Dignity & intimacy -- Most modern women don't understand these features of the marriage contract

[@userX1224]

Am a female and i felt educated listening to your talk . We need to hear such videos because its also the female figures in our life like mothers who pass on thier negativity frustration in life to their daughters especially when it comes to the intimacy aspects.

[@niranjanprabhu7881]

Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties. Arthur Schopenhauer

[@nickharrison3748]

unfortunately in Indian marriages 'mantras' are in sanskrit..so nither bride understands vows nor groom understands vows . the priest murmurs and goes away to conduct another marriage. we should translate the marriage vows in local language

[@theindianreviewroast6661]

Or we should start to learn Sanskrit

[@krox477]

Do court marriage

[@SuneelJain]

Many many thanks for describing things very nicely. After 16 years of marriage I feel and can relate many things. This machine when was in private job half neglected and after starting own business completely neglected due to non permanent income source. Whatever we mention in contract that is always subject to change as per time. So be in present always keep hope and live with full of happiness. Character is important and things will be change after money flows. I learnt that communication keep going, respect keep going, acceptance keep going all life. If i disregard my promise how i can blame my wife.

[@shadiap]

Interesting… explained in clear and crisp manner… appreciated…

[@bombayjohn3057]

Turkey line was hilarious😂😂Enjoying this series. Although those who are married can relate to these things easily, it's great somebody is talking about it openly. Love the way you put things across Krish

[@vishalaradhye460]

50% of life's happiness is dependent on marriage decision. Do take it seriously

[@tejbhatt20]

FACTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS . this is pure truth women needs to understand this

[@sarveshsrivastava8300]

Very very rarely anyone has guts to speak brutal truth in a public forum ....that too with complete context and consequences. Pseudo feminista may look down upon you calling narcissist etc, but you are playing a very important role, which nobody wants to play. Please keep it up 👍

[@omprakashdubey7325]

Very good video, Krishna raj Rao ji. You have taken right view on the issue.

[@kawaljeetsingh1970]

EXCELLENT ANALYSIS. THANKS

[@Aditya-4_4]

As an open minded 19 yr old guy , i agree. It fits well according to my own obeservations. I think what you said reflects in human nature no matter what era it is. Marriage suffers when one of the participant denys to meet the list of duties. I think problem arises in a scenario where both partners are like 70+ yr old. Man however still wants his needs to be fulfilled, which is not possible. On one hand you talked about s*xual needs of men, but let me tell you that fantasies of women are also very wild(from what i have read) which also can't be fulfilled.

[@Shivakumar-dk6ph]

what fantasies

[@Aditya-4_4]

@@Shivakumar-dk6ph can't describe here.

[@swatigupta2064]

I totally agree with your point of view but this expectations are not 100% possible with a working women..all men want to be treated like kings when they come home But they all want to marry a working women for 2nd income..but don’t want to handle house hold chores and want sex almost everyday..what is a working wife..?? She is also human..she will also get tired..if so much comfortable life men need and want to be treated like a hero then I guess marry a house wife..I don’t think men are mature enough to adjust with a working wife..she is also human..she also has a body that needs rest..not a house hold doing and salary earning and sex providing machine..she also needs some rest…if men expect so much from a working women and don’t understand she has some limits also and like a kid get emotional today I don’t get sex she doesent understand me..this is childish..and immature

[@Shivakumar-dk6ph]

he is talking abut houswives in general. women give the same reason like tired, hoise chores etc. and men dont find the qualities among working women like the man said in the video. thsts why mostly men marry housewives.

[@swatigupta2064]

@@Shivakumar-dk6ph Men need to ask the women as to what is lacking in sex, is she not satisfied in sex or she wants anything different..I bet most men won’t do this or take it on their ego is wife gives any feedback but then say women don’t want sex..I guess men need to be better in sex and accommodate and satisfy the woman properly rather than feeling entitled to get sex the way they want and not taking care if the women is satisfied, I guess that is missing from men part..if it’s not missing then maybe some relationship issue they need to resolve by open communication rather than ignoring the issue and sulking..

[@Shivakumar-dk6ph]

@@swatigupta2064 plase dont lie. women dont marry for segs or love for long term. but for stability and security. for majority women segs is like a chore. they dont have higher drive and testosterone. men never complain about thier duties. they bring what they promise, that they provide and look after his lady for rest of life. but most women stop having segs after having kids. some women even shame thier husbands for asking segs. they think by giving segs they are doing some favour. but its just her duty. people should understabd each others need and fullfill them. men always put effort, study things, try to make his woman happy. whereas todays women just sitting, complaining & whining and talking rights and choices. and also we men are not mind readers. wimen expects men to read thier mind and know on thier own wothout telling them.

[@swatigupta2064]

@@Shivakumar-dk6ph I’m sad for People this situation ,some women who might be like that..I wish you the best..but all women are not like that..atleast the ones I know ,sadly good people don’t find right partner..that is my problem with marriage..it should be none duty to do something..both should put efforts in keeping each other happy..it should not be a binding to live an unhappy unfulfilled life..if we are only not happy then how can we bring up happy kids..I hope god shows them some light people going through issues in life..god bless you :)

[@vira1340]

Sex usually takes about 10 minutes. If a wife does not care enough about her husband to provide this she does not deserve to be a wife. Men suffer a lifetime of miserable jobs to provide for their families. They have historically done so Women who thinks 10 minutes is too much sacrifice for a happy marriage do not deserve to be wives.

[@raviraj857]

Bitter truth 👍

[@snehasingh405]

I think most people fail to understand what true love really means. For most of the people the biggest mistake they make is LOVE = INFATUATION + ROMANTICISM. That is completely incorrect. Most people run away from true love tbh ( only if they are lucky enough to find it 🤣) I totally support the fact that marriage is a contract (unspoken) and I think that couple should often have sex (of course consensually) and therefore look for partner whom they are sexually compatible with

[@saimaahmed8759]

Btw really liked this video of yours, happy to see a male talking about this in a matter-of-fact manner....will try to check other videos of yours that you have uploaded on this topic .....abhi to yehi Dekhi hai

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Much appreciated, Saima.

[@swatiparekhji]

Ideally each family member should contribute towards common household expenses if it's a joint family. Parents and daughters in law should preserve their financial independence..

[@observer-fc7to]

Mature explanation by you sir , I'm a teenager if i would say something like this then I'll be cancelled that's why I think many young men should accept the path of Mgtow, sir what's your opinion on Mgtow?

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

MGTOW is an extreme reaction to a reality. Extreme reactions are unnecessary and self destructive.

[@NoName-bb2pu]

I'm a MGTOW man, retired at 37, made enough. Been 6 months so far without work and responsibilities (folks are comfortably self sufficient as well), I come from a chaste, quite reserved upper caste priest class, I do conjugate with women but completely at random and not more than a couple a year. Life's paradise so far. No regrets, no nagging and no schedule. This is life.

[@kanchanchatterjee7562]

Krishna Raj ji Sir, topic very nicely explained. Should come up with more such issues. 👍🏻

[@ganeshtathe1142]

Wow fabulous explanation of a hard subject. Hope feminist understand the moto of this subject. Psychology of married and unmarried man/ woman is almost similar only values, ethics & Respect makes them near perfect.

[@prashantmitna4467]

Perfect example of machine 👍

[@SS-rg5di]

There are ppl who are asexual(both men n women) i have a female frnd who is like this and luckily she has a husband who is asexual too.. imagine if she would have got with a man who isnt asexual.. her life would have been havoc

[@damn7637]

Sir, is that you too agree that marriage stands on opression of women? Like you said ki pati ka dhyan rakhe..etc etc .. Why though?? Is both working persons coming together taking care of each other not a law is marriage??

[@rohitchoudhury1]

Men do their duty..performs terms of the contract

[@damn7637]

@@rohitchoudhury1 that's what I'm sayin, this contract is based on keeping women only to home

[@checkandReview]

आपकी 1-1बात सच है 🙏

[@arupsarkar4558]

Very good video.

[@MB-ux4bb]

I don't hate whatever u have said. U r just stating facts

[@APstudent-y6s]

3:18 agree 💯

[@SS-rg5di]

Excellent take on the subject ! Agreed as well... loved the part where you said..intimacy can be built by words , behavior also.. not just in bedroom.. Will be grt if your create 1 vid frm women's POV as well....men's side of contract is smthing that profits him at the end...eg..when a man provides for family it fuels his pride and makes him happy But women's side of contract.... most of women.. they aren't that into intimacy (they way nature has built them) .. so in a way they are asked to "do smthing" even if it doesn't agree with them / benefit them.... ( reluctance)... this feels like an oppression on women.. to be honest

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

EXCELLENT POINT: "But women's side of contract.... most of women.. they aren't that into intimacy (they way nature has built them) .. so in a way they are asked to "do smthing" even if it doesn't agree with them / benefit them.... ( reluctance)... this feels like an oppression on women.. to be honest". Thank you for making this point. I will address this ASAP, hopefully tonight.

[@SS-rg5di]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal wow... so glad you acknowledged it... big fan !! 🙏😊

[@vikashranjan1436]

Thanks kriss sir

[@zangbuddha5541]

Good points

[@fullgaramfluctuate569]

I'm so lucky to gain this Important knowledge Krish sir We want more 💭🖊️

[@swatigupta2064]

Sir please make a video..how working couple should manage their expectations from marriage so both men and women both are satisfied…house hold chores,emotional intimacy, physical intimacy..given what expatriations you told about men..looks like if wife is also working then she should reach home and then do entire house hold work alone then treat his man like a king at home and then have sex at night and then get some sleep..don’t you think this kinda expectation from women is too much when she is also struggling at work ,home,kids..when does she get relaxation in life ???

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

I agree with you that the man should help or participate wholeheartedly in the household chores. But I have come to understand that even if this happens, women are generally not at all enthusiastic about sex, and tend to look at it like a chore. So now you have a tired and angry/frustrated man, and a physically more relaxed but still reluctant woman in bed.

[@swatigupta2064]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal I think Indian men are lacking in sexual skills like foreplay.biologically women need to be stimulated to want sex..I do feel most men are not satisfying their wife..they just satisfy themselves through sex but haven’t been able to satisfy a woman properly..I guess if a women is also finding the act enjoyable and relaxing and stimulating..even she would be interested in it..this is what I heard from a lot of women I know..if men are enjoying the sexual part but women are still reluctant even after having sex with her husband and women also have hormones it clearly shows the man is not putting efforts to satisfy the women but himself..or 2nd case can be the women has some hormonal problem..because after having a satisfying sex why would women not want to have sex?? Or the couple do not have any bonding in real life..emotional issues or other compatibility..any of this can be true..the issue is much deeper but sadly men can only process the part where women do not want to have sex..it’s not normal women behaviour..the mean is definitely lacking in either sexual act or other aspects in life..or both of them are not compatible..it’s not just about sex as per men think

[@vira1340]

Man not doing household chores are just an excuse women use to avoid sex. The real reasons for denying sex are very different. These range from weaponizing sex in a marriage to being contemptuous or unattracted by her husband.. Men should not fall for this. No woman ever got turned on by man washing dishes.

[@NittuArora]

Love u sir... This is very eye opening. .. But modern women is getting very toxic due fake faminism..

[@mpsclife111]

sir...thank u

[@siddharth0401]

Mard ka aajkal uthta nahin hai genital

[@vibhorkumar9098]

Sir aap is topic pe zyada videos karo....flats wagereh ka koi logic nahin hai jab family structure hi weak hai nothing is more important!!

[@mpsclife111]

mi lagn krnar ahe tyaaadhi tumcha video bghitla..tumchyasarkh koni sangitl nst..i am lucky tumcha video baghitla..

[@chetanakela4286]

Thank you sir

[@ragaashish33]

Live in ke baare main bhi bataye na, sirf marriage aur usme bhi Paisa, sex par itna focus kyun.pyar ka spelling log bhool gaya hain isliye itne sare problems.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Sure. Good suggestion. Thanks!

[@govindgadekar3545]

Nice sir

[@dilipshivgan716]

Rao sir good new topic

[@rvharikrishna]

Bro, you’re “mansplaining” this. This is a well known issue, and there are no easy fixes. Of course the wives know what they need to do but they won’t, they can’t, according to them it’s all about how we make them feel. Remember, it’s all about feelings for women folk. It doesn’t matter how good of a husband you’ve been and how well you’re doing your job, the “engine” won’t turn on. If you’re a good guy, you’re good for marriage, not for the fun being discussed. The more you rationalize with her, or worse, the more you manipulate or beg, the less of it you end up having. The more you go slay the dragons in your career, the more power you have, the more “bad boy” stuff you do, higher are the chances for the engine to turn on. But, no guarantees. Once she’s assured she got everything she needs from you, she won’t see the need to give you what you want. And if and when she does because she feels guilty, you can tell the difference and nobody is happy at the end with a fake act. Rare are people who have figured out ways around this and kudos to them.

[@vira1340]

It takes a lot of courage to say what he is saying. You are just a simp trying to curry favor with women by calling it mansplaining.

[@brainwavebufsss]

Solutions?

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Solution is better communications and more understanding. But both parties should want solutions -- not just one party. If one party likes the problem, then the problem won't go away.

[@brainwavebufsss]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal Perfect one sir 🙏

[@flaviadias6855]

Krish Saab , kafi ssehen Kiya hai aapne . Lekin iska koi ilaaj nahi hai. Maine apne bahut se doston ko aise sehne karte suna hai. So only solution is "Out source" when inhouse maintenance depart is unable to solve the problem.😀

[@Wavedawnt]

*Bhai par tujhe apni wife pe cheat karna ethical kaise lagta hai.... sex is so intimate and u are doing it with some other girl then what's the point of staying in relationship with your wife.leave her*

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Yeh meri baat nahin ho rahi hai, Flavia. Don't jump to conclusions.

[@debjaniroy3149]

What about female satisfaction..

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Female satisfaction is of critical importance.

[@SMD.Shorts]

New topic? Real estate ?

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Yeah, I know, right? Like, I should go to the grave sounding like a needle stuck on only one track: Builders tokens forfeit refund RERA kanoon flat-buyers underconstruction ready possession Lodha Runwal Godrej...

[@tassawuff]

Where is it mentioned in islam ? What sources are you reading sir ? You are absolutely wrong. There are some verses in "surah Nisa" which people misinterpret but i can assure you , you are absolutely wrong. If a woman denies a man sex, the man is told (in quran) to leave the woman alone and sleep separately. He cant beat or humilate the woman, although if she (as his wife) denies him gratification he can marry other woman with the consent of previous woman. Infact prophet Muhammad (pbuh) mentions that the best of men are those who are best with their women. You need to do an authentic research, read from reliable sources.... and prefer to read tafseer of Qur'an (incase you aee intrested). Dont stick to translation alone. Many verses of Quran are ambiguous and have been exploited by some evil "muslim" men to gain advantage over women.... its very unfortunate. I find you educated thats why i suggest you to read beyond the lines and dont present a horrible extremist picture of Islam.

[@rowenaravenclaw3483]

listen to mufti tariq masood . a husband who forces his wife to have sex is not doing anything wrong in shariah he can rape her if she is unwilling . you do not have proper knowledge about quran . a wife has to agree to have sex even if she is suffering from labour pains according to sahil hadith

[@brinjal1371]

Marry with consent of previous woman? Do you think the previous woman will give consent?

[@Patelakshay007]

As a non-muslim I believed him. Your comment was need of these times.

[@tassawuff]

@@Patelakshay007 Yes , religion has been politicised a lot. Just because followers of certain religion aren't perfect doesn't mean anything is wrong with the religion. I grew up in a patriarchal muslim household and later I became atheist in my Teens seeing how women in our family were treated. But finally, after seeing the complexity of word and being tired of reading western philosophy, I decided to attend lectures on Quran and basically read the book myself. I can't tell you how so much is misrepresented. Thankfully I reverted to Islam but I did fight the injustice in my family and society but quoting original verses from Quran.

[@saimaahmed8759]

And also, Krishna Rao ji, if you read the Quran, you will actually clear many of your sheer misunderstandings about Islam the faith, I am not talking about what Muslims do, but what Islam actually teaches.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Been there done that. I have a very close chuddi-buddy, a Sunni, who tried converting me for well over a decade.

[@saimaahmed8759]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal No don't convert please :) but please do read the QURANIC text itself, the translation. Do not go into tafseer, the detailed explanation. Just stick to the translation...if interested, I would recommend "The Nobel Quran" translation in English....I don't know which is a good translation in Hindi.

[@sangamb8429]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 😂😂

[@solomondavid1371]

@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 😂 👍

[@-doctor_ji]

@saima ahmed Islam has already been exposed by David wood, Christian prince and Aposthate prophet. A record number of Saudi youngsters have already given up their religion.