If You're STILL Feeling Lost...It's Never Too Late To Start!

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@depressiontoexpression 4 ай бұрын

Everything below may truly help you. Best of luck everyone! Questions to Answer (in the comments if you want): Question 1: Describe the FEELING of "Lost" Question 2: Where Are You Trying To Get To? Question 3: Where Do Your Expectations Come From (milestones)? Actions: Put a pin somewhere, and start walking APPLY TO SPEAK WITH SCOTT PRIVATELY: www.scottstemarie.com/coaching AFFORDABLE ONLINE THERAPY: www.betterhelp.com/depressiontoexpression JOIN MONTHLY ZOOM CALLS www.patreon.com/scottstemarie

@davidarriesgado 4 ай бұрын

You were one of the BEST that I have encountered in KZbin. Although I do feel a little bit lost again, I know this is where I can find myself more, a launchpad for those adventurers and seekers. Thank you scott, I will get there someday, as an aspiring filmmaker at yt ^^

@karolinaborsik2235 4 ай бұрын

❤

@Cookies-f7v 2 ай бұрын

I absolutely don’t know who I am anymore, what I want to achieve in life, and even what I truly love. I’m an immigrant, coming from a different country and culture, last year I moved to New York. I have an exceptional education, I speak four languages, I was a well-off person in my home country (Russia), I had a great career, social standing, well respected, integrated with the international community, cultured. Then the war started, we had to immigrate, as we were watching our old lives crumble, disappear. None of the achievements mattered anymore, none of the cultural ties and context were there anymore. Only grief for what I used to be, could have become, and a total feeling of loss of everything. Of meaning, opportunities, of truth, let alone our freedoms and rights. I left the country and moved to the US. And I have no idea what I’m going to do. It’s been 10 months and I get more and more frustrated. It feels like the opportunity is there, just make a goal and start working on it! How am I so blind not to see a goal? Everything here is about money and all I need is meaning. I want to stop feeling unwanted, unworthy, a noone only caring about the rent money. It feels like I don’t have a personality anymore, and I’m trying to fake one every day, and people can see right through me.

@Darianka7565 4 ай бұрын

Unfullfillment and frustration is what I feel 24/7 since Years ago

@Sun-ic7rq 4 ай бұрын

24/7.... cant take tje constant gaslighting about life and living...

@DesertBloomVines 2 ай бұрын

I know I feel lost because I have no idea why I’m alive now, here on earth. I don’t understand the point of this existence. I’m so happy for someone who passed because they’ve completed their journey. Scott, your channel really helps. THANK YOU!!!💛💛💛

@federicacapece808 4 ай бұрын

For me the feeling of “lost” is when you wake up the morning and nobody needs you . I never look at the arrive but it is important to just start doing, it is the hardest step just to begin a journey.

@federicacapece808 4 ай бұрын

My expectations come mostly from myself, most of the time..

@Sun-ic7rq 4 ай бұрын

For me the feeling of lost comes from waking up in the morning and knowing people need my help but I can help them...

@airwaveshorizon 4 ай бұрын

@@federicacapece808thats actually pretty good, thats happiness in itself to be having no one expecting anything from you and having freedom everyday without any burden of expectation. I think you could try telling yourself that it is normal and ok that nobody needs you, you dont need anybody to needs you to be happy.

@Iwtbaf 4 ай бұрын

That’s exactly how feel… I feel like no one needs me..

@Ts90911 4 ай бұрын

@federicacapece808 you need dogs and/or kitten ;)

@miseryyy62627 4 ай бұрын

For me, the feeling of "lost" is when you don't know what to do or where to go and you wonder, Is there really anything out there for me? I know very well that, of course, there is, but it's so draining that people always expect the same thing your peers achieve. Then they will ask, What happened to you? I really thought you had it in you. and now look at you. Where am I trying to get to? what I'm trying to get is a life I can be proud of, where I can prove to myself that I'm worth something. And, of course, I know very well that everyone is worth something. What makes us think that we're not is sometimes the people around us. F them. Now that I think about it, the pin that I am after is coming from them. The reason I want to prove myself I'm worth something is because I am not. And the gaze of them, the way they talk to me. I can sense a little of "what a failure."

@minoosanoori3633 29 күн бұрын

Watching your videos is the first thing I'm doing everyday.

@LurkingLinnet 4 ай бұрын

"A difficult life is not less worth living than a gentle one. Joy is simply easier to carry than sorrow. And your heart could lift a city from how long you've been holding what's been nearly impossible to hold. This world needs those who know how to do that. Those who could find a tunnel that has no light at the end of it, and hold it up like a telescope to know the darkness also contains truths that could bring the light to its knees. Grief astronomer! Adjust the lens, look close Tell us what do you see..."

@VanessaSimon26 4 ай бұрын

Truth!

@followyourdreams8673 4 ай бұрын

Numb, totally numb. No hope, no happiness, no life, extremely lonely to the point of crying into my pillow each night knowing no one is there. 😢

@elizabethsummermeado 4 ай бұрын

Jesus is always with you!!

@ThomasP525 4 ай бұрын

Me to Me: PICK SOMETHINGGG!!!! Why am I so indecisive lately. I do my head in.

@LurkingLinnet 4 ай бұрын

My goodness Scott! You're such an amazing interesting person, i can't wait to meet you in person one day when i get out of my abusive household. I'm 17 now, i dont got no momey or permission to earn so i cant attend your workshops but its such a delight to see u here. Its one of my motivators to leave my family dynamic, my trauma and venture out in the world find my place...! ❤ Bless You

@aliconteh7497 4 ай бұрын

Man oh man. After listening to this, it makes me realize that I am still in the process. Being lost is a journey that you want to take one day at a time to bring better and knowing who you are.

@Ts90911 4 ай бұрын

Dear Scott, you are a bless. Thank you.

@Rajatkumawat 4 ай бұрын

I have been always late in life, in career every time when i failed I wished i was doing something else. I wanted to be a photographer or musician but I never practiced enough. Meanwhile I was afraid to talk to my parents and take a bold decision. For 8 years i did study and i was never a studious nerd. 2 years back I became a certified accountant and been working with top companies post that. Its been a long time and everytime everyday when i start my day, I am always anxious and stressed. I do not want to do this work for rest of my life. Everyday I dream of making videos and doing something else since I feel this is not something I am born for. I still motivate myself to do whatever i want to do but it feels is it too late? Because if i invest time and money into something now at this age, and if it doesn’t work out then its gonna be a hell lot of problem because now I am going to get married soon. I feel incomplete, unhappy and not myself each day which is the saddest part and this i cannot share with most of the people i am surrounded by.

@Sun-ic7rq 4 ай бұрын

You have lots of time...

@Rajatkumawat 4 ай бұрын

@@Sun-ic7rq yes i agree that we can start at any point of time but now there's time and cost attached which is coz now i wont be living life alone

@emranao 4 ай бұрын

I feel you.

@fatmafarag683 4 ай бұрын

This is INSPIRING! Thank you for sharing

@mem2665 3 ай бұрын

I’m listening from Iraq 🇮🇶 ❤

@migimodo 4 ай бұрын

Honestly thank you for this video. It helped me a lot and took most of the pressure I had, off my shoulders (for now at least). I'll probably come back to this video when I need to hear your message again. Have a great day everyone :D

@MarthaLuciaDiazAcosta 4 ай бұрын

I am trying to get to a two day vacation at least...hehe so exhausted by work and responsibilities! Blessings :) to all.

@pastacoffeeandbooks 4 ай бұрын

when you wake up in the morning, u instantly regret and get anxious about how you'll get through the day again, unworthy, a little lonely, alot stupid, fear

@minoosanoori3633 29 күн бұрын

Dear Scott, we have a poem in farsi that exactly means this. "Be raahe baadie raftan, beh az neshastane baatel" it means that it's better to faced the hardship of the way even in the desert but to sit.

@dorean2342 4 ай бұрын

Brother , your videos are so encouraging in the fact that they’re so recently uploaded , it’s Devine timing . Thank you for your content

@almostzentv 4 ай бұрын

Love me some Scott!

@janielalande 4 ай бұрын

So inspiring Scott ❤ my goal is to create a workshop for women who went through the same experience as me in order to help them regain their power and at the same time do my best to stop the stigma.

@FitnessandHealthisWealth 4 ай бұрын

I can empathize with everyone in the comments. I’m going through sooo much as well, getting hit with one thing after another idk why i feel called to share what’s going on in my life but I will. I started this specific channel that i’m replying on to just remind myself it’s okay, and tips for me to help me grow. I hope it resonates with some of you. There has to be an out.

@tamerastone4732 4 ай бұрын

Thank u, for the sweet message!! It helped!!

@DAClub-uf3br 21 күн бұрын

I am trying to get to a starting point. To want something. To want to live life. I have so little desire that I must make myself eat even when i am hungry.

@sophiapde9369 4 ай бұрын

Hi Scott, to find love ,that my journey now.

@HeatherVaught-lp3zl 4 ай бұрын

Lost: I feel like I have no were to look, which way to turn. What do to. Feeling lonely, unwanted, and unimportant. Almost forgotten. I feel bored and out of energy. The passion to do absolutely nothing, like I’m stuck in a void with the strong pull of gravity keeping me from getting out. I fear of time passing too fast. I fear the future and how slowly things are moving when it comes to my relationship (military relationship) long distance. It’s so hard being a single mother feeling this way just wanting to jump into the future but yet I cherish every second of time. It is so precious to me. I don’t want to get older but I have to. I want to just go be a family with my boyfriend in the military but I have split custody so I can’t leave state. I can’t leave my daughter cause I’d be a horrible mother. I just want to finally have a happy family together, married, and a growing family. But the 4 years I must wait until I get those things feels like a lifetime BECAUSE I cherish my time so much. I don’t want my life to fly but yet I want my future to be here already. I for my happiness begins in the future. Awaiting my final destination.

@tamerastone4732 4 ай бұрын

Over 3 yrs ago I was the victim of domestic violence, trauma. Had to move, go dark, lost everything. I am disabled, no car, ect. There's no way for me to meet new people. I have nice neighbors, but they r my sons age. I just turned 61. Time is running out for me. I'm totally lost!!!

@Amber24426 4 ай бұрын

I feel for you, but I want to gently push back on the idea that there’s no way for you to meet new people, because that’s a belief that isn’t entirely true and is only going to stop you from pursuing potential opportunities that could in turn, improve your life. You left a KZbin comment which means you have an internet connection and the opportunity to at least connect with people online. There are so many directions you could go with that if you’re looking to make friends or find a community that might be able to support you as you continue to work through what you’re facing. Again, I don’t mean any of this as an attack on you- I tell myself a lot of the same things much of the time. However, I think it is important that we learn to recognize when our mind is lying to us and feeding us a narrative that isn’t entirely true and harms our chances at cultivating joy and fulfillment in the future.

@tamerastone4732 2 ай бұрын

@@Amber24426 a little late, I responding to u. Thank u, for ur comments. It was encourageing!!!

@Anna_music_world 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing ❤

@juliechicoine5531 3 ай бұрын

That is the problem, since my life was abruptly chambled by my ex that when into a psychosis, I find myself starting over at the age of 55 and I don't know how to get my old self back. The one that was full of life, of dreams and had inner peace. I feel it all left me at once. Don't have any motivation, even with things I really liked to do before this abrupt ending. It has been 1 1/2 year and I still waake up, some days and the tears are just coming out. I was so much better before this relationship. Don't know how to get back this inner peace and joyfull spirit that I was...

@AG-xt6ei 2 ай бұрын

Loneliness & boredom are my main feelings

@LurkingLinnet 4 ай бұрын

17:25 Relief at its peak!

@amanda-clairebennett6132 4 ай бұрын

NORE...NEVER...GOOD LUCK 'MATE'

@itsdavidarries 4 ай бұрын

Kinda just feel lonely, I really enjoy the company of others, as seasons transition to me. I dont know whats next for me... In this adventure

@juliechicoine5531 3 ай бұрын

I am a French Canadian woman from Quebec, so sorry if my english is not perfect ;) Just wanted to say that I like your approach speak soooo much to me. Thank you... fells more ok about feelinf lost. Is there a place ( link) that I can go and share with your community?

@Gaurav-oc8od 4 ай бұрын

there used to be some videos with song reactions or something like that i saw those a long time ago, is there another channel?

@TatiAlcala 3 ай бұрын

Si me siento perdida por que todo estaba apuntado y aun no se da el siguirnte paso, me deprimi y todo se retraso unos meses y me gustaria componerlo ...pero siento que si puedo

@pcktbrst69 4 ай бұрын

I truly feel like it’s over for me. It’s been 15 years or non stop disappointment. I deal with a lot of health issues, have had dreams slip by, family issues… I’m about to be 30 and all my hard work to overcome what life has thrown at me hasn’t been enough. I’m lost and lonely. I don’t have it in me to keep trying. I have no evidence of things turning out great. I’m still “doing the things” but not sure how I’m going to make it out. It’s been half my life 🙃

@Holbrook0107 4 ай бұрын

anyone here who has annoying neighbours and they cant leave you alone after 3 years and talking and knowing everything ?? any info or help ? 🙏🙏😪😪 im tired to listening them cant ignore some things, what to do ? Scott any help would be great ? they cant stop, and spreading some lies and they even dont know the behind story 🤢🤢😪😪 anyone with the same problems ?? thanks 🙏😪

@Kmy-karlin 4 ай бұрын

Hello, i have similar experiences. First how they annoy you which parts and what kind of topics? And could you just answer and talk sincerely about the thoughts you have and how you feel and at the same time it could make them feel sad but being honest and sincerely listening is also important to them i think. Only mutual love and mutual interests and mutual care can make things going to good direction. ❤.