Throwing Money In the Wrong Direction: Jessica Whitehead v Horace Tidwell - Season 26 Episode 44

[@dabbh97]

If he doesn’t pay any bills, he gotta go. Period.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Amen

[@kimr5479]

I second that emotion, bye!

[@karenjones7794]

You got that right if you don't pay no bills you got to get your bags and move out start on your business outside my house but you're not going to live in my house and had me put your business in the house business you got me effed up bro

[@karenjones7794]

He got the right female I got a chick like me with a said no right off the gate and heated kept stepping he got a chick that's a doormat I need a a note check like me I keep the word no I am my vocabulary Faithfully

[@karenjones7794]

User

[@Mysterysolved1111]

He doesn't like her. She's a financial comfort blanket for him whilst he's doing the least. Run girl!

[@LadyNStreet]

Idk why people stay with someone they are unhappy with. Call me flighty, but I'm not wasting my time on someone like that.

[@2intriguing1]

That's admirable💯

[@antonialchilders-xy2vb]

Ok flighty …

[@rozzjack]

@@LadyNStreet You’re not flighty. You’re smart.

[@PakandeKebe]

Lack of self worth that's why they like men who treat them poorly

[@laurenluckey7456]

FACTS

[@nicolettemorr6588]

He might have passed the lie detector but he's still full of shyt.

[@DivorceCourtShow]

oop

[@briallecobb4194]

Exactly…everybody passes this man’s test. They new machine or something

[@funnyisfunny4944]

Abso-damn-lutely he is!

[@marcusmelancon3426]

Because there’s no such thing as a lie detectors test it just tracks your heart rate if it goes up it’ll be considered a lie but when you full of it like him you can lie and stay calm and pass

[@lifebyre6144]

“Cause he ain’t gone play with me” girl he done played with you and threw you to the side.

[@carolyncoleman4827]

Why in the world is she with him, I'd rather be by myself.😢😢

[@lynn8796]

She is by herself she just don't realize it.👀🤔

[@ziggyhype1]

Why she not with her kids pa

[@d820m]

who else would put up with her annoying ass🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ebonyc3751]

And she pretty too like smh dont set the standard so low. Great guy but clearly trifling gawd

[@SRT_DRE]

Low self esteem.

[@annettealexander5672]

Him not paying any bills and you want to marry him and think he's cheating also. He's there for free. 😂

[@God-Love-Freedom]

These type of women will only complain. She won’t leave him.

[@nasomibelle]

Desperation written all over her 🙄

[@kirstenb8899]

That part!!

[@kbarnes5093]

Right

[@MamiOf3kids]

Actually, he has it made! There is no reason for him. To go elsewhere.

[@taliacarter515]

No way would I tolerate a man not paying for NOTHING‼️

[@FullofSouthernCharm]

She should have left once she found out he isn't a provider.

[@sensual2kizz613]

You would think she'll have enough sense to leave she's desperate

[@wandadevereaux2359]

He may not be a cheater but he surely is a user, run Jessica!

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly

[@zara198522]

She pays all the bills, thinks his cheating and STILL wants to eat his groceries. She definitely isn't leaving. 🤯

[@yemedemure414]

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@rozzjack]

She doesn’t seem fed up enough. She’s not going anywhere.

[@1980tiffani]

Nope.. I guess he will bring a baby home next.. maybe that’ll do it..smdh. Some ppl love abuse.

[@2intriguing1]

I've never loved a male this dumb.

[@peggybenjamin8290]

@@rozzjack maybe after reading some of these comments 😊

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

I came here to say that exactly !!

[@rozzjack]

@@1980tiffani or bring her a disease. SMH.

[@user-jp3vq8sj3u]

I think he found a way to beat the polygraph, he was too excited about it

[@fantanuradin9574]

It be too much faith in the polygraph...😮

[@d820m]

why? Because you didn't get the result YOU wanted?

[@Apricityville]

@@d820mNo! Because polygraphs can be manipulated if you know what the hell you’re doing. Relax.

[@lindawinkler8867]

Me too

[@marcusmelancon3426]

@@d820m because there’s no such thing as a lie detector test if your heart rate goes up it’s marked as a lie but you can lie and stay calm and pass

[@leeleegrace9015]

It's giving maid, mattress, and mule. If you know you know!

[@Stormyweather551]

Mule 😂😂😂😂

[@Lisa-y1k5i]

Exactly

[@Qbanhoneydip]

CHIIIIIIIILLEEEE‼️‼️‼️🤯🤯

[@yemedemure414]

I don’t know but this is good! 😅😅

[@Apricityville]

The girls that know, know‼️

[@Mrsbook19]

He's laughing while she's crying. He's not gonna change. She'll leave when she's had enough...I guess.

[@2400MD]

Just because you’re BIG doesn’t make you certified to be security- And I can’t believe she was going to go full ghetto on national tv over someone that she’s been playing the fool for- Gurl get ur life - She’s looking and acting the fool….. Smh. You gotta have some respect for yourself

[@Josie3387]

She's not going anywhere. Women who do the most and react to their man's BS the most never actually leave. They do everything BUT leave.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

💯

[@andreawashington5430]

Sad but true

[@StylezOfCole]

Facts 😂😂

[@mogetit5999]

He knew damn well he didn’t need engine work and used that money for rims.. girl he using you period

[@APC-yr5fi]

But...u stayed with him...4 years engaged..boy bye

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Crazy

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly

[@sammhammiam]

She created her own hell. Only she can end it.

[@WeMissJerry]

She said he's not gonna play with her, but that's exactly what he's doing. Playing her like a damn fool. Got her crying up in the court over a straight bum.

[@kadinedunckly3879]

Str8 bum … strip club security 😂😂😂😂😂

[@elsamyqueen6302]

This girl is patient coz i can’t. A whole adult that does not want to work and pay bills, baby you leaving my house

[@mlm1916]

After a while, I can't feel sorry for Ms. Whitehead. How low does he have to go for her to rid herself of this lowlife ?

[@Apricityville]

Maam, let me speak directly to you… if your man can’t show that he can handle financial matters on his own, you don’t need to be using all of YOUR money to support him. That story about the rims and the car battery bout pissed me off. She on here crying and yelling when she should’ve BEEN left his tired ass.

[@kiaellis7613]

You didn’t even have $6 dollars 😭🤣💀

[@jetcrews97]

@@kiaellis7613 🤣😂🤣😂😂

[@MamiOf3kids]

I think she meant 6 cents😅

[@sheryleastman515]

He may not be cheating but he is a user! She needs to make him pay some bills!!

[@jajagaga85]

He’s a user…. PERIOD!!! Her confidence doesn’t seem low but to deal with all this….🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@latashastergis9281]

You can be confident and still have low self esteem and self worth…

[@OneQueenB]

I’m happy my parents raised me to have self love and respect! I will be married 45 years to my love of my life and I have never paid a bill. He was like my dad, he said his money pays the bills and takes care of his family. He says my money is mine! No way I would deal with any foolishness like that mess.

[@kymlove2006]

He's not being a partner

[@ismailmj9665]

She staying for circus, she is not the victim

[@veevee4461]

The 3-year engagement should tell her something too.

[@ethelynjaspercox7110]

Stupid is as stupid does!

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Judge Star hit the answer on the head. He wants her to do all the work and pay all the bills. Girl, kick his butt out! Then go live your life.

[@wordplay6665]

My Jesus, doesn’t pay bills, no support emotionally, no intimacy…is he your son lady? I don’t know no other reason he should be there 😒

[@pantherblu2478]

I'm going to say this. In today's society, someone would rather go through this than be bored and stable.

[@yoloxoxo4042]

They’ll get tired, hopefully they have teeth left when they do!

[@dannyashby5663]

I'm stuck on she wanted his legs in the air! 😂

[@lakeofalltrades]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 she the 👩🏾‍⚖️

[@yemedemure414]

That’s sick!!!

[@dannyashby5663]

@@yemedemure414 that lady say she tryna keep it spicy!

[@goodgirl170]

I cannot be with a dude that does not pay bills. Thats like following a homeless man to the shelter. Wasted.

[@annamariegowithme]

Shes asking why does she have to pay for everything? You don't! You choose foolishness and to keep dealing with it!

[@t.c.5456]

She is the clown😂😂😂😂 - all those complaints she has and she is crying about his nonsense 😂😂😂😂 girl leave 🙄

[@kittybusiness]

No. His sorry ass his gone. He can live off you

[@yemedemure414]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@spunkyspinelli]

She better not been eating his groceries 🤣

[@sharmainearroyo7113]

She definitely tried too lol

[@6Summerville]

Baby….Self-Esteem is FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! Hunny get you some!!! That man loves what you can do for him… nothing more and nothing less.

[@AdrienneMbaeri]

He’s running circles around her

[@debbiegarner7366]

She needs some self esteem. This is so sad! Why sista why???

[@d820m]

Because 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tyrellarnold8635]

Why she want him to put his legs up is my question

[@janicescott-pair97]

😅

[@tiathaqueen]

😂😂😂

[@ABarron]

Ladies please don't be this desperate just to have a man in the house with you. Trust I know from experience

[@joanwilliams3213]

He not leaving her,and she not leaving.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Say it 🫰🏾

[@missj26]

He likes her and loves what she does for him. And this cycle will continue until she officially gets tired of it

[@blessinedmond1234]

Oh well he said he had 1600 left lord help us all

[@slosauss]

He looked really upset when she said he couldn’t put it on the card!😂

[@onlychas]

She had me at him paying no bills!!!

[@sandras2479]

Nothing to laugh about!!! Run, girl🏃🏾‍♀️

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@Yukajoseph]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Yukajoseph]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Yukajoseph]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@CorlissMKing]

Do not share your credit card with any man who doesn’t have money. Girl please

[@jeanettacrawford4817]

He is a grown ass boy women never take of a man period who not your husband, a grown man provides for his woman.

[@sandras2479]

Why choose a 37 yr old man who is doing nothing???? Women need to aim higher. Choose wisely!!!

[@katrinakatrinakatrina]

It’s funny to me when men try and flex about texting/talking to strippers. The strippers don’t give a shit about you 😂 but ok go off 😂😂😂

[@annejones1978]

She does not need to apologize. She needs to quit supporting him financially.

[@derrelljohnson2482]

He don’t have any money that’s why the stripper didn’t give him no cookie 😂

[@nikkiknowship-hop1466]

She seems super smart, well spoken and she’s pretty. Why is she putting up with this mess

[@meeksluvspink9047]

This makes me so angry! What a loser! I had a dude like him always begging and broke! He even stole 40$ from me. Smh. I got rid of that bum, quick!

[@Lisa-y1k5i]

Run!!!

[@cindywa2721]

36 years old...😢 not married to the man, and he is still using her. 36 years, he gave her a shut up ring

[@cindywa2721]

She needs to up her standards and love herself. He do not respect her.

[@d820m]

​@@cindywa2721 what gave it away?😂😂

[@kimaleycreese28]

Women stay away from users. He is a user and very comfortable with her taking care of him.

[@stopit41]

Girl, you are putting yourself through that. Girl bye

[@toniaellen5271]

Whats wrong girl, why you want him so bad

[@joanwilliams3213]

Woman he is right to pay no bill,you allowed that.

[@jacquelinewilliams4305]

You got buy him something else for him to stay🤣🤣🤣

[@nikkiallen1266]

Shes dedicated ..... He grumbled when she said im not putting it on the card 18:35. Hes a mess

[@carolynhill5781]

He's trifling

[@OfficialAnnArtist]

I’d been sold that ring.

[@ethelynjaspercox7110]

Where the hell does she work?

[@thenatural5268]

I’ve never seen it more clear of someone staying for the benefits. That man is doing what he wants to do and she’s financing him. He doesn’t really even like her, he’s just comfortable. Engaged 4 years? He gave the ring to keep her quiet. When he generates enough income without her, he’ll leave her. When he’s financially set he’s going to break up with her. He doesn’t see her as his future just his current. Judge Star tapped into it, she IS his business plan. She’s his cash injection

[@donnadennis1845]

The longer you stay, the more it chips at your self-esteem. Why be with someone who can't help financially

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...

[@GregMunro]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white...

[@GregMunro]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks..

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

You wont regret it

[@emilyfeagin2673]

That works. As long as the basics are good In the relationship here doesn’t have the basic. No trust and he isn’t nature enough to hold it down

[@TheCreoleSon89]

6:24 lady… you gave this buster 1700 dollars to fix a car and he got rims and you are still here to tell the story in court??? See y’all really need to work on choosing men. I don’t know how it is possible for anyone to fall for this oversized pathetic excuse of a “man”. Didn’t want to say man because that’s giving him too much credit to society.

[@tearapowell3780]

If he would’ve came back with some runs with my money it would have been overrrr and I’m calling the police

[@bernadettepierre7935]

I disagree with her having to apologize......

[@d820m]

Because she accused him of cheating, he passed the lie detector test, damn right her dumb cluck ass should be apologizing 😂😂😂😂😂standing up there crying them fake ass tears that only the world's crocodile 🐊 population would appreciate 😂😂😂😂😂

[@crazytimeslets5063]

Don't anyone feel sorry for her, she's hes doormat. After all she's still wants him, beginning him to act right..........

[@diannajade3172]

God revealed to me that the men I dated reflected my self-esteem. A lot of these women put THEMSELVES through it. Now, I'd rather be by MYSELF than be with someone who robs my peace.

[@emilyfeagin2673]

Never once did I hear her hopes and dreams mentioned Once he does establish his “ business “ he will dump her for a better sugar momma How can you run a security business with no training and no business plan?

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Put it on the card 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dshannasanders964]

I don't believe that lie detector

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

I don't either.

[@brittanim5654]

So they came on this show to promote his "business." Just plain corny, I'm out🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@VANITYISFARE]

All this crying and she’s gonna stay .. bye 🙄

[@OfficialAnnArtist]

Some people just aren’t stern enough

[@tishmonikemassey3781]

He need a 9-5 til his business come up cuz ain't no way I'm bank rollin while u play in my face...idc what lie detector said...He moving too funny for me🙃

[@aaronlocs1612]

I love Star's husband sitting in the audience agreeing with all of his wife's comments. Love it

[@soleilwhitton6397]

He rolled into court with a new vest w/ matching tie and don't have a pot or a window. This is the new playbook, ladies. And pay attention, to the man's buddy told him to put it on HER card too. Of course this dude wants to save this relationship. He has a desperate sugah mama. But he don't have to worry because she ain't going no where.......

[@barbiebarbie8849]

smh she like taking care him she a freak n like to control him …🚩👌🏾☠️😭 telling man put legs up he dnt like her fr he just needed a place to stay…

[@blckbrdfly7675]

At this point i think these men are paying off the polygraph examiner because too many of them are doing EVERYTHING the absolute most, yet the test always comes back negative 🤣 Either that or the question needs to be did you ask for sex or seek out sex, because maybe they are just being turned down.

[@DVWMT96]

Financial abuse is a tag of domestic violence. If she is paying all the bills clearly this is not a healthy relationship two ppl need to equally bring money to the table. High school sweethearts, she followed Horace around, and she’s still following brokey 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Nurse_Things]

She is smart, beautiful and so sweet. I pray she leave this man. It is someone who will actually be a partner to her and not debt. He gives dusty vibes, and I can bet she paid for everything that man's body.

[@sybilwhite1259]

Good thing is there's no children involved because they would be totally confused, she wants to marry A man who's made it clear he isn't going to help her 🙄

[@ajwhite1077]

The word BUT should never be in an apology

[@DBrnsugaq33]

Don't trust that, suspect!!!

[@DigitalDiaries268]

Ladies know your worth!

[@sandrarice4197]

He says he protects her. No, he doesn't. Actions speak louder than words!!! He hasn't protected her heart!!! He's had it too good for too long!!! She needs to move on. He's a taker, a user, and a liar. He has betrayed his fiance!!!

[@gab19guerin72]

She is too pretty to deal with mess. He needs to mature.

[@alphonsocoley5170]

She the only 1 seeing him.there's no woman want him.he's BROKE.

[@kholquip]

he's ok with doing 10%

[@gailsmith836]

Which is sad.