Debra’s Parents Are Getting a Divorce | Everybody Loves Raymond

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Season 5 Episode 23: Separation
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[@cStatE95]

Derba finally threw marie out

[@lindadigiovanni9356]

About time!

[@jonathancruz5932]

Marie is too nosy

[@rickyayy]

I love Derba, Debra's ulter ego

[@bromasi]

About time

[@bromasi]

Ramon is a complete idiot,oops forgot it’s not real 🤪

[@renaissance18]

debra closing the door on marie at 0:38 LOL

[@Pacvalham]

"I have marble cake!"

[@artistjoh]

Needed to happen more often.

[@frankmiranda707]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@seanswinton6242]

I lost it when I saw Debra eating. It was like she had the munchies!

[@Pacvalham]

Passing a stone? You've got to be kidney me.

[@willyhwang1059]

Didn’t expect that last line Lol

[@amosmaka6030]

"No you don't. I drop a sock on the floor and you scream like a horror movie." - Ray 😂😂😂😂. One of the many funny lines of the show. 😂😂😂

[@mindriot91_96]

Katherine Helmond is a wonderful actress.

[@ambika66681]

This is the first time I hav seen Ray actually talk to his wife bout her feelings !! This must b an exhausting marriage.

[@TheBLT883]

its a sitcom buddy calm down

[@wfl19]

​@@TheBLT883 these are based on real marriages the writers went through or heard.

[@belinhobeli9569]

"This must b an exhausting marriage." Yeah, thats what a marriage is.

[@elainagilbert7663]

This is the first time Debra is actually going through something. The show mainly focuses on Ray and his shenanigans, hence the title.

[@sandiego2380]

@@wfl19 how about we have a sitcom that actually shows the gender stereotypes reversed? Huh? How about we have a sitcom that doesn't always depict the husband as the screw up, how about we have husbands that are more than goofy loving, but smart hard earning compassionate? These husbands and marriages like these exist too. Why do we always have to depict marriages where the woman is the victim and the husband the screw up?!

[@rademfam6856]

Rays character was never told to us that he has asbergers

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

I actually think this is a sweet moment between them here. Debra worries about their marriage if her parents' seemingly perfect marriage didn't works out showing it does means lot to her even if she and Ray sometimes bickers. On Ray's end, he is actually very gentle and reasonable with her even if he is giving her some hard facts that she may not want to hear. It is so sweet how in the end of the episode, Debra wanted him to hold her in bed to feel better and he does that for her.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

He is saying extremely stupid things here.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

What wrong with trying to make a uncomfortable situation a little more bearable?

[@smmds]

Did you watch this full episode? He was horrible. When she told him that her parents are splitting up he actually laughed at her again and again then she went downstairs and started binge eating. Later he makes stupid jokes and trivialises her pain again.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

Maybe he is laughing at relief like he thought it was something real serious. Like he said here everybody pretty much saw this coming for some time so it wasn't really a surprise. Also, we all have that stupid moment where we respond to a situation the wrong way. Plus, what would you prefers if you were in that situation? Would you want someone to say oh my god this is horrible. Your life is going to end forever and your mother is a horrible human being? Or would you want your partner to tries to have you takes a small step back, look at the situation in a more reasonable way and tries to make you feel better by laughing a bit?

[@smmds]

@@user-ie8om9rr2g well any normal human being with some emotional intelligence would give a hug or ask if there's something they could do to help or just plain give a listening ear. Why should the alternative to being a gigantic asshole by laughing continuously be another idiotic response of insulting the parents, calling the mum horrible, life would end or whatever weird things you said? That doesn't make any sense at all.

[@KTopics]

I love marble cake marble cake is delicious. ❤

[@Sam19509]

Buy it from Costco.

[@sateeshmaharaj9730]

So nice you had to say it twice 😂 Bon Appetit 😊

[@seanswinton6242]

​@@Sam19509Thank you. I'll look for it. I haven't had marble cake since my mother passed away. Same goes for her lemon cake with lemon glaze.

[@georgiasmith64]

Entimanns, they have a display at the end of the aisle (I could go for an entimanns, right about now...😐)

[@lynnharris3189]

I take it that Debra was closer to her father than her mother and that’s why she blames her mother for the demise of the marriage.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

I take it Jennifer is closer to mom then

[@TheBandit025Nova]

Well look who plays her mom she has range of dating guys

[@redacted2275]

No, her mom was the one who asked for the divorce. Later on, Debra finds out her mom was not telling the whole truth when her father says it was a mutual decision.

[@redacted2275]

​@@user-ie8om9rr2gYeah, you're all presume too much.

[@redacted2275]

​@@TheBandit025NovaMona was savage lol

[@animequeendrawer]

As funny as this was Ray gave a very reasonable reason why Debra’s parents are divorcing. Look, marriage isn’t easy and there are many different types in every household. However, as crazy, weird, and annoying as Ray and Robert’s parents were, they never kept their problems inside. If there was something that was bothering, considering, or troublesome to them, they’d say it. Guess you could say it’s an openly LOUD marriage but somehow it works. Debra’s parents may have started out may lower volume as Marie’s and Frank’s but then as they grew they bottled it up thinking it was a silly reason to fight over. But Marie said something wise in an episode: “There’s gonna be fighting. There’s gonna be yelling. And you act like there’s something wrong with that. You love them, you hate them. Don’t avoid hate, hate is real.” You’re gonna feel all types of emotions in a marriage even hate. But as long as you talk about it, speak about it, and come to an even middle you’ll plow right through it and enjoy and last through.~

[@photondebuger45]

Funny the end of the episode or something ray did like fortell how frank and marie stayed so long and it was like he said, they kept everything in the open oh wait it was a different episode i think when pat smoked. That was it because they all started fighting cept them, but they both said everything is out in the open that they needed no like secret stress releavers to like tolerate the other. Like how frank says marie to be quiet really, yes not nice but marie knows too she can be difficult. And vise versa as well.

[@suetorres8816]

Debra did one of my moves pretzels n ice cream lol .

[@JaketheJust]

4:19 Sometimes couples stay together for the sake of their kids. Maybe, if keeping things up and now seeing Debra as a grown adult with her own family, they couldn’t keep it together anymore.

[@illikainen12]

Why is he laughing?

[@isabelbeckerman9226]

He's just being insensitive because he wouldn't believe that Debra's lovey-dovey parents are splitting up, and he finds the situation too amusing for him to stop chuckling. Raymond has moments where he can be charming and caring, but at times, he can be a total jerk, and this is where he's at his lowest.

[@smmds]

He was laughing at her from the moment she broke the news to him. His character in the show was a whiny, selfish, insensitive jerk.

[@jonathancruz5932]

To Marie: Not a good time To Debra: I am sorry about your parents' separation.

[@godzillamothra5983]

ray is even more insensitive than his father

[@Tokuman100]

Yeah, there's a difference between using humor as a coping mechanism and using humor as an excuse to be an insensitive dolt.

[@mr.anti-hero4398]

Yea, ... but unlike his father he doesn't have enough guts to be himself

[@belinhobeli9569]

Womens favorite word: "insensitive".

[@redacted2275]

​@@Tokuman100Frank does neither, what are you talking about?

[@redacted2275]

Are you daft? Frank is unapologetically rude to everyone, it just happens that Marie is no better than him. No sane woman would've married to Frank.

[@bibiworm]

I honestly wouldn't want Ray to be my husband for a million years... He is even worse than Frank.

[@georgevarughese4886]

He works and provides for all of them!

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

Actually I thought he was pretty sweet and reasonable to her here. Never easy to hear your parents divorcing but he is trying here.

[@carlosoomano]

​@@user-ie8om9rr2gsetting the bar extremely low...

[@Vjl5280]

Debra emasculates her husband, complains about her in-laws cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the children, sits at home with no income and has the audacity to have a complain fest everyday. If I were Ray I’d run away and find a real women who would appreciate having the love and support of her in-laws instead of inserting her ego in every situation because she has self-esteem issues, and appreciates a man that provides with a job that’s honorable. You people are insane and oafish.

[@jabronirigatoni4648]

Debra is a psycho wife. Ray while a little childish and egotistical, is a family earner, loves his wife, treats everyone kindly, is a good father. Debra is a good mother but a terrible wife who complains about everything when her husband provided her with 3 children, a house, and a great future with early retirement once the kids leave. Basically, a dream life. She is a perfect representation of toxic women/wives, never happy, always complaining.

[@alexandermenitsoskauc]

alexander ❤

[@georgehewett6243]

Debra was always yapping at Ray because he wasn't a big help or a pillar of strength, and this episode proved she wasn't exactly an exemplar on the topic either.

[@user-bg7jv7pv5s]

Kidney stone passed

[@DrkngelDelossantos]

I had a hard time finishing my pie

[@pkspecial2196]

All the hidden links on KZbin videos is getting out of hand. I barely brush it with my hand and 5 links pop. Got to be really careful where you touch the screen 😢

[@yolandaponkers1581]

I HAVE MARBLE CAKE

[@trinithospe]

Im sorry Debra aggravated me.....complaining and yelling at everything

[@smmds]

This is not even the worst part of the episode. He was laughing at her many times before this clip of her in the kitchen, that's why she walked out of the bedroom to the kitchen. In real life a woman like Debra would never tolerate a selfish, man child who lacks empathy like Ray.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

You do realize that we're only seeing their bad days right?

[@sws212]

​@@user-ie8om9rr2gThere are a lot of bad days. Imagine in a single year, a couple having 15-20 bad days like they do.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

I'm sure there are. No marriage are happy 24/7 a year. You takes the bad along with the good. The two seem happy together and they have had their sweet and good moments. We're seeing the bad days because they're more intriguing and funny. Would be boring if they were always so loving and understanding wouldn't you think?

[@Zodroo_Tint]

@@user-ie8om9rr2g It is very clear we seeing mostly their bad days I don't get why pople don't see this. One of the intro introduce the childrens and it say right after that it is not about the childrens, they have a family what is hardly working but working and we see them when they are struggling and funny, it is not about the functional family stuff it is about the disfunctional stuff. But those who want to be honest can catch several moment when they are happy together.

[@NicoleCzarnecki]

Unfortunately, many women tolerate men like Ray, and they even Stockholm themselves into thinking that they’re good and masculine instead acknowledging that they’re abusive and misogynistic.

[@kennethpaulsen5407]

she should have dumped him a looooong time ago

[@JohnSmith-zu5zx]

Do we have a confirmed name for this guy yet?

[@emdee8840]

All I'm thinking of is that Patricia Heaton probably skipped a real meal in order to offset the calories from this stupid scene of cookies and ice cream.

[@bert1913]

Debra and Angela are sisters?

[@bigrivtodagled8210]

It would drive me mad if my MIL would be this nosy.

[@derhampaul2182]

Louis got seperate from Deborah's dad

[@brittanyc.4540]

It’s Lois and yes, it’s true.

[@rahulm2827]

Ray sounded as if he would burst out laughing any minute throughout the entire episode. Great acting. However. I hate such ppl. Its a personality disorder if you can bring up even a bit of empathy for someone else. And specially the person you supposedly love the most in the whole world. Such ppl do exist, - they dont just feel bad for othersy they even enjoy it. Just horrible.

[@smmds]

Yeah exactly!!!. You should see how he behaved in the bedroom before this clip in the kitchen . You would be even more disgusted. He kept on laughing at her when she was clearly in so much pain.

[@annaalestra4263]

Hey my lasagne once blow out in the microwave it wasn't nice 😅

[@Greeceanditalydream]

Wow divorcing at such old age, they have endured so much. In couple more years, they would have died anyways. Sad world we live in

[@derhampaul2182]

It's very bad they got seperated for Deborah

[@georgevarughese4886]

They seem so Happy 😊 😃 😀

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

At least they waited until both of their daughters left home and started their own lives. From the little we've heard they did worked as a team to create many happy family memories for their daughters.

[@TheBandit025Nova]

Does Debra sister Angela know

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

If not at this moment then soon I'm sure

[@TheBandit025Nova]

@@user-ie8om9rr2gI hope you know who Angela is

[@TheBandit025Nova]

@@user-ie8om9rr2g I was making an reference to Who’s The Boss seeing The Mom plays Angelia’s mom on the show

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

@@TheBandit025Nova Ah. never mind then

[@tonyajones1463]

This is why u talk about what bothers u in a marriage u don't or never wanna hold anything inside other wise it wrecks your marriage. But also not calmly speaking about what bothers u both and u both do nothing but scream and yell is very toxic

[@NicoleCzarnecki]

If Marie kicks out Frank and Debra kicks out Ray, maybe the kids will grow up in a stable environment with a loving grandma whom doesn’t have to worry so much just across the street.

[@Zodroo_Tint]

Fatherless families are one of the biggest problem today in the big cities, those can be called a lot of thing but not stable environment. In this case Debra would need to find a job and Marie would take care of the childrens what means the kids would got the Robert and Ray treatment, they would grow up just as broken as them.

[@NicoleCzarnecki]

@@Zodroo_Tint , do you realize that it’s better to not have a father in the house than an abusive father whom you wish you did not have?

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

@@NicoleCzarnecki Actually, believes it or not but it is strongly implies that Ray and Debra's actual everyday relationship is more healthy and normal than what we're seeing. People gets so wrapped up in the fights that they forget that Ray and Debra have shown plenty of times to love each other. Ray is nowhere near critical to Debra as Marie is about her roles as housekeeper/mother (outside of cooking), takes the time to comes up all of these creative and unusual nicknames for her and occasionally had made her laugh. In return Debra puts up her in laws' antics for the sake for Ray and is often his confidant. She is also supportive of his job. She just wishes he would help her out a bit more without her having to nag him to do it. Both are also shown to be caring parents to their kids in their own way. We're likely only seeing their bad days since it more interesting and funny.

[@menonjaya3784]

Are you crazy? Debra is pushy to a fault and Marie is manipulative to one also. You want kids to grow up in this environment? Hitters and Hums

[@smmds]

Actually it's better for Debra to just divorce him , move away and raise the kids herself. Like Robert said, she could have done much better than Ray. Marie is so obsessed with her son that it's creepy.

[@sa5772]

I wonder what else Debra kept inside

[@donaldchadd4229]

Stop sending me these i did not ask for them .......

[@pauljackson1981]

Childish not grown up in the Closet Gay...

[@anthonyvasquezactor]

Debra, learn from your parents' example and divorce Ray. And take the kids, he doesn't want them anyway.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Let him keep the kids. Being the woman does not mean that she takes the kids. Why divorce him and make his life so much easier?

[@georgevarughese4886]

​@@Michelle-pn9xt your 100% right ✅️ 🤣

[@rgrndu]

This isn’t present day. Or real. It’s a sitcom from the 90’s. Get a grip.

[@user-ie8om9rr2g]

Ray and Debra loves each other and their kids. Don't take everything they says seriously. Robert himself even say at one point that he know that Ray wouldn't really trades this life for anything.

[@pasttimer27]

@@Michelle-pn9xtwho cares about the kids feelings huh?

[@user-sv7fd6es6s]

I think that Debra is acting very immature here, they are splitting up at 100 years old, who cares, get over it. You are 40 with your own family, focus on that.

[@dietrichjoanne]

Debra is a brat 😒.

[@user-sv7fd6es6s]

@@dietrichjoanne agreed

[@randallsmith329]

Wow, it’s a TV show……..did you have a meltdown when JR got shot? don’t take things so seriously.

[@AC-hu3xk]

Get life ... this is a TV show

[@scottanthony6269]

I find Ray one very annoying man the attention has to be always on him

[@ruthecker399]

hate hate ray

[@SlytherSnake]

So sorry 😢😢

[@Zodroo_Tint]

It's a show about him and his surrounding, you should stop watching this show.

[@g1rldraco7]

You know I find it hard to believe that Debra holds stuff in because she’s always venting to Ray even though his mother is the one that’s the issue. I’m sure Ray didn’t mean to laugh at her news of her parents splitting up. When people are shocked or nervous they respond to ease the tension and laughing is bad. But Ray is right Debra is competitive and sometimes relationships don’t last and just because it happened to her folks doesn’t mean it’ll happen to her and Ray. Although I am worried what is Debra holding back from Ray anyway

[@raywhitehead730]

Another reason Ray is a wimp. I wouldn't care about her parents.

[@menonjaya3784]

I love this episode. Just desserts for a pretentiousness snob familty