Prime example of why I refuse to be the clean up guy. Go back to the father.
@brnrecluse294617 күн бұрын
It all starts at home. They have no respect for themselves. They're selfish.
@cappinCaveman6917 күн бұрын
You're right, it's the women not checking the younger girls. They're busy competing with younger girls. But will argue that single motherhood is not a choice, but my body my choice is the tutorial of life. SMH
@checkneezy17 күн бұрын
EXACTLY…nd fortunately for men at least our predecessors put us on game nd tell us what it is. Women don’t do that and if they do it’s with negativity
@Open-MindedSkeptic17 күн бұрын
If Child Support stopped existing, a lot of kids would be getting abandoned or dropped off on the father's doorstep.
@checkneezy17 күн бұрын
I feel like if child support one day got cut off many women would wise up who they open legs for
@rldlnl17 күн бұрын
That'd be good. There are many fathers whose children are being kept from them. That'd also mean they've decided early who the dad is. Win win.
@checkneezy17 күн бұрын
@@Open-MindedSkeptic I feel if they got rid of child support a lot of women would wise up
@piplyf17 күн бұрын
Hell. They don't even know these men they let shoot up the club half the time. They don't know his real name or where he stays. The kids will be dumped at these anonymous locations or even worse, left to perish in some God forsaken place. These creatures are evil! They don't care about anything.
@Itsnotmenfault17 күн бұрын
Get rid of child support and some women might stop making bad decisions
@classyyoungman3517 күн бұрын
I’m not shocked,I see alot of these women in the hospital.
@danielcunningham447317 күн бұрын
THINGS WE NEED IN 2025 SHAME, ACCOUNTABILITY AND MENTAL HEALTH!!!!
@markbrown125517 күн бұрын
RIP Godfather Kevin samuels said it Accountability is like kryptonite to Modern day women
@triniborn7617 күн бұрын
That's what happens when there is no more shaming
@danielcunningham447317 күн бұрын
These type of women treat a child has a tool and its sick af!!!!!
@mrjasonsamuel2317 күн бұрын
Narcissistic people
@kinglogic209117 күн бұрын
Thank you for saying what only a woman can say! This truth coming from anyone else would be attacked unmercifully! Two decades of our sisters with this mentality has us where we are! Well said Queen! All the best!
@randy421617 күн бұрын
Majority of these modern Women are treating these kids like lottery tickets.
@mannuji687317 күн бұрын
nobody talks about the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki because it’s too honest and cuts way too deep
@juanseaforth511117 күн бұрын
Sweet Jesus this generation is done!!
@xG1ZZM0x17 күн бұрын
These women are officially cook’d
@ShawnC.T.17 күн бұрын
Just shows how jaded their minds are, and unrealistic as well. If you're a male who impregnates one of these fools, I have no sympathy for the drama you will go through, your fault...🤨
@iceman_236017 күн бұрын
They don't want to judge women for their buffoonery but will have open season when judging men.
@Eman1412817 күн бұрын
The only thing that holds women accountable is LIFE.
@piscesjl17 күн бұрын
It's just sad 😢
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
The apple didn't fall far from the tree.
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
ITS ALL ABOUT THE CHECKS (CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS)
@RobertoDeNegro17 күн бұрын
Single by choices. Drizzle drizzle.
@BaneClandestine17 күн бұрын
It's a whole mess!
@ericp.755017 күн бұрын
This is so heartbreaking 💔, and sad. Single mothers raising these kids is one of the main reasons why our community is in such chaos. These young ladies will be the same ones 10yrs from now with 3 or 4 kids by pookies and ray rays, 2 or 3 different baby daddies, running around looking for a good Brother to be a step Father to their children. The main reason for this behavior is because we live in a world that glamorizes money, and materialism over God. Where are these young ladies parents, because I can almost guarantee that they were raised by someone who had the same mindset as them, and its called a generational curse. The black community is dealing with too many issues, for US as a people to solve. ONLY God Himself can make real change, but most of US are either too foolish, arrogant, prideful, and materialistic to turn to Him. Lord help US 🙏🏾.
@Rudolph_Manor17 күн бұрын
Damn! Talk About Being A Crash Dummy. Lol! 😂
@leroysalley216517 күн бұрын
Dee Dee your talking real facts 🎉
@ervinjackson326117 күн бұрын
Kid stuff. what do kids do play games right?
@chiefrocka915917 күн бұрын
Bruh, it's grown ass women in their 30s and 40s doing this out of desperation for marriage or out of spite.
@Michael_ATL_8217 күн бұрын
Won't change laws to fix it. 🤷🏾♂️
@leroysalley216517 күн бұрын
Girls gone wild was an agenda! This is where we're at mission accomplished 😢🎉
@Nothin-k7w17 күн бұрын
This is painfully deep and thank you.
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp17 күн бұрын
Never be the clean up guy for these modern birds. never.
@tobezone15 күн бұрын
Couldn't get to typing fast enough! Go pastor Dee! You are a great Woman! May our lord and savior Jesus bless and keep you!!😊
@rldlnl17 күн бұрын
It's crap like this why 15% of BM and 3% of BW did not vote democrat. Change is wanted and needed.
@bisquit4817 күн бұрын
That number was too low
@TheBassMan-uu2nl17 күн бұрын
Praying for her.
@jayb3617 күн бұрын
Sick
@MdAjmal-x4j17 күн бұрын
the truth in the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki is so real, it makes people uncomfortable, and that’s why it gets ignored
@CassondraTurnerMcArthur16 күн бұрын
Excellent Commentary, DeeDee!!! Finally, we have to address these toxic behaviors and stop setting our future children up for failure. It's like the blind leading the blind with NO accountability or willingness to learn from their mistakes. Somehow maybe due to a lack of parental guidance, these young women have mindsets that "having the baby" is some sort of "status symbol" achievement regardless of the family identity and structure, economic ability, spiritual foundation, and social and mental health supports necessary for healthy childrearing. Having a child is a 24-hour/7-day-a-week job AND then your 2nd job is your income-supporting job to finance all of your household finances. It's obvious that these young single baby mamas are ignoring the real meaning of STATUS SYMBOL and a human child is not playing with your dolls that you can hit a "Pause" button when you become tired and overwhelmed. Also, as a 69-year-old mother and former behavioral healthcare professional, I have observed a lot of narcissistic and insolent behaviors from young women and men who refused to learn, grow up, and take personal responsibility. "The word translated "insolence" comes from a Hebrew verb literally meaning "to boil." This suggests a kind of inward, bubbling pride that refuses to learn anything from anybody (Proverbs 1:22; 12:15; 13:1). An insolent person is a contentious, know-it-all, egotistical individual with a superior attitude." Therefore, even when "family therapy" is recommended and/or taking parenting nurturing classes as beneficial coping skills for their "single baby mama" status, they are offended and ignore any such advice. In today's 21st Century Black Parents are either passing on a legacy of Generational Trauma or Generational Wealth. "Generational trauma" refers to the psychological impact of traumatic experiences passed down from one generation to the next, often stemming from historical events like war, oppression, or poverty, while "generational wealth" means the passing down of financial assets and resources from one generation to the next, providing future generations with a financial advantage; essentially, generational trauma is the negative legacy of past experiences, while generational wealth is the positive legacy of accumulated assets. " "Key points to remember: "Generational trauma: "Focuses on emotional and psychological impacts. Can manifest as anxiety, depression, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. Can be passed down through family dynamics and behaviors. Examples: children of war veterans experiencing PTSD-like symptoms, and families affected by systemic racism facing ongoing financial struggles. " "Generational wealth: "Focuses on financial assets like property, investments, and savings. Can provide access to better education, healthcare, and opportunities. Often built through strategic planning and responsible financial management. Example: a family business passed down through generations, allowing descendants to inherit a source of income. "
@deepsharma56617 күн бұрын
they don’t want you to read the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki because it says the stuff no one else is brave enough to say about attraction
@blivinlife17 күн бұрын
My son 19yrs old his mother still got him in school to get child support but wont give him to me to raise. Theu using children for money & taken out they bitter attitude on the man smh ... and just cause the females the mother's listens to the problem & co signs it...smh...family broken
@felixthecat152817 күн бұрын
I believe it 💯
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
THEY WANT TO GO SHOPPING 🛍
@DiarraHarris17 күн бұрын
Send the asteroid.
@Talkin_Sht17 күн бұрын
The ish has hit the fan 😂😂😂
@iam_ALEXWHAT_17 күн бұрын
They haven't grown, teen-mentality 85th🫡🛫📘🏃🏿♂️😕
@davidm216817 күн бұрын
People are creatures of habit and patterns.. However, it's up to you to break the cycle.. Sometimes some do realise it and break, other times they don't realise that they're doing the same exact thing. By then it's too late, it's already repeated...
@TCMECH7917 күн бұрын
They turned pregnancy into a competitive sport
@danielcunningham447317 күн бұрын
SMDH........
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
The kids ALWAYS suffer.
@yolandalindsay836817 күн бұрын
The PoWeR to decide the future oF others iS 0ne that iS placed In tHe Winning and Wonderful Holy Orders oF Heaven and Earth.>
@AdityaMungekar-t3x17 күн бұрын
if everyone read the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki, the way we see the world would never be the same
@anthonykelly595717 күн бұрын
For those young women out there who do decide to get pregnant on purpose for some reason just remember you deserve everything that comes at you and the problem is they not even concerned about the child they just want to get pregnant purpose that stupid s***
@KattarHinduavnish17 күн бұрын
reading the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki might completely change how you think about attraction, and that scares people
@MaLaKiZaDaK-Yisarah-Al13 күн бұрын
This is FBAs culture?
@johnnybing9117 күн бұрын
Sounds ignorant and childish as hell.
@WhatsInTheAir17 күн бұрын
Facts
@ervinjackson326117 күн бұрын
I hear you, lol
@michiganpyroaddicts448216 күн бұрын
Y’all women down bad sharing the same dudes 😂😂
@Train2Liv16 күн бұрын
The elite class has historically relied on an endless supply of workers to sustain their wealth, so this type of behavior is systematically enabled and exploited! Now that AI is evolving, we’re about to experience a greater divide between the rich and the poor! 🌏
@kennethjones3616 күн бұрын
Insane!
@asaashara259217 күн бұрын
That's pretty f'd up. Those kids will most likely suffer 🤦♂️
@gottech560116 күн бұрын
Ladies you have to start holding your sisters accountable instead of watching them crashing out if you not gonna check your sisters you can’t hold men accountable
@gottech560116 күн бұрын
This is sad
@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea599717 күн бұрын
No consequences …Hence the reason they push so hard for step suckers to come save em..
@StevenSipes-y8u17 күн бұрын
That's why I don't support unmarried baby shower's I won't show up and won't buy gifts.
@blaq789217 күн бұрын
This issue is 6 decades long?
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
The end of days.
@StevenSipes-y8u17 күн бұрын
Sad they think it's about just having children and not having a whole family under marriage but this is a serious problem with these modern women.
@rhammond196317 күн бұрын
This is absolutely NOTHING new.
@timothywilliams710117 күн бұрын
Unfortunately this happens. I love my women. But yall can be devious. I went through a situation were the lady I was dating straight up lied on me. Cause all kinda drama. Then years later said she was sorry. After I went to jail...said she was pregnant. All lies
@louiedajet16 күн бұрын
In 3rd world countries these safety nets like child support do not exist and those who choose to 304 around are in the streets begging
@rodmoore_16 күн бұрын
🤦🏿♂️🙄
@iceman_236017 күн бұрын
It's not until when more men start waking up and realizing their worth and value and leave those kinds of women alone is when things will start changing. 2 prime examples was when a woman used a man who was interested in her just so her and her kids can go to that fair, then she dumped him afterwards. The other was when a woman went live on a podcast and called her ex a simp for accepting her with 3 kids, then divorced him after he lost his job. When more and more men start leaving those women in the mess they're in and stop putting on the cape for them. The better things will be.
@tonymcwhorter271817 күн бұрын
Sorry not Sorry ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 😮😮. FAFO 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
@upsurgeagency359317 күн бұрын
For the first girl, you became her simp boyfriend. ..Sucks doesn't it?
@JayPeace-ks9oz16 күн бұрын
Don't give a damn, about the offspring(s)😢 but, the Men is the problem. Where is the bear 🐻? When you need it 🍯?? Insanity