Single While In A Relationship: Fontasia Butler v Deontrae Butler

[@jasmineelise424]

Stop saying “controlling!” He is not controlling. He is ABUSIVE. This is verbal, mental and emotional abuse. And he was smiling the whole time. He doesn’t give a shit about her

[@EmpressNic]

Hun I just typed that & I saw your comment. Straight user & abuser

[@soniajhonen]

Thank you!!!!

[@debbiegarner7366]

Right abusive and he think he’s right

[@tmoneyhoney14]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾perfectly stated

[@paulavoncia]

You hit the nail on the head. Soon he will be hitting her. He can be a stay-at-home father saving them excess money on daycare.

[@viviancoleman8109]

Any man that puts his wife the mother of his children out on the street does not care for you start planning your escape route take your kids and go.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

She picked him and made the first move. She couldn’t resist. Nevertheless, I agree.

[@AunteeShugah]

Exactly

[@scottsh1120]

As Judge Lynn once said. I know the market is tight but you dont have to put up with foolishness and disrespect

[@niece585]

Amen

[@evierose1530]

I got that part of the judge saying that phrase, such a powerful statement

[@andreaaugustus4377]

‼️‼️‼️

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

True

[@tashathomas1714]

He wants to save the marriage because she is taking care of him.

[@keisharenee165]

Exactly 💯

[@Morethanenuff75]

Yup

[@tinajackson6875]

He's a bum, what kind of man doesn't work.

[@leelee185]

Typical

[@chikid23708]

Pay to play 😂

[@SheniceSays214]

He put you out on a freaking SIX LANE HIGHWAY with no purse and no phone. It’s way past time for her to be done.

[@peacefaith560]

With her car !! 🚘

[@Morethanenuff75]

He disrespectful to the mother is exactly how he treats the wife. He wants to make sure mom is out of the picture so he can have all control. Girl go!!!!

[@my5722]

This man don't like you. He just likes what you do for him. LEAVE & STAY GONE!

[@lalabbyx]

How women can't realise when a man don't like them BAFFLES me 🤣

[@DianeScotts]

@@lalabbyx And then to have MORE children with that slug. Ugh.

[@ellaveldje7125]

@@lalabbyxwhy laugh? It could be your own child Someday

[@d820m]

@@ellaveldje7125 why laugh? Because some of that was funny as hell? 😂😂😂😂

[@Kickitwithshay]

So let me get this straight…. It’s her house, her car, and he wanted her not to feed her children but feed their baby. She letting the nanny tell her want to do. On top of that he cheating and lying to her. That man is homeless. He married her and got her pregnant so he can have a place to feel like a man.

[@Hannahrk9]

Lord please don't ever let me be this desperate for a man.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Amen

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

I would never deal with this. No one can control you unless you let them.

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

In Jesus name Amen

[@sereneamani1713]

And then end up with someone who's not a man.

[@shay-rae138]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@chevonefalls3747]

That smirk and smile on his face is pissing me off.

[@lovesyah4618]

He's no prize,plus no job, controlling and disrespectful. Hell no not up in here!!

[@finestdime]

Fr, what's he doing for her? NOTHING!

[@burnagirl123]

this man is abusive and i’m disappointed judge star did not explicitly call it out. he forced her out of the house in the pouring rain, the car on a busy highway…he doesn’t care about her safety one bit. this marriage needs to end.

[@tinajackson6875]

Exactly he needed to be told off by the judge

[@ronnimartin7033]

EXACTLY 💯👍🏾 I've seen her suggest divorce for far less. She missed this one!!

[@ronnimartin7033]

​@@tinajackson6875facts!!

[@jillianelliott4654]

He sure did. Judge Star dropped the ball on this one. She has been doing this a lot on the episodes that I've been watching lately. Which, makes me not want to watch. I miss Judge Toler! She would have read him up and down!

[@meerajx]

She keeps excusing the most wild behavior. Idk what that’s about. I agree. I miss toler. She has a level head

[@jazzy5975]

She should've come with the divorce papers 😴😴😴

[@globalcitizen8314]

I thought she did. She has the grey folder

[@jazzy5975]

@@globalcitizen8314 I think the judge would have served them if she did

[@takeishawhite4964]

She did have the divorce papers

[@kattiethomas4687]

Definitely move on

[@kattiethomas4687]

He thinks he's all that,with no respect or love

[@TheLady_Laura]

He's sooo dusty! She's pretty and very sweet. I hope she dumped him and turned her life around.

[@beautifullyblessed985]

He only wants to stay because he has nothing

[@keisharenee165]

Exactly 💯

[@AunteeShugah]

Fact

[@kalynadams3826]

He needs a job and he will have less energy to be a rude individual

[@Ddofc]

He doesn't have a job, he doesn't need sleep

[@fabresianrhoden8459]

Lol

[@leanderevans4736]

😂 💯

[@catherineonwellness]

😂😂😂

[@BeeLynda-m3m]

Silly

[@akilahsimon9819]

Bum

[@sheilap9854]

This Guy Had A Smirk On His Face the Hold Time She Was talking about the things He's Done to Her🤔 Yet I Don't think She Wants to leave him🤔

[@finestdime]

We know she's not gonna kick him out. And yea she def ain't leaving. Why is beyond me. Cuz the chump is a loser in every way. Not providing for the household. Doesn't get up to take care of the kids. He needs more sleep? From what?!

[@briankenneth5818]

...a lack of self esteem is dangerous....she ain't going no where

[@NikP8007]

Very dangerous

[@niece585]

Sadly

[@ingridphillip5367]

Tell me about it!!!!!!!

[@vanyeboah6075]

poor thang

[@AunteeShugah]

I pray as she leaves

[@neveradullmoment6882]

Put her out of the car? Ohhhh hell no

[@sharonwilder7551]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gailsmith836]

Out of HER car. With her children still in it.

[@neveradullmoment6882]

@@gailsmith836 Smh

[@WesleyLindsey]

I will NEVER understand why these ladies stay with the most lazy, MEAN, apathetic partners. You’d literally do better by yourself.

[@charmainewalker8627]

Can’t understand 😮

[@jannejames7224]

Desperate!!!

[@michellemguni8298]

literally

[@awesome.andrea]

Patrichary is telling women everyday they need a man and is nothing without a man, this isn't mystery.

[@onewapani]

Incredibly low self esteem. Usually, a person attracts their parent. In her case, probably her own dad. I've taught seminars about it. It's almost a guarantee that this man is a shadow of someone else that was in her formative years in her life. Once a woman recognizes it, she changes herself esteem and her life for the better.

[@cooljj55]

He’s very sassy. Rubbed me the wrong way with his actions and words.

[@mauricethomas654]

I just said this!!!!! “Sis! He don’t want you!” 🫣🫣🫣

[@debbiejenkins7840]

RUN..... DONT WALK, RUNNNN

[@viviancoleman8109]

You hear me these men don't want a woman they want a mama.

[@pkjuliet]

Facts!!!!

[@wandagreene4668]

​​Girl, I got one question, why is she with him. You can tell by the look on his face she is speaking the truth, and you can tell by how she cowers, he is controlling. Please run Forest Run!

[@minervaloves]

I think he's probably manipulating her. I hope she gets some therapy to get stronger and leave that awful situation.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

But she wanted him. She was calling out to him at the check cashing place. He wasn’t looking for her. she went for what she wanted and got him to marry her, which was what she wanted too.

[@BeeLynda-m3m]

Run

[@lindadewese6754]

He saw her coming,the wolves can smell their chosen victims "insecurities".

[@bryanbeeman5256]

She spoke to him first…. What show are you looking at?

[@beeautifuldreamer2211]

This is not a marriage. She needs to go.

[@sydneyc100]

He just wants to drive people nuts. He gets asked a direct question, then answers with the most insignificant information that does not apply to the question asked. Unfortunately, his behavior isn't going to change because, like Judge said, she lacks self-respect and boundaries. ASKING a disrespectful person to respect you and continuing to deal with them is insane. She needs counseling.

[@cynthiaward4512]

He looks like The Predator and acts like a broke buster..Sister get your babies and keep it moving..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bryanbeeman5256]

But she hollared at him

[@cynthiaward4512]

@@bryanbeeman5256 Yes, and now crying..tragic

[@SweetBeeNatural]

I can't figure out why she married him. He sounds like a scrub.

[@melaninandaura9713]

He sounds slow

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

You know these 🥷🏽 will 🍆🍆🍆 they way out of homelessness and to provision.

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

You know these 🥷🏽 will 🍆🍆🍆 they way out of homelessness and to provision.

[@WesleyLindsey]

Couldn’t even spend $10 at the local Lowe’s to get himself a new key

[@t.c.5456]

Sounds like??😂😂😂 he IS

[@doloresturner6094]

HOW IN THE HELL HE DOESN'T WORK, HE'S CHEATING AND DID I SAY CUTE NO I DIDN'T AND PUTTING HER WEAK BUT OUT THE HOUSE AND HER CAR IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN OH HELL NO !! 🤨

[@andreaaugustus4377]

Lmaooooo this the comment that took me out 😭😭😭 “Did I say cute, no I didn’t!” Lmaooooo

[@adrnstanley]

He seems a bit shallow and almost cognitively detached. I see some crazy in his eyes. She need to heal as far away from this fool as possible

[@northphillyp]

.....This man snaps on her for waking him up early like he had a job to go to..Its a good thing her mom is there cuz chances are this divorce was finalized

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Mother and Daughter, wow could have sworn they were twins ❤💯

[@ebbyf294]

Yup they look the same age and all and Im not talking about 33

[@Yeshuadaughter727]

Why is the judge not addressing the elephant in the room his abusive ways and why she is just dealing with it

[@andreataylor2113]

Can’t no man put me out my house where I’m paying all the bills! She had to walk out to be put out, I’m not going nowhere

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Exactly!!! 💯

[@khigg40]

If you allow a person to disrespect you, they will. People must love themselves and demand more.

[@khigg40]

I need Judge Toler. Divorce should've been recommended.

[@karenjones7794]

He came in her life like a wrecking ball he is toxic get away from that dude pack up and move get your piece back baby girl

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Two wrongs don’t make a right, but three lefts do….

[@jesstheromantic]

Judge Lynn would’ve called out the whole “I’ll change BUT…” statement. Judge Starr sometimes missed the ball by not course correcting in the moment.

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly. She is insecure and thinks she can’t get any better

[@finestdime]

I think she didn't bother cuz she knows as well as we know, this chick ain't going no where. She let him kick her out 1 too many times.

[@michelleroyall351]

Judge Toler would have leveled him.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

He put you out several TIMES 😮! oh no

[@angiela3439]

I wouldn't DARE waste my life with him...girl RUN NOW!!!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@pkjuliet]

Exactly and don't turn back!!!

[@Springshowers03]

A man that's not working wouldn't be in my home. She has allowed the mistreatment, so he's never gone stop. Yes, he cheats when a woman gives him the chance. She has to let it go. He's just there for the use of things and free rent

[@teresa_chosen]

It’s sad that women need Judge star when he is a loser. He showed his representative and then showed who he really is. An abuser!!

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly so often on these platforms I am thinking why do you need to come to court to see that your relationship isn’t work. Come on man women and men can’t be so insecure or desperate that they hang on to toxic controlling relationship. This man just isn’t mature to be in a relationship much being a parent

[@niece585]

They know exactly what they have they really don't need a co-signer

[@HTAnderson76]

he never even showed his representative, he showed her exactly who he was from day ONE! Her MOM picked up on it, and that's what he doesn't like her Mom trying to talk sense into her daughter's mind. It's pathetic, truly

[@joeyjackson200]

We can’t ignore the fact that judge star always looks amazing ❤

[@Terryreality]

Never to be ignored🤩

[@bonitathompson1640]

she's sharp but not liking the hair thing -- yikes

[@ladygemini123]

Listen girl he is not going to change. Run, run, run. He don't even look like nothing

[@sharonwilder7551]

😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂

[@DH-rt6fl]

girrrl, if you don’t-!!!! 🤬LEAVE his a**!!!!!

[@7Diva504]

Ain’t no way!!!

[@elainecaldwelljoseph4705]

Leave. Why is he not working. When he put you out on the freeway…..

[@nicolettemorr6588]

He is really mean to her. Doesn't protect her and isn't husband material.

[@dayciajtalk88]

Our 7 year old son wakes us up on the weekends around 9:am because that’s when he wants his breakfast!!!

[@LadyNStreet]

Is she with him because she is afraid to be alone, she has low self-esteem, or what?? He is not a good person.

[@HTAnderson76]

the answer is, YES!!!

[@melissawilliams1103]

He’s a child in a man’s body. He isn’t ready to be a husband neither father. Everyone knows when a baby is ready to eat you have to get up no matter how sleepy you are and feed the kids. Than he said feed one and not all three Jesus please fix it

[@mariahthwy]

Pure evil…

[@mauricethomas654]

I’m sorry, but he is a lil too sassy for me! Maybe I’m tripping! 👀👀👀

[@msjordan8232]

No, you're not trippin

[@mboyd692]

I saw that too!

[@toyaward9818]

Why he doesn’t have a job?

[@Chantss_xo]

Cos hes dusty 😐😐😐

[@rowens8056]

I don't understand why men and women come on the show, doesn't take any accountability, disrespects their spouse, has a bad attitude towards their spouse, don't change anything, and etc , but say they're there to save their marriage. Smh

[@robbbietheim2096]

The elephant in the room is her weight, he is a bully because of it, where are the male members of this woman's family, sounds like he may be in need of an attitude check for the disrespect to mom, which should have ,prompted a intervention, by every male member of her family SMH 😠💯

[@bryanbeeman5256]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 if she would have kept her mouth closed when she saw him at the check cashing place, they wouldn’t be here. He’s opportunistic.

[@teresamcbrayer2549]

If I were her, he would have left with divorce papers in his hand

[@_stlouisLady_]

"This is not about what your momma wants or what your husband wants. This is about you!!" Tell em Judge!

[@ashkatnoy3420]

I bet those babies can’t stand to be around him. Please run away from this guy and stay away

[@jeanettacrawford4817]

He is a grown boy real man never mistreat his wife.

[@ayefo7800]

The first time someone THREATENS to kick me out a moving car, in the middle of the highway, that would be the LAST time you see my face. FOH!!!! No one should be putting up with these losers. We can do better, ladies.

[@petrinajackson8380]

Especially out of her own car. These women are so weak

[@jo-annbastings]

I understand how the plaintiff’s mother feels. I know how I would feel if my own daughter would arrive to me with a thug, a bully like that! I wouldn’t be happy and surely would say something he surely wouldn’t like at all!

[@virginiasweets5530]

Um. He don't deserve her. Move on

[@evierose1530]

Hence ,the reason a woman shouldn't go after the man we should wait for the man to find us , I made that mistake an paying for it 🙄

[@SB-tc2jr]

Girl, if you don't leave that undecided dude alone - go let a "whole man" find you! Pick yourself up queen and get your ish together !!! You don't need THAT!

[@keishasmith379]

Any man who doesnt respect my parents i cannot marry. They dont like u for a valid reason and he doesnt respect anyone who tells him he is wrong.

[@TheeMichellesMind]

This right here!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

[@keishasmith379]

Any man makes me leave the place we both live in, I cannot come back. I will figure it out and take my name off the lease. That's too much disrespect.

[@jasminwilliams7097]

He was like that before they got married. She knew and still chose to marry and have kids with that boy.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Yep. She shot her shot with him first. He was trying to get that check he scammed out of the other chick cashed…

[@ebbyf294]

Ain't no way that woman is 33. He must be stressing her OWWWWWWT!!!

[@sharonwilder7551]

Apparently cause she can stop that Cap

[@lovemealways7]

The dude looks kinda suspect to me he looks like he plays for the same team and this marriage is just a front to hide his true identity

[@rozzjack]

Exactly

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Righttt!!! 💯

[@mboyd692]

DL

[@lovemealways7]

@@mboyd692 That too

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

He does not seem like a likeable person.

[@annettealexander5672]

He have never wanted you as his women or wife. He feels he can treat you any kind of way. Drop him and learn to ❤ yourself. Continue to ❤ your children.

[@faithweightsministries1508]

Judge Star didn't even serve the papers!

[@jahawalgern8273]

It gives he abusive cause the if u don’t get out I’ll get u out bid is extreme

[@movingforward789]

So disrespectful, to his wife, his mother-in-law… sad…

[@break-thruproductions]

He gives me downlow vibes. You in danger girl. He doesn't like you not even a little bit. Listen to your mama.

[@davital.washington7416]

Why they keep throwing around the word controlling. He is abusive , manipulative, disrespectful and a deadbeat. He don’t want nothing from her other than a place to lay his head.

[@dezaymckey2077]

Judge Starr definitely be serving looks 🫶🏾💅 #itgirl

[@michelleroyall351]

She comes in looking pretty but falls flat with the advice

[@pamelasmith7550]

Leave Baby Girl, it's not going to change

[@lifeofjazz6944]

Please leave, ma'am.

[@NataliePhillip-m3s]

LEAVE THE SASSY LIL BOY !!!!!! HE IS SWEET AS HELL!!!! ABUSING YOUR WIFE?????????

[@kyki8512]

I started laughing as soon as I read the title! SINGLE WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP 🥴😂😂😂😂

[@melaniegenuinely]

Her mom’s presence wiped all that smiling right off his face. He don’t like her mom…his whole demeanor changed from petty to disgusted. He can’t control the wife like he wants to because of her mom.

[@jannejames7224]

The physical abuse is coming next!!! And what

[@browngoddess5340]

The person who never wants the divorce most of the time be taking advantage of the other person or benefitting the most. He have the nerve to smile the whole time looking like a zesty Wyclef Jean.

[@ingridphillip5367]

The smile on his face says it all!!!!! She’s needy run run and get help

[@chefteddibo1093]

Ain't no way you think your man cheating and you go to your ex-boyfriend house after he kick you out and you just want to sleep on the couch

[@lavidaloca2344]

and while pregnant 😳

[@saniyyah4240]

She didn't serve him the papers 😮

[@jerryclark3225]

Big little boy right there, and Sis you got FOUR kids!

[@rhondapollard2537]

Girl, let it go.

[@desmondlester1790]

Why would you marry someone who doesn't respect your mom from day one it's crazy.

[@monaeeuniquee2534]

Like he puts her out the hotel room n it’s like he expected her to sit at the door begging to b let in

[@Djdreamstudios]

I’m still confused as to why he’s so mad. And why does she need to be the one to leave 😒

[@lakendrasashe6512]

Drop that lil boy like a bad habit!!!

[@vanessalynch5996]

He appears to have an answer for everything with that smile on his face.

[@AunteeShugah]

Exactly

[@desmondlester1790]

They love these type of guys and never leave them.

[@taliacarter515]

He doing all that disrespect while he sits at home and she pays for everything, negative 🤔

[@ZumbaZINJPanda]

17:45 no sir. Divorce.

[@missdowntoearth6968]

Where is Judge Lynn ??? I’m sorry but Judge Lynn would’ve gotten him all the way together

[@AunteeShugah]

Exactly