Destiny Talks About (Stopping Vyvanse, Motivation vs Discipline)

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@marcusmcclain3251
@marcusmcclain3251 4 ай бұрын
OH MAN, IS THIS THE OPENING WE NEED TO GET HIM PLAYING RIMWORLD?!
@christopherwillson
@christopherwillson 4 ай бұрын
He already played Rimworld on stream in the past
@ataridc
@ataridc 4 ай бұрын
@@christopherwillson we want the autism games back
@christopherwillson
@christopherwillson 4 ай бұрын
@@ataridcYeah I'd enjoy watching him play Rimworld again too
@phantom_drone
@phantom_drone 4 ай бұрын
Rimworld is fucking awesome
@marcusmcclain3251
@marcusmcclain3251 4 ай бұрын
@@christopherwillson There's been like 4 DLCs and gorillians of high quality mods released since then
@sith6375
@sith6375 4 ай бұрын
Destiny your analogy was spot on. Not everyone may understand it but I totally get what you were trying to describe. After being off it for a while you adjust to the feeling of less dopamine but its hard for a while. Stimulants help us to regulate the dopamine that we produce and properly release it throughout the day as opposed to dumping it all at once when something good happens.
@phishdough
@phishdough 4 ай бұрын
I find it a little cringe that people ask Destiny for life advice when 1. He lives a very exceptionally strange life even for a rich person and 2. He is someone who mostly just got lucky in life for the most part and capitalized on it well so he’s not going to have any real advice for average people or losers. Edit: I am a big fan of Destiny and really enjoy he’s content. This post is not meant to hate on him in any way and is more a criticism of the people who ask him for life advice like he’s their internet dad or something.
@Macheako
@Macheako 4 ай бұрын
You mean his audience of mostly young, and impressionable men?
@TheYoungestMillennial
@TheYoungestMillennial 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@MacheakoI don’t think that’s true he’s gone over his analytics before and a large percentage were mid to late 20s.
@CrungySpungus
@CrungySpungus 4 ай бұрын
You should only take his advice in accordance with the time in his life he gained that knowledge, he was more introspective (like kinda but not really though) than other people in their early 20s and his advice that relates to that particular part of his life I feel applies to me a lot in terms of the shitty jobs situation.
@Macheako
@Macheako 4 ай бұрын
@@TheYoungestMillennial then they have the emotional maturity of men in their early twenties, late teens
@Macheako
@Macheako 4 ай бұрын
@@TheYoungestMillennial and I don’t mean that disrespectfully either, I’m just saying, I find his audience to largely be people that will copy, if not parrot the same ideas and beliefs that Destiny talks about
@TheEnemy1231
@TheEnemy1231 4 ай бұрын
not being on vyvanse feels like walking around with your shoes untied
@FamSisher
@FamSisher 4 ай бұрын
It feels like caffeine withdrawals
@Telarius
@Telarius 4 ай бұрын
For me. Posting before I start video. Vyvanse allows me to feel like I can fully apply my will. Whatever I focus on. I can apply my full thoughts, or most of them. When I have no Vyvanse, I feel like everything takes forever. My normal mode for me feels like it's walking through a thick fog. You go a bit slower because you might not see what's coming. But when I take it the fog is mostly cleared. I can apply myself and get to go where I prefer faster. And I can choose to run if I want.
@deqa
@deqa 4 ай бұрын
I had this effect on it for like a month and a half, and still do, but your opinions on that most likely will change if the focus was on something you didn't want to focus on, or were just "dopaminergically attracted to" because of stimulants. This is the same reason why they give stimulants to soldiers-- the focus is unbreakable, and it treats it subjective experience with a oneness, but without self-regulating one's behavior (we do this in subtle to strong ways throughout our day), that can be a negative experience as well.
@---ny4ys
@---ny4ys 4 ай бұрын
i bet being hooked on crack cocaine feels similar
@Telarius
@Telarius 4 ай бұрын
@deqa Yes of course. This is why I mention applying my will becomes both easier and more effective. But I can easily see as if you where you focus on lets say. Playing video games with it's effects it could easily get out of control. I avoid taking mine everyday. And don't at all on weekends. Only when I work.
@Telarius
@Telarius 4 ай бұрын
@---ny4ys ur joking right or r u genuinely incapable of understanding like ur iq is limited
@poadude
@poadude 4 ай бұрын
@@---ny4ysI’m not aware of any data showing that crack cocaine is a proven treatment for anything, is there something you’d like to share with the class, Timmy?
@paperpersona1243
@paperpersona1243 4 ай бұрын
The first time I went home with my prescription glasses I remember being blown away by how much detail the world has in it. Little cracks in the road, signs are actually legible from way far away, the lights from cars didnt bleed out from the source they were just solid lights. Ill never forget that first ride home and I also only had a slight prescription.
@tpolutts3309
@tpolutts3309 4 ай бұрын
I got glasses for first time at 13. I had no clue normal people could see blades of grass. Also the fact people could actually see chalkboards in classrooms amazed me.
@rpardo150
@rpardo150 4 ай бұрын
It's exactly the same for me, whenever I don't take my adderall I feel "high" as in behavior that produces fast dopamine rewards feels amazing ( video games, soda, sex ), when I'm on adderall im way more chill and those behaivors feel more normal or don't give me a kick. Feels bad man fuck adhd.
@tcggggg
@tcggggg 4 ай бұрын
Seems like a gift if you can moderate those fast dopamine activities
@barwar7707
@barwar7707 4 ай бұрын
@@tcggggg you cant though lol
@p0k3mn1
@p0k3mn1 4 ай бұрын
@@tcgggggthe whole reason ADHD is considered a disability because you can’t control your attention. If you aren’t rewarded/motivated to do something it’s simply not EVER going to get done, meanwhile you lose your life grinding to league.
@dylansevitt
@dylansevitt 4 ай бұрын
​@@p0k3mn1wtf adhd is not considered a disability
@p0k3mn1
@p0k3mn1 4 ай бұрын
@@dylansevitt yeah it is, you can literally qualify for government disability benefits with it sometimes
@Rakschas666
@Rakschas666 4 ай бұрын
3:07 glasses can help you see, but you have to percieve what you are seeing on your own. In other words the information of the visual image alone means nothing, the ability to asign greater and accurate meaning to the image of a distracted driver in a speeding car coming from the right over the woman in the red dress to your left is what ultimately matters. My understanding of ADHD is that until the car hits you with full force the visual stimulation of the woman in the red dress wins out over the visual stimulation of the driver asleep at the wheel and any effort to change priorities away from seeking immediate stimulation and reward requires constant and deliberate effort. If you only get diagnosed and treated after you already are an adult, these have become habits and trained behaviours that dont just disappear with medication. Discipline is a skill you develop with the help of the adults who care for you as you grow up. Or at least thats how it is supposed to go. If you show a lack of progress in your ability to focus and display discipline, yet your results are at least barely passable, most adults will just sigh and avert their eyes. Some dont know what you are struggling with, some know but dont have a the means to help and most just plain dont care enough to ever be bothered by either because neither is a priority. Thats something else people with ADHD have trouble catching up to: developing resilience to disappointment without lapsing into nihilism.
@wekky420ranarr
@wekky420ranarr 4 ай бұрын
This is actually one of the best comment-section descriptions of adhd I have ever read as someone with adhd. I was medicated since 12 and being off medications made me fall into terrible habits that when I returned, I quickly realized the habits of my past don't just vanish. The drug wasn't creating a new version of me that I desired, it only improved some mental function that made making other decisions outside of immediate things easier, but still the potential to return.
@Rakschas666
@Rakschas666 4 ай бұрын
​@@wekky420ranarrthe drug can give you the ability to develop skills and habits. A work ethic can only be upheld if your body does not betray you by rewarding short term gratification over long term success. Developing discipline as a skill needs the ability to focus. Focus is the ability to prioritize, developing consistent patterns of priotitizations that you can rely on to make accurate minute to minute decisions. These patterns form a foundation that relieves you of the stress and pressure of making the decision what to prioritize. This allows you not to feel mentaly drained all the time unless deprived of any stimulation. The more of these functional autonomous patterns you run, the more capacity for new information to integrate you have. This in large part determining your success in conventional systems of higher education and most fields of employment. That is also why ADHD people are quick on the uptake, but most drop off before the finish line. The system isnt made for them. Still, these challenges can be overcome and personally I feel everyone with ADHD deserves a sense of accomplishment for achieving through understanding and conscious effort what others were gifted.
@juliopchile
@juliopchile 4 ай бұрын
This is a good comment not gonna lie.
@Arcazjin
@Arcazjin 4 ай бұрын
I have gotten into the dumbest fender benders as an ADHD person. Driving not distracted is something everyone struggles with. The better the civil engineering is in a city the more mundane driving gets. It doesn't even have to be the woman in a red dress. Oh look at that restaurant I haven't been to in a while, I should go there again, maybe I flirt with that server... boom crash at 10mhr because people brake checked. The brain is over wired with more cross connections through the default mode network to other less related areas. The dopamine and norepinephrine are starved in the signal processes of the brain. It is hard for everyone to delay satisfaction for the greater goal and ADHD people just occupy the tail of the distribution. Rapid reinforcing dopamine hits like videogames, socializing, or sports have people with ADHD over representing those areas. The frustrating thing is the pathology of the brain and the medication are very misunderstood because LOL like meth. With the dopamine and norepinephrine reintroduced at the correct amounts the ADHD person finally can delay satisfaction to work on small things for the long term greater whole. The brain is very plastic so not only do they get more disciplined but the brain actually starts to shift to that close of a typical person. In fact, find it early and medicating children is the best chance the person will be off drugs and and live a normal life as an adult.
@Arcazjin
@Arcazjin 4 ай бұрын
Motivation is a fickle and transitory emotional state. It's highly individual and subject to an individuals life situation. It cannot be relied on as a fuel, burning hot and fast, for too long even by those who have selected for more of it than average. Habit is the agreement with one self to do the thing despite being unmotivated. People brush their teeth not because they are motivated every time to have good oral health or be kissable. We do it because we where once motivated but have agreed to the habit as a mainstay. Discipline is the only abundant, renewable, but not that rich a fuel source. Where habit gets fully instilled for which we do the things we do. I have zero motivation to go to the gym some days. I have averaged 4 days a week for the last 7 years despite having no motivation 30% of the time. The habit turned discipline is the only thing that gets me there. Its the agreement for health, aesthetics, and sports performance. It is the only way people keep going no one relies on motivation alone who does it as infinitum. The truth can be bewildering to some but I honestly think it is unifying. My fitness and nutrition clients view me as a god at the beginning but slowly I reveal that I am just like them. I am also unmotivated to eat well and workout. Those who at some point every year loose 10lbs and workout like crazy for 3 months only are the ones using motivation alone as a fuel. Once life throws the curveball and motivation dries up they do not have habit and discipline to keep moving forward. The boom bust cycle starts a new.
@deqa
@deqa 4 ай бұрын
The boundary between interoception and exteroception is where you'll fail at keeping up a habit. People with "too much thought" are unable to maintain habits, because it's just as easy to talk yourself out of a habit. The free will argument to maintain a habit just sits along this boundary.
@Arcazjin
@Arcazjin 4 ай бұрын
@@deqa Interesting I am in the no or low free will camp. I super struggle with motivation and frankly 'good' habits. I used the teeth brushing as an example because I do not do it sometimes, normatively loaded gross. My heart goes out to the neurotics of the world with 'too much thought'. Yet those around me with this disposition have lots of instilled habits good or bad. I have noticed them shame their bad habits but, like who says its bad, only you right now. Also completely unable to accept their good habits as good or exceptional. I will have to give that more thought. My neuroticism has fallen precipitously over the last decade because I am more used to just choosing and getting out of the oscillating middle place. If nothing matters you have the freedom to choose your purpose.
@p0k3mn1
@p0k3mn1 4 ай бұрын
The way I normally explain the effect of vyvanse on me is that it’s not that ADHD people have no or low attention, it’s that I can’t focus my attention on things that don’t feel rewarding. This allows me to sit down and read a book when I otherwise couldn’t, or I’m more likely to go do my laundry now instead of pushing it off for later. Things that may not seem rewarding. These may seem like small things but when they impact every single second of every single day for your entire life it sucks.
@coollary1
@coollary1 4 ай бұрын
not to mention the stress of not resolving those things and it always weighing on your mind!
@WaxPaper
@WaxPaper 4 ай бұрын
The truth about amphetamines and ADD from my perspective, as someone who was diagnosed like 15 years ago and been medicated ever since, is that it does help, but I still dont know if it helps in a mechanistic way that wouldn't help anybody, regardless of ADD. You do get an initial kick from dosing. There is still a hint of euphoria and energy, even at modest and therapeutic doses. At least for IR; I've never been prescribed XR. I think this whole idea of "paradoxical effect" in people with ADD is so poorly-understood that it's more likely just the effect of the stimulants compensating for deficiencies in those with ADD. There are aspects of neurochemistry that you just can't avoid. Boosting noradrenaline, norepinephrine, and dopamine will produce certain effects in everyone. Dosing someone with opioids every day for 3 months will induce dependence. This whole idea of "drugs effect people differently" is way more of a niche thing than people realize; gene expression or enzyme production doesn't vary THAT much between people. So I guess my TLDR is that yeah, therapeutic and responsible doses of amphetamine does have the potential to help anyone. It's just that for people with ADD, that benefit is higher because it's specifically compensating for a deficiency.
@roryparr2734
@roryparr2734 4 ай бұрын
Agreed The claim that people make where ADHD meds 'sedate' people is patently false and misrepresented commonly. It may induce a feeling of relaxation/calmer more organised thoughts particularly in those with ADHD but it is without a doubt stimulating them.
@coomtoon3050
@coomtoon3050 4 ай бұрын
@@roryparr2734 It does sedate me in the same way that alcohol makes me more energetic and talkative. despite what they are actually doing to the body is stimulating and depressing
@ihx7
@ihx7 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@roryparr2734yea I think the misconception comes from the fact that people think adhd is that your dopamine is too low or too high but in reality the issue is that it’s just not consistent and spiky and medication helps normalize it and make it more consistent
@deqa
@deqa 4 ай бұрын
I've been on Vyvanse for like 3 months (60mg + 5mg dex), and at first it was like, I was able to play WoW (productive) and thorium grenade, bandage, re-charge for another Stun... my IQ / working memory was way lower to do that before. Prior, I'd panick, or have some type of interoceptive (internal) brain fog and not remember what I needed to do in that situation. But after awhile, it's hard to tell what's placebo. It's common to think "drugs can change your will" or pre-frontal cortex, and Vyvanse does give more dopamine to your brain, improving your working memory, but you still have to regulate your attention, meditate, not keep 50 tabs open, be aware of the time you're spending on something, if you're wasting time. At first, it was super powerful, and honestly, it still is... but it regulating your behavior is a byproduct of having less brain fog. You just "waste more time effectively" if you're taking it, if that makes sense, without self-regulating behavior (meditation, time awareness, choosing to do certain things). Destiny says this @ 2:29. Like Huberman says on the video on increasing your focus, stimulants create "alertness", but focus is an entirely different ballgame. Stimulants are undoubtedly valuable for people with ADHD (and narcolepsy, creating alertness) and no wonder they're given to soldiers in war. But it's funny how I've been supplementing it with meditation. The boundary between loss of free will and complete control over yourself is that interoceptive-exteroceptive boundary that meditation works on (or any time you force yourself to be aware of what you SHOULD be doing). Everything you hate doing in life, if you sit down and meditate for like 5 minutes, it's shocking how many things you hated doing before, that you're more willing to do. Just by clearing thoughts about the future and past. This is the same effect people get when they exercise or do some form of breathing. "Snapping yourself" back to reality. Or getting off your computer to take a break. People work longer and harder on stimulants, but without directed attention, the "thoughts in your head" that prevent you from doing certain things are still there. It's like if you just got started doing something, you're hyperfocused on that state, but all it took was "just doing it", that's what meditation is for the brain. It removes that resistance. I still take stimulants, though. Your thoughts define your experience with everything you do, including your resistance to "being disciplined". Also, I'm not a Dr. K shill and think he's coping when it comes to the value of stimulants, for sure. 1) How to Quickly Improve Focus - Andrew Huberman kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYqQaJ-fg7lkhc0 2) How Meditation Works & Science-Based Effective Meditations | Huberman Lab Podcast #96 kzbin.info/www/bejne/rYWlhHqdl66pqbs
@deqa
@deqa 4 ай бұрын
Or maybe this is because I've been taking the generic for like, 10 days, and since I wrote that post, and that's been messing up my opinion of Vyvanse? The TEVA-generic feels like dog shit compared to name brand Vyvanse @ 60mg, LOL.
@Everythingmaxxer
@Everythingmaxxer Ай бұрын
Brah you gotta take breaks or you're going to build up tolerance
@deqa
@deqa Ай бұрын
@@Everythingmaxxer yeah but on the days you're not taking it, the boring shit you hate doing seems shit-tier
@gamingwhilebroken2355
@gamingwhilebroken2355 4 ай бұрын
Destiny mentioned the glasses comparison which is the one I use as well. Putting on glasses doesn’t make someone want to read, it just makes it possible or at least significantly easier to do so. It’s like you take this pill and now your brain has clarity and everything seems clearer, simpler, and easier. One thing that doesn’t get mention when people online talk about ADHD is the physical impacts it has on your life and not just the mental and social ones. I was SUPER accident/injury prone as a child. To the point that child services came out three different times to investigate if my parents were abusing me (they weren’t, my parents never laid a hand on me). But most of the time those injuries happened at school so the investigation basically was, “we know your son was injured mostly during school hours, but with this many ER visits we have to check but you’ve been cleared.” That continues into adulthood and in three years I had been in thirteen car accidents (only one was at fault). Once I was started on stimulants all of that just stopped happening. Granted, my psychiatrist said my symptoms were on the more “severe” side, but ya ADHD isn’t just not doing things (granted I think a lot of people that say they have ADHD don’t have it or at least it’s pretty mild and can get by without pharmaceutical intervention).
@gamingwhilebroken2355
@gamingwhilebroken2355 4 ай бұрын
For the motivation and discipline thing. Motivation in the absence of discipline is what mania feels like (with the addition of a ton of energy and other shit).
@ihx7
@ihx7 4 ай бұрын
1. for me vyvanse definitely gives me motivation, I would say it definitely helps in starting activities as well as maintaining focus on an activity (you could also call the will to continue an activity motivation), I think the misconception is the opposite, it doesn’t help you concentrate, it won’t make brain fog go away, it won’t make your thoughts any clearer, it just stops them from wanting to stop and do a different activity every few minutes 2. adhd medication has been shown to improve adhd symptoms after you stop taking it through neuroplasticity which is why it’s better when you start young, it used to be my fear that I works similar kind of to testosterone, where you might not produce as much testosterone afterwards so your adhd is even worse afterwards but adhd itself works fundamentally different
@tylerworrell7866
@tylerworrell7866 4 ай бұрын
Cannabis consistently motivates me and inspires me.
@aberwood
@aberwood 4 ай бұрын
exactly, habitual use has had zero sides effects in my life, and never will.
@ihx7
@ihx7 4 ай бұрын
I think if you have a lot of motivation you don’t need as much discipline but you do need motivation in order to make use of discipline
@Acidlib
@Acidlib 4 ай бұрын
Just to be clear, if you’ve never taken high potency stimulants they will (or at least might) give you some amount of motivation, but it WILL run out and that’s how you end up on a drug seeking death trap treadmill. Also, as someone with terrible natural eyesight (thank god for surgery), Destiny’s description of wearing/not wearing glasses perfectly describes the feeling of getting a new lens prescription.
@cultured-fuel543
@cultured-fuel543 4 ай бұрын
There is nothing quite like Elidibus casting Zodiark to kill the remainder of your team on a file where you haven't saved since starting the Deep Dungeon. That'll kill your motivation REAL quick.
@humanmerelybeing1966
@humanmerelybeing1966 4 ай бұрын
Not taking vyvanse feels awful compared to other ADHD medications. That’s the only thing about that drug that was hard for me. That being said it was the only one that didn’t give me anxiety but still helped me focus. Biggest issue was appetite suppression.
@MrFreshEnjoyer19
@MrFreshEnjoyer19 4 ай бұрын
The appetite suppression thing is so real though. Before ADHD meds food was exciting bc of the dopamine hits and so I would constantly be snacking, and after taking the meds all food became boring and I wasn't snacking at all anymore.
@humanmerelybeing1966
@humanmerelybeing1966 4 ай бұрын
@@MrFreshEnjoyer19 Same, for a while I only ate at night, basically one big meal per day and then I’d force myself to eat a bagel or something around lunch. And my one meal would usually be fast food. Personally, learning to cook changed my situation because I could eat food that interested me. Meal delivery services are a good start for that sort of thing, then move on to either a beginner friendly recipe book or just exploring options. The hardest part is finding the time to do it (I had plenty during COVID lockdown stuff, so that probably helped a lot).
@weirdo3116
@weirdo3116 4 ай бұрын
Honestly I think I might need a higher dose
@ihx7
@ihx7 4 ай бұрын
@@MrFreshEnjoyer19I mean that’s part of the reason I love my vyvanse because I‘m very healthy and fit so snacking wasn’t an issue for that reason for me but it’s just so annoying having the need/want to snack constantly instead of fully focusing on work
@ihx7
@ihx7 4 ай бұрын
@@MrFreshEnjoyer19for me with vyvanse it’s much better than Ritalin because with Ritalin i was disgusted by the thought of eating but with vyvanse I’m just not motivated to do it, so it’s not an issue having to eat just slightly annoying to not be able to continue work
@TheRelentlessKnight
@TheRelentlessKnight 4 ай бұрын
Big difference between his adderal streams vs non adderal stream era. His adderal streams feel like a wet blanket on my viewing experience
@mattreigada3745
@mattreigada3745 4 ай бұрын
If Destiny *really* needs the processing cores then threadripper may be a better option. The 9950X is still a good chip, but it’s not a significant increase over the 7950X and it comes with some extra headaches that are not worthwhile. I would probably just buy a used 7950X since it’s basically the same performance at a discount. The AM5 platform has pins on the motherboard instead of the CPU so a used CPU is a more safe option here.
@JohannesArm
@JohannesArm 4 ай бұрын
Destiny says his parents didnt pay bills on time because of money, but i think the one who paid the bills is the one who destiny inherited adhd from and he didnt pay the bills on time because of adhd, i do the same.
@trentntb5437
@trentntb5437 4 ай бұрын
protect your heart Destiny, always drinking energy drinks as well. make sure you are getting solid sleep!
@Xsarahm95X
@Xsarahm95X 4 ай бұрын
He talked about vyvanse for like 2 seconds I feel scammed by this free content
@Vashthestampede967
@Vashthestampede967 4 ай бұрын
I think if I were to give a different version of what he said it's more like you're a drug.addict who forgot what they were addicted to, so they try EVERYTHING. So you look for hits of anything to help scratch the itch. Caffiene, food, video games, cigarettes, sometimes drugs, anything. But you also can't focus on anything for to long because you need a hit. So it's kind of a vicious cycle of 1. I need a hit of something and 2. I need to get this done I'm really focused, ugh this is boring. I need a hit. Or the 2 alt. You get so obsessed with what you're doing it's giving you a hit and then you forgot that you need to do other tasks.
@indictmntt
@indictmntt 4 ай бұрын
how you get on vyvnase when you're already successful and motivated?
@poadude
@poadude 4 ай бұрын
Undiagnosed daliban regards: how many of you got diagnosed around the same time as Destiny? Did that mindfuck you at all? I feel pretty confidant it’s a personal experience, but I can’t really feel good being honest with people cuz it feels like it just adds to the stigma you already face going through a late diagnosis.
@syndicalistspeedsolver
@syndicalistspeedsolver 4 ай бұрын
For me, going to the gym is pure motivation. Its like streaming for destiny. Ive been consistently going roughly 5 days a week for 3 years. Very little discipline involved. My theory is that you can make almost anything like that. Probably just a lame excuse for no discipline
@Arcazjin
@Arcazjin 4 ай бұрын
I would argue the exact opposite is at play for you. It is the discipline you rely on. Sure you pick a new weight PR on the squat or aesthetics goal of visible shoulder striations which might motivate you for a time. Do you ever feel like not going at all one day and end up there anyway? Habit, discipline, and identity are what keeps people going for more than a year not motivation. If I am wrong, I do thing I likely am, I suggest moving on over to those 3 for fuel. Its how humans work.
@Gitridocfhskaoajabshdud
@Gitridocfhskaoajabshdud 4 ай бұрын
Having discipline set at 16 is actually such a damaging take, I get the same being said for social skills because school is a major determinative factor. But the same can’t be said for discipline
@DisconnectLoL
@DisconnectLoL 4 ай бұрын
As someone who was a socially repressed anxious idiot who had no idea how to talk about anything except warcraft 3 until age like 21 then managed to very slowly teach myself how to act like a real person, make jokes be personable be interested in others etc I feel from experience social skills are incredibly learnable and practicable. Just my experience but I do really think this one is not something you need from a young age. A lot of actors/famous people tell you they were a nerd in school for example.
@VoltigarRBLX
@VoltigarRBLX 4 ай бұрын
@@DisconnectLoL i once heard an intelligent young man called Hasan Piker say something along the lines of your social skills being akin to a muscle and that you have to train your social muscle like you have to train your body. pretty insightful, i wonder what his thoughts are on terrorism!
@Grim-mler
@Grim-mler 4 ай бұрын
It can
@Grim-mler
@Grim-mler 4 ай бұрын
@@DisconnectLoL It's not IMPOSSIBLE to learn later in life, and he's not saying that it is. But is it gonna be REALLY fucking hard for most people? Yes.
@carlod5818
@carlod5818 4 ай бұрын
@@Grim-mler id say its just really easy to learn early in life, you pick up on the things faster turn it into habit faster and got the perfect practice enviroment in school.
@ravenecho2410
@ravenecho2410 4 ай бұрын
hmmm, i really should go out, i promise i will in 20 minutes. as someone who had to self-study like ~10,000+ for a licensure (which that's the average amount of time), what i've found. 1. u have to like where ur going 2. discipline > motivation 3. if u think something is boring, it's probably b/c u don't understand it, there's something beautiful in everything (even the quadratic formula, derive that shit) 4. try to have fun and don't forget your friends and family (hardest) also just a *PS* being fucking stuborn and thinking that u can actually do it, being a little headstrong "how hard could it be??", literally LITERALLY is the best fuggin mindset. guess what it is _hard_ but it's not _that hard_ it just requires stubborness and like persistence yeah idk, do the above, that's how u get really really good at anything u want (which is in ur control, i'm not a genie)
@redbulltaco4209
@redbulltaco4209 4 ай бұрын
agreed some topics that i thought were hard before but like i adopted that mindset of like 'how hard can it be?' and it just made me more motivated to delve into more chem for example and just made it 1000x more easier i dont really know how to explain it
@ոakedsquirtle
@ոakedsquirtle 4 ай бұрын
destiny just get a just go with 7950x3d. I got a 7800x3d for a new build I made May. I went with the 7800x3d cuz i dont need the extra core/threads for productivity work (idk if you do either but u got the money)
@carlod5818
@carlod5818 4 ай бұрын
"i bougth my 7th of these bullshit mice" man im sitting on my second, freshly bougth g502 that i got because my last one (bougth 10 years ago) started to have a double click on left mb. just buy the g502, this is to literally anyone that intends to buy a mouse. this thing runs for eternity, is relativly cheap, and is the most sold item in logitechs entire catalog over the last 15 years and for good reason.
@thefig8832
@thefig8832 4 ай бұрын
bro, my 10 year old pc kept freezing bsod with sound glitch and also power surging the breaker, i replaced the psu and it fixed it, it probably is an old psu
@itazvra
@itazvra 4 ай бұрын
fml i have the mouse scroll issue too
@conrad9734
@conrad9734 4 ай бұрын
The chips aren’t fucked just enable PBO
@MidnightSun009
@MidnightSun009 4 ай бұрын
I want to order this mouse.
@xotwod3254
@xotwod3254 4 ай бұрын
5:02
@foundingfarther
@foundingfarther 4 ай бұрын
@destiny On throwing your breaker, you likely have too many devices on one breaker. Find an outlet from another breaker and diversify your load by placing your most power hungry devices on seperate breakers. Or you could hire someone like me to run new dedicated lines on new breakers to new outlets to avoid using extention cords. I'm a novice electrician, and could have this done within a day or three depending on circumstances. I'd do the work for free if your team can teach me to better edit videos. 😊
@IamusTheFox
@IamusTheFox 4 ай бұрын
Everyone encouraging someone to go off their meds for your enjoyment is actually evil
@laser_turret
@laser_turret 4 ай бұрын
meth addict cope
@Poorleeno
@Poorleeno 4 ай бұрын
It chrome, get Firefox like a good person.
@user-uq4gr5nl5o
@user-uq4gr5nl5o 4 ай бұрын
It's not Chrome since most people who use it don't have that same problem. And Firefox is slow af
@Rocinante808
@Rocinante808 4 ай бұрын
Destiny caps on chat for doing exactly the same drugs as him?😫ADHD meds help a lot of people though many sure use prescriptions simply to sell them.
@ForTheHordeXIII
@ForTheHordeXIII 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes, it's great to see Destiny L Takes. AIO vs Air, AIO beats it every time.
@marcob2137
@marcob2137 4 ай бұрын
I call him Jocko-strap. FYI
@ProximoK
@ProximoK 4 ай бұрын
When you are thinking about stress on a breaker you need to focus on keeping your amperage low. The breaker on that circuit can probably only handle like 11a right now. And they aren’t replacing that circuit any time soon.
@chasenthedragon
@chasenthedragon 4 ай бұрын
copiates give motivation, if you're desperate.
@ryanjohnson6614
@ryanjohnson6614 4 ай бұрын
If you're motivation-impaired like I was, hire a mentor. I got a personal trainer, showed up twice a week for a year, even when I’d rather watch paint dry. Out of all those sessions, I was pumped maybe three times-tops. But now, I’ve got a V-shape, I can do pull-ups, and women are noticing me like I’m the last beer at a party. Turns out, consistency beats motivation every time.
@jonji-kz2nz
@jonji-kz2nz 4 ай бұрын
Zhao si
@Zuke89
@Zuke89 4 ай бұрын
Man there's a lot I appreciate about Destiny, like his work on Israel Palestine, and more recently his focus group on January 6th. But man this video has reminded me of how 100% of all good things I have earned for myself has been rejecting establishment thinking. Motivation and discipline, more so discipline, are qualities you can increase or decrease in your own self. Just reading things like "The Brain That Changed Itself", learning about antidotal stories. Has convinced me, you can absolutely improve your mindset. Now don't get it twisted, the ability to change your mind is not unlimited. Nor will it be quick. It is a slow time-consuming process, but 100% can be done. You're going to have to start with small things. Ain't nobody going to have the right combination of words that will get you to figure it out. Everything you do strengthens certain neural pathways, everything you do less weakens neural pathways. So in short consistently doing good things, and consistently not doing bad things, will improve yourself.
@counselorguy5481
@counselorguy5481 4 ай бұрын
@@Zuke89 What work on Israel / Palestine? He just peddles Z-_i_-O talking points and nonsense about mass grapes and beheaded bambinos.
@admiral7599
@admiral7599 4 ай бұрын
@@counselorguy5481 He literally has a whole document on the conflict that references UN documents, history, and other primary sources there. You're doing very little work on researching and doing more 'talking points'.
@Zuke89
@Zuke89 4 ай бұрын
@@counselorguy5481 I guess reading is a Zionist talking point.
@counselorguy5481
@counselorguy5481 4 ай бұрын
@Zuke89 No, carrying on about "human shields" is a typical Z-_i_-O talking point. They released their algorithms. They're not avoiding civilians. They see civilian casualties as acceptable. They see targeting of civilians as acceptable as well. They also believe that attacking their own civilians is acceptable.
@Zuke89
@Zuke89 4 ай бұрын
@@counselorguy5481 you do know Hamas doesn't deny that they use human shield?
@Ataraxia_Atom
@Ataraxia_Atom 4 ай бұрын
All those chrome tabs kill your computer
@counselorguy5481
@counselorguy5481 4 ай бұрын
Why were you even on Vyvance to begin with? These controlled substances are not drugs to be taken lightly. Amphetamines, Methylphenidates, and Benzos are taken so frivolously in this country.
@HankHillBentOver
@HankHillBentOver 4 ай бұрын
He is still on Vyvanse Did you watch the video. On my Adderall right now, I am personally on it because I literally could not get myself to do anything or focus on tasks that even I liked I wanted to so have always had the motivation to try, but I would just procrastinate and or pay less attention, give up quickly (especially with art)
@silversalmon9909
@silversalmon9909 4 ай бұрын
@@HankHillBentOver On vyvanse currently. Being prescribed amphetamines by a doctor is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. Went from being a troublemaker who was constantly suspended from school to a straight A student
@counselorguy5481
@counselorguy5481 4 ай бұрын
@@HankHillBentOver We keep having a national shortage of Vyvance, Adderall and Concerta. So many people are on stimulants that they're having trouble producing enough of these drugs. It's troubling. These drugs are highly addictive and can cause physical dependence.
@MarigoldAW
@MarigoldAW 4 ай бұрын
He is prescribed vyvanse by a doctor. Wtf are you talking about
@pj2345-v4x
@pj2345-v4x 4 ай бұрын
You sound like you need vyvance too considering you couldn’t sit through the first 3 minutes to find out he didn’t quit them. Instead your adhd brain made you impulse post this self report comment.
@laser_turret
@laser_turret 4 ай бұрын
>me not on Vyvanse thinking clearer than ever drug addict cope
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