DETACHMENT CHANGES EVERYTHING

[@Topgunpapa]

One of the best orators of manifestation and detachment that I have heard. Very clear, concise, nothing mystical or left to the imagination

[@IvonaFlakus]

Awww! Watching this & knowing that now you DO have a baby!! 🥹🫶🏼💕 Dreams do come true!! 💕

[@Additi_j]

I love the way you explain these concepts. Theres so much Clarity. Thank you

[@marinvameds]

This is such a good take and explanation on detachment! I was also thinking about how by obsessing/worrying about our manifestations is LOWKEY putting them on the pedestal. When you decide that it's stressing you out too much and you do something in the present to make you feel better, that's some boss energy right there. That's putting yourself right back on the pedestal.

[@JM-bv2mo]

This is true. Like you, I'm on breakup #2 with sP. First time, ,I was so devastated and really felt like my world shattered even the second time. But, when he left me on read the second time when I reached out, and/or it was like I was always initiating or checking in, I realized that I wasn't loving myself. I let someone have so much power over me. I am still manifeseting him, but I unfollowed him this time because I do not want to be triggered. Also, I had to realize that I do finally love myself. I deserve to be treated better than this.

[@ceciliamac4283]

Exactly what happened to me 🤍

[@phoebe9825]

Hi Mary, I took your coaching class about a year ago and I felt the need to message you. I had an illness that took away my fertility 'window' and although the illness is gone I felt this immense pressure to get pregnant within the next few years even if I wasn't sure it was the right decision. I was recently helping my family with a family tree project and the thing I noticed after tracing my family tree back 500 years was how common it was for my ancestors to not start having kids until they were way older than we are. A few were in their mid-40s, one in the 1600s had her first baby at 52 and then had three more kids in three years. This was all without fertility treatment, IVF, who were these Shropshire-based bad bitch felt makers just deciding to pop out a litter before menopause lol! I hope you know you have more time than you think and like when you had your fun single time you enjoy some quality time with your hubby before another change comes along, lots of love xx

[@meredithsluckystars]

Oh Mary. I’ve never commented but have been perusing your content for a while. I’m going to imagine and hold the vision of seeing you announcing your far along pregnancy on here and seeing baby pictures on ig. 💜

[@Crystalwolf256]

ever since i have detached over the past couple weeks i was able to manifest my sp following me on instagram without me following him first. Will say it was a pleasant surprise to wake up to yesterday morning. I am at the point where im happy single and if i get into a relationship with sp it will an added bonus to my life :)

[@nicoleraza8389]

YAY THAT IS HUGE MOVEMENT CONGRATS

[@jennifercooljeo6552]

That’s where I want to be as well, it feels like walking up a hill lol

[@justinenicole4016]

This is what I am manifesting from my SP!!!!

[@justinenicole4016]

10 hours later, I can happily say he followed me back!!!!!! 😊

[@nicoleraza8389]

@@justinenicole4016 CONGRATS!!

[@ira4600]

Thanks for sharing your situation with us Mary. I found this really helpful: detach from fears that thing won't happen while making peace with the life you'd have without it

[@hannahtrust1599]

Soooooo true 🎉 funny enough, on the drive home from work today I had a lightbulb moment of Hannah STOP! Putting pressure on manifesting is exhausting and excuse me but I’m the prize I don’t need to over analyse/over think the process it is DONE sp loves me, sp loves being in a commited relationship with me, sp messages me good morning every damn day. Just chilllll and enjoy the process. I know for a FACT that this works as I did it in December and I know for a FACT my sp hasn’t conformed the last few weeks because of my silly ass feelings and fear.

[@kylienkate]

I so relate to this! Thank you for posting. It's a great reminder for me.

[@giovannagiustino5139]

you are SO CLOSE to 10,000 subscribers... Congrats Mary !!! Love you❤️Love your channel in Chicago... also visualizing that give or take a year from now, you are late for self-care Sunday's Livestream because you had to change your shirt, which had baby spit-up on both shoulders from feeding your twins... you&Derrick are Rockstars🌟🌟

[@priyanshi5352]

Oh my!!! This is such a sweet comment ❤️🥺🥺 I really wish Mary sees this ✨

[@giovannagiustino5139]

@@priyanshi5352 aww thank you ☺️

[@MissDolittle777]

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your fur son 😢. I know exactly what your going through, unfortunately. All my love ❤ and thank you again for your energy 🙏🏻🫶🏼❤️

[@goldensun73]

Good message…. It’s about balance. Do the affirming/scripting but also take breaks and prioritize self. …Have fun with manifesting, don’t make it a chore. 🙏🌸 🎈

[@footballlovers5484]

When I don’t see movement I just tell myself there is movement I just don’t see it bc I love surprises

[@asmichoudhary4048]

Mary you look 24! And your aura is so magnetic and real, I love it!

[@ruthmoncayo98]

This was so helpful, even my worst case scenario would be such a gift for me!

[@vam9785]

Hey Mary, I’m glad I found your channel. You are an amazing teacher ❤

[@swathiarunlistens]

Hi Mary! I hope you’re doing good :) You’re the only manifesting coach who explains everything with so much clarity 💕 I relate a lot to you , I appreciate all the efforts you put in towards teaching content :)

[@ManifestwithMary]

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️

[@gemmalonsdaleguru]

This was ace, thank you!

[@belle8i]

You are an amazing and loving mother. It is done. I’m already visualizing the baby photos. ♥️

[@jessicaoliva6207]

This is SO good. I’m going to rewatch this on the hard days. Thank you.

[@jt.633]

Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Definitely can see you as an awesome mom in the future

[@ManifestwithMary]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sharanyassaxena]

WHY DO YOUR VIDEOS COME EXACTLY WHEN I NEED THEM

[@amirah1581]

You will be great mama I could see that don’t give up 😊

[@argentinacange-sanon444]

Been waiting forever for this topic!!

[@BoysInTheDoon]

she is amazing , explains everything so well , thank you mary

[@tinkachu8743]

You were right, this video did help! You probably don't remember me but I have an SP at work thats dating another coworker haha and you replied to my comment. :) I was trying to find a video about my situation because nobody seems to talk about SPs you can't cut contact with, but this helped immensely!

[@everydaydebbi941]

Oh lawd thank you for these words today. 🙏🙏

[@inspiredaction162]

You’re so naturally beautiful. Anyway, thank for this video.

[@Stephanieelar]

This is such a great video ♥️♥️♥️ that baby is so lucky to have a beautiful an amazing mommy 🫶🏻

[@belle8i]

When you said that people outside of you are not the source of your emotions, it reminds me of a clip of Marco Pierre White, who trained Gordon Ramsay, where he was asked about being the only person to make Gordon cry. His response was, “I didn't make Gordon cry. He chose to cry.”

[@infullbloommonica]

Thanks Mary this is awesome 🙏🏼

[@ElisabethKanyer]

They say an animal passes before the baby comes. Thinking of you and praying!

[@elijahh444]

Wow, this is a really, really beautiful and important video! Just when I need it thank you very much Mary❤️ sp sent me a message two days ago and since then we haven't spoken again but I know we are together and that everything is working out just the way I want and more Thank you!❤

[@ceciliamac4283]

Beautiful ❤️ How are you doing today? 💞

[@elijahh444]

@@ceciliamac4283 hello ❤️ im great better then ever and sp and i together he really changed as i changed🙏

[@elijahh444]

hello ❤️ thank you for asking, im great sp and i together, i learned so much in this process and as I changed he changed too How are you? 🥰

[@ceciliamac4283]

@ Hello 💞 Aww that makes my day!! So happy to read ❤️ Wishing you the best!! I’m in the thick of it. 3 weeks NC. Doing good as I work on myself but I miss him sometimes deeply

[@elijahh444]

@@ceciliamac4283 I can tell you that we broke up and got back together so many times because of my insecurity I had and the self-work I had to do, but with how much I missed him and wanted to talk to him (by the way, there were also times when I contacted him a few times during the breakups) but it has to come from him and the more you work on yourself, the better you will feel. Do the self-work for yourself first and fill your day every day. I had anxious attachment and he had avoidant attachment we still work on it and its sometimes come again but if you have that too work on it❤️

[@Priya-jf9ju]

Thank you. This has helped me so much ❤

[@IamMs.Trinidad]

Now because the synchronicity ❤

[@mindsetmoves5746]

Congratulations on 10k subscribers 🎉

[@Gabriellalaurenleigh]

I’m manifesting u being preg babe❤❤ I see the video already🤰

[@inkedandbeautiful6318]

Mary, I wish I could share with you my manifesting my first pregnancy.

[@talianun3259]

Ok we detach. Then how do we manifest?

[@BeautyInYOU583]

I manifested a baby but have had issues with manifesting my sp and getting a new place and other things. I could literally teach how to magically manifest a baby but everything else had been a test. I did cry out about having a baby and thought about it often but still did all the things below and just believed it would happen. Here is what I did for a baby: Did a meditation to call in the baby spirit “ found video on KZbin “ I did gratitude affirmations thanking the universe for my new baby I would look at my partner daily and say this is the father of my child as he slept. Listened to baby affirmations Did fertility meditation Listened to “ help baby sperm swim” right after sex Watched spirit baby card readings to connect to baby Listened to fertility meditations Used Castro oil to unblock my fallopian tubes Hope this can help you too.

[@MrTheomighty1]

On other Channels others reply with just move on and find better when all I want to do is to grow with my SP and to get to know how to deal with her given I’m really sure she’s has a dismissive attachment style. Mary as I’ve just found your channel I don’t know if your husband has made videos on avoidant styles so we can hear it from someone who knows how they behave.

[@ceciliamac4283]

Great question

[@ingridsouza6131]

I had a doubt. Even if I do everything right to manifest the SP is there a possibility that we won't manifest?

[@inspiredaction162]

It has to manifest.

[@bhumika98]

It will manifest . Manifestation is hunderd percent guaranteed.

[@madhukumthekar1267]

I was soo sooo sooo obsessed with my sp until yesterday but today when I woke up I was just done with manifesting him and I felt that I really deserve a man who is obsessed with me and I will use my energy to manifest a new and perfect man... does this count as detachment?

[@ceciliamac4283]

How are you today? 💕

[@madhukumthekar1267]

@ceciliamac4283 Hi I am completely detached and I don't care about him but he texts me sometimes just to check on me and also meets me when he wants to, he told me he misses me always.

[@ceciliamac4283]

@ I am so glad to read that you are detached and don’t care. Such a good place to be at. And I see re: the way he is expressing himself towards you. My sp did the same when we were in contact. We are in NC for over two weeks now ✨🍀

[@karishmaroychowdhury1673]

But even if we detach we will still manifest, it right ?

[@sikha4025]

Do the work then redirect the focus on you , Detachment means not putting all your focus on that thing , Because you can't stop thinking right so whenever thoughts came up change that and then redirect the focus on self!!

[@roseannerivera4389]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@gods_angel703]

999🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@LImperatrice368]

You are already pregnant ❤️haven’t You noticed😊?

[@cat_astronaut_]

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