DIFFERENT FTM EXPERIENCES

[@KalvinGarrah]

I HATE MYSELF LMAO IN THE BACK

[@toskaknetschke1251]

Kale Garrah ahahaa you're so cute 😂😍💖

[@mynamajeff5963]

were you asleep? lmao

[@daeguboy8136]

you're Adorable

[@maxshuval9561]

Kale Garrah ILYSM Kale

[@Thisismyhandle329]

Kale Garrah YOU LOOK SO COMFORTABLE

[@graveyardpansy]

did kale just slap you with his packer because... same

[@RtsShrtFrRtthw]

Nah it's just a dildo someone left out

[@videogameseal7810]

666

[@thatskai3070]

@@RtsShrtFrRtthw G A Y

[@AmericanToucan]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5i0qmpmlLGDiZY

[@selenarox2011]

i felt my heart drop when Cam said what his mom said when he came out to her omg

[@ashh.491]

@Asher TheGayTrans same

[@jademeuleners8473]

That's what happened to me when I came out as Pansexual

[@jamiemeader5713]

I came out to my freinds first lol

[@ZyairesReign]

That’s exactly what I’m going through right now, except I really don’t think her minds gonna change

[@gretalauk]

same happened to me just differently worded she yelled at me "you are a girl and you cant change that" still constantly think about it

[@mollyvlogs3547]

Kale in the back. He kills me OMFG

[@makennahelms6044]

I've taught both my chickens to sit on my shoulders while walking

[@izu_1026_jp]

Me too

[@eilidhjohnson5694]

Makenna Helms that's awesome! XD

[@rockybalboa6514]

Wow, amazing!

[@Codiliabra]

oh shit

[@vincentcole5706]

you are a god

[@spiceboi534]

kale looking cute in the background

[@angeljanee]

"I told my mum and she said no, I cried" same 😂😂😂😂

[@terracottateeth8246]

Lol 😂😂🤣🤣😀🙂😶😐

[@dangreen3868]

I HATE THE "I gave birth to you, I know you better than you know yourself" ARGUMENT. My problem is that my mom had very similar experiences to me as a teen, but for her it was mostly just a phase. My biggest fear about being trans is that I'll grow out of it and have to face my mom after everything. I've thought through it though, and me and my mom have had very similar experiences for very different reasons. My mom was raised in an incredibly religious family and went to a religious school, so her teenage experience was based in rebellion and being gender nonconforming in a unsupportive environment, while I just have gender dysphoria. For example, my mom cut her hair short because she wasn't supposed to, but she actually took me to shave my head and I had full support. It's still really frustrating though, that she sees so much of her teenage years in me when we had vastly different situations. Also, she approaches top surgery only knowing what it's like for cis woman with breast cancer and how terrible that is, so she's both not letting me get it until I'm 25, which is understandable, and she's convinced I'm not gonna want it by then. It's frustrating.

[@pandascanrun]

How the hell do people think they know someone more than the person themself ? That person has a mind , thoughts and feelings , are parents just gonna ignore that exists and think every interaction they had with their child is all they are ?

[@thegoblinking.]

My experience is extremely similar. My mom is convinced that all trans men are just confused because its just a phase to her. She thinks her experience is everyones experience.

[@KillerCammy85]

I would never say I know my trans son better than him but I definitely knew he would be different long before he did lol.

[@linadnigarb8989]

I wish she could just respect and accept you

[@KillerCammy85]

Trust your gut, thats the best piece of advice I can give, if it makes you happy and you arent hurting anyone then what does it matter. I have always told my son that no matter what as long as he is happy and safe that is what matters most, even if it meant disregarding his fathers comments. The first time my son shaved his head my ex was not happy. My son told me he didnt care what his dad said cuz he liked his hair and it made him happy.

[@wwkcd7657]

Kale is me though

[@oceanfarmer420]

same though

[@tyler_danico6635]

tylers laugh tyleeeeeeee wat up

[@kaleioli]

i need more videos of you two, this was gREAT.

[@eh5601]

kaleioli great angle on your profile pic 👌

[@kaleioli]

Crampon Crap why thank you

[@korynn6174]

kaleioli no it was SOFT and NEAT

[@lizzieseidel1212]

AAARRRRRMMMMMYYYYY

[@crow_with_a_knife]

@@korynn6174 PfFt omg

[@zbek6658]

I came out two days ago, my mum knew something was up for years -_-

[@_echointhevoid_]

So happy for you. Go you!

[@littlesailor1533]

I'm gonna come out Saturday yes that is April 1

[@zbek6658]

Little Sailor I was gonna do that but I couldn't wait, turned out well cause I'm going clothes shopping on that day instead

[@eh5601]

Little Sailor great idea

[@emmymillet7346]

Good for you!

[@bv0804]

Watching this video now after everything that Kalvin did...is very different.

[@Noelitall]

Ikr

[@linadnigarb8989]

What he did? I'm newcomer here

[@colemaley]

@@linadnigarb8989 kalvin is just a veryyyy not good influence on trans men youth

[@rakamukherjee9070]

"so if u are my family pls exit" LOL

[@kristoffw.762]

when I came out to my mom, we were outside along with my brother who was talking to her about something personal, so I thought that this was my chance. I talked and she listen while nodding, when I was done speaking, the first words she said to me were "No matter what, we will always love you" that is also the same thing my dad said when I was in the ER, I told him and he looked me in the eyes and said "No matter what I still love you, we all still love you" I felt good about myself afterwards.

[@seanecus33]

Kristoff W. Same, I just came out two days ago and my mom was saying she will support me no matter what and get the help I need..

[@hazelsunderstood6784]

Y'all have parents. I hope y'all keep telling stories of them and how much they love y'all. Maybe you'll inspire others to get their heads out of their butts. Just remember how not everyone is that lucky. I knew a person who had a mom, and would adamantly tell someone with bad parents that "they are making it all up cuz that person has a great mom". 🙄 The lack of logic. Eitherway, I'm happy for y'all :)

[@itsverooo]

Excuse me, Cameron is SUPER HOT

[@rohanmorningstar7795]

i think kale is a bean (no he's not a bean he's a leaf)

[@Scilla_Sage]

is it me or does he kinda look like Raegan...?

[@bubbleshamilton2990]

169...kewl ;v;

[@Aarnyx]

@@Scilla_Sage who is raegan tho?

[@wistermorldwide]

I actually liked Kalvin when this video came out, but then he started making videos making fun of teenagers and understandably don't like him anymore

[@Nico-en1ly]

same😭😭 i miss his old content

[@Isaac-ci5wy]

What happened to him.. I don’t understand his shift into being a bully. 🤨where did this kalvin go?

[@Vic-by6bd]

my mom found me registered as a guy for an account then told me she gave birth to a girl then screamed at me for 7 hours, she still isn't happy

[@MyChristi123]

Vic how are things now :(

[@heyits_storm4099]

Everything better now?

[@BookBird2963]

Yikes!

[@carol352]

You only live once so make it count if she can’t support you then she doesn’t deserve you

[@aoiliep]

Time to body slam someone

[@jayharrison6971]

I just came out to my mum and she said she always thought I was a boy YES score absolutely frickin' buzzing.

[@samk4379]

Creative4ever OMFG YOU ARE SO LUCKY

[@Isaac-ci5wy]

Honestly very lucky, congratulations!!! I wish I had this ngl, but a guy can dream. 👏🏿👏🏿🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

[@charisday3846]

Before Kalvin Garrah was exposed for being an awful human being

[@leskileo894]

I mean all you had to do was watch his videos to see he is an awful human being

[@turquo1s406]

nOT KALVIN GARRAH

[@oldwaywardsouls]

I recently came out to my best friend, and he totally supported me, he even gave me a hug the next day.. He was so supportive, and he still is. All my friends (who i came out to) told me they were gonna be there for me all the way through.. and i am so happy, one of my friends even asked me if i wanted to be called out with male pronounces.. and i couldn't stop smiling at that qeustion, but i said; "no no, you can call me by my birth name for now.." And she told me i needed to tell her once i wanted the male pronounces.. If i had a guy tell me that he is actually a FTM Trans guy.. i would jump into a hug attack and smile the next 48 hours.. 🙈 Sam you literally saved my life here, if i didn't find you.. i wouldn't have come out to all my friends, i would probably be miserable and going against me will for the rest of my life, but now that i came out to *almost* everyone.. i'm happy, i have faith.. and i seem to smile and also laugh more.. i can't wait untill i'm on Pre-T and T next.. 😇

[@borond]

Kalvin in the background lmfao, he just vibin

[@jewelya-yr9uo]

who else was staring back at kale the whole video hahah

[@jaxsonezria]

I honestly thought guys wouldn't want to date me or approach me because I don't have a penis. Honestly it's the opposite of what I thought. If you are a struggling trans guy or woman, you will find someone

[@xoprettyhurtsxo]

I been waiting for this video for the longest time

[@dogdad1038]

how cam leaned into the camera at the beginning 🅰️+

[@ombayasu8657]

meme lord is that a fronk Iero i see there?

[@klee.-.1262]

The Ghost's Shadow Fronk!!! Gerard awaits

[@rwnmrr]

video aged like milk 😭😭😭

[@lomouche]

My mom is the same as Cams, no they don't know you better, and its really painful to hear your mom say "We will go through this, you will stop being confused at some point" but his current situation gives me hope lol

[@andreaijames-arthur7132]

my daughter just came to me a few weeks ago and told me she wanted to be a boy. At first I said I didn't care you're my child as long as you're happy I'm happy. But I find myself not wanting to call the doctor or prepare for that process. She is 16. I know that she's probably ready to start the process. She finally had enough courage to tell me. And I can't seem to move past Step 1 and start helping. What can you say to me to help me understand? Help me stop being stuck.

[@erianisdeleon4952]

Andrea Ijames Okay atleast let her get her get her haircut and clothes change and when she older and ready let her start t and buy her packers :)

[@andreaijames-arthur7132]

Erianis De Leon I have let her change her clothes, boxers and all. She has cut her hair from down her back to a buzz on the sides and long on top. She lit up. I know I need to its funding the courage for myself. which is selfish. I know.

[@pechesmelba4405]

Andrea Ijames First of all I'm so happy that you're supportive. Even though you don't feel like you're ready to call a doctor, you eventually have to. You could start with calling a gender therapist and start that process, who could talk to your kid but also help you understand more. Watch videos that other parents have posted and contact them. Maybe you could ask your kid about different kinds of resources. Let your kid express itself the way it wants in terms of clothes, hair, a binder, pronouns and a name. Start with the social transition. I hope you will continue to support your kid and maybe, when you understand all of this yourself, you could help other parents understand.

[@andreaijames-arthur7132]

Adrian Savagebruh thank you. I want more then anything for my child to feel loved and excepted. my children are my world!!! Thank you for helping.

[@jaydenv8557]

Andrea Ijames i know it must be hard for you but you have to do it at some point, that's all I can say

[@elijahmate9315]

Damn kalvin looks so different now T is awesome

[@DK-do8qq]

I love that kalvin isn't contributing to the video he's just laying down in the background 😂😂

[@haydentrenton869]

Omg I went back to this and kalvins voice is so high god damn 😂

[@hyenalove7005]

I love how Kale is just there, in the background. lol

[@mrcrock2095]

I just can't believe you guys used to be girls , mind blown, it's just amazing how much testosterone can change the body , it looks like it would be easier for mtf than ftm but I really wouldn't know as I'm neither nor do I know anyone, I watch these videos to educate myself and find it fascinating. Good look guys and you look great!

[@maddy7520]

it brings me so much happiness to see you doing so well. when I first found you, you only had like 1000 twitter followers. I am so proud of you.

[@daniakenny1467]

Sam your so funny and I'm proud of you❤ ILY SO MUCH💓

[@TransKameron]

Sam! It's great seeing younger trans guys sharing their experiences. I've enjoyed watching your videos, so thanks for making them :)

[@jupoeap]

When Cam said his mom told him no when he came out, that hurt. When my fiance first came out to his mom as trans, she told him "I never wanted a son." Now his parents just straight-up ignore it and deadname/misgender him left and right.

[@twosecondboy3378]

the no ones ever gonna love you thing,,, aaaaaaaa its so real

[@fanboyofyoongistonguetechn2360]

I came out to the first person today , my sister (18yr) and she started running and jumping around the room like crazy and shouting "OMG I HAVE A LITTLE BROTHER " I HAVE A FUCKING BROTHER" "YAYAYAYYYYAYAAYY I CAN'T WAIT TO TELL PEOPLE I HAVE A BROTHER" "OMG LETS GO SHOPPING FOR BOYS CLOTHES" "DO YOU WANT A BINDER I'LL BUY YOU A BINDER?" honestly it will be favourite reaction ever

[@BlueSkidoo13]

My dad actually took it pretty well. My mom was upset at first, but the more the thought about it, the more it made sense because of things I’ve said and done in the past. My brother didn’t come around for three years and he’s still not there yet. Immediate family is the hardest. I was lucky enough to have a brand new job after I came out so I didn’t have to switch any pronouns to bosses or anything. Cost me a lot of interviews potential jobs, for sure. I owe Red Robin for giving me that start in life and giving me a chance to prove myself in a work environment.

[@luckybitez709]

KALVIN MAKES THIS VIDEO WHOLE THE PART WHERE HE SLAPS SAM WITH HIS PACKER AND HOW HES VIBING IN THE BACK THAT MAKES THIS VIDEO PERFECT

[@ashsmith7905]

Kalvin’s voice DROPPED since this

[@alexamerrill5352]

Honestly coming out to my mom couldn’t have went better. I was so scared. I told her we needed to talk about something and I say her down, then I panicked and said I changed my mind. After a minute of silence she said “is it LGBT related?” I said yes, and then she said “are you trans? Is that what you wanted to tell me” and I said yeah, she hugged me and I cried. I mean... with my Dad it went kinda bad but I’m glad my Moms such a huge supporter ♥️

[@chippygravy9293]

I came out to my my mum last night and she got really pissed and said “no, your my daughter, no one will accept you” and shit, I just cried so much and I didn’t even sleep. I want to try again or maybe tell my dad since he’s very supportive but I’m still scared. Anyone got any tips?

[@Isaac-ci5wy]

Someone and a lot of people you might meet in the future will accept you, don’t listen to those words, they are only said to sway you from doing what you want. Best of luck Chippy, you got this 👍🏿🏳️‍⚧️

[@elliotheg]

Update?

[@alexmerrill3636]

"Ha Mom, you thought" Living for that line Cam!

[@bigdykeenergy2040]

i've been binging your videos all spring break, and you've helped me come to terms with the fact that i'm definitely not cis. thank you so much. :)

[@spooks4421]

3:00 THE WAY CAM SAYS, "Oooh, nice.." WITH HIS VOICE AND THE JUSTNSKZHFKSKSJ IT'S SO SMOOTH AND HOT AND IT TOOK ME BY SURPRISE I WAS LIKE, "EXCUSE ME SIR!!"

[@dzfink2595]

I came out by telling one of my friends and they told two more of my friends then I told one of my sisters and I had my sister tell my mom. Nobody else in my family knows. My mom,sister, and friends where cool with it. Nobody asked me to say this I just wanted to. Thank you from listing/reading my comment. Have a great day!

[@SaffyH123]

love the beggining 10/10

[@alexanderderosier7691]

Baby kelvin lmao! Y’all were babies

[@necronyx7176]

Kalvin packered a punch ... pls tell me someone laughed.

[@anxi3572]

I laughed🤭

[@cyraheinao2857]

"he's almost at 100K" and I thought he got 500k subscribers in 8 months but it was three years ago lmao

[@alecvlogs1672]

I literally came out on the phone because my Mother lives three hours away from me and so I told her and she goes "you're my only girl..." and then the conversation went into awkwardness and she doesn't call me by the boy name I want to be called.... but IDGAF truthfully

[@stevekay5024]

tks for coming out. In the USA here trans acceptance is the next battle IMO, but I bet most youngsters are fine with it as they are with gays The more people come out the faster acceptance will grow

[@kylieelise9623]

Tell kale i love him

[@iamstupid7736]

I HAVE REALLY SMALL FEET THAT IM DYSPHORIC ABOUT! I WEAR SIZE 5 IN MENS 😭

[@none4530]

I am Stupid lmao

[@dannystevenson9005]

I am Stupid dude I'm 4 1/2 womens

[@AHAHHAHHA]

I am Stupid Relate to this too much, although I'm a size three and a half. The struggle.

[@shawnlee4246]

You mean size 5 in boys.

[@quinton-xlucifermurphy4411]

im a 3.5 in womens :/

[@tylergoida2579]

I was honestly like completely distracted by kale laying in the background for the first four minutes.

[@krazyk931]

I told my friend I was trans/trans questioning today and she accepted me and started mentioning you and I scremed, we bonded over our love for you haha. :)

[@royalfool5345]

"Mom I think I'm a boy" "Ok" what

[@liisa-mariepehka4106]

His eyebrows are goals 😂😂😂

[@vmp9sk4ll]

Oof Kalvin's voice was so high then lmao

[@just-the-slooperman-trampi3250]

I love how Kale is so random in the background XD

[@alteredalex]

"Dating is easy" sure my friend sure.

[@imjustme3867]

Kale just chilling in the back 😂

[@OllieInTheAttic]

My feet aren't small-small, but I'm at that weird in-between place where boys shoes won't fit and men's are hard to find in that small of a size; 6-7. If it were socially acceptable and not such a problem to businesses, I'd be barefoot all the time.

[@tw1nkhater420]

KALVIN IS JUST IN THE BACKGROUND LOL

[@luvmanifesto]

This collab is the BEST thing ever. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ricg9342]

Sam in this video you're hilarious, just seeing your facial jesters cracks me up. You have that "deer in the headlights" look when certain topics come up. 😜😊🙃. Dude I really love your channel... keep up the good work. 💖

[@ElizabethRhyner]

cam and sam i am aka my FAVES

[@makenna6374]

Kalvin in the back is a mood

[@Toby-vm5gq]

with the whole dating is hard thing i got lucky and just fell for someone i was already friends with who knew i was ftm since like the day we met- hes the best.

[@lukalarkins4650]

When I came out to my dad that was almost 2 years ago and today my dad said luka are you going to leave the house today. I said no. Then my stick in the mud brother chimes in and said old name 5 times. Then my dad said luka 5 times! I was just sitting in my room crying. Its april first and it was a bad day. It snowed up here in maine!

[@MyChristi123]

Luka Larkins :(

[@ariri3001]

KALE JUST DEAD IN THE BACKGROUND 😂

[@Mehcats69]

going on T this summer ☺

[@SupraMan38]

YAY

[@Malamitte]

Yay! Good luck! It’s so hard for me to jab a needle in my butt 😂

[@emikoe7558]

Good luck! Stay strong❤️

[@salma-vr2ug]

YASSS

[@zeevradolf7613]

Good luck

[@ashsmith7905]

Kalvin in the back tho lmao

[@lillikinney]

cams dysphoric about his size 8 feet when i wear 5's 😂😂😂

[@jessymae1997]

Maybe Cameron thinks his feet are small because he's tall cause Kale said they have the same shoe size but Cameron's taller so maybe that's why. Honestly I don't think feet size really matters but just because i don't doesn't mean that it doesn't matter to other people really though i don't think he should stress it too much the eyes make up for it haha ;D

[@Talia-lh5kn]

Love you Sam!! You are so awesome❤❤❤

[@LGBTR3naissance]

You and your friends are the BEST 🤣 So cool you made this video and hope to see you all do more together.

[@wassup3941]

Loving these types of videos🔥

[@alejandrasanchez7020]

Cam is daddy af

[@heresthemftea6157]

Bro kalvins voice is soo much lower now omg

[@Fenton.Callahan]

The guy in the back looks like he’s the third friend to walk behind his two friends because the sidewalk is too small

[@sabelafernandezfernandez2238]

love your videos mate!! love u xoxoxo

[@georgia7761]

kalvin just laying in the back staring 😭

[@GachaWoofi]

Kalvin being an adorable mood in the back ^w^+

[@dannyearley2687]

LITTLE BABY CALVINS VOICE AHHH

[@NoahSinclair1]

Kalvin is the mood

[@drewb.s]

i like ur longer videos but these are super funny so keep it up

[@daniellester51]

i bought a pair of boxers (I’m not out ) said I’m wearing them and just put them on and walked around shirtless

[@Delya13]

and that was Kalvin in the background :D !!! Nice vid guys !!! And ya , not all transguys have the same experience!!!!!

[@howthetubbiestelly]

this JUST got recommended to me now

[@anxi3572]

Same

[@Njlc1982]

Nice video you guys! I love hearing stories and your viewpoints

[@damystery123]

Omg Kalvin's voice is so different

[@laurajamie4209]

I love kale just lying there in the background 😁

[@gizellejames2779]

LITERALLY I FEEL OUT OF MY CHAIR LAUGHING BY THE INTRO !!

[@tylerscout7775]

Kalvin being a mood

[@kailovesthesky6690]

Kalvin in the back is just a great bonus

[@alextheftmgayandtransguy9622]

My friends were the first people I came out to and I still haven't told my parents because they are anti-LBGTQ so I be stressing