by ending it, for me i would be asking 2000 questions, why ,when ,where ,how, who ,what. Want me to try it , what is its significance

[@bujub1570]

When johnkrow want to go to North the slightest breeze blow him deah

[@koolshadetv5870]

Souflo how yu doing bro hope all is well...yu can't give we a review on peanut dread

[@nicolescottwilliams2602]

To the wrong phone that is

[@nzilantemo]

The man put himself in a position where it looks like he sent it to her by mistake and thats why she is suspicious. All she needed to do is talk it out and find out if his explanation makes sense . The other thing would to talk to his sister( i dont fink so, get me).

[@annmariecole-eziugo1018]

No she did not handle it correctly. There should have been a discussion, not a break up. I guess they weren't too serious. Souflo, you are crazy! Why are you laughing? Good morning😊💕

[@candydiamond1592]

Good morning souflo ❤up up up.oh please sir no sister stop the foolishness women or not stupid an NO she didn't do the right thing relationship is hard but communication is the key so both of them need to have a talk ok oh bwoy hear goes the laugh from Souflo

[@janoyantonio9585]

And leave him just like that, she never love. She's silly ,if the man was into something he wouldn't send her. She should go and talk to him.

[@faithydarlingtv]

I find that to be very weird. It's quite obvious that he was trying to tell her something through that toy. If his sister sent it to him and he find it to be funny why he never said babe I think my sister is in freaky stuffs, look what she sent to my phone.

[@georgiagerald1392]

SOUFLO brother she got mad too quick it’s just a toy plus you can find it on google in sex shops maybe she’s boring so he wants to spice it up or his is not up to par lol or maybe he has a side chick who he’s using it on. But i don’t think she should have that STRONG reaction 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🇺🇸

[@kenneildewar7146]

Kemeshabrown; that nothing to get upset about she just use it as a reason to left ,me nuh into nuh false things still just saying.

[@annmariebrown6530]

It seems to me they didn't have a verbalize relation. Communication is a must. U made your emotions got the best of u.

[@miguelmowry6405]

Yes! She did the right that man is dysfunctional

[@kayh9123]

Damm guess she got her answer 😁

[@yvonnepeddie3585]

Gm sf she never love him.

[@brooklynbandit6788]

Hopefully he didnt want her to use it on him😂🤣😅 you never know

[@olandomartin5216]

Souflo if my girl sent Me something like that and say her brother sent it to her first of all I would think it's weird for her BROTHER to send her that and I would ask her why she showing Me and what's her motive but to leave the relationship just because of that smh it takes more unless I wanted to leave for sometime now

[@suziebest6871]

SoulFlo i think he should have asked her first if she is into blah blah blah. Then send her pics but, to just randomly send her anything that she's not into is definitely grounds for a possible dismissal. If your reading this, who am i to say leave your man but, it raises eye brows on his part🚩

[@RR-sp2op]

SouFlo we not getting the whole story. Man sends me pic of a d---o, said his sister sent it to him, I left him. Naah fam, summin nuh right. Honey, why yuh send mi this kind ah pic? ah mi sister send it to mi, it's over!! SouFlo ah nuh mind reader, u want advise? tell the whole story, cause right now u sound, cra cra, 7:30!!!!!!

[@Uncle-Basil]

The man may have been inadequate and tried to remedy the situation, but when it rains it pours...she made it worse by dashing him weh 😆😆

[@Someplum-r3p]

She too much I wouldn't asked if it's mine or if I am not into these things I ask him what about this he likes depending on his response we go from there that's nothing to break up over

[@janetburt4930]

I think it's a little strange that his sister would send him that pic. However, they could have that kind of relationship I wouldn't break up with him for that. Have a face to face conversation with him.

[@MiMi-kb8xt]

He wants her to use it on HIM!!! She was right to leave.

[@josephmcdonald9933]

It's a red flag. But some siblings play too much. But him sending it to her is a red flag. She did the right thing.

[@cynthiareid9289]

She did the right thing! What was the real reason for sending this?! He should've explained himself and why would his sister of all people send this. He should be open to that kind of thing to her but not with the assistance from his sister. That's gross! 🤢

[@olandomartin5216]

Cynthia Reid ikr, lol life funny though because if the roles were reversed and the female sister receive that from her female sister it wouldn't be looked at as gross lol

[@rumshirts9156]

she might have overreacted big time she a bit naive poor thing smh. i would want my man to send me things instead of to another female cause if that happen yuh get bun like easter.

[@debi3147]

I don't think he should have told her the sister sent it to him. That was too simple of a thing tho to break up with him. I've gotten stuff like that as a surprise and I didn't feel anyway about it. When you're in a relationship you have to be able to discuss things outside of the normal even if you are not into it.

[@keishajones8481]

I think that text was not intended for her. But as someone mentioned, we don’t know all the details about what their relationship is like. Is he a cheater? Does he give her reasons to doubt him and what their sex life is like? Some men can’t please their women adequately. Is he trying to introduce a toy for that reason? But because of the fact that some of these men are out there having affairs with other men, or having freaky affairs with other women, I don’t trust this text.

[@ceazia2010]

Overreacted .... I’m not leaving him for a photo he could get off the internet. That was him testing to see your reaction. My kids father and I send stuff to each other while at work to build a vibes for later. My opinion 👌🏽.

[@andreasamuels2919]

Justice for Donna Lee say her name Justice Donna Lee

[@nicolawilliams5455]

Good morning Souflo, why'd your sister send you a picture like that SMT!! Maybe a him man send it to him Lol

[@redlondon4532]

Nicola Williams you nuh easy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayh9123]

LoL suofol you putting bubble s in di girl head bout a side peac😂😂😂

[@andreashereves2057]

First off all she over reacting if my husband sent me some thing like that I would assume that he wants to get a little____ in the bed room use your imagination. But his sister send it to him kinda weird I have a girl cousin all ways send me some things can't say it here but out of order so there you go.

[@meekdotcarter]

I would of asked him if it was for me or him lol...you never know nowadays a lot of these men are into pegging... Ijs

[@joanmalone7358]

You and she get a life send me anything might be he trying to tell her that is what she need or her drive is too much for him so that can help her out

[@suzycue7329]

She is too much. Breaking up over a silly pic is weird to me.

[@daliansalmon4167]

There wasn't any relationship in the first instance so that was a good excape route. That was just childish.

[@WWEENETWORK]

Atleast it wasnt that viral videp with the MALTA BOTTLE....smh #WashAndPutDown

[@ateshiasupersad9546]

I dont see anything wrong with what the boyfriend did. I believe he just need spice in the bedroom. Maybe hes just bored of the same old routine way of having sex. Men secretely crave excitement in the bedroom whether they want to admit it or not. The real issue i see here is the lack of intimacy, openness to new experiences and communication within the relationship. He couldve chosen to go and cheat because many girls out there are into those kinds of thing, but he chooses her, which speak volume. Go have that conversation with your man, thats the best place to start. Keep outsider out of your bedroom. What happen in your bedroom should be between both of you.

[@pfcwells522]

she leaving stuff out. almost sounds like she was looking for an out to begin with. She wants validation for breaking up with him. maybe she already thought he was cheating. if he wasn't cheating this was a stupid reason.

[@normaorr1499]

Lol don't mess with her its hard to tell if that was the right thing she knows him best seems a little off thou depends on how your thinking

[@nicholoswatson9226]

I think he sent it to her by accident

[@amirah30]

Maybe he is a batti bwoy and trying to see her reaction. She did the right thing.

[@yvonnetaylor5433]

Great rising S/F FAMILY HSVE A WONDERFUL SUNDAY.(D MAN WRONG!!)

[@sawyersdeb4084]

KMT!!! That’s nothing to get upset over just shows how immature she is!! I would have answered back and make fun of the situation...

[@tajhealthnature8570]

Its depends on you relationship.. But him should a talk with..him women first...

[@Rachel-tk6wm]

I would be mad , but would have a discussion, but it is cbvious that something else has been going on. It might have been that she was. waiting for an opportunity to go. As well as it's solely the man's behaviour she see it could be that she sees that as a red flag and some women will leave a relationship for lest than that. This is my opinion.

[@diane9745]

I would have asked him if he want me to use it on him n wait for his reply or he was telling her on the sly you better get one he's leaving or like you said went to the wrong person. She overreacted. Now she might really need it .😂

[@privatelifejust_4me]

If you think the sister sent it to him your lost for real. Unless there is some incest going on. Other than that, he was testing her because he should have known what she is and is not into which for someone with boundaries and standards that is an insult. She did right!! If she is not into what he is into then yes they need to part ways.

[@bernieelliott717]

Souflo, I don't believe the man's sister sent it to him and no real man would introduce that into his relationship except he has a problem and if he is OK with his manhood he is sick except he was sending to a side chick which I would not get into . I personally agree with her to end it. If my woman was to send me a pic like that I would know then that my sex with her is not good enough so I will move on

[@chinushareid2156]

I think he meant to send it to his other significant and mistakenly to her and you know some men when they get caught that’s the first excuse Also i think she should have dig deeper to really find out if it was otherwise Just saying

[@papacorrigan7585]

Blessings Lion.I think you made a big mistake.You could of talked with him, you never know it might of just saved the relationship.Your not hurting no one or killing anyone it happens It's no big thing pardon the pun, I personal believe.If him sister sent him the pic, then a weird thing that cause why would his sis sent him unless him chatting your business which no right anytime especially in the bedroom dept period.Listen life to short to worry bout a plastic toy.If it's not you fair enough gal, but you will find looking through certain marriages a burial of lies and deceipt have built because one cant talk to the other until the damage done.I wish you all the best if you really love him then find out what's really missing in his life cause you seem content but if sent by mistake and it was meant for another woman you done right sling it back him bigtime?Bless UP UP higher.

[@annettethomas2939]

Ok, his sister did not send him that picture. It was another woman that send it to him because she was describing what she's into. He accidentally send it to his girlfriend. Bwahahaha

[@diancharlton7318]

Maybe he wants to spice up the love life maybe it could be his sister showing him what to get to make it fun because it can be that he's complaining that she's dull in bed LoL.

[@glena.1681]

Was she insecure and questioned his sexuality? Maybe. But I agree she overreacted and is possibly insecure within herself. If they get back together he would be shut off from there on.

[@Morelyfe]

So she leave him because a picture of a sex toy? Then how strong was the relationship... Just a picture

[@WWEENETWORK]

I might have been taken back but would have seriously taken it as an opportunity to have an open dkscussjon about sexual habits, expectation after marriage, likes and dislikes. Whatever I am not into and cant live with doing to please my spouse...would be a deal breaker. I dont do or need toys...and I definitely would not use one on a man at his request...that right there would be one reason why I could see her cannceming tbe wedding. If yiu are into plugging or have downlow tendencies...you aint about to marry me....

[@WeCreate2828]

Did she ask the sister

[@angelfearon1306]

She petty that is not something to breakup over. Doutishness that.

[@patriciaedwards8177]

Obviously it went to the wrong one..lol she's cleary fr the 40s...haha.

[@stushpumpkin9200]

Patricia Edwards 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

[@juliettesimmonds5893]

She did the wrong thing, it could be true on his part and he just wants her opinion or it could be that he's sending it to someone else, but she has no proof. She has to be more open minded.

[@coconutdrops9545]

Mad and foolish people de two ah dem.

[@limaramascoll5300]

🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@CR-ng4gw]

Souflo address the topic more serious bro if you're gonna say the guy might be sending it to his side chick but send it to his wife by accident that makes no sense. The world we are living in today people send crazy shit to my phone friends and family but I think the guy was being honest because he could have said something else he could make up something and tell her. That's just too simple to break up with someone people having more serious problems in their relationships, maybe he sent it to her to find out how she'd react. But address these topics more serious bro remember its people life kl ntg personal though I'm a subscriber tune in all the time.