Deep chats, Girls Night, Natural hair journey & randomness.... | weekly vlog

[@waterloohillpeace]

Adeola darling, just because someone has it worse doesnt make your situation better and it doesnt mean your problems are nothing. You are entitled to your emotions and they are valid. Its okay, we all feel down sometimes.💖

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

"You can smell the good vibes." Adeola coming with phrases that shall definitely be used.

[@itsmariammusa]

Love you Ads 🥺💕

[@naomipog]

I’ve felt that way before ☹️ there was an empty void in my life. And I tried to fill it with things that I thought would make me happy but left me feeling even more empty. I realised that only God could fill that void in my life. He became my rock. The one I could run to when I felt low. The one that felt that void with unconditional love and joy. Life will still throw things your way here and there but knowing God, will help you deal with those moments so much better. Hope this helps girl 😭💕

[@nicole-yo9in]

Amennn🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lailaayan306]

Amen

[@anikamalik2188]

Adeola, you’re human it’s ok to sometimes not be ok, I swear we’re both the same, I get where you’re coming from when it comes to not wanting to talk to people about feelings, sending you love always 💕

[@greatnessagwaze2498]

I pray you and everybody going through inexplicable feeling will receive the peace of Christ in your hearts. In Jesus name.

[@blkbarbie2671]

Thank you ❤️

[@estherrrr787]

When sis started talking about how she felt ... that hit me so hard because I feeel the exact wayyy 🥺

[@missy1351]

Please continue to express yourself to us, please use your platform as there's so many people going through the same emotions as you. How you feel is sometimes unexplainable honestly, I have been there! There's days I wake up and have an empty feeling and feel like I don't want to burden anyone. I have started to talk to my sister about how I feel and she is super supportive. Massive love, you are honestly a beautiful human!!! ❤

[@anikamalik2188]

Adeola and Mariam are waved 😂. That’s it. That’s the sentence. 🙂🙃💕

[@ttee1397]

A WHOLE 56 MINS God bless Adeola

[@amahlemakhaye6970]

Nah why is Adeola speaking facts, about being sad and knowing others are going through worse and then feeling bad. Thanks for the love. Loving The content lately.

[@_ariannacortez]

“When the weather is like this, there’s no reason for you to be in an unhappy relationship”🤣 spoke to my soul tbh

[@LadyTeee]

Great vlog. I’m a black woman, currently a trainee therapist. I understand what you mean when you say you find it hard to express yourself. Well done for journaling but I would definitely suggest reaching out to a therapist or counsellor (privately or on the NHS or MIND). It’s completely normal to feel sad and down for whatever reason despite comparing your feelings to others who may be going through difficulties. Try not to invalidate your issues. Looking after your mental health should be a priority ESPECIALLY in this global pandemic. All the best 💕

[@kameisha4eva2]

Watching 56 minutes of Adeola Patronne is better than Netflix! Purrrrr

[@anikamalik2188]

I can’t believe your insecurities still play on you like that I’m all up in my feelings now 🥺 I look at you and even I can’t even find the slightest fault you’re so damn beautiful mashallah you’re mind blowing, you’re amazing, you’re gorgeous and so different in your own way, I love your vibe, I love your aura, I love everything about you baby 😍🤩 don’t let your insecurities get the better of you, you the illest you the baddest 💯

[@anikamalik2188]

I just love how you don’t just use your vlogs to just vlog. I love how informative you are about other things at the same time, it’s ok Adeola we love your rants 💯

[@zainabmohamed930]

I love how she talks to us 🥺

[@GoGoNYELA]

Your natural is so nice and is getting long. Looks healthy! Great to be able to switch it up between wigs and your hair

[@SR-xc5nb]

Adeola, I literally know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I go through stuff and it’s just a lot of effort to let others know how I feel because I always think they’re going to remember that thing about me and think of me as a fragile person. Sometimes I wish I could just tell all my thoughts/problems to a complete stranger that I will never see again and won’t remember me just so I could get something off my chest without any perception and repercussions. I don’t want to express how I feel because I feel when you do that you put yourself into a box and people will think something is wrong everytime I’m quiet. My mood and who I am changes so much so I’d rather not tell anyone so they won’t have to try and keep up.

[@TraceTheFace62]

WOW. I’ve always felt the EXACT same way but never knew how to put it into words !

[@LayosChoice]

Adeolas editing skills has just been getting better and better

[@shirleymuthony6863]

What you did during this vlog was express yourself and your emotions! It’s the little things you’ve got to congratulate yourself for! It’s almost like a form of video journalling and you felt comfortable to share it with the people who follow you. Congrats!

[@breannat6125]

29:11 “and he’s hurting people, civilians on the street” 💀 i’m dying because in my 18 years of living i don’t think i’ve ever used the word civilian outside of a classroom

[@triciana]

I feel like when we downplay our feelings bc we feel like others have it worse it's good to ask yourself if you would say this to another person talking to you about their feelings. it's important to be as kind to yourself as you'd be to others♥️

[@kokichioma2748]

It could be the hormones from your period being near. Everytime before my period starts I get way more irritated, angry and sad that I usually do. I still do feel sad regularly but the emotion is enhanced if I'm a few day away from my period.

[@pretty-lb2qx]

We really pulled the short end of the stick in this life thing. Like is bleeding not enough

[@camillaxrodas]

Or even days after it’s done 😭

[@TayTay-b4f]

Was literally about to say this hormonal imbalance is a serious thing, trying some natural remedies like maca root can help x

[@MariyumKay]

I be getting a wave of sadness out of nowhere either and it’s important to remember that your feelings are still valid. I just write my feelings down and talk about it with my therapist because I know hearing “awww it’s okay” etc from your peers is not gonna help me and it might make me sad even more.

[@tabisasehole5548]

Girl!! I’m from South Africa and we love you this side , Adeola gang Gang !! 🤣❤️

[@keapelo9531]

Fuly

[@fifilamani8778]

Dass right!

[@bongiwelanga1706]

We really do! ❤️😍

[@chidera5422]

That green screen edit with the blue dress sent me😭😭💀💀😂😂😂😂

[@anikamalik2188]

It’s Adeola doing the Nicki number for me get this gal in a music video now now now I’m dead as 🤣🤣

[@judyp9141]

Thank you for sharing. Don’t forget to breathe when you feel the sadness. Deep breaths help me get back to center. Also, what helps me is to ask myself “what/where is the immediate danger”. Sometimes our fight/flight survival mode is on & it’s because we’ve been triggered by something & we don’t even realize it. I talk to my inner child a lot & I find when I ask what/where is the danger, I am usually able t pinpoint the root of my sadness and can work on healing. The answers are always within us, never outside because God lives within. Love this channel 🖤

[@SilvaWaters]

Adeola, you're precious on the inside & out. Thank you for being you and bringing us (the viewers) along on your journey.

[@najhaemclaughlin2226]

Hey Adeola, I don't normally comment however I felt so compelled to say something when watching your video and I just couldn't not say something. I honestly use to feel the EXACT same way! Although on the outside I'd always look happy, at the same time I always felt like I was carrying this bag of sadness everywhere around me and I just couldn't get it to go away! No matter how much I spoke to friends, journaled, go out, do activities, or even try to improve my physical health etc. it was just always there and I could never explain why or understand what the reason was. Until eventually it got to breaking point and I just couldn't keep it up anymore. So I decided to go to therapy, and it was the best thing I had ever done!!! I learned these feelings of constant sadness were only the symptoms of past traumas I had internalised for so long, that I never noticed the impacts it had on me. This is why I highly suggest you do therapy as it's a great segway into figuring out what exactly is going on and gets to the root cause instead of managing and coping with the symptoms of your problem for so long. It's really really good you have found a way to express your emotions through journaling, but it could also be really beneficial to speak to a therapist about how you've been feeling, just to get that external feedback from someone you have no personal attachment to. Giving you that safe space to express yourself. Plus, by not having that personal attachment helps you not feel so guilty or fear that you might burden those close to you. Really admired your honesty on how you've been feeling recently as it's not something people are usually brave enough to do, but hope this helps you get to the answers!!

[@solan883]

Yes to Adeola rocking the natural bob, and embracing her natural hair..It looks lovely and healthy

[@thezeeola]

I think this is my favorite void you put out, from beginning to end, from how you felt(cause girl it really do be like that😭), to hanging out with Mariam, to getting your hair done and how you felt about it. Thank you for genuinely being you, it so amazing to see.

[@mariaade1100]

You have every right to feel how you feel. A lot of people can't express themselves to people they care for. Therapy is a tool if you can afford it/nhs and can call the good samaritan free number in case you want someone to talk to at a moment in time. They are trained councillors

[@siinamalee]

girl all throughout this video you look gorgeous, and to answer your question yes you look good with and without the wig perioddd 😍🥺

[@brooke3202]

I LOVE when Mariam and Adeola are together. They are my favorite duo on youtube NO LIE

[@adebolaadebola8718]

Adeola it's ok to feel that way! I have days like that too. I understand you very much. It'll get better just take care of yourself and avoid negative energy!

[@bethanywilkinson4166]

I know exactly how you feel! I feel like the position you’re in would really benefit from speaking to someone external, like a therapist. Someone who you only ever see when you need to talk to someone about the shit you’re feeling and who’ll never chase or nag you unless you approach them for another session. I did this and go for ‘MOT’ sessions all the time whenever I’m feeling down. It’s so helpful and makes a huge difference 🥰

[@maryannan2838]

Aww..I fully felt this vlog, in so many different ways... i can relate. Untill you have children... your happiness should always come first. Your doing so well and have evolved and are growing immensely. it seems as though you have a good unit of family and friends so, dont worry.. its normal...We all have days like this. Somebody will always be there to support you but, writing things down is like personal therapy without the weekly charge so yh, let it out and remember...you got this😊

[@MissMaryMak]

Yasssss a long one, let me get my popcorn and supermalt 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@Joye1stt]

Sometimes it’s hormones……. Try and see if it occurs around same time every month. Erm you can get a pet to comfort you and love you or try therapy see what works for you.

[@christianawilliams7764]

“I have no right to feel how I feel” STOPPPP THAT TALK. What because you have money and an amazing job living your dream you can’t have an off day ?? Adeolaaaaa how you feel is valid. You have a right to be sad and a right to be happy. ❤️❤️❤️ take a breather babe ❤️ l feel so sad that you feel like this 🥺

[@candypamela202]

Adeola’s Relationship Advices >>>>> 🔥😆

[@jessicakomagum4907]

Girl literally everything you said about being down I FEEL YOU it’s literally a constant cycle with emotions and never knowing how to fully open up to people but don’t ever feel like you aren’t allowed to be down, yes others go through deeeep shit but that doesn’t take away the fact YOU feel down and the most important person on your life is you do all of your feeling are VALID

[@tanymillan5155]

Omg your hair loooks FANTASTIC even the way it was styled, you should defoe keep and embrace it!!!!!!! Glam up make up and ur hair on fleek girll you betta rock it OUTSIDE OUTSIDE LOVE IT

[@missbrownskin0]

Your video really resonated with me Adeola. I find that when I feel like that it’s because I’ve drifted far away from God. It’s a really personal thing but prayer changes things. Hopefully you’re feeling better, but sending you a lot of love and light ❤️🙏🏾

[@anikamalik2188]

Lol the leave your partner convo whilst walking to your appointment was class 🥲😭😩

[@vlalaha]

thank you for sharing girl because ive felt the exact same way. its even more frustrating when you dont know the reason why youre sad and youre pulling your hair out tryna find the reason. i didnt feel like myself. i just felt empty. i thought it would never pass. but im so glad it did. once you get over this rough patch youre set. love you adeola

[@MsJodie95]

awww adeola looks so cute with her natural hair

[@sabssads]

“girl, are you alright” me when i scroll through my tweets 😭

[@kishanawisdom3824]

Adeollaaa! The randomness and ups and downs of this vlog is what makes your channel so authentic LOL. We all go through it boiii. Love this, never change!

[@bukkyxo]

Your natural hair looks so good 👍🏾. You should definitely wear it for the event, the more you wear it out the more confident you’ll get with it.

[@savedbytheking23]

This was one of your BEST VIDEOS EVER!! So sweet, so genuine, so IN YOUR ELEMENT but also shy and just kindhearted like I freaking absolutely love you and you make my spirit uplift!! 🙏🏾🦋🦋🦋

[@pelumisanni8065]

Adeola has literally just explained what I’ve been feeling since the being of the year. Like I don’t know why but I just feel like that. And yeah everyone has their own issues as well so I just keep my feelings to myself.

[@tilewabalogun4357]

i’ve been binging any video with adeola and Mariam. best duo

[@chidinmaaham-neze6401]

You and Mariam though 🥺 and sis, this PMDD will forever catch me off guard, I can never get used to it. Your transparency with your platform though ✨ we appreciate you!

[@anikamalik2188]

I’ve had such a long ass day and this is just what i needed to end it 😆

[@Kats_love]

Just did a marathon of your videos and your luv for your friends are so real. Everyone needs an Adeola as a friend!💜💜

[@anesumhembere9449]

IM SCREAMING CAUSE I RELATED SO MUCH to that emotional segment 🥺🥺🥺

[@elminadunn3078]

You are blessed.I love the fact you look after yourself and never rude.Positive vibes and girl you made me know the benefit of good quality footwear!

[@DinaDeng.]

I love how humble you . We love you and your deff not alone when it comes to how your currently feeling and going through

[@Unknown-vy3do]

I just love the way you care for yourself

[@Jxol0la0a3]

Girl! As you're an air sign and a Libra at that, the switching if thoughts can be mad because you're trying to balance everything, but you're human girl and it can be hard to reach out, but you got your people. Also when people ask are you ok, try not to see it as annoying as remember their energy is a caring one and in someway could be a way to release the stress and your thoughts, but obviously to the people you trust cause some people just wanna be in your businesssss....don't do that! But keep pushing beautiful xxxxxxx

[@sophiabarange4364]

That feeling you described about fearing coping in the future is really normal so don’t worry! Hope you feel better soon

[@foyeke]

The hairstyle looks so cute!!! I love it!😍🥺

[@alexandriaray8079]

At this point I'm living through you, because my country has been on lockdown FOREVERRRRRR. *cries*

[@kameisha4eva2]

Are you in Canada because girl SAME

[@alexandriaray8079]

@@kameisha4eva2 Na girl. Im in Trinidad..in the Caribbean 😭😭

[@manuilanga972]

Unexplainable feelings and fluctuation of moods/emotions really stem from a drastic change in an individual’s norm.

[@janaelarose4300]

She’s so pretty and inspirational

[@jessie_rl]

My sister watched this vlog and said you sounded like me talking about your feelings and stuff and I really FELT it! I hate talking about my feelings and the sympathy that comes with it tbh It’s so refreshing to see this side of you. You’re doing great sweetie and we love you! 💕

[@savedbytheking23]

AN THAT PHOTOSHOOT WAS AMAZING!!!! 😍😍😍😍 I can’t wait to take photos for my brand!!

[@dandreturner777]

Keep sharing and speaking about your feelings on video Adeola it's a great way to train yourself to be more expressive, like training a muscle 💪🏾 you're human and everything you're feeling is so valid❤️✨

[@_mbnntt]

I live for these ✨ big fat ✨ vlogs

[@bongiwelanga1706]

I really enjoy your vlogs, Adeola. I can’t explain how happy they make me and your self-care and just how well you’re doing, inspires me a lot. Wishing you all the best, always ❤️

[@martinaisabellopez2945]

i truly think that the struggle about expresing feelings is an earth sign thing 😂😂😂 bc i'm the same way. I have a whole therapy session by myself debating whether to express to my close ones something i'm going through/how i'm feeling bc i don't consider it to be super serious. Sending you love

[@zandiledlamini2743]

Just started watching most of her videos and I am in love!!!! Legit wish she could me my friend 🥺! She seems so chilled and unbothered! Love it!

[@withmimii8701]

Girl I really feel you on your natural hair thoughts, t's been a real ass journey for me since lockdown actually confronting my insecurities for the first time. You're so so so beautiful exactly as you are naturally (but of course in any other way you choose to express yourself) and I'm rooting for you coming home to yourself and growing more confident in your natural hair journey ❤

[@ahleminentlesithole8096]

The Barbs are gonna have fun with that scene 🤣🤣🤣

[@khanyamvane]

i loved this vlog adeola . love your natural hair , you looked stunning.

[@halfpakichick]

I feel the same too, not sure why but my emotions have been up and down for no reason since December last year. Sending you my love 🥺

[@heavensent9142]

Adeola... you dont even understand how much i understand you😂 like i never knew how to say it out loud but you really did voice it fr.

[@adeolaoguntunde4423]

I can’t lie some kids are naughty and then seeing the mum just act bare foolish just goes to show how her negligence has now made the child comfortable being naughty. I’ll just say to the child nicely hey! watch it cos really like you can’t watch your child and you can’t say sorry? Don’t even get on my nerves 😞

[@brendastone6434]

Damn.your skiiiiiiiiiiin though 👌🏿

[@Scorpiongrases]

OKAY but she looks so sophisticated with her natural hair like that 😍

[@sunvavachi]

Your hair straightened looks so beautiful on you, it suits you. Your forehead does not look bad on it. It's such a vibe.

[@mammaj3801]

Always watch Adeola's channel like a proud mother ❤❤

[@ahleminentlesithole8096]

I’m really growing into you🥺🥺 and how you growing as a person through your videos. Love youuuu AP your content truly keeps me sane

[@gemmagreen5876]

I know how you feel and the fact that you was able to share how you was feeling, hopefully has made you feel abit better. Even the strong ones, need checking in xx thank you for always staying true to yourself xx 😘 There needs a to be more people, like you and your friends on KZbin 💯💯💕💕💯💯💕💕

[@shanisazura7]

A long video? This is the best for sure. Love it so much! Thank you!

[@anikamalik2188]

You know when Adeola shouts omg guys that’s when you know the story gonna be lit 😂

[@luash5073]

Bless Adeola. She has such a sweet down to earth vibe

[@cocodiamondz2730]

Adeola really out here making movies for us🤚😭😭

[@amadamun269]

Hi there, I really enjoyed this vlog 😍, I would like to talk about the sadness you’ve been feeling , I deal with the same times to times even if the reasons may not be the same, I would say mine comes from an emptiness I tried to fill with things or people that didn’t resonate as someone said on top. I think it’s important to embrace your pain and take a little extra care of yourself on those days, resting, eating your fave food or even take a walk can reset your mood BUT it’s important to dig deeper and acknowledge all your emotions and what they’re trying to tell you, overall I would say it’s key to fill yourself with yourself and to live your TRUTH no matter what and also train your energy and your vibe and protect it at all cost. Take care ✨

[@f.c1325]

Sis you look amazing with that Bob, your hair looks super healthy! I’m loving these vlogs, loving your personality more and more each video you make and I really respect the way you keep it real and honest, showing the good and the bad. Keep up the good work 🥰

[@jshawncook462]

11 mins in and I love this. Really love to see a more vulnerable side to you, continue to express yourself freely❤️🙏🏾

[@jucilenichibia4001]

I used to feel the same way you are, I still feel bad telling people how I feel but it was getting better when I had therapy but now that it ended its getting worse. Just remember that you are human and you are allowed to feel what you feel it doesn't matter if it is worse than somebody else's problems it is still important. Don't worry too much, you are not bothering anybody else

[@jucilenichibia4001]

And if you can't community what you feel with your friends or family them get a psychologist to help you

[@evamaniel9559]

Looove your vlogs Girl !!! (Greetings from Germany) btw your blazer dress looks amaaazinngg my wardrobe is screaming for it❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@sheknew49]

It’s the dance session for me 🤣🤣 Love you girlll💕 sending love ✨💗

[@BetweenThePagesWithLouLou]

That solo dance party was a vibe! 😁 LOVE the hair!

[@hibiscusrose6074]

Love the natural hair and the style it suits you😊

[@angell5778]

You are my favourite KZbinr! You helped me understand sometimes it’s okay to not be okay. But to take time for yourself. THANK YOU! may god guide you and continue to bless you ❤️