Marrying someone off an 8th grade love from 20 years ago is STUPID.
@highlander666 Жыл бұрын
Very
@kiaellis7613 Жыл бұрын
Facts 😮
@SparDanger8 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@johnnyb6151 Жыл бұрын
This man has been gaslighting her and gas lighted the judge as well. I think the judge went for his ability to speak well.
@tianacameron9456 Жыл бұрын
I feel like this too - I think he was pretending to look innocent through his “calm speak” and she couldn’t accurately articulate her feelings because she’s so fed up
@keshiaPckns Жыл бұрын
I totally agree!
@kimberlywilson7453 Жыл бұрын
Guess I'm missing this. 😮
@vince23708 ай бұрын
@@kimberlywilson7453me too lol
@PrinceKoffe8 ай бұрын
What criteria are you using for that assessment?
@nannynewsviews542 Жыл бұрын
I ran to the comments when she said she was a hair stylist all those years and still wore that horrible part in the middle of that wig on national television
@Be-a-Fern Жыл бұрын
😂
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Exactly exactly... You can definitely tell that this is a female covert narcissistic woman... She has to be right She has to get what she wants when she wants it how she wants it doesn't want to hold any accountability Can't give any real reasons to why the marriage failed... 😢
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
And most definitely the way she dressed and how her hair looked If you are a hairstylist her hair should look so much better than that frumpy wig and I shouldn't be able to tell that is a wig onher head as a man
@JGTVijep Жыл бұрын
@@A_Well_Traveled_Mandude just start your podcast since you under every video talking about women
@MsBizzyRae Жыл бұрын
I think she may be putting a lot on it. I don’t see where she should have a problem with him. He’s taking care of everything and she uses her money how she wants and is mad at him? She said he verbally abused her but can’t say how or give an example. I’m so confused. I agree with Judge Toler, she is being unreasonable. She’s making women look bad. I hope he finds a wonderful woman that appreciates him!
@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын
My opinion exactly!
@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare Жыл бұрын
I can’t stand when ppl say one woman is making all women look bad. Like how is that possible?
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfarelook at it the other way around A lot of women deal with Chad's and Tyrone's and then say all men are bad... That's all she means by this comment... Think of it also this way when she goes to date the next person she's going to still have thoughts of how he treated her going into the next relationship so that next person won't actually be given a clean slate..
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏💪🏾👏👏👏🎯🎯🎯
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
The way you write and make your comments is so dog on on point and so easy to understand I can clearly understand why this woman got on your comment and was upset because she's not thinking of it from a logical standpoint outside of her own emotional being....
@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын
She self proclaimed herself as a ‘strong’ person and she is everything but!
@kathleenb7501 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon, everyone
@Mizzjlady Жыл бұрын
I hope he finds a mature, loving, patient, motivated, supportive woman.
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Exactly She was just trying to take him to the cleaners that's all this is all about try to use him for all his money and resources and not return or reciprocate anything.... I mean her going to the store to pick up paper towels and a little bit of groceries does not equate the same as this man paying for the mortgage the electric bill and all the other things that's needed He's probably giving her money for the groceries
@Mizzjlady Жыл бұрын
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man & She tried to destroy his character by calling him abusive. This man helped her study! Smh
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
@@Mizzjlady It's a shame because it puts a bad taste in his man's mouth for whoever he is with next he is going to be so on edge it's going to be hard for him to date and it's going to cause a really nasty taste for who he's on a date with so it's just bad because with this woman doesn't know has longing effects
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
@@Mizzjlady And you're right she was so desperate to try to call him abusive because that's the one thing most women coming to show say is that he's a controlling manipulative narcissistic person those are the words that every woman says It's said so much that a lot of people have starting to become numb including myself
@JGTVijep Жыл бұрын
@@A_Well_Traveled_Manyou just love reading your own comments.
@keshiaPckns Жыл бұрын
I think he is a smooth talker, and she has difficulty expressing herself.
@ashleychamon6446 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. And as the judge being a lawyer in real life I can see how his way of speaking persuaded her judgement. It’s usually not about who is being honest; but he persuades the crowd the best in law.
@RachelNHarrison28 күн бұрын
I think she expressed herself fine but it was just nonsense. Also he’s not a smooth talker at all.
@ebonyc3751 Жыл бұрын
They really never should have been together. They moves too fast and because it didnt happen how she thought it would she mad. She knew she didnt want to be attached to him that quick and regretted that decision immediately
@Yaya-xh8li Жыл бұрын
She needed somebody to come play captain save a broken woman. Never depend on someone to make you whole. She was pathetic and weak
@highlander666 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 🤘🏻
@nflglo11 ай бұрын
How is u SUPPOSE to be STRONG but weak im confused 🤔👀
@candazec.7049 Жыл бұрын
She was looking for Price Charming and got mad when she didn't get it.
@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын
Women make me laugh with their fixed idea of finding Prince Charming when they are definitely not acting like princesses.
@candazec.7049 Жыл бұрын
@jo-annbastings Prince Charmings don't exist. She been watching too much Disney. 🤣🤣🤣
@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын
@@candazec.7049 yep! That’s what we call delulu (delusional)😉🤭👍!
@RoshawndaT4 ай бұрын
I agree with the judge
@sheilap9854 Жыл бұрын
He Makes there relationship sound like Some type of Business, i don't know why they Got Married and Maybe they don't either 🤔 18:24
@melyndaduh3501 Жыл бұрын
Exactly--he is all about the family as a business. She could care less. 🤣🤣🤣
@keoraanderson459 Жыл бұрын
She wanted someone to take of her and she was an air head 😂 He seemed pretty reasonable to me.
@maryburke7850 Жыл бұрын
She still has a middle school mind that’s the problem!
@jaylew89 Жыл бұрын
He could had took that day off for her if he already had the day off.
@kianacarter7252 Жыл бұрын
It’s time to let it go
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Do you mean as far as the man or as the woman in this case...
@shay-rae138 Жыл бұрын
The fact that she’s bouncing from place to place is crazy she clearly can’t stand on her own with out a man and where is her children 👀
@dmkconsults3411 Жыл бұрын
Weddings and graduations should be enjoyed by the people and family that you value. Just because the judge didn’t have her mom at the wedding means nothing. Missed the mark on this one.
@PrinceKoffe8 ай бұрын
No you miss the mark offering a subjective opinion as an absolute. It's nonsensical to think the world will stop for your events, it's not that kind of world even if we wish it so.
@joanclark3585 Жыл бұрын
She’s all about self no kind of understanding whatsoever
@justacarguy90 Жыл бұрын
She's crazy!
@dmkconsults3411 Жыл бұрын
Judge Toler missed the mark on this one. That guy was so arrogant. I bet he mistreats his wife. What Judge got right was that this lady doesn’t make good decisions.
@melyndaduh3501 Жыл бұрын
She wanted him to drive down to Miami to pick Mom up for wedding that day. My! That's not a hop, skip and jump! She should have had Mom take bus or plane to Tallahassee for wedding. It sounds that she is really close to her Mom and would rather live close to her. That too should have been discussed/decided before marriage.
@eleanorsmith971 Жыл бұрын
Most people are living as if there are no tomorrows. They don’t save anything and worry other people when a bump shows up. Both of them seem to have no clue. At least save enough for 6 months rent. The times we are living in is very unstable financially.
@Uptownboo84 Жыл бұрын
What is this...."relationship?" 🤔🤨
@rae2050 Жыл бұрын
They both lost on me. I’m confusion🤦🏾♀️
@poppaexo Жыл бұрын
This is what men mean when we say “women take no accountability”. This women blames everything on this man…her actions, her bad luck, etc. he sabotaged her day by not being there for the whole day when he was showing up after work. He is selfish because he doesn’t want to share his money. Listen to her stories. She makes all her actions his fault. What an immature child
@A_Well_Traveled_Man8 ай бұрын
I'm coming back to this video and you are absolutely right women have no accountability in this world... That's why I gave up on the show and on commenting in general... Here you have a guy that's doing everything for a woman and they still want to find something to complain about... Like Kevin Samuel said you can't make this up...
@RoshawndaT4 ай бұрын
Exactly when she is the ONE who just said, I don't FEEL like I should contribute to the household bc I buy bed sheets and soap LOL THIS WOMEN IS EXTREMELY SELF CENTERED
@deew7837 Жыл бұрын
This guy sounds like he lying the whole time
@njc9776 Жыл бұрын
Poor guy.. she’s immature
@Dee-yv5jy3 ай бұрын
Why Did I get MARRIED, is exactly the question, he wants to hurry up and add her to his insurance so he can pluck her azz off and get the life insurance policy. Be careful ladies be careful.
@markPwilliams Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@JanMuench467 Жыл бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@markPwilliams Жыл бұрын
@@JanMuench467 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@JanMuench467 Жыл бұрын
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@markPwilliams Жыл бұрын
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@juliusdv6657 Жыл бұрын
that was 5 yrs of your life thats now over. Don't waste 5 more being bitter. move on.
@genesewatson648 Жыл бұрын
He sounds like my current boyfriend i don’t think he’s the only problem in their relationship but that controlling, selfish and manipulation stories she told sound so familiar. I had an important test to take and that morning he started an argument i failed the test i swear he did that so i wouldn’t leave him at the job
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
⁉️🤨. Your point is very conflicting...
@genesewatson648 Жыл бұрын
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man how is my point conflicting?
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
@@genesewatson648 You said you had important test to take that morning and you started an argument so you wouldn't leave him at the job...
@genesewatson648 Жыл бұрын
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man you must’ve been reading to fast because i definitely said he started argument and i think he did so i can fail because he wanted to stay with him at the job
@ashleychamon6446 Жыл бұрын
@@genesewatson648But how dud he fail that test for you? I can see if life was tough for you leading up to it and you couldn’t study; or if he messed up your ride that morning and you couldn’t get there but you didn’t say any of that. Sweetie, you failed that test by yourself.
@nyakuothgodsdaughter Жыл бұрын
She's insecure about a lot of things. He seems to have a handle on his emotions.
@lovelye11ep Жыл бұрын
She does need help real help
@mearly7047 Жыл бұрын
I believe her. She needs to leave
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
I don't understand how every woman that comes on here says that their man is emotionally and mentally a narcissist or abusive... Then most of you women need to pick better men😢.. You ladies absolutely love toxicity I don't understand it???!!!!
@queennc7 Жыл бұрын
he’s not toxic though ..
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
@@queennc7 true
@JackJobs-uy5xt Жыл бұрын
Hi judge he never get her at 16 so he is making up my brother never work,
@tashefeyataylor8502 Жыл бұрын
The people in the comments on his side clearly doesn’t see red flags. He talk a good game. I believe her. They should’ve never married 🤷🏽♀️ she has issues, but so does he!
@MishasMama Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@A_Well_Traveled_Man8 ай бұрын
The fact that the man is paying for everything and she doesn't have to pay for anything should be all that's needed she clearly doesn't love him she just loves what he does for her sorry for being 5 months late
@doloresturner6094 Жыл бұрын
It seems like the captain saved a you know and she is a little lazy on that hood stuff if she had children she would be on AFDC and what is she doing where everyone calling her out her name ?? she's a air head 🤪
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Yeah the river with you and the judge This girl is straight up crazy She drunk the Kool-Aid and thought that a man is supposed to come in and save her life and she doesn't have to live her finger for the rest of her life.... And he's right Her doing hair here and there is not a sustainable income You never know how many people going to come You never know how much money you going to make per day It's not a sustainable business He's absolutely right because the electric company doesn't care how many people's hair you did that day😅
@melyndaduh3501 Жыл бұрын
That was strange. 🙃
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
I got it💡‼️‼️ She was looking for a sugar daddy and he was looking for a wife!!! 😢😢 Yeah this situation would never work😢
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Gentleman🎩 ... This is what a female narcissist looks like Just look at the way she's dressed listen to the way she talks she thinks that she's a man and she's better than all men... It's so sad because there's so many of our black women that are like this...