The Men You're ATTRACTED TO Don't Like You

[@chillygunslinger2849]

Most men understand by high-school that they aren't getting a supermodel. Women think they can get and keep a male model even at 65.

[@claytonjohnson6945]

Facts! Had a woman tell me that she never met a sister who didn't think she could be a model and she didn't care how short, how fat or anything else she might have been, in her experience she'd never knowingly met one and she was dead @ssed when she said it........

[@kych2008]

Well they will settle for being by they self

[@smitht1988]

Women have all these standards and then when they find a man that meets them, they get their feelings hurt when he doesn’t like her 😂😂

[@JG-jz3wh]

Irony at its finest

[@kyachdistent1301]

@@JG-jz3wh Hell yeah!

[@iloveyou281000]

Or they find out they can’t have him all for themselves, gotta share that man 😂

[@smitht1988]

@ that’s when they go on Tik Tok and IG and make these crying videos about why they can’t find a loyal man. You wanted a top .01% man. You gotta share him

[@zayinseven7923]

They fail to realize that they don't fit the standards of the men that fit their standards

[@cjjohnson3827]

Someone once said and I’m paraphrasing he said “ you will never see two women fighting over a good man” but you will always see them fighting over the toxic men meaning they all want the same type men and that’s none of them are ever happy. Fellas go where you are celebrated not tolerated. If a woman tells you that are not her type, believe her and keep it moving

[@ME-hr6xf]

A good man will not have women fighting over him because he is good. Meaning he doesn't play games. He does not date those types of women. Etc.. Only certain type of men are attracted to those women and will ignite the fire that causes them to fight.

[@kyachdistent1301]

Tell her to go to hell first-and stay there!

[@chiefrocka9159]

When they can't get their "type" to marry them they get on the "I ain't gonna settle campaign!"

[@Plainolcountryboy]

They are the one men are settling for they have the trauma and baggage usually

[@kjemma]

And one day they wake up at 35 with 90 percent of their eggs deader than a doornail, very little time left on the biological clock, 95 percent of the high value men already taken and even the average dudes weary of females in general, unless she is 22 and a stunner. Not exactly a good deal for the geriatrick crowd "refusing to settle".

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

@@Plainolcountryboyleft over women

[@elx2482]

#FuckEm.......9-to-1, Women-to-Men 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

or "I choose to be single" lol

[@larryharris1370]

DeeDee you hit this out of the park.This is a Homerun

[@iceman_2360]

They don't want to settle for a man that's not their type but they expect the men they want to settle for them regardless if she's his type or not.

[@michiganpyroaddicts4482]

@@iceman_2360 if a woman gets pregnant by someone’s baby daddy she is just looking for drama it happens all the time

[@markmunroe-hz8rf]

They'll chase the hoods and ignore the nerds in their teen years. They'll chase the nerds now hunks and rich and married, and cry and cry abd cry.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

😂😂😂😂 They be chasin after a man that don't won't them but the guys that are interested in them they don't won't

[@iceman_2360]

😂😂 yep just like that woman said on Anton's show. If they rejected you way back when because you weren't her type, you need to grow up and accept her now because she was a victim back then.

[@kyachdistent1301]

What it is to be a woman today!

[@brainsmasher66]

The women I like don't like me; and the women that like me, I don't like them. 😅

[@chriskelleher5294]

I have NEVER heard anyone talk about this and this is incredibly SMART advice and a very smart way of looking at this. Very Smart women and very good advice.

[@iiiiii6381]

Amen for recognizing that 👌 if a man was saying that, many women would call him a monster lol

[@kyachdistent1301]

@@iiiiii6381 Cos these bints have nothing better to do, it's easy to blame men for their own causations.

[@wh7234]

I don't want to say it is their type, but, what social media say their type should be.

[@Plainolcountryboy]

They've never been involved with their type they are looking for a new experience

[@Bravefit]

Facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lordzontor]

They are not their type 's type😂

[@vegasbackgrounds3426]

THANK YOU!!! LOGIC!!! How did I miss this video??? DeeDee you just said it ALL. You knocked this out of the BOX! This is probably the most important video on the internet pertaining to dating PERIOD.

[@DeeDeesReactions]

@@vegasbackgrounds3426 Thank you 🙏🏾

[@vegasbackgrounds3426]

@@DeeDeesReactions You're welcome. Sigmund Freud's nephew, Edward Bernays, who wrote the 1928 book "Propaganda" is said to be responsible for shifting America from a needs-based culture to a desires-based culture. And it has subsequently influenced Black Americans, BIG-TIME. So many people are putting their wants before their needs when it comes to choosing a partner and they end up shooting themselves in the foot. They aren't being practical, of course until they hit that wall and reality starts to set in. By then often it's too late. We need critical thinking skills now more than ever. Please keep up the fight DeeDee, we need you and other like-minded ones to set the record straight!! ❤

[@J.D.Journey]

Another thing is why would a man buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

[@Plainolcountryboy]

As soon as you find out even the milk is spoiled the cow is useless 🪴

[@iluop3623]

Big 🍆 and big 🦶

[@CurtisReese-tl7ip]

25 years old........I'm not settling 35 years old....... I'm not settling 40 years old... 50......... I'll go 50/50 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@larryharris1370]

LOL FACTS

[@kengdavis]

You don’t have a “type” if it’s not mutual

[@simpsoncelestin4407]

Smart

[@mrneotech]

Keep saving souls Dee Dee, reality check activated. I'm 6,3. You're right Dee Dee. They do be doing too much. I don't take advantage, I wasn't raised that way.

[@HowYouMove]

100.000% facts because at the end of the day you cannot fight attraction

[@Red_Flags_Reactions]

Men and women most often spend a lot of money, energy, and time if they try to go for their “type”. More so, you will end up getting disrespected and not appreciated by that your “type”. When it comes to long term relationships, it’s best to go with the person that likes you not the person you like, because they might not like you back.

[@ranip7644]

I get what you're saying but you should like that person too or else you're settling. It's so much nicer to be alone than to be with someone you don't truly want. It's not fair to them and it's not fair to you.

[@Red_Flags_Reactions]

@ True, but but settling is not a bad thing. It very rare to find two people love each other equally. One person usually likes the other more. The person you’re chasing usually likes you less than you like them in most cases. Most women like men they are with less than the men like them. This is because most women find most men unattractive while the reverse is true for men. Also, women file for divorce 80% of the time. The person likes the other less can easily walk out on the relationship.

[@markbrunner7793]

It’s a flex! It’s a way to cope with the fact that they are single Women just say these things so that they could have an excuse as to why they’re single. They know they’re not going to get what they want but if they say I’m not gonna settle unless it’s this or that, now she has an EXCUSE that she can tell the world as to why she doesn’t have a husband It’s a BS flex 👎👎

[@cdavis8853]

The problem is a lot of them get confused.. They think because a 6-6-6 will bust it down that they now qualify for that guy in a relationship going forward.... And now they can turn their nose up at the "regular/average" guy that they really do qualify for

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

If you choose the one *you* like, you're going to pay one hell of a price, but if you choose the one who likes you, everything will go your way.

[@Gisaeng]

Thank you for speaking the truth.

[@Danny_Deleto]

Women refuse to settle, but demand men settle. It won't happen.

[@Retired_Life_1]

FACTS!!!

[@Eyezpretty]

Same for men as well

[@BryanC-kw1py]

Most men settle

[@Eye-openefortheworld]

I do believe finding your partner to be at least somewhat attractive is important. I think the type thing is ridiculous when you miss out on a good person for things they cannot change. Like if he's 6'3 or she has to be light skin and silly stuff like that. But at base anyone can get in shape, groom themselves, dress well and fix their teeth

[@nmc5657]

of course. but if women are going to be so picky with their "standards," they had better be open to men having their own standards for women (e.g. not being an overweight slob).

[@randy4216]

Majority of these Women in their late 40's maybe 50's are now starting to take Character in Consideration I wonder why.🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@doncatalog]

They think their makeup is the real them. Those women must get a 5 or 6 if they are a five without makeup.

[@rhammond1963]

SHE WANTS TO GO SHOPPING 🛍

[@rhammond1963]

Being delusional is a hell of a drug.

[@ronalde.wilson7406]

The numbers Show its Buyers Market- Men are the Buyers!✅💯

[@brianmoore4344]

"Pick a struggle" - Kevin Samuels

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

Don't look for Mr. Right, look for the right person for you. Remember Tia Mallory

[@knyyghtrydaa2084]

She's needs her own "build a man kit" and she can build that MANnequin to be just what she wants him to be!! The delusion & toxicity is way too real. 😏

[@shugg0517]

This what I've learned in relationships. " Never date/marry your type. Date/marry the person that respects, understand, honors you and always have your well best interest in mind." Love comes last you build up to that .

[@DaFlash82]

I glad they getting what they ask for, cause they love losers and hate winners 😂

[@kyachdistent1301]

They are very often losers themselves.

[@michaelJohnson-m1h]

I been saying this forever women will settle for nothing less than the imaginary man that lives in their head and that's why they are basically strong and independent lol

[@SayALilSumthin]

Ladies, there ain’t enough “Tupacs in a suit”. Brothers, very few dime pieces are fit, feminine and friendly. Like KS said, you gotta pick a struggle.

[@uriandropov8039]

Again, no lies detected here 😊

[@michiganpyroaddicts4482]

I don’t understand why women ruin they lives sleeping behind the same man can’t make this up 😂😂

[@js43168]

We would like them if they worked on themselves. Their priorities are in the wrong place, worried about telling men what to do and who to be when they themselves ain't sht

[@alonsojackson1958]

I'm glad I'm not married and don't have any kids real talk

[@femininevibes2213]

Its always the ones you don't find attractive that will like you never the ones you like lol this don't happen to me but to others

[@smajbaadi]

i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.

[@espoespo3557]

Many women are looking and waiting for prince charming, forgetting that mofo is into dudes 😂😂😂😂

[@ralphcime4446]

Everything you said was FACTS. Thanks for all the hard work keep It 🫡coming.

[@Rolling8687]

Facts 💯....It's the bad attitude & gold digger mindset....Women, listen "Men" are simple simple simple why is this so hard to comprehend....*Team❤Love*

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

😂😂 why are people now discovering this

[@jacejacksonandkailee5526]

Y’all better figure it out it’s $5 for a dozen of eggs😂😂😂😂 😂

[@aprilclover2429]

That’s cheap in California! I pay $7.99 a dozen on sale. You gotta pay in the Bay!

[@MRichdown]

Real talk Dee and luv the hair

[@juniorleslie4804]

Women being honest with themselves. Dee Dee are you serious?, women don't like honesty. What these women want, they don't have what it takes to obtain it.

[@seankelly1366]

As I grow older my standards don't lower, they greaten because I'm still qualified to find the Queen that I am still searching for.

[@allhailzamasu69]

Who else seen what glorllia had to say about why she's single? glorlia would never get her a man with that type of attitude

[@amberwashington7500]

I have no problem being alone for the rest of my life!!! If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't!!! I moved on without a man!!!

[@ShadowStarlight]

Looks aren't everything, Nor are financial status! Luckily for me, My type actually like me. As much as I liked him. We been togehter 5yrs+. I didn't go in with the mind frame. He got to look a certain way or he have to have X amount of money! His personality draw me in first. Then the looks followed soon after.

[@GregoryBeckom]

As a black man, I do have a type, I know what I am attracted to, but I also realized how difficult it will be to find everything I want in a woman. So out of 100% of the my type of woman, if she has 70, 80, 90% I will say, that's good enough for me, I will be joyful and content. But women would look a that for them as settling, and if she does give the settling guy a chance, it will just be for while, because of their hypergamous nature they will waste the men time, and use his resources, while still waiting for her type comes along. Which is the reason men are walking away from committed relationships and marriage

The problems you're describing all stem from operating with complete freedom, outside of a functional culture. Under a system of governance, underpinned by shared values, religion...etc. - all of the aforementioned problems are solved.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

Women don’t want love these days. They want Tupac in a suit. They want a man that’s going to take care of them 100%, but claim they’re not looking for a daddy!! Make it make sense. Pick a side ladies. And remember that you also have a part to play in a relationship and marriage.

[@vaughnvdg]

Many of them used to love the THUG type but won’t admit it now and are still being haunted by The Ghosts of Pookies Past😂😂😂😂😂

[@larryhoskins1553]

Look for who you have chemistry with

[@CarlKing-h6d]

Dee Dee you are doing a very good job and putting those young women up on game. I personally lowered my standards and went for an aesthetic that was more achievable. I wont go it to details because it certain instances that can be triggering for some women. It was a good aesthetic but and achievable won and I got a better outcome. Sometimes your aesthetic does not match with what your after and you will end up crashing out. You have to realistic about yourself in the dating game. I still have a type that I have modified because that is type that is achievable.

[@azoladder]

When I met my wife it was simple I wanted her and she wanted me to…

[@michaeldaniels2863]

Brothers just pay to play, don't fall in love, then move along! Everything is transactional and always have been! Please don't get it twisted. 💪🏾😎

[@azoladder]

The key to life is stay in your lane

[@Mr.kendrick82]

The universe operates a certain way to want it to be your way is delusional to keep trying make it your is insanity😵‍💫

[@rhammond1963]

Kevin Samuel made his mark in his life RIP 🙏 🕊

[@Dj.D25]

I've noticed some women I've known, they may get excited by a guy they are into, may gossip with her friends about what they did and how amazing he is with shallow reasons, but he appears nonchalant, distant, bored, not really into giving his very best for her. Doesn't even seem that interested in showing her off to everyone. He sort of strings her along. He may even use her sexually. She seems determined to change him or get him to settle for her. And later on drama and maybe even abuse happens to her and she often doesn't seem to learn, she just goes to another similar looking guy or with a similar personality. And these women reject good men that would be suitable for her. They might even put these men who actually like them into the friend zone. Even I was rejected by a couple of these women where logically to me, she should have given me a chance because our beliefs, values, interests are similar and we appeared to be compatible and get along well. Even other friends and family may warn these women to stay away from those guys they are into, but she's determined to win his love or make a relationship work. Even one former friend I had who didn't really respect my boundaries and wanted a relationship with me, even though I tried to tell her our beliefs are too different and she's not quite my type, she was determined to believe a fantasy of having it work out and I struggled with temptation and trying not to lead her on.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

Nothin but facts

[@FilldaAgony]

You attract what you are. If you attract toxic dudes who dont treat you right, it means that the guy you are supposed to be with because you are him in a woman's body.

[@DanielStaszak-s2k]

Turn the page find a different attraction mode stop being locked on one type find someone who makes you feel happy inside

[@MrBejewel]

Lookin' Good with Big Hair Dee Dee.

[@blackmatrix2648]

You are a very rare woman and I'm happy for your success in your marriage.

[@naginaosborne5113]

You can find what you want and be happy. It's all in your attitude and compatibility. I

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

Why would a man buy the cow when PeeWee hit her for free???😂😂😂

[@iam_ALEXWHAT_]

NOT all men are gonna like you! 4th🤷🏿‍♂️✈️💯🏃🏿🤨

[@Omega86641]

Talk about it!!!!

[@davidandrew1078]

They all want Chad Thunderstick of the Apocalypse. 6 Pack, 6 Feet Tall and 6 Figure income.

[@mistermills4252]

I’m just here for the “baby”😅

[@The_Niburu]

As I have have heard women say often "I know what I like"

[@StanleyMarshall-p9b]

AWESOME MY SISTA!!

[@boondoggle4820]

This is good advice. I’m definitely different from most Americans in that I find what I like on the inside first and look for people who tend to have the external casing of what I want on the inside, which is based on things that are foreign concepts to Americans in my experience like trust, openness, confidence, etc.

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Women can’t sleep their way into a relationship 🤷‍♂️ 😂

[@kevincoy7732]

❤

[@tubeslats]

Or they can just stay over there with Pookie and Ray-Ray.

[@maverickrahming531]

Also this is for the women , remember...when you MEET a successful man and get into a relationship he will never consider you a ride or die . Successful men just don't make any woman they meet a ride or die . You ain't put in no effort then that's NEVERRRR gonna happen. His cup will ALWAYS be half empty towards you cause you MET him successful and NOW you like him. Men like us who work hard to get where we are with NO WOMAN, when we get one that will ALWAYS be on our mind.

[@brotherj7328]

He'ont like you like dat😅😂

[@MunishKumar-pt9me]

i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.

[@elx2482]

#BlindedByDaBooty😎🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@lauracook2810]

Ladies they keep saying time is running out its the last days they say so you probably won't get a man or get married you played yourselves all out you had so many chances to get it but you dont and please ladies its not a game

[@rakeshthakare515]

there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.

[@Asifali-ll7yc]

one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page

[@dallasreedom1087]

Yuuuuuuuup

[@iluop3623]

1

[@KrisLearns]

F.A.C.T.s is all I can say...

[@rdpill]

Everyone has a type....I was rejected as a bm...the reason I got the most, was because i am short @5'5"....well ok then, adapt to environment and move on....not looking to raise pookies kids