Divorce Court: Alexandra vs. Manny - Giving Up

[@shaunlewis8484]

Because she’s in school and getting catfished on online dating sites she thinks she’s all that! Girl please…he deserves much better

[@sandylane5498]

Amen... totally agree. She's in for a rude awakening.

[@divatimedancecompanyocovfo3865]

I agree 👍

[@jasminej6281]

Lmaoo so true

[@Blackbimbx]

There is nothing wrong with this man. He has checked out and has just decided that it isn't worth being hurt over anymore.

[@tmston2]

Imho only thing i see wrong witj him is a self esteem issue! im not married, but the moment my wife tell me im not good enough for her, im packing my bags & gine!!! im not sticking around and begging her to change and God forbid u on a dating site entertaining other men!!! awwww hell naw!!! im gone so fast

[@CatchTheFishy93]

I went to college and my husband is a janitor and only did a few semesters at college. Nothing wrong with it. He's hard working and I could NEVER imagine deciding that because I pursued higher education that now he had to. His blue collar paycheck was good enough for her while she was earlier in her educational career but now it's not good enough? He doesn't deserve to be treated like this.

[@Ace4444_]

thank u lynn for telling the raw truth EVERYTIME

[@Prophetesstammi_revivalfire]

She’s about to end up with the Tinder Swindler 😂

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

She’s is annoying ungrateful and hard to love. She should’ve never married the guy if it wasn’t what she wanted

[@MW2Ranger2k11]

I think she had a guy on the side before the "social project". That part about her showing the "tattoo guy" is basically saying "This is what I want you to look like"

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Notice at the end that she was smiling because she probably is already engaged😅

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

She was doing his divorce for formalities.. she's already been have her back broken open by some chad Tyrone already

[@thelewddragon]

The moment she started talking, I knew she was doing too much. She is shallow and smug. Be careful what you say to and how you treat people, the universe has a way of making you eat your words.

[@donniee.2238]

So he was steady while he allowed you the opportunity to study, and now you don't want him. 🤔 sounds about too common

[@RogerBliddack]

Good riddance. She did you a favor, Bruh. She is ungrateful. And constantly looking for an upgrade. So she will never be satisfied with anything. Or anyone.

[@sheriecemalone2155]

She is going to regret this, I have seen this happen before, nothing good can come from you disrespecting your spouse, if she wanted to go, GO! However be respectful to the man that married you when had nothing! He's the Father of your children, show respect, tell him the truth you want to go have some fun! He's a good man but you ready to kick it! Be honest!

[@scotties65]

I agree

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Don’t let a person tell you they don’t want you more than once.

[@teamperry8463]

Lord!! She has no clue!! Those streets is not what she thinks!!

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

You can definitely tell that she comes from a shelter at home He's have both of her parents all her life... She's attracted to the bad boys in the guys that are in the streets because she's never had that lifestyle that's what she's really looking for... I would love an update

[@dshannasander-ip2qo]

She thinks education makes her batter than him she will be a educated lonely old woman. Please Mr, don't snap move on and do better she will miss you..

[@ebonyc3751]

She’s speaking like he’s a child or teen that needs encouragement to reach full potential. He’s a grown man this is his peak, you didnt hit yours so you’re still growing. She did meet someone else and it’s obvious she want him to be like these other guys otherwise she’s not happy. It’s definitely over but he is kind of dull sounding lml.

[@teresiabryant50]

Exactly!!! He's helped her get through school and now she thinks she's better than him. If she had so many dang options why that didn't choose her. That's the problem with a lot of modern women, they think that education increases their seggsual market value and it doesn't.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@teresiabryant50🎉🎉🎉🎉 What do they make more women like you at🎉🎉🎉🎉👀

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@ebonyc3751definitely can tell this came from a black woman😅 Not everybody wants to mess around with pookie and Ray Ray all the time but in this case I definitely think that she's messing with a Chad!! I agree with you on that part😅😅😅

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@ebonyc3751And what's wrong with stable Why do so many women have an issue with a man that's stable now everybody wants to have 15 cars 14 mansions six private planes in a whole island some people are just content with having a house having those paid and going out to eat here and there what's wrong with the simple life This is the problem with most of you women You're contributing to this very asinine ideology that is complete corruptive of our society😅

[@andreacarter2108]

Yes Woman! Get out the way so I can find him… I love boring and complacent people because they bring peace. 👍🏼

[@shandhawoodard1211]

Yass!

[@sandrarice4197]

This woman is so wrong and insensitive. She's letting a great guy go. The grass always looks greener on the other side. She will regret her decision. She will not find anybody that fulfills her wish list. He should be happy and move on with his life. Thank God he didn't have any children with this woman. I wish him much happiness. I can't wish her much happiness. She was rude and hurtful. She had better watch out. Karma will come around. She will probably end up with someone that treats her the way she has treated her husband. She will live to regret her decision.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

The problem is a woman like this will not regretted because she seems a type of woman that likes drama She said in her testimony that he's not exciting enough in other words he's not risky enough he's not edgy she's looking for a bad boy and we all know how that game plays out... She's looking for a chat or Tyrone type of man

[@beverlyvantull8452]

Facts... Karma don't play games..

[@vonnieb.4897]

He is not as silly as she thinks. She misunderstands his strength!!!!

[@georgelowery9293]

“You don’t know how big a fool someone is until they open her mouth”. She is the definition of a fool. I don’t know why he wants to save the marriage when he’s in a no win situation. She’s jeopardizing the man job by wanting him to leave, but if he does adhere to her request & does leave the job, now, all of a sudden, he’s lazy, he has no ambition, he’s complacent, etc. DUDE!!!, she is doing you a big time favor by asking for this divorce. The trash took itself out. God just did you a big time favor. Trust me when I tell y’all, she gonna be alone & miserable for the rest of her life. And one more thing, she’s one the reasons why Passport Bros. exist.

[@lee-cl8td]

Another classic. Husband supports her until she reaches a point where she thinks she is better than him and can do better

[@Mstattooed]

"Since you got your fckn degree and you know everything" 😅😅

[@jonathantyner171]

I hope Judge Lynn Toler gets signed by allen media group for her new court show launching in late 2023 called “Real Justice with Judge Lynn Toler”.

[@saggigirl1205]

Really "Real Justice with Judge Lynn Toler" can't wait!!!!

[@sandylane5498]

If this is true... you made my heart! ❤❤❤

[@whcchw]

Yoooo😊

[@thelewddragon]

This is the worst type of person. She turned on him because of outside forces. I'm sure buddy wasn't perfect, but to degree and berate him is far from kind. She will get hers in the end and will regret her decisions.

[@captainjamesjamesy1053]

Please listen very carefully guys. Very carefully

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

That's why I said I will only hit and leave her alone she's good for a quick one night stand get drunk with and leave

[@seewitme]

Dear Judge Lynn Toler, i really admire your judgement for the man, nowa days there are very less woman like you in this world.

[@tonyaharper2468]

Relationship/Marriage seem too much like ownership of one another. My life is MY LIFE

[@ronnimartin7033]

Food for thought...it isn't ownership. It's cohesive. You bring two people, WHO LOVE EACH OTHER, together to go on this journey of life together. If your life is only about you, then ok. But I bet that there's a man out there believing God for a woman like you! 👍🏾

[@viviancoleman8109]

She's messing with someone else. Run Sir!!!!!!!!

[@derrianwatkins1211]

I wish I could divorce now but I'm living in antigua she sounds just like my wife right now. Love this show 😊

[@marzi0574]

Why can't u divorce if the relationship is done.

[@valenciaburnette3949]

I live in Antigua too. Divorce is legal here

[@uplift56]

From what I hear in this video: after you get set in your ways, find someone who is set the same way 😎!

[@rae2050]

Her mouth looks smirky and her personality matched it the whole episode.

[@shakespeareswingman]

💋.......JUDGE LYNN TOLD IT LIKE IT IS.... God bless you..

[@sassysmile5428]

The next man she gets is going to dog her out smh lol...

[@KimSoMe00]

He deserves so much more and better than her. As long as that man is happy and doing what he’s supposed to do as a man then let that man be.

[@sanyundekou9332]

She thinks she is too good for him!

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

He helped her to get to her point in her life and now she's done with him... This is why I always say be careful who you marry and always have an escort on speed dial😅

[@Jimmyyneutch__]

She really burnt me tf out 😭😭😭

[@annamartin2569]

Have fun getting that masters degree without his income

[@sweetsweet81]

That lady was an entire FOOL!!! She basically wanted a man who was spontaneous, adventurous, and ambitious. She wanted to live the high life. She lost a good man.

[@mariavargas7751]

Judge toler tell it like is 😂

[@Kabbalahkween711]

He sounds like a stand up guy to me! Her loss!

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

That's because this is a really good guy and what's really telling more than anything is notice that there aren't very many comments on this case... But have this been the other way around in the man brought the woman to court because he wants her to do better it would be two or three thousand comments on this even after one day but every time that the woman is in the wrong is always quiet.... 😅

[@mariavargas7751]

They are good woman who would appreciate him !

[@jj5469]

I think he is a good man and good person. He needs to stand up for himself a little more and to xpress how he feels. Hopefully he can find a women that he likes and take the next steps. I was so sad the way she treated him by the things she was saying about him, makes me wanna get mad. She probably is not going to change and its all about what she wants. She needs to growup. i think she is good person and its just the way she said certain things that can come off as rude and she sounds like a unappreciated person.

[@BREEZYM6015]

I make $26.55 per hour. Are you telling me that I should try to find a different job to not be complacent? I work a full-time job, clean the house, go to the grocery store, do the laundry, mop the floors, pay the bills, and yes, play the occasional video game. I don't smoke, drink, or gamble so if I want to take a nap and play some video games then I think I've earned that right.

[@Yaya-xh8li]

Yes that’s fine when you don’t have a family but paying for food, vacations, house and up keep that’s simply not enough

[@LydiaMatthews-k6q]

Hope you have a loving partner! Because you are what many women would love to have!

[@LydiaMatthews-k6q]

​@@Yaya-xh8liif it is a dual income partnership then it can be accomplished.

[@kerrywilliams.5342]

Right or Wrong a lot of Marriages end up trying to Change the Other Person.

[@tearapowell3780]

When my kids grow up ima tell them that u r they aunt lol nd yall should listen to her 💯 I know its hard when u go home but how beautiful u always get to keep him alive for us and kinda talk to him like did u see these couples today knowing that he got to see it 🥹lol thank u for using ur examples of marriage cuhz i know its not easy but man i appreciate that. When my favorite ppl left me for the heavens i couldnt even see ppl for years. I just love ur grace nd i pray god continues to grace u with his grace 🫶🏿

[@Craigthomas322]

I agree with her partly. When you get married, its no longer about just you. You have to compromise and sacrifice and there has to be a balance between work and family. If you give all your time to your job and not enough to your family that's a problem. What I dont like is how she was ok with him while she was going to school and he was paying all of the bills. But as soon as she got her degree, she switched up. It sounds like she met someone and then decided to divorce him.

[@Blue77Blue]

🗣️✍🏽 noteworthy!!

[@josestephaniedaniel8253]

She thinks she can do better she gonna regret it bad after all them bad guys she thinks want her start to mistreat her she’s gonna see what’s really out there and want to come back but it’ll be too late 😂😂😂😂😂 i feel sorry for her fr she’s so gonna regret it 😂😂😂😂

[@delealgladney2423]

Where is he at? Because I told my boyfriend I was going to nursing school (3 years after getting my masters degree). That man told me he couldn't support me getting my nursing degree because I wouldn't have time for him! MA'AM! If you don't keep this supportive man! There are those of us who are begging for a man like him!

[@shomarimonroe150]

Awesome video

[@DamagedGoods77]

I wonder where she is now.

[@eps5605]

Judge Lynn is the GOAT! The end! They were unequally yoked.

[@whcchw]

She's going to find herself with a master's degree... by herself. Good grief.

[@joseymore5588]

He said at least 8 words. She has spoken 300 words non - stop.

[@lavandermaro1401]

She's annoying 😅 She got a good provider and loyal husband but she wants more...Goodluck to her, next dude might make more than what she makes but will treat her like she aint sh*t🤣

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

No you know she's laying up with a Chad or Tyrone right now That's probably breaking her back open!!!! 😅 Because that's what she wants She wants somebody that's in that lifestyle and that's in and out of jail!!! Somebody with six baby mamas😅😅😅

[@lavandermaro1401]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man 🤣🤣🤣

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@lavandermaro1401 I'm glad that somebody understands where I'm coming from because everyone always thinks that I'm a woman hater 🙄

[@lavandermaro1401]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man i mean im a woman and she gets on my nerves on how ungrateful she is...A good and responsible man deserves to be treated well... It's just too bad that some women are blinded by the new standards of their friends or society (Ex: comparing how much their partners makes a month or a year, how often and expensive they eat outside, how expensive the car they are driving, how big their house is, how often they travel) To me the simple the Family and relationship is the Happy it is (Means we have: savings, Health Insurance, bills are paid on time, me and my partner is a team, we both take care of each others well being)

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@lavandermaro1401 I think I need to get you in front of Congress 😉 how do we get you to get more women to think like you or could we just clone you 😏- lol Because even in my own marriage it's still keeping up with the Joneses look at what my friends are doing on Facebook and Instagram it gets to be a little monotonous and boring I get tired of traveling sometimes I just want to sit at home and enjoy the house that I paid for instead of being out in the streets all the time... And every time we go out we have to take pictures of the food it gets ... Old

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Compromise and communication and trust Are the three biggest things in a marriage , Any relationship actually. And she sounds like she's all about herself. Sounds like he's a good man who has a good job , When you love somebody you should want them to be happy , She doesn't seem like she cares if he is happy or not. 4:55 She's terrible and he deserves better. She sounds extremely selfish and I worry about their child !

[@marcusmiller7138]

Leaving a solid rock foundation for some shiny chrome "promise"? Good luck

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Stop trying to control this man!!!!! What she doesn't realize is the next man will treat her horribly!!! Nobody wants to work 12 hours a day,come home, clean the ferret poop,and a night on the town,good grief !!!! She just doesn't love him anymore and she wants a new man. Shes cheating and it may only be emotional but shes cheating.She will find out!!!

[@hateisforlosers6116]

I would give her what she wants,shes going to find out. Theres compliancy and then theres Sowing your Oates!!!!

[@samanthasmith9592]

SHE is ANNOYING already…As soon as SHE opened her mouth….TELL HER OFF!!!!#TEAMJUDGETOLER

[@mrs.poised9820]

Wow woman need to pick their battles . A generation that needs communication assessments due to the dysfunction

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Please keep preaching that good gospel 😇

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Here she has a very good man when every woman says I want a good man he's doing nothing wrong he's not cheating he's not doing anything and then she gets mad because he's downloading pornography on the laptop because I'm pretty sure she's not giving them any at least not within like the last year or so.... This is all on her

[@reignroyalmusik]

she mad at her homebody husband but God forbid she falls for one who wants to run the streets or play around. she will miss this stable secure man whom she knows where he is and how he is. this is sad

[@shamika5391]

I knew she was messing with someone else.

[@laucorn123]

You could tell throughout this entirr episode the Judge as utterly disgusted by this woman & she at one point was gonna call her selfish but stopped herself. Sadly the wife is a prime example of a lot of women these days they start to think they are better than their husband because of "insert random reason" and use that as an excuse to justify their selfish behavior. For him this divorce might not seem like it but it's actually a blessing because he's getting rid of a traitorous & disrespectful person who he doesn't need in his corner.

[@senorasolitaria7908]

stop complaining that there's a 7 yr old who needs more attention whrn u keep pushing volunteering. uh, no money in that, yet you want him to make more money and volunteer

[@cheapwhisky6003]

I'd just leave , wouldn't even argue with her...Take your little child support check & have a good day ✌🏿

[@ILOVEMUSIC2MSV]

She's annoying and he's a good guy. She will regret it later.

[@happybakergirl1292]

This is as nice as I can say it: I hope she gets all that she deserves. He dodged a bullet.

[@markydan1232]

The look on her face when she realized nobody was on her side was worth listening to her annoying voice for the first 17 minutes 🤣🤣🤣

[@johnniemccalister5386]

This man has put her through college, now she says she isn't happy. Shame on you for using him. You will regret this, your not that young ma'am.

[@kimberlywilson7453]

They didn't properly communicate before getting married. She wanted him to elevate with her. Some people are content with being where they are.

[@vonnieb.4897]

Who does she thinks she is. She does not love the guy. She will regret everything. She looks like a big fool!!!! Even if he leaves his job for more money, when she is fully qualified, she will leave him. Leave her and be a happy man.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

She never did love this man She just loved him for him being stable so she gave him a little something so she can be able to go to school and do what she needs to do.... She used him And now she wants to throw him away like a dirty diaper!

[@TheSharona10]

Please. Clearly she met someone else.

[@sheda3868]

I don’t think she’s doing this because he’s not doing what she wants, I think she’s just trying to find a way out because she found someone she thinks can do better for her. In my opinion, that person may not be better then him. I’m just being honest 💯

[@mrs.poised9820]

Grow in your marriage by buying higher priced food is a fools goal.

[@Epiphany428]

She found someone else

[@Charles-ix5jc]

I know she had a boyfriend.... She don't want her kids the to think that she's a loser cuz she don't want him

[@TruckDriver_Em215]

FIRST!!!!!

[@MishasMama]

She's arrogant, but even if she wasn't, they are not compatible. They don't encourage each other, and quiet people can be passive aggressive and resentful. She's much (much) louder with her irritation and lacks self-awareness. She can move on without making it about him.

[@Regalem3]

She's bored with him. She'll learn that no relationship will be all romance & excitement. Everything that looks good to you isn't good for you. She'll be remorseful once she sees what's out there, but it'll be too late. I hope he finds someone genuine & kind.

[@LydiaMatthews-k6q]

All relationships have an ebb and flow. You have to be mature enough to understand that. She's just emotionally immature.

[@latanebanks3295]

People like that you can't tell them anything they have to be tapped dance on or used and she will get just what she's asking for they'll write in for her number as well an easy play. She needs to keep this tape and listen to how dumb she sounds. People always think education is the key it makes them smarter you have to have both common sense and book sense without both you're lost and to smart to know it. Let her go sir she wants a name for herself trust me she'll get it. Years ago they stood on corners now they're just waiting to be called.

[@jasonbourne5142]

Where's Tom Leykis when you need him

[@amyjohn9585]

She is a i woman self self

[@SRT_DRE]

This is the career woman that Kevin Samuels tell men to avoid. It was all good when they had the same job. But now she decides she wants to move up, he better make that same decision or else she wants out even though they have a 7 year old kid together. This is a really selfish woman.

[@pitdreams584]

what you know what

[@jamila4516]

Omg! I couldn’t take anymore of her! I said next episode so fast! She was just annoying. There are women out here that would kill for a supportive man.

[@reyfin4922]

It woukd have been different if she would have said he works too much and I want more time with him. But she's making it about bashing him. Thats not cool.

[@Fleefromsin]

Satan will use the part of your life that's not submitted to God as his DOORWAY into your affairs. SELL OUT TO GOD COMPLETELY, it’s the safest decision you’ll ever make in your life!

[@highlander666]

if she wants more money she should go out and make it, he should leave her instead of the job

[@doloresturner6094]

She's taking about him but this is not 1974 with that hair 🤨

[@mikecrumpton6817]

Fire her, she will reap what she..

[@cyndedawson3129]

Girl be gone!!!!! sent you think the grass is greener on the other side!!!!! Hmmmm

[@jasminej6281]

She pretty much used him. I knew she found a man and think she can do better. She will regret this.

[@tpoppy9303]

LOL. She thinks she us better than him now. Shes in for a rude awakening. She looks old.

[@madmemadhouseme4885]

She lacks personal insight and growth. Very unlikable woman.

[@jasmineetienne3361]

Mrs. Rivas was misunderstood. She has thé right to want more than a médiocre life

[@michelleroyall351]

I think she was understood, she just had an insufferable condescending and smug tone.

[@sereneamani1713]

Is mediocracy or superiority in life determined only by money? If not, what else helps one rise above mediocracy?

[@shntltylr8758]

It's not mediocre to be satisfied, it's an unsatisfactory life for her, not him. She’s right they have grown apart. He shouldn't be forced into permanent discomfort for her comfort and vice versa.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

She has never had her hot girl summer she's looking for Chad, Tyrone, Ray Ray or pookie to be in her life right now- She said it She said that he's not exciting enough for her!!! I would really like a follow-up to this case because you know this case was probably taped back in the early 2010s I would love to know where she's at now!!!

[@shoaibbaffa]

How desperate one could be to date her ?? 😂 God bless USA

[@Charles-ix5jc]

This girl be much better off

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I'm completely confused how is this girl better off without this man in her life 🤨

[@bracketvilletexas]

she will be used. she will wich he would come back to her since she feels shes so above him.. SHE HAS SOMEONE ELSE AND THE GUY IS GOING TO DOG HER SHE DESERVE IT. PLUS HE HAS NO BAGGAGE HE CAN FIND A WOMAN WHO HE CAN BUILD A FAMILY WITH.. NOT A READY MADE FAMILY. I HOPE HE STAYS AWAY FROM HER

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

This woman would not be where she is without this man making his sacrificing supporting her taking her out to eat Yes those restaurants might be chain restaurants but at least he's trying he's doing something.. he helps out around the house he helps cook and clean You heard him say that but that's not good enough

[@melyndasmith4888]

Her eyebrows disturbing me

[@mikecrumpton6817]

Entitlement.