"Difficult" Bride Tries Over 10 Dresses In One Fitting! | Say Yes To The Dress Benelux

Bride Angela knows what she wants and does not want, but as the fitting unfolds, Angela seems to dislike more than she likes, sending Randy into a panic.
From season 1 episode 3.
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[@Mmarie1234561]

Yall better fire whoever is putting these ridiculous titles « difficult », « picky » bride - It's her money and if nothing in the shop is pretty or fits her well, then it is what it is. For that amount of money, no one should feel pressured or ridiculed for not finding the dress that suits them best.

[@graceaxisa4213]

I agree! Very misleading and unfair. I find that most of the SYTTD titles are attention grabbing and full of nonsense!

[@tinkeramma]

I agree. Take the terms off the bride and focus on the process. "Difficult Appointment Results in Magic" is still something I want to see. This bride wasn't difficult. Randy just had a hard time finding her the right dress.

[@PRIYAd78]

Exactly!!! I try on more times when I'm buying jeans!! Wedding dress is a big deal!! I wouldn't be surprised if I tried all patterns and silhouettes when my time comes! I guess I wouldn't want to go to Klienfields if this is their reaction for a bride who tried on just 10 dresses!😂😂

[@ittibittinurse]

@@tinkeramma and? Some brides are difficult. Randy is excellent at his job as are all these consultants.

[@ittibittinurse]

No firing that is their job to video titles to get the viewers attention. If you can do better, then apply for the job.

[@flakathy890]

In my opinion, a difficult customer is one who is mean, rude, argumentative, negative and hard to work with. This bride was none of those things. In fact, I found her delightful. Randy is always kind, thoughtful and gracious.

[@mariesmith1616]

She was difficult cause she just kept saying not to the options and didn’t contribute with suggestions. She didn’t even want to try the last one cause of the little blink it had upon Randy pushing she tried it and was the best. She even recognized she was difficult at the beginning. She was not rude or disrespectful but definitely was a difficult appointment

[@marybethbush8614]

I’m so glad Randy was honest with her about the first dress she loved. Just shows his integrity to wanting his clients to look their best and not just make a purchase. Love ❤️ you Randy!

[@Pinkheartbwell]

I'm glad too. I agreed.

[@V_4_Versace]

I agreed with him but I think she could have just worn one of those sticky bras for lift and a corset in the front to help her curves. Like most brides have all kinds of contraptions underneath to look good so I don’t think that should necessarily be a disqualification but if she didn’t want to do all that then yeah don’t go with that dress but I definitely think it could have been helped rather than just getting rid of it

[@pennalopievalentine6604]

I mean if that's not what she wants then she has the right to a different dress but showing fat isn't a bad thing at all and pushing that onto brides definitely won't help them especially in the long run

[@justcogitating]

I think the problem wasn't the dress, the problem was the bra. With a good bra it would be fine.

[@MCLamb1984]

@@justcogitating I think it was more the tummy area than the boobs tbh

[@zabindhanji]

I'm so happy that Randy was honest with her. He ended up finding her the perfect dress that met her requirement and flattered her figure.

[@bookmagicroe9553]

Trying on 10 dresses doesn't seem so bad to me. Most of the dresses didn't flatter her figure. I'm surprised they didn't show her a plain satin architectural dress. However, the dress she chose made her look beautiful.

[@AFAskygoddess]

When you spend over $2,000 for a dress that you will wear for one day, trying on over ten dresses is totally understandable.

[@TinyDancer888]

A satin dress would not have been flattering for her figure.

[@rebeccamagee5648]

My dress was the 8th one I tried. 10 doesn't seem so outrageous or difficult.

[@michellegulden1052]

I think they didn't because that style didn't fit the aspects she desired for her dress.

[@sandyandmaxrule]

Yeah, the dress I bought was the 7th. Do lots of people pick within the first three dresses?

[@bonniehare2372]

I didn't think she was difficult. Her manners were impeccable. I'm glad she found her most flattering, dreamy dress.

[@mariesmith1616]

Good manners difficult appointment. She even called herself difficult at the beginning of the appointment.

[@michelleanderson8370]

I didn't know there was a limit on how many dresses you try until you find THE dress....She shouldn't be called "difficult"

[@davisholman8149]

She is built like me...short-waisted & ample bust. It so so hard to find something that looks good on that body type.😞

[@TiBunCosplay]

It's more there's a limit on how many dresses you can try on at a single appointment. Typically an appointment is only 2 hours long and it takes time to get in and out of such elaborate dresses. I don't feel like they were calling her a difficult bride, but more the appointment was becoming difficult (and the title just is worded to be click bait-y) because the time was getting short and they wanted to help her find the perfect dress. I did my dress shopping back in October/November and went to three shops in total. Each time it started out slow and casual but as the end of the appointment got closer it got more difficult in looking at dresses because I only had time for maybe 3 more dresses but there were maybe 6 possible ones to look at that had been pulled for me. My yes dress was the very last dress I had time to try on in the 3rd shop. Luckily it was the end of the day right before the shop closed so they didn't have to rush me out right away and let me keep the sample dress on while we set up the order information (I loved it so much I didn't want to take it off lol even though the sample dress was far too large on me) If I remember correctly, my yes dress was the 27th dress I tried on over the total of 6 hours of dress shopping I had across all three appointments.

[@hotrod66ify]

There's a limit in how many you can try on during a single appointment. The appointments only run so long so that the next bride can have a chance. She should have made at least two separate appointments to try on that many dresses.

[@tabithamashburn8786]

At least she hadn’t tried on over a hundred dresses like the lady at Kleinfeld’s

[@RRonco]

@@TiBunCosplay per hour, divide the cost of your dress by 6, per dress, divide the cost by 27, per appointment divide the cost by 3 😉

[@tomaszwyszkowski2253]

Randy saved this lady from dress that didnt look good at her body and found her one that looks great on her!

[@ladyloneill]

Randy is such a class act--professional yet friendly, knowledgeable, honest!. He's so enjoyable to watch.Watching this bride and her family go through the process were particularly pleasant. No strife, no ugliness, all love. Well done everyone.

[@cbojorquez]

Randy is such a fantastic human being, that is why he has become such a global phenomenon.

[@jesspz3780]

Lol, a global phenomenon?

[@Kara-kx1lb]

I love Randy!!! ❤ seems like the sweetest guy around!!!

[@cbojorquez]

@@jesspz3780 😜

[@ishotthesheriff5686]

Global?????

[@r2Gt06]

Global, yes, do you doubt this show, especially being uploaded to KZbin, has thousands of fans in every part of the world? I am positive we can have a show of hands from almost any country right here in this thread. 🖐️ Eastern Europe

[@angrydonutface7420]

Why did they hate the first one for being unflattering, then love the second one even though it looked way worse? Randy was right and it's good that he was honest!

[@syniahthomas977]

The first one looks ugly and the 2nd is pretty

[@kyliepechler]

I wondered that too, then I looked back at her friend's face. You could see that her friend was studying the brides face when she walked out in that second dress. I believe her friend gave a positive reaction to it, because she had noticed that the bride really, really liked that one.

[@banker1313]

The one she chose was similar but it suited her figure far better....her chest looked far better (not drooping like in the other one) and her stomach was nowhere near as prominent(the other dress highlighted her stomach as it was more fitted and the fabric also showed it off far more). So a much better choice the one she picked.

[@cynthiasnyder1561]

She had a belly - most women who have children do - most women look better in dresses that do not hug their bodies so snugly.

[@lindacalderon6417]

They looked the same

[@airuseok]

Even if she tries 100 dresses.. if the dresses don't "WOW" her, it's a no. It's not "terrible". It's not her fault that the dress doesn't feel right for her. You can't choose how you feel about anything. If it takes 100 dresses, so be it. At least she found the one she was looking for and that's all that matters.

[@alpimarzi5501]

Seriously! This is her (hopefully) one and only wedding, she needs to feel beautiful!

[@ayajade6683]

If you take a 100 dresses you've got commitment issues and actively trying to avoid the wedding but putting the fears on the dress and/or an absolutely insufferable diva who is dragging their family/friends through hell because of multiple appointments.

[@luna-p]

@@ayajade6683 That's pseudo-psychological nonsense. I might try on 100 pairs of pants and end up with nothing because they didn't fit the way I expected them to, or didn't fit at all, or I don't feel like accepting pants that are too tight, too low, have too many holes, or no pockets just because those are the predominant styles. That doesn't mean I have commitment issues, especially if I'm not the one picking them out. A wedding dress is no different. Not everyone views a piece of fabric as a symbol of their whole relationship. They just want to be comfortable and not spend hundreds or thousands on something they don't like. I'd be pissed spending $20 on a pair of ugly pants.

[@b26550]

This! Like so expensive for one moment, better b right! Why wouldn't I try on so many?

[@ayajade6683]

@@luna-p it has been in peer reviewed academic journals like the APA'S own journal, the journal of psychology, in journals that just review the methodologies if you think that's not enough to be considered actual science then you can't even believe mental illness exists or has negative symptoms as those come from the same journals. it's what the dress symbolizes and fear of commitment that combines to create the issue at a certain point

[@MademoiselleRose40]

If I'm paying thousands for a dress and I needed to try on 10 or 20 dresses to find the right one, I'd be doing it and I'd expect the consultant to be onboard.

[@hotrod66ify]

Yes you are correct but you would need more than a single appointment to do so. An appointment only runs about 2 hours long so that the next ride has a chance to shop.

[@askarsfan2011]

I think the language barrier and the cultural differences is what makes this version of the show more difficult for Randy. He's a foreigner in a foreign land, and it shows.

[@mehitabel6564]

There are also the cultural differences when it comes to wedding dress styles and expectations, particularly in the strapless and bling or no bling areas.

[@dardarmissesv]

I love Randy’s honesty. He’s absolutely right with the bump on previous dress

[@patcusick8322]

Spanx will solve that.

[@clairebriggs4333]

I love how Randy is so honest because it didn't do her justice. 10 dresses is that it! I ended up trying 120 before finding my perfect dress. As soon as I put it on I knew! Thank goodness they weren't all at the same shop. But the 3 dress rule that some shops have would have killed me and I would not have returned.

[@kgrant3184]

I am CONSTANTLY ABSOLUTELY AMAZED at the transformations that the "right" dress creates. It is wondrous to behold. For other males and disinterested folks who like me have never/ will never directly experience this, watch these wedding dress search vids - it will blow your minds. Best Wishes to all brides & grooms. Cheers, All!

[@amandalupacchino6728]

When you are so certain that the dress is “the one” that you don’t care about the other’s opinions (and say yes in changing room), it’s the one!

[@graceaxisa4213]

I am so happy that Randy discouraged this lovely bride away from that other dress. I thought it was beautiful but it definitely did not give her support in any of the key areas. I love her final choice. Well done Randy!

[@rachelacevedo660]

I liked that Randy told her "It's not flattering on you", I like honesty, specially from a consultant.

[@rubywingo6030]

That’s not horrible. I always thought just trying on three was horrible. If I have gone through the trouble and expense just to get to Klinefeld’s you darn right I’ma gonna try on a load of dresses!!

[@kimworthem3914]

And it’s always the 3rd dress

[@labadoor2607]

It's an edited show!!

[@littleowl8356]

I think they have a limit of 10 dresses but I'm not sure.

[@BasicYTHandle]

I've seen comments in previous videos that the bride/entourage were at the salon for as much as 11 hours, with the bride trying on LOTS more dresses than shown online or on TV - just edited down, but, of course, with the drama still included.

[@kimmichaud4064]

Me too

[@JasmineApple]

I'm so glad Randy was honest with her. That dress was not flattering. The one she picked was gorgeous!!!

[@jennifertrahan7594]

I don’t understand why trying on 10 dresses is bad. She has the right.

[@rachelcura2738]

Absolutely !!! Shedoes have the right!! but I also believe if you try on too many wedding dresses then somethings not right in general. My mom went to 15 boutiques to find a dress she truly wanted and had to settle for one. And let's just say the marriage was not that good either.

[@ayajade6683]

Because at some point it's not the dress it is actually manifesting fears of commitment and wasting everyone's time.

[@rachelcura2738]

@@ayajade6683 exactly!

[@swaminim7058]

@@ayajade6683 I think you're reading too much into this.

[@ayajade6683]

@@swaminim7058 it's exactly the same concept of a couple fighting about how the dishwasher was loaded it actually isn't about the dishes it's a symptom of something else. The more dresses you try on the more it shows you're anxious about the wedding and the marriage falling apart due to commitment issues. They've literally done psychology research into this topic and studies with picking a wedding dress.

[@r.d.durfey5862]

I love Randy...his honesty is refreshing. His heart is gold...and his caring makes me tear up everytime. He is such a lovely person.

[@sabrinawinkel1603]

Man i just love Randy!! He treats every bride like his own daughter. So sweet!

[@LilliLamour]

Angela is too adorable when she's happy. Gotta love her!!!

[@sciencechus7243]

I just love Randy! He always has the bride's best interest in mind.

[@alicea9699]

Amazing Job Randy....your genuine honesty and sincerity raised our respect levels for u to the next level!

[@nadineweinberger1115]

If I go to a salon I expect the salesperson to be honest with me. They have seen so much more and a good one has an eye for what flatters etc. The entourage can be too nice at times because they do not want to point out any 'problem areas'. Well, we have seen brutally honest ones too 🙈 but Randy was so right!

[@Telojo4]

I don’t necessarily believe that the bride was a difficult person to work with in this appointment, but finding her a dress was difficult. This bride was nothing but polite. Randy just had his work cut out for him. He proved he’s great at doing his job.

[@songoftheriverwren]

TBH I'd rather have good subs in English and no voice-over, especially with the same person voicing for EVERYone

[@tonib.3016]

Agreed

[@RUmom08]

That dress was worth the wait. She looks stunning.

[@christinemeleg4535]

Since this dress is special, trying on ten isn't unreasonable!!! She knew when she tried the last one on it was fantastic! Sometimes patience really works.

[@Quantum36911]

I'm so happy she got her "BAM! Here I am!" moment! She looked stunning, most perfect sexy but classy dress ever!

[@kerina6594]

Randy was right! The last dress gave her an amazing shape 😍😍😍

[@bergercookie]

Randy is so amazing!!!! He knows exactly how to handle brides ❤️❤️❤️

[@shellydsouza8902]

Randy Yu did well to help the bride find her ‘yes’ dress!

[@nats9524]

It's interesting how different Dutch style is, I really like the episodes filmed in the Netherlands

[@meganpare8998]

Thank god he was honest he took the words right out of my mouth 😂

[@kathleenturner1522]

The dress was beautiful on her! It was Randys choice!

[@MCLamb1984]

Randy is so precious I just can’t with him. He’s so lovely 🥰

[@mz8194]

We Dutch love directness and honesty.

[@kaykonodine2954]

I really like Randy, he's a " Class Act "

[@theraweggfiles]

Randy is one of those people you just wanna hug and thank for being so kind.

[@lauraespat79]

I commend you on your honesty, Randy! You are a wonderful human being! ♥️♥️

[@MJ-xk2nk]

Gok and Randy are great.

[@karenl4634]

Randy did the right thing. I love him sooooo much!!

[@michellegulden1052]

That definitely was the gown for her. She looked beautiful.

[@donnaokoniewski3761]

The perfect Dress for the Perfect Bride. I'm so glad Randy encouraged her to try on other dresses, as he was right about the first dress she liked. It did not flatter her at all. The one she finally chose was Perfect for her.

[@enokxyi]

I wish this was subtitled instead of dubbed

[@barbarafischbach8480]

Great job Randy! She looks gorgeous ❤️

[@devong7124]

The perfect dress. Always be honest without being cruel. Randy is good at his job.

[@annetaylor4280]

YES TO THAT DRESS 100%. SHE LOOKS BEAUtIFUL. Good job Randy

[@marieslabbert6009]

The last one was THE dress! 👏👏👏👏

[@leisongivangomo4478]

Randy is spot on for dress #2

[@nadinegibson9976]

Randy your the man! You know your stuff and are an expert, she looks beautiful ! 🤗👏👏👏👏

[@savagetwin52]

Love a woman who doesn't depend on family's opinion and is very self assured. Bravo!

[@rottierumbles9451]

That second dress made her look fat and droopy , Randy was 100% spot on with that disaster, he picked the perfect dress for her.👍👍

[@erinpayne-place8776]

Can we just give Randy’s tie the love it deserves for this episode please? 🥰❤️‍🔥

[@primrosemwanza1911]

Randy did the right thing. Get her the most beautiful dress that fits her. He understands the assignment!

[@Sokolva]

I tried on way more than ten dresses during my bridal appointment! You schedule time for your appointment, and it’s fair game how you use that time as long as your are respectful with your bridal assistant and with the dresses. I had no idea what style I wanted because I rarely wear dresses so I tried on a little of everything they had to get an idea of what I liked before I picked. I also didn’t buy right away but went home to think about it and then decided. I was extremely happy with my dress!

[@joannephilbert7793]

Thanks for the honesty Randy. Despide the delay ir was worth it

[@kaycee5129]

I love Randy!!! He wanted the best fir the bride 😍 great choice!!

[@MsManningMsManning]

Stunning choice. She looks fantastic.

[@lauriejo5810]

Randy was right to be honest. This looks much better on her. It's gorgeous!

[@1Clearwords]

To heck with the dresses, I couldn't take my eyes off Randy's exquisite tie!😍

[@caroler4297]

She tried on 10 dresses, they probably pulled many more, what she chose gave her so much support and fit her so well

[@mariahelenabrum6734]

I don't really understand why the consultant chooses the dresses and not the bride, like they just met them and will choose a dress based on the description they give but I think it would be much more quicker if the bride searched as well 😅

[@tumblekelly]

As a bridal consultant I’ll tell you that it depends. If you are a bride who has done a lot of research, been to other stores, or has a very clear vision of what they are looking for I don’t mind letting that bride pick out their dresses. However, that is not the case for most brides. Many don’t know what they want, don’t understand silhouettes, fabrics, or the way the dress will look on their unique bodies. I’ve seen the dresses on women of various shapes and sizes so I know most of the time how the dress will look on the bride and that saves a lot of time because I will then only pull ones that are more flattering to her body type (we only usually have 1.5 hrs). The other reason is that in a high end bridal boutique there are hundreds of dresses and it’s just impractical to let people loose in the stock, especially considering that they aren’t usually sectioned off by price and you could easily pull something out of budget. In addition they look very very different on the hanger and in bags then they do on the body.

[@kaynovo8043]

Randy knows exactly what he is doing ! Bravo Randy !

[@erzsebetcstoth1513]

Randy idegei drótkötélből vannak. Tiszteletre és szeretetre méltó őszinte ember Elkötelezettsége, szakmai tudása, empatiája páratlan.....👍💝

[@linseyverhoeven4589]

Love these videos but the English dub is so distracting. Couldn’t you please just do subtitles?? Love seeing these brides from all over though!!

[@55melange]

That last dress is just stunning on her. Great pick.

[@jazlen20]

The voice over is annoying lol I rather have the subtitles. Since it’s one voice and then it’s like who’s talking? Lol

[@inekescholten-post]

My thoughts exactly! And since I speak Dutch and English I'm confused, to which voice do I listen? It's like two persons talking to me at once and my brain doesn't know which one to focus on😅

[@jazlen20]

I don’t speak Dutch, but I will always prefer hearing their voice over one voice over which it just blends it all together. The bride though spoke good English idk if her family/friend did. Still I like hearing different languages. :)

[@mrjohanlee]

7:02 Love what Randy did there

[@kelseystrouse954]

Had Randy not been honest with her, she would have missed out on the amazing emotional high when she found her perfect dress. Her wedding day wouldn't have been the same w/o the amazing confident feeling of having that dress. Good job Randy! I KNOW that wasn't easy to say.

[@catherinenieves5106]

Randy did the right thing by telling her the truth.

[@YaYaPaBla]

You did well Randy. You’re considerate, kind and honest.

[@allisonjames2923]

The first dress is extremely flattering. The second is definitely not & Randy said exactly the right thing. The dress she chose does look lovely on her

[@w15h0na5tar]

I think the first dress she liked could have been great with like a corset or body shaper underneath. I loved how the back perfectly framed her tattoo. Wonder if that's ever considered as an option at appointments

[@jedisam22]

If you need a body shaper or corset then it cancels out the open back that's probably why they didn't consider it in her case

[@w15h0na5tar]

@@jedisam22 Oh, that's so right!! I definitely didn't think through that idea long enough 🤦‍♀️

[@UndeadRamen]

Randy has excellent taste, it took a little longer but he was absolutely right in steering her away from that dress and to number eleven.

[@Willowy13]

The dress was perfect.

[@Nitzpitz]

i think I tried about 8-9 dresses and wanted to call it a day. The dress I wanted just didn’t exist and I was super tired. But then the lady at the store showed me they could alter a dress I liked to the sleeves I wanted, and that made it perfect!

[@luna-p]

Kind of fucked up to frame it this way as if their own website doesn't say brides typically try on between 6 and 16 dresses. I hate when they make brides out to be villains for totally normal behavior.

[@bodybalancer]

Love Randy’s gentle brand of brutal honesty lol, i get what people are saying about the first one she loved and yet- found it so refreshing she did not even seem to notice or care or be insecure about that (to the point she needed to have it pointed out to her lol) - it was what she wanted as far as the backless part and i can see why she wanted to show that feature, it’s lovely & I love her tattoo!!! but I agree the one they all settled on is gorgeous & do think it will be more flattering in photos 😉✨👍 PS! I think shapewear is underrated bc if they did happen to want to go with the first one, i think its possible just some great shapewear underneath could’ve fixed that little issue too 🤷‍♀️ just a thought. Oh & i do love (on the dress they chose) how the straps on the back come in, it makes it a little more unique, its very sweet.

[@nerualkralc9083]

Look at her! She's glowing!!!

[@csandford6011]

That dress is very flattering have a wonderful wedding.

[@Flash3-22]

Angela has a beautiful mature figure and they found the perfect dress to compliment her personality and shape. Her smile when she saw herself in the dress said everything. Good for Randy.

[@andydufresne5297]

The one she initially liked - the Olvi's dress - might have been okay with the right undergarments. Maybe a one-piece backless bodysuit (i.e., shapewear) with built-in bra.

[@katzlevyalon]

That was my first thought, but I don’t know how well a backless shaper holds… 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@starlightwhispers6781]

That back was beyond gorgeous and she was set on an ornate back

[@Methi_24]

Ik had niet verwacht om op deze programma een Nederlander te zien 😂

[@JanetCaterina]

Made me tear up - it was so good on her

[@allisonmcdonald5488]

The dress she picked was stunning xx

[@sariel8406]

What's wrong with trying 100 dresses? No woman must settle for any wedding dress that they don't like.

[@AlmostMiddleAgedASMR]

randy was right, she needed more support

[@brendakrause5639]

The last dress didn't even need altered!

[@user-ud3ii5nt8y]

Randy is the best.

[@angelic8026]

Randy is the Man!!

[@pamelafox7677]

That one was great.

[@jodifinnegan4453]

My favorite part of these videos? Randy!!! ❤️

[@stephaniehand503]

thank you

[@lilianagarcia2965]

Good job Randy!!!