Derez Deshon on His Mom Leaving Him at 9, Didn't Trust Women After That (Part 2)

[@lovelypeace1]

People hear these stories and still don’t understand the importance of both parents. Honest young man.

[@reddsmoke904]

Lovely Peace right

[@appiahallan]

Experience is the best teacher

[@dumuzidthemighty9377]

Lovely Peace this wasn't about both parents it's about the female who abandoned him, you seem to have a problem holding females accountable

[@MrBp954]

Lovely Peace you right now let's start a family together

[@jaybencali]

Lovely Peace facts! Im 35 and have had both parents my whole life and my mom has been married 35 years! I tell her all the time i don't know a woman around me that will be married as long as you times have definitely changed sister!

[@Money-dn6uq]

I feel where he coming from things that impact you in childhood make you who you are

[@francisformlyknownasc.i.a2128]

I totally understand this perspective growing up with my Dad. Not trusting females. Being left by your mom at a young age is tough.

[@rightnearthebeach]

I feel you. I go thru this still at 30 years old. This guy above me is clearly hurt about it and won't face his demons.

[@KirkKusins]

Stanley Atkinson facts. You can hear his hurt in the text

[@kitanaamaat5935]

Francis Ak nut y'all call women emotional boo fucking hoo my father walked out on us and never came back all tf well it's no excuse for me to disrespect men or treat them like shit or say " I cAn't TrUsT YoU " when u barely will take the time to get to know that person but will quickly ask for pussy from some " YoU CaNT TrUSt ".

[@rightnearthebeach]

Kash Maat have an awesome day and try your best to release that pain. Namaste.

[@francisformlyknownasc.i.a2128]

Kash Maat you sound hurt all I said is that I understand his pain I had to learn to cover come it. It was never easy cause it was hard to relate. There's always a community of people that never had their father or there father was barely in their life. So at least there was a bond of understanding. Most of us that had to deal with their mothers absent and alive didn't have a community of people to relate to. We usually kept to ourselves well at least I did. It was embarrassing to talk about at the time especially being young and I didn't want to disrespect my mom at the same time cause everyone else enjoyed theirs didn't want to be the odd one out I kept to myself until about the last year two years. It was rare to find someone in the same position.

[@houndgangent.mac_lar8840]

Yea vlad We have dad's.

[@reddsmoke904]

Darnell Penix i read this at the right time 😂😂😂

Kylee Lee iStock statistics aren't stereotypes tho. Too many black kids are born into broken homes

[@GRIMM2197]

Darnell Penix something about this comment 😂😂

[@christlife4768]

Darnell Penix 😂💯 i swear vlad was shocked

[@lal.6984]

Darnell Penix no Vlad we really dont lol

[@TheDiddlerrr]

But they say black men aren’t in their kids lives...

[@crystalstaire3967]

I Kill People most aren't stop frontin.

[@june7gemini]

There are many fatherless children !!!...

[@quanbrooklynkid7776]

I Kill People damn

[@Slim545]

I Kill People this is very rare

[@greatnessforever6207]

Black men are not deadbeats and are most likely to stay in their kids life even after not being with the mother.#Facts.Stop believing the hype of what bitter women and the media tell you.

[@buddhal6627]

Shout out to all the dads that actually stayed!!

[@bisolo8]

Bruh hasn't had time to process his wounds, but clearly, he's smart enough to work thru the abandonment issues. Very deep interview.

[@dryiceVEVO]

*Respect* to his *pops* 💯

[@soexxxtra918]

His story is sad I believe we will most def be hearing him a lot more in the future 🙏🏾

[@SethTraplifeGLO999]

So Exxxtra you know he’s been out for a long time? He was with slim dunkin and bsm back in the day under the name “D-Bo”

[@soexxxtra918]

Seth #traplife#ytlg I ain’t gone flex I wasn’t no fan of slim Dunkin so I ain’t never listen to bro music I ain’t know he was out that long

[@iwasborninhisimage5002]

Big up the Father's who teaches boys to be MEN#WISHICOULDBEHALFTHEMANHEWAS

[@keithtootall]

Bro Really Came A Long Way 🙏💯💪

[@only1dawnadolph]

I don't know why they think we don't have our fathers in our lives. I was blessed to be raised in a 2 parent home w both my parents. RIP to my mom but she and my dad had 50 beautiful years together. I can't stand the stereotypes

[@daplug3961]

MissDAdolph u hate the stereotypes because they don't correlate to yo privileged ass

[@NewYork-eb4tq]

eveyone is streotyped

[@jewelwilkins9559]

Y’all be calling vlad the police y’all need to be calling him a therapist lol

[@eltonwilson5263]

foh

[@maclongwood4059]

😎

[@relljones5608]

Jewel Wilkins facts

[@mgates7628]

he both.

[@quanbrooklynkid7776]

Jewel Wilkins 😭😂😂

[@kreamthirdteen6734]

His momma didn’t want him so she gave home to his dad so she can wild out and act like she ain’t have no kid not hard to figure out

[@reddsmoke904]

kream thirdteen very fucked up but thats basically what it was

[@Miltonman100]

YG Mon 😂😂😂

[@cjlaw228]

Miltonman100 stfu

[@coldcut4751]

Miltonman100 Chill lil nigga

[@drizzyloot365]

And Then when she became Fat and Ugly, she became ready to settle down and live off her childs success

[@---ej1zb]

You’d be surprised at the amount of Black men who had similar situations growing up. Which explains why a lot of them don’t want black women when their older due to the childhood scarring.

[@SVGIN]

black woman just ain't shit really man they just get u killed , locked up , or end up broke that's y they are so easy to get because no one wants them they are always single .

[@---ej1zb]

Game Asylum Amen, just avoid them at all costs. The modern day black women is not worth it anymore.

[@---ej1zb]

Kylee Lee He’s speaking the truth, y’all are no good you see how many comments of black men saying there moms left them to be thots for thugs?

[@weworldwide1348]

therapy is always an option

[@sakreligous1946]

Game Asylum Not all black women, just like how not all black arent shit.

[@msfox2176]

Experienced this first hand with an ex, his mom basically left him and his brother with his dad..let's say I could say it really affects a man's relationship with women.

[@MrWilbur63]

Yes it does. I have hard time letting females in

[@WristWatcher]

Addressing the issue is the first step in the healing process. Shed be happy you made it bro. Be grateful for yourself player. Youre brave!

[@silentstorm2932]

I pray Derez finds him a Queen one day he seems like a good dude that needs a female that truly love's him! 😍

[@southerngent2011]

Silent Storm reachout to him, im sure he would appreciate it!

[@elitefew8537]

shid reach out to me, i'll be your young sugar daddy

[@silentstorm2932]

Heaven Chaser ❓😦

[@liveish2717]

Thirst

[@marquesjohnson2903]

Silent Storm 😍😍😍

[@justinpendleton8631]

bout made me cry Derez blinking hard and folding his lip when askin bout his mom...shits real..gotta push threw life still..

[@godwinaffa4150]

You always hear about the phrase deadbeat dad, but when have you heard someone say deadbeat mom? Never.

[@iwasborninhisimage5002]

Every hood have the same story😢

[@peephisenergy335]

IWAS BORNINHISIMAGE they call it the projects for a reason

[@iwasborninhisimage5002]

lebron think i give a fuck but i dont I Kno what da jects is I'm jus saying all ours up bringing is da same no matter what region u grow up in..

[@cjlaw228]

IWAS BORNINHISIMAGE his area is pretty unique for some reasons tho

[@2213-u7o]

IWAS BORNINHISIMAGE no nigga

[@2EA.TX3]

I like yo name

[@keithtootall]

Keep Grinding Bro I Remember When Your Name Was D Dash BO RIP Slim Dunkin

[@loudblunt8414]

YFN 2K 💯💯

[@bigbossbray1855]

💯💯 rip Slim Dunkin shit would be different if he was still here

[@BigDoug1102]

LilCash Cook 9 outta 10 Bricksquad would still be together if Slim Dunkin was still here

[@keithtootall]

Douglas Smith Jr Facts Bro 💯

[@keithtootall]

LilCash Cook Facts Bro Frfr 💯

[@lacehowington1268]

ok so I been thru tings too bt being young isnt an excuse, open communication is the key, much love bro everybody has a story, u seem like a good man stay up!!

[@user-ob9zo9cr4c]

hard topic, I wish best for people like dear Derez, he actually win that life.

[@beeh293]

look up the stats on fatherless children, single mothers help create prisoners, rapists and drug addicts. statistically kids do better when they're raised by their dads.

[@june7gemini]

BEE H because the father wasn't around to teach themselves how to be a "man"..stop blaming women because your father wasn't around being on drugs or having another bitch.

[@t.c7454]

june 7 gemini .. can’t deny there are some dead beat females

[@june7gemini]

T.C there are a few deadbeat women .not as much as 5 generations of fatherless children

[@beeh293]

june 7 gemini .. i have always had my father i grew up in a nuclear household lol im just stating statistics and research done by child development experts. both men and women have done these studies.

[@tonywilliams1840]

june 7 gemini .. yeah y'all were there but how did you treat the child most womanizer's grew up with only a mother why is that? then you see guys like Russell Westbrook, Steph Curry, and Russell Wilson cats who had dads married with children because they had the right example

[@atomragnarRX]

8:27 had me laughing out loud "Yah mean? Ion kno forreal" - "Well Honestly I don't know what you mean" - "Ion know either"

[@bigflemfleming3971]

atomragnar - different cultures and backgrounds, you are looking at it in a wrong prospective. Because white guys, some do it to.

[@SethTraplifeGLO999]

atomragnar - lmfao that shit is funny

[@el_propagz1229]

"so, growing up in jurassic park..." hell nahh

[@goattbe111]

el_propagz Got one of those in Boston. Neighborhood called Jamaican Plain. They still top 5 in most dangerous hoods over here and it’s been nearly 40 years

[@michaeltyler4701]

Steel sharpens steel a boy needs his father

[@jeremyhaywood8577]

Derez ya mom loves you...and she is very proud of what you have accomplished in life...she talks about you all the time...know that 💯

[@ddabeatjunkie7681]

This is what society won't show u it's a lot of good father's who love and take care of there children let's bring two parent homes back

[@BTJMUSIC]

This is why the world is so fucked up.. The men and women that neglected their children..leaving them with insecurities and traumas to have to deal with it by themselves and use things to feel a void. Most important to have both parents

[@bigpapithechef]

“Situations like these are why it’s vital for children to grow up with both parents. One sided influence on a child can be detrimental. I feel his pain, I too know how it feels to be let down by not one but both parents. It’s a terrible cycle that plagues many people/families.”

[@adrianpatterson2377]

This was Deep in so many ways

[@SethTraplifeGLO999]

RIP SLIM DUNKIN!!!!!

[@kiaralewis30]

A real one!!!! Proud of him!

[@MrMyers-lz7zi]

This a Real ass interview. D-Bo came a long way

[@boomanhill9758]

I feel we’re he coming from blessed to have my mom in my life I wouldn’t have the great things if it wasn’t for her 💯💯✊🏾❤️

[@1017iceyboyy]

Boyz n Da Hood Type Story

[@xavierbryant4145]

Thank u vlad for this great interview my boy derez deshon now he gonna watch this interview and make another Great album..this is a deep interview..hes leveling up with pain been my favorite rapper

[@boondoggle4820]

I understand exactly where the brother is coming from.

[@brianwarner308]

i like this guy, these were hard ass questions and he stepped right the fuck up

[@bamos803]

Dj Vlad aka Dr Phil

[@lenasmith9120]

By now his mom should have told him what happened. I hope she sees this

[@rxjetpacc]

Its always crazy when ur raised by ur Ma'Dukes, u wanna be with ur Pops so bad. & Vice Versa...but most of the time Pops aint there so OG(granny)raised us..

[@amaliyadavis393]

So sad😩😩 sons need their moms as much as our daughters need their dads. The experience probably shaped a lot of his outlook on women😞

[@epixdevo3180]

its nice to see a different artist that dont follow the trend

[@johnnyjackson1744]

Vlad was surprised that his dad raised him.

[@johnnybravoooooooooooooooooooo]

he was surprised because majority of the time when girl has a kid at 15-16 years old the dad fucking dips, doesnt help the mother etc, who tf wouldnt be surprised that his mother was the one who took off... look up some statistics before you try race baiting some more

[@SHADOWURLD]

I was jus on Rex Road on the southside fr . . . .

[@czrdubblex]

Clayco

[@blackamericapapi3841]

Boy one thing ik is don't never get locked up in clayco

[@THEREALGPHRESH]

I feel him on the mom issue. I thought I was the only one

[@swaggedoutrebel]

Gregg Moses same

[@lacehowington1268]

I love his music!!

[@ang012]

I respect him🙏🏼

[@MrEpalmer1]

"Wake up cook his fuckin breakfast, iron his own clothes. cook his own fuckin dope he dont trust hoes. He too scared to be a daddy, he dont trust hoes. what you expect, his momma left, he dont trust hoes! - Boosie #MotherlessChild

[@allworthy8191]

I feel him on that note

[@MyBoyP]

That's Atlanta for ya

[@ghostg5]

I felt tha🤒

[@dubmakinwill2479]

Beat the Odds💯

[@Mookgotbeats]

that part when you explain yo moms an not trusting females " That Part all the way i felt that

[@hoopersheaven5056]

"I dont know what u mean" 😂😂

[@dadonblunttalk]

You can tell the conversation about his mom is intense

[@thomasgoode8332]

Hope he a find Queen one day.. I feel him tho, Keeping it real

[@howtogaininstagramfollower1331]

Just off watching this interview I feel like his mom was young and fighting with his dad about when his dad was going to keep him or not and dad was like fuck it I'll keep my son and take him my self and raise him 😂😂😂 salute to his pops that's what a real nigga suppose to do

[@nippseybleu2715]

He seem like he don’t wanna talk bad about his momma even though she left him, he feel like she’s still him momma and he playing dumb wit Vlad!

[@uptobatentertainment]

Dam we got a similar story !!!! Want to see bro get all the success 🏄🏽‍♂️🌊

[@swavo216]

Its Debo Montana 💯‼ #LongLiveDunk

[@johnnieburrell5111]

KingSuave 216 riding thru Atlanta low-key in hummer trying stay below the scanner

[@lerongarnette7480]

I feel bra 1000 percent

[@mikesheridan8516]

Was this a interview, or a therapy session??? 😁😁😁 But to be 💯 I have a similar story🤔

[@FRENCHY_2_Fs]

💯💯💯💯💯 D-Bo

[@timothyfrederick2362]

Met my dad 1 time, week of layin on my couch drunk, i put him back on the plane to texas, my mother put me out at 12 told me she wish she would have had an abortion cause she hated the fact i reminded her of him. True story, i just brushed it of an kept it moving, only impact it has on me is pride and drive to be the best at whatever i do. 1love

[@drustories9857]

Real shit... I had... & have trust issues with women... I’m kinda sexist .... I’ve always thought it had 2 do with my mom & my childhood. I’ve never heard another man say he has had similar issues.... it feels good hear someone else say this. Let’s me feel less weird lol Respect 360%

[@ashtonwilliams3435]

dru Stories real shit I swear

[@YcBey]

Dope interview

[@joeblack8375]

No you shouldn't trust anyone unless you see them in situations that show they are trustworthy and there is levels to be trustworthiness

[@papichefitup]

You need both parents a child needs balance

[@adamkashanikhah3900]

“Tbh I don’t know what you mean “ 😂😂😂

[@TheDirtySouth404]

Shoutout to Derez Deshon. Soufside in the building. Riverdale Rd. to Rex Rd. #ClayCo #ATLGA

[@hassis6206]

Imma check his music out

[@quentindickerson7287]

You can keep the tags fucc how much it cost welcome to Jurassic park the land of the lost. 💯

[@ToddGotti]

Pain 3 ( No more Pain )

[@reevesgerell8221]

This shit hit hard because i nevwr saw my dad or met him and my mim left me we i was bout 11 or 12

[@FromGuiriga]

I feel homeboy.

[@beckton11]

I know more about rappers now for being on Vlad tv then I do for their Talents sad state of affairs

[@aking4974]

This shit real asf

[@malmitchell5173]

Greatness

[@sillymuu9633]

a mom role in there son life is more important than a fathers

[@bigklout8606]

Interview Maine music

[@elijahstiles3012]

Same upbringing as me except my grandfather raised me

[@tonybogert4088]

Vlad said " I don't know what you mean" lmbo hahaha

[@bootsylacayo3887]

He says he forgave her and respect to him for that but in the way he talks and tries to explain it you can clearly see that he’s putting or trying to place all the blame on himself

[@ieshajanay]

Vlad: honestly I don’t know what you mean. Derez: I don’t know either 🤣

[@lavelleross9641]

damn same shit to my big cuz but my cuz was 2 year old

[@EASTWOODDON]

She saved yo life by doing it n not turning u into a beta male

[@chapodagoat7929]

I feel him my mom left me with my da at 10 and i didnt see her again til 25 smh shitt fucked me up for ah while

[@Z4Saved]

Good topic tho

[@tydeprince719]

Sound like his dad was a good dude

[@90gtking]

Facts even tho my foster mother piss me being money hungry always lying for no reason treat her kids wrong for no reason !.... but I alway try to open a doors for a women to get to know me they always see me as a Atm machine and not knowing ima king 🤴🏽

[@dwaynesb12]

After everything he never speaks down on his mom and gives her the benefit of doubt real nigga

[@garyko158]

I need a 2hr daylyt interview. lolol

[@Nattybynature1]

& it’s still RIP DUNK #dirtgang

[@RUCKingOnTheSpectrum]

This interview was sad to say the least. She blamed him but it was really her. Self accountability is important as a parent.

[@communityevangelist4506]

my dad raised me for some time too, it's just not the same 😔

[@papichefitup]

Vlad needs to listen to the ojays family reunion to understand the importance of the mother in a child's development