Classic Divorce Court: Rushing To Marriage

[@tristyy404]

Both under 40, eight kids between them...and y’all thought 21 days was enough! Sweet baby Jesus.

[@ambermindless247]

🤣 sweet baby Jesus

[@jocelynt4605]

Even Jesus said NO! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andream4989]

They obviously don't make good decisions.

[@ItsMissChas5]

💯💯💯

[@terrycarr2310]

Been knowing him since I was 16 don't get it twisted

[@mitylene_bailey]

She has very clear boundaries, well spoken and knows exactly what she wants.

[@terrycarr2310]

Thank u

[@Weeeewriter]

*I like her too*

[@bensongutu]

Welldone girl. She stands her ground & is no push over. Love or not love, keep it up girl. Thats the style.

[@britbrit8058]

Right

[@KnicksNYanks84]

Yeah but who in their right mind marries so soon

[@conniechoward]

He's that brotha that you looked at from a far and thought he was so fine growing up and charismatic and you just wanted him to notice you. The moment he did, you gave your entire world to him only to find out he was a kid with no brain or heart. Poor girl. This is a lesson to us all.

[@scottiebeammeup5753]

Hit it on the nail!

[@monicagowiebrowb545]

Grant the decree

[@terrycarr2310]

I'm glad u all can learn from my mistakes give God some praise

[@stacey6229]

Like 90% of men.

[@yellagirl419]

Yesssss!!!!! Great description 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@abuhuraira3685]

Dear viewers A great marriage doesn't happen because of the love you had in the beginning But how well you continue building love until the end God bless you all

[@candystayinaturalalexander5869]

@Ana Gooch perhaps one where the participants are happy...the majority of the time.

[@deficator750]

Everyone is horney.

[@Heh3469]

Abu Huraira A great marriage takes work. No matter how much a couple loves each other there will still be times when both won't like each other very much. Its just a phase so don't ever give up on each other. Parents love their kids and kids love their parents but there are times when each gets sick of being around the other but they wouldn't sever that relationship. It should be the same with husbands and wives. The key is communication thru the good and bad times. Also, make time for each other that doesn't include the kids or anyone else. Always respect each other and always tell or show them how much you love, care and appreciate them. I agree with Judge Toler about not living together or having kids without being married. It may sound old fashion but kids need both parents in the home who love and respect each other. The only thing I disagree with her about is saying 20 is too young to marry and have kids. It may be too young for this Me-Me don't want to commit generation which is the the older generation's fault for giving their kids everything they want without teaching them the value of hard work and the value of a dollar. FYI: My husband and I met in 6th grade where in Miss Long's Science class he told me that I was beautiful and that he was going to marry me some day (we were 11 yrs old). He really proposed to me on my 18th birthday and gave me a diamond ring where you had to use a magnifying glass to see the diamond. 😂 By the way, I said YES! He has asked me several times thru the years if I wanted an upgrade but my answer will always no. Looking down on my left ring finger brings back all the feelings of fireworks going off and my heart skips a beat just like it did back then.We were married at 20, had our son at 21 and our daughter at 23. We now have a 15 yr old grandson and a 5 year yr old granddaughter where there isn't a word to describe the love we have for them. The sayings "If we knew that grandchildren were this much fun, we would have had them first", "I never knew how much love my heart could hold until someone called me Grandma" or "My greatest blessings call me Grandma" and many others are true! We celebrated our 38th wedding anniversary this past August (2019). We love each other more now than when we first fell in love. He still gives me butterflies in my stomach when he gives me a certain look or holds my hand and it's the same for him. The love we have now vs when we first fell in love is a deeper love that includes our children who were conceive in love and our grandchildren, respect, kindness, compassion, helpmate, best friend and yes still a passionate love. If I could go back in time I would marry him again in a heartbeat. I wouldn't change a thing about our "Love Story" and the perfect ending would be like the movie "The Notebook" with our children and grandchildren remembering our love for each other and for them! It may sound corny but it's true.

[@michellebello5098]

Well said👏🏾👏🏾

[@juanitaervin4757]

@Janeee Doeeé shared values like mind set and commitment three things my marriage most definitely is lacking

[@c.alexander7775]

Good God this woman is absolutely gorgeous...I bet she is a great wife. I so hope she finds a husband that shows her REAL love & tells her every single day

[@Bibie217]

I need a man that thinks like you 😆

[@markfullilove9983]

She won’t because she won’t appreciate a good man.

[@ainazz4979]

She deserves respect. And she's claiming it with style.

[@IceWhiteice22]

mark fullilove You think just like me.

[@c.alexander7775]

@@markfullilove9983 I think she will

[@NicoliePollieOllie]

When she snapped about her daughter dating at 16, I felt that!

[@peacefaith560]

yesss

[@Opinions-galore24]

YES HONEY!!

[@denisiafrancisco1628]

I just love the power in her voice

[@tahshaarmstrong2729]

What he saw was a women with a few kids and some self-esteem issues and thought he would diminish and destabilize her! He was wrong and he lost interest! She's to strong for him

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

*Bingo*

[@markfullilove9983]

And what she saw in him was an opportunity to get with guy she could get with when she was a teenager.

[@lauradavis3578]

This idiot needs Judge Judy🙄

[@creating1_c1999]

predatory

[@alexvensel5730]

He was thinking with his you know what.

[@maycoma]

He had to marry her quickly because he could not keep up the facade...pretending to be a good man. His mask slipped. Run woman, run and don’t look back

[@abigailsimpson5904]

He is a narcissist that's exactly what they do. Rush into things quickly because they are good at pretending but not for long. Once they think they have you, The abuse starts. She better leave.

[@reinamacaren-a4132]

@@abigailsimpson5904 I really do wish General Psychology is mandatory in highschool like it is in college. Sooooo many people wouldn't even begin to get into a relationship once they analyze their possibility first🤔

[@ItsMissChas5]

Wow!! Truth spoken here!

[@kellihart2185]

@@ItsMissChas5 AMEN..He acts like he is the PRIZE..RUN..👑

[@terrycarr2310]

I did indeed thank u 🙏

[@lenas3482]

He reminds me of Richard Jones in Why Did I Get Married. 😩

[@Tone__Wes]

I'm assuming you meant Richard Jones because Morris Chestnut wasn't in that movie.

[@StromLxrd6]

@@Tone__Wes lmao😂

[@lenas3482]

TampaTony86 oh lawd you right!!!! Lmao

[@TheNaphisa03]

Yaaassssss! Same personality too.

[@msfredijr]

Act like him too! Hellion!

[@1221albi1]

My mother always said, “you should go through all four seasons before you get married.” 21 days? That’s crazy. He was looking for a place to stay. He had one month to move out before he moved in with her.

[@terrycarr2310]

He was a poor excuse for a husband but we both had our own before we got together and again I knew him long before 21 days listen to what I said in the beginning of the show

[@jadarozier1610]

Hey I believe that you have to have to believe in yourself

[@jadarozier1610]

@@terrycarr2310 I was

[@crystalkimble7018]

Chile...you took the thought right out my brain...needed somewhere to stay...they know who to prey on!

[@crystalkimble7018]

First off, he AIN'T ALL DAT.....at all! That horribly tailored jacket is covering up his ahhnnt ughnn

[@beautifullegends1223]

I know this women she has a beautiful voice. And im do happy on how she presented and represented her self on this show. She has a amazing and big heart

[@turquoiseheart6320]

Yes she seems like the real deal. Like the rare and far between ones that are worth their weight in gold. The ones that when you hear about them you regret you couldnt meet them...

[@beautifullegends1223]

😏 ho ever u are il be sure to tell her to read these comments

[@gailsmith836]

She is very smart. This guy didn't last long before her eyes were opened.

[@ItsMissChas5]

Really? Well, Tell her we were rooting for her!

[@beautifullegends1223]

@@ItsMissChas5 i will, i actually told her that people where commenting on this video. She looked for it but couldn't find it.this video is at least 5 years old now

[@Pokimony]

I feel like he shouldn’t of married her at all if he wanted her to change so much....

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

have

[@Heh3469]

T G Just stop! This isn’t English class. There are many people who leave the “have” out of the sentence when speaking.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

@Ana Gooch Thank You. I wasn't trying to be ugly at all.

[@coriesmith2633]

He didn’t know her to know what to expect to change

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

@Ana Gooch People kill me getting offended by word correction. I thank them. Personally, I'd rather not be IGNORANT. I know some know better and use short hand on the net. But a lot of people are under educated... I'm educated & WILL ALWAYS WELCOME EDUCATIONAL CORRECTION.. THAT'S JUST ME🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@CainaanDC]

21 days not even a full month .

[@superblessed2956]

SMH

[@beewilliams8447]

Not even in a leap year smh 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

He wasn't a stranger... They've been knowing each other since they were kids.. They still were not ready..

[@juliakwafo1713]

😂😂

[@dawonfields4662]

How many weeks is 21 days

[@taoroahgah]

he sees she’s strong and doesn’t need him and does everything to try to change her to make her weak so he can control her. A weak man can’t take a strong woman he’s intimidated.

[@biancasbeautycenter1009]

Exactly well said

[@harrietnankyakasonganickim3672]

Brandy Peals she’s beautiful too

[@tsotsiburundi8444]

PREACH!!

[@ondreahall1536]

Strong is not the same as overbearing. Obviously she needed him if she married him. She was tired of having to play the man all those years alone with her children and rightfully so. But you cant be the same woman now that you are with someone as you were when you were alone. That just does not make sense.

[@beverlyhall4578]

Get rid of his long head ass. He ain't all that.

[@rebeccarose8745]

I love her. Honestly. Knows her own mind. So strong and powerful. Looks after her man and just wants love and respect back. Honestly run baby and find someone who deserves you.

[@terrycarr2310]

Thank u so much I did just that

[@mlm1916]

@@terrycarr2310 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 🤝🏾 And, btw, you're 'f i n e'‼️ very articulate and intelligent and secure. If your daughter grew up to be half the woman you are, she'll be great !

[@terrycarr2310]

@@mlm1916 Thank u so much 💗

[@jettanyiagumbs6091]

Cultivated...sis in 21 days...that's bearly a full menstrual cycle...😳

[@nereahoketch9286]

Preach it! 😂😂😂😂

[@tatianadorce1731]

😭😭😭😭😱😱😜😜

[@islandgirl9479]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@islandgirl9479]

@@tatianadorce1731 girl your emojis is killing me right now I'm dead.🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀

[@estherbukari9062]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sherlynthemysteriousrose7303]

He gives me bad energy, he'll destroy every women he comes across with if he doesn't change.

[@nadinethomas9407]

and heeeeeeee is so ugly with his mango size head..and prolly withered "utensil"

[@gailsmith836]

That's what it is. He's got a cloud of evilness over him.

[@RTA6226]

@@nadinethomas9407 Bwahahahahahahahaha! 😂😂😂

[@kandylandtarot142]

@@nadinethomas9407 now that's a read!

[@simplyme9016]

Yes

[@bambidaydreamer3]

It took me 2 years to be comfortable enough to bring my boyfriend around my child. She has teen girls and could've brought home a child molester. She should know better than that.

[@angelhill3239]

Exactly

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

How did everyone missed that they've known each other since they were kids.. Either way, I never trusted men around my girl when she was a child, or even now that she is grown..

[@paulasch8325]

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 I feel sorry for your kids. they have felt that and grew up not trusting males. bad stuff

[@destiny8967]

Thats really smart of you tbh not a lot of people do that from what ive seen

[@abigailsimpson5904]

Exactly and he is a narcissist. Narcissist are emotionally and often physically abusive. They are capable of anything. She better run.

[@sya286]

He does what a lot of men do: get excited by a strong independent women, but expect them to turn into a submissive when they marry em. It's so misguided.

[@iamnicole303]

He got the right one. Some women would demolish him verbally and mentally if he tried to speak to them in that manner. Like literally bring him to his knees and have him question his entire existence. I think we as humans can sense who we can treat a certain way and who we can’t treat a certain way.

[@ItsMissChas5]

I think she could have too, and might actually have on more than a fee occassions, bc look where they are.... 🤷🏾‍♀️ but you're right tho.

[@terrycarr2310]

That is true but I bet u he wish he would not have done any of those things now

[@banishasinha141]

That woman is actually me . I would literally not tolerate this behaviour from anyone , literally u get respect and u give respect . Periodt

[@jasmineetienne3361]

I knew a woman , lawyer, than became judge married to a narcissist and was so poorly treated in private. Being strong or smart nòt Always prevent you falling for their tricks . They are predators, cold calculators. AT l'East , she reacted and have strong boundaries

[@beverlyhall4578]

I am that female that will demolish you verbally. Don't bring that noise here. Baby, I will set the house on fire literally.

[@ukbluebell09]

He is so insensitive to her feelings. How do you claim to love someone and then pick them apart with no regards to her feelings? She needs to let him go before he completely ruins her self confidence.

[@terrycarr2310]

He did me a favor u should see me now lol.... thank u

[@sn6328]

@@terrycarr2310 I am just now watching... your power and strength are amazing. I definitely empathize with your situation and I'm glad you grew from it. I went through something similar, but learned a lot about myself and relationships as well. Are you two still together?

[@traceysbodytreats257]

@@sn6328 she left thank goodness! He was a complete JERK!

[@beverlyhall4578]

She has to allow him to erode her confidence. People only do what you allow them to do.

[@michellepalladino5079]

I can see why she fell for him so quickly. He puts on a damn fine show. He’s a perfect example of a sheep in wolfs clothing.

[@lisareid3336]

Wow you nailed that...

[@lisareid3336]

Wolf in Sheep's clothing...wow...

[@1010QUEEN7]

He's a snake 🐍

[@mstoyapayne8573]

Exactly

[@acole2356]

Judge Toler is a beast!! My goodness I love love love this judge!! She just tells the God honest TRUTH with firmness and strength!! Her words just hits you right in the guts!!!! She's totally awesome in my book!! 💛🧡💛🧡

[@beb5407]

I totally agree

[@MsEast8]

The judge summed him up impeccably. She hit the nail right on it's head.

[@carlawright9287]

He “Captivated”you in the beginning , not cultivated you...He’s the one that needs to be cultivated!

[@sn6328]

Cultivated also works... look up the definition. There are many definitions, not just "to grow".

[@joeljumpp2190]

Bro... Someone told me this when I was getting married "Tell a woman she is beautiful in the morning and she forgets it by afternoon. Tell her she's unattractive and she remembers it for the rest of her life." We are different but marriage is a beautiful thing... we just have to grow together.

[@ezaserrano4677]

Judge Lynn Toler is serving soft glam like no one’s MFing business and I’m living and dying by that

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Yeah. She looks great!

[@bellakellzzz]

Yassss! She always looks so nice

[@pattyboss5619]

Dont settle for no type of abuse honey it leads to depression and anxiety you are valuable you are enough that's not love ...love don't hurt that's meaningful downgrading words to say to the woman u love

[@modiehitshehle5080]

👍🏻

[@ck.5218]

Marry in haste , repent at leisure...love bombed her to get her.. once he got her criticised her..a true Narc..he HAS to put her down to feel better about himself.. minimises his faults and wrong doings, typical. He causing division between her and her daughter wanting to come off as the better “ parent” undermining her mother.. I’d watch him around my daughters.. Aww he coming across as the victim.. he barged into her life , and wants to run it his way. I wrote all this before watching the end and Judge Tollers judgment.. she’s absolutely spot on .. she stopped shy of calling him narcissistic.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

I believe u are 1000% correct.

[@trevormontaque6016]

Kathy, you nailed it.

[@TruValidity]

Exactly!

[@ItsMissChas5]

I believe you are 100% correct.

[@themasterspiece5669]

I’m glad someone said this. Most males are like this, unfortunately!

[@BlaqueRose23]

I need these men to try to understand that you cannot undo the hurt and pain you cause a woman once you attack her looks/weight.

[@antaresscorpicus692]

Then keep your weight normal and your looks up to par.

[@shennillebrown7626]

Antares Scorpicus if he Put on weight he would expect her to love him regardless. A lot of you men are superficial and one-sided

[@whispers.ofthemind]

Antares Scorpicus you say that like diseases and such can’t change both those. How about love someone for who they are or leave them alone?

[@BlaqueRose23]

I wouldn't waste my time responding to this person. One day, real life is going to hit him like a sledgehammer, then he'll understand.

[@annisaarthur-castro6227]

They know that, that's why they do it. When they realized you're secure in all other areas that's their final weapon against you.

[@sonjigathright3174]

Lovebombing. Definitely a whole narcissist

[@DaughteroftheNile]

I definitely got narc vibes from him!!

[@abigailsimpson5904]

She better run

[@buckwheat_flower]

I felt so triggered. My ex was exactly like that and brush it off like "It's just a joke".

[@vondawilliams6260]

He's a narc...run girl run..I went through the same thing

[@mstoyapayne8573]

Yep

[@martijackson2749]

What an amazing woman! She's beautiful, she's strong & she keeps her boundaries firm. I love how she refuses to let him control her & put her down. She's the type of woman who deserves the world.

[@elishebax]

This Queen is so real. I can so relate.

[@oluwaseunmabinuori98]

I think It’s better we understand that Life isn’t a bed of roses and it only takes a smart and determined mind to know what he or she is getting into. There’s a popular saying that: “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they are toxic. I discovered my husband of 13 years cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover his Infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his social media accounts. I read all recent and deleted chats On his WhatsApp, Snapchat, and emails with a remote link on my phone. I’m here in L.A and able to read my husband’s text even while he was away in Australia cheating on me. I found out through his chats that my husband has been secretly diverting our hard earned savings to his old school mistress for upkeeps. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i am going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him.. You can contact this Sage hacker Via Gmail (cyberhackingsage@gmail ) Or Text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp [phone] and don’t forget to thank me later.

[@KnottyCeltic]

"Do you think I'm fat?" Girl... what's the judge supposed to say? Clinically speaking she is obese and probably morbidly obese. The issue is usually that women already know how much they weigh, they don't need to be TOLD. For him to call her fat is just rude and ignorant. I was with my husband for 25 years and I was ALWAYS either too thin or too fat. There's no pleasing people like that so you shouldn't try. I've learned but it took a very long time b/c he whittled away my self esteem to nothing.

[@marg4229]

Same for me. I lost about 10 pounds within the first year after getting married and looked my best in a bikini on Hawaiian vacation. I never, ever, got a compliment that I looked nice during whole married life. He was chubby when I dated him and he did lose his few extra pounds before we married. I didn't care about what size he was but when I put on weight after two kids he never said anything. An unguarded moment of seeing the disgust on his face when I sat really close to him on the sofa was enough to make me divorce him though. I then knew exactly how he really felt about me. We had been married for 12 years. I wasn't going to spend any more years with a man who didn't love me at all the (size) stages in our life together.

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

Good for you.. The NERVE.. AFTER WE GAIN WEIGHT FROM... CARRYING WHOLE HUMAN BEINGS.. THAT THEY IMPREGNATED US WITH..🙄

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

That's just gratuitous. The definition of obese is 100 lbs overweight. Morbidly obese is 200 lbs overweight. That woman is 30 lbs overweight at the most. Please don't play with the word obese. It's a clinical term, not slang. (This is coming from someone who is unable to gain weight, I've been 115 at my smallest & 165 at my heaviest & 5'9" tall. I was also a sport science major in college, so I know that you're just being rude. Please stop.)

[@KnottyCeltic]

@@OSMRDucksLIB "Obesity" isn't measured by pounds and certainly not 100 pounds. It's measured by Body Mass Index. It's a calculation. You can be 15 or 20 pounds over weight and be "obese".

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

@@KnottyCeltic Go look it up. Obese is 100 lbs over your body mass index which is calculated by gender & height. Smh Stop saying things just bc you think it's right. Get the education first, then talk.

[@alishashadows9599]

I love Judge's hair like this vs spiked. Oh and her nails are done! So cute.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

It is cute.

[@gemiriamford537]

She is not "hood" at all! She seems independent and strong! 💪

[@raqui174]

Exactly! On this show I’ve seen hood and she ain’t it

[@ShelbyJonai]

That is a powerful woman, clear, well spoken and with a backbone. That man has the wrong one for his simple minded shenanigans.

[@StromLxrd6]

bro hands small asf😂 got toddler hands on a adult body

[@latoniakelly4028]

DJ Apocalyptic 👍

[@1stTia]

His 🍆 gotta be small with hands that size 😂😂 The last man that criticized my body had a baby carrot 🥕 for a p*nis. 🙄

[@bootyliciousblitz296]

Niafurstia Queen I wanted to say the same too 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@msfredijr]

RIGHT! I couldn’t put my finger on it until you said it.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

Hahahaha I noticed that too.

[@Mtownraven]

Mrs Carr: Do you think I’m fat? Me: I MEAN...

[@ondreahall1536]

@nyladyinred For real. Truth be told she is fat. Does that make me wrong or mean for telling you the truth. SMH. Fat people try to take everyone hostage and force them to say smooth things to keep the peace. That's a shame.

[@junebaptiste8659]

Yep! You are fat!!!

[@stilljocelyn4166]

💀😩

[@geenal360]

A woman who brings some huge man she knew for 21 days into her home married or not- with a 15 who wants to date-is asking for problems in many ways -She might have "fought" her whole life- now she put down a human sacrifice. That is flat out stupidity.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

So if he's smaller it'll be ok..?

[@geenal360]

T G no- Just pointing out the stupidi ty

[@angelhill3239]

Preach she's disgusting they should take her kids

[@ItsMissChas5]

I totally understand what you're saying!!! So accurate!

[@Extraordinary-80]

Damn the judge gave it to him good.

[@jackyjaytron8114]

I wish Divorce Court had a WhatsApp chat group.

[@raqui174]

That would be awesome I’m down for it 🤣🤣

[@t.c.5456]

I must say. These comments are well thought out mini essays. I love it.

[@pppexplorer]

When people say they seek counselling from their pastor, I can't help but roll my eyes. 🙄 Get counselling from a trained psychologist / therapist who has studied human psychology!

[@yen-8680]

There should be a law to forbid ppl to marry before dating at least 100 days 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@BlaqueRose23]

I'd sign that petition!

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

He needs to change his verbiage, if he truly love her. For example: “Ay baby, do you wanna go to the gym with me?” Dating at 15 years old? She has every right to say when her daughter dates, and if she feels like her daughter isn’t fit to date at 15, then she isn’t, at that time. 16-17 years old is still okay to date. He’s hyper-masculine, and he doesn’t give his wife room to fully be in her femininity. He needs to relish in her femininity and work from there.

[@mdungethulile]

Ms. Rawkii Joy You’re spot on.

[@marshallwebdesignwilson3667]

She was also wrong for bringing that man into her home with her 15-year-old daughter!

[@nuwoman1828]

I feel they may stand a chance but it's going to be extra hard work.

[@angelhill3239]

@@marshallwebdesignwilson3667 these women r sick everybody on this post r the reason why kids get molested that was my first thought 21 days and you got kids sad

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

@@angelhill3239 We’re all getting a glimpse of of via each perspective. They were married FOR 21 days - they probably already knew and dated each other beforehand so I don’t get the “sick,” comments.

[@baraamalek3321]

He's a covert narcissist, they hide their toxicity very well and the mask doesn't slip off until way later but his slipped off right away, i'm glad that the judge was able to see through him.

[@tiffanywarfield9375]

"Has the WEIGHT of Robert's criticism, CRUSHED their marriage life?" The PLAY ON WORDS/WORD PLAY of the commentator......🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

[@beth1965]

Judge,I sure do appreciate the way You and the Young Lady interact on this episode.I appreciate all your court room shows.I only get adult viewing when watching You and Joe in Your court room.Thank You very much for Being Our Queen Mother.May Glory continue to keep You Love and Your family.be blessed

[@daniellecl3310]

It's ALL About Control...Which HE *Thought* He Could Have 😂😂😂 But on a serious note, she is better off without him....she's strong, beautiful inside & out 💯 The audacity of him trying to change her...#smh

[@prudyfairyin7941]

This is what happens when you rush things

[@marg4229]

Exactly, but unfortunately even if you know someone for a long time, they can still change drastically after you get married. I agree to not rushing things though.

[@prudyfairyin7941]

One's behavior does not go for transfer. Even if you are in a long time relationship with some one before they changes, atleast u will have an iota of their behavior. But 21 days? Nah

[@deleinedean7088]

Met in June married in September. It’ll be 25 years 2020. It can work out sometimes.

[@riellekoy7196]

How does some one "Cultivate" you/there a gift from God: in three weeks 🤣 this is delusional🤣

[@riellekoy7196]

@@soujournwitness3349 I don't think that wouldve made a difference. These two are set on microwave preperation.

[@nuwoman1828]

She needs love and thought she found it in him.

[@riellekoy7196]

@@nuwoman1828 i just don't understand how in the world she can love someone in 21days. 🤦

[@nuwoman1828]

@@riellekoy7196 all I can assume is she's broken, she mentioned she was raised by her grandparents or great grandparents, she's been lacking a certain type of love and acceptance, she could have mistaken strong infatuation for love.🤔

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

I guess everyone FORGOT she said they have known each other since they were kids.. But they still weren't ready for marriage.. not to each other, that's for sure...

[@ninagetsit5543]

She is gorgeous! Point blank period! As women, we’ve got to do better because we are better. We’re so good that God knew it was wise to establish us in creation. Ladies, we’re queens! We were made to dominate our areas of influence. We can’t do that setting for quick fixes and diy projects, in relationships.

[@ItsSlimK]

This was one of my favorite episodes , she is very intelligent and knows exactly what she wants! Even when he tried to dim her light she Didn’t change! Favorite part “you knew I was hood when you met me”

[@gailsmith836]

I love this closing statement from Judge Tolar.

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

Am I the only one getting Sheila and Mike vibes from 'Why Did I Get Married'?

[@msfredijr]

He’s justa swimming in that borrowed suit. *yawn*

[@Jameshasblueprint]

Bol😂😂😂🙈

[@Nikki3times]

With those tiny hands lmaooo

[@ItsMissChas5]

I thought it looked way too big, too!

[@phreshking5747]

Baby hands

[@rosetaylor8426]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@binkydink4496]

CAPTIVATED GIRL! Not cultivated 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@daehoward549]

That's what she was tryna say the whole time. I was wondering why the hell she kept saying he cultivated her. 😵😵😵😵😵

[@binkydink4496]

Dae Howard i know the judge was like huh?? 😂

[@loveandlight_]

@@daehoward549 😂😂😂😂😂

[@annisaarthur-castro6227]

Thanks for straightening that out. I'm usually quick on the uptake but I was stumped with this one.

[@egcarswell]

😂😂😂😂😂 Yooo the judge was looking at her like "CULTIVATED???", sis was all the way wrong lol. This is why folks shouldn't go on TV trying to look intelligent lol.

[@RajA-wi2ut]

I come here for the entertainment. Leave with pearls of wisdom. I love this Judge.

[@yemedemure414]

He’s definitely a narcissist! He doesn’t deserve her one bit!! She’s beautiful and reminds of that one actress with the big pretty eyes and cute little voice. Let that milk dud head creep go Sis.

[@Jameshasblueprint]

Loretta 😍😍😍😍

[@lisettebrown8317]

Yes!! She does favor Loretta Devine. Two beautiful women.

[@pamelamajors1573]

@Cre Brown, I believe You are talking about Loretta Devine whom played in Waiting to Exhale, she was the ex wife of Danny Esposito in that movie, he was gay, she wound up getting with Gregory Hines, if so I agree with You.

[@candiecurls8256]

That part! My ex narc would bathe me shave me etc and talk down on me and literally did the same thing broke down sections of my body he like and didn’t like 🤦🏾‍♀️ soon as she said that 😱

[@sharonsmalls6846]

I am morbidly obese and I'm changing my lifestyle. The first thing a boyfriend said to me during the first phone call was, 'I like meat.' He only wanted to hear about weight loss if it dealt with health. He made me feel as if I was a size 10. He had no problems with any part of my body. He was the only guy I had been with as an obese person. I struggled with his acceptance, his embracing me. I don't call myself fat and you better not either. Do not degrade me because I will leave, and hopefully not belittle you before I leave.

[@Jameshasblueprint]

She keep giving him that married for 12 years stare like I cant stand him

[@Bookauru]

They couldn't wait a year...........atleast 6 months

[@jerika930]

Cause she not having it she might have speed married him but she speed leaving his ass to. Its so many times thats women be in theses types of relationships for years

[@msholliday3935]

I am having a hard time feeling sorry for her. He is her bad decision. If she gave him a few more weeks to DROP THE ACT this would have all come out.

[@bryanmitchell6809]

Both sides have problems nice to see someone think a bit and notice. I was feeling lonely reading comments.

[@SimmerJas]

I really like her! I hope that she find someone that can handle her up & her downs in life & love her she is.

[@SassShea]

He has a damn good woman on his hands, but hes gon mess it up tryna rule over her.

[@MacAutoDiag]

God said wives must submit to their husbands

[@SassShea]

@@MacAutoDiag LMAOOOOO yea ok sir😂😂😂

[@marg4229]

@@MacAutoDiag Wives submitting to their husbands? This kind of reasoning is why religion is not for many people. That sounds like slavery and rules made up by a bunch of moron men to get their way in everything.

[@PS1652]

@@marg4229 Not only are those rules made by Morons, also Cheaters and child molestor that is why I do my praying at the Casino and with more meaning than at church.

[@marg4229]

@@PS1652 Good luck at the Casino! Have fun but remember the odds are in their favor.

[@Sacrelily]

Robert had maybe hidden intentions toward her children. I know it's heavy saying that but I see he's very manipulative, to not even talk about pervert narcissic

[@bunny1114]

Exactly, very scary

[@d.jkellzworldentertainment9561]

I love this judge wahooo she is funny

[@carlettecampbell7009]

Can I tell you I love her. She always hit the nail on the head

[@ItsMissChas5]

Yes she is!

[@ewutrygetsense9851]

That's why I miss her alot since she left dc is no d same anymore

[@zomgeleana]

I always wondered what it would feel like to be lectured by this Judge. She really tells you exactly what you need to hear

[@revlaird6979]

I so love the color in her hair that orange is banging and it's just on point she's got a real pretty face I think she needs to take time to herself and just work on her 1000% the hell with him if he couldn't accept her at her size he should have never married her I think it's very disrespectful for him to talk about he don't like her stomach and he don't like her weight but he's nothing to look at he's not a handsome man at all and for her to put up with him that's a miracle in itself she can do bad by her damn self it's not worth no man humiliating you and just want sex from you but can't take time to show you that he appreciates you marriage is a serious thing in the sight of God and if you ain't got God in your life and bringing God in the marriage first is not going to stay anyway nobody deserves to be miserable and unhappy and I hope and pray that she will in 20/20 work on herself she's a bright beautiful young lady whether she's from the hood or not start working on not just losing 25 pounds but go up and lose 85 pounds not for a man but for herself not to please anybody but to please the inner thought of her own insecurities stop this garbage 2020 Happy New Year to everybody🤔😪💨💇🏽💇🏽💇🏽🖤💖💙💜💎💎💎🆒❇️✳️🤐😎🐦💫✴️🤡🤡🤡🤡🤔🤔😪😪💨🖤💙💜❇️✳️✴️🐦💫

[@Denise-pn5el]

I agree with everything you said but just want to say this...you can do GREAT by yourself too! Too often we mistakenly equate not having a partner as doing "bad." That woman is beautiful, bright, a go getter and could accomplish a lot without the dead weight of him hanging around her neck. When she gets on track she'll meet her soul/goal mate and soar.

[@KrisShawnC]

The wisdom Judge provides is priceless

[@jasmineg9738]

When she asked if she was fat Judge Toler’s eyes were like “oh crap how should I tell her!”

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

I know.

[@toeaxn]

Her asking that annoyed tf outta me! She know damn well she's fat...and it doesn't take away from her looks, but why ask a question you already know the answer to? Or maybe she's just delusional 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@feleciagoldson2834]

"Cultivating a woman", is reconstructing, her thought process. Positioning, her mind to breakdown, her self esteem, so she can be easily gaslit, and manipulated. That's was his exact reasoning for selecting a "healthy", female.💯 Real, talk.🕊

[@earlinecobb1722]

C'MON ON GIRL YOU GOT IT TOGETHER DON'T LET HIM TALK TO YOU ANY KINDA WAY

[@naready7050]

It is wonderful to see a strong woman standing up for herself. Some men can't deal with a woman with a backbone. That's is why the strong ones are single, and loving it. Only the "WEAK", kneel.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

I hate when women do that. Ask you, “Do I look fat or am I fat?”, and if anyone answers yes she would go off on them tell you’re an asshole, etc. Judge was trying to answer without hurting her feelings by saying she look healthy. Don’t ask questions if you can’t handle whatever answer comes with it.

[@turquoiseheart6320]

That's why i dont ask. Most people will give you a negative opinion and call it advice- " because i love you and care what happens to you". I know my worth and i know what i look like, i dont need to ask someone what they think i look like. When im ready to lose weight i wont ask "do you think i need to lose weight?" I'll ask:" where's a good dietitian?" Being a good friend doesnt mean you hand out your negative opinions whether you are asked or not. It means being there to pick up the pieces when the sh** hits the fan without judgement. The only time you're allowed to criticize is when it hurts you personally or when you're being paid to do so.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

Turquoise Heart All good points

[@cymbolichuman433]

You could say that about a lot of things. Don't fish for compliments if you care about your own feelings.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

You know that she is not going to see or respond to your comment. Right???

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

@@Michelle-pn9xt no shit, that’s not what the comment section is for.

[@ToBeReel]

"You think you are the King of something." Wow--so profound and so accurate.

[@kaiah5314]

OMG! Judge Toler is so great !!! Love the way she rules!!!

[@carolhart8276]

That woman is just so real so refreshingly, that smooth skin and smile, we all have so much to learn from one another. Lovely lady hope you are happy wherever you may be xx

[@Hunnicaxe]

There’s a difference between motivating your partner and tearing them down, and that’s what he’s doing. My parents wanted to lose weight together so they made an in-home gym and they encourage each other to work out, and my dad cooks for my mom or I cook for them. I’d rather my man walk with me and make me feel beautiful and motivated during the weight loss process, than point fingers at my flaws.

[@SaltandLight70x7]

And why does he look like Sheila's husband in "Why did I get married?" 😂😂😂

[@fatimanakale1915]

I love this judge’s voice 🥰

[@briel7904]

"He CULTIVATED me." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Had to pause the vid for this.

[@julinalilly3903]

Can't wait to see this classic episode of Divorce Court

[@latoyaanderson2015]

I thought when I married my husband 6months after dating him I was crazy but 21 days omg that's beyond my comprehension. 5 years later I'm still happily married so I guess I made the right choice.

[@keligsp8962]

Thank You Judge Lynn. I will be signing those papers!👍🏾😉

[@howdyyall4352]

Dang I thought that was Mike from Tyler Perry's "Why Di I Get Married?".

[@teal1010]

You can see how broken hearted she is realizing she has to end the marriage because he is not the man she wants!

[@savedonlybygrace4705]

"I am all they know and what I say Go"... eeuuuweeee

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

This is like a joke. He looks like dude from Tyler perry and she's overweight like Jill Scott was on the movie. And why in the TF would you bring a stranger around your kids?👀🎤 #desperate

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

From Tyler Perry... Really??? Tyler Perry is a person. He looks like the guy from Tyler Perry's movie. She does not look like Jill Scoot, she is not built like that either. She Scoot was overweight, but curvy with more of an hour glass shape.

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

@@Michelle-pn9xt reminds me of why did I get married. Does he not favor Richard T. Jones? He acts like Richard T. Jones' character, Michael, in why did I get married

[@tearahasmith-lane7417]

He's giving Mike from Why Did I Get Married

[@sweetpea1311]

I swear I love judge Lynn mote & more I watch her show . She just tell it like it is and my mind works like hers ! She's the best !

[@shelocsher2396]

She’s bomb. I hope she chooses more carefully next time.

[@WestJason9]

21 days isn't long enough to know whether u are compatible with that other person..if she knew he would consistently belittle and criticize her I doubt she would've married him

[@zoridahall4732]

Thank you Judge lynn,,, tell this oxy Moran what time it is lol love your program ,very much a naturalist, when it comes to the reality your it God bless you always, ❤ Zoe

[@larrycalloway1724]

Wooo wee Judge Lynn Let him have it .

[@VioletOrchid4]

I like this part the best. "Part of the definition of manhood is not simply about how much money you make, or who's, or how many rules you make. It's, can I make the people in my life feel happy, safe and secure."

[@raygentravis3269]

Why are his hands so small?

[@karenhughes9166]

Funny

[@cinnamin10101]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@ItsMissChas5]

Bc small hands handle small things. 😁

[@lisareid3336]

Not the small hands...hence the destructive criticism so as to deflect attention away from his shortcomings...Lol

[@valoriegrogan9832]

Honestly, I feel like he is NOT able to respect, love, and appreciate a strong, outspoken, independent woman. Women have to be strong these days, an insult is heard, and felt. Above all else, love Don't hurt. He knew exactly ehat he was getting, he is weak, and can't stand with her, and be the man she needs, and deserves.

[@believensee8621]

To get with that woman and then tear her down in nearly every possible way...is so sad!

[@angelacunningham8153]

Judge Toler READ him!!!!! Ha! Don’t let her smile throughout the trial FOOL YOU SIR! 😂😂🤣💁🏾‍♀️