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From her pranks to cute moments with her siblings, relive Deyjah’s best moments on The Family Hustle: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3S1i5lnrbmUmdk
@trgilchrist5110
@trgilchrist5110 4 жыл бұрын
Yea
@delpossible4776
@delpossible4776 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not her best moments. All that were seeing is ti harassing and making his daughter uncomfortable
@cherlindreataylor4573
@cherlindreataylor4573 4 жыл бұрын
Omg he really broke her heart... smh
@coskiidonald7106
@coskiidonald7106 4 жыл бұрын
@@trgilchrist5110ä878 !u]to A9
@AndyXGumede
@AndyXGumede 4 жыл бұрын
She’s so beautiful.
@thatgworl2504
@thatgworl2504 4 жыл бұрын
One day she’s going to write a book about her dad. MARK MY WORDS!!!
@babedavis1263
@babedavis1263 4 жыл бұрын
And I’m gon read tf outta it
@lilarodrigues2698
@lilarodrigues2698 4 жыл бұрын
Tenisa White me too 😂😂😂 I am so nosey 😂
@synthesis7
@synthesis7 4 жыл бұрын
@@babedavis1263 me too. No lie 😭😭😭
@mssocial2093
@mssocial2093 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! And I’m going to read every page. He worries her. Something is off between him and her. She’s not with his BS! She’s deep and he’s not!
@breking3368
@breking3368 4 жыл бұрын
MsSocial Armstrong yes something is very off
@gisellelozoya3397
@gisellelozoya3397 4 жыл бұрын
The crazy part is she seems like such a mature, smart and responsible girl. There’s no reason to treat your daughter this way, I feel bad that she has to deal with that bs coming from her father..who wouldn’t look at him differently. He’s gonna ruin their bond and relationship and push her away
@daniellesibiya9826
@daniellesibiya9826 4 жыл бұрын
She is, that's his first child to seriously go to college and isnt crazy. Her and NiqNiq are so mature and chilled. Them boys tho 😂
@stephaniecrumpton2133
@stephaniecrumpton2133 4 жыл бұрын
@@daniellesibiya9826 yes the boys seem wilder.
@GroveStreetCJ
@GroveStreetCJ 4 жыл бұрын
Giselle Lozoya m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/qaSZmXqDed2pn7c
@ratricebowden1530
@ratricebowden1530 4 жыл бұрын
Off topic @ Giselle Lozoya your profile pic is really pretty..lol
@nikkichannel5274
@nikkichannel5274 4 жыл бұрын
What happened
@marcelsmith3510
@marcelsmith3510 4 жыл бұрын
When she was crying I wanted to hug her so bad! Why didn't they hug her dang? Poor baby
@tankwilliams317
@tankwilliams317 4 жыл бұрын
Had to let her go Thru the motion first let her release it all first
@marcelsmith3510
@marcelsmith3510 4 жыл бұрын
@@tankwilliams317 I would have let her go through the motions while holding her. Damn that, we as black parents need to love OUR babies through it all right now! Damn letting her go thru the motions. That's me tho everyone is different obviously. 🤷
@dekhiastevenson8760
@dekhiastevenson8760 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcelsmith3510 i agree💙
@v.g7279
@v.g7279 4 жыл бұрын
@Marcel Smith I agree with you, seriously. I just wanted to hug her while watching this ❤️‼️
@shonda79able
@shonda79able 4 жыл бұрын
They probably hugged her but they just didn't show it
@sessiem2890
@sessiem2890 4 жыл бұрын
When she said "I'll be a better parent" 🥺🥺
@bellestarr4040
@bellestarr4040 3 жыл бұрын
She is one more beautiful young lady
@ajsimpson.11
@ajsimpson.11 10 ай бұрын
She gone let her kid get fucked and trained🤦‍♂️ after this. Now everytime her kid asks to go out or be with a boy she gone automatically say yes bc of what happened ti her
@andrearichardson6426
@andrearichardson6426 2 ай бұрын
Wowww!! Exactly
@BelindaCindy3
@BelindaCindy3 4 жыл бұрын
When your own daughter says you play victim a lot, that’s sad.
@joycejones4286
@joycejones4286 4 жыл бұрын
He needs to trust her & her upbringing. He DOESN'T NEED TO be in the gynecologist's examining room with her, making her real ashamed. He's damaging their relationship. Tiny needs to put a stop to it. It's NOT CUTE AT ALL!
@uchechiblxckgoddess
@uchechiblxckgoddess 4 жыл бұрын
Omg i said that to my dad and he denied and, once again, played victim. It really is sad
@sitarules1722
@sitarules1722 4 жыл бұрын
That's the same with my dad sadly
@DJ-wp2lk
@DJ-wp2lk 3 жыл бұрын
Deyjha is very smart and she sees through her father’s bullshit. She knows Tip is a manipulator and that he does the things he does on purpose, and when he gets caught he tries to manipulate people into thinking he had good intentions. I hope she distances herself from him, because he’s overly possessive controlling and toxic
@HealingQuest777
@HealingQuest777 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists always plays victims
@Ashhwitcash
@Ashhwitcash 4 жыл бұрын
He shouldn’t have done this. This is honestly disrespectful. Deyjah has a history of dealing with depression, imagine how this impacted her. Smh
@indiamodest3275
@indiamodest3275 4 жыл бұрын
Every since I've noticed her on the show... I can see her depression at that time & her insecurity. She looked like an outcast for the longest on the show.
@candirockstar135
@candirockstar135 4 жыл бұрын
TI has serious respect and boundary issues. He admitted to being a narcissist but seriously seems to have zero interest in changing his behavior. I feel bad for Deyjah because she seems so reserved and when she does make statements on social media it sounds like she's crying for help. This child needs healing...like yesterday.
@skinnyminnieog
@skinnyminnieog 4 жыл бұрын
@@indiamodest3275 because of what happened to her at a young age.... social media is going to go crazy and drag TI even more if the truth come out
@KelbyJohnson06
@KelbyJohnson06 4 жыл бұрын
I truly disagree she does not have the right to be upset for a father taking care of his child and his responsibilities as a father everybody needs to mind there business
@Skullfire56
@Skullfire56 4 жыл бұрын
Kelby Johnson T.i should’ve not put that type of business out there.
@kimmie2x
@kimmie2x 4 жыл бұрын
She needed a long hug on that beach. Maybe it wasn’t shown..
@morningsunshine0216
@morningsunshine0216 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously I wanted to jump up and reach through the screen and hugged her. That’s a very traumatizing experience to go through in FRONT OF THE WORLD
@biancajones850
@biancajones850 4 жыл бұрын
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@aGwEENapple
@aGwEENapple 4 жыл бұрын
that's what I was thinking I felt so bad :(
@justnique7868
@justnique7868 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss!
@kjstarr2893
@kjstarr2893 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY ! '
@LennonTheBunny
@LennonTheBunny 4 жыл бұрын
The misogyny runs deep in this family...
@ryeanneewing1620
@ryeanneewing1620 4 жыл бұрын
Hey lennon the bunny ❤ was not expecting to see you here.
@chrisjones1032
@chrisjones1032 4 жыл бұрын
God ain't put me here first for you.
@alainachino1265
@alainachino1265 4 жыл бұрын
@@ryeanneewing1620 loooolz me too
@chrisjones1032
@chrisjones1032 3 жыл бұрын
@@arylykos5148 ???
@r.b7979
@r.b7979 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjones1032 u sound insecure mate
@jxtyra6167
@jxtyra6167 4 жыл бұрын
When she was tryna keep everything together and she broke down crying I teared up :(
@PinkDesires1
@PinkDesires1 Жыл бұрын
I’m irritated that they didn’t console her.
@Lovebug-nz8ke
@Lovebug-nz8ke 3 ай бұрын
@@PinkDesires1 she could be one of the type of people that don’t like physical contact when emotional
@skylasfro
@skylasfro Ай бұрын
@@Lovebug-nz8keshe probably is that way
@dominiquemartin3439
@dominiquemartin3439 4 жыл бұрын
He’s the typical manipulative male narcissist! He’s just afraid that she’ll meet someone like him! 🤷🏾‍♀️
@chosenbyGod..
@chosenbyGod.. 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!!
@blacknmild
@blacknmild 4 жыл бұрын
Well, duh... Why would he want his daughter to end up with someone like him?? Is that what you all want for her or something?? She's a sweet girl and she deserves a good man.. not a man who will just use her for sex..
@mega-mind3167
@mega-mind3167 4 жыл бұрын
@@blacknmild The point is he was suppose to set the example of a good man, father, and husband. Not expect his daughter to right his wrongs through her life. She would make her own decisions that's best for her and if she has to learn let her learn on her own just like Reginae but don't embarrass the girl, worst yet for things she hasn't even done yet. This was so unnecessary and attention seeking of Tip
@niyahsmommy42
@niyahsmommy42 4 жыл бұрын
Boom
@11Bryght999
@11Bryght999 4 жыл бұрын
Yas💯🤭👍
@trfrierson
@trfrierson 4 жыл бұрын
He setting her up to be a docile woman to a abusive man. He ia going to push her to the very person he doesnt want in her life.
@jaywdf
@jaywdf 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! somebody said it, hes teaching her that shes some type of "possession" and that her worth is put down to her sex life.
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 3 жыл бұрын
@@jaywdf: Even worse; her value is determined via her vagina, in this case, given when he started that practice. I wonder, what happened in T.I.'s childhood, that made him think what he's doing to his daughter is acceptable? What he's doing is about him, not her.
@suras8984
@suras8984 3 жыл бұрын
@@Solutions3000 It may be more about what he does to women and so he is acting on his fear of not wanting what he does to happen to her. Not to say that his childhood doesn't play a role.
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 3 жыл бұрын
@@suras8984 Good point.
@cookiecookie1834
@cookiecookie1834 4 жыл бұрын
Like most parents, T.I loves his boys and raise his girls. This is why girls deal with more depression and is easily lead out from under parental control. Parents push the girls away by oppressing them.
@kingmacio
@kingmacio 4 жыл бұрын
Is this acceptable, though?
@MelaninsFinest
@MelaninsFinest 4 жыл бұрын
Mann and they just never see the pain they cause
@Mayabear29
@Mayabear29 3 жыл бұрын
@@kingmacio absolutely not
@Memphis_ritz
@Memphis_ritz 3 жыл бұрын
I highly doubt girls deal with depression more
@mjnorman9824
@mjnorman9824 3 жыл бұрын
@@Memphis_ritz why do you doubt that?
@ashleyb.1196
@ashleyb.1196 4 жыл бұрын
T.I. embarrassed the F out of her. And he's so disrespectful to Tiny also. Disgusting towards females. No longer a fan.
@imanijuzzou4630
@imanijuzzou4630 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly,
@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy
@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy 4 жыл бұрын
It’s embarrassing to be a virgin?
@aishaandathena
@aishaandathena 4 жыл бұрын
Tarik HHH he went on a podcast to say he takes her to an obgyn to check to see if she’s a virgin which isn’t even something you can check. How is that not embarrassing for millions of people to hear and blogs are eating it up.
@cyythekid1765
@cyythekid1765 4 жыл бұрын
@@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy it's fine to be a virgin but the fact that he made it clear to everyone that he takes his daughter to the gyno is horrific. It's already humiliating for your dad to do that mind you she's legally an adult and then he made jr clear to the world. That's disgusting
@MsOrganicBlack
@MsOrganicBlack 4 жыл бұрын
@@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy You're an idiot. Typical male missing the point and trying to make excuses for other misogynistic men.
@kamiyabritton7098
@kamiyabritton7098 4 жыл бұрын
Our generation is learning from how our parents treat us & we'll definitely have a different parenting style than our parents
@beeeautifulkekeee3500
@beeeautifulkekeee3500 4 жыл бұрын
I agree sis! We got raised by old school parents
@unknownunknown9296
@unknownunknown9296 4 жыл бұрын
And what's the difference?
@synthesis7
@synthesis7 4 жыл бұрын
@@unknownunknown9296 emotional availability for one
@krystingrant6292
@krystingrant6292 4 жыл бұрын
I have I'm sick of it.
@lakideman5659
@lakideman5659 4 жыл бұрын
Most definitely sis
@DivineReset_
@DivineReset_ 4 жыл бұрын
A parent would act like this and wonder why when the child is grown they never come around no more
@user-fb3rn4lc6o
@user-fb3rn4lc6o 3 жыл бұрын
She said, "its okay to cry! You are human! We care about you. We love you" Everybody needs a cousin like that, period! 💙
@dafinacullens9040
@dafinacullens9040 4 жыл бұрын
Umm she is going to have sex eventually. He can't protect her forever. She is 18 years old. And he is ok with his sons having sex at a young age. Disgusting!!
@hyattaswann5046
@hyattaswann5046 4 жыл бұрын
I felt love be but he was in love differently u should made ur family was the truth
@dafinacullens9040
@dafinacullens9040 4 жыл бұрын
@Derek Fisher That's not what I said. I said eventually it will happen because that's what most people do. He can't protect her from having sex forever. If she decides to give it up at 19 or 20 then what is he going to do?
@kenwilliams3494
@kenwilliams3494 4 жыл бұрын
@Derek Fisher you're literally the typical male. Just mixed the hell out of her words
@xamia4life198
@xamia4life198 4 жыл бұрын
Derek Fisher she is grown she can do what she wants
@bricastillo3177
@bricastillo3177 4 жыл бұрын
She’s 19 now
@realbodmon973
@realbodmon973 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be honest right...SHE IS NOT gonna look at him the same, I'm sorry to say but he just ruined a perfectly loving relationship with his daughter cause trust me when I say dejha is gonna remember this and hold it agsints him dont believe me just watch.
@jadoresophya
@jadoresophya 4 жыл бұрын
If there ever was a relationship.
@kkb892
@kkb892 4 жыл бұрын
Are you God? Relax
@butyoucancallmesam
@butyoucancallmesam 4 жыл бұрын
@@jadoresophya Right! Throughout the episode she was dropping hints that this isn't his first time causing her emotional pain.
@neshapruitt4756
@neshapruitt4756 4 жыл бұрын
Not making this a race issue, but it’s a common thing In [dysfunctional] black household for your family to “tell your business” it hurts&you feel betrayed. We’ve been so conditioned to love those who hurt us.... it’s sad to see her hurting Edit: I don’t think it’s weird he went with her to the gynecologist. I’m Sure Other Dads Have had to take their daughter to uncomfortable appts. She is WELL OVER AGE [patient/doctor confidentiality] and could tell him to leave IF SHE WANTED ..... the embarrassment came from him telling the ENTIRE WORLD on Social Media 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
@realbodmon973
@realbodmon973 4 жыл бұрын
@@neshapruitt4756 The thing is...HE IS FORCING HER TO DO THESE THINGS AND FORCING TO HER TO GO TO THE GYNECOLOGIST. He was even in the room when she was under the procedure. That man is a narcissist and DOESENT deserve a daughter like her bro. Now I see why she feels like an outcast. And tiny with her Human doll built self is so STUPID. Taking this man's side. Your going to take someones side who said in a podcast to his millions of supporters that your "vagina" belongs to him and you cant stop him from having sex with you. THAT ENTIRE FAMILY IS CORRUPT.
@andthatsonperiodt2248
@andthatsonperiodt2248 4 жыл бұрын
Why does she still look beautiful when she’s cry but when I cry I look ugly 😂😭😂😭
@aniyahjohnson5569
@aniyahjohnson5569 4 жыл бұрын
@Sapphire Cotton ONG
@yusufayaz2356
@yusufayaz2356 3 жыл бұрын
Coz this is a scripted show. She got make up on and ur seeing her through the lens. You think TI isnt aware of what she's up to. TI promoted his daughter. It was all planned.
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 3 жыл бұрын
Because you and I don't travel with camera crew and makeup artists.
@loco4sky
@loco4sky 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@gabby7590
@gabby7590 4 жыл бұрын
this girl is like 19 and still is being bossed around by her dad, WHAT
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 3 жыл бұрын
She doesn't know differently; this has always been her life.
@Scofields1828
@Scofields1828 4 жыл бұрын
Wow TI is trash to use this for a storyline, and joking about your male kid becoming a baby daddy..how much more toxic can it get
@blacknmild
@blacknmild 4 жыл бұрын
He's not using this for a storyline. They wanted us to see this instead of speculating. Dehjah wouldn't have filmed with the show if she didn't want us to see it... Tiny said they all wanted us to see how they dealt with this situation as a family.
@mykb8069
@mykb8069 4 жыл бұрын
I think it was a story line from the beginning...he did on purpose for ratings...Smh
@Scofields1828
@Scofields1828 4 жыл бұрын
@@mykb8069 preach
@thankyounext365
@thankyounext365 4 жыл бұрын
Idk how old I am, if my daddy makes me uncomfortable I’m leaving.
@kipney0032
@kipney0032 4 жыл бұрын
No family is perfect. Evidently the daughter wanted this in the show.
@ashjay4596
@ashjay4596 4 жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful very educated
@guttacutta4169
@guttacutta4169 4 жыл бұрын
dayjay is gorgeous with her lil red ass❤
@sidneymcbride5006
@sidneymcbride5006 4 жыл бұрын
He makes me sick, and he honestly thinks that he didn’t do anything wrong. Smh men..
@debbiescott5922
@debbiescott5922 4 жыл бұрын
Boys needs to whooped in the behind by real men!!! Maybe they b different! However I still love men!! There is someone for everyone u just need to wait!!!!
@alexisbad22
@alexisbad22 4 жыл бұрын
Facts !!
@keeleyblake4683
@keeleyblake4683 4 жыл бұрын
She’s such a humble nice girl you can tell she respects herself. Even by her tone and how soft she is
@GlamorousTiTi
@GlamorousTiTi 4 жыл бұрын
Wow so he basically lied and said he wasn’t in the room but 2:30 proves that he was indeed in the room ... that’s creepy
@CalixLuv
@CalixLuv 4 жыл бұрын
So gross!
@wendyellis3738
@wendyellis3738 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking tge same thing..
@kenyamorris7065
@kenyamorris7065 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@christiangriffith4147
@christiangriffith4147 4 жыл бұрын
The child even said that she doesn't know why or how come the gynecologist let's him in , he was even so disrespectful 😠 to say she needed to come to him and say he did something wrong , a real father who actually cares about their child feelings would have pulled her aside and apologize because he humiliated her to the entire world , but I guess he is too much of an asshole or a narcissist sociopath to do so they always right regardless if others are hurt by their actions
@drelurebanks6042
@drelurebanks6042 4 жыл бұрын
Creepy as heellllllllll
@erikag8055
@erikag8055 3 жыл бұрын
Now that these allegations came out about her dad, I wonder if her situation is deeper than what she is speaking on. It seems as if something else went down by her emotions
@kinyannarichards6684
@kinyannarichards6684 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, i said the same thing. Something aint quite right!
@tainawilliams6271
@tainawilliams6271 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm🤔
@mariahyohannes
@mariahyohannes 2 жыл бұрын
Deyjah is/was very depressed, she talks about it it all the time on her Instagram and gives an in depth detail about her mental health. Even before the virginity incident she was depressed. I don't put nothing past TI, he is more evil and arrogant than he portrays. But when you have discernment you can see right through him.
@kelcibee1648
@kelcibee1648 4 жыл бұрын
She is such a sweet girl. When she said she couldn't say no that hurt. Imagine how this could translate into her romantic relationship. Beautiful daughter, narcissistic dad!
@ayomirae
@ayomirae 4 жыл бұрын
this really broke my heart, especially when she broke into tears.
@sophiadilworth885
@sophiadilworth885 4 жыл бұрын
She made me cry cause I have a teenager daughter an when her dad treat me bad she don't like it an she feels different about him now. So I understand her feeling sum kind of way now about her Dad.
@shan0577
@shan0577 4 жыл бұрын
They didn’t hug her, because it would have drawn attraction and she would have been in a position where she would have been forced to explain to her father her issue with him. She needed a moment of space to just talk about the issue who could understand. My heart truly goes out to her
@NajSinghs
@NajSinghs 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯
@tianasprincess5827
@tianasprincess5827 4 жыл бұрын
She is so nice she said “I don’t really care to be around him”
@jaymesEo6
@jaymesEo6 4 жыл бұрын
"He'll play the victim" That hit home for me because my father gaslit me like this throughout my childhood too!! He leaned on me in ways a 10/11-year-old shouldn't have because of his alcoholism causing my parents to divorce. I became his rock and his sober companion before even hitting middle school throughout my parent's separation. I grew to become resentful of him and our relationship never fully recovered. I still can't speak to him for real about how he impacted my early life without him giving himself a pity party! I pray she can heal because I know from experience it is not easy.
@thegwetash302
@thegwetash302 3 жыл бұрын
Back to this video after the TI & Tiny allegations....
@alvetaedwards6
@alvetaedwards6 3 жыл бұрын
Me to honey
@carmenlopez6783
@carmenlopez6783 4 жыл бұрын
Damn tip give your daughter the respect she deserves..just sayin 😞
@JayLeiRay
@JayLeiRay 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely hate how Deyjah had to internalize all of this 😔 baby needs a therapist to undo years trauma.
@darrylskylar8757
@darrylskylar8757 2 ай бұрын
I went to the gynecologist for the first right before I went to college when I was 18. I can’t imagine going before the age of 18. Wow! I’m glad Deyjah is being supported by the women around her.🙏💙
@carolynswan1171
@carolynswan1171 4 жыл бұрын
He could have kept that to himself. But at the same time don't be all in that girl private part like that but your boys do what they wanna do SMH
@carolynswan1171
@carolynswan1171 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly I already been looking at T.I. talking ass a little different before he this too his daughter but now since he did that I don't have no respect for him. Seems bizzare to be putting her business out like that and give that girl some privacy if she wanted to have sex that's what she's going to do and he can't do a dam thing about it. Tiny and T. I. sit up there and king do what he wanna do but have the gall to be doing Deyjah like that then tiny short talking i'm just the step mama. I have step kids too but they know I don't play and I love them dearly but I will never put their business out there
@Ghxidaa
@Ghxidaa 4 жыл бұрын
Misogyny
@emanuelbennett4139
@emanuelbennett4139 4 жыл бұрын
Deyja is so intelligent, so well spoken, and you can just see the purity in her eyes.
@miyanimcknight9817
@miyanimcknight9817 4 жыл бұрын
Deyjah you're just trying to live a drama free, unproblematic life and that's what you deserve.
@daisyjones9107
@daisyjones9107 4 жыл бұрын
you’re toxic and disgusting look at you no wonder you’re so jealous because you’ve had it hard please
@belle3055
@belle3055 4 жыл бұрын
Daisy Jones what’s the point of this comment ???
@portable_rat
@portable_rat 4 жыл бұрын
@@daisyjones9107 where'd this come from? It doesn't at all relate to the original
@mavy8295
@mavy8295 4 жыл бұрын
Daisy Jones She didn’t deserve to be embarrassed by her father like that, what the person said was not jealousy, being toxic, or disgusting all she said was that Deyjah deserves an unproblematic/ drama free life
@emilyjayne6548
@emilyjayne6548 4 жыл бұрын
I'm completely disgusted with TI this is definitely a form of abuse and the doctor should have been able to recognize that
@subliminalawarenessbeautif6878
@subliminalawarenessbeautif6878 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely is a form of abuse.
@sonh788
@sonh788 9 ай бұрын
Remember 30 women accused t.i of sexual harassment 🤫
@jaccimatisse5006
@jaccimatisse5006 4 жыл бұрын
Poor Deyjah. She's quiet & thoughtful but still gets picked apart for no reason. Seems she just wants peaceful & private, surroundings, which isn't much. ❤️😔
@TheAndiechris
@TheAndiechris 4 жыл бұрын
I have a dad exactly like TI and I completely understand where Deyjahs coming from when she expresses that it’s hard to relay emotions to him. Narcissistic parents- cause that’s exactly what he is- ALWAYS think their feelings and opinions are the most important feelings and opinions above anyone else’s. They never want to admit when they’re wrong and eventually you learn that in order to keep the peace with them it’s better to keep your hurt and negative emotions to yourself in order to keep up the false allusion of positivity. Dad’s like this are especially harder on their daughters because they attribute being a protector and a provider for their child as being synonymous with possessiveness and control. It truly is a very thin line with them. And unfortunately it doesn’t really get easier to talk to them as you get older.
@allyouget4960
@allyouget4960 4 жыл бұрын
Have you ever felt like he was having sexual thoughts about u and him? No disrespect intended, just don't understand what makes a father want to see his daughter legs open on a table.
@TheAndiechris
@TheAndiechris 4 жыл бұрын
Peaceful Beginnings No, never that. The protective/possessive part is more so like Mama bear mode on x100 To them everything outside of their teachings and their parenting feels like a threat to your safety. These are the type of dads who would 100% wrap you in bubblewrap and keep you in a protective hamster ball if they could as long as it means you’re safe. It may seem nice and caring to an outsider, but ultimately the manipulation and refusal to let you experience ANYTHING hinders your growth and you end up missing out on vital developmental experiences. While I definitely don’t think MY dad would have gone that far, mainly because he’s never been the type to discuss those sort of things with me, I do understand TI’s strange reasoning as to why he thought it was ok. He thinks that this is what an active parent does. And no one has ever provided that boundary for him. He’s equated his daughter’s virginity with him being a good father. For him: Virginity= great dad No virginity= Failure
@TheAndiechris
@TheAndiechris 4 жыл бұрын
M. J.P. I do honestly believe they can if they want to, but first they have to work on letting go of control. Because often times they feel like they never had control of their own lives growing up, so they feel like control is the only way to love someone.
@allyouget4960
@allyouget4960 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheAndiechris thanks for the reply be blessed
@tmoni7839
@tmoni7839 4 жыл бұрын
This situation shows that she’s scarred by the actions of her father and it’s so sad that her narcissistic father can’t see how his actions has severely impacted deyjah and his family.
@mikefit3343
@mikefit3343 10 ай бұрын
The concept of protecting your family's personal business and disregarding those values ( because you felted like you're entitled too?) is pure narcissism. No wonder king doesn't respect his own father.
@SimoneUmba
@SimoneUmba 4 жыл бұрын
Damn she stuck on vacation and has to deal with this. I feel so sorry for her.
@ggarcia7223
@ggarcia7223 4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree and t.i dont give a f*** about her feelings!!.. poor girl. And then celebrities ask them selves why their kids under medication for depression and anxiety!. Smh
@mariothomas2449
@mariothomas2449 4 жыл бұрын
Ti is a great father, the bible say wait to you get married before sex, ALOT of you women NEVER had a father, so you don't understand the situation
@smoothcutta453
@smoothcutta453 4 жыл бұрын
Mario I agree
@SimoneUmba
@SimoneUmba 4 жыл бұрын
@@mariothomas2449 the bible didn't say to air out your child's virginity to the world. She's 19 and has to endure public embarrassment
@brookem1008
@brookem1008 4 жыл бұрын
Mario Thomas first of all, an invasion of your child’s privacy is not a testament to show that your a great parent. A hymen has nothing to do with virginity, it can pop from anything, and even if she did have sex her hymen could not tell u if she did or didn’t. It’s extremely inappropriate for her father to do that to her.
@Actress511
@Actress511 4 жыл бұрын
She's seems like a beautiful soul, who's sensitive and gentle. Like she's has to constantly push down her feelings with no one there to turn to. And the cousins may mean well, but they seem to be off in their ability to truly comfort and love her. They seem like they're meddling. TI seems out of touch with handling women issues. Either way, who goes to the gyno with their dad? Why couldn't Mom go or an Aunt or Grandma? It seems like there's more going on here, than meets the eye. I wish she'd tell her story, it seems like she's been thru some things.
@ErikaDenise1603
@ErikaDenise1603 4 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for Deyjah she looks and seems more mature than her dad and T.I. knows better.
@shannongeorgiapeach76
@shannongeorgiapeach76 4 жыл бұрын
Deyjah expressed her feelings & it's what I've thought all along, she's always in the background & feels like because she's not going after anything in the entertainment industry that she's a wallflower. Watching 1st couple of seasons, you can see this. I'm so glad she's starting to use her voice. T.I. is a bully parent who is so closed minded, has his beliefs only & that will push the kids away that he bullies. Proud of her finally expressing herself.
@tresurescott254
@tresurescott254 4 жыл бұрын
Deyjah: He’s been going with me since I was 14/15 Ti: I was lying what I said was false Make it make sense tip?!🤨
@jviewz88
@jviewz88 Жыл бұрын
Her “cousins” are not being supportive at ALL.
@amyj4438
@amyj4438 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 31 yrs old and started crying when she did. My dad isnt as bad as T.I. n never crossed those boundaries but he def had T.I. tendencies. When she talked about how their relationship would change n all that. I felt that!!! Dads don't understand their position in their daughter's lives all the time.
@xenarr6735
@xenarr6735 4 жыл бұрын
Move far far away from him , don't even go on vacations with him, he over stepped his boundaries as a father.
@SSSS-wq4vn
@SSSS-wq4vn 4 жыл бұрын
Damn it is her dad. And he probably felt he was protecting her. I’m sure he learned his lesson and hope the mom did too.
@nataliairving1769
@nataliairving1769 4 жыл бұрын
I argee with that
@dtimms
@dtimms 4 жыл бұрын
When she found it out they were on vacation...
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 4 жыл бұрын
@@SSSS-wq4vn that's not protection when you tell your business out there
@amandav.3304
@amandav.3304 4 жыл бұрын
Bnisha 04 I feel like as a father he was only trying to protect her. Maybe he could have gone about it a different way, but I don’t think his intention was to hurt her ....
@nikkiaustin6541
@nikkiaustin6541 4 жыл бұрын
Whew when she started crying my eyes watered I felt her pain man tip took it too far with this 1
@MimiSoull
@MimiSoull 4 жыл бұрын
It's kinda weird that the gynecologist doctor let T.I go in the room during her appointments etc ( because I know after a certain age the doctors asks the parents to step out of the room to asks questions etc) plus shouldn't her mom be the one to go with her 🤔 This whole situation is embarrassing to be honest.
@ionjordan4774
@ionjordan4774 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@iNesi954
@iNesi954 4 жыл бұрын
Seems like she has/had no choice if you listen closely it sounds like she said he'd disown her or cut her off. The man has serious issues.
@MimiSoull
@MimiSoull 4 жыл бұрын
@@iNesi954 like I understand as a parent you want to protect your kids etc but this is very obsessive.
@TheMisslilbit
@TheMisslilbit 4 жыл бұрын
@@MimiSoull yes he worried about her being with a man like him. He arrogant he is disrespect his own wife and he dont listen to women not even his mother!!! He is a asshole.... He a cheater and he manipulative.
@Shayvideos1
@Shayvideos1 4 жыл бұрын
Did he go in during the procedure or did he come in after for the results?? Probably after for the results.
@KRose-lm7ki
@KRose-lm7ki 4 жыл бұрын
She's such a sweetheart
@RonnieRonTV
@RonnieRonTV 4 жыл бұрын
She really is I feel so bad for her 😢💕
@bluetextbooks
@bluetextbooks 4 жыл бұрын
I cried when she said it was traumatic. She hold so much in so I know that was difficult 💔
@daydreem3054
@daydreem3054 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for her when she cried I teared up.
@CarlitaCosmetics
@CarlitaCosmetics 4 жыл бұрын
She So Needed A Hug I Was Hoping That 1 Of Them Got Up And Hugged Her
@guttacutta4169
@guttacutta4169 4 жыл бұрын
Lol poor dayjay i hope things get better for her and ti need to sit tf down somewhere and stop telling all is daughter business i wonder how he'll feel if dayjay told his business
@rainamarie9353
@rainamarie9353 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah she did
@o.m5091
@o.m5091 4 жыл бұрын
@Kewana Nedd do you know who are the ladies she's on the beach with?
@CarlitaCosmetics
@CarlitaCosmetics 4 жыл бұрын
@Kewana Nedd right and they are also her family as well and they just sat there watching her cry
@RambunctiousRegan
@RambunctiousRegan 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr why they sitting there getting her to spill her beans can’t even console the child
@herbalessence6226
@herbalessence6226 4 жыл бұрын
I was raised by my dad!! But he wouldn’t have said that about me!! He was very over protective!!! But as a Jamaican he don’t even talk like that!! I hurt for her😒
@THERSC216
@THERSC216 Жыл бұрын
I love T.I. but the way he runs his mouth about things annoys me
@lovelove-ni7oj
@lovelove-ni7oj 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww She seems so sweeet ...she's so pretty! And I just saw she has a KZbin channel💜
@rosina2131
@rosina2131 4 жыл бұрын
You didn’t deserve this Deyjah. T.I.P was wrong for doing that. He needs to apologize to you.
@therealsiyaa
@therealsiyaa 4 жыл бұрын
I feel for her even more Bc not only did she have to go through the bullying on social media, but now it’s like she’s still forced to talk about it on a reality show. Being the same age, it’s some stuff that we want to keep to ourselves and figure out how to deal with privately. Like even when she started crying, I was like “dam can y’all pause the camera for like 5 secs and give her a minute to breathe” 🥺🙄
@CA-iv6kc
@CA-iv6kc 4 жыл бұрын
This the same young lady tiny was coming at over social media? She seems so sweet. How you gonna defend this man's role as a father, he couldn't even uphold his role as a husband. Smh!!!!!
@sharifa4562
@sharifa4562 4 жыл бұрын
She was coming at her.. when was this ? And why?
@Kingaoiun57831
@Kingaoiun57831 4 жыл бұрын
I have never heard Tiny come at her. In fact when Tip and Tiny broke up she was on Instagram praising her relationship with Tiny. I have never heard Tiny ever say anything bad about any of their kids. In fact she is a little over supportive sometimes
@TauyloreDior
@TauyloreDior 4 жыл бұрын
Tiny never came for her .. 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 she loves this child as if she was her own. She actually still has a strong relationship with tiny as for her dad
@gurlaqueen6757
@gurlaqueen6757 4 жыл бұрын
Awww she made me cry she's so adorable ❤❤
@soxpuff
@soxpuff 4 жыл бұрын
This conversation exposes issues with how some communities raise boys vs. girls. It literally constructs a foundation of women vs. men. You can't raise boys to be men via the simplicity of the act of sex or "spreading seed". Spreading seed, simply put, is spreading seed, not fatherhood, not manhood. There is nothing to be praised about spreading seed. Condoning this hazardous, life-long damaging mindset, behavior, and acceptance in young men does not protect the honor of women or the upcoming society as a whole. These "fathers" threaten the honor of women and their daughters, but condone their sons to snatch it without regard to the generations of their community they're perpetuating. IT'S HYPOCRTICAL, GENDER-BIASED, AND MISOGYNISTIC!
@charlyb9194
@charlyb9194 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@TaKarion48
@TaKarion48 4 жыл бұрын
As a woman that can relate to her. Being the quiet one, always dealing with issues that nobody seem to noticed, I feel her. Not only is it embarrassing for it to be in the family, but also to millions of people.......... It should just be a mom and daughter thing PRIVATELY
@naturallynique4062
@naturallynique4062 4 жыл бұрын
That fact that she broke down and tried laughing it off was sooo hurtful!
@bdb618
@bdb618 4 жыл бұрын
I know this situation is old now. But I hope he saw how he made his daughter feel. This was heartbreaking and she clearly has feelings she was never able to address with him. I hope for her sake she can heal from all her trauma and move on and not let those scars affect her adult life. Life is too short as it is.
@rosepetals7xo_
@rosepetals7xo_ 3 жыл бұрын
Neither one of these women consoled her at all!!!damn
@marckid93
@marckid93 3 жыл бұрын
Deyjah honestly seems like she’s the sweetest girl ever....She doesnt deserve all this mess.
@princessfly9052
@princessfly9052 4 жыл бұрын
She is soo sweet and bright shes going to touch people minds and heart
@lakeshiaball1609
@lakeshiaball1609 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for Daysha TI ought to be ashamed of his self I wish my Daughter dad would try her like this he wouldn’t have to worry bout it anymore that’s too over protective that’s giving perv vibes Daysha seems to be very intelligent Her mom and Tiny needs to get in his behind
@allenroad6841
@allenroad6841 4 жыл бұрын
You're over doing it bby
@lakeshiaball1609
@lakeshiaball1609 4 жыл бұрын
Allen Road no I’m not just m a real mama baby on play them kinda games on the episode tonight he admitted at the end after talking to her mom he was dead wrong that’s all I was saying so if that’s over doing it then oh well any mom would agree with me ur not a mom so you would not understand where I’m coming from I’m speaking from a mom point of view
@Msomifabien
@Msomifabien 4 жыл бұрын
Random thought : I've never seen someone cry pretty
@gee.kay.4787
@gee.kay.4787 4 жыл бұрын
The same TI who can’t even honor his wife in the sanctity of their marriage lololololol. I hope babygirl gets the proper therapy + healing.
@robinmckinzie4874
@robinmckinzie4874 8 ай бұрын
Why yall didn't hug her
@chillwill7872
@chillwill7872 4 жыл бұрын
" He always plays victim"
@teesceeo
@teesceeo 4 жыл бұрын
Coming from someone younger... Coming from his own daughter... If he doesn't see this as an issue...
@laniecep8022
@laniecep8022 4 жыл бұрын
😔😩 my heart breaks for her...it's sad because there are double standards in homes like this all of the time and then parents act shocked when their kid resents them or they go looking for love in all the wrong places. T.I. was out of pocket completely for exposing this info to the World then to sit and discuss it on RedTableTalk w/o Deyjah just goes to show how much he does not have regard for women at ALL. Keep this baby in your prayers, people need to pay attention these kids need us!
@aligaines8476
@aligaines8476 4 жыл бұрын
Amen. And that looking for love sometimes sets you up with a controlling man, the one you were running from. Cause sometimes girls are looking for a better daddy and don't know it... but that may be a different issue.
@shaylarobinson700
@shaylarobinson700 4 жыл бұрын
That just literally broke my heart and totally makes me look at him Differently!! I'm sorry it just does
@Enreauxbeauty
@Enreauxbeauty 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing her cry over the situation made me tear up 🥺😭
@marissasmoment3711
@marissasmoment3711 4 жыл бұрын
Well, in all honesty, T.I should have never opened his mouth about it in the first place😒
@nicolemera5908
@nicolemera5908 4 жыл бұрын
Literally broke my heart watching this. Everyone is entitled to their parenting methods but watching her break down tells you something’s wrong. He should trust that when ever she’s ready to take that step she will speak up when she’s ready. No one should have that right be taken from them. I hope they work this out. Such a beautiful family overall.
@kaay2x309
@kaay2x309 4 жыл бұрын
That’s me. I got so accustomed to pushing stuff away that now I’m dealing with so much anxiety and depression.
@marywilliams1859
@marywilliams1859 4 жыл бұрын
I would think that her mom or Tiny should be the ones going to those type of appointments with this young lady! I'm sure she's very humiliated.
@shante70sb
@shante70sb 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If wanted someone in the room with her she would want her mother or step mother in the room. Not ur damn daddy? In gynecologist exam room? Hell No! It’s not normal.
@marywilliams1859
@marywilliams1859 4 жыл бұрын
@@shante70sb true! That part I dont understand. 🤔
@LeeJayMedina
@LeeJayMedina 4 жыл бұрын
This just made me tear a little bit. She is so strong you can tell she didn’t want to cry. I don’t know fully what goes on but I feel like she’s been minimized her whole life and shut out from having a voice.
@daisyjones9107
@daisyjones9107 4 жыл бұрын
yep i’ve experienced this too growing up
@laylanorwood1681
@laylanorwood1681 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for her 🥺
@guttacutta4169
@guttacutta4169 4 жыл бұрын
Everybody please pray for dayjay ❤
@kamiesworld9539
@kamiesworld9539 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I cried with dejah
@classactstatusgetyamindrig3300
@classactstatusgetyamindrig3300 4 жыл бұрын
When she picked up the cup all I could think about was how her depression could lead to excessive drinking or drug use if she continues to sweep things under the rug.
@chantellhewitt1352
@chantellhewitt1352 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that she able to voice how she felt on a public platform because when ti and tiny did that interview I’m like ?? we don’t give a damn how y’all feel about it we need to hear how she feels, she was the one embarrassed. I know she probably didn’t get all of her feelings out here but she got something out.
@PamelaGrace31
@PamelaGrace31 4 жыл бұрын
TI IS TRASH for putting this young lady through this. But she is so blessed to have such supportive cousins
@alwaysdriven911
@alwaysdriven911 4 жыл бұрын
Her daughter is so beautiful and she has an angelic way about herself . She is very well spoken and she was raised right
@lordrik8976
@lordrik8976 4 жыл бұрын
Aww🥺 I love her so much it’s crazy how she’s already in the public eye and can’t even keep not one secret out from the world and for her dad to say what he said and just walk around like it’s cool is just crazy
@dorothywinn9979
@dorothywinn9979 4 жыл бұрын
Deyjah just said her dad was insensitive and her cousins asked her all them intrusive questions then sat there and watched her cry.. TF?
@_serenity888
@_serenity888 4 жыл бұрын
Them hugging her would bring attention to her and them by people including her father. And hugging her coulda had her crying for hours. She answered the questions so obv she didn’t have a problem with it.
@taylorjones7988
@taylorjones7988 4 жыл бұрын
My hearts breaking for her😢
@kingjay9009
@kingjay9009 4 жыл бұрын
Dejay u are the most beautiful 19 year old ever 😗😘😍😚
@0693cnrd
@0693cnrd 5 ай бұрын
He doesn’t want someone to treat her the way he treats women.
@SpillingTeaWithJayBee
@SpillingTeaWithJayBee 4 жыл бұрын
That baby is so beautiful inside and out i love her and just want to give her a big hug!!!!!
@its.kay.rose.
@its.kay.rose. 2 жыл бұрын
Deyjah is a very mature young lady who knows who she is and knows what’s right and what’s wrong. And the way her dad is acting is completely wrong and disgusting. Like they said in the video, T.I would never invite himself to one of his son’s doctors appointments or obsess over his son’s dating life. This is sad 🤦🏾‍♀️
@fashiongoddezz3462
@fashiongoddezz3462 6 ай бұрын
Deyjahi I feel her. With a controlling dad, I felt this so much. Me and my sisters😢😢growing up.
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