Divorce Court: Ben VS. Sharp

Will this couple get along long enough to be together or settle with co-parenting?
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[@jadesmith7983]

1st off I thought she was black. 2nd Why be with a black man and then speak negatively of "blk ppl food" or blk customs? She seems insecure and discriminatory.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

That's how they be especially Mexican and white people

[@eastafricanbuzz]

She does not seem. She is insecure and discriminatory

[@toledosapphire6114]

She is only half Mexican & grew up with that side. The other half of her is definitely black. She needs to get a clue & stop buggin. Yo baby is black boo so get in touch with that side too!

[@_thisisbeatrice]

If this guy end up marrying this woman it's going to be a bumpy ride

[@tinabethea7868]

They not going to end up married cuz she got some self-esteem issues some of these away and some other things that's going on that she might not be able to verbalize what's going on with her cuz you can see she's not happy

[@jamiex6072]

He gave her a baby poor thing shes going to use that as her pon

[@mauricesutton1906]

My initial vibes from her was that maybe she had someone else in mind and was looking for a way out of the relationship.🤔

[@keithadams6030]

He's right she's overdramatic

[@taylorgreene9340]

VERY BUMPY, that chick is immature and childish

[@lexislove639]

Shes emotionally draining with her whining and ridiculous expectations

[@lulut445]

Absolutely agree!! Wow!

[@mariefloyd6174]

This is how people get hurt or killed because of people with her type of mind set. You can't be so expecting of the world to pat you on the back and tread softly everytime they talk to you. The world does not revolve around one person just because they're so sensitive and babyish and can't take differences.

[@rowenasher2746]

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[@russellmanuel670]

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[@rowenasher2746]

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[@12kimshu]

He’s setting himself up for a lot of heartache if he marries her

[@IceWhiteice22]

He already set himself up having a kid with her

[@vernardc7579]

Let it go another love TKO smh

[@malehlohonolo8463]

"Give me another example" "Okay the day before that..." 😂😂😂I died, so this lady has incidents everyday

[@lakeeshahardy3996]

She is waaaayyyyy to needy. I'm drained just listening to her.

[@youtubechannel965]

Hispanic and Latino can be of any race, lol WHY is this girl acting like she isn't still BLACK? Society is going to see her as a light skinned black girl.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

She still black

[@beverlyhall4578]

She needs to check her DNA and read African history.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

She stressing me out listening to her 😕

[@tinabethea7868]

She not happy with herself it is a low self-esteem issue maybe her weight and some other things

[@bernardholmes8179]

Dont know her and she got on my Nerves

[@lexislove639]

She takes the smallest things and makes everything into an attack on her or a huuuuugggeee ordeal!

[@solomonlove1478]

Run dude and if you look back you'll turn to dust 🏃

[@debraatkinson2326]

🤣 I shouldn't laugh but why you though this story in it.... 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@andrewpouncil8411]

She too much

[@nandiphamajenge3703]

This is such a good man and you can tell that he wholeheartedly loves and respect her. I don't know what this woman is on about 🤷‍♀️

[@chrissysconvos]

9 minutes in all she does is whine. She is impossible to please and like the judge said,she doesn't like herself. So she deflects how she feels about herself onto others. Spoiled people do that. I was like that in my early 20s but not to that extent. And had to mature. Blaming others for stuff going on with ourselves but really,we just need to fix us and our perspective will change. Life will be better if we stop being the difficult ones♥️

[@brittneycofield9153]

Christian Nicole I'm 18 and I'm working on it too.

[@jadesmith7983]

Girl me 🙋‍♀️. I blame my mother lol. Still working on my spoiled ways and doing better reflecting on my self everyday.

[@desireejones2787]

Beautiful yet aggravating. She’s fair too needy. Bless this brotha

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Hes not sympathetic and full of himself

[@daninew5532]

What is “ black people food”🧐 like really I haven’t seen a food that only black people eat🤷🏽‍♀️

[@YOUNGolution]

Dani New chitterlings

[@jenkericj]

Got that right if its on the plate we're eating it including eating the grilse off the drumstick then sucking the marrow out unless I'm the only one but sure I'm not. LOL

[@jadesmith7983]

Jerome Jenkins You're the only one Jerome lol.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

@@YOUNGolution Nope. Asians Love chitterlings!

[@linglingming836]

@@jadesmith7983 a lot of West Indians love eating bones and morrow

[@JordanClemons]

Save yourself dude. Just be the best co parent you can be

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Typical male comment 🙄

[@sharonjackson268]

This girl wouldn't recognize the spirit if it slapped her... Girlbye...

[@naenaesmithe8766]

She has some serious issues that she needs to tend to .. dont do it man..she gonna make ur life hell!! That negative energy is gonna suffocate u!!

[@jamiex6072]

Her name is latrice she not Hispanic lol 💀💀

[@cristalnicole2895]

😂😂😂😂

[@luviedavis1981]

Lmao I said the same damn thing ! Gurllll even the judge looked down when saying it! Bhahaha

She to young to get married.. she needs to redefine her self first

[@tinabethea7868]

You are absolutely right because she's not happy you can look at it and tell she's not happy maybe she had a baby too early maybe having a family is overwhelming to her and it's her self-esteem how she see herself and how she feel and it may be all that weight she gained two

[@latoyaanderson2015]

I married at age 21 years old, have two beautiful babies. however, some people mature quicker than some and in my opinion this young lady is immature and emotionally crippled. Maybe she went through things in her past that led to her being the way she is now and failed to mention that. I hope she get counseling and work on herself first before going further in her relationship.

[@exquisite921]

I honestly thought that she was a light skinned black girl she doesn't have Mexican features to me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mariefloyd6174]

I thought she was black with just light skin.

[@nappyqueen86]

There are black Mexicans that are about 1% ( or less) of population in Mexico. Also my daughter is half Mexican and has mostly black features.

[@danonbrez]

Not at all. Doesn't even look a quarter Hispanic to me

[@halimaali9299]

That girl is not Hispanic she is black

[@brittneycofield9153]

Being Hispanic just means that you are from a Hispanic Country. There are many Afro Latinos. Those who have African blood.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

She seems sooooooo needy. Needy in a way that she don’t want to verbalize it, like a infant. But expect him to just get it. I think he did a fantastic job (surrounding the miscarriage) took the baby to daycare so neither of them have to attend to him. And she isn’t giving him credit for what he did. But jab at what she think he doesn’t do. Well listen here honey, there are plenty plenty plenty women that will watch this show and even on this time line that would love this man honey. Keep up your shenanigans. Someone women is going to swoop down and capture him and there will be nothing you can do with your complaining behind 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kellifletcher5440]

That's what I was thinking... she's a bit needy

[@angelacarlisle1708]

He didnt do a good job at all 🙄

[@KennethBridges_1336]

She really needs to work on herself before she adds anyone else in the picture.

[@jacks4009]

She not that picky with food trust me if she was she wouldn't be that big. Sis come on stop playing.

[@Chula92]

I was looking for this comment!! Because shorty eats all food 😅

[@teamleoaug15]

Sis is crazy as hell!! She's too whiny, self entitled, and negative. I don't see it working out. And women of other ethnicities stop dating/black men if you can't accept their culture ugh!!!

[@taburrellable]

OOOMMGGG THE WHIIIIININGGGGG!!! JEZUS!!!

[@OnCloud7188]

This woman reminds me so much of a lady I was close friends with that I had to distance myself from. This mentality is so bizarre

[@lilriff87]

Naaaaahhhhh she is a walking complaint and needs professional help with that negative Nancy attitude. I can't!

[@gasmaskQ]

I honestly thought she was a so called black chick until she said other wise which also means Hispanics is just a different tribe of black people.

[@CerseiLannister999]

She can fake all she wants. She just a black woman with Hispanic background. Black latino

[@beverlyhall4578]

Amen

[@sug8415]

She ain’t gone be happy til she learns to be happy with herself

[@usiega]

Sorry . As a man, I dont have time to waste with emotional, and petty ladies just like her. I have dated like 3 of them in the past and guys it is not worth it.

[@jeremieanderson6614]

She’s ridiculous with her whining.

[@alexizwilliams1800]

She's insecure

[@MyMyTyTy]

I’m just like her, it fucking sucks. I find a problem with everything and it’s hard to change. One simple thing will ruin a very good day, and I can’t switch my mood back once I’m in a bad one.

[@fatimazohraa8610]

So this man has never cheated on her never disrespected her, treats her right and she still complains gurl he is way out of your league and someday your nagging will open up his eyes to the fact that he can do way better and be appreciated by a real woman.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

Imagine being married to a man who acts like her but instead of the whining its temper tantrums and verbal abuse. Yep that was my life. Dude. RUN!! 🏃‍♂️

[@audriannaatkins581]

Coco Bake sameeee! She reminds me of my ex. “If you see I’m not myself. Hold me... blah blah blah.” Girl you are a whole adult. Stop it. I understand being depressed about the loss. However, open your mouth and say what you want.

[@godlovescouture8605]

Think she should take some “ me” time. She seems immature. They’re in a funny spot. Not married yet, but have a child together. Just depends on how much they are committed to relationship. I can easily see how he will get tired over the years of reassuring and fighting. But then if cheats, he’s a bad guy. If I were him, I wouldn’t marry her until they get counseling

[@metatronblack]

He shouldn't marry her at all. He skip town

[@elizabethmenegon8057]

Love this judge. She got the best marriage for a reason. I hope she gets in a better place soon. 💖

[@youmakemelaugh1797]

Who tf packs the baby🍼bottles when moving? Why not have all of that aside along with diapers ready to go at will....🤪🤦🏿‍♀️🙇🏿‍♀️

[@keegancloete9021]

Oh this lady need some counseling she has a lot of issues this guy is trying to make her happy she's to negative everything is a issue for her to go to church shouldn't b a issue for her I feel sorry for this guy he's trying his best to make her happy

[@MiilyGarcia0119]

I see so much of myself in her and my husband is so patient, my advise to her is to continuously work on her self, look for the bright spots on the day, lean on God and know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

[@sammykamau4575]

I concur with Judge Toler, just show her love and you'll tremendously win over her.

[@jaesimpson425]

It’s 2020 now (episode in 2018) I wonder if they still married. They didn’t seem like a great fit for one another. He seemed like type to take whatever she throws at him.

[@59thanks61]

Cute couple, she's young and beautiful. Follow his lead for a while. He's your friend, he loves you and your baby. Y'all make a lovely family.

[@chrissysconvos]

Also a miscarriage affects both people. The man took off work to cater to her,not even acknowledging himself in the matter as someone who suffered the same loss. She's acting as if they're not a team but like she's the queen and he's the janitor. She doesn't love him. She is just spoiled and has found a fool to put up with her. Love is patient love is kind it is not proud,short tempered etc. Girl you do not love that man.

[@lavedashropshire8427]

She is so aggravating

[@jermeciat6227]

5 minutes in and I'm sick of her already 🙄

[@gregparker3260]

She is doing too much !she need too find her self

[@steveeleigh3731]

Shes not black? Maybe not african american but afro latina. Still black.

[@FlygirlTMT]

she got nasty attitude.......not good....so young....

[@lilmommy1402]

Maxian food is spicy 🙄 good tho 😁 she was to young to get married. Baby girl not ready. Maybe at 30 35. I wish them all the best.

[@faithwalkz]

I need an update on this couple

[@cheikhsarr5176]

A very interesting court show. I spend hours watching it.

[@louislark4506]

I think Ms. Letress Ben needs to work on herself before considering marriage. She has anger, abandonment, and entitlement issues. She is too emotionally needy. She needs a therapist to contend with her issues. Or- work on couple therapy. She would drive me crazy! I get a prejudice, stuck up, selfish vibe from this chick. Dude better run.

[@meddeck]

Louis Lark the spanish girls that have delusions about black men catering to them.

[@louislark4506]

@@meddeck Very true!

[@brianmaye9827]

Women's use of verbs are hilarious. ABANDONED ME! Run my brother

[@fjdslkfjdsklfjdsklfj]

Omg she doesn’t want to be happy

[@MrFancyjohnson1]

And he should have done his homework before dating a person that wasn’t ready to compromise her point of view on culture....she’s annoying

[@ramonepopskull9250]

She should've done her work... shes the one with the problem . Dating a black dude u gonna know he eats chicken and goes to church.. I'm surprised dude still trying to marry

[@hardworkingcriminal4873]

Unless this is well edited this lady got issues.

[@sharonjackson268]

Chile, don't have babies from a dude without any SPIRITUAL or legal commitment. Stop playing marriage. 1. Commitment 2. Marriage 3. Baby Allow God to supernaturally Bless the union. Ijs...

[@tiaravirtuousteam7]

💯

[@metatronblack]

Stop with the God bullshit get a pre-nup and a second bank account over seas

[@chrisjones6006]

I am confused by your statement..are you saying the brother has no spiritual grounding and he is somehow at fault for her behavior? Because last I checked, it sounds like the brother and her both are in the church. I think I would be better with your statement if you left out the dude part...sounds like you are bashing him...IJS

[@freewayrod559]

She’s going to argue soon as they get in the car

[@samantaburgin7884]

Lolll

[@TAMARGR8]

My ex used to say ignorant shxt too 😐😂

[@vetgmacatmomfl2055]

Omg this girl needs serious mental health!!! Shes too needy. Mememememe

[@tyraceabdulraheem2295]

This lady making the single life look good.

[@jamiex6072]

The way she walked off the stage said 10 year old lol

[@st068825]

I want to say she's just going through post-partum and it can last for YEARS unfortunately, but if that's not it. JUST FILE CHILD SUPPORT ON YOURSELF AND GO! At least he didn't tell her she needs to lose weight.

[@tyraceabdulraheem2295]

She real negative like my ex.

[@venusmercury6257]

She's a big baby

[@jsteve8052]

LOL Judge mocked that girl 5:32. Judge is a fool bruh lol

[@aamnahere6250]

I think the miscarriage caused her the hurt that she's blaming everyone else for. She's angry at the world because she's miserable. I don't think she's a bad or annoying person. She just needs therapy to heal herself so she can become whole again. He's a great dude and I hope he sticks by her because it's not love when you abandon your loved ones for being in pain or suffering from depression. A lot of people seem to imply in the comment section that you must leave people who have self esteem or mental health issues. That's extremely selfish. If you leave someone you don't love anymore, it's one thing, but to just run away because your partner is hurting is not love. It's being selfish and selfish people can never love anyone but themselves so any inconvenience in their relationships and they are out the door. I am glad he truly loves her and is committed to her. It's a positive sign that she was receptive to the judge. With a little help, they'll be fine.

[@st068825]

She's probably a narcissist.Early warning signs. RUN BRO

[@mskandee2165]

Dude, RUuuuuuuuuuuuNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@metatronblack]

Facts😏

[@Kandylanekira]

Lynn’s hair is so cute with extra spunk this episode. Always on point.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

Their relationship is a mess

[@jaraunrobinson654]

With respect to culture we grow up in it but checking out some aspect of another ain't bad I like soul food and some Mexican too as long as it ain't spicy since my chest can't take heat

[@tashawilliams8093]

She needs help. 🤦

My brother wait 8 year please to get married it’s not worth it trust me it’s not worth it

[@thugzman7890]

Shes childish and requires why too much attention, She will be a distraction brah.

[@metatronblack]

She's in her 20s acting 7yrs old

[@hisname2009]

Brother RUN! Don’t marry her! She will NOT change!

[@terrelljenrette5122]

What the heck is fox soul?

[@monica62888]

Lol

[@terrelljenrette5122]

They trying to appease use with reruns lol

[@exquisite921]

@@terrelljenrette5122 just the black ones 😂😂😂

[@waleadeniji6959]

I love the way judge handled this case....

[@newjerseylove1373]

Ladies - we have just witnessed why we, as Black women, end up with Black men that we KNOW in our heart has potential to love us unconditionally and may even show it sometimes but won't fully connect. Why? Because he has already given it ALL in the past and NOW WE have to be his ride or die to PROVE our loyalty, love, and commitment!!! This is why the black MAN is guarded AF! Long story short...make sure that you take the time to really listen to the black man. Find out the following, if you want a committed relationship 1. Why is he single? 2. Why did his last relationship end? 3. Has he ever experienced a loving relationship? If so, why did it end? 4. Find out what love looked like in his home growing up. No judgment but just listen. That will tell you a lot. Then of course the other obvious advice, DO NOT mix your gene pool until you are MARRIED!!!! ...My words of wisdom and a repeat from the GREAT Judge Lynn Toler

[@kylemchynn9376]

He's a great dude, no doubt about it...she's annoying and her insecurities' are too much to handle.

[@Ellietheelphant]

She just need more lov attention from this man.but he thinks he gives enough, but hey pretty lady toughen up

[@MrFancyjohnson1]

She complains too much, and she finds a problem with everything....she hears things how she wants and no one else’s perception matters

[@TexasMade903]

The blue hair says enough.

[@mauricesutton1906]

She probably made him wear that shirt to match her!!!😇

[@razieldacosta1806]

Professional victim, constant whining, and just overall annoying. How he ended up with her is beyond me

[@yolandaryals3063]

He parents raised him right and she is fucking that up.

[@mt1431]

She's is crazy!!!

[@dicksondickson139]

She’s full of herself, misinterpreting every freakin damn thing that is not even important huuu

[@v60polestar88]

Don’t do it. She’s a man with female body parts. She will never let you be the man of the house because she wants to be the man. Lots of black women are like that!!

[@jackiebennett3649]

Polestar Wes stfu

[@brithebrown-skinnedgoddess5164]

@Polestar Wes why are you putting black women into this?! We are just minding our business!!!! Go get a job, Tyquan!

[@CerseiLannister999]

​@@brithebrown-skinnedgoddess5164 she black thi. Black latino

[@yolandaryals3063]

She is insecure with negative energy...I can with her.

[@MikeBNumba6]

They really need to Change the title of this show. It's no longer divorces and divorce court. I mean what exactly does she judge?

[@chrissysconvos]

Uh,if people are ready to be married or need counseling. I mean she makes judgements. Sometimes it's for divorce.

[@Kay-mb5kc]

MikeBNumba6 it’s ‘before your vows’ divorce court

[@crystalrubbie9383]

this whole ticket airport situation .... OOOMMMGGGGG

[@audriannaatkins581]

Crystal Rubbie seriously. Like wtfudgeee

[@georgethomas3245]

Dame Lillard brother need to run fast from her. Lol

[@Selflove_1-g4e]

He seem like a great guy and really love her.. But she too childish and needy!

[@reneewheaton6253]

Such a beautiful couple. They just need a little bit of work and I think Judge Toler Gabe they both some great advice. ❤️

[@juanitakelley8877]

Girl........

[@cozettem6335]

She's a complainer. She's complaining about little suff. He shows up, and she complains about how.

[@alanfortune3092]

Dude is not appearing on any of her social media! She may have abandoned him with his Son... Hope the brother is doing well.... She's bat shit crazy!

[@luistavvares]

Anyone else sees her as an amplified image of a female species? Idk, I think woman just have those nhenhenhe... Some are clever to bypass those attitudes