Depression

[@waifufish136]

So relatable it's scary. You try to do things to feel "better" but you always feel like you're drowning again.

[@pinkyvalera5480]

God be with you 🙏

[@Sweetflowers_]

Yeah and the worst part is ur not downing in water

[@emelygonzalez2067]

And the point when you feel numb and ur not able to cry anymore and the reason you wanna live is starting to not being a reason anymore slowly

[@pluckybellhop66]

Time heals all wounds ❤ One day you just wake up and the birds are singing and you want to feel the sun on your face again instead of waking up crying every day. I promise it passes.

[@user-up7ho4gr2b]

ikr.

[@ericairons3435]

Depression is a WAR, not just a battle. It can take years to even figure out why the bombs are going off around you...

[@nepatsiuk]

people write such stupid things about war without ever being in a combat zone 😂

[@imnty97]

​@@nepatsiuk You don't have to be on a actual war to know what a war is or what is happening in a war. We have videos online, movies and history on school, stupid.

[@mountain-goblin710]

​@@nepatsiukit's crazy how people are so quick to discredit others that they forget analogies are a common literary device

[@charadreemurr9256]

​@@nepatsiukwars are supposed to take longer, that was it, now go back to war or smth bc u were tecnically commenting on it too

[@rebeccasheng620]

@@nepatsiukit’s crazy people talk about refrigerators without ever cooling down anything

[@monalishapanda52]

The worst part is none of them are wrong, it's hard for partners and families when their ones are depressed. In joint families there are more hands to help but nuclear families suffer a lot

[@fxrivrgirl]

Yes i have tried to stay alone & try to reduce burden on others..its hard to have relationships..

[@blueberries9850]

True

[@Moe_02_]

No the husband should support her, he is a dick.

[@helengold7150]

@@fxrivrgirlhope you are okay now?

[@rene3759]

he is wrong for yelling at her and fighting infront of the child. also they should get an extra helper since she is struggling for her beetterment and for the kids well being. as a partner ie a husband and wife you signed up to be there for the good and the bad times, you cant be angry at the partner when they are sick/the bad times are happening. instead of uslessly yelling you should be loving and supprtive and think of solutions

[@riaoswalj]

She has depression, but both are suffering. They are fighting their own battle 😢

[@qaa4850]

She needs her husband's support but normal people will get tired at the end.

[@theycallmequeen6273]

@@qaa4850 As a person who suffers from Depression, it wears on Everyone. People tend to have to pick up the things we let slip because we are constantly fighting our own battles but they too will also get tired. It's completely normal for them to also get worn down as well.

[@DoveyTheWriter]

@@qaa4850yeah but it’s very draining dealing with someone who has depression. Sometimes their depression takes them down so bad they can’t function. When they can’t function it leaves all the responsibility on their significant other and people around them. I’m not saying they shouldn’t lean on people around them for support. They definitely should but it’s hard for the people around them too. Especially if they have been dealing with depression for years already and trying their best to help them.

[@qaa4850]

@@DoveyTheWriter Agreed, those depression fighter once a normal person. They just need understanding from normal people. Fighting inner side, that's why su!(!de happened if they lose in their battle. I'm a depression fighter, honestly doesn't healed fully. Normal people drained coz of us but did once u think on how we feel like when we wanted ending our life, give up w/out thinking at all.

[@samwise0074]

I really can't blame him for getting tired here. She needed real help and I understand her totally. But he's right as well. The kid can't take care of himself. It was sad really.

[@my_life_be_like.]

this is literally real depression, when time goes way quicker than u think

[@herebutnothere9973]

Dang

[@harshitasingh601]

this video made me seriously think about taking depression medication

[@Gaby-om5rd]

Time always do that

[@herebutnothere9973]

I take meds for depression but I ain’t feeling anything.. I mean I guess it’s kinda helping but I still feel like I don’t care about stuff as much. Especially my health. 😅 I’m close to fatty liver disease but I seem to care much……..

[@Laced_With_Acid]

@@herebutnothere9973 You should talk to who is prescribing your medicine. I had to be on four different kinds and a mental hospital before I could get the one that actually works. Please talk to your medical provider if you can about how you feel and that your medicine isn't working.

[@Kaur2907]

Depression is not a joke. Try to understand it and also help others.

[@villagerlv7534]

Depression is the most selfish thing there is

[@rozmeetkaur_rozyy]

name of drama plz ?

[@villagerlv7534]

@@rozmeetkaur_rozyy It's okay to not be okay. Greatest drama ever

[@QuestionMark88]

@@rozmeetkaur_rozyy the series is “our blues”

[@TheeputridBerminists]

I mean if its hurting someone else then its not okay to support it. She has a kid and a husband, she can at least try to get help. It doesn’t matter if its hard for her..we get it, but you have a kid..A whole kid

[@poornasianparapio2401]

The starring at the darkness is so real. We had so many plans and to do lists for the day just to realise that it is night already and the regret, dissatisfaction, anxiety and hopelessness just drowns you.

[@khisyahmasfyramohammedkhal7243]

Like knowing all the effort meant nothing is so tiring

[@r4ish4]

Omg this is me

[@mykidsmyworld6608]

Same here😢

[@tinamarisia123]

This is one of the hardest things to conquer for me.

[@Ami2404]

I think most of the lists that I (and most of the people) do are unrealistic... Maybe that's why it's so frustrating. I watched an interesting video nearly a month ago: a therapist suggested to do several lists (2 or 3) with different goals depending on your energy level of that particular day: one, with the minimum goals of the day (like getting up from bed, getting dressed and having your meals, which can be more or less elaborated depending on your energy level), then a different list for the days in which the person feels a little more "energetic". That way, you can choose the list everyday, based on a little more realistic expectations. Maybe we push ourselves to hard... if you don't feel good, even getting up and having some simple meals is enough for that day and that should be your goal... then you can add a thing or two (like brushing your teeth) another day , when you feel better. Nobody can do everything on a long-unrealistic list, that stays the same no matter how we feel on different days or even on different moments of the same day . Maybe expectations should change day by day, depending on how you are feeling. Be nice, patient and forgiving to yourself. If you're not feeling well, if you're suffering, please tell your family or coworkers or neighbours about it and look for professional advice. We all go to hard times in life and even a call to an anonymous line that offers help is a great start, a first step that can make a big difference.

[@samaritaDeath]

She was so good in this. As a person who has been diagnosed with clinical depression for 25 years, she portrayed depression excellently. The reaction of the husband is also typical of the reaction of people around me, may be not as harsh as he. This is why counselling should be for the family and not just the person suffering from depression.

[@bluestripghost]

hope your better now best wishes

[@yourbeautysecreat]

Whats the name of this drama?

[@samaritaDeath]

@@yourbeautysecreat our Blues

[@bonjolivent7130]

Great point you put forward. More power to you.

[@adobokkeumbap]

when i first saw the scene of her feeling like she’s drowning and eaten by the water, i tell you THE TEARS I SHED. never have i ever felt so seen through a scene that spoke to me so much. this really is one of her breakout adult roles.

[@hanafromspace]

This hits so hard. Before he opened that door she was probably feeling good that she got those seemingly simple but sometimes hard to do tasks done. One step forward, two steps back 😢

[@SakshiShrimantSharma]

Khudke bache sambhalna task nhi hota ek ma ma hoti hai esi nhi hoti 😢

[@kosmos7-7]

​@@SakshiShrimantSharma Bro she is depressed 🗿

[@mahi93162]

It’s so relatable :(

[@tani3758]

Hey, I am your 1000th like 😊

[@Pinkfairydust23]

This is the comment that justifiably explains this short clip we see.

[@raining_trees]

So sad how his harsh words fueled her to shower and clean but it took all day and she didn't even notice. Her best still wasn't enough. This is what hurts so bad about depression

[@yaneyrydelfin5959]

Yes! I feel like it’s even worse when I don’t meet my own expectations

[@JMac7395]

True, he shouldn't have been so aggressive but that was his frustration with her pouring out. Unfortunately, even though she was diagnosed, prescribed meds & therapy, she was in deep denial about her depression

[@mariadelgado4927]

Small and normal things take so much energy and effort, it's really sad.

[@Truhsty]

Bro. She forgot her kid at school

[@Lilliz91]

@@mariadelgado4927 true, it makes you feel even more guilty

[@ogtink]

Depression is like trying to stay afloat in thick dark water, there's no energy to live life when you're spending all of it trying not to drown. You're not swimming, you're surviving.

[@pranavibharadwaj2163]

Mostly like floating on the surface of water....

[@ogtink]

@pranavibharadwaj2163 hmm, if I felt like that I don't think I'd be depressed. Floating on water sounds like floating on air which sounds heavenly...

[@tystheticchannel3733]

This was….. wildly accurate

[@ogtink]

@tystheticchannel3733 the song I'll Find You by Lecrae ft Tori Kelly is my representation of my fight with depression. Lecrae is me and Tori is basically my God guiding me through the waters and giving me the strength to keep going. It's a really good song, you should check it out!

[@libra-beotch]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 perfect description!!!

[@kylejay8493]

Depression is realizing what youve missed, what you miss, and what you continue to keep missing until you find it just to lose it again

[@faraway7733]

True ....

[@andrewmuse2756]

i.may be wrong ,but this sounds to me like Craving things and due to.your inability to have them.and experiencing them right at this moment in time ,it leads you to suffering. A mental type of suffering due to craving.

[@smokescreen705]

100%

[@Unlike230]

YES!!!

[@Skoc90]

one of the best scenes to explain how depression feels.

[@rabayaahmedsheikh8874]

Name please?

[@kuuxo200]

​@@rabayaahmedsheikh8874 our blues

[@Sabr4ever]

Depression just eats you and you feel excruciating heart wrenching pain

[@naimairfan5738]

Same with ocd. I know because I have it and simple daily tasks are difficult. 😔 Edit : thanks a lot for like.

[@sharonbrazier3001]

that's the hard thing with depression it's that monster on your back is with you day in and day out you can't get rid of it but try to cope as best you can ,you guys understand what I'm saying?but when you try and tell someone who has never had it , it's always the same thing that's said "your just haveing a bad day!!! I would never wish depression on anyone big hugss never give up ❤️❤️

[@clarawithak5921]

😔

[@TarisLuna]

Don't forget the tiredness / lack of energy

[@wonderingSoul.quotes]

I'm experiencing heart wrenching pain

[@sophiedow9509]

Its painful how accurate this is. A lot of people think depression is just a mental disorder. But depression is closely related to and affected by your physical health. This can make you even more depressed, causing more physical effect ect. It's a vicious cycle.

[@Brezzzy100]

As someone who has never dealt with depression. This scene helped me to see what some people actually go through when they are depressed. My heart sunk when she walked out and it was night time.

[@ScorpioKay1027]

Thank you for saying that 🙏🏾💜

[@moreskyya]

You’re so lucky to never experience this! I hope it never happens to you!

[@amyt237]

I wonder how life on your side is? Lucky you!

[@sunilverma-gt1kh]

Lie

[@princessmimi6776]

He was harsh, but you can tell he's really concerned about her and at a loss😢

[@baichan98]

Yeah like he's not just yelling at her to get better hes pushing her to get help and is mostly mad because she's not happy and their son is suffering. Tough love.

[@KennedyJ8097]

Yeah however that’s not gonna do any good for her situation only make it worse

[@conyapcosme6771]

The most killer part here is he is so toxic, adding to her miseries and you cant even see that

[@achankiir1263]

@@baichan98 you can’t be mad at someone for not being happy…you don’t control other people’s emotions and just cuz they don’t feel what you want them to feel doesn’t mean their feelings should be negated. Is she allowed to be mad at him when he has bouts of sadness or is this only reserved for women suffering from depression.

[@IceMaidenxx3]

​@achankiir1263 women often are forced to endure the emotional rollercoasters of men, because it's their 'duty'. While men are heroes for doing the bare minimum.

[@TrashyARTtry]

Omg! Just realized he’s the husband from the Glory!

[@rayha056]

Me too 😭😭

[@igotjiminjam112]

Same me too

[@cherryjwan_]

The dilf yes😩

[@a9b39sanachoudhary6]

And the wife is from hometown cha cha cha

[@prashipal7155]

Is he not a good guy here? I really liked his role in the glory .. I wanna watch more but this role😬😬

[@user-vu1qj2ym9e]

The lady has bad depression, she suddenly got depressed during the middle of the ride and got into a car accident, luckily the child wasn’t hurt. She also forgot to pick her son up, probably happened before as well. The husband left her because he’s fed up, he’s tried to help her for years, I think 7? That’s quite a lot for someone to take on, especially helping someone with major depression. And I’m saying this as someone diagnosed with PTSD and MDD. It’s hard but it’s also hard for those helping me because I didn’t try enough, I didn’t try to help myself so it was hard for others to help me. The ex husband was a decent man, but I think his love slowly fell because of how much he took on and his concerns overwhelming him. He’s a human being, he didn’t get BORED of her, he was tired, he was angry, showing basic human emotions and no one should hate him for that. Sure he should’ve calmed down a bit but that’s not up to us. And I’m glad they separated, the woman needed someone else with unconditional support and true love. The ex husband did care but he prioritized the child more. The true love ended together and the ex moved on, for his own good because helping others with mental health for so long can also start to slowly deteriorate your mental health (of course this is different for all with how they handle it).

[@Mahariplays]

What’s the name of the show

[@Mahariplays]

117 likes and 0 comments let me fix that

[@SanaKhan-hx1vi]

@@Mahariplaysour blues

[@Mahariplays]

@@SanaKhan-hx1vi Thank youuuu!!☺️

[@Mahariplays]

@@SanaKhan-hx1vi Thank youuuu!!☺️

[@lq.bleach1230]

Seeing and feeling your own life, days and weeks, months and years, slipping past your fingers and feeling helpless while everyone demands of you to "just get up" and "just get help" really is a different kind of pain

[@maryr1905]

True. However, in my experience sticking with a good therapist you trust is critical. I decided that if I could do nothing else (which was most days) I would attend my appointments and trust that the professional would help me figure out how to recover. It took a while and I needed to learn new ways of thinking and reacting to the world because my biological reactions to things in life would never be the same as pre-depression. I decided in my mind this was no different than fighting cancer as it was just as life-threatening for me. So I would focus on the treatment just like someone with cancer has to stop everything to fight back. Illness and treatment were different but the concept was the same for me and helped me through the hurtful comments.

[@gagabiux]

​@@maryr1905Thank you, today was a hard day, but your comment made me blink back to life, it's real, we need to think about recovering from mental cancer...

[@maryr1905]

@@gagabiux I am glad I could help a little. One baby step at a time. It is about holding on during those small moments that eventually work together for recovery. Mental cancer - I like that term. I am an example-if you need one-that recovery is possible. I needed to know that. I had read an article where someone was open about their journey and recovery. I held on to that for my hope and it kept me in the fight. You can do it.

[@lynnxxvsr]

​@@maryr1905only problem is my parents pulled me out of therapy when he told them that i was severely depressed, and he told them everything i told him, everything from my past attempts, sa, everything. Shit i didn't even tell anyone, and they punished me for opening up, so that sucked but I'll be okay

[@maryr1905]

@@lynnxxvsr I am sorry to hear that. Those additional challenges are part of the process, unfortunately. Sometimes those closest to you really struggle to know how to handle things. Hopefully you have a friend or pastor or someone who can be there for you. I was alone so know that you can do it by just taking one day at a time. I knew my parents wanted to help but didn’t know how to. That is OK. I had a family member who also struggled with depression and it is hard to know how to help. It is what I liked about Suga’s Amygdala MV. He shows how his one persona wants to help his struggling persona but can’t get through the door. In the end (at his final encore concert), however, he is able to walk through that door on his own.

[@akhyrinmartinez8673]

I want to hug her. His husband isn’t bad at all. He was also trying to help her out. I feel bad for both.

[@_shotgunboy]

that IS bad. yelling at someone is not the way to help.

[@EriamKiya-kq7te]

Fr

[@veewooshi9882]

@@_shotgunboy and when you’ve tried everything and the person you’re living with is still unwilling to get help. To go to a doctor, to take medication. Dot. You think you get frustrated too? Get off your high horse will you!

[@peaceweapon1933]

@@_shotgunboySometimes it is. He has a son to worry about, and she’s clearly not fit to take care of him 😢

[@_shotgunboy]

@Tsuyu’s kero there is literally nothing that can justify verbal abuse

[@Testsubjectn]

"when did you last wash your hair?" Meanwhile she looks more put together than I ever will and I don't even have depression lol

[@cherrycordiaI]

Her hair is perfect, her pajamas are unwrinkled and unstained and her skin is smooth and clear. She probably smells like daisies too. The costuming director was really cowardly in this one.

[@testificles240]

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[@kalialavant5761]

Underrated comment and I love you!!! You are perfect in your own way experience the universe for your soul! Love yourself for you!! ❤❤

[@LEEKNOWSEYELASHES]

right that was the one thing that didn't sit right with me lmfao 😭 like her hair looks perfectly fine and clean what was he talkin bout 😭😭

[@meelostinhisgaze]

😂😂😂

[@kellihill6359]

I have never seen a more accurate depiction of depression. Well done

[@ajolaqim]

It’s not easy when you have depression. Ive been in depression 2 years back.. even i got cured, i knew come back again and push me down..and it’s happening again.. sometimes i just sat the whole day on the sofa and lost track of times and cried.. i feel like sometimes I am just existing instead of living.. 🥺

[@Bendiman]

Its ok bro, just time your time, and what u really wanna do, dont do think u dont want to

[@FarizCircleXVIP]

how to cure it ?

[@golden22h8]

This is so scary, and so 100% accurate. When someone is experiencing such severe depression, they literally do not feel time passing. You are so sad or so numb, your thoughts are so many, you can be stuck in the same position for a long time and not realize the time is passing. I Remember when I was dealing with severe anxiety and depression and dissociation, I sat down at 12pm, ate, thought for some moments about everything in life, showered, thought for some moments, swept, when I looked at the time it was 9pm. and my heart felt like it dropped in my stomach.

[@elenasilvestri6289]

Man when i was depressed I just really slept a lot. I didn't feel like doing anything and slept to kind of escape reality

[@Enhafun]

Hey would you mind telling me how you coped up with it? Are you doing well now? I'm going through the exact same things as you have described and I feel terrible it's like I'm stuck in this never ending cycle

[@golden22h8]

@ni-ki is frying of course!! thank you for being so vulnerable to share and ask 💗. What I first want to tell you is that you aren't alone in what you are going through. and I promise you, you will get better, you will get through this, you will not feel this way forever. I remember being so sure I would NEVER feel joy or anything other than that state ever again in life. but it is a lie 💗, depression lies, anxiety lies, the thoughts saying it'll never get better, is only a symptom of depression. it is not the truth 💗💗💗. To be honest, what truly helped pull me out of this was Jesus :). Idk if you believe in anything, but I believe in God. I grew up Christian but.. when things got hard I ran away from God. in my darkest moments I turned to him and asked him to help me, I gave my life to Jesus and asked him to help me and he began healing me, he gave me joy, peace nothing else could give, I realized I don't have to go through life alone because he is with me every moment of the way, and he Loves you. So I want to tell you, He loves you so much, and sees you and is with you 💗💗💗. on another note, what helped me is taking walks, eating healthy, even when u don't feel like eating, please eat 💗. don't isolate yourself, therapy can be very helpful speaking to someone to guide you.

[@ritsvora2785]

Hope you are better now ❤.

[@ayfero]

​@@Enhafun You are not alone, you will get through this, be patient, it will all pass, God loves those who are patient and you will be fine. ❤

[@Straw_to_my_berry]

What hurts the most is that she's actually trying, but doing things at our own time also takes time this time passes so fast because every single day seems the same.

[@maneliaayesha365]

People said it is hard to be depressed But it is hard too to be their family/loved ones

[@misschin99]

Yup, we're expected to just cope and be supportive but it's very frustrating, you just want to kick the person's ass.

[@sugayuki8558]

Well yeah it's hard for them too but they don't know how it feels to get more and more broken day by day until nothing is left of you except for a lifeless soul, a lifeless heart or even a lifeless body. The thing is we really try to be better but we fight something you can't imagine because it's not just demons but also ourselves. We try to fit in, to be better for our loved ones, we do not want them to feel like they need to cope with it and be supportive. Yes it is hard but also it's hard to say yes to getting help, it's hard to survive, every day feels like hell so please do not tell them to just smile more or be happy or any of that stupid stuff, it makes it worse. Best thing would be to get them to a doctor even if that means lying to them so please do not blame them for an illness they can't do anything about so easily

[@lorraine1761]

@@sugayuki8558 I also think it’s not up to the other person to have to take all the accountability of the depressed person both have to take accountability, even if the depressed person can barely live. At the end of the day, the person who has to take care of the depressed person is never going to understand what they are going through. Just like the depressed person is never going to understand how they affect other people in their lives.

[@sugayuki8558]

@@lorraine1761 i never said the other person needs to zake accountability for the depressed one i only said that they could try to help them by sending them to the doctor even if they lie to them by saying it's just a check up or something so they don't have to deal with the depressed one and I know it's hard for the loved ones because they don't know what is wrong or why the depressed one acts like that. I know both sides that's why I say that, my little sister is depressed and at the moment we try to send her to the doctor behind her back and I still take meds because of my depression

[@maryr1905]

Having been in both positions it is incredibly difficult. I went through depression first and then walked with a family member who had it. Unlike most family members of someone who is depressed, I completely understood how they were feeling and what they were dealing with and it was still incredibly difficult to be in that position.

[@itx_payne]

Fighting with the demons in your mind is a different kind of war. Depression is not a joke, I should know. Nearly lost that fight myself💔

[@smilesomemoar]

"Atleast show me your will to live" That....hit me like a fcking truck wtf

[@sidrakashif6459]

No need to swear😮

[@1stPersonNarrator]

@@sidrakashif6459 are you 2 years old?

[@samsamyanthea]

@@sidrakashif6459 Welcome to the internet 😂

[@charmelldewee8802]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Gegeindisguise]

@@1stPersonNarratorsome ppl jus don’t like cursing, deal with it lol, you sound like a 7 year old😂😂

[@hibeautym]

This drama's realistic portrayal of severe depression is amazing. I have never seen it done so realistically before. Yet people still don't understand how dangerous depression is. Depression is a disease with a very high mortality rate. Just because it doesn't always have physical manifestations doesn't mean it should be taken lightly. You can't say things like "snap out of it". Would you say the same to a cancer patient?

[@swanie6769]

It’s like the song i heard on spotify - about someone precious to you who is broken and struggling with mental health/depression..it’s a good song! I cry everytime i listen to it coz it reminds me of my friend who had depression and didn’t want to tell us what’s going on with her. Song title is “i see you” by ALN

[@tarrysmile]

You should watch the part when shes about to jump and shes everything just dark. That made me cry as thats the first time i understood what a family member was going through

[@neferpitou4573]

Hi, im a psychology student and I agree with what you said, but I'm sorry please don't call it a "disease", depression is a "disorder". According to dsm-5, Depression is classed as a mental illness and a mental health condition, but not as a disease. Disorders are often a collection of symptoms that come together to disrupt how your body or brain functions. while disease is a type of sickness that doctors can diagnose using medical testing. Diseases have an identifiable cause, such as infection, inflammation, or environmental factors. but thank you for spreading awareness 😁😁😁

[@moonlight-007]

​@@neferpitou4573Thank you : ) Im also learning psychology and this comment helped a lot

[@neferpitou4573]

@@moonlight-007 no worries!! I'd like to thank you too, have a great day! 😁

[@martavye2218]

Being with a depressed person is so hard, when she/he doesnt have any will to take medication. Cant blame the man here

[@annaliserenner6771]

There have been times where I've gotten out of school or off work, collapsed on my bed, and woken up hours later alone in complete darkness. Having people around you doesn't exclude you from being lonely and depression is so much more than simply being sad

[@horseshoemagnet2200]

scenes like these remind me about how once people who were taking care of mentally unsound people were expected to show unconditional understanding at the expense of their own mental health. everyone here is suffering. living with someone with depression isn’t easy, neither is living with it.

[@swanie6769]

It’s like the song i heard on spotify - about someone precious to you who is broken and struggling with mental health/depression..it’s a good song! I cry everytime i listen to it coz it reminds me of my friend who had depression and didn’t want to tell us what’s going on with her. Song title is “i see you” by ALN

[@yavi_n]

Thank you for sharing this perspective! 🙏

[@connybenattaia445]

I left my husband after 25 years because he made my life and our daughters' lives a living hell. He had and still has a clinical depression but after years of not getting help, his anger issues/violence and doing nothing other than starring into the computerscreen when he was home, I had to leave him for my own sake and for my daughters'. I still care for him but what he did to us cannot be undone. I wish it wasn't a tabu for men to get help for mental issues.

[@nyscn-qo6xt]

​@@connybenattaia445 what you do isnt wrong, i hope your kids growing up well, and not develope any childhood trauma. i suffer from mental issue myself, when something trigger my trauma, somehow i cant control myself, its so difficult to live like a normaly functional person, and at the time i wish i have a room to lock myself so that i cant hurt my husband, and i feel like he deserve a better person than me . i always feel guilty after being mad at him for not understand me enough, but i shouldnt expect anyone to always understand me, its egoistic

[@henticleafmaples]

As someone with diagnosed OCD and depression this is really true.. you spend the day in your room not realizing that it’s already dark outside. I’m 21 and on my semester break and some days i just sleep for 17-20 hours. My mind is on nothing. I saw no light nor hope. My mom found my lying on the floor with my eyes open and she was terrified.. sorry mom. Although it’s bad, my depression comes in episodes. Ah why am i sharing this to the internet. Just wanna say that you’re not alone.

[@rashmiranakoti2236]

how are u now ?

[@rrrr0011]

i’ve never experienced it seriously, i might have some similar condition for days but no more. i cannot imagine how much hard you were going through.. i can only say that you are strong against it. people might don’t feel your pain but they will hear you. so share it, it’s needed not only for people around but i would say for you as well

[@rrrr0011]

but OCD kills me, i can clearly understand you at least at this point… this shit leads to many other bad conditions 💀

[@henticleafmaples]

@@rashmiranakoti2236 ahh thanks for asking! My depression hasnt come in a while now so its all good. My next semester will start next month and fully onsite so that should help me sleep less than 20 hours lol. But my OCD is always there

[@henticleafmaples]

@@rrrr0011 ahh.. thank you so much for saying this. It means a lot, truly. Hope we can overcome our intrusive thoughts tgt! OCD kills me too;(

[@onyxkitsuna4782]

Depression is like drowning when there is no water around you. Its an overwhelming sense of emptiness. My baby brother passing put me through it. I still struggle everyday. Keep your heads up. You can get through.

[@maryr1905]

One day at a time.

[@rayspace6362]

She's suffering, but no one talks about partners of people w severe Depression. Even very well intentioned ones can feel helpless and lost. In this case he was a bit harsh but even he's struggling. He's having to work a stressful job, take care of his toddler and deal w what he perceives as an uncooperative depressed partner who cant even clean the house and pick their kid from school. Its a burden for both but not everybody appreciates the increased workload on the partners of people w mental disorders.

[@sabinesteil4690]

Yes it's very hard on the families too but though it is if a person has for example cancer or a different illness that cripple them. When this person is weak and in pain would you say "at least show me your will to live "too?

[@YumFit1]

@@sabinesteil4690 Wow seems like feminists think cancer patients and being lazy is the same thing. Dude works a wall street level stress jobs and still takes care of his kid while she is lying around all day.

[@rene3759]

this has nothing to do with feminism. you are very uneducated. She has a mental illness (depression) your mind is basically shutting down/it is a chemical imbalance in the brain that can be caused due to external or internal factors@@YumFit1 . Please educate yourself before speaking ignorantly.

[@viarose1683]

It's best to seek professional help in learning how to cope with loved ones with depression. They'll have a better understanding. It's not easy but at least you'll be knowledgeable of what to expect and it can make the journey easier.

[@StoryGirl17]

​​@@sabinesteil4690If that sick person would be a loved one, who wants to die so that everything can end, then yes I would say that. If they give up, who am I fighting for? A dead person?

[@mewazee]

The character of Min-Ah in "Our Blues" had displayed well the effect of depression in the drama. I cried at each episodes in this drama. So well written. Each episodes have all the emotions depicted right. Love this script!

[@vritikabainsla5112]

Thanks I was finding the name

[@hindujaroyalugandhar3107]

Why does she get depressed

[@rachaeljeje9489]

I want to watch it but does it have a happy ending?

[@PurpleSwils]

@@rachaeljeje9489 I’d say it’s a hopeful ending but there are some moments that made me cry so prepare for that

[@malihakarim1696]

Yeah Korean dramas focus on this instead of stupid sex scenes

[@ericaonline3739]

This movie is called "Our Blues" btw.

[@janellesonoda7484]

Thank you

[@ritikapainuly8451]

Looking for it.. Thanks

[@oneheart19]

is there a happy ending?

[@sailorvelvets]

​@@oneheart19 I'm not sure but I think yeah! there another 3 or 2 couples so all of them have happy ending (I think)

[@oneheart19]

@@sailorvelvets Thanks!!

[@wedontknoweachother5864]

A lot of people in comments are saying that he's a bad husband and that he shouldn't yell at her, you guys definitely didn't watch the show, I agree with him and he's 100 % right, he was trying to help her and pull her out of it all the time but she wasn't reacting,she didn't give him any sign that she's wanting to get better, and they have a child that he should be worried about and she definitely wasn't in the right estate to take care of her own child, he got sick and tired and that's totally normal ,us human being have emotions and day after day we get sick and when we get sick we get mad and when we get mad we simply yell,yelling is totally normal,it's a way of expressing emotions. Your problem guys is that you're too attached and affected by those fictional characters and main leads that are so sweet and always lovey dovey with the female lead and that makes u think that "la vie en rose" ,those are only "fictional" reality is different, THIS is reality, this is the kind of shows u need to watch and try to learn cuz this is how real life is.

[@flutterykhatun2054]

if a depressed person was allowed to yell wgenever they are sick i bet theyll be yelling 24/7 all the time its understandable he does not want to put up with a depressed patient tho but shes still suffering its like screaming at someone for suffering

[@Aerezoso]

I agree. Everyone has their own limit for helping. Others help doesn't work if you don't want to help yourself in the first place.

[@kendobc]

Fictional eh? Sure this show is fictional but people with depression and other issues deal with this shit in real life. There is a reason people feel a connection with shows that show this stuff...because it happens to them in real life. And maybe you yell and shit when you get annoyed. Most of us, what I call adults, learn to regulate that and try and express our emotions in a healthy manner. We can recognize when someone is having issues and try to help. All he was doing was making her problems worse and worse. You saying this shit just shows me you have NO idea what you are talking about. Please learn more about it before you hurt the people around you.

[@ntany1]

"Your problem is guys" lmao look at this keyboard psychologist acting like they know why ppl are sympathetic towards the wife 🤡

[@theycallmequeen6273]

@@ntany1 You seem to be the most triggered and in fact doing the same thing as them, judging them for something they said that was basically common sense when it comes to things like this. Might want to stop getting so offended and use the one of the two brain cells you have.

[@theroadrunner6880]

It's hard being the one depressed. It's even harder watching someone going through it and trying to help.

[@jesusalejo84]

Does this dude get divorced in like every drama he is in....lol he does play the part gloriously

[@yayayayahaikyuu4261]

Yeaaaa it’s his curse now

[@karna8658]

Ya but it's never his fault. In glory he got cheated, here probably it's because of the woman.

[@nyuubee]

Frr😭😭

[@leegrace122790]

​@Dr BM its better for them to separate. Honestly both are in the wrong. And the dad just wanted to protect their child from her.

[@hibeautym]

@@leegrace122790 yes the safety of the child was the reason. I just didn't like how the above person said "it's the woman's fault". As if she was the villain and intentionally being sick.

[@skjuns]

Depression is hard, but seeing you loved ones losing themselves and you can just watch because they refuse to help themselves is hard too. Imagine you partner tell you they don't want to live anymore and you try to help them comfort them but they're too lost in their feelings. It makes you feel helpless and useless. It's awful and sometimes you need to choose yourself.

[@gotchufam2964]

For me, I personally look at it like “if I feel awful and useless what more the person I love?” It’s not fair that the husband took out that pain in her who’s already going through more than he can comprehend. The worst part is the fact he did it in front of their kids but guilted her for not doing anything about her depression when he knows nothing abt it. Why isn’t HE doing anything about it? Why is he giving her such harsh treatment instead of being gentle and treating her with kindness? That’s not a loved one. Because if you truly love someone you wouldn’t treat them that way at their worst just because you don’t feel like you can do anything about it.

[@Rajupadhyay117]

Can you Tell me the k-drama name please

[@Lidyyboo]

​@@Rajupadhyay117 our blues

[@mythilyyuvaraj5003]

Loved ones might be having hard time but never harder. And I'm telling this from a loved one pov not a person with depression. If I'm stable enough to handle my emotions and keep my head up the water, even if i don't help (which one totally should) i shouldn't at least not make it worse. It's like telling a person with a broken leg, you used to swim why don't you just get yourself together and do it now! And he has work and rest hours, when does she get that. If earning alone made a person father and a husband, anyone can be that. I understand the pain you must be going through seeing your loved one going through that! But what HE did ! Simply showed he's self centred, i mean she's not a baby making machine who has to pull herself together to take care of the baby right? I hope I'm not offending you, I'm just stating what i felt seeing him do that!

[@MikaComments]

It sounds like a severe depression. ONE WAY to HELP the person is to ACKNOWLEDGE every TINNY THINGS that are REMOTELY RESEMBLING something POSITIVE. For instance, you say: I know you like coffee with milk. Doesn't the milk make the coffee TASTE BETTER, don't you think? Telling them what to do doesn't work. And also keep an eye on them even from far away because they could harm themselves

[@westcoastwilding]

This series takes on a variety of mental health issues. It was so real - the happiness and pain. Beautiful series.

[@brunabooantunes]

This scene is simple but SO deep and strong! I cried a lot with this when watched the drama. 😢

[@TheANGELTUAZON]

I think both of their feelings are valid.. maybe the husband is fed up with her not doing any action to help herself..while the woman, is also valid because having depression is really hard to even wake up…

[@v.a2282]

Yea and they have a kid together so it's harder

[@kazirokaya5856]

And also hard to fall asleep! 😖

[@carys7793]

I agree, but I lean more toward the husband’s side. I have OCD and Persistent Depressive Disorder. I am recovered from an eating disorder. Mental illnesses are 100% treatable but it’s on you to get help. The husband is upset cause she’s not getting help. Mental illness isn’t an excuse to wallow in self-pity and refuse to get help. That’s your own fault. There is help out there, but if she refused to seek it, then she’s complicit with her mental health issues and that’s annoying. So, while having depression isn’t her fault, remaining ill is her choice & it’s unfair to herself and causes issues for her family (like not picking the kid up from school). BTW - this is a situation were she refuses to get help, not a situation where she can’t. Different things. Not being able to access care is a totally different story, but she can, so that discussion is irrelevant here.

[@Zvwry]

@@carys7793 it’s literally a chemical brain imbalance. It’s like you’re fighting ur own brain. It makes sense she wouldn’t get help. The illness stops you from thinking u deserve to get better that’s literally the point.

[@jinko3583]

@@carys7793 depression literally pushes people to k/ll themselves, even with therapy, and you still think that it’s somehow their fault that they can’t get better? mental illness is not an excuse for any harmful actions that someone does to other people, but it’s stupid to think that ppl with depression can easily will themselves to seek help and get better when most can’t even get up in the morning. it’s literally a chemical imbalance, and the mind is a powerful thing. that’s why they need actual support, not someone nagging bc they can’t be bothered to have empathy for someone. you can’t let depressed ppl waste their lives away but there’s better ways to encourage them than be condescending and harsh.

[@Avokajo]

I am diagnosed with MDD and anxiety disorder. I lost almost 20kgs less than 3 months. I thought I was eating but turned out everyone around me said I didn’t. I didn’t sleep and all I remember was just the endless crying. I don’t remember the version of me before I had depression. So this scene makes sense.

[@abidafarooq97]

May God help u dear❤

[@andreawitzemann2877]

What’s MDD ?

[@Thi-Nguyen]

@@andreawitzemann2877(M)ajor (D)epressive (D)isorder. A lot of people don’t know the mental health acronym for many conditions. 🙂 A lot of times people just refer to it as “depression” but it’s actually a lot more than that which is why the name sounds more severe.

[@dev7713]

@@andreawitzemann2877 it's major depressive disorder, which is basically the same as depression but worse i have it too and it's hard and a very frustrating process especially trying to get your medications correct and balanced.

[@cputriyesmaya]

Same with me , i have that and BPD and Bipolar , and gain 23kgs 😢 I dunno why , I dont eat a lot , do chores , and do anything that I could to do but everytime all of that goes right I feel guilty and start crying for hours 😢😢😢 I feel you 😢

[@seoulfuldiaries]

Our Blues did such a wonderful job portraying depression

[@qorryaina5544]

This kdrama is so good, they captured the life struggle almost on point. Depression is depressing. The person knows they need to get better, to be functioning. But it is just so hard, like a battle inside

[@sheelavinod3377]

Drama name?

[@qorryaina5544]

@@sheelavinod3377 our blues

[@chrononaut]

our blues@@sheelavinod3377

[@merlinssassybeard]

Curable doesn't mean... SNAP! Done! I'm not depressed anymore! All smiles now! NO! Its a slow gradual process of learning self love, priorities, self care and more... Just like everyone says... " Trust the process", this is also applicable here. Processing is slow but worth every damn time❤

[@WomenRQueensNMyFaceIsTheThrome]

This makes me wanna watch this even more bc that's so true

[@amnabutt8887]

Exactly u can’t just snap out of it

[@angelicsailor1st]

I know some people that got better at managing their depression within a year and then their is me going on 3 years with it diagnosed and still heavily struggling there is unfortunately no magical cure all I really feel for anyone going through it

[@urlittlefirefly9058]

I think the frustrating thing for him is that she thinks she can do it without medicin when she clearly can't.

[@kil9730]

you must be an idiot if you think the dad is wrong they have a son to take care of and its both of theirs responsibility to do it

[@shl24yw89]

She didn't realize her shower was hours long. Depression just made time speed up for no reason. It was morning and the next thing you know it's already night. Sometimes a week passed by and you didn't know.

[@user-up7ho4gr2b]

I can relate to this sadly.

[@Butterfly_towards_jannah]

That's why when I had depression episode, i wrote jurnal everyday. I list what did I eat, my expense, my sleep hours, what i did everything each day. Also I made list of what I should do per day, So I don't lose spiralling in my thought.

[@BJKage]

Depression is like a black hole sucking you in. You can feel darkness and emptiness growing inside you and he is just making it wors. I am missing about a year of my life and I totally understand how she feel, because no matter how much time goes by, I will never forget how it felt to be at the bottom.

[@sheenaperez0972]

thats how people having hard time coping with depression. when fighting alone with self while seeing time flies like it was nothing and people around us who keep on nagging , complaining like they understand how its feels but no they don't they just trying to put some act like they know everything and thinking that they are much braver unless they would be the one on that spot whose trying to know what's the purpose of life.

[@fantasyland3646]

So true,very relatable

[@luufa9819]

Soo true🙂

[@terasbesisy3320]

😢 so true

[@faithalonday508]

right. And sometimes they give some toxic positivity and gaslighting more the situation. Sucks

[@notdebosmita]

FR!!

[@K_m_desu]

What a realistic way to portray depression, this is exactly what it felt to me, no matter how much I did or didn't do, time just went by, you're just frozen with your thoughts, that's why you can't move on, you're stuck, there's nothing forward to look at. And it was never enough. Now, a day can often feel like so long haha, I wish everyone who can relate to this can heal ❤

[@natanymayaradovaleesilva2381]

🙏🏼💜

[@AccessibleNeats]

❤❤❤❤

[@taegixsylay2397]

I love that whenever he has a parental character he always puts the kids first. Even if it destroys the relationship his kids is what matters. (Also the way he interacts with the kids are so wholesome 😭)

[@army_blink4305]

Drama name our blues

[@rooo8099]

During the drama I hated him at first but I later understood him. He put his child first and that was okay. He didn't cheat and he didn't say those things to be mean he was just frustrated. The only thing there was was that he knew her condition but overestimated his tolerance or underestimated depression. In any case they were both right in their own ways with mistakes here and there

[@AdibaAfrin-xb3cd]

Name of the drama?

[@jile_art]

@@AdibaAfrin-xb3cd I think it’s “Our Blues”

[@rooo8099]

@@AdibaAfrin-xb3cd our blues

[@fariha9083]

Can you give me some spoiler? Is it good? Does it have sad or happy ending?

[@rooo8099]

@@fariha9083 it's a slice of life - the ending is good but the drama is emotional. It's also slow and has many characters so depends on your taste. It was one of favorite dramas of that year, watched it as it was airing and i still clearly remember all the stories and events such a good drama overall

[@bibiworm]

If I remember correctly, she refused treatment for many years and it finally took a toll on their marriage. I don’t blame her husband for leaving her. It is hard on both of them.

[@sia1717]

No she didn’t she was taking anti depressants through out the show

[@lilycha9398]

Yup. The difficulty increases tenfold when you have a kid. It's hard enough with two functional, healthy parents.

[@mayuriherwade13]

what's the name of this drama

[@ninanim]

​@@mayuriherwade13 Our Blues

[@mamatapandey6073]

he still married her well knowing her condition

[@aparnaps2580]

How beautifully they showed it impactful

[@norulfaraliza8092]

once again she nailed the character perfectly...she is one of my all time favourite Actress.

[@shahadmerani3116]

i remember seeing this clip about a year ago, gave me goosebumps. we need more of this in the film industry

[@NamelessOne-]

People who don’t have depression will never understand how hard it is to be in it and how hard it is to get out. Specially when you have people who only make you feel worse about it and don’t know how to properly be supportive and helpful cuz they can’t put themselves in your shoes. Too many people think it’s a switch you can turn on and off.

[@juliannagrace6714]

My sister has depression. And I don't know how to help her or support her. Any advice? I have been depressed before, but not as severe as her. And I got out of it. Some days I'm really afraid she will end it all.

[@immsmyg4035]

🥲

[@clairedelune6482]

Also people who are depressed have no clue how the others around them suffer because of that.

[@StoryGirl17]

​@@juliannagrace6714Just try to be there for her. Say how much you love her, spend time with her, hugg her, exaggerate the love if you have to. Just don't give up on her. If you believe in God pray for her. Hope she gets better. God bless you both.

[@Its_okay_not_to_be_okay.]

​@@juliannagrace6714 consult a psychologist...!!! As you already survived from depression you know how much suffering is... As someone studying psychology I suggest you to seek a psychologist before it's too late...!!! Anyway wish your sister will recover soon🥰🤍

[@EmmuelleBerger2011]

I'm about to cry. I've been there. And it's heartbreaking to see. It's like you know something's wrong but you don't know how to get over it and be there not only for yourself and the people that you care about but also the people that care about you. And want to help you. My prayer's for anyone going through any mental issues. Cause it's not easy. Especially if you don't have a support system.

[@viarose1683]

People that don't suffer from it never fully understand. I'm crying at this from it started. Thank God for those who overcome it and those who have people that stick beside them through it.

[@Miss_Jinx]

I had severe depression along with some other mental disorders a few years ago (I mean I still do, but no where near as bad) and honestly I barely remember those years. The days all blurred together and I can’t even tell you what year I did what because of it. I love how accurately this drama portrays depression. Even the part shown here that shows her looking kind of pleased with herself that she showered, just to realize that it took her all day. People don’t realize that’s what it’s actually like.

[@diamondastar8734]

I feel all the words you’ve said… have been through the same. I wish you the best ❤

[@geosalatast5715]

i had severe depression for far too long (for 3 years now) and i know exactly what you mean.. exactly.. what did you do to make it better??

[@SWEETPEA.522]

Yes this is so true. How many times this has happened to me... It feels like you're stuck in the middle of a tornado spinning around in your own world as you whip around the reality of the real world and you can't seem to get out of that tornado. You feel so disconnected you are numb in the blur of each day like you're on another planet

[@Miss_Jinx]

@@diamondastar8734 I wish you the best too! 💕

[@Miss_Jinx]

@@geosalatast5715 honestly I just started doing things I like doing and changed meds until I found ones that helped. I try to keep busy with things like playing games, reading, drawing, watching tv shows (mostly kdramas lol). I still have bad days though. I also have some pets and they honestly make me so much happier. Whenever I feel really bad or have a panic attack, distracting myself or sitting with my pets makes me feel better. My meds make me feel kinda numb to things but it’s much much better than being so depressed I can’t leave my room. I hope you find what works for you 💕

[@vivekagupta]

I have never seen a better portrayal of depression. You literally don't know where time goes. One minute you're gathering up the energy to brush your teeth, the next minute it's bed time.

[@mohitsaidit875]

This was one of the finest kdramas, I have ever watched.. Brilliant acting and great story(s)...

[@kateversnick]

I felt this, how fast time passes and the lack of motivation you just cannot control it

[@diannadin2288]

Just in case you missed it on the captions, the tittle of this kdrama series is "Our Blues" 💙

[@strawbariri]

Where can I watch it?

[@ilikeicewater]

@@strawbaririnetflix

[@lianamariffin1110]

thnk u...

[@elladianh1191]

The fact is that your responsibilities and obligations don't go away when you are depressed, what everyday things you need to do still remain there, you no longer care and have the energy to do them anymore, In a family it affects the other members as well esp the kids to see their loved one crying, tired, exhausted and depressed

[@julesoxana]

My heart goes out to her, and everyone who can relate. You're all so much stronger than you know❤

[@Mia-xv4zr]

The acting in this is so good as someone whos had depression from 10 years old i relate to some of this so much and realise how this could effect my family this much aswell

[@Michael-Afton_supremarcy.]

I can’t even imagine how much pain this husband must be going through knowing how depressed his wife is but he’s still trying to care for his child too, and yeah he was harsh against her but sometimes a painful push is needed.

[@ravengrau3671]

It will make it ten times worth trust me Ik cuz I been through that and still am of every time of every day. " Painful push "like u said it only makes it worth harsh words hurt more when it comes from the ones that we love it make us like are not wanted or needed. it saying in our minds that we are a burden to ourselves and family that we not loved . No harsh words or painful push like u said is a no no for me. What my family do take me out distracted myself and sit down with me and make me open up but they don't u harch words or do a painful push to me they tried that and it made me worse that why doctor say we have be treated with love and care and make worse with hurting words.

[@achankiir1263]

That’s not at all what drs would recommend. If you’re not willing to be empathetic don’t say anything at all

[@yvonnetaylor5834]

A painful push is the opposite of what she needs. A push, yes, but not painful. Just getting her to have a bath is a huge step when in a dark place.

[@kurooswifey9474]

@@ravengrau3671 u dont know the full story, she refused any help incl both therapy and medication and neglected the child. he's a person too and the reaction made sense as much as i feel so bad for the woman. she only started trying once she lost custody of her child.

[@Tarlyne]

​@@serikim6700"you clearly don't know how hard it is" just makes you look entitled. You right isn't everyone's else right

[@blueyedreverie9908]

My bestie since we were in 2nd grade have depression. I didn't even know because we live in different cities after college. It took her months before she confess of the things shes going through. I cant believe that all those things happened to her and she kept it to herself because she only has her grandma as a relative and she didn't want to worry her. It reach a point where she wanted it all to just end and realizing her thought process she run to me cause she's worried that she would eventually succumb to it. So what I did was told her of all the crap happening to me too. So that she would not feel isolated and even if hers was worst than mine I'm glad that she could open up to me because she knew I could somewhat relate. We even joke that other people go to therapist but we end up talking and laughing about our traumas. She promised me that she would talk to me everytime she feels down. At first she was hesitant cause she didn't want to burden me with her problems and negativity but I told her we could make it an exchange. You be my diary and I'll be yours kind of thing. We send each other chats everyday now talking about random things and worries as well as happy and joyous topics. What I want to say having someone there to listen to you goes a long way so be kind to everybody. You dont know their life story or what they're going through.

[@liljade7978]

Wow❤

[@claudiawoods4382]

❤❤❤

[@shreyakanojiya4744]

I'm soo glad you're this. More love and power to both of you ❤

[@palwashakhan8158]

I am just realizing that I’ve actually been doing this with my best friend a lot and had never realized that it could have been helping her as she is struggling mentally and emotionally. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope you and your bestie are doing so much better now. 😊

[@kazumisuzuki7771]

I did it before with my best friend- unfortunately along the way she did succumb to it which eventually led to her death. Until now, I am coping with her loss, but I let myself be reminded that somewhere she is already at peace and no longer suffering.

[@sunitakumari-ml4hc]

The real nasty thing about depression is u don't know until its already taken a lot from u😣🥺 it's hard coming back.. Nothing seems normal💔 anymore

[@neptunians]

I didn’t know our Ahjussi here was so mean 😭

[@shldevi]

He is not mean.. he tried hard and he is fighting for his family.. their kid is very young who needs mom's attention more than anything.. but she is lost.. can't blame either of them

[@sunitasuman2161]

​@@shldevi you actually make so much sense, we can't really blame the husband

[@wasteoftimecomplete4366]

Asking a person who needs treatment to get treatment is mean... 😅 get out of your k drama world and come to real world...

[@keneingunuokikhi1034]

He can't be mean ryt😅

[@Kdrama430]

He is not mean actually he tried his best for her but his wife’s didn’t had any intentions for doing well

[@wasabibeefchips]

i see both sides of this. it’s especially concerning when they have a kid and she doesn’t wanna get help. (editing this bc ppl in the replies have poor comprehension skills apparently but my comment was to never dismiss the wife’s depression. the point of my comment was i understand the husband is hurting as well and i can see his POV and it’s especially concerning when it’s affecting your child)

[@Casesbbldrizzy]

It is not that simple. Clearly you’ve never been depressed.

[@wasabibeefchips]

@@Casesbbldrizzy oh please i’m 16 and have been diagnosed with depression at NINE years old. even then it was hard for me to accept help but i knew it was the only thing that would make me better especially cause i was always out of it like her. so don’t be making assumptions about me (and also i never said it was that simple nor did i state in my comment that she should just accept help so maybe fix your reading comprehension.)

[@tahildacanterburg]

@@Casesbbldrizzy I think the point of this comment is that it can be hard living/being in a serious relationship with a seriously depressed person. I can assume the husband is not a great person (just by generalising kdrama plots and stuff) but both sides are allowed to feel hurt irl and just because the depressed person is hurting doesnt mean we should discredit the partner, especially when they're raising children

[@Laney.R00]

@@Casesbbldrizzy have clinical depression. Yes, it’s still on us to get the help we need. Especially if we have a spouse or partner or child. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary. People like you think those of us that suffer from mental Illnesses should be absolved of every shred of responsibility

[@thatanswergirl-lucy8033]

Its not that she doesnt want help. Its the fact nothing works. Meds just mess up with your head even more so its better to not take them and counseling doesnt help because doctors are people who neevr had mental illness eveb in their life so they cannot relate and give useless advice. Talking from an experience.

[@sujatahere9612]

This drama was awesome ❤️every episode was amazing how they narrated the story about every problem they do light the part on mental health and getting help.

[@angelbaby23]

I can totally understand and i am also crying when i sees the scenes. I hope the depressed people find their peace and love .

[@kohimaroy6543]

I don't know the context but sometimes it's hard to cope up with a partner with depression.. It makes you depressive too.. And it's natural to loose control sometimes

[@Valerianroots]

Sure, but its not natural to yell at someone so much that they spiral into a depressive episode so bad that they dissociate. Clearly this isnt the first time

[@heredianna2496]

​​@@Valerianroots They chose to have a kid, she chose to have a kid. So for their kid safety he has every right to be allarmed. If you're married with kids, yourself and the kid should always come first. And I said yourself because you first need to be healthy and sane to take care of a kid. Clearly that's not her first time. Is he supposed to stay calm when their kid is the one suffering the mist. Is he supposed to act like it's not a big deal when it is... It would not help her. She needs to go seek help and if realizing how much her kid is hurting help then so be it. He is upset for a good reasons here. He is not the reason she has depression it had been going on for a long time.

[@jenny-doe]

@@heredianna2496 of course he has the right to be alarmed and even upset to an extent, but there’s no reason for him to be so insensitive about it. People with depression have literally taken their own lives. Her kid is also suffering by seeing his dad yelling at his mom like that. (I haven’t watched this drama so I can’t say much about the characters, but I’m putting it into real-world perspective)

[@emilylee9894]

especially if your child is at risk.

[@heredianna2496]

@@jenny-doe Exactly you have not even watched the drama.

[@kthopee]

Drama name: our blues Song name: happier than ever by billie eilish Thank me later 😊

[@Balbhadrasinh03]

Thank you so much...Im searching for song name for a while

[@nandekamwambazi7902]

Am already thanking you

[@eldynefelix]

Thanks ❤

[@kthopee]

@@nandekamwambazi7902 it is actually there is multiple stories in that drama

[@chibigirl8545]

Does it have a happy ending? I can get through just about anything if there's a happy ending. 😢

[@tauareki987]

One of my favorite drama in the fact that all this stories could happen to everyone. Not only her part, all characters seems so real in this drama.

[@virginiaatencio1171]

That is so true . Depression kills . Kills are time ,our family seems like nobody wants to see it . We look normal on the outside but inside there’s a whole different life we are living

[@neyaeliz]

NAME OF THE DRAMA- "OUR BLUES"💙 thank me later

[@rushnazainab7033]

I'll thank you now thanks

[@utka_ogarka]

Oh, thank you so much!

[@stacielynn7789]

Thank you

[@tudoslashes292]

thank you ❤

[@deepcorner_07]

Thanks

[@inezdebaue4077]

That’s the blunt face of true depression… literally losing track of space, time and oneself… it’s like drowning in a puddle… 😢

[@esppupsnkits4560]

Caregiver fatigue is real, which is why people need a community. Even if it’s just a handf of people, as a shared burden is lighter than one taken alone

[@kheyfine08]

that’s why i think it’s better when im alone. this problem wears people off and i don’t want to be the cause of it

[@Elizabeth-jd5te]

TO EVERYBODY WHO WONDERS HOW IS THIS K-DRAMA CALLED. It is called OUR BLUES.

[@CmB0922]

Thx so munch ❤

[@ameidle]

THANK YOU!! omgg

[@samanthapamphile6425]

You are so amazing thank you so much

[@thilanidesilva5500]

Thank you so much

[@JaniceSatterwhite-cz2yn]

Is it on Netflix?

[@ExtraShadow_yes]

Ask anyone who lives with a depressed person..and you will realise how they are driven to death with helplessness and frustration..it's easier to preach about taking care of the depressed patients..but the ones who live with them are also drowning..and no one understands that.

[@astonisherus]

This.

[@prachurjyaranidevi3628]

So true.

[@Jio_Jioo]

@Shakambhari Sinha no… maybe you’re sad but you don’t suffer as much as them

[@KermitB_1815]

​@@Jio_Jioo But it is still seen how depressed people can genuinely ruin those around them. Ofc not as bad, but still a lot worse than what could have been.

[@shinyagami8843]

You are presuming *they* understand the person suffering from depression… I can tell you for a fact that most people don’t. Their frustration stems from thinking that the person who suffers from depression can just flip a switch & be like he was but for some reason he doesn’t want to. And that makes them even angrier…

[@gunveendureja7753]

Depression scares the shit out of me. It takes away a human being’s most fundamental need: to survive.

[@BabyMcNuggets123]

Depression is more than a battle and everyone makes it sound so easy to get over it but it's really not and for all of you who are experiencing depression I wish you the best and it will get better, I know that for a fact because I've been struggling with depression for three years and it's not easy to deal with, It gets better I promise♥

[@kimmy_playzzuwu6014]

Healing is hard, but it's soo worth it in the end. You just need to be strong and understand the process of healing can take weeks, months or even years to do. I am proud of whoever is out there trying to heal from depression or any type of mental illness, it doesn't matter if it's taking too "long" or you just started today because as long as you keep trying and wanting to heal it will get better ❤ the process of healing has its ups and downs, it's not a straight line you can easily cross.

[@maryr1905]

Right. You have to give yourself a lot of grace in the healing process and take one baby step at a time.

[@ohnonotagain8935]

That hit hard... thanks for showing me that I'm not the only one who goes thru the missing time/lost days

[@pachi.venere]

Keep strong! 💪🏻💪🏻🙏💗

[@pujasharma8807]

You know what....you can do it... you can overcome this.....Fighting

[@astralkiss4089]

Besides this....i love the actor. Aishhh hes playing this type of character ahhh sobs

[@muah2005]

Incredible k drama and her acting was magnificent. Seeing depression through her acting was so eye opening and heartfelt. It was all simply an amazing experience.👍🐯👑🐻💜♥️💜♥️💜

[@btsxateez7910]

Depression is a silent battle - Wise man Edit: dang!!! 1k likes!!! TY guysssssss

[@sidassassin6670]

Take your meds - wise psychiatrist

[@Gaby-om5rd]

Not always

[@btsxateez7910]

@@Gaby-om5rd ikr

[@meeh7968]

it hurts 🥺🥺

[@nouran5940]

She does NOT refusing help . she can't take it , it's too heavy to carry your naked feelings .

[@marilynantonucci3843]

So in the feels with this! Some days it feels like the Waves just pulling you under, way under...You get ready & can't leave...

[@user-kz5rf3ms4l]

I’m sorry for all the people having actually depression I have slight anxiety ( yes , I have symptoms) and I get Panic attacks sometimes it’s ok not to be ok !! Talk to a friend or professional there is lot to look on in life ( im 13 and English is not my first language)

[@elisroom9506]

Its nice that Many people in the comments Show compassion for the women. But please also try to understand the guy. Its not easy to Handle people with depression in your daily life. And even if he choose to marry her he as every right to Also choose to leave her again. When the mental health of your loved once start to destroy your own you have every right to stand up for yourself and especially if you have a child involved. If she refuses to get help he can refuse to be involved in it to. Especially because its really hard to see the once you love suffer and fight against themslves. Please Show more understanding to him and dont say he is acting wrong in calling her out. He has the right to be angry and disappointed. Because you are sick does not mean you are not responsible for you own Actions anymore. Im a psychologist and often mental health and especially depression is as hard for the people around the Patient than it is for the Patient themslves

[@kuldoxy5637]

Well said!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 People don't understand that.

[@vincemortem7126]

Exactly. Different Humans have different limits. Even if you try your best, you can only do so much and that can be very frustrating.

[@clairehan0725]

What if we do understand?... i told my bf after i physically and mentally got exhausting from labor abuse at work for many years.. i left the career of dreams as a hairdresser because i absolutely love othe ppls faces lightening up due to my hard work, appreciation means everything to me because thata the only place i get it. For all my words of affirmation and glady taking on hard tasks for him i am just never appreciated due to my looks or how loud i can be due to bad hearing from getting physically abused by my brother and my mother with an absent father. I told him im probably gonna go through this hard because i was just exploding in emotion and thoughts i never said, although they are true in hopes to not ruin other peoples day cuz no i shouldnt talk about everything that hurts my feelings. I told him to leave whenever and have a good time with ur friends or a casino anything its okay that i wont be hurt if u dont care enough to let me know that its okay that it wasnt my fault that i dont have be worried about getting another job or the money because i literally couldnt move or stop crying or stop panicing and couldn't sleep or eat for over a week. He told me to go kill myself on day 2 of crying. His excuse is alcohol intoxication and that he doesnt remember. Then he kicked me out the next day when i live there too. I paid rent and the down payment. Started Saturday late night and our relationship ended on the fourth day, four years just down the drain. If i am ur baby mama then maybe u want to wort it out and help me cope and get healthy if you ever loved me. Because youd never let anyone do that to your mother, the mental shock a child goes through coping with the fathers decision will definitely teach them how a family is supposed to react when you're the one eventually with a depression 🎉well raised kids hope u r proud of yourself for that one

[@elisroom9506]

@@clairehan0725 okay your boyfriend or hopefully exboyfriend is not like the one in the movie .... You should focus on yourself, go to Therapy and work on your Problems. You did nothing wrong amd did not dersve this treatment. Try to never look back to this relationship and seek something you deserve. And you only deserve the best

[@myraclesname]

Did she actually refuse to get help in series?

[@shenggarcia7461]

Depression is like a bottomless pit hole. The moment you fell in there, it’s like a lifetime run and jump trying to have a glimpse of light and taste of fresh air. Getting tired without doing anything, feeling afraid with no reason at all, oblivious to time and surroundings and all you have in you is the feeling of unlabeled emptiness and tiredness.