Decide This Dilemma: Forgotten Birthdays to Hidden Engagements

[@demitran8058]

IM BEGGING U GUYS KEEP THE SHOW FOR ONE MORE LIVE AUDIENCE SEASON WE NEED IT!!!

[@shacara6440]

Ditto

[@alaoabigail]

The show virtually helped me with my mental health. Yes esp the live audience show. Please keep the show☹🥺

[@truelove-lo7fn]

That's all they need...a audience..Jeannie back...so we can see them dance out like they use to do..playing games to get to see their fun sides...its the missing audience that's it..Garcielle is perfect addition..she deserves a chance

[@Fupababy]

Wait are they getting cancelled ? :(((

[@RealTakerslady]

I hope this is a bad rumor, I’ve been miserable since I heard it

[@ace8926]

That Facebook part of the conversation was hilarious 🤣😆😂

[@D2J8]

I don’t understand - Why is it a problem that Garcelle’s on Facebook?

[@mikaharrigan445]

@@D2J8 cause most people are off Facebook now.

[@julielove8932]

@@mikaharrigan445 why are people off Facebook

[@reneebhurasingh3727]

@@julielove8932 they think it's for old people and its not 'as fun' as insta

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

@@julielove8932 Facebook let's a lot of misinformation go, especially people who pay for ads. Facebook knows they are false and push propaganda from foreign governments. Plus they track all of your information. They are some of the worst offenders and mislead people in their policies. Plus it's for old people 😂

[@kaylenejantjes8113]

KEEP THE REAL GOING!!

[@rachelsmith5643]

yes please!

[@jayjanzee9059]

I wish we had a lot more time with Garcelle on this show

[@ceeceedior21]

I don’t like her on here.

[@rachelsmith5643]

me too, she's been awesome!

[@alexandraanderson3988]

@@ceeceedior21 Why not??

[@mellanieachieng5616]

I love Garcelle's honesty ☺️

[@FlwrPetalsOnVenus]

Why the people in the back laughin at garcelle still being on Facebook 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@dance4life1208]

Nah that ring for somebody else. This same situation happened on Degrassi with Craig and that bracelet.

[@toluoladele873]

LOL not you comparing this to Degrassi 🤣🤣

[@ashleyrogers1930]

Girl, gone and log off 🤣

[@anayajones223]

😭😭😭

[@miniplants3558]

I canttt not degrassiiiii 😂😭😭😂😂

[@sunshinepeace]

Lol the nostalgia!!!

[@ashleyrogers1930]

I'm with Adrienne, I would tell the friend. I wouldn't tell the boyfriend because my friend could have just been venting and saying she was gonna breakup with him but wasn't serious.

[@gaila.9852]

Ooh, that is a great point. Now the boyfriend is saying, “You were going to break up with me?”

[@user-gt6dp1jg5d]

This show is just simply not the same without Jeannie! Can’t wait until she comes back. All the girls look beautiful!

[@2sense110]

So who was that Asian girl that was sitting with them an imposter

[@virgobleu27]

That is Jeannie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maurissasabazan9687]

@@fakeaccount704 was this episode aired before her stomach start showing 🤔 because she doesn't really looked that way anymore....🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@maurissasabazan9687]

@@fakeaccount704 👌🆗️

[@ceeceedior21]

@@maurissasabazan9687 no. During the premiere of the season she announced her pregnancy and was huge

[@zaydi05]

Loni's face! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@izorajohnson6987]

Always stay patient and let him do it on his own time when it comes to proposing. I feel like it would break trust and the surprise. It wont be special and men dont like to be pushed or rushed. Wait and tell him years into the marriage that way it can be laughed off.

[@justafanfave228]

Exactly!!!

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

I love this show!!!

[@rachelsmith5643]

me too

[@williamshoven]

If you're doing something for somebody and expect something in return. It's no longer a gift, it's a business transaction.

[@naomijuliekenga7524]

This show needs to stay!

[@alisalopez4780]

I’m so upset :((( this show WILL FOREVER be my comfort show🥺love every women that’s been a host

[@molokomojela2001]

G Money, just love you. Got me cracking....I will also go put it on all the time. As soon as he leaves, it'll be onnnnnnn,

[@samiyoabdiali7214]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS SHOW PLZ KEEP IT GOING 🔥🔥🔥🔥👑👑👑👑🖤🖤🖤🖤💜💜💜💜✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

[@marissa._]

I'm with Jeannie AND Adrianne. I'm telling BOTH people. If I'm friends with a couple and they both came to me in confidence about something going on in their relationship and one half of that couple is about to MORTIFY the other person...I'm telling BOTH parties involved! To him: "Hey, man, listen. (*Insert female name here*) is planning on breaking up with you. IDK if you still wanna go through with this party but maybe hold off for now and talk to your girlfriend. She's not happy." To her: "Before you break up with him and embarrass him, you need to know that he's planning a romantic surprise for you. So before you go through with the break up, talk to him and let him know BEFOREHAND and tell him how you're truly feeling and that you're not happy."

[@gaila.9852]

In this situation, it seems best to speak with one of them and hint at what is going on instead of straight up betraying the trust of the other person.

[@marissa._]

@@gaila.9852 In my scenario, I'm not betraying anyone's trust. If you're friends with me, PLUS the guy I'm dating and he told you that he planned on breaking up with me...and I'm here thinking everything is fine in our relationship so to show my appreciation, I plan a romanic getaway and YOU KNOW he plans on dumping me....I would hope that as my friend, my friend would be 100% HONEST with me, kept it REAL with me, kept it 💯 and STRAIGHTFOWARD with me and tell me about how my BF plans on breaking up with me! I would hope that as my friend, my friend wouldn't beat around the bush and have me looking like a mortified fool! Normally (*on a personal level*), if I'm friends with a couple and they BOTH tell me things in confidence, in regards to the other person in their relationship, depending on what it is, I typically WOULDN'T say anything to betray anyone's trust and I normally would just keep it either to myself all together or with the ONE person in question. In THIS PARTICULAR SITUATION, I would also hope that my friend talk to my BF and gave him a heads-up that I'm planning a romanic getaway and that if he had any RESPECT for me, my friend would tell him to come talk to me so he can tell me how he's feeling! I can see how it may "look like" I'm ‘betraying’ someone's trust but I'm actually not. ESPECIALLY if I'm friends with BOTH people involved! The one doing the planning can ALWAYS plan SOMETHING ELSE in the future....IF the couple in question decides to stay together.

[@gaila.9852]

@@marissa._ In this scenario, I think you should talk to one person then let them handle the situation with their partner. Going back and forth seems messy. If you come to me and tell me that that my partner is going to break up with me, I do not need you to then go to my partner and tell them that I am planning a surprise for them. Likewise, if you come to me and tell me that my partner is planning a surprise for me, I do not need you to then go to my partner and tell them that I am going to break up with them. I can handle it from there.

[@nonkolo_faith]

I need at LEAST 1 more year with all 4 when Jeanie is back omg!!!! HILLERIOUS!!!!

[@MoroccanSama]

I knew Jeannie was never coming back because how can she keep going back and forth from Atlanta with a baby. Also Adrienne does not hide the fact she prefers to live in NY.

[@dawncullen0214]

These are old episodes & Adrienne is bicostal....

[@MoroccanSama]

@@dawncullen0214 are trying to be smart??😂😂 you sound so dumb. WE ALL KNOW JEANNIE IS NOT BACK YET. AND WE ALL KNOW ADRIENNE IS BYCOSTAL BUT SHE SAID ON HER CHANNEL ONCE LA KEEPS HER ONLY FOR WORK (THE REAL) she prefers to live fulltime with her fam in NY. My reaction here is on recent developments like most people because they keep uploading old videos. If I even thought this was a recent post I wouldn't say "I knew jeannie would not come back" while she is in this video... lol youre hilarious😂nice try though.

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

She still hasn't learned how to drive. Definitely wants to be back in New York

[@gaila.9852]

@@TheRedScareIsAlive She has to travel by car where she lives in New York.

[@krysejesieme4463]

LMFAO GARCELLE KILLS ME

[@carenasmith7]

I will scrap the plans and maybe she will get a text from me. My friends know I don’t play about my birthdays

[@LockedInNOW]

Lmaooo wait am 29 and still on FB , I just don’t be on it like that ! Dang y’all !

[@iriel4274]

One more season 😥😥

[@winter8646]

to be honest with the birthday situation. I guess you can call me petty, because I’ve surely gotten mad at my best friends for not wishing me a happy birthday. Like you’re my best friend. 🙄 how do you forget that?? Especially if we share the same birthday month! It might come off as petty or immature, BUT I’ll be that. I just feel birthdays are a time to celebrate your birth year, your friends birth year, family, parents, best friends, etc.

[@thetruehustler1365]

My friend called me to cry and complain about her husband… and I haven’t talked to her since… as in… she hasn’t called me.

[@gaila.9852]

Did the two of you talk about your birthday as it got closer? Sometimes life happens, and you do not fully process the date.

[@winter8646]

@@gaila.9852 well honestly sometimes I do forget when her actually birth date and idk know why, but then I remember her and my aunt share the same exact day of birth! So that helps me as well, plus when it’s out birthday month (January) we talk about it. Since her birthday is a week before mines. Plus we’ve been friends since like middle school days. And yes I can get that if sometimes they forget, so I can understanding of that …a bit. But what probably makes it more hurtful in a way is that I love to make everyone’s birthday special. Even if it’s small, I like to show that it matters. And I’ve realized that everyone doesn’t think the same way I do ( which is something I’m learning to accept) but sometimes it does suck. But we talk about it. Even certain family members, don’t even wish me a happy birthday. I try to not let that bother me as well, but it does.

[@gaila.9852]

@@winter8646 I get that. I do not know if this is everyone’s experience, but you may care less as you get older. Either way, I hope you feel special on every birthday!

[@winter8646]

@@gaila.9852 thank you. I’m just grateful for the ones who actually say it and that is what means the most to me. Yeah I’ll be bother, upset, mad, or angry about it…but eventually I move past it. As I do become older they are some things I am realizing with mindfulness and all I care about right now is showing myself that appreciation and self love. And loving others who loves me. Family or not. That’s genuinely how I see it. It might sound a bit off or whatever, but it is what it is.

[@cammy60467]

Can we get a video of all the looks from this season please!?

[@gaila.9852]

The third scenario is that you are friends with both of them. I wish Jeannie realized that!

[@tiffanymatsvai]

What if the ring wasn’t yours?😌😭 ps Jeannie you’re not on Facebook, girl I’m unfollowing your page then🤣🤣 who the hell have I been following this whole time?😅😅

[@GabyTk10]

Can someone tell me 2 things: 1. Why they're uploading videos of old shows? 2. Why is people talking about canceling the show in the comments section of other videos?

[@tatyanacierra1]

A blog broke the news last week about the show being canceled, they were also correct about Wendy Williams and Nick Cannon being cancelled on Fox. But Loni says the studio hasn’t told them yet.

[@hermindspeaks876]

because it's a business and it pays them, also faithful fans want to watch. 2. The final decision about the show hasn't been made yet

[@janneth2211]

About the first question, they’re on a break right now. But they’re preparing for new season with Jeannie back

[@MajesticMyronn]

1. These aren’t old shows… any content that u see that has Jeannie is NEW cuz we’ve never seen these episodes before ! But they were taped both before & during her maternity leave ! Her official return is in a few weeks ! 2.) There is no official decision on whether or not the show is cancelled… it’ll probably be negotiations and sponsors and things and contracts and things to take into consideration before officially cancelling this show !

[@MajesticMyronn]

@@kieraray2250 but here’s the thing those decisions were made and announced within 48 hours ! It’s been a week… The Real is FOX’s only non new talk show… from a business stand point if they want credibility and longevity on their network it would be BEST to keep all their POC talk shows within the lineup ! If The Real is cancelled after Dr.Oz was cancelled & now Wendy & Nick Cannon are both cancelled that would be the fourth talk show on the network to be cancelled in the last 3 months ! Nobody will tune in if it’s a constant revolving doors of talk shows coming in and out with no good rapport ! The Real needs to stay on for atleast two more years to reach 10 years of being on air so they can fill a quota atleast while Sherri & Jennifer Hudson are on ! Then if they want to get rid of it after that time period then so be it but rn I just don’t think I’d the right time unless they move to a different network or go on a steaming platform! Maybe even move to FOXSoul… I’d rather that than just completely scrap it not with the big following they have !

[@8luvbug]

2:54

[@manuela1102]

I'm like loni. Once my bday is coming, I start reminding everyone. For the engagement I would not say anything. And for the boyfriend thing I would tell him

[@Diva08180703]

So no one is thinking that he’s taking long cause the ring is prob for someone else…ijs 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@diannematthews4436]

Dilemma is I'm not paying for that bill.

[@damiagunbiade]

Wait Jeannie has returned yay. I've missed seeing her. When did she return back to the show. Does anyone know.

[@thatssobrandon]

No, this was filmed before she went on maternity leave.

[@RKCOMPILATIONS]

I feel like Jeannie or Adrienne wanted to leave the show and that’s why they’re canceling it

[@Angelthecupidgirl]

i think if that happened they would still just replace them like they did with Tam.

[@RKCOMPILATIONS]

@@Angelthecupidgirl that's too many replacements

[@lissetsanchez5316]

What is wrong with having a FB account? Did I miss something Jeannie? 🤔

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

It's played out

[@lissetsanchez5316]

@@TheRedScareIsAlive my 23 year old told me the same thing. 😂

[@nashpeart3738]

I dont get the Facebook part 😕. What's so funny???

[@cookiesncream789]

I don't understand either.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Maybe cause its so old school old news that's why probably I don't know and a lot o people still get teased for it😊😊🤭🤭🥴

[@brandon8365]

Where is the big jeannie comeback??

[@trulyjeannette]

Who is off Facebook? I don't follow trends, I just do what I want to do.

[@AlienShomoe]

Can y’all keep the show at least until Jeannie show her baby

[@jeriemlake4647]

Jeanie always talking for attention talking bout she not on face book. She thought that was a big joke. Nope 😭

[@meaganbianca2978]

Loni got dude friends that situation did not sound new to her been there done that. Opposite sex friendships are a bit different than same sex friendships

[@user-ne4fp2ts3n]

I hope this show doesn’t get cancelled but Adrienne can go

[@tisch9233]

I dont understand why people just cant talk about marriage? Like its a tabu or sth?

[@chello7262]

Omg thank you!!!! I remember when my husband & I first started talking I told him I’m not into marriage blah blah blah A year later he asked me “can I just ask why you don’t believe in marriage” told him my back story on how I ain’t gonna be like my parents and that’s when he told me “but it’s our story. We are not our parents faults” That one sentence made me rethink everything! Didn’t tell him I changed my mind.. few months past & he proposed to me 🙂 he said he was so nervous I was gonna say no.. We’ll be celebrating our 7th year married in Oct! 🙏🏼😻🙈 It’s a miracle what communication can do for a relationship 🙃😂

[@Tina_45]

Dont cancel the show:(

[@ashleyrogers1930]

You need to spam the Real social media so they can see that the show is still wanted. I truly believe that's how Sherri Shepherd got a show because people kept asking.

[@biancaalvarado7113]

Stay silent 💯🏠✅

[@haryel5058]

Hum people relationships aren’t my business and if I came across that Wedding ring , I wouldn’t have tell him. Just wait on his decision

[@manzelify]

Loni is hilarious

[@ngumtuma6839]

what if ur man bought the ring for someone else?

[@kristinaharris9609]

I like watching the Real but they never focus on real important topics of the world. The topics are so inmature and petty for teenage girls and inmature grown woman. No offense to Garcelle because I do believe she is mature and dont have time for the petty conversations on this show.

[@lindajohnson8118]

You are so right.

[@HR-re6mr]

Then watch something else?? Some ppl are looking for light topics and escape from the darkness

[@emm2058]

I love this and the show in general. The topics are always interesting. BUT does Adrienne ALWAYS have to answer FIRST?! 😩OMG it’s incredibly annoying. Otherwise I love the dynamics I notice they just kinda let her get away with it, which is nice of them. Like that’s really mature of the other 3 👍💖

[@HernandezOmarCharlie]

👍🏽

[@teeroo96]

Is Jeannie Back

[@bss6273]

Thank heavens the show is being shut down and hope for good, it's complete trash and the same rotating clock since 1999. Boring 😴

[@rinabrahmachari1168]

Good this show is getting canceled, content is good but everyone is singing the same tune when it comes to religion or politics, a conflicting opinion would have really worked.

[@koolerman4443]

Thats why the view will always be leagues above this show. Whenever someone disagrees its always looked down upon, but in the View its always expected. Thats why i think the show was great when Amanda was on. A lot of people didn't like her energy, but to me she at least challenged the show to not be so homogenous.

[@user-vk8qo8zj7q]

@@bsbgirl85 amanda brings the negative energy no thanks

[@ceeceedior21]

This is why we need tamar

[@Theperfect_opinion]

Does Jeannie get to wear pajamas on stage because she has a baby? Lonnie get to wear sneakers because she’s a little heavier than the others? When will they get back to treating their audience like they’re important? Right now only Adrienne and Garcel are dressing with respect for the audience.

[@ingrid8994]

What? 🙄😒

[@gaila.9852]

@@ingrid8994 Exactly! What?

[@Theperfect_opinion]

@Stacy R. that’s why their ratings are low… show won’t last

[@alexandraanderson3988]

@@Theperfect_opinion It was not that was not the reason or the main reason lmaoo😅😅