DECLUTTER WITH ME | DECLUTTERING AND MINIMALISM WITH FRUGAL FIT MOM | VLOGMAS #8

[@amberoleary5466]

Every sock that is lost in the washer/dryer comes back as a Tupperware lid that doesn't match any of your containers.

[@FrugalFitMom]

😂🤣

[@AC-qi9wo]

No kidding, if I don't find the match after 2 washing they are gone.

[@kristamatheson4013]

hahaha that is hilarious. Thank you for the laugh!

[@kristysmith9723]

We keep a lost sock basket, and when we're running low we do a few minutes of "sock speed dating". Last run we got down to just 3 odd socks...

[@ItCameFromAVlog]

Haha this.🤣🤣

[@jeanettethiessen2476]

I love the Minimal Mom too. She’s so inspiring. I am aiming for simple living. I’m in purge mode right now too. I’ve got a huge pile growing in the garage...once I have enough for a full SUV load then it’s leaving...it feels so good! It’s like a burden being lifted. I’ve don’t this lots of times but things still keep coming into the house somehow.

[@TheMinimalMom]

Hahaha, I think you're doing it right, lol! Way to go!!!

[@FrugalFitMom]

Thank you!!!! Now to tackle the paper clutter...

[@shalomseeker4535]

Yay! My two favorite vloggers 'meet'!

[@thepioneerhomestead]

I LOVE Dawn! You’re going to love her channel!🥰 We’re in Far North Idaho and we’re in our own world up here😉 There might even be church donation places in your area that don’t require scheduling. The only downfall to waiting is that you might be tempted to change your mind, so if that happen then put it in a bag where you can see what’s inside or tape boxes shut. You inspired me again today! What can I declutter????😘🤷🏻‍♀️

[@shaunalawrence3858]

@@shalomseeker4535 that’s what I was thinking!

[@dinabertrand9113]

I love both of your channels, yay!! Keep up the good work ladies, you have helped so many during such a tough year. Thank you 💗

[@maryrobinson2911]

Christine your hair looks amazing - love the cut and color

[@dinky..]

I was thinking exactly the same thing!! 😊😊😊

[@Saras_place]

Agree

[@2cajunteacher]

Looks so good on you!

[@theresastevens7057]

I was also thinking the same.

[@carmenalderton3101]

I commented before I read this, but I agree!!

[@betts258]

give used sheets and blankets to an animal shelter !!

[@prayersquad3391]

Homeless shelters too

[@spiral5650]

I donated 30+ 'dog' towels to my local vet who was greatly appreciative. It's another option.

[@abbyr2313]

My current couch is super deep, so if we’re watching a movie we will move the throw pillows and nestle into the couch crevices, but if we’re just sitting down for a minute or sitting and conversing with folks, we put a throw pillow behind us so we don’t sink back so far. Before this couch, I was team anti-throw pillow because we never used them and my dog ate them! But now I love them because they have a purpose in making our lives more comfortable (and it helps that the dog grew out of the “eat everything” phase)

[@donnamyers839]

Christine please keep the homeless shelters in mind when you donate. I got a new set of pans and donated the olds ones there. They also needed kitchen utensils. Hats, gloves, scarves and socks are also needed.

[@enjoyinglifewithsuzie375]

I’ve been watching Dawn for over a year! She is awesome! I’ve been minimizing because of her and I still continue!

[@mommamoore]

We don’t use throw pillows either, just something for the kids to literally throw and break something or each other lol 😂

[@jessicajasso7639]

Yes, this!

[@amiegamble1678]

I don't use throw pillows. I have one child. I keep a couple bed pillows. We use them when we sit or lounge on the couch.☺️

[@kellymcfalls1458]

Larissa Moore I like throw pillows

[@KL-tp3gq]

Life is too short to surround yourself with things you don’t love that you have to organize, clean, and maintain.

[@erineccentric5810]

I have functional but cute throw pillows. I like having a pillow to rest my head on when I'm really lounging. My dog also loves them so they have to stay. I make sure to use the zipper covers so I can wash them. What I don't use are all the bedding pillows. They look really nice when I have company over but they live in the top shelf of my closet 99% of the year.

[@patricianewman2046]

This is amazing: today I dropped off 3 boxes at Goodwill. Since I started decluttering a year and a half ago, I can't stop. Of course it gets slower as you go forward, but there is always something to get rid of. Once you are bitten by this bug, there is no going back. I love the Minimal Mom too. How sweet is that. Two lovely virtual "friends". Thank you for the inspiration.

[@KarmaTribe]

Ahhh those big things pf Tupperware could be used for when you send a meal to a friend or neighbor. They will love that they can keep the tupperware.

[@respectfullyyours9210]

Donate the pillows to a nursing home. They could use the for sitting up the patient. Just a thought.

[@HowToBeABookworm]

Everything you said about coffee tables and throw pillows is so true! I don’t have a coffee table either.

[@Sheskis]

Dawn the Minimal Mom is one of my faves! So are you, Christine! Love how REAL and down to earth you are!

[@lolabear6788]

I like being ruthless and purging. Then, I delay tossing or giving for a bit and end up taking back one or two things I was too rash with. Hahaha

[@amandaburger2506]

I've definitely gotten rid of a few things in the moment that I regretted later.

[@misspeaches1144]

My aunt goes ham on her closet like once a month and immediately gives away huge bags of clothes to family members. Then we’d wear the clothes around her and she goes “Hey that’s my shirt I was looking for that!” Then take it back 😂 she’s done that to multiple family members several times haha

[@julien1560]

Someone once taught me to set items aside for 6 months, so... we do have a six-month bin. If we dont touch it, then it gets set into the "donate pile". Stuff gets donated 6 months after that (so...basically you've held onto it a full year). Many times we've pulled items from donating OR been able to give directly to a neighbor, co worker, church when certain items are in need and we have it set aside for donation. This helps save us (and people we know) from spending out of pocket. This method of purging only works if you have the space to store a bin or two for a year, though.

[@leannewith3]

I love the minimal mom. I will never be as minimal as she is but she has definitely inspired lots of decluttering over the years.

[@bonannjr]

1. I’ve watched the minimal mom for quite some time and now when two you tubers I watch mesh, well that’s the bees knees. Also you are now my spirit animal with that hatred for throw pillows. I loathe them. Keep purging girl. It’s sooooo lovely.

[@MeghanReads]

I could watch decluttering videos all day.

[@laurisaspears1202]

We did this in our kitchen earlier this year. It was so liberating and I am so much happier with my organized cabinets. I’m on my clothes now. On first pass, I cleaned out about 1/3 of my wardrobe and over half my shoes.

[@SaturnGeminiLove]

I’m totally with you. I’m so tired of being surrounded by things that I don’t need anymore. I’ve been feeling a change inside me for a few weeks and I feel that I’m ready to start a new chapter in my life and be happy. Thank you Christine for everything you do. Every time I watch your videos, I feel like I’m watching my best friend. You are awesome!

[@prayersquad3391]

I love the Minimal Mom too!! I think we all have things we were told we were SUPPOSED to have but don't need, like tons of pillows and all sizes of baking products we never use. It is so freeing to get rid of things and really love what you have. I did the purge two years ago and haven't looked back!! Good job, Christine.

[@loriolsen5785]

I love watching Dawn @ The Minimalist Mom! I've learned a lot from her. I've been minimalizing for about 5 years. It goes in stages, or layers, like Dawn says. I enjoy her process to only keep what you actually use, and to reduce the urge to store stuff for "maybe one day." That "one day" never comes, I have found! I still have more to do, but I am already seeing the benefits of having less stuff to deal with, and knowing what I have and where it is! Keep at it! Oh, just a note...life changes, so our needs change. Don't feel bad to let something go that is no longer needed. It is OK!

[@julien1560]

Depending on how old your oldest child is, I would reconsider getting rid of all those items. Instead you can set some aside for that child's first apartment needs. A lot of those smaller glass dishes/bakeware would be fantastic in a bin for "first apartment" needs. Throw pillows are great in a car as an emergency pillow. I keep one pillow with a warm blanket in a small laundry basket in my trunk. Great for traveling(lone driver) if you need to stop for a quick nap at a rest stop.

[@reginastastytable3092]

I have a lot of serveware - I don't use most of it all that often, but when I do need them I don't want to worry about having to find something that will work, or buying again; my solution was to set up shelving in my garage that is for my small kitchen appliances, chafing dishes, and serveware I don't use all that often, and I keep them covered (to keep them clean) with clear plastic bags so I can see where everything is when I do need to use something. I think the biggest win doing this was that my small kitchen appliances I don't use all that often, but do want to have when I do need them, have a place to live outside my kitchen!

[@MarcieNielsen]

I love how real you are. Coffee tables get in the way . Throw pillows annoy you. It's such a breath of fresh air.

[@KarasStanley]

Purge mode is my life! I’ve been doing the 30 day declutter game and have gotten rid of so much crap! Day one you purge one thing, day two you purge two things, etc. At the end of 30 days you will be almost 500 items lighter. You can even print off a calendar to help you keep track. Just mark the days off as you go. And carry over if you need to. I think I tackled days 1-5 all on my first day. As for throw pillows...I love them. I have feather pillows and for my family, they add comfort. We use them so we keep them. If you hate them they need to GO!

[@robynd5899]

Cake pans make awesome lazy susans. Just buy a bag of marbles from dollar store, place between two round cake pans and voila, you have lazy Susan. I use mine in my pantry to organize my canned goods so I don’t forget about the ones in the back. I also use one for my oils & vinegar. I have one in my work desk with pencil cup, rape dispenser and stapler. Very handy!

[@melindabanning4497]

I don't like throw pillows either, I feel so awkward when I go somewhere that have them and try to get comfortable, I end up moving the pillow. I don't plan on being minimalist but she definitely inspires me.

[@skiluvr56]

I found minimal mom about a month ago and went nuts. I have gone thru every room in the house and am on sentimental now which are hard. Life changer. Also purchased book she recommends for cooking cook once eat all week. Also amazing!

[@kimberlya7267]

I love decluttering... but I swear every time I do it my husband goes to the store and buys something super pointless lol...

[@savannahcharles6041]

OMG Same here!

[@Carolyn6872]

I also do not use throw pillows but i keep 2 for back support. You never know when that comes in handy.

[@joannabutenschoen61]

LOVE Dawn!!! She inspired me to decluttering my entire house this fall. The older I get, the more clutter stresses me out. Following her tips I have regained my space and my sanity!! Much love to you Christine. I love your channel!

[@SeeMindyMom]

I found minimal mom a few months ago and I’ve been doing the same thing. Funny thing is I always thought I was pretty good about keeping up with the clutter around here, but I still find stuff all the time that makes me realize I’ve let the “stuff” infiltrate our home again! I feel like it multiplies once it’s here because surely I didn’t bring all this stuff in...😂

[@theglitterfamily2120]

You mentioned The Minimal Mom a few days ago and I've been ADDICTED!! filled 5 trash bags with things to purge or throw away. I'm in love with the quick simplicity already!! Thanks for the plug!!

[@FrugalFitMom]

Love it!!

[@elizabethwagner7880]

I love the way you talk about your kids in such positive ways.

[@isabelled1130]

Decluttering is one of my favorite thing to do! If I lived alone, my (tiny) house would be very very minimal! Freedom

[@carmarasmussen8118]

The DI stores in the Salt Lake Valley are all at least a week out on donation appts. But we've been purging at our house too and have made a couple a trips in the past month. Totally got our nasty storage room room cleaned out! A couple trips to the DI, hubby made a trip to the landfill and we threw away a ton of crap in our garbage and recycling bins. Feels so good!

[@melissalee1709]

I'm also in purge mode and love your videos. Our thrift stores in N. ID are open for anytime drop-off during business hours and open for shopping too. I'm staying out of them mostly because I don't need more junk. I occasionally look for needed items for my classroom.

[@123melarat]

I use the glass pie pans under my plants to catch the water. Works great , looks nice.

[@susansalvo3660]

"Buy Nothing" Facebook groups are a great way to re-home your stuff, without setting up donation appointments. They also help out your nieghbors in need.

[@YasuTaniina]

And that is the exact name of the local group too. It's quite active but she's not in the group, and considering I don't know her personally I think it would be kinda awkward to invite her😅 I hope she sees your comment and joins though!

[@iris0726]

Thank you. I do not know such group exists. Just requested to join my local group. 👍🏻

[@cindygreenleaf6756]

I have been watching the minimal mom too. She has inspired me also. In the last 2 weeks, I have filled 3 boxes and have a large bag of clothes. Keep inspiring me, I haven't gone thru my kitchen or craft room yet. Loved the video.

[@AndreaRuralMN]

Big rubber maid bowls: maybe you haven't used them in 6mos because it was summer and didn't make much soup? I just reorganized pantry/closet and got rid of a few things. In past purges I've gotten rid of things that a few months down the road I wished I had yet. I also have a cracked oblong container, I'm keeping it for freezer organization, or harvest time.

[@judithgreenwood6247]

The white oval dishes with handles are gratinerieres . I couldn’t live without mine. Of course I don’t make cauliflower cheese for twelve, so maybe they’re small for you, but you might find them in my house, oven to table, containing vegetable gratins, puréed vegetables, or even bread pudding. You get more crusty top.

[@bluewrenbirdie]

I'm not a coffee table person either, they just get in the way! And same with throw pillows. I have one in the corner of the sofa that needs a bit of extra support due to the extra depth there but all the purely decorative ones are gone.

[@Wonderwomanstarlight]

YES I give away all the extra pillows that come with anything couches comforters. Haven’t had a microwave in 9 years. Don’t own a mixer or bread maker and I make bread two times a week. I have a no knead recipe that’s bomb.

[@lifemix5710]

I like one throw pillow for back support and that's it. I did a 30 day decluttering challenge in August. The amount decluttered was the day of the month so August 10th was 10 items decluttered and so on. I found it really beneficial and need to do another because I get that whole layering idea. TFS 💕💕💕

[@byupunk01]

I love Dawn (The Minimal Mom) because she's so relatable to me. Our kids are in the same age range, she doesn't make minimalism "look weird", and she puts her faith and family first. She's my go-to on KZbin for simplifying. And Shannon Torrens (who also does minimalism content) just did an experiment with her throw pillows because they were stressing her out. So you're not alone! Ok one more thing regarding the donation center. I have hesitated including breakable items (like your serving dishes) because I have sometimes seen boxes/bags of donations get thrown around when being unloaded. I want my donations to go to someone who will use them - not get broken the minute they leave my car! But right now, my location is having the donor (aka me!) unload the items from the car, so I can make sure my items are donated in one piece. A small hurray!

[@lindseysiebert5179]

I’m not a coffee or end table girl and my biggest pet peeve is when the pillows end up on the floor.....but I use 1 to cover a stain on the couch.

[@virginiablasi7109]

My neighbor runs a thrift store at a Men's Mission. I get to put stuff on his porch. How lucky am I???

[@Isna4727]

I got rid of a whole car full of crap last weekend. I have been getting ready to move in 3 months and will continue to declutter every couple of weeks. I also refuse to spend money on throw pillows or holiday decor other than Christmas lights and a tree, so that helps keep clutter down! Love from WI, your videos are inspiring.

[@RainbowObsidian777]

Good morning!! Good to see you again! I was going to do a large purge..but realized...maybe im better off not doing that in these times. I had donated some things i wont use but..if something breaks and i use it often..a back up is good to have, im these times. Different times call for different measures.

[@TheDarthPinkie]

A "collaboration" of sorts from two of my favorite KZbinrs on my birthday!! This is fantastic. I have also been going through my apartment in layers using The Minimal Mom' onion method and inspiration, it's a slower process with chronic pain but already paying off.

[@countrybootsgirl]

I decluttered last month. Ugh totally understand. Got rid of 20 bags. Half were purged.

[@elizabethmarcus7522]

Yay for decluttering and the Minimal Mom inspiration! I also dislike coffee tables and throw pillows.

[@vickydoll9341]

I feel the same about throw pillows!

[@ZulfahDavids7949]

I love the minimal mom. I'm still decluttering after a year

[@familyof5quicktips514]

We have been purging for the last several months! Feels so good! Thanks for the motivation to keep going! Also, I don't like throw pillows on the bed. I don't like taking them off and putting them back on the bed so often and don't like them on the floor, so we don't use them!

[@LisaofHopewell]

I'm not big on throw pillows, fussy bed pillows, fussy throws. They get in the way--you are right!

[@Anaphya]

I’m absolutely a throw pillow gal. We have 9 on our couch and 7 in each bed. When I was a kid I would collect all the pillows I could find at thrift stores and garage sales and keep them in my bed, I wanted to sleep on a cloud!

[@lorimarsalko6273]

Finally found the onw vlogmas I missed! I with you no coffee table! NO throw pillows. My kids thought they were throw pillows because mom always throws them off the couch! Love the idea of purging in December! Your vlogmas has been great! Thanks for what you do! Always inspiring!

[@pancakespandemonium]

I’m dying over serving dishes! I wish I was in Idaho-I actually need them!

[@Ripplesinthewaters]

I love Dawn and I’ve been watching her for about three months! I’ve also been decluttering as well. I just wish I could take stuff out completely. It’s all stuck in the garage until I can get it out. Madness!

[@globetrotting2628]

The bamboo under those two triangle serving dishes would make a good cheese platter or cutting board. I haven't checked my thrift stores on if they are taking donations. I generally call my neighbors and see if they want any of my items. Once they have gone through it, I toss what's left. Like you, I sell the bigger and more expensive items on marketplace. I personally love throw pillows, but they do end up on the floor quite a bit. lol

[@carolynturnerclark9287]

LOVE the Minimal Mom, brings so much peace. Haley did a good job on the stockings, perfect solution.

[@gumybearss]

I LOVE throw pillows and blankets. My husband and I use them like crazy to fill up the couch when we lounging, but it is awkward when people come over and have nowhere to sit because there are too many pillows. I will say though, I only have comfy pillows though, not ones that are scratchy and only decorative. We don’t do throw pillows on the beds though. We only have pillows we actually use.

[@meghanmahood8344]

I agree 💯 % I can’t handle throw pillows on my couch or bed! Your doing great!

[@TropicanaThunda]

Oh man! I have been doing this the past two days. lol But mostly because I'm pregnant and in nesting mode like crazy. Ive tossed so many clothes that are worn out, to small, or packed things away for later...and today and yesterday I hit the kitchen and tossed a bunch of tupperware that was messed up or missing lids or bottoms, and im steadily replacing the knives, dinnerware, cooking utensils, and all kinds of stuff. Even ordered a new coffee table for the living room and I have plans to get rid of the extra table we have taking up too much space in the dining room. (its off kilter and is just a place to dump random odds and ends. This is just an energy boost that I need to do all that.

[@SammieOranges]

I am a mom of 4 here too!3 boys 1 girl, girl is youngest. Throw pillows have just been thrown.. never last a hour and get lumpy in just a few weeks. Throw the throw pillows!!!

[@wondergalc431]

I love the minimal mom, she's awesome. Sell your throw pillows someone will love them. I love purging stuff just did my kitchen on Friday

[@dianaw5100]

I had finally talked my husband into not buying massive amounts of what he considered artwork. We have no space left on any wall. So now he takes the grandkids out and brings home pretty rocks, feathers and other weird things. I'm told he must be into his second childhood. Just waiting for the frogs and snakes and such.

[@geenabeanscrochetandmore3533]

Our thrift stores are open and available for drop off anytime. I love the minimal Mom too. My youngest just turned 5 so I had to go through and purge all the “baby” items in the house. Which in turn turned into more purging. I want to do more but need to focus on Christmas as well.

[@michelewerder4855]

Minimual Mom is awesome! Sell your throw pillows. LOVE your videos!!

[@Linda-sk9nt]

I hate throw pillows too. One on each end of the couch but not 15. They get in the way totally agree. Hate them on the bed too....👍

[@ebishy]

I feel like u can turn those cake pans into a lazy susan, throw some marbles in one pan and stack another on top. Lazy susan on the counter for sauce bottles. The lip of the pans are little to wide for the cabinets.

[@ashlienorris9807]

Yes! I have been really purging and going through EVERYTHING and getting rid of so much stuff! I didn't really think I had much until I started.

[@denisebenedict9692]

Love the Minimal Mom!...been purging my house for a year now after watching her. It is a process...but I love it!

[@zsuzsannabak1530]

I m a minimalish myself, following The minimal Mom. Watch her regularly just like your videos . Looove this video, welcome to the club FitMom

[@MirandaWatsonArt]

Yes, get rid of the throw pillows. I hate them, too, and I don't have any in my house - not even on our beds.

[@hazelmeldrum5860]

Keep a couple of throw pillows as a 5ft person I need the extra support to make sitting in a settee comfortable .otherwise my feet are off the floor, etc.but perhaps put them in a vacuum bag or something so that you know where to reach for them.

[@cindygray8322]

I'm in rural MN and at one point our thrift store would not accept any clothing because when I looked into the building, there was a 10 foot pile of clothes to scale. I don't use pillows on my couch or arm chairs. What really bothers me is the bed pillows people use. I have 2 pillows, one for me and one for hubby to put our heads on at night and a small square pillow to place in the middle of the bed when I can be bothered to make the bed.

[@daniellejones8663]

I'm with you with the cushions... we brought some expensive ones (thinking that they would be great and they were on sale) im going to be getting rid of them... they are in the spare room not being used...

[@toshafocht743]

Love Dawn from the Minimal Mom!! She has some awesome advice!! I have been watching her for over a year. Not that I am a minimalist, but she definitely motivates to pare down on what we have! 😉

[@rosaryfitzgerald165]

You and Dawn (Minimal Mom) and Matt D'Avella are the only subscriptions I check daily for new videos!

[@Happyscmm]

Our throw pillows are stacked next to our couch. My son uses them to build forts. That’s about it no hate them too

[@illflyaway38]

If you have a kiddie pool, you can put all of the throw pillows in there and stick it on your porch for people to pick up.

[@cardinnairn6345]

I did this over the weekend. I had loads of stuff just taking up space. I feel so much better with it gone

[@AliceCullen0890]

What bugs me is people who have a ton of pillows anywhere whether it’s on beds or couches! Like why throw something on the floor that you’re not using!

[@prayersquad3391]

Why have ANYTHING you're not using. Americans have too much stuff period.

[@KatyInNH]

If you don’t k or for sure on the pillows, you could always just keep the case and store in a much smaller space. My Pyrex pie plates are now my dinnerware! Smaller portions and great for salad too!!! Did you know that the lids from the Pyrex bowls will fit the pie plates? This makes them so useful for leftovers

[@lifeasamarcantel9594]

I feel exact same about throw pillows

[@cjsidner2502]

Mine is drive thru .... drop off. No appointments needed. Good luck with purging. We do that about every 4-6 mths. As you get older, it's easier.

[@christie8273]

Blankets and sheets can also be donated to animal shelters! Good for the sheets that may not be super nice anymore or have no matches.

[@matthewmccarthy8020]

My wife doesn’t like throw pillows or coffee tables either. We each have a storage end table next to our recliners.

[@taraisaschultz9897]

Loved Hailey’s decision for the stockings! Perfect spot right there. I need those cake pans you have up. Thanks for Minimal Mom referral - decluttering for Christmas this year.

[@Embirr845]

I love the Minimal Mom! She put a video out today about stuff you don't need in your kitchen.

[@suzannekuehn4287]

The Minimal Mom changed my life! I’m 3 years in and still decluttering in layers- lol! Welcome to the club... it’s addicting 😉

[@shannonmenefee4377]

Good for you! I love the minimal mom! I love going through my house and finding things to donate/sell. Less inventory to keep up with!💕

[@adelechicken6356]

Not a decluttering idea, but an organizing one. I hope you will consider getting good pull out inserts for your cabinet storage. I can guarantee that you will love them. Never having to sit on the floor and dig again is wonderful. My kitchen has 28 drawers, and only under sink area, (the recycling and garbage area) and baking sheet storage don't pull out.

[@elainecarrillo5434]

She inspired u and you’ve inspired me can’t wait to get rid of things we nvr use thanks for the motivation!

[@fousies]

I’ve been watching her for a year! Love it