Disqualification -- The Advanced Game Cheat Code

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Todd V Dating

Todd V Dating

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@Samklemens
@Samklemens 6 жыл бұрын
1:20 - False time constraint disqualification 1:36 - The purpose of the disqualifier 2:45 - Who are you disqualifying when you disqualify? 4:26 - Value gaps in the interaction
@pacocamara4350
@pacocamara4350 5 жыл бұрын
Any examples of disqualifying sex?
@aaronthomas2598
@aaronthomas2598 5 жыл бұрын
Purpose of game is to escalate. When you show interest or give your power away you kill some sexual tension. Purpose of disqualification is to escalate without giving your power away. Disqualify her or yourself. The point is to lessen the tension or make it less obvious that you're escalating. Keeps it interesting. (Disqualify the sex). Takes pressure off of her. "Im not boyfriend material, I have a small penis."
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
Hate thia sht. Qhen i try this theyre like ok bye. Maybe i shouldnt care and move to an other girl. But it hurts broo will it work on others? Probably will but i dont wanna be lonely..
@thegrimspartan2806
@thegrimspartan2806 2 жыл бұрын
@@pacocamara4350 "hey, youre cute and all, but i dont think Im ready for sex yet." Cocky, but easily played off.
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
@@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 careful about all this! If she cares for u, don't ruin it by deliberately hurting her !! Why are you worth her putting up with that? If you can't phone, text, or protect & care about your girl, why should she give you a family, children etc., too many men are aggressive bullies...abusers... no thanks
@alexisgarcia-pl5on
@alexisgarcia-pl5on 5 жыл бұрын
Ok ok Guy's Heres a Cool trick i learned and in order to learn it we must keep in mind the Push pull Technique. The oposite of disqualification is ("qualification") or Acceptance. For instance, 1. If she say's or does somthing good ie: play's along, funny joke, ingages in the conversation, give her a positive accepting statement. ("I like your attitude") or ("Ok i like that") 2. If she say's somthing or does somthing that could be percieved as negative, tease her with a disqualifier. Now i know what your thinking.. how do i learn how to tease or disqualify? How far can i go?? What do i SAY?!? Well now that we understood the basic Push pull, do this exercise. 1. Wright 10 things that would be your ideal women. ("Note; Genuine characteristic's that don't include Look's") 2. Now Wright down 10 deal breaker's that are for you in a women. And BAM! You got your qualification list and Disqualification's. Real Skill's, Social success, Dynamics that work, is what you'll learn.
@androidkasha
@androidkasha 3 жыл бұрын
actually you didn't answer what to SAY
@miro11912
@miro11912 3 ай бұрын
​@@androidkasha 💀💀
@booopwappp1323
@booopwappp1323 6 жыл бұрын
In before Nick “Papa” Kho sends in the dislike bots..
@officejamz3160
@officejamz3160 6 жыл бұрын
Jose Vargas If you look at Nicks channel trailor you will find positive comment bots on that video when you keep scrolling down in the comments. So from that he would at least know how to use bots in general.
@officejamz3160
@officejamz3160 6 жыл бұрын
500 Dislikes this morning.
@booopwappp1323
@booopwappp1323 6 жыл бұрын
I suppose it's good publicity for Todd. "The youtube channel that RSD doesn't want you to see"
@booopwappp1323
@booopwappp1323 6 жыл бұрын
You just need to look at Papas youtube channel to realize he is behind it. He will put a video up for like 3 days and it will have 100 views, 2 likes and 10 dislikes and then in an hour it gets 11k views and over 100 likes from nowhere. Try putting a comment on his channel and see what happens..
@lumenforma2709
@lumenforma2709 6 жыл бұрын
Man, you're not just a pick-up artist, you are a pick-up theorist and an in-field social relationships thinker. What a conceptual clarity you have!
@candacecasey5634
@candacecasey5634 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah you guys are ignorant sheep. This advice is for men who are not worthy of any quality womans time or attention. Feigning disinterest is for men who are not mature enough to handle a real relationship .
@adunnou2075
@adunnou2075 4 жыл бұрын
Candace Casey ok candy
@Hari983
@Hari983 3 жыл бұрын
He is hands down the best in his field I have seen so far
@jischkebd
@jischkebd 3 жыл бұрын
@@candacecasey5634 It's not about feigning disinterest. It's teaching guys to actually have standards and screen for qualities that they find attractive.
@raphe6856
@raphe6856 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is rising from the ashes
@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN
@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN 6 жыл бұрын
Phoenix Vandehey
@VinayKumar-hs2xi
@VinayKumar-hs2xi 6 жыл бұрын
It's not the only thing that's rising (if you know what I mean). Oh, and tell your mom I said Hi.
@AB-ew3fd
@AB-ew3fd 6 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck, dude, that was so awesome!
@adibhutani9977
@adibhutani9977 6 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Way up !!
@tylerh2548
@tylerh2548 6 жыл бұрын
New name Todd Vhoenix. I will now hire a legal team to fight over the ownership
@DDoms99
@DDoms99 6 жыл бұрын
More concrete content in 6 minutes than in 2 hour RSD video.
@MarcusEMunya
@MarcusEMunya 6 жыл бұрын
Lool the uncomfortable truth.
@emilyp229
@emilyp229 6 жыл бұрын
He doesn't need to try hard he's not trying to fuck Todd you fool
@afonsodeportugal
@afonsodeportugal 6 жыл бұрын
@@emilyp229 A woman in here? Oh crap, we've been found out!
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 6 жыл бұрын
This is probably one of the most misunderstood and misused concepts in game, even though almost everybody is familiar with it. And it's also one of the keys to getting her to chase you... which means it's also a key to advanced game. For more, be sure to check out my FREE course at: toddwinnergame.com
@zdenekschor6986
@zdenekschor6986 6 жыл бұрын
Todd could you say some more examples of disqualification sentences? :) thanks
@marketingjustice677
@marketingjustice677 6 жыл бұрын
Hey todd would you go deeper on this topic with some infield or more examples on what specific points to use it? maybe a push/pull or maybe as a way to get her to qualify... I feel since this topic is only really experienced by guys who go out its very tough to understand it with just discussion
@drkvaladao
@drkvaladao 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Todd, very clarifying. I love when you teach it like this...talking about the purpose of it, and the misconceptions, it kind prevents a lot of misunderstanding when you talk about the other side of the coin, to not go to the other extreme. This video also answers the doubts that I had on the previous video "VALIDATION". Is it possible that she picks that vibe on you, without verbally saying, just by your demeanor and attitude in general? Would you say that's even better? Or would not be optimal because you would be too passive?
@Asher312
@Asher312 6 жыл бұрын
SO FCKNG TRUE
@sasykins3359
@sasykins3359 6 жыл бұрын
Personal question Hi man what do you think is so special about your current girlfriend like what makes her truly stand out from the hundreds? Thank you👍
@josepaez6423
@josepaez6423 6 жыл бұрын
#LeaveToddAlone
@eugenetkachev
@eugenetkachev 6 жыл бұрын
In Todd we trust!
@philiplau6687
@philiplau6687 6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@senornihilist186
@senornihilist186 6 жыл бұрын
Here before the high vibration dislikes
@gdargdar91
@gdargdar91 6 жыл бұрын
the frequency of dislikes is really high
@salembeats1875
@salembeats1875 6 жыл бұрын
Holy shit 😂
@jeroenconinx6121
@jeroenconinx6121 6 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 5 жыл бұрын
ROFLMAO!!
@augustaverbian
@augustaverbian 3 жыл бұрын
Girls in their sleepover party : Ah, you should tease him a bit Men in their annual bathroom meeting : you should 𝒹𝒾𝓈𝓆𝓊𝒶𝓁𝒾𝒻𝒾𝓎𝒾𝓃𝑔 the 𝑒𝓈𝒸𝒶𝓁𝒶𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃 ASAP.
@darktorrent_
@darktorrent_ 6 жыл бұрын
The purpose of disqualification is to allow you to escalate without giving your power away. (just posting this for myself here)
@marketingjustice677
@marketingjustice677 6 жыл бұрын
Todd's Soundtrack Game Tho!!
@badmudafucka4448
@badmudafucka4448 6 жыл бұрын
what is it?
@petekrumb4936
@petekrumb4936 6 жыл бұрын
Jayz, he had joey badass(or j cole) earlier and kendrick too
@minobutterfingers
@minobutterfingers 6 жыл бұрын
I began using disqualifiers recently and... god, they are truly powerful. I am a beginner, so I use them a bit randomly (not when I escalate, but intermittently in the interaction). Anyway, so powerful. Also, when I use disqualifiers I become less needy 'internally', which is a nice side effect. I learnt this stuff by watching Valentine University and Women. Thanks, Todd.
@ninad7525
@ninad7525 4 жыл бұрын
‘’If you’re kind of even-level [value] with the girl, you may want to be a little more harsh and dismissive to establish that gap’’, aka to make her feel like you are more valuable than her. That’s called negging.
@bluedrago2398
@bluedrago2398 6 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of how to do these? I feel like this video was all theory and no practical examples
@batista9322
@batista9322 6 жыл бұрын
Bluedrago239 i agree with you man
@jacobjenkins2190
@jacobjenkins2190 6 жыл бұрын
he gives kinds just look those up
@igormaxbr01
@igormaxbr01 6 жыл бұрын
Things like say to a hot girl that she is" too nice" and things like i do Neg but sometimes miss more examples about disqualification i wonder why no one talk about this realy
@JLKeener77
@JLKeener77 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, Todd. Whether men like to hear it or not, a woman has to respect her man and know he has other romantic options. Whenever I start getting lazy, too gooey, or too accommodating with girls I'm dating, they begin to lose respect for me and lose sexual interest. Methods like push-pull and disqualification are absolutely useful and necessary to keep a girl invested and working for your love and affection. Girls, like all people, appreciate things they have to work for. As jaded as it may sound, a woman should always know that her man could walk away and not look back.
@ExplainedWithMemes
@ExplainedWithMemes 6 жыл бұрын
here before the dislikes
@chrisknorr1326
@chrisknorr1326 4 жыл бұрын
4:30 I find it interesting that in giving examples of value gaps he doesn't even conceive of a situation where the girl might have massively more value than him. I think he's fundamentally deluded himself in a very useful way.
@harkitnebamake
@harkitnebamake 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you think it's delusion makes me think you think of yourself as low value. What is value after all ? It's just a subjective concept. Valuing yourself is all about self belief. People believe themselves on the experiences they have , the things they've done , the mountains they've conquered and the accolades they have. Todd has been with more than 2-3k women. Of course he values himself rightly
@tobykenobi2908
@tobykenobi2908 6 жыл бұрын
High vibrations dislike brigade have been overwhelmed by the consistency & quality of Todd's videos..The dislike-bots are costing them way too much!! So they've reverted to praying to Father J to resolve their problems with Todd..
@makegainz4218
@makegainz4218 6 жыл бұрын
They keep perverting further. The Father J thing is too far out there. Pretty soon they'll be sacrificing goats and having rsd rituals where they take it up the ass to proclaim their allegiance.
@Feel_My_Ubiquity
@Feel_My_Ubiquity 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, I'm going to watch this video but I can only stay for 10 minutes, I have friends waiting for me. (How was that?)
@bootlegmonk
@bootlegmonk 4 жыл бұрын
@@ENXJ 💀💀
@bahaatamer1245
@bahaatamer1245 4 жыл бұрын
@@ENXJ 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@definitelynottigerwhitten5865
@definitelynottigerwhitten5865 Жыл бұрын
Here's some of my favorite disqualifiers I've used recently: Before make out lines too You're crazy You're wild You're trouble You'll/ don't ruin me I'm too shy Be gentle You're bad/bad influence You're such a bad girl You'll be the end of me
@Elluzive
@Elluzive 6 жыл бұрын
The dislike-bots are on Christmas break.
@mohammadtahir8785
@mohammadtahir8785 6 жыл бұрын
Elliot Jay hahhaa ... too funny!
@booopwappp1323
@booopwappp1323 6 жыл бұрын
Looks like they are back after Christmas
@The_Void_Staring_Back
@The_Void_Staring_Back 6 жыл бұрын
nope..theyre back
@Sugabullets
@Sugabullets 6 жыл бұрын
Disqualifying yourself only works when it's obvious your higher value.
@pn1188
@pn1188 4 жыл бұрын
I feel better when a guy is honest with me, if he disqualifies me I lose interest and I pull away
@yuhmuhfuhkuh
@yuhmuhfuhkuh 4 жыл бұрын
Disqualifications can be honest tho
@harkitnebamake
@harkitnebamake 3 жыл бұрын
Lack of premise.
@ancientbehemoth6448
@ancientbehemoth6448 2 жыл бұрын
You are the MVP. Only a true professional can go down to the pure core of things and explain them easily and clearly.
@AestheticDelta
@AestheticDelta 6 жыл бұрын
might need a whole course on disqualifications just to master the technique. i see it but every situation or context that comes in play ..disqualification comes out of nowhere and its like a deke move in soccer. Honestly the timing of the DQ is very important too, where do you ususlly drop yours TD? first 1/2 or toward end of a convo
@jaredbellard2777
@jaredbellard2777 6 жыл бұрын
I think it's where needed. You have to monitor if you're making yourself sound thirsty by escalating too hard. I've heard it called breaking raport. You come in a little strong (push) the you disqualify (pull). You escalate with something that is a little stronger than what you have been doing to show intent. I think at this point it's time to disqualify because either the girl will question if she is good enough for what you just said, or you take the sexual pressure off a situation. In regards to the latter, you get the interaction to where you need it sexually where it could end up in the bedroom and not some platonic thing, you also take the pressure off by you not being needy. I call this "letting them know you'll fuck them but not needing to". The thing is you're not being socially awkward, needy, or Mr nice I'm not good enough guy. It's all about escalating the appropriate level and being a sexual option with any hint of need or pressure. You'll learn as you fo when to do it. Once you're over that fence her guard is down and if done right you have a sense that you got her. That doesn't mean. Lose your frame, it just means you're contending as a sexual option.
@swissswiss9966
@swissswiss9966 6 жыл бұрын
Let'' s promote Todd throught social media and make him great again,greater than RSD
@DAMfoxygrampa
@DAMfoxygrampa 3 жыл бұрын
I need to watch this before my next date. This is exactly my sticking point right now and I'm losing girls I truly like because of it
@lasredchris
@lasredchris 6 жыл бұрын
Disqualification : By saying something negative about the girl, you're saying that you don't want her. What is the purpose of the disqualifer In game you want to escalate. You're starting from you don't know the girl. The goal is sex. In this process, you will need to get physical and show interest. One thing you want to learn to do is get the girl to chase you. You don't want to be considered "easy". People want what they can't have. You do not want to be seen as needy
@hurrifanc.3434
@hurrifanc.3434 6 жыл бұрын
If you could catergorize the different examples into separate that'd be great! You the man Todd!
@hurrifanc.3434
@hurrifanc.3434 6 жыл бұрын
Videos*
@sundvallen
@sundvallen 6 жыл бұрын
Anyone noticed how Todd is much more free in his expression these days without RSD - who, ironically, teaches: "be expressive!" ROFL
@raghavsharma6148
@raghavsharma6148 6 жыл бұрын
Please Keep enlightening us with your art.Really good concepts Thanks
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 6 жыл бұрын
Such a great way of conceptualising what it means to disqualify. It's about not playing the fawning puppy - willing to do anything to get sex. Play it chill. Calm it down. A value guy doesn't get overexcited over the prospect of having sex with any one woman. Just be at ease in the situation and push-pull. Other disqualifies include talking about other girls. Easing off in terms of physical contact. Any thing that makes her think "shit, I need to put a bit of work in to get this guy". As Todd would say, it's about retaining your 'power' Being chill and not demanding sex also helps with plausible deniability and compliance from the girl. - sex isn't the only objective of the interaction, instead, think of yourselves as two cool people hanging out - who end up having sex
@6lu5ky86
@6lu5ky86 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize that the dating game had this many moving parts.
@mauropedrosa7317
@mauropedrosa7317 4 жыл бұрын
It’s a can of worms, brother. But what option do we have? 😂
@secondry2
@secondry2 6 жыл бұрын
FINALLY! Someone covering the fundamentals!
@dominicjan
@dominicjan 6 жыл бұрын
this might be the most important video in entire pickup ever
@Feel_My_Ubiquity
@Feel_My_Ubiquity 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, has anyone ever told you that you have a good guy face but a bad guy attitude 😜
@threat645
@threat645 5 жыл бұрын
Im in a relationship and Todd’s lessons still help me
@frankie137137
@frankie137137 6 жыл бұрын
So glad you're back Todd.
@d333pmind8
@d333pmind8 6 жыл бұрын
Classic mystery method :) Nice
@astrog1012
@astrog1012 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is the future of pickup
@SuperSkitzzo
@SuperSkitzzo 6 жыл бұрын
That re-upload.....
@topalaj
@topalaj 6 жыл бұрын
SuperSkitzzo I think he linked to the wrong facebook group ^^
@johnnybatafljeska6368
@johnnybatafljeska6368 6 жыл бұрын
It would be nice if we had an example
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 6 жыл бұрын
I was really confused, personally. edit: rewatched the vid, not confused anymore
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 6 жыл бұрын
There were a few in there, but here are some more. "I'm not so sure about you yet," "I have to go in a minute," "I'm not boyfriend material," "I don't think we should have the sex tonight," etc. etc.
@johnnybatafljeska6368
@johnnybatafljeska6368 6 жыл бұрын
aha, but If I understand, the point is really to "crash" good vibes you're having with the girl. Do you disqualify only after you've given some compliments or statements of intent?
@taylorrobens2761
@taylorrobens2761 6 жыл бұрын
Johnny Batafljeska you’re not stopping good vibes. You’re telling her the good vibes probably won’t include sex. (And then if she likes you she’ll chase for you)
@LuisJavierStudio
@LuisJavierStudio 6 жыл бұрын
Johnny Batafljeska No you disqualify when things get weird because you make a move that shes not comfortable with (probably because shes not ready yet for that) then that way you can release the tension of the weirdness and after that you can continuing attracting her and make the move later on when shes ready
@SpaceXForce
@SpaceXForce 2 жыл бұрын
Disqualifying is like jigging bait or a fast, slow retrieve. It's more enticing to chase something that has a range of motion, variation.
@depressedessendonfan5702
@depressedessendonfan5702 6 жыл бұрын
For someone who went through the process through pick up of inner game, im coming back from my transformations in other areas in life and seeing how cool this shit is now. Its like a jiu jitsu move, gives your brain some social strategies for when youre in those awkward moments
@pdorism
@pdorism 3 жыл бұрын
This kind of thing only works on insane girls that you shouldn't want to be dealing with anyway. I've ruined a bunch of opportunities by pulling this shit when I should just have been nice and direct and played it straight. I think a lot of guys tend to overdo the asshole thing. It's good for protecting your ego I guess, but it's not gonna get you laid.
@robertromero8094
@robertromero8094 4 жыл бұрын
I just recently unleashed the beast, my pick of women at the bar. I wanted to step my game up even more this video is killer. Thanks.
@bigdaddi2421
@bigdaddi2421 6 жыл бұрын
😂petty..where those 500 dislikes came from all of a sudden...too bad for them Todd subscribers increaseing every week
@guinthehouse
@guinthehouse 6 жыл бұрын
Oh, they want me to fall (fall) Fall from the top (top) They want me to drop (drop) They want me to stop (stop) They want me to go (go) I'm already gone (already) The shit that I'm on (hey) I'm already home I feel like the lyrics are actually what Todd feels right now with his situation...w/ RSD
@cartzar
@cartzar 5 жыл бұрын
Def wanna see examples in field. Putting these concepts into practice is the difficult part imo
@flow3rpow3r
@flow3rpow3r 6 жыл бұрын
Love your new shit Todd. You seem to be flourishing without the RSD machine. Especially like the ending music haha. I'll see you on bootcamp soon buddy. I didn't like you all that much in RSD but now that you're doing your pure own shit its golden. Thanks bro!
@prodeg6382
@prodeg6382 6 жыл бұрын
All your Information Is just pure gold, thank you todd
@phillipschristoph
@phillipschristoph 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the Christmas gift! I used to disqualify more from M/M but I see that was only a partial piece of the whole pie. Thanks for widening the view of what a dis-qualifier is todd!
@allenmciver1888
@allenmciver1888 6 жыл бұрын
This works so well. The ultimate is the FriendZone maneuver.
@robertl.7657
@robertl.7657 6 жыл бұрын
Todd ,when are you doing one for "FRAME "???
@saem901901
@saem901901 6 жыл бұрын
Brace yourselves my fellow gamers, the nick kho dislike bots are coming.
@jonathanmulumba6514
@jonathanmulumba6514 6 жыл бұрын
after watching a 1000 videos of rsd that's the first time I fully understand the concept of disqualifying
@shacharcohen8664
@shacharcohen8664 5 жыл бұрын
Most important video in the whole you tube channel
@bobopatchnosuke229
@bobopatchnosuke229 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't know you love hip-hop. Jay Z - Already Home. 0:00 👌🔥
@jit-r5b
@jit-r5b 5 жыл бұрын
Voice rather silent, whereas outro rose my heart beat rate. I'm not sure if you and I will get along...
@viktorreznov984
@viktorreznov984 5 жыл бұрын
Somehow girls are good at using them. İ've met so many girls in the last 6 months and they were all giving the "i'm attracted" signals. They always try to find a sweet spot in value gap. They bring me down when needed and wait for me to bring them down when needed. When a girl "misinterprets" a compliment you gave her she is trying to make you disqualify so she can feel the value gap between you and her. Don't be like "no i said i like your hair". Just let her adjust it guys. Females are good at this kind of shit.
@HORIZONHUNT
@HORIZONHUNT 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jedi master👌🏻
@sebastianbaran9645
@sebastianbaran9645 6 жыл бұрын
Todd, this is great! I make a lot of cold calls, and disqualifying at the beginning of the conversation allows me to ask intelligence-gathering questions so that I can trial-close early and often. - Sebastian
@dintelalovic8110
@dintelalovic8110 6 жыл бұрын
The Toddinator is BACK!
@fernandov1492
@fernandov1492 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is like the Ben Shapiro of pick up; thinks and talks so fast and precise
@officejamz3160
@officejamz3160 6 жыл бұрын
Fernando Alatorre Ben Shapiro vs MILO - Todd vs RSD
@arturo8475
@arturo8475 6 жыл бұрын
Fernando Alatorre Ben Shapiro is God. Todd is nowhere near his intellect
@joel-yd1rv
@joel-yd1rv 6 жыл бұрын
Shapiro is crazy smart, but doesn't seem to stop him from being sucked into ideology and dogma
@guinthehouse
@guinthehouse 6 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo
@InfinityCurve
@InfinityCurve 6 жыл бұрын
Wut? Shapiro is creepy as fuck. Dont understand all the fanboys. If Shapiro is your alpha your father failed hard :(
@RedRumble14
@RedRumble14 4 ай бұрын
Omggg I’m already Home is souch a cool song! Don’t mind me, just rewatching some classic Todd on a summer night
@HerbDoesEverything
@HerbDoesEverything 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is the James Harden of pickup
@hafidhrendyanto2690
@hafidhrendyanto2690 3 жыл бұрын
A question So, is no contact just a very big disqulifier?
@brucedaspruce1545
@brucedaspruce1545 6 жыл бұрын
Interesting explanation. Not that I really disagree with anything Todd says here, but I've had a somewhat different frame about it. If at the moment you walk in and start a conversation with a woman you have already pre-determined that you want to have sex with her based on looks alone, she can feel that you aren't screening her and don't really have a deeper sense of what you want in a woman. She's already won you over, because she IS innately of higher value. It comes off as low-value, because you are not trying to make sure she's got traits (especially aspects of her character) that really turn YOU on. The harder you can screen (qualify) her, while making sure she can get through the gauntlet you set up for her, the better. If you say that you love it when a woman knows how to put a lot of erotic expression into her voice - because you love it when a woman does that - you are using the things that genuinely spike YOUR interest as a challenge that she has to meet. I think it's best to only use the stuff that you genuinely want *this* girl to meet. If she sounds like a muppet and you are still into her, use something other than the erotic voice thing, or be ready for her to show you that her muppet voice is sexy. In the long-run, however, the more clarity you have about exactly what you want in a woman, the better your ultimate outcome will be - especially for a longer term relationship. If you've screened her super hard, she's going to feel much much happier with herself for having "won" you and your continued screening, as the relationship progresses, gives her a direction to grow in for becoming an even awesomer girlfriend. Precise and well-formed qualification and disqualification that you are genuinely congruent with indirectly tell a woman, " I'm an awesome lover and this is really really going to be worthwhile." Qualification distinguishes you in her mind as a man that she got to have sex with - it was hard to get you - instead of one that she feels blase about afterward. Know what you want in a woman with as much clarity as possible and don't overlook the questionable aspects of who she is. Screen her out if she doesn't fit what you really like (and maybe there are a number of different things you really like - obviously liking chocolate cake doesn't mean you can't also like strawberry cheesecake). Being genuinely able to screen *this* one out means there's another one you will meet soon who will be excited and turned on by the way you are screening her.
@P0ETICsin
@P0ETICsin 6 жыл бұрын
Good for more content answering one question a week from the facebook group .
@TheDragonFoodKing
@TheDragonFoodKing 7 ай бұрын
I do not like the statement “none obvious” in the sense of making things non obvious. I believe we should be aware as much as we can handle and do not remove the truth from people by manipulating reality.
@PUARS
@PUARS 6 жыл бұрын
Basically, just don't act thirsty.
@Adrian-ly7by
@Adrian-ly7by 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly Tod could like work for the CIA as a interrogator
@klofto212
@klofto212 6 жыл бұрын
"High Vibration Dislike Brigade incoming in 3... 2... 1..." - Tkachev Eugene
@badass1g
@badass1g 6 жыл бұрын
Your music is awesome lately!
@karmaschen4035
@karmaschen4035 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that is exactly the kind of content i wish for: Techniques shortly but well explained!!! Maybe a lil example in practice added would ne nice, but THIS is awesome!!! More of those vids, please. You rock, Todd!!!
@PKP1
@PKP1 5 жыл бұрын
I might have won a girl subconsciously through this technique
@eliascontreras1951
@eliascontreras1951 4 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of what should i say?
@danielbautista1693
@danielbautista1693 6 жыл бұрын
Todd you should have a 30 day challange book just like styles(rules of the game) I think it would be very helpful and fun.
@mattleppard3734
@mattleppard3734 6 жыл бұрын
Yet another quality video that is so 'on point' yet nice and short and easy to understand. Thanks for the quality content Todd.
@yazanodeh8002
@yazanodeh8002 4 жыл бұрын
Todd makes me feel warm
@NickyRoads
@NickyRoads 6 жыл бұрын
kid cudi>>> never stop todd. amazing work, awesome content, the best value.
@Kamn_exe
@Kamn_exe 6 жыл бұрын
slipped up right before a crucial point..should finish watching these vids before i text
@officejamz3160
@officejamz3160 6 жыл бұрын
Dislike bots finally came in today i see. I am telling you todd, make a video titled "Pickup gurus HATE this secret to getting girls" and make the dislikes work for you.
@MrDominic600
@MrDominic600 6 жыл бұрын
OfficeJamZ oh ya
@TA-ml5et
@TA-ml5et 6 жыл бұрын
Is there a way to get in touch with Todd? Like fb group, mail etc?
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 6 жыл бұрын
Todd V Insiders Facebook group
@flamingjob2
@flamingjob2 6 жыл бұрын
thanks todd . the king of pickup
@v-campsportsleague6263
@v-campsportsleague6263 4 ай бұрын
You know the dating world is shot when someone has to go to this extent…
@gunlock177
@gunlock177 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly wish I watched this when it was released would've helped a ton at uni
@OSREVNIV
@OSREVNIV 6 жыл бұрын
1:22 what if she keeps asking me "didnt you want to leave" when should i use this esclation thing? when i really need to go soon or should i just say it and then stay for hours with her?
@insmnia6117
@insmnia6117 5 жыл бұрын
LightnessOfTheLife shit test probably
@insmnia6117
@insmnia6117 5 жыл бұрын
I would say it in an Innocent way like just to disqualify on a soft note
@debangsubanerjee2155
@debangsubanerjee2155 6 жыл бұрын
Now this is some quality practical dating advice.. Thanks a bunch Todd..
@shtangarang9580
@shtangarang9580 5 жыл бұрын
To simplify this video, its about understanding how to bring a womens guard down while building sexual tention.
@jasminelovexo
@jasminelovexo 6 жыл бұрын
Could you coment some examples of disqualificators that work well 4 u? Ty
@universetraveler5826
@universetraveler5826 5 ай бұрын
When he says: pulling away on an escalation 1:23, does he mean pulling away at an escalatable moment that hasn’t been escalated yet or pulling away AFTER an escalation was just done?
@DoglinsShadow
@DoglinsShadow 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed- thanks.
@houndofzoltan
@houndofzoltan 4 жыл бұрын
Saying "I have a small penis" , obviously dependent on how you say it, is almost never lowering value. It's self deprecating humour that more sophisticated girls usually like. Girls like to see you're not big-heading and want to go around boasting.
@LK0408
@LK0408 6 жыл бұрын
When I was this early...this video wasn't disliked by RSD bots.
@parkerdodson3350
@parkerdodson3350 6 жыл бұрын
I've gamed at parties before where I would talk with the girl for a bit then leave to go somewhere else in the room (eventually coming back to them, or usually waiting on them to chase me). This may not be quite what Todd is talking about but I feel like it had a similar effect.
@laporte1625
@laporte1625 6 жыл бұрын
Great video once again, but like some others, it would be even better with some quick practical examples. Thank you!
@adamtash2891
@adamtash2891 2 жыл бұрын
i feel like perhaps the examples are purposefully let out so we have to buy his products....cuz this is my same thought on almost all his vids...great work though!
@DDoms99
@DDoms99 6 жыл бұрын
More concrete content in 6 minutes than in 2 hour RSD video.
@cloudstrife7349
@cloudstrife7349 6 жыл бұрын
Again with the chode comparison comments and the army of chodes to upvote. Why can't you take away usefulness from both?
@rgf5432
@rgf5432 6 жыл бұрын
Cloud Strife finally someone who gets it
@mickr2132
@mickr2132 6 жыл бұрын
Cloud strife if you valued your time why would you watch a video that was 2 hours long when you can get the same value out of a video that was less than half the length? So I think before you go off calling someone a chode because they liked a comment you should do some self examining and second thing is you should never trust someone who takes longer than a half hour to get to the point.
@cloudstrife7349
@cloudstrife7349 6 жыл бұрын
mac ro 1) you're an idiot if you think all their videos are 2 hours. check the old stuff from the instructors, especially Julien's. that stuff is all 10 minutes and under and covers exactly what Todd is covering. 2) you're an idiot if you can't see the value in the content contained within those two hours. they provide a narrative and justification for these methods. 3) "you should never trust someone who takes longer than half hour to get to the point" so I take it you don't read books? 4) you can play the videos at 2x speed and watch in 1 hour, it's still very easy to follow 5) if you like a chode opinion, then you are a chode.
@DDoms99
@DDoms99 6 жыл бұрын
Cloud Strife, there's nothing useful about wasting 2 hours on watching someone amuse himself and talking to the audience like they're complete depressed morons. If you have that much time to waste, I can only assume what you do with the rest of your life.
@hireecejulie
@hireecejulie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm kinda confused. So you're maintaining the Tension? Or are you releasing the Tension? Or both.
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