1:20 - False time constraint disqualification 1:36 - The purpose of the disqualifier 2:45 - Who are you disqualifying when you disqualify? 4:26 - Value gaps in the interaction
@pacocamara43505 жыл бұрын
Any examples of disqualifying sex?
@aaronthomas25985 жыл бұрын
Purpose of game is to escalate. When you show interest or give your power away you kill some sexual tension. Purpose of disqualification is to escalate without giving your power away. Disqualify her or yourself. The point is to lessen the tension or make it less obvious that you're escalating. Keeps it interesting. (Disqualify the sex). Takes pressure off of her. "Im not boyfriend material, I have a small penis."
@ihelpyouwitheverything47202 жыл бұрын
Hate thia sht. Qhen i try this theyre like ok bye. Maybe i shouldnt care and move to an other girl. But it hurts broo will it work on others? Probably will but i dont wanna be lonely..
@thegrimspartan28062 жыл бұрын
@@pacocamara4350 "hey, youre cute and all, but i dont think Im ready for sex yet." Cocky, but easily played off.
@loveispatientloveiskind22052 жыл бұрын
@@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 careful about all this! If she cares for u, don't ruin it by deliberately hurting her !! Why are you worth her putting up with that? If you can't phone, text, or protect & care about your girl, why should she give you a family, children etc., too many men are aggressive bullies...abusers... no thanks
@alexisgarcia-pl5on5 жыл бұрын
Ok ok Guy's Heres a Cool trick i learned and in order to learn it we must keep in mind the Push pull Technique. The oposite of disqualification is ("qualification") or Acceptance. For instance, 1. If she say's or does somthing good ie: play's along, funny joke, ingages in the conversation, give her a positive accepting statement. ("I like your attitude") or ("Ok i like that") 2. If she say's somthing or does somthing that could be percieved as negative, tease her with a disqualifier. Now i know what your thinking.. how do i learn how to tease or disqualify? How far can i go?? What do i SAY?!? Well now that we understood the basic Push pull, do this exercise. 1. Wright 10 things that would be your ideal women. ("Note; Genuine characteristic's that don't include Look's") 2. Now Wright down 10 deal breaker's that are for you in a women. And BAM! You got your qualification list and Disqualification's. Real Skill's, Social success, Dynamics that work, is what you'll learn.
@androidkasha3 жыл бұрын
actually you didn't answer what to SAY
@miro119123 ай бұрын
@@androidkasha 💀💀
@booopwappp13236 жыл бұрын
In before Nick “Papa” Kho sends in the dislike bots..
@officejamz31606 жыл бұрын
Jose Vargas If you look at Nicks channel trailor you will find positive comment bots on that video when you keep scrolling down in the comments. So from that he would at least know how to use bots in general.
@officejamz31606 жыл бұрын
500 Dislikes this morning.
@booopwappp13236 жыл бұрын
I suppose it's good publicity for Todd. "The youtube channel that RSD doesn't want you to see"
@booopwappp13236 жыл бұрын
You just need to look at Papas youtube channel to realize he is behind it. He will put a video up for like 3 days and it will have 100 views, 2 likes and 10 dislikes and then in an hour it gets 11k views and over 100 likes from nowhere. Try putting a comment on his channel and see what happens..
@lumenforma27096 жыл бұрын
Man, you're not just a pick-up artist, you are a pick-up theorist and an in-field social relationships thinker. What a conceptual clarity you have!
@candacecasey56344 жыл бұрын
Yeah you guys are ignorant sheep. This advice is for men who are not worthy of any quality womans time or attention. Feigning disinterest is for men who are not mature enough to handle a real relationship .
@adunnou20754 жыл бұрын
Candace Casey ok candy
@Hari9833 жыл бұрын
He is hands down the best in his field I have seen so far
@jischkebd3 жыл бұрын
@@candacecasey5634 It's not about feigning disinterest. It's teaching guys to actually have standards and screen for qualities that they find attractive.
@raphe68566 жыл бұрын
Todd is rising from the ashes
@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN6 жыл бұрын
Phoenix Vandehey
@VinayKumar-hs2xi6 жыл бұрын
It's not the only thing that's rising (if you know what I mean). Oh, and tell your mom I said Hi.
@AB-ew3fd6 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck, dude, that was so awesome!
@adibhutani99776 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Way up !!
@tylerh25486 жыл бұрын
New name Todd Vhoenix. I will now hire a legal team to fight over the ownership
@DDoms996 жыл бұрын
More concrete content in 6 minutes than in 2 hour RSD video.
@MarcusEMunya6 жыл бұрын
Lool the uncomfortable truth.
@emilyp2296 жыл бұрын
He doesn't need to try hard he's not trying to fuck Todd you fool
@afonsodeportugal6 жыл бұрын
@@emilyp229 A woman in here? Oh crap, we've been found out!
@ToddVDating6 жыл бұрын
This is probably one of the most misunderstood and misused concepts in game, even though almost everybody is familiar with it. And it's also one of the keys to getting her to chase you... which means it's also a key to advanced game. For more, be sure to check out my FREE course at: toddwinnergame.com
@zdenekschor69866 жыл бұрын
Todd could you say some more examples of disqualification sentences? :) thanks
@marketingjustice6776 жыл бұрын
Hey todd would you go deeper on this topic with some infield or more examples on what specific points to use it? maybe a push/pull or maybe as a way to get her to qualify... I feel since this topic is only really experienced by guys who go out its very tough to understand it with just discussion
@drkvaladao6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Todd, very clarifying. I love when you teach it like this...talking about the purpose of it, and the misconceptions, it kind prevents a lot of misunderstanding when you talk about the other side of the coin, to not go to the other extreme. This video also answers the doubts that I had on the previous video "VALIDATION". Is it possible that she picks that vibe on you, without verbally saying, just by your demeanor and attitude in general? Would you say that's even better? Or would not be optimal because you would be too passive?
@Asher3126 жыл бұрын
SO FCKNG TRUE
@sasykins33596 жыл бұрын
Personal question Hi man what do you think is so special about your current girlfriend like what makes her truly stand out from the hundreds? Thank you👍
@josepaez64236 жыл бұрын
#LeaveToddAlone
@eugenetkachev6 жыл бұрын
In Todd we trust!
@philiplau66876 жыл бұрын
Lol
@senornihilist1866 жыл бұрын
Here before the high vibration dislikes
@gdargdar916 жыл бұрын
the frequency of dislikes is really high
@salembeats18756 жыл бұрын
Holy shit 😂
@jeroenconinx61216 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@TheRumpelstinskin5 жыл бұрын
ROFLMAO!!
@augustaverbian3 жыл бұрын
Girls in their sleepover party : Ah, you should tease him a bit Men in their annual bathroom meeting : you should 𝒹𝒾𝓈𝓆𝓊𝒶𝓁𝒾𝒻𝒾𝓎𝒾𝓃𝑔 the 𝑒𝓈𝒸𝒶𝓁𝒶𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃 ASAP.
@darktorrent_6 жыл бұрын
The purpose of disqualification is to allow you to escalate without giving your power away. (just posting this for myself here)
@marketingjustice6776 жыл бұрын
Todd's Soundtrack Game Tho!!
@badmudafucka44486 жыл бұрын
what is it?
@petekrumb49366 жыл бұрын
Jayz, he had joey badass(or j cole) earlier and kendrick too
@minobutterfingers6 жыл бұрын
I began using disqualifiers recently and... god, they are truly powerful. I am a beginner, so I use them a bit randomly (not when I escalate, but intermittently in the interaction). Anyway, so powerful. Also, when I use disqualifiers I become less needy 'internally', which is a nice side effect. I learnt this stuff by watching Valentine University and Women. Thanks, Todd.
@ninad75254 жыл бұрын
‘’If you’re kind of even-level [value] with the girl, you may want to be a little more harsh and dismissive to establish that gap’’, aka to make her feel like you are more valuable than her. That’s called negging.
@bluedrago23986 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of how to do these? I feel like this video was all theory and no practical examples
@batista93226 жыл бұрын
Bluedrago239 i agree with you man
@jacobjenkins21906 жыл бұрын
he gives kinds just look those up
@igormaxbr016 жыл бұрын
Things like say to a hot girl that she is" too nice" and things like i do Neg but sometimes miss more examples about disqualification i wonder why no one talk about this realy
@JLKeener776 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, Todd. Whether men like to hear it or not, a woman has to respect her man and know he has other romantic options. Whenever I start getting lazy, too gooey, or too accommodating with girls I'm dating, they begin to lose respect for me and lose sexual interest. Methods like push-pull and disqualification are absolutely useful and necessary to keep a girl invested and working for your love and affection. Girls, like all people, appreciate things they have to work for. As jaded as it may sound, a woman should always know that her man could walk away and not look back.
@ExplainedWithMemes6 жыл бұрын
here before the dislikes
@chrisknorr13264 жыл бұрын
4:30 I find it interesting that in giving examples of value gaps he doesn't even conceive of a situation where the girl might have massively more value than him. I think he's fundamentally deluded himself in a very useful way.
@harkitnebamake3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you think it's delusion makes me think you think of yourself as low value. What is value after all ? It's just a subjective concept. Valuing yourself is all about self belief. People believe themselves on the experiences they have , the things they've done , the mountains they've conquered and the accolades they have. Todd has been with more than 2-3k women. Of course he values himself rightly
@tobykenobi29086 жыл бұрын
High vibrations dislike brigade have been overwhelmed by the consistency & quality of Todd's videos..The dislike-bots are costing them way too much!! So they've reverted to praying to Father J to resolve their problems with Todd..
@makegainz42186 жыл бұрын
They keep perverting further. The Father J thing is too far out there. Pretty soon they'll be sacrificing goats and having rsd rituals where they take it up the ass to proclaim their allegiance.
@Feel_My_Ubiquity6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, I'm going to watch this video but I can only stay for 10 minutes, I have friends waiting for me. (How was that?)
@bootlegmonk4 жыл бұрын
@@ENXJ 💀💀
@bahaatamer12454 жыл бұрын
@@ENXJ 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@definitelynottigerwhitten5865 Жыл бұрын
Here's some of my favorite disqualifiers I've used recently: Before make out lines too You're crazy You're wild You're trouble You'll/ don't ruin me I'm too shy Be gentle You're bad/bad influence You're such a bad girl You'll be the end of me
@Elluzive6 жыл бұрын
The dislike-bots are on Christmas break.
@mohammadtahir87856 жыл бұрын
Elliot Jay hahhaa ... too funny!
@booopwappp13236 жыл бұрын
Looks like they are back after Christmas
@The_Void_Staring_Back6 жыл бұрын
nope..theyre back
@Sugabullets6 жыл бұрын
Disqualifying yourself only works when it's obvious your higher value.
@pn11884 жыл бұрын
I feel better when a guy is honest with me, if he disqualifies me I lose interest and I pull away
@yuhmuhfuhkuh4 жыл бұрын
Disqualifications can be honest tho
@harkitnebamake3 жыл бұрын
Lack of premise.
@ancientbehemoth64482 жыл бұрын
You are the MVP. Only a true professional can go down to the pure core of things and explain them easily and clearly.
@AestheticDelta6 жыл бұрын
might need a whole course on disqualifications just to master the technique. i see it but every situation or context that comes in play ..disqualification comes out of nowhere and its like a deke move in soccer. Honestly the timing of the DQ is very important too, where do you ususlly drop yours TD? first 1/2 or toward end of a convo
@jaredbellard27776 жыл бұрын
I think it's where needed. You have to monitor if you're making yourself sound thirsty by escalating too hard. I've heard it called breaking raport. You come in a little strong (push) the you disqualify (pull). You escalate with something that is a little stronger than what you have been doing to show intent. I think at this point it's time to disqualify because either the girl will question if she is good enough for what you just said, or you take the sexual pressure off a situation. In regards to the latter, you get the interaction to where you need it sexually where it could end up in the bedroom and not some platonic thing, you also take the pressure off by you not being needy. I call this "letting them know you'll fuck them but not needing to". The thing is you're not being socially awkward, needy, or Mr nice I'm not good enough guy. It's all about escalating the appropriate level and being a sexual option with any hint of need or pressure. You'll learn as you fo when to do it. Once you're over that fence her guard is down and if done right you have a sense that you got her. That doesn't mean. Lose your frame, it just means you're contending as a sexual option.
@swissswiss99666 жыл бұрын
Let'' s promote Todd throught social media and make him great again,greater than RSD
@DAMfoxygrampa3 жыл бұрын
I need to watch this before my next date. This is exactly my sticking point right now and I'm losing girls I truly like because of it
@lasredchris6 жыл бұрын
Disqualification : By saying something negative about the girl, you're saying that you don't want her. What is the purpose of the disqualifer In game you want to escalate. You're starting from you don't know the girl. The goal is sex. In this process, you will need to get physical and show interest. One thing you want to learn to do is get the girl to chase you. You don't want to be considered "easy". People want what they can't have. You do not want to be seen as needy
@hurrifanc.34346 жыл бұрын
If you could catergorize the different examples into separate that'd be great! You the man Todd!
@hurrifanc.34346 жыл бұрын
Videos*
@sundvallen6 жыл бұрын
Anyone noticed how Todd is much more free in his expression these days without RSD - who, ironically, teaches: "be expressive!" ROFL
@raghavsharma61486 жыл бұрын
Please Keep enlightening us with your art.Really good concepts Thanks
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa6 жыл бұрын
Such a great way of conceptualising what it means to disqualify. It's about not playing the fawning puppy - willing to do anything to get sex. Play it chill. Calm it down. A value guy doesn't get overexcited over the prospect of having sex with any one woman. Just be at ease in the situation and push-pull. Other disqualifies include talking about other girls. Easing off in terms of physical contact. Any thing that makes her think "shit, I need to put a bit of work in to get this guy". As Todd would say, it's about retaining your 'power' Being chill and not demanding sex also helps with plausible deniability and compliance from the girl. - sex isn't the only objective of the interaction, instead, think of yourselves as two cool people hanging out - who end up having sex
@6lu5ky864 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize that the dating game had this many moving parts.
@mauropedrosa73174 жыл бұрын
It’s a can of worms, brother. But what option do we have? 😂
@secondry26 жыл бұрын
FINALLY! Someone covering the fundamentals!
@dominicjan6 жыл бұрын
this might be the most important video in entire pickup ever
@Feel_My_Ubiquity6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, has anyone ever told you that you have a good guy face but a bad guy attitude 😜
@threat6455 жыл бұрын
Im in a relationship and Todd’s lessons still help me
@frankie1371376 жыл бұрын
So glad you're back Todd.
@d333pmind86 жыл бұрын
Classic mystery method :) Nice
@astrog10126 жыл бұрын
Todd is the future of pickup
@SuperSkitzzo6 жыл бұрын
That re-upload.....
@topalaj6 жыл бұрын
SuperSkitzzo I think he linked to the wrong facebook group ^^
@johnnybatafljeska63686 жыл бұрын
It would be nice if we had an example
@GrubKiller4366 жыл бұрын
I was really confused, personally. edit: rewatched the vid, not confused anymore
@ToddVDating6 жыл бұрын
There were a few in there, but here are some more. "I'm not so sure about you yet," "I have to go in a minute," "I'm not boyfriend material," "I don't think we should have the sex tonight," etc. etc.
@johnnybatafljeska63686 жыл бұрын
aha, but If I understand, the point is really to "crash" good vibes you're having with the girl. Do you disqualify only after you've given some compliments or statements of intent?
@taylorrobens27616 жыл бұрын
Johnny Batafljeska you’re not stopping good vibes. You’re telling her the good vibes probably won’t include sex. (And then if she likes you she’ll chase for you)
@LuisJavierStudio6 жыл бұрын
Johnny Batafljeska No you disqualify when things get weird because you make a move that shes not comfortable with (probably because shes not ready yet for that) then that way you can release the tension of the weirdness and after that you can continuing attracting her and make the move later on when shes ready
@SpaceXForce2 жыл бұрын
Disqualifying is like jigging bait or a fast, slow retrieve. It's more enticing to chase something that has a range of motion, variation.
@depressedessendonfan57026 жыл бұрын
For someone who went through the process through pick up of inner game, im coming back from my transformations in other areas in life and seeing how cool this shit is now. Its like a jiu jitsu move, gives your brain some social strategies for when youre in those awkward moments
@pdorism3 жыл бұрын
This kind of thing only works on insane girls that you shouldn't want to be dealing with anyway. I've ruined a bunch of opportunities by pulling this shit when I should just have been nice and direct and played it straight. I think a lot of guys tend to overdo the asshole thing. It's good for protecting your ego I guess, but it's not gonna get you laid.
@robertromero80944 жыл бұрын
I just recently unleashed the beast, my pick of women at the bar. I wanted to step my game up even more this video is killer. Thanks.
@bigdaddi24216 жыл бұрын
😂petty..where those 500 dislikes came from all of a sudden...too bad for them Todd subscribers increaseing every week
@guinthehouse6 жыл бұрын
Oh, they want me to fall (fall) Fall from the top (top) They want me to drop (drop) They want me to stop (stop) They want me to go (go) I'm already gone (already) The shit that I'm on (hey) I'm already home I feel like the lyrics are actually what Todd feels right now with his situation...w/ RSD
@cartzar5 жыл бұрын
Def wanna see examples in field. Putting these concepts into practice is the difficult part imo
@flow3rpow3r6 жыл бұрын
Love your new shit Todd. You seem to be flourishing without the RSD machine. Especially like the ending music haha. I'll see you on bootcamp soon buddy. I didn't like you all that much in RSD but now that you're doing your pure own shit its golden. Thanks bro!
@prodeg63826 жыл бұрын
All your Information Is just pure gold, thank you todd
@phillipschristoph6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the Christmas gift! I used to disqualify more from M/M but I see that was only a partial piece of the whole pie. Thanks for widening the view of what a dis-qualifier is todd!
@allenmciver18886 жыл бұрын
This works so well. The ultimate is the FriendZone maneuver.
@robertl.76576 жыл бұрын
Todd ,when are you doing one for "FRAME "???
@saem9019016 жыл бұрын
Brace yourselves my fellow gamers, the nick kho dislike bots are coming.
@jonathanmulumba65146 жыл бұрын
after watching a 1000 videos of rsd that's the first time I fully understand the concept of disqualifying
@shacharcohen86645 жыл бұрын
Most important video in the whole you tube channel
@bobopatchnosuke2293 жыл бұрын
Didn't know you love hip-hop. Jay Z - Already Home. 0:00 👌🔥
@jit-r5b5 жыл бұрын
Voice rather silent, whereas outro rose my heart beat rate. I'm not sure if you and I will get along...
@viktorreznov9845 жыл бұрын
Somehow girls are good at using them. İ've met so many girls in the last 6 months and they were all giving the "i'm attracted" signals. They always try to find a sweet spot in value gap. They bring me down when needed and wait for me to bring them down when needed. When a girl "misinterprets" a compliment you gave her she is trying to make you disqualify so she can feel the value gap between you and her. Don't be like "no i said i like your hair". Just let her adjust it guys. Females are good at this kind of shit.
@HORIZONHUNT6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jedi master👌🏻
@sebastianbaran96456 жыл бұрын
Todd, this is great! I make a lot of cold calls, and disqualifying at the beginning of the conversation allows me to ask intelligence-gathering questions so that I can trial-close early and often. - Sebastian
@dintelalovic81106 жыл бұрын
The Toddinator is BACK!
@fernandov14926 жыл бұрын
Todd is like the Ben Shapiro of pick up; thinks and talks so fast and precise
@officejamz31606 жыл бұрын
Fernando Alatorre Ben Shapiro vs MILO - Todd vs RSD
@arturo84756 жыл бұрын
Fernando Alatorre Ben Shapiro is God. Todd is nowhere near his intellect
@joel-yd1rv6 жыл бұрын
Shapiro is crazy smart, but doesn't seem to stop him from being sucked into ideology and dogma
@guinthehouse6 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo
@InfinityCurve6 жыл бұрын
Wut? Shapiro is creepy as fuck. Dont understand all the fanboys. If Shapiro is your alpha your father failed hard :(
@RedRumble144 ай бұрын
Omggg I’m already Home is souch a cool song! Don’t mind me, just rewatching some classic Todd on a summer night
@HerbDoesEverything6 жыл бұрын
Todd is the James Harden of pickup
@hafidhrendyanto26903 жыл бұрын
A question So, is no contact just a very big disqulifier?
@brucedaspruce15456 жыл бұрын
Interesting explanation. Not that I really disagree with anything Todd says here, but I've had a somewhat different frame about it. If at the moment you walk in and start a conversation with a woman you have already pre-determined that you want to have sex with her based on looks alone, she can feel that you aren't screening her and don't really have a deeper sense of what you want in a woman. She's already won you over, because she IS innately of higher value. It comes off as low-value, because you are not trying to make sure she's got traits (especially aspects of her character) that really turn YOU on. The harder you can screen (qualify) her, while making sure she can get through the gauntlet you set up for her, the better. If you say that you love it when a woman knows how to put a lot of erotic expression into her voice - because you love it when a woman does that - you are using the things that genuinely spike YOUR interest as a challenge that she has to meet. I think it's best to only use the stuff that you genuinely want *this* girl to meet. If she sounds like a muppet and you are still into her, use something other than the erotic voice thing, or be ready for her to show you that her muppet voice is sexy. In the long-run, however, the more clarity you have about exactly what you want in a woman, the better your ultimate outcome will be - especially for a longer term relationship. If you've screened her super hard, she's going to feel much much happier with herself for having "won" you and your continued screening, as the relationship progresses, gives her a direction to grow in for becoming an even awesomer girlfriend. Precise and well-formed qualification and disqualification that you are genuinely congruent with indirectly tell a woman, " I'm an awesome lover and this is really really going to be worthwhile." Qualification distinguishes you in her mind as a man that she got to have sex with - it was hard to get you - instead of one that she feels blase about afterward. Know what you want in a woman with as much clarity as possible and don't overlook the questionable aspects of who she is. Screen her out if she doesn't fit what you really like (and maybe there are a number of different things you really like - obviously liking chocolate cake doesn't mean you can't also like strawberry cheesecake). Being genuinely able to screen *this* one out means there's another one you will meet soon who will be excited and turned on by the way you are screening her.
@P0ETICsin6 жыл бұрын
Good for more content answering one question a week from the facebook group .
@TheDragonFoodKing7 ай бұрын
I do not like the statement “none obvious” in the sense of making things non obvious. I believe we should be aware as much as we can handle and do not remove the truth from people by manipulating reality.
@PUARS6 жыл бұрын
Basically, just don't act thirsty.
@Adrian-ly7by3 жыл бұрын
Honestly Tod could like work for the CIA as a interrogator
Yeah, that is exactly the kind of content i wish for: Techniques shortly but well explained!!! Maybe a lil example in practice added would ne nice, but THIS is awesome!!! More of those vids, please. You rock, Todd!!!
@PKP15 жыл бұрын
I might have won a girl subconsciously through this technique
@eliascontreras19514 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of what should i say?
@danielbautista16936 жыл бұрын
Todd you should have a 30 day challange book just like styles(rules of the game) I think it would be very helpful and fun.
@mattleppard37346 жыл бұрын
Yet another quality video that is so 'on point' yet nice and short and easy to understand. Thanks for the quality content Todd.
@yazanodeh80024 жыл бұрын
Todd makes me feel warm
@NickyRoads6 жыл бұрын
kid cudi>>> never stop todd. amazing work, awesome content, the best value.
@Kamn_exe6 жыл бұрын
slipped up right before a crucial point..should finish watching these vids before i text
@officejamz31606 жыл бұрын
Dislike bots finally came in today i see. I am telling you todd, make a video titled "Pickup gurus HATE this secret to getting girls" and make the dislikes work for you.
@MrDominic6006 жыл бұрын
OfficeJamZ oh ya
@TA-ml5et6 жыл бұрын
Is there a way to get in touch with Todd? Like fb group, mail etc?
@ToddVDating6 жыл бұрын
Todd V Insiders Facebook group
@flamingjob26 жыл бұрын
thanks todd . the king of pickup
@v-campsportsleague62634 ай бұрын
You know the dating world is shot when someone has to go to this extent…
@gunlock1773 жыл бұрын
Honestly wish I watched this when it was released would've helped a ton at uni
@OSREVNIV6 жыл бұрын
1:22 what if she keeps asking me "didnt you want to leave" when should i use this esclation thing? when i really need to go soon or should i just say it and then stay for hours with her?
@insmnia61175 жыл бұрын
LightnessOfTheLife shit test probably
@insmnia61175 жыл бұрын
I would say it in an Innocent way like just to disqualify on a soft note
@debangsubanerjee21556 жыл бұрын
Now this is some quality practical dating advice.. Thanks a bunch Todd..
@shtangarang95805 жыл бұрын
To simplify this video, its about understanding how to bring a womens guard down while building sexual tention.
@jasminelovexo6 жыл бұрын
Could you coment some examples of disqualificators that work well 4 u? Ty
@universetraveler58265 ай бұрын
When he says: pulling away on an escalation 1:23, does he mean pulling away at an escalatable moment that hasn’t been escalated yet or pulling away AFTER an escalation was just done?
@DoglinsShadow6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed- thanks.
@houndofzoltan4 жыл бұрын
Saying "I have a small penis" , obviously dependent on how you say it, is almost never lowering value. It's self deprecating humour that more sophisticated girls usually like. Girls like to see you're not big-heading and want to go around boasting.
@LK04086 жыл бұрын
When I was this early...this video wasn't disliked by RSD bots.
@parkerdodson33506 жыл бұрын
I've gamed at parties before where I would talk with the girl for a bit then leave to go somewhere else in the room (eventually coming back to them, or usually waiting on them to chase me). This may not be quite what Todd is talking about but I feel like it had a similar effect.
@laporte16256 жыл бұрын
Great video once again, but like some others, it would be even better with some quick practical examples. Thank you!
@adamtash28912 жыл бұрын
i feel like perhaps the examples are purposefully let out so we have to buy his products....cuz this is my same thought on almost all his vids...great work though!
@DDoms996 жыл бұрын
More concrete content in 6 minutes than in 2 hour RSD video.
@cloudstrife73496 жыл бұрын
Again with the chode comparison comments and the army of chodes to upvote. Why can't you take away usefulness from both?
@rgf54326 жыл бұрын
Cloud Strife finally someone who gets it
@mickr21326 жыл бұрын
Cloud strife if you valued your time why would you watch a video that was 2 hours long when you can get the same value out of a video that was less than half the length? So I think before you go off calling someone a chode because they liked a comment you should do some self examining and second thing is you should never trust someone who takes longer than a half hour to get to the point.
@cloudstrife73496 жыл бұрын
mac ro 1) you're an idiot if you think all their videos are 2 hours. check the old stuff from the instructors, especially Julien's. that stuff is all 10 minutes and under and covers exactly what Todd is covering. 2) you're an idiot if you can't see the value in the content contained within those two hours. they provide a narrative and justification for these methods. 3) "you should never trust someone who takes longer than half hour to get to the point" so I take it you don't read books? 4) you can play the videos at 2x speed and watch in 1 hour, it's still very easy to follow 5) if you like a chode opinion, then you are a chode.
@DDoms996 жыл бұрын
Cloud Strife, there's nothing useful about wasting 2 hours on watching someone amuse himself and talking to the audience like they're complete depressed morons. If you have that much time to waste, I can only assume what you do with the rest of your life.
@hireecejulie3 жыл бұрын
I'm kinda confused. So you're maintaining the Tension? Or are you releasing the Tension? Or both.