Divorce Court: Neffiteria vs. Terrance - Going in Circles

[@HTAnderson76]

He's got a duffle bag by the door, he doesn't pay any bills.... yet she's "afraid of the unknown". SMH

[@richbabe7836]

Ain’t no way a woman like her is letting a dusty like that run circles around her. No Way !!

[@redbonemango1995]

THA PLANTERS PEANUT MAN🥜😂😂😂😂😂AINT NNNOOO WWAYY!!! BABE NAW

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Chile I was thinking the same thing....like what? Smh....

[@latonyawilliams684]

Dusty😂

[@kokoniqueful]

Unfortunately, I’ve been there before. Fine as I am, playing in a dust bucket. Daddy issues 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@joymosley8997]

My sentiments exactly.

[@viviancoleman8109]

I call them Backpack Ninjas because they don't want anything and they will take their backpacks and pick up with another person at anytime.

[@daisyblack2075]

@vivian coleman Yes yes yes such a shame. Backpack ninjas got to use that.😂

[@dawsonslady]

😅😅😅I'm using this from now on

[@viviancoleman8109]

@@daisyblack2075 yesssssssssssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@viviancoleman8109]

@@dawsonslady Yessssssssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sophiaandre139]

I call them "hobo-sexuals".

[@mavisfrancis1425]

If you feel temporary why hang on to him you got your answer.

[@essencejackson8123]

Right

[@Kisses2die4]

She gotta get some standards. Just look at him😎

[@vanessakenney3144]

LOOOL

[@Kayjames44]

LMFAOOO

[@jackiwilliams9297]

Woman, get your life for you and your children... JT's insight on her is what she needs.. Thank you, JT she needed to hear your message.

[@veronicabroomes973]

She is already making it on her own, why is she afraid, she also beautiful

[@Prittyladylex]

His funny looking tail should be kissing her feet 😂

[@jeremiahdrummond9647]

Ĺoĺ

[@misswallis4050]

Why are you here know your. Value

[@redbonemango1995]

BUG EYED NAPPY HEAD WEASEL!!!😂😂😂😂

[@tyrellarnold8635]

Crazy part is these be the type dudes that women get with and can’t seem to leave. Tear down their already low self esteem a little more and you’ll have to lock them up to get them to leave the man.

[@autumnrose4000]

🤭

[@amour.jadarenee]

Its him trynna hold his smile and laugh back for me

[@BlackPanther-qu2lh]

By her listening and crying, the judge spoke to her like a real mother should. And that's seem like that's her 1st time she felt a mothers love

[@K_Cole0128]

Ain’t got a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of. She has a codependency issue and she’s not putting herself, her children or god first at all!!! She needs some help!

[@Mzpretty17]

Preach! The incredible Judge Lynn Toler dropped Gems 💎 I really hope this young lady believes it and stop chasing this man

[@tfahari]

I miss her as the Judge on divorce court too❣️

[@Mzpretty17]

@@tfahari yes I miss having her!!

[@richbabe7836]

Man I miss Judge Toler ❤️💯

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

As women we put too much focus INTO a MAN, seriously it’s sad there’s no way I’m gonna feel temporary to someone and still be with them. We have to keep God 1st at all times, let God lead you this is too much. She’s still married, ur bf don’t help you financially. You have to spy on him, just way too much.🙄 the Judge is right, he should be ASHAMED as a man. He can’t even offer you anything.

[@Joyislove1221]

The judge gave her some good advice, it’s ok to be alone, that man adds absolutely no value to your life.

[@tfahari]

So glad Judge Toller hit her with what we were all thinking... Holding on to someone who makes you feel temporary just because you are afraid of the unknown will destroy your progress hopes and dreams because you can't focus on your next level. She is beautiful and I pray she gets to a place where she realizes she is more than enough.

[@marzi0574]

Dont nobody work and only can pay a light bill and food. She need to get divorced and kick this dude and his duffle bag on .

[@K_Cole0128]

She’s wasting valuable years of her life on a man that doesn’t value her. She should move on and live life. Idk why she’s settling for this.

[@OnlyRoseVelvet]

Let's not forget she is married and doesn't know where her husband is. She also doesn't want a divorce it seems. In my opinion, is best not to enter into a relationship with someone who is married. In my opinion, she needs to not worry about this relationship and get a divorce and work on herself.

[@K_Cole0128]

@@OnlyRoseVelvet I didn’t find out until later. I mentioned it in another comment. She had major codependency issues.

[@OnlyRoseVelvet]

@@K_Cole0128 And she could get therapy from the VA because that's how I am getting my therapy. She has resources so let's hope she uses that.

[@ladeammamcmoore7148]

Yes, Judge Lynn gave her such a gift. I hope she utilized it. I wish I could have hugged her.

[@OneWayDesigns]

With all that said.......... why do you keep him around?

[@dominiuqewaston2492]

Lol look at him, girl let him feel temporary. He looks beat 😂😂😂

[@tfahari]

That dude was 31?! He looked like he was pushing 61 with black color in his hair and mustache. Did he look older to anyone else?

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Street Dysfunctionality at its finest

[@janeanoye142]

Absolutely nothing to offer at all

[@K_Cole0128]

He’s been with you 9 years and hasn’t married you? That’s saying something and far from temporary. Edit: Wait she is married to someone else? Damn!

[@AlwayzMe1]

Judge ... It's called privacy, I don't want his password and I don't want him to have mine !!! No questions asked ❤😊❤

[@wordplay6665]

I don’t understand why people waste the energy checking phones. I can’t check nobody phone that can only pay the water bill in his household

[@peterwilliams6361]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@peterwilliams6361]

@Emilio Yepez well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@peterwilliams6361]

@Emilio Yepez her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@peterwilliams6361]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@alanfortune3092]

That poor Young Woman, you can see that she was very attentive when Judge Toler "gently" gave her a stern talking to.... She listened....I hope she's learned...

[@Kage_Nichole1]

Whew ion see how women don’t know when they are being used🤣🤣

[@aaronjesse6241]

Everybody bypasses the fact that SHE HAD KIDS ON HIM! AND SHE IS STILL MARRIED!! When that happens to a man he develops his own world, lives in it and survives on what he has in his heart which in this case is “her”. They are both completely WRONG! On the flip side they need to go their separate ways.

[@livinmabestlife]

exactly. i thought the judge was gonna touch on that topic. both of them are handcuffed to their fears

[@bridgettebivins1970]

She didn't have kids on him. They were broken up. She went to the armed services and even got married. They got back together. You really missed all of that.

[@debbiehughes7652]

My goodness, a piece of man is not better than no Man!!

[@santellamoses5312]

Lmao!!!Damn Judge..get em !! Smmfh.. definitely not adding

[@alanfortune3092]

How can he have a temper when she's paying all the bills? Honey, I hope you are long gone from this light blocker!

[@nash.azongafack7309]

I actually don’t have any pity for these women because bruuuhh that’s so so low. You can’t let someone do that to u for so long. Why keep a garbage like this for this long waaawwuuu😮

[@AThom-fz9km]

Send him to the streets. He needs to contribute, as a man towards the household, bills. He wouldn't get a home, just on electric, and food.

[@nayobegomez2619]

Shes way too desperate cause i cant understand why shes with him. She has serious low self esteem.

[@yvonneneijhorst]

you sold yourself for nothing..words cuts me right trough my heart.felt that JT

[@Alisha_Mariiee]

SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️ look at him please! Girl! She gotta do better! And she definitely can!

[@MrKaream2k]

She was messing with that dude

[@lakeishachilders3862]

to each their own. But this right here sounds like a job. I am not going to do all of this by myself. If I have to do all this by myself, father God will handle it all, with me by myself. What doesn't come out in the washing machine- will come out in the dryer. I'm not about to ask any man, for his phone to check, & to do this, that & the third. I have learned from my past. Thank you Lord. I know everyone has a story. I do not look or go backwards. I know what I'm supposed to do as a wife, mother & stepmother. For a grown man, not a little boy, in a grown man's body - already knows what a husband, dad or step-dad responsibilities are. If you can't it's time for you to kick Rock 🪨 and I'm throwing up the ✌🏾✔️ and you cannot come back. And this goes vice versa. But to each their own.

[@tpoppy9303]

He is using her for a place to stay and hes a babysitter.

[@marygonzales5957]

You don't have him. Your wasting your time. You can't be afraid that doesn't want to commit. She is wasting her time. She. Loves her children. Worry about them. They love you and you love them . Show him thee door

[@Janedoe-22]

9 years of feeling temporary is crazy talk.

[@kenmar06ify]

She needs to let JJ from Good Times go

[@misslee3700]

😂

[@NEFFi46Bc]

Let him go because he's not bringing anything to the table won't even pay for the light bill and those kids living there he would not be at my table please 💅

[@cedricliggins7528]

Neffiteria is such a pretty name.

[@joymosley8997]

As pretty as she is and intelligent, she can definitely do better than him. He looks .......welp 😮😮😮😮

[@NotYourTypicalNegro]

She finally got herself a husband a few years after this.

[@evelynjackson2762]

Judge Toler that's Y your Beautiful Marriage lasted so long . U are not jealous or clinkly

[@Tony29103]

Dude needs to run. NEVER get involved in a relationship WITH SOMEONE WHO'S NOT DIVORCED

[@NikaGantz]

Can we stop in I will personally empower myself by belittling their own space in their device

[@sereneamani1713]

I can't with the plaintiff, but I tend to agree with him. I don't see any reason for my husband to be entertaining another woman in our home when I am not at home AND I don't know her. ALSO, everything that she says he has done, WHY are with him?

[@user-bi5ju8mi9u]

I do not understand why women feel they need to stay with a man that cannot hold his own. They both should be able share the household expenses on a 50 percent basis. Everybody nowadays wants someone to take of them. She should have left him 8years ago.

[@marciahaughton6758]

HIM????😮😮😮…her self esteem is hella loooooooww😢

[@alanfortune3092]

He deserved the sharp tongue lashing from Judge Toler! If you're somehow stiil with this Beautiful Young Woman, my hope is that you made a 180 Degree turn...

[@carrie5094]

I like being alone been in it threw it around it and finally 10 years ago I have been alone I am quite content.

[@petersingleton1141]

You control me

[@meghanwilliams4295]

Toxic Trauma Bonding= A useless relationship... Focus on yourself, and your kids, Ma'am...

[@nayobegomez2619]

He ain't a flinch bit cute omg what is she DOING? SHE WAS DESPERATE! AND SHE'S PRETTY! WHAT IS SHE DOING???

[@thebronxchix107]

what?????? wow....

[@mearly7047]

He's very insecure, he needs to leave and stay away

[@sheilataylor7497]

Both of them crazy! 🙄

[@user-vn8vg9of6x]

You are a beautiful young woman do not let yourself be defined by a man you have two children that are more important than just some random man you can make it because guess what man let you down but God won't

[@wonderfullee2332]

She is a game playa. He will not marry her, she is very temporary.

[@jazzexcess4319]

Probably??? probably buy food?!!! Boil byyyyye

[@briannoland3544]

Would like a follow of that case😢😢

[@jazzmynecobbs9853]

get on her too ewww look at him he offers nothing at all

[@petersingleton1141]

Tell Judge

[@prestonjackson7417]

Didn’t realize it’s this many desperate women

[@darrellsadler2848]

wORD OF THE dAY: both.

[@BrianF-gd4wo]

I'm a fan of DC 🤩🤩

[@dawsonslady]

Ladies stop being so desperate 4 a man that this is what u allow. I encourage all 2 seek therapy & rebuild yourself b4 bringing any man in2 your Life. This is sad.

[@BlackPanther-qu2lh]

She beautiful so why she's settling for someone who do make her feel.....this is the nonsense I don't like....Black women stay in relationship were they not happy but once they decide to leave and find a next man ,he get the abuse that she was receiving...Lord help us

[@petersingleton1141]

Bad energy wife

[@AThom-fz9km]

She's a beautiful, women, why does she wanna be with this, man. You can get any one you like. Ditch, him and find someone who will treat you like the African American Queen you are.

[@joseymore5588]

THIS SEEMS LIKE A 1942 MOVIE 👀👀

[@higher.yearning]

This kilt me. She married anyways. Like both of y’all get y’all’s life 😒

[@AThom-fz9km]

He doesn't have no money.

[@dbsrsb23]

Cheated on him while he was n the military? Horrible human being

[@armynurseshark]

No SHE went into the Navy and got married and had 2 kids

[@northern179]

What she Need him for, gotta pay all the bills, check his phone etc…she just was DumB.

[@Auraseven415]

🎯

[@LegendaryWarriorOden]

You feel temporary okay yea next episode I got a migraine now lord help me

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

And the one thing I have to say about the lady in this case the fact that she constantly thinks that he's sleeping around with other women I don't think that at all! I think he's a mama's boy and there's nothing wrong with that.. She just wants an Apex Mail but keeps settling for somebody that's five levels below that

[@AThom-fz9km]

Why do couples, have to share their password , to phone number

[@peterwebb4468]

What a beautiful 😍 woman 🥰🥰🥰

[@annmagati8681]

She is the problem

[@nenew24]

I wonder how long she stayed after this show.

[@marcojeano3605]

There must be a shortage of men

[@mariavargas7751]

He’s 31 y old ?

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

The big question out of this whole thing is what does she benefit from being with this man... I know what he benefits from being with her is a roof over his head probably some nice sex and the fact that he gets to be around the kids that he cares about a lot even though they're not his... She should definitely give it a man that has children already in a house of his own

[@tiffanymartin1197]

You can do better !!

[@LegendaryWarriorOden]

Women just waste their time why do I still try to believe they won't waste mines silly me smfh

[@malikshabazz7596]

My phone password is my business, l have my own friends who trust me with there private business. They are not my wife friends, we could be having a very personal conversation. Also l have no interest in my wife friends and there conversations. Husband and Wife maybe one in name, but no matter what we are individuals.

[@marcojeano3605]

WTH wrong with this woman