The Truth About Nigerian Men - Rant/Storytime

[@jeliarra]

It is not confidence, it is narcissism.

[@deannalambey1071]

DK Dempcey Knight DK yep 100% I'm still healing from narcasstic abuse by a Nigerian the terrible part is I have to deal with him for sometime because we have a child. Smh

[@jeliarra]

Deanna Lambey You may not "have to deal with him" if in the U.S. Finally the court system is starting to understand narcissism and the danger of the mental disorder. In some cases a judge ca n force a parent to be examined by a mental health expert. You can write down in concise detail the things your child's father does that describes narcissism, if before a component judge, the judge will order supervised visitations and or better continued mental health. If indeed you're dealing with a narcissist, the best part of the forced mental health visit/s and supervised visitations is the narcissist will become angry, will resist and or fail to comply. If this is done the judge will become hard on the narcissist and eventually stop all contact of the narcissist to protect child and parent.

[@deannalambey1071]

DK Dempcey Knight DK s

[@deannalambey1071]

I'm in Las Vegas Nevada I really hope the courts here are recognizing it,it's really not good for the child. God knows I tried to. Co-parent with that man but he countered parent against me. He has seen our child in 1 year because I finally decided to set boundaries. At first he was able to come and see her whenever and he started having her on weekends. I had a key to his place since I was out and about on his side I decided to stop by his place to do a pull-up change for our toddler. I walked in to a woman sitting around the table studying my child says "oh hi aunty" so ummm seems lime my kid has been around this woman. I ask the young woman are they dating of course she lied lol. The point is we said we would not brings others around until it's something serious leading to marriage. This is the second woman since we ended ,the first one he wanted to marry, now this one same thing. He has already brought his other two kids around me , First girlfriend, now the new girlfriend who isn't so new because him and I got into a huge fight over text messages I saw between them and we were together (triangulation). I didn't learn about narcissism until we broke up and since I've been educating myself OMG I can see it all now from day 1 . He's manipulative, a lair, a cheater he just can't see past himself to focus on parenting. I have never in my life delt with such a human being. God help me I use to feel sad for my baby girl but I'm protecting her somedaybi hope she will understand 😕

[@jeliarra]

Typical narcissist behavior. Sadly it really isn't towards the child rather to get under your skin, to harm you "gas lightening". But as you said, the one that suffers the most is the child. I lived in LV uh,.. 15 years ago, people were pretty hip to the world there considering no one I ever met while there was "from LV". I think you stand a pretty good chance there, but you have GOT to make that list of behaviors that shows "narcissistic behavior" WITHOUT directly saying "Narcissist Behave", allow the court / judge to spot it. If the judge is thick get a lawyer or even perhaps a therapist write the judge a letter to the judge, if me I would get my child the therapist and go that route. Best of wishes Hon sincerely, I know all to well what it is to have the misfortune of dealing with a narc.

[@favor7258]

“ you are here wearing slippers when it’s cold, are you proud “ I love you already

[@MsAyoFashola]

Nigerian men...there while life mission is to conquer women. But play the game with them. You gotta learn to get from them before they get from you lol

[@Itzharbey]

Are you Nigerian? If not, have you ever been to Nigeria? How many Nigerian men have you dated?

[@zerranewright4066]

So true I did

[@leocamwi5campbell368]

I am not a Nigerian but have the experience of the guy not taking NO for an answer. Before you know it I was on a plane and asking myself where am I going. Even now I am still wondering, try many times to break free but still there. Someone told me I was caged spiritually....so much for that and what it means. Just never engage in any conversation with anyone you are not really interested in.

[@onegirlthatloveonegirlthat9729]

Chocolate Divine yes dear I deed get out from their Shiite early on time

[@artemis1style]

Nope, I'm done. The arrogance is beyond.

[@applesidertea]

dated three in a row. all three had hidden wives/girlfriends. i began to feel foolish. finally stopped dating from that group. Nigerian women can have that mess. keep um, cause we don't want um. if you are an American woman involved with a Nigerian man, you likely feel like you've found the man of your dreams. two musts: 1) YOU MUST INVESTIGATE TO CONFIRM THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN ELSEWHERE. 2) NEVER GIVE/LOAN HIM MONEY. HE WILL ASK FOR THIS SOMEWHERE AROUND DATING WEEK #2.

[@charnaeyoung9815]

The guys saying "Then date a white man" like there aren't other African nationalities to date other than Nigerian.

[@jonathanogbone9925]

are we begging them to marry us, please go marry other africans, then you will know nigerian men are saints

[@Itzharbey]

Charnae young tell them

[@gglee3309]

Please ! They all shit . There’s other options than white like middle eastern men who are hot and have good values and jobs

[@youorme2250]

@@gglee3309 lol..middle eastern? OK. .continue. you will become a slave in your house.. I hope you know it's legal for a man to beat up his wife in the middle east .

[@brownb6]

Elalviz Mia She doesn’t have to live in the Middle East to marry a middle eastern man. There are countries where It isn’t legal you know.

[@rwbycastle5358]

its even more interesting whn youre at a nigerian party and your own father over 50 can insult his wifes weight and compliment other women in the same breath all while being overweight himself.but if u told him that he'd threaten to slap u or call u crazy/mad🙄

[@KeKeLuvsNIGERIA]

WOW... that's emotional abuse

[@Jzre421]

Yes..i know a nigerian man..who always humiliate her woman and try to talk to him back and he become a bad woman for him...

[@TheNaijaGosiper]

@@Jzre421 you lied big time...go tell this lies somewhere else please. As far as nigerian men is concerned, big women means so much, infact it is what alot consider sexy and beauty

[@teflondonna139]

My ex-husband always reminded me of how kind he was to take me to his sister’s wedding when I was “beyond [my] weight,” calling me ungrateful. Mind you, I am 5’5 and was a size 10/12 at the time... They’re cruel and will use any excuse to justify their fuck shit.

[@pauloskidane2819]

Welcome to Black American men’s experience

[@kehindeotino6050]

I am Nigerian living in Nigeria, and true Some Nigerian men are very annoying

[@Itzharbey]

cynthia otino it's the same everywhere in the world, you would always have the Good the Bad and the Ugly. Stop selling the Bad Narrative only.

[@isahbello9785]

Same goes for some Nigerian women

[@lanapowell2747]

I am not Nigerian but have dated your men. What you are saying is true and very funny.

[@osamuodia7545]

Lana Powell How old was the Nigeria guy you dat, because i see you are a old woman looking for a young boy to useless his life, maybe that was the reason why you were not locky

[@sisey99]

Osamu Odia ☠️🙌🏾

[@johnmonday6330]

@@sisey99 hey dont come tp rubis ur father

[@eddmwisdom1814]

@@osamuodia7545 absolutely

[@osamuodia7545]

@Victoria Akomolede very sorry for that, all men are not the same, there are many bad men in this world so as women too,but saying Nigeria men it really makes me mad,is not Good for me, what about the Good ones?

[@B4BESS]

That's not confidence, that's deception.

[@lovelydd1305]

My mother ..my grandmother and friends tried so hard to warn me about NIGERIAN MEN...but i did not listen😕😢😭 I am still suffering today because of my stubbornness. I hope some day i will find peace. Scammers and Abusers!!!

[@saharasun3862]

So ur men are so perfect

[@dlnrlrosemary7777]

Lovely DD What happened to you?

[@blackberry9013]

Lovely DD I'm dealing with one now, and Idk what to think when I see comments like this! Advice please!!!

[@ruthnyiraziboneya1288]

@lovely DD.so what are you still doing with him if he is not treating you good?

[@Itzharbey]

Stop Generalizing

[@PeaceOtebele]

This was too real and raw!! Talk sister! This is the reality. Video was funny too lol.

[@DeborahOscar]

Peace Otebele thank you. And thank you for watching!

[@eddmwisdom1814]

Victim

[@emmas9928]

You're an excellent storyteller. This made me howl. Thanks for sharing. I know a lot of Nigerian men and they're great! The ones I know.

[@oluakinwale4859]

She is indeed a good storyteller! She is perfect! It's all those Nigerian guys that are bad!

[@artemis1style]

The ones I Know are definitely NOT great.

[@shakitashontajones]

Why do God only talk to Nigerian men in visions😂😂😂God said your gonna be me wife. Wow I didn't get that memo.

[@RobinB26]

Shakita Jones Also they see everything in dreams, they claim. Apparently God love them more than anybody else in life. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@alphakennedy8012]

Hello

[@alphakennedy8012]

Are you single?

[@3johnsongirls460]

my husband is Nigeran........this is so true.....he ain't no good ... when it comes too random woman......(so true story)....and my husband is 52yr........so true

[@blackberry9013]

Lawanda Carter just curious...why do you stay with him?

[@ruthnyiraziboneya1288]

Black berry.thank you for asking her. That’s question.😍

[@Itzharbey]

Lol. People Sha, why don't you leave him then

[@kyvministries]

That is so sad

[@HabA-qn1nv]

U people think marriage is a joke where u just get up n leave smh

[@javanprince3800]

What amazes me is that they said Nigeria men are not good but they still want to marry us😂😂😂😂

[@eddmwisdom1814]

I wonder!!

[@georgesings1235]

Kesha B scammer that loves to give money and spoil their women

[@RobinB26]

George Sings123 You will give money then treat women bad. The money is to make up for your bad behavior. Who want that?

[@jenniferokeke8485]

@@RobinB26 you are with the wrong one sis

[@gorgeousangelstarr77]

Hello javan respond to me please

[@flawlessstone7669]

I am so glad you're a Nigerian lady who is talking about Nigerians men's.

[@cocobunny5744]

I'm American and honey your soooooo right I have dated many Nigerian men and they are a hot mess all day. They know how to swag you right out of your good sense. 🙄 Its really a shame I cant stop dating them 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔I wonder if I'll fine a good one lol.

[@gbolahanakinwanle8158]

Out of curiosity, you found a good one yet?

[@artemis1style]

Please try, take your power back.

[@afternoondelight6741]

OMG she did me in with " It is raining and snowing and u are wearing slippers, are u proud of yourself???" LMAO!!!

[@DeborahOscar]

+Cheryl Davis thank you so much! !

[@tiffanyu7144]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@theakomaportal5704]

I'm a Diasporan African (African American). I can't speak on the Nigerian Brothers. I know a few that did their ladies wrongly and some that do their ladies righteously. Sound like men everywhere. Sistas just gotta do their homework. And let me just say, you are amazingly Beautiful!!! Bless the African Woman. She is truly the world’s greatest wonder!!!

[@michaelheery7427]

U can smell the EVIL FROM NIJA MEN..

[@jasminepearls1047]

Its not just Nigerian. Ghanian are big liars too.

[@adaorahi]

You are so right

[@eddmwisdom1814]

No, they won't do it ,what they want is to seat at home, go for shopping, travel to Dubai, request expensive things and if we don't do it 'we' Nigerian men are not good, while other woman around the world are trying to become the boss ladies.

[@kv4787]

Is it true nigerian men only marry nigerian women? And they use AA for a greencard? I am dating a Naija man and I dont want to open my heart because of this rumor...

[@NalaMahal]

This happened to me while in Botswana for a study abroad program. Day 1: A local councilman saw me eating at KFC (I was so shocked to see a KFC in the village on Kanye) and I noticed him looking and smiling at me. First thing I noticed was a shiner gold wedding band. I also noticed him trying to take it off his chubby fingers but it didn't work. Day 2: He's there again BUT without his wedding band. He proceeds to talk to me and offer to buy me lunch. I let him. We sat down. He asked questions about the project I was working on in the clinics and etc. Before I finished eating I said: now councilman, I have a very serious developing (playing on words since he worked a lot in housing development) question that I already know the answer to I just want to give you the opportunity to answer honestly. Are you married? He nearly choked on his biscuit

[@DeborahOscar]

+Saje Washington haha at least you got free chicken!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@NalaMahal]

Deborah Oscar True 😂 tricky tricky men

[@Itzharbey]

BellaPorsche was he Nigerian? It seems to me now that every African man is a Nigerian

[@asanwa3126]

So you ate your food for free paid by a married man? Clap for yourself. Ode.

[@darleneachille491]

GOOD girl!!!

[@bluesee5500]

Thanks for narrating Nigerian men history👏👏👏 a round of applause for Nigerian men for being the great scammer of the year and for cheating on their wives

[@generalnwankwo8689]

I don't know if you will put up this same resistance if the likes of Davido, Flavour , wizkid, has approached, as a Nigerian we understand where you are coming from, we see this everday, we know where to draw the Line. Nigerians True or false?.

[@tulifranz9336]

It's not only Nigerian men who take their rings of, black, brown and white do. the same.

[@artemis1style]

Nigerian higher population, higher percentage. More of them cheat than anywhere else in the world I bet.

[@ndiekwere6027]

Debbie has been funny 😆 for a long time. As a Nigerian I agree with everything you said 😅. Bold and unrelenting the Nigerian men are

[@wsvibestv8490]

Every man in every race or nationality have the potential to cheat or do a woman wrong. I am a happy AA woman with my Nigerian husband living in the states. We have a lot of videos sharing our now 5 years experience. 🇺🇲🇳🇬

[@artemis1style]

There is a higher population of Nigerian males and I bet they are among the highest numbers of cheaters on the planet.

[@annettebishop5455]

Sandals in the snow/rain....... (hilarious) I laughed so hard.

[@DeborahOscar]

+Annette Flowers 😂😂 I see it everyday!

[@osamuodia7545]

Annette Flowers same with me even White people too

[@ereresophie]

I do it too **covers face in shame **

[@lindakaka1754]

What's wrong with Nigerian men really??? I dated one,then after she dumped me simply because I told him that we have to do HIV test.

[@raquelr8775]

LOL I was crushing for a minute on a Nigerian (guy friend) that goes out his way for me. He's studious and hardworking (finishing up his studies in the Medical field). I will seriously revaluate my crush.

[@Mcskinny001]

Hopefully you don't loose a good man because of what you hear anyway good luck.

[@winnersbeautysupply8042]

Hmm but if your one of those girls that gives men their phone number any at bus stop or any how, please stop it .

[@isahbello9785]

@@Mcskinny001 she wants to ruin everything because of a KZbin vid,anyone can say anything on KZbin, i can make a video about Nigerian women as well.

[@ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx]

Raquel you posted this 8 months ago. I hope you did NOT miss that guy!!! True!!!lol.. Very rear men like that!!!

[@RobinB26]

Not all people are bad. But if you see any signs of bad behavior then run. If he’s blaming you for everything he’s doing wrong run. Just know when you are being hurt by someone. Don’t get trapped in unhappiness. If he treats you well and he continues to treat you well your ok.

[@athenac1932]

That hair though 😍😍😍😍

[@DeborahOscar]

+Athena C thank you xx

[@tonyamorris1604]

I REALLY LOVE YOUR PERSONALITY....GOD BLESS YOU. YOU BROUGHT ME JOY AND LAUGHTER TODAY...

[@lilayo274]

GIRL NO STOP GIVING THESE MEN YOUR NUMBER. USE A GOOGLE VOICE NUMBER YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER CONSTANTLY!!!!

[@DeborahOscar]

Uwaila Ogbeide so true. Didn't even think of that!

[@dan-babaoat332]

Na, no physical danger with nigerian men. Im Yoruba so I know.

[@christinaslaton462]

@@dan-babaoat332 I talk to a Yoruba man from Nigeria he dont seem bad just struggling to make ends meet.

[@carolnjambi2486]

Stand at Woolich Arsenal station and you'll be engaged by the end of the week.....😂😂😂priceless....very true.

[@kimla1394]

😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@margarethclaudia2281]

That is so fucking true

[@Lady_Tee15]

😹😹😹😹😹

[@truezladye1893]

Hahaha so funny 🤣🤣🤣❤️

[@MYFATHEREMMANUEL]

I'm not Nigerian but Angolan who happen to know very good civilised Nigerians; I'm sorry it's very unfortunate that you happen to meet only the caputi ones. Stay blessed

[@thezayde09]

LAD EMA thank you my friend

[@osamuodia7545]

LAD EMA My God will bless you forever

[@mariamessa5150]

LAD EMA my

[@emmauldeo9125]

Thank you.

[@oluakinwale4859]

We said LAD EMA. Some people just like generalizing! It's bad!

[@SassBox]

🙌🏾 YAAAAASSS! Tell it girl! 💪🏾 Brej, I'm about to take that confidence into the next week! 😂😂😂

[@DeborahOscar]

+SassBox 😂😂 thanks girl xx

[@dimesnco304]

This is so true. Gotta love their confidence though. I remember I was in a pool once and one ibo man walked up and told me to swim across the pool for him to see something.🤣🤣🤣🤣It was so ballsy all I could do was laugh and get out of the pool.

[@judeonyeka7947]

Aku Dzidzor 😂😂😂

[@Lady_Tee15]

Wow!😹😹😹

[@artemis1style]

No, they are arrogant thieves. Don't give into them.

[@lindab6257]

THEY ARE THE WORST......LOW DOWN CHEATS

[@ekaeteephraim9406]

LINDA B Thank you.

[@finabond8926]

Horrible.

[@isahbello9785]

Because you women dont cheat?Bitch please

[@danashaw8463]

Who can tell you better about a Nigerian man? Of course a Nigerian woman! Thank you for sharing. You are looking flawless. AM I A DOG? LOLOL TOO FUNNY

[@KBZee-nf3ff]

Dana Shaw I am Nigerian and have another Nationality but generalising is bad. I know I'm not the way she describes this "Nigerian" men to be. Many people who put their people in a bad light usually have attitude problems . I'm not saying she does. But I have learnt to listen to people but decide for myself in every opinion I form.

[@ByTonaa]

tbh, I feel like she isn't Nigerian. The African accent she has/ switching to is no-where near a Nigerian accent and if she were Nigerian she would know better than to give that man her number.

[@leeayi243]

@@ByTonaa all she was saying has been picked up from Nigerian friends she moves with, some seems to be personal experiences though

[@MissDoktor]

I loved this. I can relate to some of these. My husband is a photographer and Nigerians would call him to come and take pictures on a party but they don't want to pay. They would say " I need a photographer. But it is a small job. Just come and take some pictures. Just take a thousand picture edit them and give them all to me because you are my brother" lol. ... love your video. 👌

[@Itzharbey]

Esther it's myopic of you to judge Nigerian men based on ur one experience. Very myopic.

[@Oshimpia]

Abbbey Adde I don’t care and not one ok . People I know is saying very very bad things about Nigerian ok

[@Itzharbey]

Esther so every body you know was raped by a Nigerian. A country of over 180 million people would have the good the bad and the ugly. It's the same with every country.

[@Itzharbey]

Esther don't judge the entire country based on one experience. There are lots of good and bad Nigerian men. There are lots of foreigners who are dating or married to a Nigerian who have nothing but good things to say about them. Don't come and watch a myopic video of one individual whose experience is only of Nigerian men in London and judge the over 80mil men in the country.

[@thezayde09]

Esther it's like generalizing African American men . Pls it is individual character traits not collective

[@M3RRY]

lololol CONFIDANCE! hahaha I thoroughly enjoyed this

[@DeborahOscar]

allMERRYeverything haha! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for watching!! xx

[@michealobin5770]

Deborah Oscar Where are you located?

[@giftednanointedcrafts6650]

What the hell were those men doing falling all over the floor ! LMAO omg people are going crazzzzzzzy.

[@bak3456]

😂😂😂 you are even too patient with them

[@DeborahOscar]

Bvky Ajy I know right 😂😂😂😂

[@Itzharbey]

In Africa(Nigeria to be precise) they say its only something to like you talk about. If Nigerian men are that bad why not ignore them and move on with ur life, instead of slandering them based on ur personal experience and myopic thinking.

[@AliciaMully]

I love, Love, LOVE your HONEST, Insightful, hilarious opinion while storytelling....I can tell you are a very intelligent & funny woman, your thoughts are exactly what mine would be or already are from online dating 🤣 I was wondering if there was a cultural difference but now I realize humans are all the same for the most part & we have the same general reactions 💓😘

[@artemis1style]

Its probably not all but its a large percentage for certain. They have no trouble lying.

[@RubyYy06]

Ghanaian men are just as bad there are bad men in every drive and race, these kinds of videos makes no sense I've had different types of men offend me I would not post videos to insult because there is bad everywhere, but I guess I can't blame you expressing yourself 😳🤷‍♀️🏽

[@asanwa3126]

You are so right. Imagine if Black American women start talking about their numerous baby fathers? White women start talking about their paedophiles men?

[@thonero12]

She is simply ignorant.

[@tozzchuq7949]

A very smart comment

[@prospernnadi5027]

@@asanwa3126 Exactly my thought. I'm a Nigerian man living in Nigeria and we have so many wonderful Men here. I don't doubt that we have bad Men. But why focus on the bad ones?

[@asanwa3126]

@@prospernnadi5027 Most of my few women make the wrong choice in men but never blame themselves for their poor judgement in character. Also they do these to get traffic to their channel.

[@afrocentricallyshakina]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I’m not Naija but I’m quite used to them. Girl you are hilarious. I’m subscribing!

[@denisedixon-george3866]

This isn’t a Nigerian man issue, my dear. It’s a man issue. Men (married & single) do this all over the world. All penises are looking for a whole to get into. Nationally has nothing to do with 😂

[@emmachukwuma8757]

Please tell this lady that doesn't know where she came from, making a useless vid, that doesn't know that crime has no nationality

[@simplysam7064]

I am from Philippines and crazy inlove to a tall dark handsome faithful kind god fearing Nigerian man😍😍😍😍😍

[@artemis1style]

Lol, one. The highest percentage are definite cheats.

[@lionsimba723]

Nigerians don’t take no for an answer. One guy followed me with his car from street to street while I was walking to the store.😂 then he pulled over and approached me. I told him I’m married with kids and he still insisted we should be friends. I said no but still asked for my number. Ah! I just walked away. I don’t want to cheat

[@hopeanozie5842]

Girl, you should be a comedian. This is a breath of fresh air haha 😂

[@gracesiby9176]

You are very right, I’m glad it’s coming from another Nigerian ,that’s Nigerian men for you hahahaha😍😍😍😍from your new subscriber

[@jcollins9392]

This sounds like men period. I’ve dated white,Hispanic black and there is good ones and TERRIBLE ones in each race. I honestly feel I was more respected by Nigerian men

[@prospernnadi5027]

So happy to hear something positive about our Men. I don't know any country with perfect Men.

[@anitaainomugisha4131]

New subscriber...u r funny as hell

[@DeborahOscar]

+Anita Ainomugisha thank you very much!!

[@davidaigbe4635]

I love your story but not all Nigeria men are like that okay please I'm Nigerian but sometimes people are like that okay not only Nigeria

[@Luvufirst]

Damn, I am AA, and I met a Nigerian man...he loved his mother (treats her beautifully)... It was a very strange 3 weeks. He had a London accent..., apparently his fam were both Yoruba and Ebo, IDK... he said wonderful things in the beginning.. but our 1st date he was physically forward, grabbed me up and forced a kiss..then took my hand to touch him and ttied to direct to give him head... i was disgusted. And turned off...i left on the 3rd week he called me and asked for 500 dollars because his friend needed help out of jail. WTH...No....we were not in a relationship, knew each other 2weeks , saw one another 3 times and you ask me this...he said he was a King and should be treated as one... i said.. you have to have a Kingdom to be a King and not sleep on your uncle's couch... asking women for money, that makes you a jester in your own court. He was upset...so we stop talking... a month later, he calls me late and says get up, o am coming to your town.. i said i was sick... he said what does that have to do with me... Lawd his mouth was crazy before with me before the incident... he said his gma told him about women like you... i daid did your granny know know her gson aint shit, begging counz from women... Btw... he was beautiful... chocolate dark skin...6'4 ... He wanted to apologize ...but again it came off... rude...smdh and prideful... But damn he was fiiine... smdh

[@crystaleyes4288]

Chai I love u Debby❤❤🤣🤣🤣

[@MsMandyTourer]

You had me at , "come excuse me , come " lol

[@dimplez79]

I just watched your video. This is my first time on your channel. Queen, you are beautiful, funny, charismatic, and remind me of myself at times! You are my BFF in my head! 😂 I just subscribed, and I'm going to follow you on IG!!!!!!!

[@TruLawCrime]

Love my Nigerian man & he is doing everything right 😃 Waiting on his family to give their blessing for our marriage as they want him with a Igbo woman. 💍🙏🏽 That’s the problem

[@khadijahslife8111]

I know this is off topic but you are soooo beautiful 😭💗

[@jadecarter1555]

You are so gorgeous 💕💕 just wanted to share some love!

[@DeborahOscar]

Thank you very much ❤❤

[@Simplyonmynextlevel]

I am done😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣

[@diamanta_lht2106]

You are a 10 girl!!! 😍 LOL. Video is hilarious!

[@shakitashontajones]

I use to think they have to be the most romantic men on the planet or full of crap one of those statements are true.😂😂😂

[@olaolu]

so, no one here has a good experience about Nigerian men. Y'all have been dating the wrong folk

[@artemis1style]

Actually, there are a few but I'm not surprised that the majority of experiences, including mine, shed a negative light on the overtly deviant behaviour of many Nigerian males.

[@marilyntheard4429]

Ok Hold up let me write that down Graduated-in the university of stupidity 😂

[@henyeboah8921]

The “can we friends” line annoys me to death. Your 40-50 I’m 19, and you asking me to be your “friend”. Have u any self respect.

[@oluakinwale4859]

Hennetta Yeboah - so u are insinuating that this can only be Nigerians and not also men from another country. If they asked be ur friend and u are not interested simply walk away! Are there no older Ghanaian men dating young Ghanaian girls?

[@dianabilska9001]

@@oluakinwale4859 sir, they shouldn't be asking a 19 year old to be their 'friend'. We all know what that really means when a man is 40-50 with a wife and kids.

[@oluakinwale4859]

@@dianabilska9001ma, so is this peculiar to Nigeria men? Are their no men in their 40's and 50's or even 60's dating younger women all over the world? Men all over the world have their unique chat up lines and varies with countries. I will say this again to women, if a man try to chat u up, whatever the chat up line is and u are not interested simply walk away. I don't know what the problem. is. Yes the man may have a wife and children it does not stop them from having side chicks. The fact is that for every man on the face of the earth there are 3 women, that's a ratio of 1:3 so what should happen to the 2 women? No husbands or partners? Body no be fire wood. The truth is those women also need men married or not married.

[@dianabilska9001]

@@oluakinwale4859 your little 1:3 ratio statistic at the end was a reach. How about you tell those particular older men to not be predatory in the first place?

[@oluakinwale4859]

@@dianabilska9001 what statistics is reach. There is nothing wrong with an old man dating a young lady as long as she is of "age" and both consent. " Predatory" is completely different. Hope u understand that!

[@zaydayplay2]

You had me at Woolwich Arsenal bus stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣 subscribing now ❤️

[@casinomeek9369]

Facts! Nigerian men just don’t care. You are hilarious this was a great video.

[@malajm84]

looooooooooooool......im crying

[@charleshart8641]

Well lady while I could see to your reason,it's not peculiar to Nigerian. It's a man's thing. When a man is full of confidence he goes straight to the point when talking to lady and when he don't, he beats around the bush . Even whites behave that way. Even the black American male is likely to stop a lady he admired along the road and expressed his feelings rather than prolonging his desire by asking to go on a date. 40 years Nigerian man asking you out is not good thing, but it's not peculiar to Nigerian as well ,why should Mick jagger at 75 years date a girl in her 20s and even got impregnated Donald trump and his wife , Clooney and his wife and many more. I very much like the way you insulted him , but it's not peculiar to Nigerian. Visit most African and Asian countries and Arab nations you would find ladies married to men twice there age and they're not all Nigerians. Its all about men having the guts Lol.

[@ceoochardent876]

She's an idiot

[@artemis1style]

You should never speak for all males, Nigerian or otherwise. I figure there must be a few good males in any culture but the majority of experiences I have experienced with Nigerian males and also others I know to have been involved with them, have been bad. The population is greater than many places so they stand out more but they are often overtly arrogant as well.

[@kaaaykaaay93]

3:39-3:46 JESUUUS IS LORD! 😂😂😂 had me literally on the floor

[@emmanuelekanem7888]

Yo I just have to comment. If nothing I loved the videos and sounds you used for the reactions, they were perfect.

[@mirelairinapetre6503]

You,girl! You made me laugh in tears!

[@jahudini]

You will not get to see a hard working middle to upper middle class Nigerian in that compromise. Simply put, you guys are basically meeting the wrong crowd. I know some of these Nigerians(30's and early 40's), they work for NASA, BIG PHAMA, MEDICINE, ACADEMIA, AERO-SPACE, FINANCE and ENGINEERING.....they don't attend Nigerian reunions, they don't take buses, and quite frankly they are very busy men and women. They move with selected peers as themselves and on average their family combined income is between $180k- $350 K+ yearly and they live in rich suburbs. Most of these people are off-springs of the Nigeria civil servents(Doctors of teaching hospitals, academics, engineers, Federal and State service officers) of the late 70s and 80s....kids we called "ajebo", These pockets in timeline where fortunate, cos the Naira and the civil service still had sway that period(IBB Era). They left the Country 90s to the very early 2000s. They are the ones their parent could still pay for a 4-year college overseas with their salaries. You see them in top position in their companies....the bragging that's done is between their peers: What private school do your kids attend? what car do you drive, what is your area code, what is your career status. This group is a large group, that prefer to live in their bubble. A lot of these folks are the Nigerians ppl point to as the highly educated diasporas. But you don't see them.

[@sisey99]

jahudini And they definitely do not harass ladies in the street or anywhere for that matter.

[@ajaabai9850]

You are absolutely right! They have no time or desire to harass any one!!

[@sojiadamo5212]

I've got so much to say about this, however all I have to say is that you are great! 🇳🇬😊

[@justinelobina2580]

It's soo true😂 I really love it! I haven't been laughing this hard since the beginning of time😂

[@maryroybal678]

It seems Nigerian men are scammers. The Nigerian women are pretty. My daughter is from Kenya. Her name is WANGUI Marta chege.

[@emmachukwuma8757]

who impregnated U? U don't bad men in Kenya or wherever U come from pretender? holier than thou

[@teeitsme]

Thanks for sharing sis. This is so true!

[@segzieblack873]

First, I’m a Nigerian, your location determines your allocation. Why are you coming across unfortunate Nigerians while some Nigerian men are soaring in the fulfilment of their dreams and ambitions, getting successful and achieving their goals. Why are you not in contact with Nigerian men that are the best in their community making impact and affecting others for good without any funny motives? You need to change your friends or your location. You didn’t see the confidence of other Nigerians breaking bounds and doing well, rather seeing the ones wasting their lives and time, my worry is, you see yourself constantly approached by those on a regular basis? Then you need a check up of the kind of person you really are.......

[@HearttoHeartTV]

You as a a woman need also to be able to say NO especially from the beginning, some don't wear wedding ring either way you have to be careful with them. #hearttohearttv

[@artemis1style]

It's still their bad behaviour and responsibility not to break their commitments. I will never blame other females or anyone they cheat with.

[@danashaw8463]

Slippers in the snow!!! LMAO!!!

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

😅😅😅😅 the best video I have watched so far about Nigerians 🤣🤣.....

[@foxxybrowneyes5497]

I am.an african. American woman who met a Nigerian men on Instagram and he is in love with me and I'm asking him how can you be in love with me and you don't even know me all that wel...but we do talk on an app called WhatsApp we've been talking for a couple months now and he wants to come to America to be with me but I'm like I don't know i don't think so....he wants to marry. Me and all that he is 26 to young for me I am 36 it just don't seem right to me he is like my little brother age....and I keep telling him that but he keeps telling me that he likes older woman....im just glade that he is not over here in America because he probably would find out we're I stay at and be stocking me like a man man like the rest of these men that like me🤣😁😂

[@naijapidginenglish3030]

Wy all my 9ja men? make we gather hear all this ladies there plan nor go work oooh ijn Amen.

[@nessaduh8033]

EXCUSE ME PLEASE!!!! someone please tell me what the clip is at 4:47 because i am crying tearssss

[@steveeleigh3731]

Some nollywood movie. They usually overact.

[@Patience679]

Lmao😂 I love you girl. Best Nigerian men story telling.

[@ShayandTrav]

Love the video!

[@DeborahOscar]

+ShayandTrav thank you very much!

[@TheELondonTV]

The transition loool

[@DeborahOscar]

ELDN.WORLD 😂😂😂

[@TheELondonTV]

Hey Deborah I would like to use the clip of the pastor giving it to the audience lol where did you get it from? I'll be happy to shout you out in the video I use it in. X

[@DeborahOscar]

Feel free to use it. I found it on KZbin. i think if you type fake Nigerian pastor (or something like that) it'll come up. x

[@julietatoi9674]

Hello, Deborah. Nice video. That's my Pastor on the clip you added to your video, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. Am am offended by your response here. Please kindly do your research and verify your information before you label anyone or anything as fake. Am not sure, but i think you might be infringing on some copyright issues by using that clip in your videos. Thank you.

[@endyokezie7372]

Why bother to give these Nigerian men your number if you recent them so much?..Oh and so you're aware..not all Nigerian men are as you describe them..thanks

[@maureenlionel2139]

First experience is when she gave him the number. Why are you so mad? Is she talking about you.?😏🙄

[@MimiWonders]

This is hilarious.😂 "You know nah"😂😂😂😂

[@royroyroy7293]

Not all of them hun, unfortunately you met one of the bad blood.

[@sukilee2486]

Gorl your video is sooo funny but true! Thank You for bringing laughter into.my life--

[@jessicaapril4785]

your too funny. we need more more more videos like this pleaseeee 😂

[@DeborahOscar]

Jessica's Face thank you so much. I will film some more next week.

[@emmanuelyusapa4047]

My brothers Nigerians. Most of them dramatize as real believes, or teachers, or business men ( oga ) but he is hunting the girls until he achieved. The problems is here he will marry u okay. He will live with u until he make sure that he is in Europe or America after he gets his papers or citizenship immediately he will lived u with children or without children he just gone .& go back to Nigeria & marry from there. This is the life of Nigerians. Looking for money & international passports.

[@jessicachansler9336]

I love your accent. This was funny to me

[@princesspink0816]

omg!! That man was stupid! lol!

[@zweeterion]

I hate that my comment will sound a little off, because your video is actually a positive video. I have seen so many videos bashing Nigerian men by black American women.All sorts of gold diggers are jumping on the bashing bandwagon. As an African girl, i have met other men including white guys that wanted to sleep with me. I don't think a man wants to sleep with you thinking you are easy is because they are Nigerian or from Jamaica. I wish Nigerian men would avoid these black women in America and date other races. I know its hard for them to date other races because black american girls are naturally of same skin color and look like the type of women they would like to marry. My own little brother was almost killed by his black american girl friend. So now he knows better. Black people have never liked themselves, folks should start telling ourselves the truth.

[@prosperitymarc333]

omg yesss !!!!!!!!!!!! soooo TRUUUUEEEEE IM CRYING

[@ruthnyiraziboneya1288]

girl you lie,all Nigeria men are not the some am married to a Nigeria guy and he treat me like a queen.maybe you meet wrong ones.and trust me Nigeria men knows if a girl is serious or faking it.and some ladies depend on men if there dating Nigeria guy.so tell if you depend on him on your first date do you think he will ever think of marrying you.

[@godsongodson1675]

Thank you queen.

[@ajalahupfront]

Nigerian men this, Nigerian men that. Just because you know that a video bashing will gather a crowd. Are you happy now?

[@kelvinsmith799]

Yeah I think she's happy with it😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡STUPIDITY