There's nothing wrong with have lots of WIPS. If its okay with you, that's all that matters. I totally understand wanting to be part of the group colours and whatnot - the social aspect of it is really the point. There are many buddies/groups I've fallen behind in or not completed. In the end the only person disappointed is myself - and I'm learning to give myself some grace and not push myself too hard. Beautiful work so far. Looking forward to a whole wonderful year of colouring and friendship with you!