Chile I was thinking the same thing....like what? Smh....
@latonyawilliams684 Жыл бұрын
Dusty😂
@kokoniqueful Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I’ve been there before. Fine as I am, playing in a dust bucket. Daddy issues 🤷🏽♀️
@joymosley8997 Жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly.
@viviancoleman8109 Жыл бұрын
I call them Backpack Ninjas because they don't want anything and they will take their backpacks and pick up with another person at anytime.
@daisyblack2075 Жыл бұрын
@vivian coleman Yes yes yes such a shame. Backpack ninjas got to use that.😂
@dawsonslady Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅I'm using this from now on
@viviancoleman8109 Жыл бұрын
@@daisyblack2075 yesssssssssssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣
@viviancoleman8109 Жыл бұрын
@@dawsonslady Yessssssssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sophiaandre139 Жыл бұрын
I call them "hobo-sexuals".
@mavisfrancis1425 Жыл бұрын
If you feel temporary why hang on to him you got your answer.
@essencejackson8123 Жыл бұрын
Right
@Kisses2die4 Жыл бұрын
She gotta get some standards. Just look at him😎
@vanessakenney3144 Жыл бұрын
LOOOL
@Kayjames44 Жыл бұрын
LMFAOOO
@jackiwilliams9297 Жыл бұрын
Woman, get your life for you and your children... JT's insight on her is what she needs.. Thank you, JT she needed to hear your message.
@veronicabroomes973 Жыл бұрын
She is already making it on her own, why is she afraid, she also beautiful
@Prittyladylex Жыл бұрын
His funny looking tail should be kissing her feet 😂
@jeremiahdrummond9647 Жыл бұрын
Ĺoĺ
@misswallis4050 Жыл бұрын
Why are you here know your. Value
@redbonemango1995 Жыл бұрын
BUG EYED NAPPY HEAD WEASEL!!!😂😂😂😂
@tyrellarnold8635 Жыл бұрын
Crazy part is these be the type dudes that women get with and can’t seem to leave. Tear down their already low self esteem a little more and you’ll have to lock them up to get them to leave the man.
@autumnrose4000 Жыл бұрын
🤭
@amour.jadarenee Жыл бұрын
Its him trynna hold his smile and laugh back for me
@BlackPanther-qu2lh Жыл бұрын
By her listening and crying, the judge spoke to her like a real mother should. And that's seem like that's her 1st time she felt a mothers love
@K_Cole0128 Жыл бұрын
Ain’t got a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of. She has a codependency issue and she’s not putting herself, her children or god first at all!!! She needs some help!
@Mzpretty17 Жыл бұрын
Preach! The incredible Judge Lynn Toler dropped Gems 💎 I really hope this young lady believes it and stop chasing this man
@tfahari Жыл бұрын
I miss her as the Judge on divorce court too❣️
@Mzpretty17 Жыл бұрын
@@tfahari yes I miss having her!!
@richbabe7836 Жыл бұрын
Man I miss Judge Toler ❤️💯
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Жыл бұрын
As women we put too much focus INTO a MAN, seriously it’s sad there’s no way I’m gonna feel temporary to someone and still be with them. We have to keep God 1st at all times, let God lead you this is too much. She’s still married, ur bf don’t help you financially. You have to spy on him, just way too much.🙄 the Judge is right, he should be ASHAMED as a man. He can’t even offer you anything.
@Joyislove1221 Жыл бұрын
The judge gave her some good advice, it’s ok to be alone, that man adds absolutely no value to your life.
@tfahari Жыл бұрын
So glad Judge Toller hit her with what we were all thinking... Holding on to someone who makes you feel temporary just because you are afraid of the unknown will destroy your progress hopes and dreams because you can't focus on your next level. She is beautiful and I pray she gets to a place where she realizes she is more than enough.
@marzi0574 Жыл бұрын
Dont nobody work and only can pay a light bill and food. She need to get divorced and kick this dude and his duffle bag on .
@K_Cole0128 Жыл бұрын
She’s wasting valuable years of her life on a man that doesn’t value her. She should move on and live life. Idk why she’s settling for this.
@OnlyRoseVelvet Жыл бұрын
Let's not forget she is married and doesn't know where her husband is. She also doesn't want a divorce it seems. In my opinion, is best not to enter into a relationship with someone who is married. In my opinion, she needs to not worry about this relationship and get a divorce and work on herself.
@K_Cole0128 Жыл бұрын
@@OnlyRoseVelvet I didn’t find out until later. I mentioned it in another comment. She had major codependency issues.
@OnlyRoseVelvet Жыл бұрын
@@K_Cole0128 And she could get therapy from the VA because that's how I am getting my therapy. She has resources so let's hope she uses that.
@ladeammamcmoore7148 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Judge Lynn gave her such a gift. I hope she utilized it. I wish I could have hugged her.
@OneWayDesigns Жыл бұрын
With all that said.......... why do you keep him around?
@dominiuqewaston2492 Жыл бұрын
Lol look at him, girl let him feel temporary. He looks beat 😂😂😂
@tfahari Жыл бұрын
That dude was 31?! He looked like he was pushing 61 with black color in his hair and mustache. Did he look older to anyone else?
@bryanbeeman5256 Жыл бұрын
Street Dysfunctionality at its finest
@janeanoye142 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely nothing to offer at all
@K_Cole0128 Жыл бұрын
He’s been with you 9 years and hasn’t married you? That’s saying something and far from temporary. Edit: Wait she is married to someone else? Damn!
@AlwayzMe1 Жыл бұрын
Judge ... It's called privacy, I don't want his password and I don't want him to have mine !!! No questions asked ❤😊❤
@wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why people waste the energy checking phones. I can’t check nobody phone that can only pay the water bill in his household
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
@Emilio Yepez well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
@Emilio Yepez her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
@alanfortune30926 ай бұрын
That poor Young Woman, you can see that she was very attentive when Judge Toler "gently" gave her a stern talking to.... She listened....I hope she's learned...
@Kage_Nichole1 Жыл бұрын
Whew ion see how women don’t know when they are being used🤣🤣
@aaronjesse6241 Жыл бұрын
Everybody bypasses the fact that SHE HAD KIDS ON HIM! AND SHE IS STILL MARRIED!! When that happens to a man he develops his own world, lives in it and survives on what he has in his heart which in this case is “her”. They are both completely WRONG! On the flip side they need to go their separate ways.
@livinmabestlife Жыл бұрын
exactly. i thought the judge was gonna touch on that topic. both of them are handcuffed to their fears
@bridgettebivins19709 ай бұрын
She didn't have kids on him. They were broken up. She went to the armed services and even got married. They got back together. You really missed all of that.
@debbiehughes7652 Жыл бұрын
My goodness, a piece of man is not better than no Man!!
@santellamoses5312 Жыл бұрын
Lmao!!!Damn Judge..get em !! Smmfh.. definitely not adding
@alanfortune3092Ай бұрын
How can he have a temper when she's paying all the bills? Honey, I hope you are long gone from this light blocker!
@nash.azongafack7309 Жыл бұрын
I actually don’t have any pity for these women because bruuuhh that’s so so low. You can’t let someone do that to u for so long. Why keep a garbage like this for this long waaawwuuu😮
@AThom-fz9km Жыл бұрын
Send him to the streets. He needs to contribute, as a man towards the household, bills. He wouldn't get a home, just on electric, and food.
@nayobegomez26193 ай бұрын
Shes way too desperate cause i cant understand why shes with him. She has serious low self esteem.
@yvonneneijhorst7 ай бұрын
you sold yourself for nothing..words cuts me right trough my heart.felt that JT
@Alisha_Mariiee Жыл бұрын
SMH 🤦🏾♀️ look at him please! Girl! She gotta do better! And she definitely can!
@MrKaream2k Жыл бұрын
She was messing with that dude
@lakeishachilders3862 Жыл бұрын
to each their own. But this right here sounds like a job. I am not going to do all of this by myself. If I have to do all this by myself, father God will handle it all, with me by myself. What doesn't come out in the washing machine- will come out in the dryer. I'm not about to ask any man, for his phone to check, & to do this, that & the third. I have learned from my past. Thank you Lord. I know everyone has a story. I do not look or go backwards. I know what I'm supposed to do as a wife, mother & stepmother. For a grown man, not a little boy, in a grown man's body - already knows what a husband, dad or step-dad responsibilities are. If you can't it's time for you to kick Rock 🪨 and I'm throwing up the ✌🏾✔️ and you cannot come back. And this goes vice versa. But to each their own.
@tpoppy9303 Жыл бұрын
He is using her for a place to stay and hes a babysitter.
@marygonzales595711 ай бұрын
You don't have him. Your wasting your time. You can't be afraid that doesn't want to commit. She is wasting her time. She. Loves her children. Worry about them. They love you and you love them . Show him thee door
@Janedoe-2210 күн бұрын
9 years of feeling temporary is crazy talk.
@kenmar06ify Жыл бұрын
She needs to let JJ from Good Times go
@misslee3700 Жыл бұрын
😂
@NEFFi46Bc Жыл бұрын
Let him go because he's not bringing anything to the table won't even pay for the light bill and those kids living there he would not be at my table please 💅
@cedricliggins7528 Жыл бұрын
Neffiteria is such a pretty name.
@joymosley8997 Жыл бұрын
As pretty as she is and intelligent, she can definitely do better than him. He looks .......welp 😮😮😮😮
@NotYourTypicalNegro Жыл бұрын
She finally got herself a husband a few years after this.
@evelynjackson276211 ай бұрын
Judge Toler that's Y your Beautiful Marriage lasted so long . U are not jealous or clinkly
@Tony291037 ай бұрын
Dude needs to run. NEVER get involved in a relationship WITH SOMEONE WHO'S NOT DIVORCED
@NikaGantz Жыл бұрын
Can we stop in I will personally empower myself by belittling their own space in their device
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
I can't with the plaintiff, but I tend to agree with him. I don't see any reason for my husband to be entertaining another woman in our home when I am not at home AND I don't know her. ALSO, everything that she says he has done, WHY are with him?
@user-bi5ju8mi9u8 күн бұрын
I do not understand why women feel they need to stay with a man that cannot hold his own. They both should be able share the household expenses on a 50 percent basis. Everybody nowadays wants someone to take of them. She should have left him 8years ago.
@marciahaughton6758 Жыл бұрын
HIM????😮😮😮…her self esteem is hella loooooooww😢
@alanfortune30926 ай бұрын
He deserved the sharp tongue lashing from Judge Toler! If you're somehow stiil with this Beautiful Young Woman, my hope is that you made a 180 Degree turn...
@carrie5094 Жыл бұрын
I like being alone been in it threw it around it and finally 10 years ago I have been alone I am quite content.
@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын
You control me
@meghanwilliams4295 Жыл бұрын
Toxic Trauma Bonding= A useless relationship... Focus on yourself, and your kids, Ma'am...
@nayobegomez2619Ай бұрын
He ain't a flinch bit cute omg what is she DOING? SHE WAS DESPERATE! AND SHE'S PRETTY! WHAT IS SHE DOING???
@thebronxchix107 Жыл бұрын
what?????? wow....
@mearly704711 күн бұрын
He's very insecure, he needs to leave and stay away
@sheilataylor7497 Жыл бұрын
Both of them crazy! 🙄
@user-vn8vg9of6x10 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful young woman do not let yourself be defined by a man you have two children that are more important than just some random man you can make it because guess what man let you down but God won't
@wonderfullee2332 Жыл бұрын
She is a game playa. He will not marry her, she is very temporary.
@jazzexcess43195 ай бұрын
Probably??? probably buy food?!!! Boil byyyyye
@briannoland3544Ай бұрын
Would like a follow of that case😢😢
@jazzmynecobbs9853 Жыл бұрын
get on her too ewww look at him he offers nothing at all
@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын
Tell Judge
@prestonjackson7417Ай бұрын
Didn’t realize it’s this many desperate women
@darrellsadler2848 Жыл бұрын
wORD OF THE dAY: both.
@BrianF-gd4wo Жыл бұрын
I'm a fan of DC 🤩🤩
@dawsonslady Жыл бұрын
Ladies stop being so desperate 4 a man that this is what u allow. I encourage all 2 seek therapy & rebuild yourself b4 bringing any man in2 your Life. This is sad.
@BlackPanther-qu2lh Жыл бұрын
She beautiful so why she's settling for someone who do make her feel.....this is the nonsense I don't like....Black women stay in relationship were they not happy but once they decide to leave and find a next man ,he get the abuse that she was receiving...Lord help us
@petersingleton1141 Жыл бұрын
Bad energy wife
@AThom-fz9km Жыл бұрын
She's a beautiful, women, why does she wanna be with this, man. You can get any one you like. Ditch, him and find someone who will treat you like the African American Queen you are.
@joseymore558811 ай бұрын
THIS SEEMS LIKE A 1942 MOVIE 👀👀
@higher.yearning Жыл бұрын
This kilt me. She married anyways. Like both of y’all get y’all’s life 😒
@AThom-fz9km Жыл бұрын
He doesn't have no money.
@dbsrsb23 Жыл бұрын
Cheated on him while he was n the military? Horrible human being
@armynurseshark Жыл бұрын
No SHE went into the Navy and got married and had 2 kids
@northern179Ай бұрын
What she Need him for, gotta pay all the bills, check his phone etc…she just was DumB.
@Auraseven415 Жыл бұрын
🎯
@LegendaryWarriorOden Жыл бұрын
You feel temporary okay yea next episode I got a migraine now lord help me
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
And the one thing I have to say about the lady in this case the fact that she constantly thinks that he's sleeping around with other women I don't think that at all! I think he's a mama's boy and there's nothing wrong with that.. She just wants an Apex Mail but keeps settling for somebody that's five levels below that
@AThom-fz9km Жыл бұрын
Why do couples, have to share their password , to phone number
@peterwebb4468Ай бұрын
What a beautiful 😍 woman 🥰🥰🥰
@annmagati8681 Жыл бұрын
She is the problem
@nenew24 Жыл бұрын
I wonder how long she stayed after this show.
@marcojeano360511 ай бұрын
There must be a shortage of men
@mariavargas7751 Жыл бұрын
He’s 31 y old ?
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
The big question out of this whole thing is what does she benefit from being with this man... I know what he benefits from being with her is a roof over his head probably some nice sex and the fact that he gets to be around the kids that he cares about a lot even though they're not his... She should definitely give it a man that has children already in a house of his own
@tiffanymartin1197Ай бұрын
You can do better !!
@LegendaryWarriorOden Жыл бұрын
Women just waste their time why do I still try to believe they won't waste mines silly me smfh
@malikshabazz7596 Жыл бұрын
My phone password is my business, l have my own friends who trust me with there private business. They are not my wife friends, we could be having a very personal conversation. Also l have no interest in my wife friends and there conversations. Husband and Wife maybe one in name, but no matter what we are individuals.